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Do I go out of my way to help a friend or cut it out of my life completely? If she is just a former LTR - why not be a human and just tell her the massive cons of her current path? Don't get more involved than setting her down the one time. Her problems can't be yours, but there is nothing against RP in talking to someone. After the talk -- begin to distance yourself. I wouldn't accept discount hookups because you never know when crazy is going to come knocking.
/r/askTRP05/07/17 04:19 PM
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My girl makes the rare comment about her weight, but she is not very down on herself. I have told her more than once that when I hit 185lbs I will start talking with her about her weight. This has created a low level dread as I am slowly cutting from 200lbs down. She even comments that soon she will need to get serious. I just say, "yep". Some other suggestions for your situation: Let's go to the gym together beginning tomorrow don't eat after 8pm - that might help don't snack skip one meal a da…
/r/askTRP03/07/17 03:06 PM
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But why is she still interested? Relationship momentum. How do I have a conversation with a therapist in a very TRP manner? Man or woman? There is no TRP manner. You will be very open with a counselor. Don't discuss TRP. Holding frame is always a good idea, but you can feel free to turn many other things down a notch or two. For example, you will need to explain yourself to a counselor so they can do their work. A good counselor will call you out on bullshit. I would use a female counselor. I ju…
/r/askTRP22/02/17 06:29 PM
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Any experience/insight you can provide is great. Above all else - maintain frame. Secondly, outcome independence is critical. Third - DEER like you life depends on it. When she says something hurtful or angry - just keep moving forward. If she accuses you of paying a tranny for blowjobs in the garage - don't respond. DEER. She will try to trigger you. There is absolutely zero upside to engage her. Certainly, you will never win an argument on logic as she is going to view you through the lens of …
/r/askTRP22/02/17 06:06 PM
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Something else to consider: Many women take it personally if a guy can't or won't fuck her. I promise that she took it personal that you couldn't get up for her. Most likely she feels that you were not attracted to her. She may feel less sexy around you. During the movie you were playing around with her but you were not serious. You wanted to watch the movie. She may have felt that you just don't find her sexy/attractive. Your actions - no erection, not escalating - look similar to not being att…
/r/askTRP22/02/17 05:17 PM
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Solid advice.
/r/askTRP22/02/17 05:09 PM
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I met a girl who likes me for me. No. She likes you for how you make her feel. When you stop making her feel the tingles - she will begin to drift away. I had told her about my virginity and it was like the weight of the world came off my shoulders. I hope you didn't cry. Did you cry? If you cried don't do it again. Try to avoid discussing your fears and failures. A woman can be a great person to discuss these things - but while doing it she will be in "mother" mode. That will lower how see sees…
/r/askTRP22/02/17 05:08 PM
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Why do you worry so much about what your co-workers think of your love life? Plan your exit. From now on keep your phone ready to record video at all times. Better yet, use an app like Presence to turn several cheap phones into security cameras. The moment she starts losing it - record everthing. Break up with this chick. Chads at the company DGAF. Seriously, what does this have to do with you? There are Chads at every company. Rents are also super high and if I leave the place I'm in right now,…
/r/askTRP15/02/17 05:38 PM
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Time... that is up to you. I grew up in a conservative religious environment. If your girl had a similar upbringing she may never go totally off the deep end. 25 year old virgins are common in religious settings. Too often people living The Red Pill think AWALT means the same thing as All Women Will Do That.... nope. Totally different things. I know women that have had multiple partners, but only a single ONS. They felt "bad" after the sex. Religion can be a powerful psychological motivator. Wha…
/r/askTRP15/02/17 03:48 PM
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How do you balance that? I pay attention to comfort tests versus shit tests and use push/pull extensively. If I get too many comfort tests or more significant comfort tests then I know I have pushed a little too hard. Recently, we were out to dinner and she wanted to "talk". Fine. Whatever. Suddenly, she got teary-eyed, a little choked up and ended up blurting out that she feels dismissed. I asked a few probing questions and I figured out that I had accidentally ran my dread game, DGAF and abund…
/r/askTRP08/02/17 06:54 PM
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How did I fuck myself? An LRT is difficult to maintain frame and other RP principles all the time. It's so easy to relax a little and if your GF is in the wrong mood - SHIT TESTS will happen. I prefer LTRs so I practice RP regularly. Here are a few things I noticed based upon what you wrote: and my beta quickly took over Right from the beginning you fucked up. No worries, it happens to everyone. Having an Abundance Mentality yet still being respectful enough to keep a LTR is a balancing act. Ove…
/r/askTRP07/02/17 10:03 PM
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Perhaps. I would try all the other options first. Especially drink lots of water, exercise and sleep.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 09:26 PM
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I swear, Viagra seems to just clear the pipes. After one or two Viagra pills (25mb or split in half) -- I don't need anything for the next week.
