ppvremsleep Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	How Do Women Process Hooking Up With a Guy?	Question For Women	ppvremsleep	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 03:41 PM

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–	Men, on dating apps, should to be more open to women not seen as conventionally attractive. This OkCupid blog data was written by one guy employee, before it had swiping, you just messaged profiles, and before dating apps were mainstream in 2012. As a guy that’s been on a couple hundred online dates, reading reddit comments from men and women about how they view it and assumptions based on a few unverified sources and stats on google is entertaining. Then all the women that say guys only want to hook up, they need to go look in the mirror, they don’t want to swipe right on guys that wi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/24 12:32 PM
–	About dating younger women I’m a 44 year old my last 5 girlfriends of last 9 years have been 20, 23, 41, 37, 24. I dated the 23 yr old for 4 years. They all normal, if anything they preyed upon and chased me. Who gives af what any jealous woman thinks. Older women date younger guys just as much, and those relationships are oftentimes way more bs. Do what you want, both adults, people will be haters regardless. I also get zero hate in society, no one cares. It’s only people online or wish they had you, that express they’re…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/05/24 02:45 AM
8	The red pill argument that HVM can step out on their wives/gf's is stupid I know at least a dozen guys personally that are very attractive high value men. They set a precedence that he can ethically cheat and have threesomes with his girlfriend. She either agrees or she doesn’t get a relationship with him. Hot girls who get into a relationship usually agree to it, and they seem to enjoy the threesomes most of the time too according to the women. I know another hot rich guy who is in a high end swinger community. In order to be in relationship with him, she has to agre…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/24 10:10 PM
6	How and why masculinity is being pacified, and why the redpill/manosphere is ironically an effective tool towards it Women like many toxic masculinity traits that red pill promotes. I subscribe to blackpill mostly because your situation with women just is what it is, you looksmax and lifestylemax and that’s about all you can do. I don’t even get into talking about game with guys who can’t get dates semi regularly. I just tell them you need to appear as desirable as you can to net women and leave it at that. I was introduced to YouTuber alpha male strategies and Andrew Tate from 2 different girls I was dating. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/24 08:09 PM
4	At what age would you not have a problem with a woman dating a man 20 years older than her? You don’t have a counter argument and you commented, so that would indicate that you do. I’ve dated 19-25 I face no discrimination in public because I’m a 44 yr old that looks like an in shape 32 yr old. I also have a fun lifestyle, women of all ages think I’m attractive and want to date me. I also don’t just date younger, I’ve dated women in their 40s they’re great too. I’ve asked younger women why me or date older? The women say I can’t get turned on by guys my age. When I see an attractive ol…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/24 05:21 PM
4	At what age would you not have a problem with a woman dating a man 20 years older than her? It’s because guys 35+ that get date 18-25 attractive women are usually handsome and successful. They wish those guys that date younger picked women their age. The older women who can’t get their youth back are jealous, they don’t want the young girl in her physical prime to do what she wants. So they call it disgusting and predatory to shame the high value attractive men that can date younger. In Miami we are mostly over it, it’s too common to let it get to you. We see milfs date young guys, old…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/24 04:43 PM
3	Q4W: Parallels between fathers and husbands I think women are more apt to believe what they think is the greater good and not consider partner perspectives, but sure. I’ve had this discussion with many women before they’re general opinion is they felt nothing laying next to him anymore or a general disdain. I think women can more easily let go of the past and just wear out on a guy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/24 04:32 PM
3	Q4M: Would you marry a woman who checks all the boxes EXCEPT "has great chemistry"? Something needs to strike you, if she’s all over me but I’m not feeling it, I’ll keep going. If there’s nothing going on no good convo, not working romantically, eventually you got to bail. I think many have gone through this. Chemistry to me is sometimes you feel electric when you’re together. Some people are able to give you that feeling more than others, some not at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/24 05:46 PM
–	Pornography taints men That’s a fancy way to say girls know how to give better head now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/24 05:37 AM
–	Pornography taints men Yes understanding how to be erotic makes things more erotic. There’s a visual appeal to porn we emulate now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/24 05:25 AM
–	Pornography taints men They knew how to get off and your girlfriend try whatever. The difference from guys benefit is they understand way more now the visual aspect of sex. Lot of porn through man’s pov.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/24 05:11 AM
–	Pornography taints men I haven’t fielded very many complaints.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/24 04:15 AM
–	Pornography taints men Porn is every realistic way possible. Good luck getting great head with an openly enthusiastic girl expressing herself sexually without fear of being labeled a slut before online pornography. Women are far less sexually oppressed now.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/24 12:39 AM
