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| 8 | REMINDER: Do not clean up for dirty scrotes and make them feel cozy in their filth *busy none* they can find *one* hour out of the week to clean their scum.Here’s a prime example of someone who’s dating a project. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 09:25 PM |
| 15 | Religion is by men, for menNot sure why you’re being downvoted (unless the lurkers are being busy bees again? but thank you, yes. That’s how I see it. I’ve studied enough to see and understand what I need- as well as what I don’t need to accept. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 12:57 PM |
| 8 | Wife discovers that her 30 yo husband was planning to leave her after finally graduating from college "because he wouldn't need her anymore". Another reason to not settle for men who are struggling.I mean some men are scum, and then there’s this level of James Cameron can’t go down enough to find his level, bottom of the ocean whale poo layer scum. What a cold, calculating monster. Jesus. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/21 09:03 PM |
| 15 | My NVM STBX’s response to me enforcing my boundaries with him. We’d separated; he called wanting to reconcile. His condition: I stop drinking. My condition: he stops watching porn. He broke his word and so I started a respectful conversation trying to clarify boundaries. This is how he reacted.Ikr? Polysyllable word vomit at that point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 08:22 AM |
| 86 | Grown man with a family asks “what am I left with?” if he can’t move across the country for a jobI saw this earlier. “I’ve spent so much time bonding with my toddler” Jesus Christ. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/21 07:52 PM |
| 3 | Ladies how do you plan to KeEp A mAn? Wrong answers onlyMaintain like a tarantula in a glass box maintain? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 06:41 PM |
| 28 | Never go camping alone with a man. This woman could have died. (Reposted because pictures are broken)Lmao, that is the best description ever. 😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 04:01 PM |
| 24 | The straw that broke the camels back for me, and what has turned me angry and bitter against men is not only the abuse they've subjected me to, but the fact that I'm 28 years old and no man has never even gifted me a bouquet.My ex bought me flowers for our first year anniversary and I was very touched, so I hugged him and got a little watery-eyed - literally, just watery eyed, no tears. He said that he’d never buy me flowers again because I was being too happy about it. And he really didn’t buy me flowers ever again, in the next five years. Fuck waiting for them. Buy yourself flowers whenever you want, you don’t need someone to buy them for you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 01:10 PM |
| 3 | Update: I posted here a few days ago about a longtime male (now ex) friend in his 30’s randomly sexualizing my 13 yo daughter (check my post history for more details). Many of you prophecized that he would say “it was just a joke”. And well, received this from a mutual friend tonight.Just goes to show: they always know exactly what they’re doing. And when they get too comfortable, they get sloppy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 01:40 PM |
| 53 | What age range do you belong to?This makes me so happy that there’s plenty of younguns in here. Going to throw a spanner in the patriarchy’s works, we are. ^ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 05:59 PM |
| 42 | Why are so many men obsessed with teenage girls?We’re rebranding the term so that it actually makes sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 05:19 AM |
| 6 | Don't get plastic surgery just to attract menSouth Korea springs to mind here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 03:46 PM |
| 99 | Okay so ik I already made a post about something similar but I came across ANOTHER post of Facebook (this must be where all the LVM and pickmes are) that proves my point of men wanting to use women and normalize it. I’m showing proof because scrotes were in my messages acting stupid.It’s often pathologically low self esteem, this business of finding a homeless guy and having him completely dependent on you as “guarantee” that they ditch them. Backfires frequently enough, though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 11:50 PM |
| 42 | This is probably exactly how some scrotes process mundane, everyday transactionsI literally choked on my samosa lol 😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 10:12 AM |
| 17 | Look out for these traits in yourself, acc. a narc in therapyYour comment is simply brilliant. It sums up SO much clearly and concisely. Thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 08:14 AM |
| 48 | Look out for these traits in yourself, acc. a narc in therapyThis was frightening. This was so incredibly frightening. It’s like someone has described the majority of my past interactions with partners and my family in a few slides. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 08:11 AM |
| 5 | Just saw this post on FB… biggest load of male sympathy horseshit I’ve seen in a minute 😂 men have no inherent value, yet they receive the most societal benefit for doing the bare minimum. Okayyyyy👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 06:42 AM |
| 14 | Never take your freedom to choose to avoid LVM for granted. My heart is broken for our sisters living under Sharia law.Not particularly diverse, really. I’m generalizing a little, but my experience so far has been that in South Asia, Muslim men enforce regional cultural standards on top of all the religious norms that women are supposed to follow. In the Middle East, well, we know that one. But I will say one thing for the women in the Middle East though- Muslim women there are significantly more aware of their rights, and therefore of discrepancies, and subsequently more unattached to the men there. But there’s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 06:47 PM |
| 13 | Never take your freedom to choose to avoid LVM for granted. My heart is broken for our sisters living under Sharia law.Dude that’s the worst part though, isn’t it? Like, for example, there’s plenty of Christian men who manage to be decent partners without going all full Mormon on their spouses and families. But how the heck have almost all Muslim men consistently and collectively always chosen to be the worst possible version of themselves that they can be, within and often far, far beyond the boundaries of Islam? It’s just… hopeless. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 06:32 PM |
| 67 | Never take your freedom to choose to avoid LVM for granted. My heart is broken for our sisters living under Sharia law.Islam doesn’t hate women. In the historical context, islam was widely vilified because of the rights it bestowed upon women. Like the fact that they should inherit their father’s property, instead of being inherited ‘with’ the property to the next male. Or the rampant rape of servant girls, and female infanticide. Or this business of four wives, that was introduced to bring war widows into the protection of a household, instead of being abandoned. In the modern context, none of this is enough, o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/08/21 05:38 PM |
| 32 | I don’t even know where to start.Lmao, this is so dark. 😄😄😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/08/21 04:45 AM |
| 248 | Pakistan Horror: Crazy entitlement and depravity and victim-blaming and gross animalistic behavior - All wrapped in one400 men assault one woman for the better part of a day. Tell me again how it’s “not all men”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/21 04:10 PM |
| 10 | (UK) NVM throws acid in the face of a woman. These past weeks have just been filled with gender based violence. Stay safe ladies.This was literally the first thing I thought of. This is such a typical attack on women by men in the subcontinent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 06:17 PM |
| 17 | The edit is hilarious. Why do they make it so easy for us? Keep telling on yourselves scrotesAgreed. I’m quite down for doing that too. 😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 02:00 PM |
| 12 | A TERRORIST murdered five people in the UK. Women should learn a lesson. (Context in comments)How about one of Jupiter’s moons? Preferably one covered with mice? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 01:57 PM |
| 100 | A TERRORIST murdered five people in the UK. Women should learn a lesson. (Context in comments)This really seems like the easiest solution. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/08/21 06:16 AM |
| 22 | IMPORTANT SAFETY NOTICE: The Plymouth Shooter has complained about FDS. DO NOT DISCUSS FDS WITH MEN. These are males with murderous intentions who desire revenge on women.Seriously, I can’t thank the mods enough for the sheer amount of shit you guys have to wade through to keep this sub clean. I’m sincerely so grateful to you!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 10:06 AM |
| 3 | Found online. It seems sensible enough.Ohh the latter part of that statement is so incredibly important. Men who refuse to learn are just a complete dead end- and it only goes downhill. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/08/21 02:58 PM |
| 66 | Found online. It seems sensible enough.Which is why it’s even more essential to know their views on these subjects before committing to anything as serious as a partnership or marriage. Ruthless vetting and pinpointing any discrepancies right from the beginning. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 06:50 PM |
| 24 | Found online. It seems sensible enough.Also such a big one! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 06:46 PM |
| 19 | Found online. It seems sensible enough.I could not agree more. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 06:46 PM |
| 48 | FDS was just featured in the Guardian! The article is fairly balanced and no mention of f3mcels or other such nonsense. FDS principles are becoming more mainstream 🥂 🥳This is heartening to see, especially since they’re not twisting themselves into knots trying to misrepresent FDS logic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/21 08:10 AM |
