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Get the first round, make a point to say "I'm getting this round.", if she isn't a mooch, she should pick up on that and get the next one.
/r/seduction27/09/19 11:20 PM
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As a guy, this is exactly how I avoid actually having to hang out with somebody I don't want to, but that I am forced to see almost every day, and can't exactly outright tell to fuck off.
/r/seduction03/03/19 07:18 AM
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Yeah, you definitley want to tread carefully, but "digging deep psychologically" is probably more than in called for here. Try to deduce what's going on, but you'll only really know when you try. I'd suggest going forward with her like she's a girl you just met that you're interested in. Don't waste time or she'll eventually lose interest.
/r/seduction12/02/19 11:55 PM
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There's a good chance she would sleep with you while drunk. However, if you take advantage of that opportunity, you will probably regret it. Contrary to the lies people tell themselves, nobody "develops" an attraction while they're drunk, and then loses it when they're sober. If she's acting like this regularly, it means the attraction is there, but there's something causing her to hide it while her inhibitions aren't lowered by alcohol. Whatever's making her hide her attraction while sober coul…
/r/seduction12/02/19 10:22 PM
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My first time I told her right before. It was her first time too, so I guess that made it easier. Honestly, if she's 16 too she probably doesn't have enough experience to really know if you're good or bad. I'd say tell her right before, and really, don't stress it.
/r/seduction06/02/19 02:55 AM
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Yes, yes you can. In fact, if you're looking for a serious relationship, and are tired of bullshit first dates, this will probably help weed out girls that really just want somebody to distract them from how boring their lives are for one or more evenings. However, it will get a lower response rate in general. You can think of it this way: No girl that would say yes to "would you like to go out with me?" would say no to "let's get coffee", but some girls that would be scared off by "will you go …
/r/seduction06/02/19 02:44 AM
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Glad OP has already solved this one. Just want to add, if this is a shit test, it is a very minor one. It's good to be aware when you're getting shit tested. However, at a certain point there are certain practical details of meeting up with somebody that you're just gonna have to resolve, and it's just easier to do that if you don't worry about whether or not you're getting tested. So... don't overthink...
/r/seduction06/02/19 02:29 AM
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There are a lot of things that could be going on here, and you'll drive yourself mad if you can't "put your blinders up" and focus on what you actually know. Your know two things: She found you very interesting for at least 4 hours. She agreed to go out with you, and has made no indication that she doesn't still want to. From these two things, you can deduce that she probably still finds you interesting, and she'll likely show up for lunch with you in a few days. Really, you'll never know for su…
/r/seduction28/01/19 07:40 PM
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Depends on if you actually have something interesting to say about her story, versus just wanting some way to interact with her. If you see an opportunity to strike up a conversation, go for it but don't try to force one, and definitely don't straight up compliment her appearance unless you already interact with her in a similar way off of Snapchat.
/r/seduction28/01/19 07:28 PM
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Some people gain confidence from "getting out there", regardless of how emotionally wounded they may be. Most people, however, need a bit of time to heal before they'll be ready, and attempting to force yourself will only make you feel worse. However, everybody reaches a point where they're ready to move on, and once you're there, you don't want to delay it. The trick is figuring out hen you're at that point. For me, after my last breakup, I knew I was there when I was waking up every morning wi…
/r/seduction28/01/19 07:03 PM
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Honestly, I think the mods should take action about posts like this. They prey on vulnerable guys, and convince them to do pretty much the opposite of what they actually should be doing to build up their self esteem and have healthy relationships. There's nothing wrong with simply teaching manipulative tactics, and there's value in understanding them, even if you have to intention of using them, but it's pretty dispicable to push them to guys as the only solution to their problems.
/r/seduction30/11/18 05:10 PM
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Put some thought into where the types of people you wish you were friends with go, go there, and put your cold approach skills to use (never forget, cold approaching can do a lot more than get you laid). The possibilities depend heavily on what's available in your local area, but small/medium concerts are usually a good bet. People are often bored between acts, and so it's easy to strike up conversations in the smoking area, or by the bar.