/r/askTRP07/02/17 08:57 PM
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Echoing other comments - you need therapy. I experienced a similar childhood: physical, sexual, emotional abuse, I have sleep problems, ADHD, slight anxiety and some of what you labeled 'brain fog'. I ended up marrying someone and gave her control over my life and she chewed me up and spit me out 20 years later. Allow me to school you on how I have taken back my life: Therapy: Visit different therapists until you find one that works for you. They are NOT all the same. You need to have an experie…
/r/askTRP07/02/17 08:49 PM
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Let's see... .Look for a buff, 108lbs asian, mid-40's with big boobs. That will be my ex-wife. If she hasn't changed since when we were married all you will need to do is have a very nice smile and large cock. Also +1 to FlexGunship for the comment about 105 octane shit tests. I stumbled into a few of my ex's selfie videos and text messages - massive, MASSIVE shit tests. The Cougar rewards the Alpha well.
/r/askTRP02/02/17 03:26 AM
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Sure, bro. You seem like an RP expert. LOL
/r/askTRP01/02/17 12:33 AM
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Not crazy... just a woman.
/r/askTRP01/02/17 12:28 AM
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Nothing in RP says you can't have a LTR. It fits my life.
/r/askTRP01/02/17 12:28 AM
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I hope it's send a stupid dog pic.... and then act like Trump because that's what I did.
/r/askTRP01/02/17 12:00 AM
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LOL. Grab her! I sent her a stupid picture of a dog. When she responds I will invite her to get laid tomorrow.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 11:48 PM
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Great idea - going out tonight without her. Thanks
/r/askTRP31/01/17 11:47 PM
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Thanks! BDay cat followed up by alpha text when she invariably questions the cat.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 11:43 PM
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Got it. I like the part, "do whatever you would normally do". Since that means she comes over for Wednesday sex. I will run that one up the flagpole.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 11:38 PM
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Aweseome, dude. The Red Pill in an LTR is challenging. It's so easy to lapse or get mentally tired.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 11:36 PM
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Great advice. I needed this reminder.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 11:12 PM
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legbeard Ha! I had to look that one up. I prefer to keep her since it fits my current lifestyle of recently divorce raped, 3 kids and trying to build my business. I have regular, kinky sex that is pretty good.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 11:06 PM
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but if you don't then it might make her think being a cunt is ok I know, right? The politics thing caught me off-guard and instead of being stoic and simply stating my position and not engaging - I spoke with her like I would someone I don't give a shit about. Meaning, I discussed my opinions and backed them up. I see my mistake, but I need a TRP way to get myself out of my own jam.
/r/askTRP31/01/17 11:03 PM
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ffs don't go in and preach AWALT. LOL. Oh, to be a fly on the wall when that triggering would happen.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 05:08 PM
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Like others have said - now is not the time to take a position and preach. Be stoic, do what needs to be done to get an 'A' and get out. This is very similar to sleeping with co-workers or other shit-where-you-eat activities. Be cool like Bond.
/r/askTRP25/01/17 03:17 PM
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Everything regarding Actuarial Science that I mentioned is as it relates to the USA. I have no clue about Brazil. It's hard to say about Trump. So much misinformation from both sides. Just have to wait and see.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 06:03 PM
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which is also what single moms do... urgh... LOL - hey, learning TRP is a process. This is a good moment.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 05:27 PM
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The number of actuary jobs is not large in the US compared to other professions. With actuarial jobs it's all about the exams. If you graduate and have a few passed exams - you can get a job. Super easy. Keeping the job requires you to continue to pass exams. Once you pass enough exams to become an Associate - you are set. Most actuaries have college degree's in things like math, stats or even actuarial science, but I know of other people with completely unrelated degrees - all companies care ab…
/r/askTRP23/01/17 05:26 PM
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What do you think? It's not as hot as it used to be because tons of people jumped in about 10 years ago. So, it's a bit saturated, but if you complete all the exams and become a Fellow Actuary you are still very much in demand. Many/most actuaries can't complete all the exams and it's become popular for some of these actuaries to jump into big data analytics where they do very well. Actuaries know more than just high math and stats. They have their own version of the CPA and must know a ton of s…
/r/askTRP23/01/17 04:56 PM
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Neither - if you can do engineering you might be able to handle Actuarial Science. My cheating ex was a stay at home mom for 17 years. After the divorce she spent 10 months studying (on my dime), took an exam and landed a job for $119k. Granted, she had other exams under her belt but the point is this - how many other professions can you leave for 17 years and then step back into 6 figures? If she continues to pass exams her income will rise well above $150k.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 04:10 PM
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When I do find a ONS/hook up/whatever I really like... It sounds like you're hunting for a potential LTR through a series of ONS. It's not going to happen. You're unicorn hunting. Question: how do I fix this loophole in my psychology ? I don't believe you have anything to fix other than continue to read the sidebar. ONS validates, but great sex comes from a bit of familiarity.