–	Pornography taints men Sex in the 90s compared to now is better. Girls feel more free to express their sexuality. You just had to live and have sex before and after now. Girls enjoy sex more now because of pornography influence that girls being sexual is normal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/24 12:14 AM
–	Pornography taints men If you didn’t have sex in the 90s and before it’s nearly impossible to understand the benefits from online porn being widespread. Being addicted to pornography and holding all women up to every sexual standard, and all sexual acts in porn, and saying she has to enjoy it too, is clearly not good. That being said, women watch porn and figure out things that turn them on. Some women like to give amazing bjs, get facefucked, some love the focus she gets to receive a facial, some girls like butt plug…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/05/24 12:03 AM
–	Why should I date a much older man vs a man closer to my age? My girlfriend is 22 and I’m 44. The reason it’s cool for her is if a hot young buff Chad is sitting next to her I don’t think she notices. If a handsome fit guy pushing 50 walks by with a beautiful woman on his arms, I catch my girl staring at him. Guys her age don’t turn her on. You should only date older men if you like their company more and you are more sexually attracted to older men. Otherwise it’s going to be some compromise that you desire youth in a man, and now you’re dating this older…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/24 09:12 PM
7	I want to talk about crazy mistress and manstress I’ve heard more about young mistresses falling in love and doing crazy stuff. The reason women cheat is usually different from men, and is much more cause for concern, she’s likely trying to monkey branch from him. For women it’s a leave your man for this guy, a what if fantasy. She cheats on you bc she wishes to be with another man. It often won’t work out her leaving, but she will do it again with another guy. Guys cheating can be perfectly fine and happy with their partner. They want some tem…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/24 07:55 PM
1	Can someone explain the physiology of alpha-widow or oneitis? Lust feels good, release of oxytocin love hormone, and dopamine chemical that feels like a painkiller rush. People addicted to dating and sleeping around get addicted to pumping these chemicals. This is why being a slut is not good for you. It’s either she’s dickmatized, which you have to be a dominant and have a big dick to make a girl like that. Or she just really wants him as a boyfriend. Girls also have this thing of being obsessed with a guy for a few weeks, build him up, then she gets bore…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/05/24 05:08 PM
–	CMV: choosing the bear has been detrimental to our cause. Metoo pt2	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/24 10:36 PM
5	Have you noticed the only ones who seem to care about age gap relationships are older or less desirable women, and they only care when the man is older? Amazing argument, you should go on debate teams. You’re a world class talent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/24 08:30 PM
–	CMV: choosing the bear has been detrimental to our cause. It’s female circle jerking. We see all men as bad bc this one time, so we choose bear.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/24 07:43 PM
117	CMV: choosing the bear has been detrimental to our cause. Half the women I know hop on nice boats with guys they might not even know, go to parties invited by guys they don’t know and do drugs. Get on a dating app, have a few drinks and head back to his house with a guy they just met to smoke weed and fuck. Some run around town even at night jogging and walking. They aren’t that afraid of men. If they were within 50 ft of a grizzly bear that started coming towards them, girls would shit their pants and hope a man would come to save them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/24 06:30 PM
1	Have you noticed the only ones who seem to care about age gap relationships are older or less desirable women, and they only care when the man is older? Her preference was to find me attractive and ask me out. I shyed away from the question and she said at least come in again and I’ll give you free drinks. This isn’t what you expect, young girls put themselves out there like this to older men they want, they don’t expect men to make the first move because of the age gap may prevent him. Bottom line I’m telling you, is if you’re an attractive man all age girls are going to hit on you. You’re weird because it’s like when people would openly hate g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/24 03:52 PM
3	Have you noticed the only ones who seem to care about age gap relationships are older or less desirable women, and they only care when the man is older? What 2 consenting adults do has zero effect on your life.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/24 03:39 PM
2	Have you noticed the only ones who seem to care about age gap relationships are older or less desirable women, and they only care when the man is older? You become an adult you get to do what you want. Having negative feelings towards other people’s choices that has no effect on you is a personality problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/24 03:14 PM
2	Have you noticed the only ones who seem to care about age gap relationships are older or less desirable women, and they only care when the man is older? Haha, you’re weird. I wish you could see how amazing everyone in society and our friend groups treat us. She likes and dates older men, that’s her choice. Get a grip lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/24 02:58 PM
1	Have you noticed the only ones who seem to care about age gap relationships are older or less desirable women, and they only care when the man is older? I’m up to -11 on my other comment. I’m 44 and my gf of past year is 22. We love each other, everyone treats us great, no one cares, her family likes me lots. I enjoy feeling the hate when I say it online.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/24 02:41 PM
