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| 1 | Men who want a "traditional woman", can you do traditionally male chores?estres? And if that’s true I guess your stepdad is Chad 🤪 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/20 04:34 AM |
| 3 | Men who want a "traditional woman", can you do traditionally male chores?Limited time, no point learning those skills when I can learn other more valuable skills such as continuing education in dentistry or learning about investing Time is money 💰 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/20 03:46 AM |
| 2 | Men who want a "traditional woman", can you do traditionally male chores?I can’t do any of that shit But I plan on being rich enough to pay other people to do that shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/20 03:28 AM |
| 8 | Is "a straight man engaging sexually with a man for benefit" a fair comparison to "a woman being with a man she finds repulsive for benefit"?Women on reddit be mad weird bro haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/20 12:51 AM |
| 12 | Is "a straight man engaging sexually with a man for benefit" a fair comparison to "a woman being with a man she finds repulsive for benefit"?What's up with ppd and trying to turn the homies gay lately god damn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/20 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Has an unsolicited dick pick ever gotten you laid?Haha true true. I’ll probably just stick with black. You’re right the pill color definitely distracts from the message | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/20 10:18 PM |
| 2 | Has an unsolicited dick pick ever gotten you laid?Loll, I mean I am the dick deliverer specialist, I guess this is my calling... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/20 10:15 PM |
| 0 | Has an unsolicited dick pick ever gotten you laid?Thanks ❤️ I haven’t selected a pill yet, what would you put me as? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/20 09:47 PM |
| 3 | Has an unsolicited dick pick ever gotten you laid?Haha thanks! I just looked up what a gigolo is, and uhh I mean if you wanna hire me I’m down. I’m like postmates but for dick | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/20 09:46 PM |
| 3 | Has an unsolicited dick pick ever gotten you laid?establishing dominance, nice! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/20 09:24 PM |
| 9 | Has an unsolicited dick pick ever gotten you laid?Look man, I'm a specialist at delivering dick, but I never do it thru a picture That's such a beta move | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/20 08:03 PM |
| 4 | Part II: You SHOULD DEFINITELY be nice because Nice Guy logic is WRONGI’ll call 911 cuz i’m an idiot and they would tell me to call animal control | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/20 11:32 PM |
| 2 | Part II: You SHOULD DEFINITELY be nice because Nice Guy logic is WRONGI’ll call 911 and then go to work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/20 11:06 PM |
| 2 | If a woman has EVER participated in casual sex then it's hypocritical of her to shame/demand men for rejecting LTRs/ending one to pursue itWell let's look at it the opposite way. Lets say I'm a dude that fucked around, dating a low n girl, then the girl was like "nah I wanna ride the CC now" and she dumps me to fuck around. I would be pretty hurt too. But at the end of the day she can go do whatever she wants. So just do whatever you want, and let people be pissed because you can't police their emotions. Go live your best life and don't worry about what people think about you because no matter what you're gonna piss some people off… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/20 07:20 PM |
| 5 | So - is the men’s fault for objectifying women in bikinis or is it the fault of women for putting themselves in objectifying situations?Does this actually happen in real life much? The first 2 I feel are very rare, the 3rd it depends on the context. If it's a model you see on TV all you have to go off of is their appearance. I don't think it's objectifying to only go off their appearance there. But yeah I see ur point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/20 05:13 AM |
| 2 | Q4Men: Have you, or any of your friends, ever mistaken a woman's friendliness towards you as flirting?So in a double-edged sword kind of way, you protect yourself from being used, but also prevent yourself from growing closer to someone Yeah that's the crux of the matter :/ Maybe that's why I vibed so well with red pill when I first found it, because it basically just yelled back to me everything I was already feeling. But the thing is I don't actually wanna be that way because I actually do want to grow closer to someone someday lol On the other hand I do envy people (at least a little) who are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/20 11:40 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: Have you, or any of your friends, ever mistaken a woman's friendliness towards you as flirting?Yeah there's no point becoming jaded, that's where TRP can be harmful. Among my friends I definitely make it a point to give as much as I take, I feel like I have pretty balanced relationships so far. But also I'm not the best at comprimising when it inconveniences me. I'm an only child so I've never really had to compromise, and I still don't for the most part. That's what's holding me back from LTR's, I'm still not comfortable sharing my life with anybody and taking on the responsibilities tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/20 10:27 PM |
| 3 | Q4Men: Have you, or any of your friends, ever mistaken a woman's friendliness towards you as flirting?In any case kinder people don’t have the convenience of blaming being rejected or disliked on their asshole attitude—it’s either their looks or a personality quirk that turned the other person away I never thought about it this way. This makes sense. Do you think these "nice" people would be better off adopting the red pill idgaf mentality? Not to take rejection personally etc. Fortunately (or unfortunately? i guess), I don't think I'm nice enough to ever have to suffer from this lol. I'm a dece… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/20 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: Have you, or any of your friends, ever mistaken a woman's friendliness towards you as flirting?Well said. Which is also why friendly people (in my experience) have a harder time with rejection—it's foreign and less understood—and why they need to be more judicious in who they date. Huh, that's an interesting point. Can you expand on that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/20 06:28 PM |
| 3 | Q4Men: Have you, or any of your friends, ever mistaken a woman's friendliness towards you as flirting?Nah but I never really bust a move unless I get hella clear signals anyways If she acts like a bro she gonna get bro treatment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/20 06:03 PM |
| 4 | Stronger anti-promiscuity beliefs linked to environments with greater female economic dependence, study proposesYeah and they wonder why they're in an unhappy marriage Gotta do some self reflection amirite | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/20 02:57 AM |
| 14 | Stronger anti-promiscuity beliefs linked to environments with greater female economic dependence, study proposesThat's the way it should be I'm not gonna marry unless I'm as close to 100% sure as possible | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/20 02:45 AM |
| 10 | Stronger anti-promiscuity beliefs linked to environments with greater female economic dependence, study proposesAren't divorce rates lower among higher educated women (likely the same demographic as financially independent women)? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/20 02:36 AM |