| 3 | No, just no…Barf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 04:41 PM |
| 5 | Books where the woman is applauded for her growth in accepting a LVM make me SO angryHell to the yes. The first chicklit book that I found that actually took a departure from this was something by Colleen Hoover- and I loved it beyond measure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 04:51 PM |
| 103 | Being in a good relationship has made me realize how women are being gaslit on a mass scale to ask for lessWhat a complete asshole teacher, smh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 05:58 AM |
| 22 | Pickmes after being burned by LVMsYour username is so true @_@ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 03:56 PM |
| 8 | The text that started it all … this is when I learned what gaslighting was …Yasss | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 03:56 PM |
| 9 | There’s a new girl gang in town 😏Y’all are so talented, I cannot even with you guys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 01:37 PM |
| 13 | I Put My LVM Father In His PlaceOh preach, girl, preach!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 01:35 PM |
| 258 | Pickmes after being burned by LVMsTo be fair, if it was a real ass shark, I’d probably be of the same opinion. Because a shark isn’t a whole ass sentient being, but a predatory animal. Kind of how like Steve Irwin’s family had a statement asking people to stop killing sting rays after the incident. But LVMs, they are a whole different beast. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 01:31 PM |
| 172 | The text that started it all … this is when I learned what gaslighting was …“Bye Jared” needs to be the new “Bye Felicia”. It’s a wonder to me how Jareds are almost invariably little dipshits. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 11:26 AM |
| 2 | Lol, do we have a Self Aware Wolves flair?It’s just sad, really. Because even that level of separation doesn’t make a difference. :-/ You know as well as I do the assault rates in these parts of the world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 12:13 PM |
| 13 | Lol, do we have a Self Aware Wolves flair?India and Pakistan have those, they make a fat lot of difference, tbh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 05:01 AM |
| 7 | Lol, do we have a Self Aware Wolves flair?Ahhhhh that explains so much more lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 05:01 AM |
| 93 | Lol, do we have a Self Aware Wolves flair?Can’t say that I agree with that. Being conventionally attractive and still giving off serial killer vibes is definitely a thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 08:09 PM |
| 157 | Lol, do we have a Self Aware Wolves flair?Exactly. I almost always do this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 06:33 PM |
| 94 | Lol, do we have a Self Aware Wolves flair?I mean, practically every woman who reads this will have an aha moment about why women around him avoid him or move away, some guys give you an instant gut feeling. Alternatively they’re just going about their own lives and he’s hyperacutely aware of them, which is kinda weird too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 06:32 PM |
| 45 | Lol, do we have a Self Aware Wolves flair?Ooooo this is such a brilliant summation! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 06:30 PM |
| 1 | Is this the logic they are using??? 🤦🏽♀️ So which is it? Are men rapists and violent towards women inherently or not?? Are men on board with this excuse?? 😹I think the saddest part of this, is that it’s not logical at all, but it’s also partly the truth. Most men are one beer away from being animals. I shudder to think of a world where they don’t go home after work and tug one out to some warped fantasy on a screen. I’m not dumb enough to believe that women in sex work actually do any good. I just mean… the absence of it is disturbing to think of. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/21 05:53 PM |
| 16 | “Free yourselves from the bondage of male validation” -@sheenie_weenie_, 2021 ADWho is this video from? I’m totally in love with her no-nonsense manner. 😄 Edit: just realized that her name is literally up there, sorry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 10:34 AM |
| 3 | How FDS helped me recover from an abusive relationshipSeriously OP, your ex was pretty much a psycho with a well-fitting mask on, but what the heck were your friends at the time smoking. I’m so glad for you that you’re rid of this dumpster fire of a relationship, and the other friendships as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 03:47 PM |
| 5 | Wanted to share this with you all. (I’ve bleeped the username out, just in case that’s not allowed).Aw thank you so much! :) It’s one of mine, I’ll dm you the name, I don’t think it’s allowed to share page names here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 05:18 PM |
| 5 | Wanted to share this with you all. (I’ve bleeped the username out, just in case that’s not allowed).Thank you so much! 😃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 06:44 AM |
| 16 | Wanted to share this with you all. (I’ve bleeped the username out, just in case that’s not allowed).Yep, yep. 😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 12:27 PM |
| 47 | Wanted to share this with you all. (I’ve bleeped the username out, just in case that’s not allowed).Heck yes. Also, interestingly enough, the minute I posted it, I got downvoted, till the upvotes started kicking in. I hadn’t realized that The Unwanted were always watching here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 12:04 PM |
| 2 | Just read a thread about the worst rejection men have experienced from a women that made the front pagePlease write more not rupi Kaur quotes. Pretttttttyyyy pleaaaaase! 😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 03:48 PM |
| 6 | “Never give him second chances, we men are fully aware of our actions”Thank you 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 08:09 AM |
| 10 | “Never give him second chances, we men are fully aware of our actions”How can i download this video? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 07:22 AM |
| 69 | Update: I dumped him!I just your name and lost it, lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 04:39 PM |
| 4 | Is there a term for people who abstain from watching porn for ethical reasons? Should there be?I like ‘porn-free’. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 02:41 PM |
| 11 | So um, is sex with a guy who has a small D painful for anyone else here or that's just me?Girl you’re killing me. 😄😄😄😄😄😄😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 02:36 PM |
| 17 | Why are so many of them OBSESSED with heightGawwwwwwwwd 😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 02:32 PM |
| 61 | Can I just say, I LOVE IT HERE!It’s not an understatement to say that FDS has changed my entire approach to life. It’s the true female empowerment revolution of our times. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/21 02:30 PM |
| 309 | LVM truly live on a different planet 🤡I find this pretty interesting. It seems like a very accurate representation of what LVMs would behave like if they were women. It’s almost unsurprising that they expect women would behave like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 08:25 PM |
| 2 | Red Flags ExplainedWow. What a complete f-tard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Red Flags ExplainedUnfortunately, being gullible and being intelligent are mutually exclusive. Oh well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 01:41 PM |
| 1 | Red Flags ExplainedThat is actually not an unusual trait either. The so-called boosting of self. To people that devoid of self reflection, a good looking partner is as much a symbol of worth as a car or house. Glad you escaped that mess! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 01:18 PM |
| 6 | Red Flags ExplainedNope, wouldn’t surprise me at all. And you are not to blame in the slightest. When you’re up against an experienced manipulator, with an age gap that large, it can be hard to even get your thoughts in order, let alone your life. You did good to leave him, though. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 05:55 AM |
| 2 | Red Flags ExplainedThat’s why he’s your ex.😎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 05:54 AM |
| 5 | Red Flags ExplainedAbsolutely. Her content is real-time life advice. Not unlike FDS. 😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Red Flags ExplainedAgreed! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 05:53 AM |
| 17 | Red Flags ExplainedThis is something I’ve found to be valid even outside of the relationship zone. Even at work, or within the scope of limited interactions, people who have ill intentions try to test your boundaries, always. And depending on your response or the lack thereof, they extend themselves. Even a persistent ass trying to mooch money off you on the street won’t back off unless you’re cold as ice and say no directly, if you choose to acknowledge or respond to him at all, that is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 09:21 PM |
| 8 | Red Flags ExplainedYikes! That sounds terrible! What a complete manipulative ass, and 42 already at the time, no less. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 09:19 PM |
| 5 | Thank you FDS Mods for this space.I petition starting a little coffee can for the moderators! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 04:57 PM |
| 15 | A summary of the Pickme: The Cool GirlI’d highly recommend that you read the book as well. I haven’t yet, it’s on my to-read, but everyone I’ve spoken to has recommended it. Apparently Ben Affleck rewrote his character’s portrayal for the movie to make the male character more likable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 06:56 PM |
| 1 | I am glad more and more women are having that mindset in this day and age.Oh helllllllllll yes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 12:16 AM |
| 3 | Why do these questions rub me the wrong way?Ohh this is such a great approach. I will make sure to pause and implement this every time something gives me a weird feeling too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 11:00 AM |