/r/seduction26/11/18 06:03 PM
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The decision you have to make isn't whether you'll "let her" talk to her ex, it's whether or not you trust her. The fact of the matter is, if she's not over him, or she's just a compulsive cheater, it really doesn't matter what you tell her not to do, she'll probably do it anyways. On the other side, forbidding her from talking to her ex when she actually had every intention of staying totally loyal to you could easily screw up your relationship by setting a precedent of distrust. If you don't t…
/r/seduction25/11/18 03:24 PM
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If you're a regular there, you can even talk about how it's better on a different night, talk about where it's better on that night, give an impression you know all the good spots.
/r/seduction14/02/16 02:56 PM
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If you're daygaming, maybe you could say you were going for a walk. Say how nice the campus is. Then that is a stepping stone to a conversation about why she chose the school, and, with fairly self-centered college students you're basically guaranteed she'll then start talking about herself and why she's so "cultured" or "intellectual" or some bullshit like that. At night, if you're going to college bars, just say you like the vibe, tell her how you think the younger crowd is more exciting and i…
/r/seduction07/02/16 11:31 AM
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Honestly, if she didn't respond when I asked her out, I'd probably just unmatch her and move on. However, if I was determined, I'd probably say something like "I've got time, a desire to take you on a date, and not enough patience for smalltalk." This type of line has about a 50% success rate.
/r/seduction07/02/16 11:24 AM
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If you think you'll get some without too much effort, then hit it and quit it. Otherwise, if you're not interested, then why waste both your time and the girl's?
/r/seduction25/01/16 04:59 PM
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I [White as Fuck] live in Africa, so it's not really the same as it is in America, but at least for me, I don't see any fundamental difference between races when it comes to getting them into bed with you. It's not like black girls all act one way and like one type of guy, white girls another, asian girls another. There's every "type" in every race, you've just got to recognise which type of girl they are and act accordingly. Now, some races may be more likely to lean a certain way, but you'll s…
/r/seduction25/01/16 04:58 PM
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Friends go to the movies together all the time. Really, the friend zone exists as much in your mind as it does in her. In any "friendzone" scenario, assuming she sees casually hooking up with a friend as a no-go, there's three things that could actually be going on: She's not interested in you sexually at all. She doesn't want a relationship at all. She thinks you fall under one of the aforementioned categories. What does this mean for you? It means there's a 2/3 chance you have a shot. Go to th…
/r/seduction24/01/16 06:12 PM
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You just gotta tell her how you feel in a demeaning way. Be all like "I'm getting bored of these childish games, let's go to dinner like fucking adults." That way, you get to transition to not being a total dick to her, and you put the pressure on her, sort of maintaining the dynamic you already had.
/r/seduction16/10/15 03:31 PM
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Obviously, you want to look good. However, you want to keep it casual enough that it doesn't seem like you are dressing up. If you feel confident in sweatpants, then wear sweatpants, but I'd go with jeans, just because I don't feel like I look good in sweatpants.
/r/seduction04/10/15 02:35 PM
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They're strippers, they don't give a damn if you're attractive, all they care about is tips. Probably because you're younger, and you don't look rich. Just go grab the one you want, or better yet, stop wasting you time.
/r/seduction18/09/15 06:51 PM
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If you are actually addicted to porn/fapping (they call it PMO), then it can definitely help. However, if your masturbation habit isn't detracting from your IRL sex life, then you can't really expect "superpowers". Basically, if when you see a hot girl, you immediately think about fapping instead of fucking her, or you think of porn while you're having sex, then you've got a problem. Otherwise, don't waste your time. Personally, I had a bit of a problem, and tried quitting cold turkey, but faile…
/r/seduction14/09/15 08:12 PM
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There's far better places to pick up girls than nightclubs. While some girls go to clubs planning to go home with the first guy who talks to them, most of them are just looking to be entertained. While being entertaining can get you laid, nothing sets off a girl's creepy radar like a guy in a club that seems just a little too focused. You'll have more fun if you make having fun your priority, and chances are you'll also be more attractive this way.