2	Have you noticed the only ones who seem to care about age gap relationships are older or less desirable women, and they only care when the man is older? People are jealous haters, they know that 10% of older guys are not going to have that much issue dating 10-20 years younger women. That those girls usually have jobs and all they expect from guy is food and free place to stay. Older women are much more likely to want a ring, babies, and to give them everything you have. They aren’t that guy, and they can’t date a young beautiful woman so they make excuses to make themselves feel better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/24 02:23 PM
1	Can someone explain the physiology of alpha-widow or oneitis? Women who date around start to build a composite of desirable man traits they’ve enjoyed. The most fun guy to talk to, one with cool social circles, looking up to tall men, the guy that totally dickmatized her, guy who treated her like a princess, the rich smooth guy they dated. They start to want all of these features together in one man. They become picky because they can’t get turned on by a guy that isn’t an outlier in some form of attraction. This doesn’t happen for guys because women have …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/24 01:17 PM
1	Have you noticed the only ones who seem to care about age gap relationships are older or less desirable women, and they only care when the man is older? Girls don’t care about age just your looks and lifestyle. Presumably the much younger woman is dating an older man because he’s a catch. Older girls wish older men with options preferred them. Younger girls are more fun and give love easier than women in their 30s. They also date you for the best reasons, just wanting to have a boyfriend they enjoy. The other side that never gets talked about is guys like girls probably best lookswise 24, women regardless of age desire 30 yr old man physically. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/24 11:57 AM
-4	Have you noticed the only ones who seem to care about age gap relationships are older or less desirable women, and they only care when the man is older? I’m in my mid 40s and I have an 18 yr old (that’s a part time model) in my insta DMs that followed me and asked me out on a date. I was talking to her she’s a hostess in a fancy steak restaurant and she said come back in and she’ll give me vouchers for free drinks. I’m tall, fit, handsome, and successful and girls half my age hit on me. I got 2 friends that are a lawyer and chiropracter they buff and handsome and date college age girls all the time easily. Girls don’t care much about age, just y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/05/24 11:44 AM
0	Social media hasn't just raised standards through access, it's also exposed us to the awful realities of male and female behavior Chad widowed, nothing will be good enough. The 666 handsome man well into the top 1% of guys is beneath her in her mind. I know and dated some, forever alone. Makes me happy really.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/24 09:22 PM
5	The effort it takes to keep your partner attracted vs the effort of finding a new partner True, If your girlfriend thinks other girls like her want you, she’s more likely to remain attracted and stay faithful. If she thinks she can do better and you can’t get another girl like her, get ready to be walked on. The funny thing is about this phenomenon her opinion has no relation to her actual smv/rmv compared to you. A mid girl could think you aren’t shit, and another girl that’s hot you’re in relationship with could think you’re a catch.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/24 07:56 PM
1	Social media hasn't just raised standards through access, it's also exposed us to the awful realities of male and female behavior Girls don’t talk about all the dates they go on outside their close friends and especially guys. Saying I have high standards and I’m so picky is a default “I’m so virtuous” statement done by women to protect their self esteem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/24 07:44 PM
3	Social media hasn't just raised standards through access, it's also exposed us to the awful realities of male and female behavior When guys reference women behavior on ppd and elsewhere. We’re talking about single ones, that date, and look at least presentable in a bikini. Girls never talk or consider about undesirable or single by choice guys who don’t date and care what they think. To the girls who haven’t dated in years and don’t use Instagram. That’s great, do you, but your opinion on the subject of single people wanting to date is irrelevant to the conversation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/24 06:52 PM
2	Social media hasn't just raised standards through access, it's also exposed us to the awful realities of male and female behavior How many girls you know that are single, cute face, look good in a swimsuit, and AREN’T on Instagram? I know exactly 0 and I feel like I know quite a bit of girls. Chronically online take, who tf doesn’t look at their phones at least hour a day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/24 06:36 PM
1	If you let your girlfriend go on an all girls vacation, don't cry to anyone when she cheats on you If you got a girl that suddenly needs to go to a party or club and you’re not invited. She also refuses to share her location for her safety (bc we both agreed men are more dangerous than ferocious grizzly bears), just focus on yourself bro.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/24 05:29 PM
3	If you let your girlfriend go on an all girls vacation, don't cry to anyone when she cheats on you Depends on where. If it’s Vegas, Miami, ski resort, or LA. She’s going with her friends even if you say no, and you can’t come. She going to cheat, it’s on her itinerary. Have her share location, if she’s in a weird location and won’t answer a FaceTime, it’s over. Women go on girls trips so they can cheat. I’ve got with girls in relationships in all those cities and been cheated on at them too. I put my arm around a girl I was not even talking to walking outside a Vegas nightclub. I said want to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/24 05:07 PM