| 36 | This hits too close to my pickme teen years.Oh wow, too real. But luckily also history now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 02:59 PM |
| 1 | LVM proposes marriage, gf accepts, then LVM explains he actually doesn’t believe in legal marriage and just wants to be “spiritually” married. (And of course, most of the comments are defending him.)Lmao, this is wild. I actually remember watching some really old Bollywood movie with this plot line, where the hero convinces the heroine to consummate their ‘spiritual marriage in front of god’ and obviously impregnates her and fucks off real quick right after. Promises to come back for her, obviously doesn’t, and she gets slutshamed and ostracized by the whole village because who even believes that she got married when no one witnessed it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 07:57 PM |
| 2 | Walk out and STAY out. It’s not our job to teach them how to act right.Hellll yes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 06:56 PM |
| 6 | Self-proclaimed ‘liberal, family man, loving boyfriend and solid man, artistic soul’ sour grapes scrote in the wild. This is how a man who ‘emphasizes respecting women’ (according to his self image) talks.IKR? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 09:08 PM |
| 20 | Self-proclaimed ‘liberal, family man, loving boyfriend and solid man, artistic soul’ sour grapes scrote in the wild. This is how a man who ‘emphasizes respecting women’ (according to his self image) talks.And he has a repulsive personality that most people know of, by this point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 09:08 PM |
| 6 | Self-proclaimed ‘liberal, family man, loving boyfriend and solid man, artistic soul’ sour grapes scrote in the wild. This is how a man who ‘emphasizes respecting women’ (according to his self image) talks.He’s quite literally with a younger woman himself. I don’t know this guy well but his feed is a constant barrage of things he’s done for her. He seems to take care of her, but oh god the drippingly self congratulatory tone is unbearable. I finally decided to clear up my feed today, lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 09:08 PM |
| 3 | Ladies! Here I present psycho fiancé version 3.5.8 who tried to cut his future wife’s birth control insert out of her arm using Box cutters while she was fast asleep.Oh man, this was a horrifying read. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/08/20 05:00 PM |
| 6 | I used to be nice as to not hurt someone’s feelings despite unwanted advances. I’m done doing that.Oh you’re going to be just fine. We’re all rooting with you. You’re as smart as a whip and boy, did he get whipped. 😄😄😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 03:44 PM |
| 16 | I used to be nice as to not hurt someone’s feelings despite unwanted advances. I’m done doing that.As much as this take down soothes a bruised and abused corner of my heart, it is immediately evident right from the first slide that you’re way, way above this toad’s league, emotionally, mentally, and intellectually. This is the written equivalent of being approached by a skeezy, oily, homeless guy emboldened by his drunk droopy dick while you’re waiting for your bus. The ideal response is stare at them like they’re something smelly you stepped in, and walk off to the side. In this case, the te… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 12:59 PM |
| 5 | And to think, I used to consider merely having a bookshelf a green flag 🤦♀️Exactly! I stopped for a moment there too 😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 01:08 PM |
| 12 | In the thread in which a woman probably was raped in her sleep. This comment got awards and upvotes and I'm just so tired of being disappointed by men. This is just f*cking disgusting.This was a horrifying post. The woman had little to any realization of THE EXTENT of what her husband had done. And the comment section was disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 01:02 PM |
| 1 | *barf emojis everywhere*Ugh I can smell him from here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 10:24 PM |
| 5 | If men don’t have anything to offer, they have the audacity.What utter BS is this. 😑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/08/20 10:23 PM |
| 245 | This is why you VET and NEVER have sex too early - bullet dodgedExactly this. LVM always come back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/20 03:14 PM |
| 7 | Woman har her jaw dislocated during sex w/ fiance. Doesn't want to tell friends in case they think bad about him.....Jesus Christ. Jesus fucking Christ. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/20 10:31 AM |
| 2 | I’m Dating MyselfTurning thirty brought me FDS, and one of the strongest realizations of self worth I’ve known my entire life. Just you wait! Thirty will be a new cornerstone of prioritizing your happiness and wellbeing and healthy decisions for you! I just know it! :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 09:42 PM |
| 1 | I’m Dating MyselfAw thank you! Also I think your approach to self care is very admirable! Thank you for sharing it! :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 07:33 PM |
| 3 | I’m Dating MyselfSmall hijack here: how has your experience been, learning French from Duolingo? I made the beginner’s mistake of starting two languages at once (Spanish and French) and felt as though Duolingo was a bit underwhelming for French (but my knowledge of the language is zilch, so what do I know). Do you feel like it’s possible to get a functional language base in French from Duolingo? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 06:32 PM |
| 6 | A Simple Exercise for Objectively Evaluating MenThis got me properly laughing. 😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 06:30 PM |
| 12 | Incel tantrum lmaoI hope he chokes on air. What an evolutionary dead end, smh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 02:42 PM |
| 53 | Be selfish about your wants & needs yall!This is the kind of selfishness which needs to be hammered into young girls’ minds. Girls should be ruthless while accepting a life partner, not pushovers. I knew a girl two years ahead of me in medschool, who was practically a star in the abdominal surgery department because of her work ethic and unusual skill and natural talent, even though she was just an intern back then. Everyone expected great things from her, especially since she scored the highest marks statewide in all the state exams. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/07/20 02:38 PM |
| 4 | Straight Queen Shit - Dumping her LVMMost of them are loyal- to the idea that they ride and we die. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 05:04 PM |
| 16 | Straight Queen Shit - Dumping her LVM“Loyal”, “ride or die”, yeah my ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 10:33 AM |
| 11 | Been doing long distance with this guy since coronavirus. He surprised me with a really nice bouquet of flowers delivered to my house.This is very promising! Good pick by you! (Also gorgeous toasty little cat loaf back there) 😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 02:20 PM |
| 11 | Shower thought: men tell us we’re stupid for not vetting chumps hard enough & blame our pOoR cHoIcEs & not men’s behaviour....but once we start getting wiser to men’s lies & vetting them harder they call us stuck up, superficial & paranoid.I’d buy that. 😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 04:57 PM |
| 59 | Jenna Jameson is recounting how she was groomed and trafficked into the sex industry and scrotes are having a meltdown in the comments. They’re always mad when the truth interrupts their fapping.There’s a user on Reddit who manages PornHub’s official presence here. Just yesterday there was a post about how they’re pressurizing the NoFap subreddit be taken down, and the mods are pursuing legal action against them. It’s utterly nauseating, to think how they’re so concerned about people falling away from their pornsick folds that they’re sabotaging these recovery groups. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 12:17 PM |
| 56 | Jenna Jameson is recounting how she was groomed and trafficked into the sex industry and scrotes are having a meltdown in the comments. They’re always mad when the truth interrupts their fapping.This is all the more relevant given the new attack on the r/NoFap subreddit by PornHub’s official account. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/07/20 10:11 AM |
| 1 | But _beta_ you can’t live alone (and so obviously unburdened by an abusive, overgrown man-child) like this! What will people say?This, exactly. I once said offhandedly to my aunt that I’m never going to allow a man to treat me the way my father did, and she tried to convince me that it’ll be my husband’s right to. Talk about your internalized patriarchy, smfh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/20 05:45 PM |
| 3 | But _beta_ you can’t live alone (and so obviously unburdened by an abusive, overgrown man-child) like this! What will people say?Ahh that’s so galling. And when you point out that they’re constantly unhappy, they just go, “well that’s part and parcel of married life. You need to settle down with a nice guy so you can get started too.”. Umm, no? It’s not? Why should I settle with one of these NiceGuy™️ creeps and be miserable too? Half their husbands are already potbellied weirdos who give you that leery stare at parties, and they’re not even out of their twenties yet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 07:52 PM |
| 42 | But _beta_ you can’t live alone (and so obviously unburdened by an abusive, overgrown man-child) like this! What will people say?Their harassing her for not being married isn’t based off of her not having found a guy for herself yet, but more for not having settled yet for someone mediocre theyve picked for her. South Asian culture rigidly reinforces this vicious circle like a noose around women’s necks. Women are kept ‘pure’ and isolated from men, under pain of death, and then when they’re deemed ready (aka done with a token amount of studying and a basic degree- just enough to qualify her as having a degree, nothing big… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 12:33 AM |