| 2 | Stronger anti-promiscuity beliefs linked to environments with greater female economic dependence, study proposesbecause I know that will end up as a bigger discussion on academia rather than the topic! :-) Haha yeah most likely I'm interested to see hypergamy in the younger generations, if it's as strong as TRP says. I have a gut feeling TRP's assertions on hypergamy as more based on previous generations but idk.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/20 01:09 AM |
| 2 | Stronger anti-promiscuity beliefs linked to environments with greater female economic dependence, study proposesPlanning on doing a post on that one as well, when I have some time to delve into it with nuance. You should do a post on that It's from that other study you'd posted in the comments of another post right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/20 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Which reddit user would you be fine being reincarnated as?you wanna be married to me in the future cuz that's what's gonna happen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/20 07:45 AM |
| 1 | Faking Confidence is BS Dating AdviceTrue that, you can technically be rich and low confidence, but it's rare and probably only applies to techies Most other rich professions (lawyers, doctors, entrepreneurs, CEO's) are all high confidence type of jobs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/20 11:05 PM |
| 2 | Height>>>>>>Personality for women and probably everything elseDoesn't matter had sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/20 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Men and women hate each other and most of the people on this subreddit are fat incels who only think about sex since no one would give them the chance anywayBro you're literally too poor for me to even care My family could literally buy your entire family as servants. My life means more than yours stay mad incel | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/20 06:29 PM |
| 2 | Faking Confidence is BS Dating AdviceYes. I've shadowed a lot of surgeons (I'm studying to become an oral surgeon myself) The confidence on those dudes is thru the roof not even kidding. You pretty much need to have max confidence in yourself to be a surgeon, and a big ego too lol I guess I'm built for it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/20 06:27 PM |
| 1 | Men and women hate each other and most of the people on this subreddit are fat incels who only think about sex since no one would give them the chance anywayLmao you keep downvoting me, incels mad x10 Work on moneymaxxing your impoverished ass boi | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/20 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Men and women hate each other and most of the people on this subreddit are fat incels who only think about sex since no one would give them the chance anywayToo small to be sucked | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/20 06:15 PM |
| 1 | Men and women hate each other and most of the people on this subreddit are fat incels who only think about sex since no one would give them the chance anywayu mad bro? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/20 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Faking Confidence is BS Dating AdviceMoney = Confidence So focus on getting rich and then you'll be confident Agreed or disagree? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/20 06:02 PM |
| 3 | Height>>>>>>Personality for women and probably everything elseYeah honestly money is the most important That's why I'm focused on wealthmaxxing I think it's money >>> Face >> Height >>> everything else | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/20 05:55 PM |
| 3 | Height>>>>>>Personality for women and probably everything elseHell yeah Money >>> Height and everything else These short pussies just need to get rich | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/20 05:54 PM |
| 2 | Height>>>>>>Personality for women and probably everything elseSlide in my DM's bby | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/20 05:51 PM |
| 3 | Height>>>>>>Personality for women and probably everything elseHahahaha this is it chief | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/20 05:51 PM |
| 4 | If you hate the idea of dating, it's because you're awful to be around.All you pussies need to stop complaining. Just get rich and hire hookers, skip the dating process | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/20 05:44 PM |
| 3 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (04 October 2020)Oh shit lmaooo Yeah no fuck that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/20 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Men's focus on casual sex makes less sense as they near their 30'sholy shit good for you my dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/20 01:18 AM |
| 0 | Men's focus on casual sex makes less sense as they near their 30'sHow’s the libido? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/20 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Why 3 or 5 year marriage contracts should be the normYeah for me the ideal is probably not getting married The problem is finding a woman that wants that. My financial prospects are pretty good so even if I date a woman that's not a gold digger, most likely she'll want marriage just for the security it provides. That same security is negative for me. Of course I can avoid this by finding a woman that earns as much as me, but such a woman would likely want to date a man who earns much more than me. It's a never ending cycle of getting fucked in the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/20 06:37 AM |
| 1 | Why 3 or 5 year marriage contracts should be the normIf its small value stuff it's probably not worth going to court over it, just split it half and half. The only things worth worrying about are large value things like house, retirement accounts, taxable accounts, any other assets (cars, properties etc.) And with large purchases it's pretty clear which party purchased it or how much each party put into the purchase. They can retain that same % of equity in a split. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/20 06:20 AM |
| 1 | Why 3 or 5 year marriage contracts should be the normNah because a prenup doesn't protect future earnings, and they can be thrown out for many reasons | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/20 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Why 3 or 5 year marriage contracts should be the normYeah exactly that’s why I prefer to not marry at all Or if anything marry with the same system as OP described Because there is 0% chance of knowing how your partner will behave after a divorce. Humans are irrational | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/20 04:35 AM |
| 1 | Why 3 or 5 year marriage contracts should be the normNo kids in my future Ideally no marriage either, would love to be in a LTR without marriage. Each person gets to keep whatever they’ve earned. Equity in the house is split based on how much each person paid into the mortgage Seems the most fair way to do it no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/20 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Why 3 or 5 year marriage contracts should be the normNo one is greedy when you marry them. They become greedy when you divorce How many divorces end up not being messy especially when there are heavy assets on the line? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/20 04:08 AM |
| 4 | Do women define stages of their life by the relationship they are in?I don’t know about you guys but I define the stages of my life based on the length of my pubic hair at the time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/20 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Why 3 or 5 year marriage contracts should be the normThen your original statement was wrong, there is inequality there And especially at higher income levels, what are the odds of marrying someone that makes exactly as much as you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/20 03:38 AM |