1	Why are men like this? It’s the type of guys that go to events, clubs, parties that are into social hierarchies. Cucking other men is a unique way to feed their ego and to validate their dominance. I’ve been part of a local party scene and those guys are always trying to get with your girl. Or trying to have sex with the girl before you. It’s annoying, but that’s what some guys are like.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/24 04:18 PM
1	Social media hasn't just raised standards through access, it's also exposed us to the awful realities of male and female behavior If you want to get young girls 7+ start making a quality and instagram and use some slight facetune. Do what the 7+ girls do. Obviously an insta helps a ton with dating apps. Another reason is the minute they decide to go on a 2nd date or before, she will send your profile to her friends or a few of your best pics and ask what do they think. Validation from others that you’re a catch based on an online persona to her peers will make her lust for you. If you want to date lots of cute women, and y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/24 04:03 PM
–	Is this actually good datng advice fo women? You’re a loser, wth. My girlfriends are all models, you can dm me for Instagram, pathetic. I’m impressed by what, I guess good job lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/05/24 03:32 AM
2	Is this actually good datng advice fo women? She’s advocating to date the and have sex with the biggest dark triad man whores she knows. Then settle for a beta guy that’s not a slut, after being a slut when you’re ready to settle down. It’s the have your cake and eat it too feminism promotes. Forget about any consequences, do what feels good, just get it girl.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 10:26 PM
1	What do you think of passport bros? People that are passport bro because all American women are fat and entitled or chasing Chad is not a good enough reason to me that’s willing to instantly marry me. I’m not against marrying a girl, but you know date her actually for months or years, then see.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 06:29 PM
5	What do you think of passport bros? Living abroad because you like it there and like the girls there is a great idea. 90 day fiancé is crazy to me.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 06:13 PM
5	What do you think of passport bros? If I was going to do it, I’d just move mostly to her country. Because I wanted to be there. One of my friends married a girl that was a former mail order bride. I went to club with her and friends, they had their husbands they didn’t like, and their side pieces were young cute guys they actually enjoyed fucking. Guys who get mail order brides are usually weird somehow, they get cucked by the foreign girl.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 06:10 PM
6	What do you think of passport bros? Specifically having motives to grab a girl from another country and marrying her so she can stay is insane behavior. English isn’t her first language and she won’t usually have a job after she leaves. Not ideal. Don’t tell me every American girl is bad and demonize them, just as shitty girls in other countries too. Guess what, the best girls wouldn’t do this unless he’s incredible guy, will stay in their country and don’t want to be in America. I’ve gone to Colombia 3 times now, twice single, I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 06:02 PM
1	One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women. Just don’t worry about the relationship with a girl so you’re not lonely and having a family like you always wanted. It’s for the best. Ha mgtow so dumb.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 05:56 PM
2	One of the best things men can do for their sanity is to walk away from dating and chasing women. If you want a relationship you kind of need to put some focus on finding a girlfriend. I let dating consume my life for a few months, get a relationship and then bail. If you’re single or dating too long I’m not sure that’s living a best life, but for some perhaps.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 05:52 PM
13	What do you think of passport bros? It makes me believe that the 80/20 applies for most men too. You’re going there in hopes of getting a girl better looking than you, then nearly immediately marrying her, pretty crazy. The concept of the unattractive old man with a 20 year old Thai girlfriend due to his money is kinda ridiculous when you think about it. If you spend more than half your life in Colombia and want a girlfriend there, that’s cool though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 05:24 PM
–	How Do Women Process Hooking Up With a Guy? I think what I’m imploring about is this you got pumped and dumped concept. Both men and women seem to point at women this happens to as being a dumb delusional slut. If I got pumped and dumped, it’s fine, maybe not ideal. Why does it get perceived so badly for women? Can women just look back on experiences romantically even though she got ghosted in a positive light like men? Or does the pain of being ghosted ruin the whole experience?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 05:16 PM
–	How Do Women Process Hooking Up With a Guy? Nothing is ever going to be perfect in a relationship. You can always say that. Sad to look back at your life with regret, but it happens.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 05:10 PM
–	How Do Women Process Hooking Up With a Guy? She may want to get back with him still, but if they didn’t live happily ever after, I think women see things as more bs in the past than good.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 05:01 PM
–	How Do Women Process Hooking Up With a Guy? I reprocess good times we had together in relationship, and re-experience nights of hookups in my head sometimes. For girls they don’t seem to look back at the past or those situations in those ways, if she hung up on an ex she still will.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 04:41 PM