/r/askTRP23/01/17 04:03 PM
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Correct. Some are trolls. I should have been clearer. I felt this guy was looking for help.
/r/askTRP20/01/17 02:33 PM
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If your date is anything like my ex-wife all you need is a hard body and quick smile. Oh, I guess it doesn't hurt if you give her compliments, pull her hair and take a lot of pics so her husband friends can find them. Seriously, AWALT. Just treat her like any woman. Mostly likely she will go wild for a younger body so all you need to do is smell good.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 04:34 PM
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^ This happened to me. Except she rode the CC with 4 or 5 young gym studs. Took pics and vids of the events and I found it. She took everything because I wanted to buy my way out of a lifetime of alimony. I am 48 and financially starting over. It sucks. Do not get married.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 10:23 PM
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I don't believe they are trolls. When BP society creeps too much into a marriage and swinging, cuckolding or hot wife happens --- most marriages fall to pieces. Then, the man looks for help. Finds RP and begins to change.
/r/askTRP09/01/17 06:12 PM
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+1 so true... oh, so true.
/r/askTRP15/12/16 07:24 PM
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How do I get her out of this mindset? Alcohol.
/r/askTRP15/12/16 05:51 PM
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She might, but who cares? Sex doesn't need to be a 90 minute roll. She should say, "I have to study, but I can take a 15 minute break". AWALT.
/r/askTRP15/12/16 05:49 PM
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Watch some Conor McGregor youtube videos for tips on how to verbally handle another man.
/r/askTRP01/12/16 04:21 PM
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girl is increasingly acting depraved I have been noticing this with my girl. She has a decent career, voted Hillary and has a touch of feminism (just a touch). The more I am with her the more crazy things are getting. I can't smack her butt hard enough because it begins to hurt my hand. So - upgrading to a belt. Slap face, boobs.... hard anal. Now, she yelled out something about doing mommy in the ass and when I said 'mommy' she absolutely freaked out (good way). Outside the bedroom she is compl…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 04:01 PM
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Yes, but what are your options? No sex?
/r/askTRP17/11/16 03:44 AM
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The most important aspect of slut identification is to be open and non-judgmental of slut behavior. Then, you subtly ask questions - over time. Remember - if they are divorced they may have developed incredible bj skills or other kinky habits within the marriage. So, keep in mind her overall background.
/r/askTRP16/11/16 06:45 PM
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You should be concerned, but not worried. Only worry when something disastrous happens. For example: Before settling on a LTR (which I might be ending soon) - I was bouncing between a few plates. I went for anal on one. She was into it bunt asked for missionary style. It was feeling AWESOME. I should have known. The position tugged on the condom and it ripped. I was basically raw-dogging it. This is when you worry. I got tested 6 weeks later and was fine.
/r/askTRP16/11/16 05:35 PM
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This is just how it works for me... Not trying to claim it works for everyone. Well, maybe the squat part. To prevent: Don't kiss sick women Get enough sleep. Eat a balanced diet with plenty of veggies Drink plenty of water Don't push your body too far If I am sick: Do squats Get extra sleep Take vitamin C supplements Drink plenty of water Eat light foods (salad)
/r/askTRP16/11/16 05:29 PM
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Dread. It's time to start your dread game. Follow the steps. This has a natural Red Pill outcome where as you increase the dread she will either follow you and your lead or you will move on. I now have an exclusive relationship because it works with my lifestyle. When we first began dating she refused to grow long hair and did not go to the gym. Now, she is growing her hair out and hitting the gym 3 times a week. Dread works. Remember, keeping frame is part of dread.
/r/askTRP11/11/16 04:52 PM
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+1 for Actuary Science
/r/askTRP09/11/16 05:33 PM
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Some people gathered around me and made fun of me. Work on being Outcome Independent. DGAF. I was in pain and I could barely do my 12 reps. Yes, you will experience pain. Keep good form so you don't injure yourself. There is a significant difference between pain and injury. Do sets of 5. Look up 5x5 workouts - Stronglifts.