| 1 | Why 3 or 5 year marriage contracts should be the normWhat about what you earned after marriage? What if a doctor marries a nurse, and they earn vastly different amounts, would the money get split down the middle or proportionally? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/20 03:34 AM |
| 2 | Why 3 or 5 year marriage contracts should be the normHell yeah Im down for this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/20 03:11 AM |
| 1 | How males may evolve due to hypergamyI mean in the future we'll have genetic engineering, so we don't necessarily need people to die to change the gene pool Everyone will be able to engineer themselves into a Chad lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/20 09:08 PM |
| 0 | Hypergamy is mostly about lower class women trying to get out of povertyAs a stay at home dad men lose the only value they have..So yeah I would say it's a pretty big blow to the man I can't imagine being cucked enough to become a stay at home dad, if that makes me a misandrist so be it. I'll send in my application to feminism so I can join the movement and continue on with my misandry! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/20 07:43 AM |
| 0 | Hypergamy is mostly about lower class women trying to get out of povertyLol it's the first I've been called a misandrist. Being a stay at home dad is bad for the dad, socially, financially, mentally. So I'm not really sure how my not supporting stay at home dads is misandry. I find it funny how feminists only want equality when it hurts men. Stay at home dads are fucking pathetic. Go get a fucking job and don't be your wife's bitch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/20 07:35 AM |
| 1 | Hypergamy is mostly about lower class women trying to get out of povertyStay at home dads are lowkey worthless Men should be working, most people don't respect men who aren't working. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/20 07:25 AM |
| 2 | Hypergamy is mostly about lower class women trying to get out of povertyMove to the Amazon rainforest and become an indigenous tribe's drummer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/20 03:30 AM |
| 0 | Hypergamy is mostly about lower class women trying to get out of povertyI know, I just wanted to get my word out there about my distaste for SAHD's This is reddit after all lol.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/20 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Hypergamy is mostly about lower class women trying to get out of povertyLol don't let him be a SAHD Bad idea imo, tell his lazy ass to go to work | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/20 12:01 AM |
| -1 | Hypergamy is mostly about lower class women trying to get out of povertyHonestly I look down on SAHD's Nothing more pathetic imo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/20 11:57 PM |
| 3 | Hypergamy is mostly about lower class women trying to get out of povertyNobody says hypergamy is wrong, it's natural All RP says is to acknowledge that it happens and act accordingly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/20 11:52 PM |
| 1 | Convince us to abandon the playboy lifestyle.I have no clue but there are definitely wealthy people who rent. It's very rare but the idea is they would rather invest that ~$X million or so for the house than have it tied up in the house. Rent for luxury homes is also typically a lot cheaper than mortgage + taxes + upkeep When you're $200 million rich though it's dumb as fuck. Just buy the fuckin house lmao. I agree I don't think he's actually worth $200M. He's living off borrowed money I'm guessing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/20 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Convince us to abandon the playboy lifestyle.Lol possibly but it says he's worth 200 million online. No idea if that's true but if it is he still has quite a bit of assets to burn thru. I wonder who his financial advisor is... lol I can't imagine blowing that much money. Just stick it in index funds and live off dividends for fucks sake | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/20 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Convince us to abandon the playboy lifestyle.For sure, it's all about what you take away from it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/20 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Convince us to abandon the playboy lifestyle.Yeah his lifestyle is based off credit last I heard He’s actually a dumbass who pretends as if he’s financially savvy. He’ll be broke by the time he’s 50 most likely, I can already tell lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/20 08:16 PM |
| 2 | Convince us to abandon the playboy lifestyle.His dad was the fraud He’s living off daddy’s money which was acquired thru fraudulent means But yeah Dan is also a fraud in the sense that he didn’t get all that money thru poker, it was thru his dad who did some shady shit and went to prison for it I’m pretty sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/20 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Convince us to abandon the playboy lifestyle.Yeah my views don’t resonate with most men here, that’s ok. I would rather get with a 30’s professional woman for a LTR rather than an 22 year old fresh out of college girl. I want someone that’s on the same stage of life as me. I’m leaning TRP but a lot of my views don’t align with theirs especially when it comes to relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/20 08:05 PM |
| 4 | Convince us to abandon the playboy lifestyle.you too bro hope you get what you want | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/20 07:57 PM |
| 2 | Convince us to abandon the playboy lifestyle.And I feel like childfree women are more likely to share my values, so they’ll add on to my life rather than take away from it. They also tend to skew towards professional women, which is also good cuz that’s exactly what I’m looking for. Not tryna be a sugar daddy but rather a life partner yknow? I want to retire early and travel the world. I can’t imagine doing that alone, it would get..lonely. Making a bunch of money isn’t as great if you have no one to share it with. Whether it’s friends, fa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/20 07:53 PM |
| 2 | Convince us to abandon the playboy lifestyle.Not sure what you mean here? I’m just saying people on here are hypocrites (myself included tbh). Just tryna set the record straight | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/20 07:48 PM |
| 3 | Convince us to abandon the playboy lifestyle.I mean yeah but the principle is the same no? If you think guys shouldn’t fuck around and they’re not good LTR prospects if they do, then why doesn’t the same apply to women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/20 07:47 PM |
| 1 | Convince us to abandon the playboy lifestyle.Yeah I plan on doing the same as your husband. I’m childfree so there’s no rush for me to get in a LTR. I’ll have my fun, hopefully find a great woman along the way, and then continue having even more fun with her for the rest of my life. Playboy lifestyle good on paper but maybe not so good for the heart. You can have lots of fun without a playboy lifestyle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/20 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Convince us to abandon the playboy lifestyle.What revenues you pulling in bro? EBIDTA? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/20 07:41 PM |
| 3 | Convince us to abandon the playboy lifestyle.You mean being an expat? I have no interest honestly. I’m going into a high paying career anyways and I plan on saving/investing heavily and “fatFIRE”ing Money shouldn’t be a problem in my life, I’m more concerned about finding LOVE lmfaooo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/20 07:39 PM |
| 2 | Convince us to abandon the playboy lifestyle.Well I’m in the US so yeah... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/20 07:29 PM |