–	Doing the math on bear debate showed me that it's not as crazy as it seems. My methods of playing the man bear game are different. I change scenarios to see if I can get you to hit some logical point to end the argument. Then you want specific details that make the resolution not fun. It’s a meet in the middle or just get pissed off.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 04:15 PM
–	How Do Women Process Hooking Up With a Guy? Well dang, that’s brutal. Okay well how my exes have treated me after now makes more sense, thanks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 04:13 PM
–	Doing the math on bear debate showed me that it's not as crazy as it seems. You keep moving and changing goalposts and most importantly keep trying to bait the other gender. That’s the man vs bear game. Also, girls get rapey murderer vibes from guys, women live in fear at all moments with men. That’s the most common woman to man online triggering method.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 04:10 PM
–	Doing the math on bear debate showed me that it's not as crazy as it seems. Injured leg she’s limping, he used to be a park ranger in that forest and knows the paths.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 03:59 PM
–	Doing the math on bear debate showed me that it's not as crazy as it seems. It’s a big dude that can carry her and knows the way to the road, he’s also wearing gray sweatpants and she sees a big dick outline.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 03:52 PM
–	Doing the math on bear debate showed me that it's not as crazy as it seems. Man bear is all just rage bait respect my gender viewpoint bs. You can spin it any angle too, if she’s dehydrated and lost in the woods and already scared she wants a man. Instead of a man, now it’s a woman who just slept with her man and she much bigger than her, then she’s scary, it’s the bear. I mean it’s cool, you can talk about it endlessly I’m past the point now at being annoyed by this.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 03:18 PM
-1	Do Some Men Prefer Women with Low Self-Esteem? Why? When you guys talk about libido being such an issue with women, what you really want is girls with low self esteem. Those girls aren’t overconfident queens that only think Chad and rich handsome men can have her body. Low self esteem girls settle.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 02:35 PM
–	Ugly women don't have more dating opportunities. We are invisible or mocked Some guys will literally fuck anything, some of those guys can be pretty hot too. If she fat girl with big boobs and gives bjs, there’s endless amounts of guys that will show her some love. If she’s a normal girl she prob wants love, respect, and chance at ltr. Now that’s going to be tougher.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 01:46 PM
–	Ugly women don't have more dating opportunities. We are invisible or mocked You can still get affection if you put yourself out there, your male counterpart can’t. The life experience of an ugly fat woman is terrible though, the level of discrimination is crazy. I’d rather be an ugly guy overall.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 01:33 PM
–	Men can now message first on Bumble Most redpill and blackpill content says that single women hookup. A bluepill normie thinks that’s only what sluts do. Redpill and blackpill says all women are sluts for Chad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 06:02 AM
–	The reaction to Rudy Golbert missing a game for his child’s birth displayed a serious issue with some men claiming to advocate for masculinity If Gobert was leavings a closeout playoffs series game, or he was the franchise player. There’s no way he doesn’t play and goes to birth. Coach and ownership prob thought it was a fair idea to give him a game off and rest.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 04:59 AM
–	Men can now message first on Bumble Well I consider red and black pill being more accepting of female nature and not saying she hooks up she’s a slut, more like all girls can be sluts at certain times in their life. A bluepill guy thinks a girls body count at 5 can be too many and that if a girl hooks up on dates she’s a slut, not a good girl he would date.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/05/24 04:52 AM
–	Women are unable to handle rejection It’s definitely that, good way to frame it. I think women deal with rejection later on. Any girl that’s relatively attractive is going after guys with many options and access to casual sex, which is a small percentage of guys. When she’s a temporary placeholder girlfriend for a week or couple months in a non-exclusive relationship. She keeps rinsing and repeating these types of situationships and can’t land a ltr, her self worth takes a major hit.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/24 11:24 PM
–	The reaction to Rudy Golbert missing a game for his child’s birth displayed a serious issue with some men claiming to advocate for masculinity It’s okay because giving Rudy a game to rest is not a bad idea and he has backups. Ant and KAT very likely are playing then jumping on a jet right after the game. I know this has happened in football before in playoffs, since it’s 1 and done you play the game.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/24 10:20 PM
–	The reaction to Rudy Golbert missing a game for his child’s birth displayed a serious issue with some men claiming to advocate for masculinity I’m actually surprised most people support Gobert for doing this. This has happened before and most pros have skipped to play in playoffs. You work your entire life to play for a championship, skipping a playoff game for a 2nd kid is actually usually not done by pros. If it was a franchise star player on Timberwolves like KAT or Ant they can’t leave because it would guarantee a loss. Gobert sitting this game was okay. A NFL QB would never skip a playoff game for a birth, he’d let the entire team…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/24 10:01 PM
–	If women could magically force men to answer ONE question truthfully what question should women ask? What percentage chance do I currently have with you for ltr and how many girls have you slept with in the last month.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/24 08:57 PM