/r/seduction14/09/15 07:43 PM
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The best way to get over a fear of looking like a pig is to actually be a pig. Just go out one night, and be the biggest pig you possibly can. I'm talking full asshole/retard here. You'll quickly realise that it's not a total disaster if a few people you'll never see again think you're a pig.
/r/seduction14/09/15 11:13 AM
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Don't get caught up in being jealous. If she likes you, then she likes you. There's lots of good looking guys all around. Unless you're worried they're going to actively try to steal her, then you don't have too much to worry about. Maybe talk to them about the situation before hand if you're really paranoid. If they aren't assholes, they'll be willing to wing you.
/r/seduction14/09/15 11:11 AM
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Yeah, this struggle is real. I'm still pretty bad at it, but I've found that if you start a conversation that it is basically impossible for other people to join, and then continue it as you walk, they'll be reluctant to follow you. If you think they're actively trying to cock block you, then just tell them to stop, threaten them as appropriate.
/r/seduction14/09/15 11:07 AM
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No, this isn't one of those stories about how you can get girls in spite of being unattractive. I am 17, 6'2, have often been complimented on my deep voice, and most people assume I'm at least 21. However, for the most part, I've done very poorly with women. Until about a year ago, the only girls I had anything to do with were those that came after me, and they were far out numbered by the ones that were served up on silver platters than I somehow managed to get nowhere with. (read: I didn't fuc…
/r/seduction27/08/15 07:09 PM
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I know Indian guys that are successful with american women, and Indian guys who are hopeless with american women. The ones that are successful are either very good looking, or just have that uncanny ability to make anybody laugh. So, i guess the best advice I can give is to accept that you're going to be at a slight disadvantage, and that some girls will just never go for a guy who isn't white, and just play to your strengths. If you're amazingly handsome, then being a bit mysterious and just a …
/r/seduction02/08/15 12:51 AM
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You could get a fake ID. I don't need one where I live, but my friends in America all have them, and assure me that it's dead easy to find somebody to make you one in most large cities. They say that at all but the most exclusive clubs, they really don't care as long as there's plausible deniability. (e.g. you don't look 13, and have a piece of plastic with your face on it.) It's not the guy checking it that really gets in trouble, and he doesn't like turning away people any more than they like …
/r/seduction01/06/15 07:09 PM
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Make your bio stupid. Any attempt to make yourself seem more attractive in a few words usually just makes you seem like a total asshole. (I own a '65 mustang and like to play my vintage gibsons on my yacht after a long day of golfing...) Maybe throw in a bit of basic info, but really, that's unnecessary, just stick with a stupid joke. And you're going to need more pictures. Find "value adding" ones, but what goes for the bio goes for pictures too. Stick to one picture with a nice car / musical i…
/r/seduction01/06/15 06:48 PM
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There's no formula for teasing. Chances are, if you consider before saying anything whether it's taking it too far, it's not going to come out right. Just get it in your head that you don't give a damn if you offend anybody, and just say whatever comes to your mind. Naturally, don't be an asshole, but not giving a fuck is one of the sexiest things a guy can do.
/r/seduction30/05/15 11:16 PM
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Eye contact matters... but a lot of people exaggerate the danger of "blowing it" by "chickening out". Just give it another try, and chances are she'll dismiss the previous one as unintentional. Think about it, how many times has somebody looked at you, and you haven't even noticed, because you just assumed they were just looking around? /u/HomoeroticDog is right about approaching or not, though, stop worrying about eye contact, you're just looking for an excuse not to approach and you know it.
/r/seduction30/05/15 02:49 PM
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Pretty sure there's a meme for this.
