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| 23 | Field Report: Thank You for Getting Me Back on Track! | FIELD REPORT | practicewhatyoulearn | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/03/18 10:24 AM |
| 4 | V-Day; LDR Style! | DISCUSSION | practicewhatyoulearn | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/01/17 07:58 AM |
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| 1 | Feeling resentment for something superficial?Your BF has given you the two most valuable things a high value man can give; his time and committment. Respect that for what it is. You say in your post you 'expect some romantic gestures on special occasions', (ignoring the entitlement behind the word 'expect') a romatic guesture isn't always what you see in movies, you've said yourself 'he has his own way of showing he cares about me'. Surely that's what matters? Not the restaurant or the size of the overpriced flowers? | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/05/18 07:27 PM |
| 1 | Help; I'm working towards my SO's ideal female body type, and beginning to hate my body in the process!I almost want to miss my flight so he doesn't see me like this; physically or mentally. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/12/17 09:52 AM |
| 4 | RPW Fashion/Beauty Week?Hobbies too! | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/05/17 12:57 AM |
| 13 | [Advice] My boyfriend says I "shouldn't count on" his ever falling in love with me?Can you dedicate months or years to the possibility that a man with depression might fall in love with you? Because if your answer is yes, then that has to be it; you cannot hound him about it, you cannot push it - he's given you a statement of facts about how it will be (from his perspective) and if you choose him you will have accept that all you can do is wait and be the best you can be. But that's a lot of effort for potentially very little return - especially when there are undoubtedly othe… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/04/17 12:21 AM |
| 3 | What does the ideal man look like?This is so endearing <3 good luck to you both! (Not that it sounds like you need it) | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/04/17 12:14 AM |
| 3 | Guys like clingy behavior...?If I could upvote this more than once I would - this explained it so perfectly that it finally 'clicked' in my head. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/03/17 07:18 PM |
| 1 | My man is probably considered "low value" but I think he's got a lot of potential.This. 1000x Over! | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/03/17 08:37 PM |
| 22 | What happened to attractive post-wall women you know?Yes. Pls donate your body to science so we can study you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/03/17 11:18 PM |
| 17 | People talking badly of me because of showing affection to fiancéYour superiors are unlikely to say anything to your face. They'll just remember it when it comes time to consider promotions. | /r/RedPillWives | 09/03/17 04:37 AM |
| 3 | 10 ways to keep your marriage strong - The Sunny Side Up BlogI definitely felt this too - it was like she was putting him up for mockery so her readers would have something to laugh over. It seemed a little disrespectful to me :( | /r/RedPillWives | 09/03/17 04:33 AM |
| 1 | THЕ WОMЕN IN THIS FОRUM ARЕ PATHЕTIС BITTЕR LОSЕRS!Seriously? You again? Don't you have something better to do with your life? | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/03/17 06:52 PM |
| 2 | Who pays?This is covered in the Side-Bar - we recommend reading it before posting for a reason. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/02/17 11:24 PM |
| 7 | Has anyone tried Botox?For wanting to reduce the most visible sign of aging? | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/02/17 09:03 AM |
| 7 | Has anyone tried Botox?I'm planning on getting preventative botox for my 22nd birthday around the forehead and crows feet - you know what they say, an ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure. 28 is when collagen production starts to decrease rapidly (and so the skin is less elastic) and the signs of aging start to undeniably show - I'd say it's a good time to invest in it. If it helps, why not? | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/02/17 11:00 PM |
| 1 | I can't stop obsessing over my appearanceIf it helps - do it?!? It doesn't have to transform you into Venus but small changes add up and if lifting could help you tighten up, it's going to raise your SMV. There's no wonder cure that'll make you got from a 5 to a 7. It's lots of small changes, day in and day out. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/02/17 10:15 AM |
| 1 | I can't stop obsessing over my appearanceI don't know where in the world you live, but I've never seen stuff like that. Maybe move?. But if that's your view on the world and life, just accept singledom. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/02/17 10:13 AM |
| – | I don't know how to find guys to date! HelpPlease go be creepy somewhere else. I believe /r/incels is hiring. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/02/17 09:51 AM |