–	Men can now message first on Bumble You explain this concept to blue pill guys that put women on a pedestal, and if she hooks up she’s a slut, and they freak out on you. Players see most girls as horny little sluts, which is fine that’s how they get relationships and claim their man too. Even if she’s religious she going to do everything but, and I’m not aware of girls that wouldn’t hook up with a guy they wanted or desired to be their girlfriend.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/24 08:29 PM
3	Men can now message first on Bumble It’s to the point if she doesn’t lust for you, I can’t even hit her up for a second date. Not because I care so much about lust on first date, it’s that I just assume she would for someone else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/24 06:56 PM
6	Men can now message first on Bumble They’ll nearly all do it if they want the guy. Saying girls don’t hook up on first dates, and if they do calling them trashy is blue pill coping nonsense. If she stays overnight naked in your bed, I’d still call that a hookup.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/24 06:53 PM
5	Men can now message first on Bumble How’s that bad, what if she’s hot?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/24 06:47 PM
7	Men can now message first on Bumble Bumble is irritating, tinder and hinge I like. My dating app move is to match and then ask them out in first message. Bumble forces me to figure out how to respond to Hey, then a bunch of my matches just expire. The woman that designed that app clearly hates men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/24 05:15 PM
–	Women are unable to handle rejection Women can’t handle too much rejection, it emotionally scars them. If they were put in a man’s shoes getting rejected brutally by women constantly, ghosted by women after multiple dates, jerking you around like you’re a nobody. Basically never receiving validation, even from other men. I think most women would want to check out from earth if they had to live like a man.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/24 05:04 PM
24	Men can now message first on Bumble Stupidest gimmick ever, owned by a woman with feminist angle for free promotion. The only good thing about girls messaging first if she said anything other than Hey, you know she would hook up on a date.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/24 04:52 PM
–	should we put virgins in a national registry? Chicks can tell if you’re virgin or basically one, not necessary.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/24 04:11 PM
7	If men could magically force women to answer ONE question truthfully what question should men ask? I had a gf that looksmaxed me, took years, it was so many things, like testing haircuts, gym workouts, pointed out voice pitch inflection, it was wild. Girls I dated before met me after and were like wtf, she changed you. So your general dating question, I agree. Not hard to tell if a girl likes you or not like some comments. Happy cake.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/24 03:46 PM
–	What's stopping you from taking the Blue Pill? Most girls find pill talk to be weird and annoying. They got their own with being in feminine energy and how to land a rich man they think that’s okay though. I’m black pill, there’s some guys that can just look at women and instantly make out with them. Then prob 30% of guys that will never happen. You appeal to the female gaze or you don’t. Some guys are totally normal in all respects, no girl will ever desire him, getting dates or approaching it’s not going to work like that. They still might…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/24 03:17 PM
–	How long did you wait to be sexual with your current partner? Of my last 4 gfs past 9 years they all stayed the night with me the first night met them, I try to avoid first date sex usually. Think it was around 3rd date for sex for all 4.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/24 01:30 AM
2	People focus way too much on details, when ultimately most of this can be explained by one simple fact - women are not anywhere NEAR as horny as men. Everything stems from this. Make it your life goal to get with the chicks that are horny. Marry one, believe me there are girls out there that want sex all the time. Don’t sweat what is not changeable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/24 06:19 PM
–	What's your dating hot take? Something you believe from your own dating experiences that this sub would typically disagree with? They sleep around outside of college, perhaps more, because women use sex in attempt to get a relationship. I’m college you’re less serious about relationships and may be happy with fwbs. I know 3 guys that match my demo, I’m kinda friends with them. We’ve shared lots of girls. I’ll check her new insta follows on girls I’m dating, it’s usually one of them too. They are desirable men though, so go figure. People that actually go on dates, hookup with women, you may not agree with everything, but …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/24 02:11 PM
–	Struggling women should get married. You haven’t dated or know hot girls still living with their parents or a friend in a crappy apartment. Ready to date looks down by 4 points by a guy up to their 40s to give her a soft life. Guys who can dangle that as bait to get laid easy.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/24 09:28 PM
8	Struggling women should get married. Very hot women struggle mightily to find the princess soft life. Girls get dates and can get laid easy, for majority it ends there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/24 09:05 PM
–	What's your dating hot take? Something you believe from your own dating experiences that this sub would typically disagree with? Humor is an aphrodisiac, but it’s not like you can be short, fat, and funny and girls want you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/24 08:45 PM
–	What's your dating hot take? Something you believe from your own dating experiences that this sub would typically disagree with? You’d be alarmed how lowering your standards as a guy doesn’t work anything like you think it does for girls.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/24 08:36 PM