| 2 | Convince us to abandon the playboy lifestyle.Well first of all what job do you have to allow this lifestyle? Unless you're making $500k+ you can't really live a true playboy lifestyle I've always thought about what life would be like if I just tried to live like Dan Bilzerian lite in the future. Honestly it sounds like an empty life. It looks badass on paper but then you realize nobody actually likes the guy, they only like his lifestyle and his money I want to be loved for who I am as a person someday. I feel like this is something all hu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/20 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Convince us to abandon the playboy lifestyle.I would want my son to be like my husband. Looking for his long term partner in his early 20s. I dont think a guy who pulls a ton of woman has good genetics. I think a man who is loyal and stays with his family has good genetics. Tell that to the other women on here who think men shouldn't care that women had their hoe phase in their 20's and took 100's of dicks. They act as if it's no big deal | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/20 07:03 PM |
| 7 | What is so wrong with being a gold digger?Gisele makes more than Tom Brady though, if anything he's the gold digger in the relationship lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/20 08:31 AM |
| 4 | What is so wrong with being a gold digger?Some guys probably can tell Do you think Trump actually thinks Melania is interested in him whatsoever and is not just in it for the money? I bet she's hoping he dies of Covid so she can secure the bag and go bang some 25 year old Chads | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/20 08:27 AM |
| 1 | Women's concerns around dating and relationships w men?Rape isn’t common either but many women fear it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/20 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Women's concerns around dating and relationships w men?I imagine this is a fear most men have too Hypergamy yknow | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/20 10:12 PM |
| 12 | We all know looks matter. But how much?Regardless of how much looks matter to women, a man should strive to maximize his looks. Being good looking is beneficial not only with women but in all aspects of life. Career, social etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/20 05:29 AM |
| 6 | Do you think there's anything wrong with waiting for marriage before sex?Lol no one would admit it outright But you can easily infer- I'll walk you thru it "Oh yeah I'm done messing around and I just want to find a man who will treat me right" - AKA - I'm done getting my cheeks clapped by Chad and I'm ready to lock down a betabux | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/20 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Do you think there's anything wrong with waiting for marriage before sex?Gotcha, well I haven't experienced it myself but yeah I imagine it happens a lot based on what women on here write. Ride the CC, then after they are ready to settle down find the Betabux man, make him wait etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/20 07:08 PM |
| 6 | Do you think there's anything wrong with waiting for marriage before sex?If you follow FDS then isn't this basically what they preach? Gotta weed out these types of women early... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/20 06:45 PM |
| 3 | Why isn't there a REAL equivalent for female dating statergy for men?Maybe it's just my generation, but most girls my age wear yoga pants as daily streetwear. Some girls wear them literally every day, to class, to the coffee shop, in the winter, in the summer. They know exactly what they're doing, yoga pants makes dudes go crazy. God bless whoever invented yoga pants lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/20 02:55 AM |
| 2 | Why isn't there a REAL equivalent for female dating statergy for men?Am I wrong tho? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/20 10:21 PM |
| 7 | Why isn't there a REAL equivalent for female dating statergy for men?To be honest for a woman to look attractive all she has to do is not be fat and wear yoga pants Boom, that's pretty much it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/20 10:03 PM |
| 10 | Why isn't there a REAL equivalent for female dating statergy for men?bluepill advice will just lead you into a sad and restricted life Majority of men in the world are bluepilled because that is what our society preaches, and look where it's gotten them. They are miserable as fuck. Many marriages end in divorce, and even if they don't, how many of them are truly happy? Depression is at an all time high. Most men are blooped, and this is likely why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/20 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many women now have children outside of marriage? Does it matter?I get downvoted everytime I mention that marriage is an outdated concept. There’s no need for that shit anymore, happy to get rid of it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/20 08:03 PM |
| 2 | Why do so many women now have children outside of marriage? Does it matter?This is only because I’m assuming at the time you were relatively poor (no offense). It seems you guys didn’t have much in assets. Marriage is a lot more costly to wealthier men, especially those who have wives who don’t make nearly as much as them. I’ve heard of dentists losing half their practice in a divorce, even though the wife technically had no equity in the practice herself. Dentist’s life ruined just like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/20 07:50 PM |
| 2 | What exactly is the "transactional" in the theory of transactional sex in LTRs?If sex is transactional anyways isn’t it a smarter idea to pay with money than time, especially if you’re well off. Few hours of my time is worth way more than whatever I would be paying theoretically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/20 07:41 PM |
| 8 | What exactly is the "transactional" in the theory of transactional sex in LTRs?Luckily marriage rates are declining. I hope it’s because more people see marriage as a scam and avoid it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/20 07:38 PM |
| 3 | Why isn't there a REAL equivalent for female dating statergy for men?A lot of dudes might have girlfriends just so they can get regular sex, even if they don’t actually like that person and don’t see a future with them It’s called a ‘starter girlfriend’ I’m sure you’ve heard the term before | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/20 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Women make up a majority of the dating over 30 subreddit but why?I thought rural communities are supposed to have less serial divorcees | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/20 07:56 PM |
| 1 | The prenup myth - why does it exist?Join the capital class or stay in the loser labor class Murica babyy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/20 06:53 PM |
| 3 | Women make up a majority of the dating over 30 subreddit but why?Bruh. Even a good looking guy, do you think he will attract a higher quality woman as a burger flipper or as a doctor. You can't possibly be this stupid lmfao. Stay poor though, see how that works out for you. Being rich is not only helpful with dating, but also with enjoying life. Plus who said I wanna be a provider. The whole point of getting a high quality woman is that she has a high paying job herself so she can provide for herself. I don't even want marriage unless my partner earns as much… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/20 05:22 AM |
| 5 | Women make up a majority of the dating over 30 subreddit but why?Dude you’re not getting it at all. Lets say I’m a mcdonalds burger flipper bum ass. Do you think high quality women would be eager to date me? Now say I’m a successful oral surgeon making bank. Do you think that doesn’t improve my chances of dating higher quality women than if I was a bum ass mcdonalds burger flipper? I can’t believe this point even has to be debated. Have you been living under a rock?? Women are hypergamous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/20 04:58 AM |