| 21 | But _beta_ you can’t live alone (and so obviously unburdened by an abusive, overgrown man-child) like this! What will people say?The standards these people come up with to keep us stressing ourselves out over nothing, are insane. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 12:14 AM |
| 42 | But _beta_ you can’t live alone (and so obviously unburdened by an abusive, overgrown man-child) like this! What will people say?I’ve re-read your comment fuming multiple times now, and for the life of me, I can’t remember even once that I’ve not heard the accusations being made, or heard women being told these things, sometimes even by other women. God damn this sucks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/06/20 12:13 AM |
| 72 | But _beta_ you can’t live alone (and so obviously unburdened by an abusive, overgrown man-child) like this! What will people say?They’re a type of unleavened flat bread, like tortillas, made of various types of flour. They’re pretty central to south Asian cuisine. It’s like this big fucking deal that if you don’t make perfectly round rotis, you won’t find a husband. Cause his mom won’t approve and you obviously don’t know how to cook, yadda yadda. 😑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 09:48 PM |
| 14 | Guys would use my tip to make their dinner cheaperOh wow, that older guy sounds like a genuine piece of work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 11:24 PM |
| 12 | Guys would use my tip to make their dinner cheaperHallöchen! 😄 Don’t think about it so much. We are all striving to leave our pickmeisha tendencies behind, and you’re doing great with this one! I agree with you, it’s very entrenched here in Germany. I briefly dated one german man who pumped me out of money on a regular, regular basis. But he was a true and utter predator and I was in one of my most broken periods in life, no thanks to him. But otherwise I’ve had similar experiences. I hung out with an Arab guy a couple of times, but I paid my o… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 11:19 PM |
| 5 | I chose to leave todayAll the very, very best to you! x | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 10:50 PM |
| 30 | Eww... he thinks this is a funny birthday present?!Nope and nope. This is firmly the class of men who view women as belonging between being a pleasant looking room service object in the background, to being a warm hole. Women don’t matter to them beyond that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 03:26 PM |
| 17 | “b-B-bUt mEn aGe lIkE fInE wInE rEeEeEe“ 🤢🤢Urgh disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 04:55 PM |
| 77 | Major makeup brand posts this on Facebook with the caption “hey, at least it’s the thought that counts??”. Chaos ensues in the comments.Good riddance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 11:01 AM |
| 1 | [Advice] How do you portray yourself as fierce and unassailable in public?Tasers aren’t allowed for personal use where I am, but pepper spray is. I’ve been implementing looking severely dismissive all the time, and practicing resting bitch face. I genuinely resent how much effort is going into having to maintaining it. I’m not even beautiful or anything, you know. I’m straight up homely and I know it. Just fking soft and approachable looking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 07:27 PM |
| 8 | Remember that this is what males who say "feminism has ruined women" look likeYou can practically smell the stale alcohol in this picture. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 08:58 PM |
| 57 | Ladies what do you think of this?is this FDS approved?For the most part, yep, I think. It’s a refreshing change from all the ‘imma stand by my man’ nonsense anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 08:52 PM |
| 5 | [Advice] How do you portray yourself as fierce and unassailable in public?This is precisely the thing I’m trying to teach myself. It’s very annoying because I usually have a relaxed expression, but apparently that’s an invitation to scrotes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 10:29 AM |
| 49 | When a dude claims to be your friend and that he cares about you but only texts you to tell you he’s been incredibly horny. So what? What do I have to do with that?I know this gets repetitive to hear on FDS- but you shouldn’t have replied at all. You do not owe him an answer. A fly in your soup gets flicked out- he’s just a pest. The minute you receive unsavory or disrespectful messages, that’s it. You don’t need to reply, you don’t need to get provoked. You need to block and eliminate this person’s existence from your life. Replying, or trying to show them what their mistake is, is not only fruitless but also teaches them to disguise their true intentions… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 07:29 AM |
| 4 | [Advice] How do you portray yourself as fierce and unassailable in public?Thank you so much! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 06:17 AM |
| 5 | [Advice] How do you portray yourself as fierce and unassailable in public?Exactly this. I seem to wear my damn victimhood like a flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 06:17 AM |
| 2 | [Advice] How do you portray yourself as fierce and unassailable in public?They are actually something I do have to be worried about. Thank you for the recommendation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 06:15 AM |
| 3 | [Advice] How do you portray yourself as fierce and unassailable in public?Thank you so much! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 06:14 AM |
| 6 | [Advice] How do you portray yourself as fierce and unassailable in public?Exactly this. I hate how ‘approachable’ I am. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 06:14 AM |
| 4 | [Advice] How do you portray yourself as fierce and unassailable in public?Thank you so much! I was looking into Krav maga courses around me before things closed down. I’m totally going to follow that up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 06:13 AM |
| 6 | [Advice] How do you portray yourself as fierce and unassailable in public?This, god. Thank you so much! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 06:12 AM |
| 3 | Man loses respect for a woman because her feces was on his finger after her put his finger in her assAhhh well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 03:01 PM |
| -10 | Man loses respect for a woman because her feces was on his finger after her put his finger in her assI’m pretty sure those are just to counterbalance the karma. These guys are not as deranged as they like to let us think. It’s more calculated. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 10:35 AM |
| 8 | Man loses respect for a woman because her feces was on his finger after her put his finger in her assIt’s definitely a troll account, guys. I just commented as well. 😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 09:58 AM |
| 79 | Man loses respect for a woman because her feces was on his finger after her put his finger in her assMen like this are proof that some people come into existence anally. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/20 09:53 AM |
| 6 | Hey Queens! Please check out the official FDS Social Media Accounts!Ohhhh yes!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 12:04 PM |
| 9 | r/TwoXSex users are upset males refuse to respect their female only space, dominate the conversation, derail the discussion, and force women to constantly cater to their feelings and pervert behavior. 😡BAN THEM ALL. Signed, an FDS MOD.I nominate ‘a spawning of chadpoles’. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 10:37 AM |
| 33 | Finding My DignityGood for you, sis. Keep your head high and these low value men will soon fall well below your sightline! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 10:21 AM |
| 18 | God if only I was more confident in talking to women online and in real life I'd have so many more dates.Lmao, that explains so much actually. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 07:17 AM |
| 43 | And here is an example of a scenario FDS has trained me for...any newbies care to list the reasons why I will not be responding to this text?The complete lack of respect on his part and the sheer audacity to assume that you’ll drop whatever you’re doing and simply reshape your day/night to suit his demands. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 07:15 AM |
| 15 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/6/2020Hello! I actually had no idea that the post had been removed at all. I completely understand your viewpoint and the reasoning behind it. I personally wouldn’t want to make a splinter group for desi women, because IMO desi men need to be held accountable without the apology that they originate from the subcontinent and don’t know any better. But at the same time, I understand your stance and agree that I probably should have worded things differently. Thank you for the clarification and the heads… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 11:36 AM |
| 14 | phewwww 😤This really, truly deserves to be on billboards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 07:32 PM |
| 2 | As follow up to a recent discussion here, I propose we create a #NoGoodDesiMen flair.Sorry? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 09:49 AM |
| 3 | As follow up to a recent discussion here, I propose we create a #NoGoodDesiMen flair.Gawd yes. The whole desi khichdi is so goddamned convoluted, sometimes it gets impossible to explain without the context of that cultural backdrop. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 08:33 PM |
| 2 | As follow up to a recent discussion here, I propose we create a #NoGoodDesiMen flair.It unfortunately isn’t much in the way of activism, just the little flag on top under a post that categorizes it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 08:31 PM |
| 13 | Desi women, how do you guys deal with family members who are pickmeisha-y?My family is a mess. My mother has basically been beaten into submission her entire life, and where she rebelled despite it all, we were beaten till she submitted, so she was broken either way. My extended family is completely, utterly, thoroughly hopeless. It’s a miasma of schemes and torture and willful neglect, all painted the silver and gold of religion, and the green of plenty of money in the hands of all the wrong people. I believe that at some point I’ll get around to writing the book abo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 10:03 PM |