| 74 | Boyfriend was in a relationship first 3 months we were togetherHAAAAAAAAARD NEXT Very Hard Next. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/02/17 09:48 AM |
| 7 | He acts beta toward meHe's a man - he doesn't have time to be worrying about the 'little things' all the time - generally speaking he's going to be focused on the big picture stuff. He doesn't want a sheep that he has to lead through every simple action - especially if he's busy. No captain is going to be worried about the contents of the meal served to his crew, just that it's nutritious and enough to keep them going (both physically and mentally). Thus he's not going to sit the First-mate down and plan a menu with … | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/02/17 07:05 AM |
| 2 | My husband doesn't want to be captainThank you!! I feel like we need to remind the newbies to read the sidebar - the top three posts today all centre around men not leading -.- | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/02/17 08:06 PM |
| 12 | He acts beta toward meHe might also be vetting you for your ability to hold down the ship and plan - be careful you don't mistake delegating for indecisiveness. Also, don't fall into the trap of thinking "RP men lead - thus he should choose where we go for dinner tonight. It's a decision, he should be making it" - Captain's make the big decisions of the ship, the firstmate is wholly in charge of the day to day runnings of the ship so he won't actually be making most of the 'easy' decisions in a relationship; like whe… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/02/17 08:04 PM |
| 3 | From where should I start ?That's potentially confusing advice - RPW is not, and has never been, about being politically correct and saying just 'be yourself' and true love will come. Especially to a woman who, by her own volition said she thought she wanted to be 'an independent woman who don't need no man'. RPW has always been about being the best version of oneself. That doesn't mean theres no need to change - improvement requently requires change. You'd never tell a shrew to 'be yourself' - you'd tell her to changer h… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/02/17 03:35 AM |
| 2 | I can't stop obsessing over my appearanceWell said! This is exactly what I tried to get across. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/02/17 09:37 AM |
| 1 | I can't stop obsessing over my appearanceThe ranking scale (HB1-10) exists for a reason - studies have shown time and time again people look for mates who are similar to them - in religion, education, unbringing and yes looks too. In other words, if you are ugly, you're not going to get Brad Pitt and shock horror you might just have to accept someone in your league. I'm sorry if that upsets you - because you seem disgusted at the prospect of dating someone at the 'bottom of the totem poll' which is honestly surprising, considering you'… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/02/17 06:17 AM |
| 1 | I can't stop obsessing over my appearanceHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA. Okay I'm good - I've got that out of my system. Game works for men, though, as they pursue women and don't really need good looks Usually, I'd never advise this; but have a look at TRP. Their Golden Rule - the first piece of advice they offer - is to LIFT. Do you understand? They know just how important the male body is when it comes to getting a woman. Especially if it's just a plate or ONS. What's more, you proved it this. YOUR OWN POST PROVED THIS IDEA. By saying: you've… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/02/17 06:09 AM |
| 1 | Simple QuestionsThank you :) - I concur with everything you have said! | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/02/17 07:56 AM |
| 2 | Simple QuestionsI worded that poorly when I wrote it; what I meant to communicate was actively looking for a captain does not always equate to dating. In other words, you don't need to go on lots of dates with men you're only marginally interested in because you worry that you're in your prime and have to do this to find a Captain now. Looking for a Captain may require you to first look at yourself and your expectations. Sometimes you will find more success by investing heavily in yourself first, determining wh… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/02/17 05:12 AM |
| 1 | Do you accept that status is important?You've got the subtle difference; a man wants a first-mate who can help handle the storms life throws, not a sassy one who puts their own goals before the future of the ship. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/17 08:48 AM |
| 3 | Do you accept that status is important?I think they're so steadfast in their belief because they feel anything else would undermine their careers and educational achievements. We've grown up with the mantra: 'men like strong independent woman' - thus our careers should only add to our SMV. By saying women are mainly attracted to status, they have to accept the reverse too: that men value looks much higher than a woman's career. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/02/17 05:37 PM |