| 3 | Women make up a majority of the dating over 30 subreddit but why?Women would date me anyways, but the quality of women would go up with higher status/more money It’s not rocket science, like attracts like If you’re a successful high value man, you’ll be more likely to attract a high value woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/20 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Women who require marriage in an LTR are at a disadvantage in the dating market due to changing perceptions around marriageWell people in their 30s might be getting married sooner because they have kids. As a childfree person, marriage isn't really important to me, so there's no need to rush things. I'm the type of guy that doesn't wanna go thru this rodeo more than once, so I'm willing to wait a long time before proposing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/20 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Women who require marriage in an LTR are at a disadvantage in the dating market due to changing perceptions around marriageYeah that makes sense, I understand what you’re saying. I think that a majority of my generation will eventually end up marrying and having kids, perhaps later than previous generations. I do think that there will be a significant decline in marriage rates as compared to previous generations, though that’s just speculation. And you’re right that educated people marry later. Me for example, I’ll likely be in school + residency till 30. Realistically even if I did marry, it wouldn’t be till mid to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/20 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Women who require marriage in an LTR are at a disadvantage in the dating market due to changing perceptions around marriageExactly we just discuss it within our male circles. I have no clue what women are discussing. Perhaps they are still fantasizing about marriage, but most men my age are certainly not lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/20 11:58 PM |
| 3 | Women make up a majority of the dating over 30 subreddit but why?There is a huge difference between a resident and an attending. I'm gunning for oral surgery. During residency I'll be earning ~50k/yr while working 80 hours a week, basically in the hospital all the time (surgery residencies are brutal). As an attending I'll be working a more relaxed 40 hours a week earning a top 1-2% income. More free time (= more effort spent on dating + not being exhausted all the time), much more money, higher status. Are you seriously telling me dating as a resident is the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/20 11:57 PM |
| 13 | Women make up a majority of the dating over 30 subreddit but why?Well it’s comparative. They likely had an easier time and also more high quality dick in their 20’s than their 30’s. What I’m saying is that women start at the top, 100%, and have nowhere to go but down. Compare that to men, we basically start at 0% lmao, and we have nowhere to go but up. Men don’t have inherent value, it has to be earned. So comparatively things get easier for us as we gain experience and learn how dating works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/20 11:07 PM |
| 17 | Women make up a majority of the dating over 30 subreddit but why?I see what you mean but I think the explanation is simpler than that. Women in their 20's generally have no trouble dating. Abundance of high quality dick, not looking to settle down. Their dating pool is as large as it can get. They don't need to come to reddit to vent or get advice, their dating life is as good as it gets. Women in their 30's are more desperate (if they want a family someday), and while they still have an abundance of dick, it is probably not as high quality, and their dating … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/20 10:53 PM |
| 3 | Women who require marriage in an LTR are at a disadvantage in the dating market due to changing perceptions around marriageYeah but I'm speaking of the future, not that we should be getting married now. Most of my friends don't want to get married in the future. We're early 20's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/20 10:47 PM |
| 3 | Women who require marriage in an LTR are at a disadvantage in the dating market due to changing perceptions around marriagePerhaps yeah, but I think we will likely see the effect earlier, most likely even by the time gen Z is old enough to be marriage age. I can't speak for women, but men in my age group for the most part do not want to get married in the future. Perhaps I'm in an echo chamber, my friends are all going into high paying careers (medicine, CS, dentistry etc.), and the last thing we want is to be dicked down by marriage. Why would we give up our freedom when we can have it all? Fwiw most my friends do … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/20 10:46 PM |
| 5 | Women who require marriage in an LTR are at a disadvantage in the dating market due to changing perceptions around marriageI don't have any stats to back it up, but my age group (older gen Z) doesn't really seem to want marriage/children/traditional family. The white picket fence life aka the American dream was a dream to Boomers and Gen X, and perhaps even older millennials. But the younger generation doesn't really care about that stuff. As society advances, the incentives to marry and have children dwindle. I'm UMC, and so are my peers btw, college educated, going into prestigious careers. Majority will probably … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/20 10:34 PM |
| 19 | Women make up a majority of the dating over 30 subreddit but why?The ladies are leftovers themselves in that case | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/20 10:23 PM |
| 17 | Women make up a majority of the dating over 30 subreddit but why?That doesn't explain the shift though, from 20's to 30's Men are the overwhelming majority talking about dating in their 20's, and the demo shifts towards women in their 30's | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/20 10:22 PM |
| 12 | Women make up a majority of the dating over 30 subreddit but why?Depends on your situation. I'm going to be in school till I'm 30 (dental school + residency). Yeah many people tend to get married while still in school or residency. But for a man especially, he would be a fool to get married as a student or resident. The quality of women I would be able to attract as an attending vs student/resident is a night and day difference. IMO it's smart for a career minded man to wait until 30's to get into a LTR, that's when he will be at his peak and will be able to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/20 10:20 PM |
| 37 | Women make up a majority of the dating over 30 subreddit but why?Yes and no, older women won't put up with as much bullshit but they're also more desperate to find a LTR especially if they want kids and a trad family someday. The amount of men who want to take on that role is declining however, hence the amount of women whining about how tough dating over 30 is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/20 10:15 PM |
| 5 | CMV- Most dating advice in this sub and other subs are more depressing and anxiety inducing than helpful to men and they should seek answers somewhere else.Well approaching women is a numbers game if you're just trying to get laid. But the core red pill belief is that you should improve your inner self. You have to become that man that women desire. There are no shortcuts. Red pill is trying to create more assertive and successful men who understand how the world/dating really works. TRP tries to take a low value male and turn him into a high value male. The outer game/performance you're talking about is some PUA shit. PUA takes a low value male, a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/20 04:02 AM |