/r/askTRP08/11/16 02:34 PM
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Can you afford a personal trainer? It sounds like you need a lot of help and a good trainer can give you a massive head start on learning how things work. Lifting heavy is for everyone. It does not mean you have to do isolation dumbbell curls with 70lbs - it means you find a weight that is heavy (5 reps) for you. So, start with 5lbs... then work your way up.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 09:31 PM
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I have not been taking them long enough to know. I use just 1/2 a pill and have never even noticed the common, no problematic side effects - other than it's easy to gain and maintain an erection.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 08:51 PM
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I was having a similar problem of going soft multiple times. Although, I made sure to take care of her, but that's a different discussion. 1/2 of a Viagra has made an incredible difference. No more going soft. Now, I have the experience, patience, wisdom, emotional insights of a 48 year old man - and with the staying power and hardness of a 25 year old man. Life is good.
/r/askTRP07/11/16 05:20 PM
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Two thoughts: Abundance mentality Outcome Independence Do you really want the hassle of this girl? I promise you she is not worth it because there are 10,000 other girls just around the corner. I would keep the texting to a minimum - something like, "OK. Let's just see what happens". Make your own plans and stick to them. If she wants to come along - fine. If not, you do your thing because it's what you want to do. Live, be free, fuck.
/r/askTRP02/11/16 06:52 PM
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Also, I don't see how I could be viewed as beta...we've had one date. I am not saying you're beta. I am suggesting that she views you as potential beta. If she was into you she would not leave you hanging. Of course, you can't rule out the text version of a shit test. No joke - minutes after I responded to you and the girl I mentioned sent me a text. Maybe it's more of a shit test... Hold frame, brother. Hold frame.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 04:53 PM
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in my experience, when the girl initiates texting, let alone suggest another meetup, she's definitely interested. She is lining up her beta options. I had this happen to me. Girl texts and even calls immediately after the date. I respond, giving a couple options for a 2nd date -- nothing. Maybe 10 days later she sends a texts saying, "Hey, I haven't heard from you in a while". Girls who are into you wont confuse you -- Rollo Tomassi
/r/askTRP01/11/16 03:57 PM
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If you care more than her, then you've already lost. This is so true - I wish I knew it 20+ years ago.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/16 05:11 AM
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She is not into you. Time to move on.
/r/askTRP24/10/16 03:14 PM
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I would not have been waiting 3 months if I didn't have an LTR. I viewed the chase as a fun challenge - how to untie the knot and win the prize. Huh, it was more than I expected. Honestly, I can't balance this many plates.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 05:46 PM
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she's probably an alpha widow Yeah. I am not sure he was an alpha lover, but in her eyes - he was a perfect husband. You're spot on regarding him being greater in her eyes. I like what you said about being open to something down the road. That gives me time to gracefully slide away. I don't want any bad karma from gaming a widow.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 05:44 PM
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When my erections began to go away after 5 or 10 minutes of sex. FML.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 03:50 PM
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Thing is I knew she took it seriously - I just wanted another plate. I assumed she was divorced. Looking back, she did use wording that I should have questioned. Obviously, I am stuck on some kind of self-imposed morality. I do like what you said and maybe will twist it a little - "We are just two grownups having fun". Then GHOST.
/r/askTRP18/10/16 03:32 PM
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If you don't mind me asking, how much did your divorce affect you emotionally? Honestly, I thought I would die. It was by far the worse experience of my life. It was as if a loved one died, then reappeared each day as a stranger and then died again. Just thinking about those days with the dark oily voices speaking unmentionable things.... makes my chest tighten up with anxiety. Of course, after a few months things got better and I am so much happier now than I ever was in my marriage. Let me rep…
/r/askTRP18/10/16 03:05 PM
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DGAF and when in doubt - keep your mouth shut.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 08:35 PM
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A couple of the red flags relating to ONS and LTR: Impulsivity - is the ONS just AWALT or does she have some serious impulsiveness control. Will she be out with friends and hop on Chad? N-Count - A string of ONS will run that N-count up real fast. Damaged/Mental - A woman that has a lot of ONS may just be broken mentally. Best to avoid. I mean most men that get divorced have as many ONS as possible, i dont see why its a red flag. Men and women are different when it comes to sex.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 08:32 PM
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DGAF. Regarding the letter you don't really need to say more than, "That's nice." Outcome Independence. If going to the reunion is something you want to do and you will never lose frame. Then do it. Otherwise... DGAF. It's been 30 years. You have moved on a long time ago. So long ago that you should never, ever mentioned to anyone that you have moved on. Your behavior should tell that story.