| – | Simple QuestionsDo you like him? Or do you like the attention he is giving? If you really like him, text - initiating dates is a two way street after the first date imo. If you like the attention (more than you like him as an individual - i.e. Do you spend more time thinking about the traits you admire in him or how he impacts you and your life?; he's really determined when working out! Vs he kept touching my back and hugging me, that must mean he likes me) I'd let him know you're moving on out of respect to hi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/02/17 10:42 PM |
| 2 | Declare your strengths!These are the skills I want to cultivate <3 were you born with them or did you hone them? | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/02/17 07:04 AM |
| 3 | Declare your strengths!Can confirm; your endless patience regarding The Wall was phenomenal. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/02/17 07:01 AM |
| 2 | Declare your flawsI'm in the same boat when it comes to to-do lists! I find it's easier to create one big list (and add to it as required) and then from that list choose the top five that must be completed. Everything else on the list I ignore because they just distract from the top five. Everytime I complete one of the five I replace it with a task from the original list - like a revolving to-do list! | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/01/17 11:18 PM |
| 1 | I can't stop obsessing over my appearanceThere's no such thing as luck, just hard work. Up your game or move cities, simple. Fixing the doom-and-gloom-I'm-ugly-and-I'll-have-to-settle-and-that-makes-me-unhappier vibe would be a good start. Guys can smell that and it's off putting. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/01/17 03:36 AM |
| 1 | I can't stop obsessing over my appearanceOff the internet, very few women become 'invisible' to men after the age of 25. I can't imagine any 40+ man (for example) turning down a women because, shock horror, she turned 25 yesterday! Men prefer younger, that doesn't mean they can actually get younger, and so women 25+ aren't off the cards or 'invisible'. I think most women would agree we'd prefer a billionaire, but we're not going to turn a man down an amazing man just because he isn't one - unless you're some Russian Super model who can… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/01/17 03:28 AM |
| 3 | A small request from a new redpiller regarding petsOnce an accident. Twice a coincidence. Thrice a pattern. Your advice sometimes aligns with that of RPW values. Others it's so far from it and accepted norms that people withdraw and think the only way someone could hold these opinion within this sub is because they're deliberately trying to troll. My advice still stands. Keep lurking (this sub, not RP) until you undyerstand the values, culture and what we're trying to achieve. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/17 08:09 PM |
| 4 | True Life: I've been single for years because I'm only attracted to masculine men.No. No. No. and hell no again. Once you're plated you don't get 'upgraded' - that's the carrot that's dangled in front of you so you keep staying in the hopes he'll settle down with you. Yes there are exceptions, but those are outliers for a reason. If you want men to see you as the female equivalent of those beta-orbiters who style their girlsfriend's hair and only wear active wear then go ahead. You won't get respect from the men you want if you actively allow yourself to be plated and you sur… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/17 07:59 PM |
| 7 | The Fear of the Wall and Why I'm Sick of Hearing About ItRP also pushes self-improvement at any cost. All you've done from your posting history is whine about how ugly you are as a single mother and need every surgery under the sun to ever be halfway decent ... so you complete missed a fundamental RP value and lesson there. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/17 07:49 PM |
| 7 | The Fear of the Wall and Why I'm Sick of Hearing About ItWhy the hell would you be desprate after the wall if you've already snagged a man in your prime? That's the point - if you're 19-23 stop being over dramatic and lamenting your decline into a haggard crone. Instead, invest that time in finding a husband. Be the best wife ever, treat him like a king and (everything going to plan) wife-goggles, similar to rose-tinted glasses, will making the aging process gentler on you from his perspective. The only perspective that matters. I've read your posting… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/17 07:41 PM |
| 2 | I can't stop obsessing over my appearanceMe too ... but at 21 .. sheesh I'm pretty much decrepit. Better just give up on everything now and become a crypt keeper </3 | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/17 08:19 AM |