| 7 | CMV- Most dating advice in this sub and other subs are more depressing and anxiety inducing than helpful to men and they should seek answers somewhere else.Lol what?? Don't get me wrong Models is a good book, but that's exactly what red pill does too. Redpill isn't about faking/pretending you're something your not. That's PUA. You're getting the two confused. Red pill is about self improvement mostly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/20 03:13 AM |
| 2 | [REPOST] “It is dangerous to be in the provider role because of the high risks. As well as the reality that women treat their casual sexual partners better than they treat their long term relationship partners.”Exactly, and it's not just the cost of the child, but also the opportunity cost in earnings when you spend your energy on the child instead of the job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/20 05:04 AM |
| 1 | Should men start to put as much effort into appearance as women?If you want an actual relationship, you should find somebody who likes you for the actual you, not the plastic you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/20 03:26 AM |
| 3 | Should men start to put as much effort into appearance as women?Maybe lean muscular, but I doubt jacked like a bodybuilder It seems like it would be impossible to get that big doing only bodyweight exercises | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/20 02:27 AM |
| 5 | Should men start to put as much effort into appearance as women?Average woman is 5'3 170lb Average man is 5'9 200 lb Both are fat as fuck, but the average woman is definitely fatter. Also muscle weighs more than fat, men have more muscle whereas women have more fat. The average woman in the US would give Shamu a run for his money | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/20 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Should men start to put as much effort into appearance as women?Seems pretty unhealthy though, severe case of body dismorphia if you have to get plastic surgery all over your body. IMO just earn shit tons of money, and if you're butt ugly then just pay for sex for the rest of your life. Much healthier alternative, and you get to be rich too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/20 02:19 AM |
| 3 | Should men start to put as much effort into appearance as women?100 years ago you would have been lucky to make it to 30 with all your teeth The average height was also much lower due to poor nutrition. I seriously doubt any significant amount of men hit the gym back then. So yeah I think we are more attractive now than 100 years ago | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/20 02:14 AM |
| 1 | CMV: "Provider" males should employ sugar dating strategy by 30s rather than marry women in 30+ range that rode CCYou've had 20 SB's, or am I misreading that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/20 12:33 AM |
| 3 | CMV: "Provider" males should employ sugar dating strategy by 30s rather than marry women in 30+ range that rode CCFDS is mostly just bitter ugly women I'm guessing. Hot women wouldn't need a 'strategy', they simply have to exist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/20 12:29 AM |
| 1 | CMV: "Provider" males should employ sugar dating strategy by 30s rather than marry women in 30+ range that rode CCHe's a typical beta male though, they place women on a pedestal and simp for them. He's enjoying it because it's the only attention he gets from women. That doesn't mean he won't get burned in the future | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/20 12:05 AM |
| 4 | [REPOST] “It is dangerous to be in the provider role because of the high risks. As well as the reality that women treat their casual sexual partners better than they treat their long term relationship partners.”I don't even care for having children. I don't see the point, sacrificing 20 years of the prime of your life for pretty much nothing I believe a lot more of my generation (gen Z) is going to choose the childfree hedonistic lifestyle over the traditional nuclear family, just based on how my peers and I view the future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/20 11:47 PM |
| 1 | How is dating/relationship dynamics going to change as Gen Z moves into their early 20s and is at the forefront of popular culture?I'm technically gen z even though I feel more like a millennial I think my generation is just gonna be even more divided than previous generations. Bunch of sexless men who stay in, and other men that are out slaying it (the top 10%) Also women in my generation are typically going to be more educated than the men, so that may change dynamics as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/20 11:15 PM |
| 3 | Changes in the Distribution of Sex Partners in the United States: 2002 to 2011–2013 [The 80/20 rule strikes again?]Yeah that actually makes sense haha But after a few thousand women wouldnt you just get bored? Having sex with 20k women seems like a full time job lolol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/20 02:05 AM |
| 9 | Changes in the Distribution of Sex Partners in the United States: 2002 to 2011–2013 [The 80/20 rule strikes again?]Yeah I imagine it’s like an S curve, the bottom percentiles get 0 sex, top percentiles get maximum sex but it plateaus at some point Then again Wilt Chamberlain apparently slept with 20,000 women, and Fidel Castro 35,000 or something crazy like that. I can’t even make sense of those numbers lmfao my dick would be sore af | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/20 12:36 AM |
| 2 | Changes in the Distribution of Sex Partners in the United States: 2002 to 2011–2013 [The 80/20 rule strikes again?]Look at it this way. A rich man could go to a club, spend 3 hours there and come home with a 4/10 drunk whale Or he could call up a 9/10 escort for 500 bucks, get what he wants with no drama No brainer, also those 3 hours cost him more than an escort | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/20 12:21 AM |
| 3 | Changes in the Distribution of Sex Partners in the United States: 2002 to 2011–2013 [The 80/20 rule strikes again?]The ugliest rich man on the planet can still get laid Maybe a top American escort who doesn't need the money would reject him, but there's no doubt some poor woman from a third world country would fuck his brains out for money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/20 11:27 PM |
| 2 | Changes in the Distribution of Sex Partners in the United States: 2002 to 2011–2013 [The 80/20 rule strikes again?]I mean yeah I agree. I'm just saying rich men don't have to put in any effort into getting laid. Money talks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/20 11:16 PM |
| 5 | Changes in the Distribution of Sex Partners in the United States: 2002 to 2011–2013 [The 80/20 rule strikes again?](x) doubt If you have $850 million, you're not worried whatsoever about blowing a few 100k on SB's, you'll make more than that in a few days | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/20 10:57 PM |
| 6 | Changes in the Distribution of Sex Partners in the United States: 2002 to 2011–2013 [The 80/20 rule strikes again?]Your business partners aren't rich enough. There comes a point where spending $100k on sugar babies is the equivalent of a middle class person buying a PS5. It's such a small % of your portfolio it's pretty much insignificant in long term wealth growth models. An incel is not sitting on $50 million, otherwise he wouldn't be an incel lmfao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/20 10:52 PM |
| 3 | Changes in the Distribution of Sex Partners in the United States: 2002 to 2011–2013 [The 80/20 rule strikes again?]I mean they're still piping 365 days a year, can't complain. If you're rich beyond your means might as well right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/20 10:40 PM |
