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Interested to hear more about your tattoos. Who did you have do them? What was your process in deciding what to get?
/r/seduction31/05/12 05:01 PM
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Good question. The first thing I think when I see tattoos is an open adventurous personality. An interesting tattoo can tell you a lot about someone and be a good conversation piece. Some of them are quite beautiful. But poorly chosen ones can be a real turn off. The worst is names of exes.
/r/seduction31/05/12 04:59 PM
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I know the feeling, had an awesome FB lose interest recently and realized I was too nice, too non sexual and too interested. Take my advice with a grain of salt, because I haven't sorted out how to deal with this situation yet either. For myself, I'm taking a step back and showing less interest, see what happens. I wouldn't cancel though, unless you really have something better to do. Go and be less interested and nice, tease her, give her a hard time, have a sexual frame. If the other friend is…
/r/seduction21/05/12 03:07 PM
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I always think of naturals as guys who are good with women without ever having studied it explicitly in the online seduction community. They usually can do well because they naturally behave in the right ways but often have big holes in their game, at least relative to the theory and practice that's tossed about in the seduction community. I label PUAs who have studied but don't have to "think" about pick up any more when they are in the field as simply being "Advanced PUAs".
/r/seduction21/05/12 02:58 PM
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Accept that you fucked up. Don't obsess over the one girl. If you see her again, don't make the same mistake. The great thing about recognizing mistakes is that they are the best way to learn and find out what YOU need to improve on. Feel good about that: At least you are out there making mistakes, recognizing them, and improving. It's important to feel awesome about that. I had a few of these early on where I was like, 'how did I not even try to get her number??'. Now I usually remember the num…
/r/seduction21/05/12 02:20 PM
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Yeah. I knew something was off with my reaction. I was genuinely quite disappointed so channeling that to DGAF was hard. So for flakes it's more of a quick qualifying slap on the wrist and forget it - don't get too serious about it. I think that's good advice.
/r/seduction27/03/12 05:23 PM
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Nice! This kind of post is perfect for encouraging some of the guys out there who might be feeling stuck or doubtful. Mind filling us in on what kind of state you were in when you started two years ago?
/r/seduction26/02/12 03:23 PM
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It takes some practice to grind well, and it'll take a few minutes with each girl to find your rhythm together. Practice is the key. Pick up isn't about meeting women's expectations. They respond well to certain things, grinding is one of them (for many women). Nothing is "essential". There are only things that will improve your results. Grinding is a great way to sexually escalate. If you avoid it/don't like it, you will need to find other ways to sexually escalate. I have to wonder though, why…
/r/seduction26/02/12 06:19 AM
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I stopped reading at Xanax. Get that fixed.
/r/seduction26/02/12 05:45 AM
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Yeah, no.
/r/seduction26/02/12 05:41 AM
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Agreed, but how do you change the subject? I'm interested to hear playful responses to this question..
/r/seduction26/02/12 05:40 AM
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But you didn't say "hope she doesn't catch it". Maybe some ppl didn't get it?
/r/seduction26/02/12 05:01 AM
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We all know this, that's why we're here, right? I thought it was going to be something you did. But good work. You get to a stage where you're blowing out AFCs. Pat yourself on the back. If they don't want that to happen they are going to have to take charge of their lives and change things, like you did.
/r/seduction26/02/12 04:49 AM
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Depends on how important your friends' opinion/respect is to you. Could you have done the same thing but in a way that didn't piss off your friends? What are your larger/longer term goals? It's how this fits into those that will give you your answer.
/r/seduction26/02/12 04:43 AM
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Love the crayon analogy. I'm stealing that.
/r/seduction26/02/12 04:33 AM
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I think women have a different problem, correct me if I'm wrong: Much of the effort goes into prep before going out, right? When you do it right you get lots of approaches, and when you approach you get better responses. Then the challenge is filtering. Finding the kind of guy you want amongst all the duds. Do you escalate? Do you try to lead the interaction? When I was first getting started a long time ago I tested out serious eye contact on a women I wasn't attracted to. She really wanted to f…
/r/seduction26/02/12 04:28 AM
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The human brain works in both directions. There's a ton of research to back this up in many different areas, but the simplest one is smiling. Everyone knows that when you're happy it causes you to smile. But they've also shown that if you're unhappy, just smiling will make you a little happier too. And if you do it all the time, make an effort to smile more even when you don't quite feel it, pretty soon you start feeling a little cheerier all the time. This is part of how fake it til you make it…
/r/seduction26/02/12 04:07 AM
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Seems like you handled it well. Are you after anyone in the group? What's your goal?
/r/seduction25/02/12 05:29 PM
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That's not the three second rule.. Three second rule states to approach and open within 3 seconds, and it's meant precisely to squelch approach anxiety.
/r/seduction21/02/12 05:40 PM
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Masturbate no more often than once per week, maybe even two. Turns me into a caveman.
/r/seduction21/02/12 05:27 PM
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Sounds like you are extracting an email response at the price of reducing attraction, if it was there.
/r/seduction21/02/12 01:36 PM
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Nice word! Pedestalize
/r/seduction11/02/12 01:33 PM
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I try to be "in state" as much as I can in everyday life. Walk around feeling like a boss. Make eye contact with lots of people. Say hello to everyone all the time, try to be super friendly and outgoing. This builds congruency in yourself as well and it won't be as much of a stretch to go out and get n a great high energy approaching mood when going out time comes.
/r/seduction11/02/12 04:19 AM
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I don't think being a goof is a bad thing. It's cute, shows you're interested. If you want to build rapport, a great way is to steer the conversation towards intimate topics, like about their/your childhood, family, dreams, aspirations, etc. You can also escalate sexually. Use a little innuendo, and don't be ashamed of talking about sex. I'm not saying jump his bones, but let sex jokes into the conversation, etc. Touching is big too. Any excuse you can find to touch socially will build a connect…
/r/seduction11/02/12 03:59 AM
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When I meditate I try not to think of anything at all. It's hard at first and you often find yourself thinking anyway, for example about how hard it is to think of nothing. But keep at it, it's great for mindfulness. I gets easier.
/r/seduction11/02/12 03:48 AM
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What is it you think you need to "understand" about girls? This sounds to me like rumination. You're thinking too much. Creating anxiety. Believe me, I've done the same thing. You're trying to control what happens. Let go, let it go! Do scary stuff. Get out of your comfort zone. You know what you have to do, so get started. When you catch yourself over-thinking like this, dare yourself to do something a little out of your comfort zone socially. Keep eye-contact with someone longer than you're no…
/r/seduction08/02/12 02:32 PM
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It makes sense that mose of r/seduction would work for women trying to pick up guys. I'd be very curious what works and doesn't for you though. Some thoughts: - Confidence is good, but not too much. Super confidence is attractive in guys, but in girls medium confidence is most attractive. - Appearance and being stylish and healthy looking are really important, much more so than for guys. This really should be tailored to who you're after too. - Know how to give strong indications of interest. Ey…
/r/seduction07/02/12 03:47 PM
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I usually leave them at home. Seriously, what do you mean by this? Needs some context. Wave them around a lot?
/r/seduction06/02/12 05:17 PM
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Why not tell the truth? People will (should) respect you for that. Stand your ground and show them your can have a good time anyway. It sets you apart.
/r/seduction06/02/12 05:14 PM
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Got to agree, if only for your own mental health: don't do it.
/r/seduction05/02/12 12:12 PM
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