| 14 | Desi women, how do you guys deal with family members who are pickmeisha-y?I grew up in a very warped desi household, with a childhood where verbal, physical, and sexual abuse was the norm. It was fking routine. I realize that in my case it was extreme, so I won’t tell you to do exactly as I did, that is going my own way completely and not taking ANY pages out of my family’s or culture’s book for what a relationship should be like. When the topic came up, I learnt to either completely ignore the discussion, or loudly spout feminist ideology enough that it unsettled the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 09:13 PM |
| 9 | Men inherently derive pleasure from CRUELTYWhat infuriates me even more is the reaction from that complete TOAD of a father who comes waddling in, like a kfc bucket on greased legs. And he just laughs the whole time. Not a single gesture towards the girl to make sure she’s okay. The camera shows the jackass laughing till he literally sees her crying, and even then they just keep laughing. Like, jfc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 11:03 AM |
| 5 | Just stumbled on this sub.. Oh Lord!This has to be a joke. My sanity begs it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 02:39 AM |
| 7 | Men inherently derive pleasure from CRUELTYThat’s one of those phrases I’ve saved in my head for life. It’s just so true yknow? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 08:29 PM |
| 61 | Men inherently derive pleasure from CRUELTYYou dodged a major bullet there, sister. There’s this thing I read a long time ago: ‘nothing shows a man’s character more than what he laughs at’. I saw the comments under the post in r/instantregret going on about how they have to be siblings, that’s such a sibling move, etc. Even if it were- why? Why is this okay for the brother to do? Why is the father completely disconnected from his daughter enough to literally not even care if she was hurt? It’s her face even, and the two of them are just … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 04:29 PM |
| 12 | Men inherently derive pleasure from CRUELTYLink for the OG post: https://www.reddit.com/r/instant_regret/comments/gb5m9z/helping_your_boyfriend_practice_martial_arts/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 11:38 AM |
| 28 | Are some men HVM in some areas if their lives, ie with kids and career, and LVM in relationships?It’s very classic of abusive men, to have a polished public image while being outright cruel to the people who are closest to them, especially if the latter are also dependent on them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 10:18 PM |
| 69 | Are some men HVM in some areas if their lives, ie with kids and career, and LVM in relationships?If someone is HVM where people can watch him, and LVM in private, I think that speaks volumes about their character. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 09:31 PM |
| 25 | Men want virgins because they'd rather live their lives as a sexual disappointment than learn how to please a womanIt might be basic but it’s also completely true. I’ve heard as much confirmed by a partner. Most of the ‘untouched virgin’ bullshit is rooted in the insecurity and dick envy they have. You can be married to them for decades but they’ll still live in shadow of that one bigger dick you had when you were in Uni. You can literally skim through r/confessions or r/relationshipadvice and find at least a handful of these men, well into their forties or fifties, still wishin that their wives had never be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/20 01:48 PM |
| 108 | Just blocked a guy after he said he’s not loooking for something seriousAs satisfying as it is to read your response (round of internal applause btw), the best thing to do is to simply block and move on without engaging. Because the result is that these lowlifes improvise their technique based on our feedback. Like this one now, will engage with the next women he meets pretending like he’s looking for an invested relationship, because he knows ‘casual’ gets him no cookies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 08:03 AM |
| 5 | I matched with this total train wreck of a man on OLD. Not only is he broke AF, but admits to using his ex gf to get a free place to stay and making it sounds like he is doing her a favor. All this within an hour of matching. WTactualFMan, this entire thing is a word waffle. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 01:36 PM |
| 4 | This kind of disgusting moral policing, to ensure the ‘product’ is intact.I wondered about this being a fake post because he says that he’s desi, but then they talk about ‘importing’ wives in from the Middle East. But later in the comments there was a more detailed explanation saying that they consider women from India and Pakistan too westernized now. So the Middle East is the last stronghold for pure women, yadda yadda. Which sounds idiotic, but I know a few Indian guys who IRL actually hold these opinions. So it’s not completely unbelievable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/20 01:09 AM |
| 10 | This kind of disgusting moral policing, to ensure the ‘product’ is intact.Girl, yes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 09:16 PM |
| 17 | This kind of disgusting moral policing, to ensure the ‘product’ is intact.And get this: This OP is desi, which essentially means he’s south Asian origin. But he wants to import a wife from the Middle East, because women in India and Pakistan are too westernized these days anyway. Jesus... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 09:15 PM |
| 17 | This kind of disgusting moral policing, to ensure the ‘product’ is intact.Of course she did. She found a guy she liked, who apparently would not marry her if she wasn’t a virgin, so she pretended like she was one. Given that OP’s comment history, that’s exactly what he plans on doing later too, finding a good virgin wife who will move past his questionable history. It was rather funny though, watching his gymnastics trying to pretend he was a ‘playa’ while also asserting that he will raise a strong Muslim family with a good untouched wife later. It’s like watching an … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 09:14 PM |
| 43 | This kind of disgusting moral policing, to ensure the ‘product’ is intact.Here’s the link to the post. While I naturally do condone the friend’s fiancée lying to him, stuff like this just goes to show how their thoroughly disgusting and warped opinions are a flicker below a surface veneer of civilization. Product and properties, Jesus fucking Christ. https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/g0kt9l/aita_for_telling_my_engaged_muslim_friend_that/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 03:53 PM |
| 4 | What the actual...DelusionalThis is nauseating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 07:06 AM |
| 5 | Found on Instagram. Damn it struck a chord.😄😄😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 06:01 AM |
| 6 | Found on Instagram. Damn it struck a chord.This sounds like a horrible situation to have been in. I’m so glad to hear that you left him and walked away from this toxic mess before he did some serious damage to your personality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 06:00 AM |
| 3 | Apparently, men paying for women makes them escorts. Smh.Honestly if they were capable of understanding that they wouldn’t be such catastrophic LVMs and wouldn’t be complaining about it in the first place. 😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/20 05:58 AM |
| 11 | Apparently, men paying for women makes them escorts. Smh.You’ve hit the nail on the head there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 06:20 PM |
| 13 | Apparently, men paying for women makes them escorts. Smh.I want the gild the entirety of your last paragraph. Truer words have never been spoken!😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 06:19 PM |
| 8 | I ned advice beautiful ladiesThis is definitely a male lurker. Throwaway account with extremely questionable post, yep. Reported. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 08:39 PM |
| 11 | He can make a cup of tea ladies.I just snorted into my chocolate milk lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 04:17 PM |
| 14 | Don’t let men disrespect you like thatUgh that’s nauseating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/20 04:11 PM |
| 14 | Says it all.Same difference innit :-/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 09:07 PM |
| 4 | Says it all.I saw that too. >.+ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/20 09:07 PM |
| 18 | But he's shy 👉👈🥺God that’s heartbreaking. That poor, poor girl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 05:30 PM |
| 9 | I feel so bad for women like thisPeople like that should die. Literally, just die. They are too warped to ever be fixed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 08:01 AM |
| 11 | Male Dismisses Claims that PornHub is knowingly facilitating Sex Trafficking and Child Pornography because one of the sources links to Fox News. It’s better to potentially be supporting child rape than take a risk defending a conservative!Honestly, I have massive respect for you. It always bewilders me a little, how much patience you have when teaching these utter and complete dipshits a lesson. I feel mentally tired at the very idea of engaging with these dotards. We need more lionesses out there like you!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 09:21 PM |
| 29 | I feel so bad for women like thisI’m amazed how everyone there is just casually slipping over the fact that this man literally raped her, her first time ever was being raped by her husband because he couldn’t control himself. Jesus fucking Christ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/20 09:13 PM |
| 2 | I'm not big on the idea of a man completely financially supporting me...*hugs. Please go through the rest of FDS principles. There are a lot of posts for recovering women and women who have spent their entire lives learning that they should be happy with whatever little kindness is thrown their way. This is not the life we should settle for. I really want for you to one day be a veritable lioness in your personal and professional life, and look back to this transition as what changed it all for you. Because it will. All the very, very best to you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 03:49 PM |