| 3 | Changes in the Distribution of Sex Partners in the United States: 2002 to 2011–2013 [The 80/20 rule strikes again?]Rich men can have a rotation of 10 sugar babies, 3 times per month each. They basically have sex 365 times a year, with no effort except earning money, which they would be doing anyways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/20 10:32 PM |
| 14 | Changes in the Distribution of Sex Partners in the United States: 2002 to 2011–2013 [The 80/20 rule strikes again?]It makes sense. According to the study the body count of the top 20% was 15, the body count of the top 5% was 50, so the body count of the top 1% is probably over 150. Then there is the median man, with a body count of like 5. The top 1 percent wins again! They hold 66% of wealth, have 51% of sex etc.. lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/20 10:30 PM |
| 2 | Women dont want less sex than men. They want less sex with YOUI think his point is actually pretty legit though, at what point is a man perfect enough? Not saying we shouldn't keep improving ourselves throughout our lives, but we can't expect every man to be a 6'4 greek god with a 150 IQ. There are limits. Hypergamy makes it tough on men because we can never be good enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/20 12:42 AM |
| 3 | Women dont want less sex than men. They want less sex with YOUProbably very secretly yeah I think you may just be a low libido male my dude, you can't comprehend how much men actually like sex lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/20 11:51 PM |
| 2 | OFA Bachelor life over- or underrated?I can't tell if your first question is serious. Everyone has to be at their lowest at some point in life, often times there are many lows. You are not immune to getting sick for example, and your doctors are not gonna give as much of a shit about you as your wife will when you are sick (ideally). If you're worried about losing half your shit, then just be in a LTR with the woman and don't get married. Or date a woman that makes a lot of money herself. Also, being in a LTR doesn't mean you can't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/20 10:11 PM |
| 2 | OFA Bachelor life over- or underrated?Yeah I hear you. Ideally I'll marry a financially independent woman, maybe a doctor or dentist herself, so hopefully I won't have to worry about gold diggers. I'm not the type of guy to go after a hot 20 year old trophy wife anyways. I've thought about what it would be like to get into a relationship while I'm still in school, but it just sounds so difficult. During dental school I'll be studying constantly, wouldn't be able to give my girl much attention. Then during residency I'll be in the ho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/20 09:50 PM |
| 1 | OFA Bachelor life over- or underrated?Huh, I thought a husband and wife is still considered family without kids I can see myself being in a committed relationship without marriage, that actually seems ideal because you don't have to involve the law in your relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/20 09:32 PM |
| 1 | OFA Bachelor life over- or underrated?Why does it have to be a soulless unhappy marriage lmao? A GF (or FWB) that comes over to bang occasionally won't be there for you when you're at your lowest. Sure, your wife may not be there for you either and that's something I'm wary of, but if you pick well then you've locked in a companion for life. Sure you could live like Hugh Hefner, if you're rich enough, but I don't think it's a fulfilling life personally. If you can get a high value woman, you're probably better off in a LTR. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/20 08:56 PM |
| 1 | OFA Bachelor life over- or underrated?I'm the opposite, I wouldn't mind marriage but I don't want kids Are you man or woman btw? i'm just curious why you think it's not worth it to be in a committed relationship unless you were having kids | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/20 08:48 PM |
| 3 | OFA Bachelor life over- or underrated?Honestly getting married that early doesn't sound ideal I'm 21 and I still feel like a kid, and I know in 4-5 years I won't be anywhere close to being mature enough for lifelong commitment. I'm going to dental school and then hopefully oral surgery residency, so I wouldn't even be out of school till I'm 30 years old. I can't imagine getting married before I'm even out of school. Do you think you guys just matured faster than most? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/20 08:45 PM |
| 2 | OFA Bachelor life over- or underrated?Fwiw, I would love for my future wife to also act like a mom lol Mom's are the best | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/20 08:41 PM |
| 1 | OFA Bachelor life over- or underrated?LTR's probably have the edge over a lifetime. There aren't many bachelors who are happy into their 50's and 60's. Even guys like Dan Bilzerian, I bet their lives are actually pretty unfulfilling even though they seem like a bachelor's dream. I think best case scenario would probably be being in a LTR with a woman on the same page as you, skip having kids, and go out there and have a blast | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/20 08:36 PM |
| 3 | OFA Bachelor life over- or underrated?You can have both, sort of You can have a childfree LTR, basically DINK's, where you travel constantly, retire early, meet lots of cool people, and you still have a partner to be there for you whenever you need it. Sleeping with variety of women..well maybe if your wife is ok being a woman cuck then that's a possibility too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/20 08:33 PM |
| 3 | Question: Have any of you had an experience that restored some of your faith in the opposite sex?London women be different than Brazillian women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/20 06:44 PM |
| 3 | "The decline" is largely a myth - female promiscuity isn't new.False equivalency This is due to biased courts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/20 02:21 AM |
| 2 | Do men dislike being approached by women romantically or is that just a myth?The same way men are used for money/resources Everyone has to be vulnerable at some point in their life, otherwise they won't get what they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/20 11:25 PM |
| 2 | Do men dislike being approached by women romantically or is that just a myth?Male thirst as well. Thirstry guys will put any woman on a pedestal, and now they think they're a few notches higher | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/20 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Do men dislike being approached by women romantically or is that just a myth?Why would he be happy with someone way below his league? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/20 10:19 PM |
| 2 | Do men dislike being approached by women romantically or is that just a myth?Approach people in your league then If you're an unemployed chub, don't expect to get a LTR from a handsome rich guy. He has better women to go after. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/20 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Do men dislike being approached by women romantically or is that just a myth?Of course you can. You will always attract better partners if you go after what you want, rather than waiting for them to come to you. This applies to both men and women, so it's confusing to me why women don't go after what they want and instead choose to wait and let it come to them. Seems like they'll miss out on great guys tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/20 09:51 PM |
| 2 | Do men dislike being approached by women romantically or is that just a myth?I never understood this from women, why not go after what you want rather than have it come to you? This mentality is exactly why women don't get promoted to C-level positions as often as men, because they don't actually take charge and go after it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/20 09:49 PM |
