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2	Need help with visualizing success and overcoming fear of public rejection I completely get your point my guy and this is gonna sound anti productive but dont become outcome dependent, Meaning dont see a girl or speak to a girl with the goal of getting sex. You should interact for the fact that it is fun and things will escalate themselves. I would recommend learning body language as it gives you an indicator how interested a person is with you and gives you a better idea of when to escalate things with touch ect. Another benefit is that it will improve your own body l…	/r/seduction	17/01/20 10:22 AM
14	How should you “hit on”/ask someone out when they are surrounded by friends? Hmmm I fully get your point on not wanting to interrupt the time also being the waiter everyone would stop to listen to you. Tbh I would of asked her for her number by saying I enjoyed serving the table and would like your number, give the bill to the girl you were interested in and take it from there. I get your point on not wanting to make a move and I am completely the same when surrounded by friends even at other scenes (club / braai / bbq). Instead of trying to make a move rather secure the…	/r/seduction	13/01/20 09:04 AM
2	Im (18M) terrible at conversations&flirting. How can I improve? Udemy has plenty as well and can be fairly cheap, Good luck bro	/r/seduction	31/10/19 08:55 AM
1	Im (18M) terrible at conversations&flirting. How can I improve? Body language opened my eyes to holding eye contact to gain more favour, show confidence (which makes me feel confident, which makes me interact confident, which makes you more attractive) Generally when I feel confident I dont have to struggle to think of what to say or panic and lose my thoughts because I'm worried how am I being perceived. Forced me to step out of my comfort zone and actually engage in touch and close the distance when interacting, Gave me the confidence to actually go for th…	/r/seduction	28/10/19 05:20 PM
2	Im (18M) terrible at conversations&flirting. How can I improve? No my dude I'm crediting everything I learnt, body language and social skills Both topics go hand in hand You can find it hard to believe but this wasnt a one month crash course, I have been putting years into self improving. The most effort and attention I have spent is the body language side of things. Even if you go now and learn good social skills, how to be charismatic and get people to like you. Regardless of what course or video you watch they will tell you to look at body language or wil…	/r/seduction	28/10/19 04:36 PM
1	Im (18M) terrible at conversations&flirting. How can I improve? My comment to another post on social skills: I fully understand you man, I have had the same problem, with that being said this is the things I have picked up: 1) You get three type of questions you can ask: - closed question - open question - statement Closed question: These are question that you could answer with yes or no. You want to avoid these types of questions when speaking to her. It gives her opportunity to find the convo boring, lose attention and put you in an awkward silence. Closed…	/r/seduction	28/10/19 04:25 PM
2	Im (18M) terrible at conversations&flirting. How can I improve? As you can see I mention body language makes up about 60 - 93 % of an interaction the remainder is verbal (what is spoken, text) 3 days of texting is good but you will not build better rapport or trust building compared to a day of face to face communication. You can use body language to build a connection with touch and other ways and that's how you can communicate more effectively without saying extra words or learning catch phrases. Also most people run out of things to say because they are c…	/r/seduction	28/10/19 04:15 PM
1	Im (18M) terrible at conversations&flirting. How can I improve? If you have some cash take the time out to buy a body language course, There are plenty of resources online and can google both body language and social skills and find plenty of tips and information. My only advice is dont try and implement everything at once but practice the things you learn and introduce them slowly as you keep practicing	/r/seduction	27/10/19 01:30 PM
1	Im (18M) terrible at conversations&flirting. How can I improve? Its always a good idea to self improve, Conversation comes with two types non verbal verbal And non verbal to verbal can be anywhere between 60 - 40 up to 93 - 7 So I would recommend learning body language to improve your non verbal and to read how people feel in the moments of your interaction. This is a very powerful skill once learnt and implemented properly and can give you more confidence in keeping a conversation going. The second tip I recommend is to learn social skills, The different ty…	/r/seduction	27/10/19 11:18 AM
1	books that will help you improve your game TAO Badass (The are of badass), This was a great start for myself and would recommend and might give you guidance on what specifically you want to improve or need to	/r/seduction	02/09/19 12:47 PM