| 9 | I can't stop obsessing over my appearanceAgreed, but it's become a reoccurring trend with new, 21-23 year-old posters, that they believe they have hit (or are very close to hitting) the wall with no hope of ever landing a man. If you're 21, snort a line of coke and chase it with a bottle of Hennessy every night, then yes, you've most likely hit the wall face first at 100 mile per hour. If you're on RPW however, it's safe to bet that you are not this type of woman - and the wall is not looming over your 23rd birthday cake like a marital… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/17 02:18 AM |
| 2 | Share your facial skin care productsWhat vitamin C serum do you use, I've almost used up mine and I'm keen to try others! | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/17 12:53 AM |
| 1 | I can't stop obsessing over my appearanceThis. This. This. And this again! | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/01/17 11:36 PM |
| 6 | I can't stop obsessing over my appearanceI concur!! Don't waste a man's most valuable resource just because you have to have a man. Just because it was done in the past doesn't mean it's okay to do it. Have more respect for yourself and other humans than that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/01/17 08:23 PM |
| 10 | I can't stop obsessing over my appearanceFeminine Beauty Is Highly Controllable You don't beed to be dreadfully beautiful to get a man to commit. Average woman get commitment all the time. Nor is beauty the be all and end all of a woman's RMV. Work on yourself everyday. Stop comparing yourself to other woman and just compare yourself to who you were yesterday. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/01/17 06:16 PM |
| 23 | I can't stop obsessing over my appearanceWhere has this belief that women crash into the wall at 23 suddenly come from?? | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/01/17 06:02 PM |
| 1 | V-Day; LDR Style!These a really, really fantastic ideas! Thank you for your reply I really appreciate it! | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/01/17 04:58 AM |
| 1 | V-Day; LDR Style!Nothing says loving, supportive GF than home-made cookies That's so true! Thank you so much for the baking suggestion!! | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/01/17 04:57 AM |
| 1 | V-Day; LDR Style!I hope you both have a wonderful time together on the 17th! Thank you for your advice too! | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/01/17 04:56 AM |
| 1 | V-Day; LDR Style!These are absolutely brilliant ideas! Thank you so much for pointing me in the direction of the LDR sub and introducing me to the telegram idea! I cannot wait to try them!! <3 | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/01/17 04:56 AM |
| 11 | for a group called redpill women you girls are very bluepilledFor someone posting in redpill women you are very troll like. Just an observation. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/01/17 09:14 AM |
| 2 | Casual sexIf you're going to cite a statistical figure be prepared to back it up or no-one will take you seriously. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/01/17 06:49 AM |
| 2 | The most beautiful woman in the world!I find that it's usually low value women and/or CC-riders who end up sharing, or are comfortable sharing, a man. Those who know their worth because they constantly work on themselves to bring something to the table rarely find themselves sharing because of how low quality the average woman is today. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/01/17 12:51 AM |
| 2 | Today we hit 16,000 members! Lurkers and newbies come out and say hi!Married Red Pill might provide the middle ground you're looking for. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/01/17 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Makeup & clothing in regard to SMVyou truly sound like you're digging for excuses as to why you have failed to find someone you're happy with rather than looking within yourself and the resources around you. Exactly what I was thinking - it's a common tone among all of her comments in this post. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/01/17 06:16 AM |
| 1 | Makeup & clothing in regard to SMVIf you understand that what was the point of your post? | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/01/17 06:06 AM |
| 4 | Makeup & clothing in regard to SMVA woman's job does not, in and of itself, add value to her SMV - the financial benefits that come from a high paying job can however, if wisely invested. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/01/17 07:25 AM |
| 6 | How can I be less opinionated?if you're being a shrew and preaching all the time, your words lose their meaning and become white noise. If this is the only thing I learn today, it's been a successful day. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/01/17 06:03 PM |
| 2 | My boyfriend has had lots of sexual partners and I'm still a virgin. It makes me really insecure and makes me feel bad about myself. Should I leave him?It is terrifying. I'm willing to bet that every woman here has looked or thought about her SO's Ex and realised that in some way, shape or form that they're better than them. And if you let it, it will paralyse you. Think about it, you're considering leaving your BF over it. Now I'm not preaching the fat acceptance movement here - but you've got to invest in a little self-love. Do something that makes you happy to be in your body! That could be standing in front of the mirror and deciding that y… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/01/17 08:22 AM |