–	What's your dating hot take? Something you believe from your own dating experiences that this sub would typically disagree with? If you can land interest and dates with girls you’re attracted to this will come naturally, if you’re not past that threshold I’m not sure women are going to change their view of you and accept that mindset. She needs to see you as desirable then you act like that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/24 08:31 PM
–	What's your dating hot take? Something you believe from your own dating experiences that this sub would typically disagree with? I agree, an attractive woman in her 40s has a plethora of interesting options. She can also be a cougar with young guys when she wants to. Girls in their 40s are fun like girls in their 20s too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/24 08:24 PM
–	What's your dating hot take? Something you believe from your own dating experiences that this sub would typically disagree with? You have to sell a fun lifestyle, or present yourself as a type of guy that she wants. Then you can match as good on the apps as hot guys. This is where attaching your instagram to dating profile, or meeting girls and exchanging instas plays a big role in your ability to date.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/24 07:39 PM
–	What's your dating hot take? Something you believe from your own dating experiences that this sub would typically disagree with? You’re able to see girls profiles and how many based on the apps rating of your profile. They do this to create scarcity and get girls more matches and consideration for dates. I’m a top user on Hinge and some days I get a bunch of roses from girls showing up in the star top picks tab. Since my internal score is high I have access to all the profiles. I was on it for 4 months last year, it’s endless profiles, I’d go hours some days, I couldn’t reach the end of it. Also, there’s hundreds of new g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/24 07:27 PM
–	What's your dating hot take? Something you believe from your own dating experiences that this sub would typically disagree with? I agree, it goes like brunch on Sunday than that night with another guy. Dating girls spin plates too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/24 06:54 PM
–	What's your dating hot take? Something you believe from your own dating experiences that this sub would typically disagree with? 20% of single girls in your city have a dating app and instagram addiction. Eventually going on 100+ dates as a girl is not abnormal. Some girls go on multiple dates a day. If you look cute and presentable in a swimsuit nearly every guy will swipe right and take you out. This is why so many girls are delusional and so picky. There’s nearly as many women as men on dating apps. Women use it differently, pause their accounts, get on, swipe only the guys they want, then pause again. The other strate…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/24 06:15 PM
–	Are women lying to themselves and others when they answer bear question. Women somehow think about rape and getting murdered a lot in a way guys can’t understand. Women watch ncis and law and order svu where most episodes center about rape and killing. They watch crime miniseries about rapist serial killers. If they were alone in the woods a random man the idea freaks them out has some media influence. I truly don’t believe 99.9% of guys would do anything bad whatsoever. I don’t know I guess this concept struck a nerve of understanding of what women think about. Vira…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/24 03:07 AM
–	Are women lying to themselves and others when they answer bear question. My girlfriend said she could calm down a ferocious growling grizzly bear. She can connect with animals is her claim.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/24 02:48 AM
2	Most Blue Pill men are just “sneaky fuckers” practicing sexual mimicry. Blue pill men are men that don’t know about pills and usually don’t care that much about dating. Attracting girls isn’t there hobby either. You can’t really say much bad about the affable people pleasing normie. He doesn’t know any better. I was telling this guy after his supposed long distance girlfriend broke up with him he only saw 3 times a year. I told him you need to looksmax, he’s got money so I said get Invisalign, get in the gym. He legit replied back that women don’t care about looks t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/24 01:39 AM
–	Women are more suitable as corporate slaves. If you went on a date with me and got a couple cocktails, you’d make out with me in that red leather interior gwagon. Basically all normal girls like their nails done and have a nice purse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/24 01:09 AM
–	Women are more suitable as corporate slaves. If you’re rich enough and fun enough you can be an ugly short troll and get the hottest girls. Good lifestyle guys can get 2 points out of their looks league.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/05/24 12:11 AM
–	Women are more suitable as corporate slaves. No car has ever helped me get laid except the gwagon. I’ve had all types of cars and different sports cars. I know guys that have Lamborghini and Ferrari, they say cars don’t help them either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/24 11:53 PM
–	Women are more suitable as corporate slaves. 6’	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/24 11:47 PM
–	How would legal prostitution change society in America? I know a bunch of instathots, they go on paid dates or fly out vacation escort if the money or opportunity is good. Pretty normal, some guy offering a bunch of money for your company I think they at least flattered no matter how old he is.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/24 11:13 PM
–	How would legal prostitution change society in America? I’m not a rich old man that goes to bars propositioning young girls into being an escort for them. I’ve seen it happen to girls quite a few times. Instathots also get DMs with requests for that too. So I wouldn’t know, they seem to think it’s fine, they prob get some girls to do that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/24 11:09 PM