/r/seduction30/05/15 02:44 PM
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You probably had some fun exchanging nudes. But that gets old pretty fast. You either need to get an IRL date, or just be satisfied that you got some hot nudes, and stop wasting your time. Really, these sorts of things can go on for months, and it's weirdly easy to become overly attached to somebody you never see IRL.
/r/seduction30/05/15 02:36 PM
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It would seem like you'd want something simple to eat, and somewhat sexy, but depending on the girl, messy meals you can't "just eat" can provide a (can't really think of a better word) bonding experience, and make for a more memorable night. Think fondue, raclette, hot pot, etc. Just make sure she's the kind of girl that would have fun getting a little messy, and that it's not a first date.
/r/seduction26/05/15 07:38 PM
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If there's multiple guys vying for her attention at once, there's no need for you to be another of them. You can either be bold, or see where you can get when and where you don't have so much competition.
/r/seduction13/03/15 11:53 PM
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There usually isn't blood, unless she is very tight, rather young, or for some reason has kept her hymen too long. Since she won't know what to expect, you should go a little beyond just asking her if she wants it, making sure she knows what to expect from you, and verbally reassuring her that she's doing great. (Don't take it too far, it will seem fake.) Really, you want to talk your way through the first minute or so, it will help to distract her from any pain there might be. (There isn't alwa…
/r/seduction17/01/15 01:31 PM
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If she wasn't really busy, and thought it was meant to be a date, then she may or may not try to avoid you, depends on how she is. But since it wasn't really a date, she probably was either actually busy, or just didn't feel like going out, don't take it personally, it shouldn't be a big deal seeing her in class, you should just pick up where you left off, and work towards a real date. This guesswork is one of the reasons most people here recommend that you make it clear that it's meant to be a …
/r/seduction17/01/15 01:11 PM
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You're making the interaction into more than it was because you want it to be more than it was. All it could possibly mean is that she has no reason to dislike you. You've probably got at least a chance, so go for it, but don't convince yourself she's thinking of you while lying awake in bed, because she's not.
/r/seduction17/01/15 01:05 PM
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I've never thought of handshakes as particularly important unless there's a trick attached. (Effective if done right, but not my style.) I go for a firm but non-threatening level of pressure, and a slight shake. Pretty normal. I feel I can say with absolute certainty that my handshakes have never made or broken it with a girl. It's a greeting: a formality that nobody puts much attention into. You can make it into more, but if you don't, than it isn't more. Focus on more important stuff.
/r/seduction08/01/15 11:19 PM
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There's only one bit of advice you need in this situation: Just do it. Your brain is better at making excuses than pretty much anything else, so don't let "well, we didn't really talk as much as usual today", or "I think she's in a bad mood", or "I think she's already got plans this weekend" stop you from doing it. Also, have an idea of what you want to do with her before you ask her out, and make sure she knows it's a date.
/r/seduction23/11/14 03:29 PM
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There's no 'standard meaning' of cleavage. But you can assume that if it's on purpose, she wants to look good, and to attract attention.
/r/seduction21/11/14 06:31 PM
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If you really don't want to wait for her to do it, or ask her, you could always find some other way to get her face close enough to yours to make it work. Of course, finding a good excuse for her to lean in, and timing it correctly with the 'flow' of the escalation is easier said than done. If you both smoke (cigs will work, but really this is meant for weed), you could try asking her to 'shotgun', that is, inhale smoke that another person is breathing out. This actually worked for me, but it wa…
/r/seduction21/11/14 04:47 PM
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I want to stop feeling inferior. I see other guys chatting it up with girls they just met, getting numbers, taking them home, while I'm awkwardly attempting conversation with low hanging fruit, and pissing my friends off by always following them around. It's not that I'm unattractive, or have absolutely no game, but I still feel like shit when it seems like every other guy is doing so much more than me.
/r/seduction01/11/14 07:41 AM
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