| 1 | My boyfriend has had lots of sexual partners and I'm still a virgin. It makes me really insecure and makes me feel bad about myself. Should I leave him?Thank you! | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/01/17 07:58 AM |
| 3 | My boyfriend has had lots of sexual partners and I'm still a virgin. It makes me really insecure and makes me feel bad about myself. Should I leave him?I disagree, this is centered around u/mysticqueen22's insecurities about dating a more experienced man; about not measuring up. She's not waving her virginity in our faces to justify why she deserves a man with a higher smv - especially since a man with a high N-count usually denotes a high value man already. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/01/17 07:57 AM |
| 5 | This totally worked for me.Proud of you | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/01/17 12:59 AM |
| 9 | My boyfriend has had lots of sexual partners and I'm still a virgin. It makes me really insecure and makes me feel bad about myself. Should I leave him?If I'm barking up the wrong tree here, feel free to disregard what I'm saying but it sounds like your boyfriend/the relationship isn't making you insecure - instead you're letting your own self-doubt and worry eat away at you, and that's why you're feeling bad. First things first, your SO chose to commit to you knowing you hadn't had a sexual partner before. Just focus on that for a minute - he chose to dedicate some of his most valuable resources (commitment and time) to you. That means he care… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/01/17 12:58 AM |
| 5 | My boyfriend has had lots of sexual partners and I'm still a virgin. It makes me really insecure and makes me feel bad about myself. Should I leave him?Feel bad about yourself, or feel like you won't measure up or be enough? -There's a subtle difference but a large one. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/01/17 12:40 AM |
| 2 | This totally worked for me.That's fantastic, I'm genuinely super happy for you! <3 <3 <3 | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/01/17 12:37 AM |
| 18 | This totally worked for me.Please, stop. u/rainyweathergirl know your stuff before you give out advice. Even if it is unsolicited. You're telling OP what to tell her SO, complete with a solution. That's a big no-no. I advise you do your own homework and re-read Bring Your Captain Your Problem, Not Your Solution Also; do some yoga or meditation or something - your attitude is really negative. Edit: formatting | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/01/17 12:34 AM |
| 3 | This totally worked for me.On a much lighter note, welcome to RPW - we may seem harsh, but it's because we don't sugar coat the truth. We all started somewhere, and we all still have faults we're working on. We're here to help how we can <3 | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/01/17 12:29 AM |
| 9 | This totally worked for me.You're new to RPW, but that's no excuse for badmouthing your SO. It's one of the things that you should recognise on an internal and fundamental level as wrong and highly disrespectful. I cannot stress that enough. Not only is your post hella disrespectful, but the way you've communicated and talked at him while he was sick is 10 times worse. Read the sidebar, internalise the idea of being his soft place to land and drop the attitude. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/01/17 12:20 AM |
| 7 | Being a RPW... Charming. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/01/17 06:44 AM |
| 2 | Being a RPWIf you don't mind me asking, how many close female friends do you have, specifically those around your age? | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/01/17 05:40 AM |
| 1 | Any RPW in College?There's a couple of reasons behind it: 1) The type of women you find at bars - there's a well established stereotype that women who spend their time at bars/nightclubs are easy and have little going for them in terms of value. It doesn't matter if you go every weekend or just this weekend in particular, men will judge you immediately as attention-seekers looking to ride the CC. It's very hard to prove your RMV if that's a man's first impression of you. If you have any doubts, look at the bar/nig… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/01/17 05:19 AM |
| 6 | How can I find a more traditional guy?So I want a guy who likes paying for me etc. I would advise looking at what you define as traditional and make sure it doesn't align with entitled. As a personal rule, if I'm invited out on a date by a man I always offer to pay half. However if I invite him, I will move to pay the bill - if he offers to get it instead or go half I will accept and not make a fuss. It's not 'sissy' to want you to pay for yourself. Any man worth his salt knows the value of money and what he had to give it up to obt… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/01/17 09:46 PM |