| 6 | Man treats forever GF of 8 years like complete shit. He lies, cheats, and repeatedly mistreats her. She decides to stop taking shit from him and he suddenly wants her back. DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM MEN! ZERO SHIT!!!!!!!!The self awareness here is more chilling than any ignorance can ever be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 03:41 PM |
| 12 | There was a great text-only post here about the small things that are 'standard' actions for HVM, e.g. opening the door for you. It was posted within the past 2 weeks. I can't find it. Help?I’d personally say that you should avoid the drama. Or maybe post it with limited visibility, so that the drama-causing people don’t get to see it, but at the same time you’ll get the info across to the girls you want to share this with. We don’t need to share any information with LVMs or pickmeishas. Neither of them is our problem to fix or guide. Engaging with them is almost invariably a waste of effort and time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Then there’s this flapdoodle .Seriously. ‘Apollo and Hephaestus’, smh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 07:57 PM |
| 6 | Then there’s this flapdoodle .I like how he starts with a demanded explanation as to what my doctor title exactly means. Jesus flipping Christ. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 06:29 PM |
| 4 | Then there’s this flapdoodle .More than a little, I’d suspect. I don’t plan on replying either. Just wanted to share it with fds because of the ‘lol wtf?’ factor. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 04:39 PM |
| 3 | Then there’s this flapdoodle .I can see this process happening: “now, which way can I best make sure she gets that I’m not just a cretin, but the very best of them- and proud!” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 03:47 PM |
| 2 | Then there’s this flapdoodle .I honestly have no idea how anyone would make head or tail of this conversation. And I definitely don’t have the mental energy to invest in this... whatever this is. 😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 03:46 PM |
| 6 | Then there’s this flapdoodle .I .. can’t even. 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 02:39 PM |
| 4 | Then there’s this flapdoodle .All of it was just such a noodle soup, I have no idea. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 02:39 PM |
| 8 | Then there’s this flapdoodle .Hey! None of this is my thoughts, so to speak. The one ‘sorry?’ in the middle is my only contribution. 😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 02:39 PM |
| 16 | Then there’s this flapdoodle .Just for an update: this was the first conversation we’ve ever had. So that line at the very beginning? That was his opener. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 02:38 PM |
| 22 | Lois on Family Guy is the ultimate Pickmeisha Goddess.That’s another show I can’t bear. Homer is just as repulsive as Peter. The only and ONLY saving grace that I can think of is that peter is intentionally malicious while homer is mostly an idiot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/20 09:24 PM |
| 5 | Remember ladies, it’s your fault bless you’re football...No it absolutely is, I was only making a weak joke on the side. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 05:15 PM |
| 32 | Remember ladies, it’s your fault bless you’re football...As a Liverpool fan, I feel personally attacked, despite not being male. 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/20 03:57 PM |
| 15 | This came through on r/AskFDS and was just TOO good not to repost. He thinks he’s in the “top 20% of males” and wonders what “we have to offer him” that he can’t get from younger women. 😐 Yes he’s serious. 😐 Check the comments for the OP.It’s all the vomit, isn’t it? Ugh you have my sympathies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 08:31 PM |
| 47 | This came through on r/AskFDS and was just TOO good not to repost. He thinks he’s in the “top 20% of males” and wonders what “we have to offer him” that he can’t get from younger women. 😐 Yes he’s serious. 😐 Check the comments for the OP.This is a slaughter here r/MurderedByWords. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 08:29 PM |
| 12 | He's here to BREED, not to READ, ladies! Form an orderly line, please!Ugh nauseating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 05:05 PM |
| 13 | LADIES, fucking vet the men you have children with! The absolute evil they can do is insaneThe best slaves are the ones who are legally bound to you fr at least eighteen years, and complete dependent on you during this time. Plus, the more you cripple their development, the longer they’ll be dependent on you. That’s the logic, I assume. One’s own children are easy pickings. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 05:00 PM |
| 33 | LADIES, fucking vet the men you have children with! The absolute evil they can do is insaneHonestly though, who else would it be? Who else is best equipped to destroy a girl’s developing perception of the entire world, than her own parent? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 12:00 PM |
| 20 | We got an intruder. of *course* he thinks this sub is insane and anyone in it is "beyond help"Here’s a tip: have these conversations in PMs, where they’re more likely to be understood and less likely to be challenged/scoffed at/squabbled over by raisin-faced incels. A sister out there who’s struggling to regain her lost self worth, isn’t going to be able to focus on the message when these jackasses spam in the comment section. Not to mention, it attracts their attention to FDS. And we don’t want their attention, it’s quite the opposite of the attention we want at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 05:43 PM |
| 19 | Imagine thinking you're a pinnacle of humour and posting this unironically (LVM ALERT)👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 09:46 PM |
| 2 | With all this talk about paying...Frankfurt, and nope. The guy pays, when it’s a date. Basically, if someone invites me out, they pay. If I invite them, I pay. With friends and when we decide on a place together, always platonic, we split the bill. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 06:05 PM |
| 25 | Gut feelingsThis, though. Growing up with a batshit insane father has made me utterly primed to the little tells of craziness. And I have literally yet to be proven wrong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 04:59 PM |
| 44 | Libfems, take note. We will never be on even playing ground with someone who can easily violate us like this. Most of them are depraved and believe this behavior is normal. One of the many reasons we vet them and make them pay is that it weeds out garbage humans like this:Ahh man, if you see this, I hope you’re feeling okay. What’s happened with you is absolutely horrible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 04:57 PM |
| 2 | How does FDS rule on inexperienced men?You have a point, yes. Also, I shouldn’t have left it at ‘inexperience’. It seems to have made for some confusion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 04:51 PM |
| 74 | I’m a Pickmeisha learning how to become a HVW and I just remembered one of the worst PickMe things I ever did. Come cringe with me!please fucking kill me. NGL, I legit laughed my butt off here. Don’t worry, sister. We’ve all (or a lot of us, me included) been here. As long as we don’t go back, count it as a lesson learned. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 07:18 PM |
| 4 | How does FDS rule on inexperienced men?This seems to be one of those ‘friends who are family’ situations, hence my hesitation in making a judgement outright. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 07:01 PM |
| 19 | How does FDS rule on inexperienced men?Oh I don’t plan on being one. That’s somehow the beauty of FDS. Once you figure out how much you were a pickmeisha, you never want to go back. 😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 07:00 PM |
| 4 | How does FDS rule on inexperienced men?Sorry. If you don’t mind, I pasted the details of the inexperience I mean below: Trying to support an old friend who is basically a pickmeisha disaster unfolding. She’s got ‘recreational’ drug abuse issues and is in the process of shifting transatlantic, but he keeps supporting her out of her messes out of a sense of obligation and loyalty (they have been friends for decades. AFAIK, her bf and her were both his best friends). This has led to some questionable moments, IMO. Such as spending succe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 06:58 PM |
| 3 | How does FDS rule on inexperienced men?Trying to support an old friend who is basically a pickmeisha disaster unfolding. She’s got ‘recreational’ drug abuse issues and is in the process of shifting transatlantic, but he keeps supporting her out of her messes out of a sense of obligation and loyalty (they have been friends for decades. AFAIK, her bf and her were both his best friends). This has led to some questionable moments, IMO. Such as spending successive nights in that group of friends, away from any gainful time expenditure. Ti… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 06:57 PM |
| 4 | How do I respond to my friends blaming me for expecting the guy to pay?Exactly. I didn’t mean that exclusively for men or dating, too. Even with friends, if I ask someone out specifically to a certain place, I spring. If they ask, they do. Unless it’s the kind of thing where we discuss a place and head in, then everyone pays their own. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 04:52 PM |
| 40 | How do I respond to my friends blaming me for expecting the guy to pay?If someone is asking or inviting you out, they pay. If you’re doing the asking or inviting, you pay. It makes sense. 🤷🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 02:13 PM |
| 5 | FDS Shower Thought: Always Feeling Like You Don't Belong? Congratulations, You're An Enigma, Work It.apparent ethnicity and accent don’t match. My life. MY LIFE. 😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 02:12 PM |