/r/askTRP17/10/16 07:56 PM
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AWALT. This does not mean that every woman has the exact same reasons for behaving in a certain manner. There is a lot of discussion of women in their 20's and 30's, but not so much of women in their 40's. My LTR came out of a 13 year marriage. She was raised in a conservative culture (asian) and married her first real boyfriend - the guy that took her virginity. Now... she is 42 and N-count is 4 including me. One of those is a ONS that happened some time after the divorce. At first I was bother…
/r/askTRP17/10/16 07:45 PM
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Yes. I survived a few small shit tests, have maintained frame and avoid appearing needy. I have done a few small things that accidentally created a low-level of dread. Nothing major, but enough that she is trying to be good. So far, she is great. Sex all the time. Any way I want. She is working on swallowing and taking anal longer. She has a good career and we take turns paying for dinner or events. She does plan a few things, but I tend to lead on most dates. That said --- it's just my turn. At…
/r/askTRP17/10/16 04:44 PM
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How about your 9+ with no N counts? Mormons.
/r/askTRP07/10/16 05:54 PM
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What's most important to her is having a monopoly on your comittment and resources. As long as nothing has changed in that regard, and you didn't contract any STDs, you'd only be hurting her by telling her. This is spot on. My LTR got all serious one time and told me that if I cheat, just be careful and to never tell her. While I have not cheated, I keep my eyes open and my mouth shut.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 05:01 PM
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This is YOUR cross to bear. Perfect.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 04:57 PM
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I am in a LTR involving BDSM... fairly rough. Not using a safe word nor even just calling out, "stop!" and then later using the "R" word.... This is a massive red flag. Do you leave bruises or marks? Be careful. I would have emailed or video taped conversations where the BDSM is discussed along with the safe word concept.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 04:54 PM
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She said the convo with him and another coworker made her realize she lagged behind coworkers in some knowledge and confirmed I was right when I previously told her to read more. It really could be this simple. You might be over-blowing the situation and exposing your own insecurities.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 04:39 PM
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While it's mostly true that you will have to go through many women to find one that can be a LTR, remember to keep your eyes open at all times. I also have a much stronger sexual experience when there is an emotional connection. I found a very good LTR on like my third different date. Things clicked. Only two shit-tests (not large ones) in 3 months and I lucked out and handled them well. She is educated, works hard, pays for her share of dates (and then some), is submissive in the bedroom, kind.…
/r/askTRP16/09/16 03:33 PM
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A few years ago an orange cat took notice of me on a morning walk. She had no collar and would purr loudly while walking between my legs. She followed me for over a mile back to my house where she lay down on my front steps. After a while I opened my door to see if she was still there and she jumped up and immediately began to purr and rubbed against me. She was so attentive... I started to think she was some kind of special cat. I invited her in my house. She was a super cool cat. So affectiona…
/r/askTRP14/09/16 09:33 PM
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The more I think about the situation - the more I appreciate this comment. Thanks, bro.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 04:27 PM
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She wants to make sure you have enough abundance Thanks for your comment. I probably don't have an abundance, but I do have a pretty good frame and can fake it till I make it.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 03:55 PM
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Just brush it off and ignore the subject if she brings it up. Thanks. That's the plan. It's just a shock when some of these Red Pill theories are so obvious.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 03:52 PM
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Fuck me. TRP is like having religion exposed for a complete fraud and all you're left with is the dark, empty void of eternity. In once sense, I was happier as a blue pill guy, but once the scales fell off my eyes and I swallowed that bitter red pill - it's not possible to go back.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 03:50 PM
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Whatever you do, do not resort to mate-guarding behavior I am going to re-read mate-guarding just to stay refreshed. It's so easy to slide back to a comfort zone... not beta, but not hard TRP either.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 03:47 PM
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you must face the reality that she is not 100% all in with commitment to you. You're probably correct. Sucks. I think I will tap anal tonight just because...
/r/askTRP26/08/16 03:45 PM
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Cool, thanks.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 03:40 PM
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Thankfully I kept frame.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 03:40 PM
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Add to the list of red flags. Crap. Thanks for the insights. I think it's the first one I recognized in our 3 months of dating.
/r/askTRP26/08/16 03:38 PM
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That's good. I will keep these handy.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 08:55 PM
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Thanks. I am beginning to see some of these things also.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 08:39 PM
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you passed Cool. Thanks. Sounds like I got lucky. I knew she was doing something, but I wasn't sure exactly what. I am still learning... at least I knew enough to keep my mouth shut.
/r/askTRP25/08/16 07:58 PM
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