| 5 | How can I find a more traditional guy?Dutch AF New favourite saying right there! | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/01/17 09:34 PM |
| 25 | Needing advice - red flag or paranoid?If you go looking for something in your SO's email/phone/computer you will find it, even if it isn't really there. That's the joy of the hamster. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/01/17 09:32 PM |
| 10 | Any RPW in College?Lessons learnt from three years at College while swallowing the Pill :) You're the sum total of the five people you spend the most amount of time with. Objectively view the people you spend your time with, whether it be as friends, dorm mates, study groups, sports teams and campus groups. It may not seem like it now, but they can have a huge impact on who you turn out to be and the decisions you make over the next few years. Watch your peers and learn from their mistakes. By avoiding these you'l… | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/01/17 08:58 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Reflections with RPWi – January 09, 2017Smoothies are a fantastic way of getting lots of vitamins and minerals into the diet - you can make super high-calorie ones with bananas, oats and dates too! | /r/RedPillWives | 10/01/17 12:16 AM |
| 2 | after spending it mostly together, he told me he's had a "Rough weekend"Here here! | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/01/17 10:13 AM |
| 1 | I hate my 'diet face' so muchYou're missing the point: Yes - fillers are a form of self-care, but in asking her captain for his advice she made it much bigger than a simple beauty question. The issue with your comment is that your advising her to go against a clear directive made by her Captain. And to do it by going behind his back in the hopes he won't notice. It doesn't matter if fillers would make her look like VS model, it's sneaky, dishonest and clearly, openly and directly disrespecting her captain. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/01/17 03:20 AM |
| 7 | I hate my 'diet face' so muchGood skin starts with its building blocks; your diet should be high in vitamins (especially vitamin C), protein and healthy fats (such as those found in almonds, avocado, sardines and salmon). Foods that 'age' you, such as processed sugars, processed flour, processed meats (e.g. bacon and sausages) alcohol, energy drinks, soda etc. should be avoided as much as possible. Change your skin routine; look for products specifically designed for plumping skin or filling in fine lines. AHAs are fantasti… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/01/17 01:35 AM |
| 9 | I hate my 'diet face' so much10/10 would not recommend secretly going against your SO's request - even subtly. You asked his opinion, he gave his firm opinion, disregarding it would be very disrespectful, not to mention underhand. Edit: spelling | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/01/17 12:21 AM |
| 3 | Learning "The Art Of Homemaking" before MarriageI second the request for more nuggets of wisdom! I'd love to hear more advice along these lines! If you don't have a blog would you consider doing a homemaker series on RPW? Your knowledge in this regard is golden! | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/01/17 04:31 AM |
| 6 | "You're so sophisticated and I find you intimidating."I understand your position; I've attended finishing school, have a strong British accent (in a small Australian town) and fairly well-off parents. Simply put, you are going to intimidate a lot of men, especially men under 30. Dating up in respect to age will help circumvent this. My SO is 12 years my senior - when we first met my sophistication was a large part of the initial attraction, it's not a common trait in young women these days and so automatically turns heads. This man, in telling you,… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/12/16 03:41 AM |
| 6 | Should I solder my rings or not?No advice here - just wanted to say congratulations on the engagement and all the very best for your upcoming wedding <3 | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/12/16 07:44 AM |
| 1 | New to red pill (Virgin, 20, Woman)Hiya Roseenvy, welcome to RPW! We may be blunt, but we offer solid advice and genuinely want to help <3 I personally can't offer a lot of advice regarding your question here - other than something rare is always valuable. What I can advise without doubt though, is to take a serious look at yourself. This anger is something you need to address - but don't rush, it's something that comes in stages. Feel free to message me if you want to talk or rant though <3 | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/12/16 07:37 AM |
| 3 | Favorite life/motivational/relationship quotes? RP or not"Success isn't owned; it's rented. And rent is due every day." | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/11/16 06:06 AM |
| 1 | Getting a "wealthy" man..Being manipulative =/= being a safe place. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/11/16 06:04 AM |