| 52 | Man questions his porn use after seeing FDS posts, aaallllmost understands where we’re coming from, but of course the LVMs of Reddit swoop in to reassure him we’re wrongIt’s fascinating how these topics immediately bring the trollroaches crawling out of the woodwork. Even a quick blink over their comment history shows how FDS obsessed they are. It’s oddly revolting, yet hilarious. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 10:29 PM |
| 46 | He'll evEnTuaLLy fINd SoMeOne wHo will be available 24h7, also he's saying he's a busy man, he's a kindergarten teacher (I'm still waiting for him to block me lol)Even as a kindergarten teacher, the man should be able to spell and write better. Jeez... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 10:21 PM |
| 8 | AITA post, I’m speechless.Unfortunately, it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 11:50 PM |
| 8 | Queens, you are never a man's incubator. NEVER!Oooo that is a nice movie! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 11:45 PM |
| 10 | AITA post, I’m speechless.It’s actually quite the opposite. The luckiest 5% of the girls end up arrange-married to actual good men, and that is honestly just numbers and luck at play, not any particular great feat of research or discernment on the part of the parents. The girl often has no say whatsoever in this, unfortunately in urban areas as much as rural ones. Nothing except the urban highest classes afford women some kind of independence in making marriage decisions, and not even then always. Also, once married, the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 11:37 PM |
| 5 | Another 40+ LVM for your pleasure.. as fun as it is to scour my past screenshots for you ladies this is just depressing and remind me why I'm so happy to be off the apps!Oh my gawwwwwd this is brilliant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Shower Thought: We Actually Don’t Have A choice but to like Tall GuysThis is exactly how my preference has shifted. I feel as though smaller women would do less damage, if they suddenly flip. It sounds pathetic but eh, it’s just experience at this point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 09:14 AM |
| 6 | Some of them are _married_ to these men, smh.This was the worst, easily. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 09:09 PM |
| 8 | Some of them are _married_ to these men, smh.Oh they are not laughing. You can definitely see the hurt in some of their faces. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 09:08 PM |
| 15 | CLOWN MOMENT: my ex who i have blocked on everything stalks me on reddit to warn me about the evil monsters at FDSWow. Woaaaaaaaaaaaaowwwwwwww. What a loser, smh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 12:53 PM |
| 111 | CLOWN MOMENT: my ex who i have blocked on everything stalks me on reddit to warn me about the evil monsters at FDSMods can we pleaaaaaaaaase get a ‘Fuck off, Adam’ flair? This shit’s biblical!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 12:52 PM |
| 31 | Currently not workingThis man is a dentist. As in, he went through enough schooling and then followed it up with dental school, and this is still how he is. Some people are so ignorant that even education can’t change them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 12:49 PM |
| 4 | Might be a repost, but just in case it hasn’t been here before:This, this, this. Recently had a friend tell me the exact same thing in some detail after she read a book detailing the same in Europe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/20 02:07 PM |
| 13 | HOLY SHIT! FDS made the Wall Street Journal!I could weep for joy at how reasonable this article is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/20 04:20 PM |
| 2 | LVM actually believe their own bullshitLouder for the pick-Mes in the back! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Not wrong. Classic LVM.Lmao this is gold. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/20 03:04 PM |
| 5 | I need your help. I know the answer but i need to hear it.Goodies. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 04:05 PM |
| 3 | At what point do I break up with him?Every word of this, OP. This is exactly what you need. I hope you choose yourself here. Because if you don’t opt out of this relationship, you’re deciding against your own good, really. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 04:04 PM |
| 14 | I need your help. I know the answer but i need to hear it.(Get home safe, fren) x | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 01:20 PM |
| 2 | Girlfriend dumps boyfriend who encourages her to stop losing weight because it made him insecure, and goes on to healthier life goals. Cue her now with a supportive husband and healthy lifestyle.Ahahaha, oh I completely forgot to put up the non-metric measurements. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 09:21 AM |
| 8 | Girlfriend dumps boyfriend who encourages her to stop losing weight because it made him insecure, and goes on to healthier life goals. Cue her now with a supportive husband and healthy lifestyle.This, exactly this. I’ve spent a lifetime battling bulimia, with a father who force-Fed me to keep me fat, and an abusive ex who pressurized me horribly to lose weight. I’ve left everyone who did or said anything bad for my self image behind in that decade. Fuck. That. Fuck the lot of them. I have no space in my life and my healing for people, ‘friends’ or ‘family’ who profess to care and only ever sabotaged me. Going to the gym was the best thing for you to do because you wanted to do it. Takin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 07:36 PM |
| 3 | TIL Prohibiting full, unauthorized access to my vagina is hate speech.This. People have to prove themselves deserving of the time and effort a debate or even a conversation will entail. Otherwise, not worth it. (I’m trying very hard to follow this these days. 😄) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 02:33 PM |
| 18 | Girlfriend dumps boyfriend who encourages her to stop losing weight because it made him insecure, and goes on to healthier life goals. Cue her now with a supportive husband and healthy lifestyle.Girl- same! I hit 85 last year but I did it under my own terms, almost as a show of rebellion to everyone who was controlling my eating habits. I’d decided that I’d start losing it when I decided on my own to change things, and not for people who were nagging me nonstop. And that’s what I did. Hit 65 this year, but gained some back because I was losing too much suddenly and that wasn’t very healthy. I’m hovering around 70 now, but I’m working on losing again, slower this time. Thin may not be au… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 02:16 PM |
| 11 | Girlfriend dumps boyfriend who encourages her to stop losing weight because it made him insecure, and goes on to healthier life goals. Cue her now with a supportive husband and healthy lifestyle.Thank you! I was looking for the English version but it was annoying on mobile. 😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 12:36 PM |
| 2 | this may be controversial - should FDS members re-post from MGTOW ?I’d add to this: we shouldn’t. MGTOW is exactly the breed of men that we want to not even acknowledge. Block, erase, and move on is the formula for dealing with them IRL. So why on earth should we go through their warped mindsets and posts, either? They’re going to be warped and twisted, they’re MGTOW. Theres nothing for us to learn there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 01:47 PM |
| 4 | Examples of HVM in mediaOh Jason mamoa all the way! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 01:32 PM |
| 31 | Once you defeat all the Pickmeishas, you have to battle the Queen.I read this earlier. It didn’t seem like a woman wrote this at ALL. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Which other subreddits have made a positive contribution to your life?r/awwducational and r/GetMotivated tops. Also r/QuotePorn. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 09:56 PM |
| 3 | Squirtmeisha: Used on/off in FWB for four years, dumps LVM, lets him back in a year later.This reads like a troll. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 09:53 PM |
| 14 | What are your opinions on dating coworkers?It’s definitely a plan for disaster. Don’t shit where you eat, period. Even more than the proverb, though, there’s plenty of other factors to consider. A fragile or bruised ego on his side at the end or for whatever reason could have disastrous professional consequences for you, real and reputational. Remember, dick is abundant and of low value. Simply go about finding one that does not draw a paycheck where you do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 09:52 PM |
| 1 | So this has been playing out over r/AITA. Cheapskate man fights fiancée over her buying herself a decent wedding dress, tells her to get it from Wish, posts on Reddit about it, gets roasted and found out. Turns out he’s lying, and she’s caught him ankle-deep in it.Exactly. It’s a fair suspicion right now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 03:17 AM |
| 1 | So this has been playing out over r/AITA. Cheapskate man fights fiancée over her buying herself a decent wedding dress, tells her to get it from Wish, posts on Reddit about it, gets roasted and found out. Turns out he’s lying, and she’s caught him ankle-deep in it.Oh perfect. :-/ I hope the fallout leaves her out of it. :-/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 09:49 PM |
| 19 | French/European women of FDS: Advice for an American woman dealing with Parisian men?Just my two cents, tourists in general and Americans in particular are seen as eaaaasssy pickings. And if you’re kinda brown, that’ll throw the people looking to cross a country off their map on the list as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 05:35 PM |
| 4 | So this has been playing out over r/AITA. Cheapskate man fights fiancée over her buying herself a decent wedding dress, tells her to get it from Wish, posts on Reddit about it, gets roasted and found out. Turns out he’s lying, and she’s caught him ankle-deep in it.From what she said, it’s off. It really sounds like he got exposed at the last minute. But there’s a fairly strong doubt that it’s the same person pretending to be both, because their writing style is ridiculously similar. I can’t imagine going so far for attention, if that’s the case. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 04:23 PM |