–	Why do I feel like femininity is better? What am I to do with this information. Should I become a woman too? Be gay and manly to offset this?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/24 10:56 PM
3	How would legal prostitution change society in America? You’d have brothels instead of massage parlors. Men would be slightly more open to pay for sex than they already are. Some old dude in a bar came up to my girlfriend and offered her $10k to spend a weekend at his place, I overheard the conversation. You’d have more of that since there’s no chance to be a sex offender. Just basically more of what already exists.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/24 10:14 PM
–	Does the 80/20 rule end at a certain age? If you still got it going on in your 40s, you’re doing your personal trainer for free training, heading to the local cougar dance club for young guys, getting with 50 yr old simps with money. That’s not most single girls in their 40s though.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/24 10:07 PM
–	Women are more suitable as corporate slaves. This post too funny. Just use your money to get the toys and place you want. Some chick going to try and live with you for free or you pay more at least, so she has money for her fake eyelashes, nails, and designer purse no guy cares about. I bought a used gwagon one time because the 6k lb vehicle tax deferral. Car was a chick magnet, got me laid everytime on a date, they just make out with you once you got them inside it. I’ve owned every type of car if you’re trying to impress girls get a gwag…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/24 09:53 PM
–	Why do women here try to assert that any man expressing frustration with dating must be undesirable or needs to improve in some way, and that they are some small fringe of the population? Yes the fact that guys in the top 1% can sleep with hoards of single women and women also want these men is equally shocking. Let’s debate it on ppd in perpetuity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/24 08:55 PM
–	Are women lying to themselves and others when they answer bear question. Women are afraid of bugs and then think they can reason with a ferocious bear. They want to be like that girl hugging the bears in Russia in her head. She thinks it’s only laws that keep her from being repeatedly raped by desperate losers who annoy her. Don’t expect women to be logical and not take any opportunity to gaslight men. I’m reporting all posts about bears, f this trend, let it be over.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/24 08:52 PM
–	Why do women here try to assert that any man expressing frustration with dating must be undesirable or needs to improve in some way, and that they are some small fringe of the population? Guys don’t like that cute single girls are so hard to get, and have endless dating options whenever they want. Below average single women, taken women, or women that don’t care about finding a boyfriend are irrelevant. Those 5-10% of single attractive dating girls is what men care about. Those girls can date top men out of their league, and that’s upsetting to them. Red and black pill is centered around the desire men have to choose a girlfriend that society would deem as attractive. Can’t work …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/24 03:12 PM
–	Why do women here try to assert that any man expressing frustration with dating must be undesirable or needs to improve in some way, and that they are some small fringe of the population? Red pill is just a label to speak against social norms about women for clicks and sales. I’m actually black pilled, but I have a girlfriend 90% of the time. There isn’t an option for that, so I’m more red.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/24 02:33 PM
–	Why do women here try to assert that any man expressing frustration with dating must be undesirable or needs to improve in some way, and that they are some small fringe of the population? Women got their own separate problems. You’re not going to get them to care about guys they prob don’t want to talk to in the first place. What guys really want is casual access to attractive women they don’t know. Average men have never been able to pull girls easily, top guys always have. What’s changed in last 15 years is the girls that care about dating now have 10x the options to pick from on their phone. Which made the cute girls who are into dating and now can now land a date anytime they…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/24 02:16 PM
4	Does the 80/20 rule end at a certain age? No, but it will likely become far less effective and fun to chase top 20% of desirable men once she’s in her 40s compared to her 20s.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/05/24 01:38 PM
5	Would you date a woman who describes herself as feminist? Any person that thinks their political theology makes them superior, and is certain will solve all the world problems is usually a very obnoxious person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/24 11:48 PM
3	Would you date a woman who describes herself as feminist? A woman that identifies as a feminist or hardcore democrat or republican gives me ick. Unless she was super hot, I would try and avoid that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/24 11:30 PM
–	Women are as likely, or more likely, to be physically aggressive in relationships compared to men Women don’t concern themselves with what they feel like is little consequence. We allow women to act more emotionally aggressive as a society. So they do. Guys can ruin their entire livelihood hitting a woman so they don’t.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/24 11:28 PM
3	CMV: A lot of red pill traditional women can be giant hypocrites Shock and polarization gets the folks clicking and sharing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/24 10:15 PM
2	Covert Narcissism and the Red Pill Man Players and successful people usually have dark triad and sociopathic traits. If you’re going to dive into red pill, it’s going to cover these topics and tactics.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/24 06:13 PM