| 1 | Getting a "wealthy" man..Correction; the questions were: has anyone on here found love with a well-off man? [has] anyone on here has any experience and stories about where they met, how they kept his interest, etc[?] I'm still just curious what exactly the type of women are like who get these men.[?] She didn't ask how to get a man like that. She didn't ask for tips or tricks to get him to go down on one knee. She asked foe examples of women who had met and married men like this - most likely personal accounts. Not a gu… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/11/16 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Showing interest - with baked goods?You're more than welcome - I hope it was a success! What did you choose to bake? :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/11/16 10:23 AM |
| 12 | Getting a "wealthy" man..Wow. Your comment is tasteless, and quite frankly disgusting. This is RPW - which you should know because you're a prolific commenter and poster. We don't condone, advise or recommend 'manipulative' strategies to achieve goals. RPW is about recognising differences between the sexes, self-improvement and long-term goal setting to maximize your personal happiness - specifically in realtionships. To paraphase, we push for self-improvement; to be the best wives, mothers, girlfriends, daughters and w… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/11/16 10:20 AM |
| 3 | How do you deal with wanting to achieve so many different things at once?The BEST, and really only advice I can give, is to be a Nike brand rep. Just do it. I repeat: Just. Do. It. Everytime you don't want to do something you know should, whether it be getting up early, going to the gym, getting off of facebook or studying, you have to force yourself to do it. After a while it becomes a habit. After that it becomes part of who you are. This is why habits are so important. We are what we repeatedly do. You and I are very similar; I balance work in full time corporate … | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/11/16 08:10 AM |
| 11 | Showing interest - with baked goods?I love the idea - it's wonderfully thoughtful and I don't think anyone can turn down baking! My only concern would be - if you handed out baking to everyone - that he might not realise that you're showing interest in him. He might think you're just being lovely and thoughtful to everyone equally. While this certainly isn't a bad thing, it might not futher your purpose of communicating interest. Potentially bake for everyone in the community centre, and then something different/extra specifically… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/11/16 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Need advice...I've been exactly where you are now. And it can suck - if you let it control or derail you, it can cause some long term resentment issues and insecurities in your relationship. Before you get into a relationship your life is focused completely on you - the things you do (excluding mandatory obligations you can't divest yourself of) are solely for you. Thus everything you do either makes you happy (you're doing what you want e.g. spending hours immersing yourself in Math) or improves yourself in … | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/11/16 12:39 AM |
| 4 | Looking for Instagram suggestions.All fantastic accounts to follow if you're after women who encapsulate grace and femininity in the modern day: @juliahengel (personal fav!!) @rosielondoner (personal fav #2) @bananablondie108 @hellofashionblog @rachparcell Edit; formatting is not my forte .. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/07/16 07:09 AM |
| 1 | Home Environment: A Soft Place To LandThank you so much this is fantastic!! <3 I can't wait to start putting it into practice! | /r/RedPillWives | 04/05/16 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Creating a Soft Place to LandThat would be great thanks!! What I'd love to see is a 'Cheat's Chore-List' - a list of 10-15 small things that can be done every day so that (from an SO's persepective) you keep the house clean and welcoming effortlessly! Good luck with all the assignments! | /r/RedPillWives | 24/04/16 05:09 AM |
| 2 | An Update on /u/Camille11325 and How To HelpSo sorry for what you've gone through - I wish you all best for the times ahead <3 | /r/RedPillWives | 23/04/16 01:38 AM |
| 3 | Creating a Soft Place to LandThank you so much for taking the time to post this; it's really given me something to think about. I'm not in a relationship at the moment, but internalising things like this now means when I do get into a relationship it'll be easier and more natural to put into place! So thank you again! | /r/RedPillWives | 22/04/16 11:23 PM |
| 3 | What are some of your favorite manosphere, anti-feminist or feminine/girly blogs?I've just read your entire blog and it's fantastic! Everything is very clearly written while still getting the key ideas across - I look forward to future posts! :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/01/16 04:18 AM |
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