| 3 | So this has been playing out over r/AITA. Cheapskate man fights fiancée over her buying herself a decent wedding dress, tells her to get it from Wish, posts on Reddit about it, gets roasted and found out. Turns out he’s lying, and she’s caught him ankle-deep in it.Ahaha I love your name. 😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 03:06 PM |
| 18 | So this has been playing out over r/AITA. Cheapskate man fights fiancée over her buying herself a decent wedding dress, tells her to get it from Wish, posts on Reddit about it, gets roasted and found out. Turns out he’s lying, and she’s caught him ankle-deep in it.It certainly seemed almost bizarre. He posted again, changing the names and ages this time, but from the same account. So either this is an incredibly thick person who she luckily dodged, or someone playing the husband and the wife for internet points. Because I have trouble fully believing he can be this dense and be 43 and for all other purposes, functional in life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 12:32 PM |
| 65 | So this has been playing out over r/AITA. Cheapskate man fights fiancée over her buying herself a decent wedding dress, tells her to get it from Wish, posts on Reddit about it, gets roasted and found out. Turns out he’s lying, and she’s caught him ankle-deep in it.The other post on her profile was her offering to give her engagement ring away to someone who needs it. There was the most kickass comment under there, telling her to sell the ring and have a vacation with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 10:46 AM |
| 20 | So over these ‘nice guys’...🙄100% he assumed negging you would provoke you into coming down to meet him and prove your point. Ick. What a waste of good oxygen these types are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 08:30 AM |
| 9 | Another LVM complaining that he can’t just hook up and flirt. They all want marriage...! I think you are the problem...‘All look and no Touch’, lol, this reads like Satire. And he basically gives away the actually problem right there: they’re too picky. Aka, sad pants here is not making the cut. 😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 11:26 AM |
| 25 | Literally ewJust a belly. Big, floppy belly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 11:22 AM |
| 28 | Dating hurdles specific to where you live? How do you get past that?I personally think that the catcalling and being creep/never actually approaching go completely hand in hand. Apes together- strong! My best dating experiences have been in Australia. The guys there were a lot more open. A lot more crazies in the mix, but they are very easy to spot, so that helps. USA was so-so. In fact, in USA, I’d say the ethnicity of the guy made the difference, more than the fact of them being American. And South Asia... ugh. It has gotten to the point where I loathe south A… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/20 11:20 AM |
| 4 | Found this load of utter hooey online. This is straight up TRP teachings.I quite literally skipped from #9 to the bottom of the page to confirm if there was a massive #DO THE OPPOSITE OF ALL THIS at the end. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 10:09 PM |
| 4 | Found this load of utter hooey online. This is straight up TRP teachings.Ugh, ikr? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 10:08 PM |
| 3 | Found this load of utter hooey online. This is straight up TRP teachings.are* | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 04:34 PM |
| 1 | ( repost bc i forgot to block out username ) he sent me pictures of his penis almost daily and he thinks i’m the annoying one for implying he has no friends for a reasonThis belongs in r/BrandNewSentence, lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 02:41 PM |
| 3 | What did you ladies get for Christmas?Gotta Love Molton Brown, though. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 02:38 PM |
| 8 | On a post about a poor pregnant woman whose boyfriend is porn sick. A quick look at the comment history from this person shows, surprise: male FDS lurker who comments ‘so bitter’.Post for reference: https://www.reddit.com/r/PornFreeRelationships/comments/eg13q5/my_26f_boyfriend_30_says_he_doesnt_want_to_have/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 07:13 PM |
| 29 | New Year's Resolution : Drop your pickmeisha friends.This. FDS has massively helped me change my POV on so many things. And I’ve in turn shown three of my girlfriends the subreddit, each of whom loved it. This is how we make our way out of pickmeishaville. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/19 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Just a little message to everyone wondering if they should send that message/respond to that half-assed attempt/maybe give it one more shot, because the holidays are hard times to manage sometimes.Not sure if I can put links here, but I wanted to leave credit to the author. She’s CheerfulNihilism on Instagram. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 01:07 PM |
| 6 | Can't tell if im over exaggeratingThis this this this this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 01:03 PM |
| 8 | Male friends?I’m in a place right now where, after an entire life of having had more male friends than girlfriends, I’ve recently culled half of my close male friends’ names off my ‘list’, so to speak. And the reasons for this are as follows. I GREw up being abused. My first two relationships were with abusive men, both who was emotionally and psychologically abusive, the second was actually my best friend for four years (during my relationship with the first man, and during my recovery period after I grew s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/19 03:13 PM |
| 116 | My profile stated my love language is “receiving gifts”You don’t respond. An ant has no argument with a boot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 09:44 PM |
| 1 | FDS was the first place to tell me to remove him from my dating pool, and it was completely the right choice. Now I’m debating whether we should even stay friends.You’re right. Thank you for reinforcing this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 11:27 PM |
| 2 | FDS was the first place to tell me to remove him from my dating pool, and it was completely the right choice. Now I’m debating whether we should even stay friends.Thank you. You’re right, I need more work on this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 11:26 PM |
| 1 | FDS was the first place to tell me to remove him from my dating pool, and it was completely the right choice. Now I’m debating whether we should even stay friends.You’re completely right. I should be focusing on this more. He should be the more worldly one here, all things considered. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 11:26 PM |
| 5 | FDS was the first place to tell me to remove him from my dating pool, and it was completely the right choice. Now I’m debating whether we should even stay friends.You’re right. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 11:25 PM |
| 11 | FDS was the first place to tell me to remove him from my dating pool, and it was completely the right choice. Now I’m debating whether we should even stay friends.Thank you so much. The more I read the comments here, the more I think about it, the stronger I feel about this. This guy should have been my friend. Instead he weaponised my recent trauma to fit whatever opportunity he’d been waiting for, or whatever opening he’d needed. That’s no friend I need. Thank you so much. I really, honestly truly appreciate your words of support. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 11:24 PM |
| 16 | FDS was the first place to tell me to remove him from my dating pool, and it was completely the right choice. Now I’m debating whether we should even stay friends.I honestly can’t even look him in the eye in a video call anymore. I’m so disappointed in him, and I’m so disappointed in my own self, that I didn’t cut things off way before. I kept trying to politely give him toned down answers in the hopes that he’d catch on. Because he always was that sensitive before. I should have been blunt and clear from the moment I felt disrespected. I kept thinking, he’ll pick up on it, he’s distracted. And kept giving him excuses in our conversations. I’m really as d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 01:21 PM |
| 31 | Indian social media is in shock due to a young woman doctor brutally raped and burnt to death in the city of Hyderabad, meanwhile her name is now the top most searched thing on Indian porn sites as men are searching for porn video of her rape and tortureThe entire stock is toxic. I can name four or five decent Indian men I’ve known, out of a pool of hundreds. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/19 09:20 PM |
| 6 | Buzzfeed Manages To Find The Only 14 Women On All of Earth That Are “Unfazed” By A MicropenisGoldicock! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/19 01:49 PM |
| 2 | Tips on filtering men based on dick size?Seconded. Jeeeeeeez that was weird. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/19 09:13 AM |
| 3 | Ladies, I need some clarity again.Thank you for saying this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/10/19 07:18 PM |
| 2 | How do you assert a need for respect?Thank you for your response. I think something went a little misinterpreted here. I wasn’t talking about being on tinder. I’ve never even been on tinder, lol. 😅 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/19 02:22 PM |
| 16 | Let men know when they disappoint youLiterally happened to me over the last few months. After the last ghosting acting, I got a ‘Sorry, last week was really busy again’ after a week’s radio silence right in the middle of a conversation (after another ten days of RS). I replied with, ‘Silence is an answer too.’ Got a vague ‘sorry’ and nothing more since. 💁🏻♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/19 08:12 PM |
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