| 1 | On average, women will see men as less attractive, comparatively to how attractive men see women. Men will complain about this fact, but blissfully forget that women actually take care of themselves.I wouldn't do it but I don't plan on getting big anyways To me it's all about aesthetics, I would rather have the male model look than the bodybuilder look | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/20 06:52 AM |
| 1 | On average, women will see men as less attractive, comparatively to how attractive men see women. Men will complain about this fact, but blissfully forget that women actually take care of themselves.Huh, that's interesting. I've always noticed that gay guys always had a group of girls around them. In high school my friends and I would joke that we should pretend to be gay and slide right in I guess I missed out hahaha I don't think I could ever see myself wearing makeup though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/20 05:05 AM |
| 1 | On average, women will see men as less attractive, comparatively to how attractive men see women. Men will complain about this fact, but blissfully forget that women actually take care of themselves.Women will definitely notice it, even if other men don't. Do you wear makeup? Also do you have a source for that second point because that seems ridiculous hahaha If you're having sex with both women and men you're bi, not gay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/20 04:22 AM |
| 2 | On average, women will see men as less attractive, comparatively to how attractive men see women. Men will complain about this fact, but blissfully forget that women actually take care of themselves.Bro any woman who sees a man wearing makeup will instantly think he's gay. Nothing to do with the manosphere lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/20 02:56 AM |
| 1 | On average, women will see men as less attractive, comparatively to how attractive men see women. Men will complain about this fact, but blissfully forget that women actually take care of themselves.sunscreen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/20 02:30 AM |
| 0 | On average, women will see men as less attractive, comparatively to how attractive men see women. Men will complain about this fact, but blissfully forget that women actually take care of themselves.You can if you cycle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/20 02:27 AM |
| 8 | Women vs. Men who sleep aroundMoney helps improve your attractiveness in other ways too You can afford skincare, plastic surgery if that's your thing, hair transplant Also are we gonna ignore the #1 way money gets men laid....by literally paying for it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/20 10:10 AM |
| 1 | Do most men find that a friendship with a woman is pointless?Nah the problem for me is not attraction. I'm not like the other dudes in here, I can make friends without wanting to fuck them. Guess I'm just not as horny, or not as desperate. The problem for me is that the opportunity just never arises. Like I said my hobbies are mostly male dominated (fishing, cars, gaming etc.), and my friend groups are also pretty much exclusively male. I've never had a woman show interest in being friends with me. I wouldn't mind making woman friends, it's probably good … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/20 09:09 PM |
| 2 | Do most men find that a friendship with a woman is pointless?Makes sense, but what happens if they break up? O.o Do you prioritize one person over the other, your original friend maybe? I've never tried to form friendships with my bros gf's. I'm friendly with them but I see them more as an acuaintence than an actual friend. I'm early 20's fwiw, none of my homies are going to be wifing up their gf's anytime soon so I've never made an effort to bond with them. It might be different if I were in my 30's and I know my friends gf's/wives are going to be around… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/20 09:04 PM |
| 4 | Do most men find that a friendship with a woman is pointless?How do you do that without it being awkward though? I'm a dude and if I started hanging out with my bros gf's that would be hella sus I also have basiclly no female friends. My hobbies are mostly male dominated, and I can't really joke around with women the same way I can with my bros. It would be a really restricted friendship. I don't know how all these dudes on here have so many female friends. Are they just feminine men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/20 07:44 PM |
| 0 | These "Strategies" and "Pills" need to stop because they will turn people into abusersBruh that's like the white picket fence life, a bit boring haha. To each their own though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/20 07:52 AM |
| 1 | These "Strategies" and "Pills" need to stop because they will turn people into abusersUsername doesn't check out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/20 07:51 AM |
| 2 | Low effort first dates are basedBe honest, you probably live in the middle of nowhere You can't get all that near any major metropolitan area | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/20 07:39 AM |
| 1 | The change in beauty standards amongst womenMaybe breast reduction for your health? I've heard big boobs on a small frame can cause back problems | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/20 08:10 AM |
| 3 | The change in beauty standards amongst womenMost women don't get it unfortunately They think they need that Kardashian look, but in all honesty that's a total turnoff for most men Most men do prefer normal and healthy over unnatural or extremes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/20 07:40 AM |
| 6 | The change in beauty standards amongst womenRated by who though? Is this a worldwide survey or American survey? Because worldwide half the overall population is some type of Asian, so it makes sense that they are considered the most attractive However in America I would think that western women would be rated more attractive. Among my friends, we consider asian girls cute, but white chicks straight up hot af | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/20 07:04 AM |
| 8 | The change in beauty standards amongst womenMost men prefer normal boobs and a bigger ass, but on a thin frame. Sorta like the insta model look. Opposite of kate upton That's what's popular these days atleast among younger men (I'm 21 for reference) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/20 06:53 AM |
| 4 | The change in beauty standards amongst womenThat's subjective Many people don't like Asian faces. The eyes, cheekbones, overall facial structure. In America it seems the ideal woman has western facial features. High cheekbones, pointy jaw, slender face as opposed to a round face. Just look at most supermodels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/20 06:43 AM |
| 9 | The change in beauty standards amongst womenYeah honestly give me a VS model type girl anyday over thicc girls Thicc girls eventually become fat once their metabolism slows down in their 30's. Thin girls tend to age better and is accompanied with an active lifestyle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/20 06:08 AM |
| 1 | An experiment in hypergamy/polygamy theoryI'm still young so I don't have the experience, but I feel like in a completely monogamous relationship we will eventually get 'bored' of each other. Not in the sense that we want to break up, but that we need to add outside stuff to spice up our lives. Swinging accomplishes that. I'm not a poly person, I believe you can only love one person. But that being said, having sex with the same person forever has to get boring I imagine. Maybe you can just hire escorts if not swinging? This way you can… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/20 08:29 PM |
| 1 | An experiment in hypergamy/polygamy theoryThat's just going against our desires though Almost every human needs companionship in their life I'm planning on being self reliant (financially, emotionally) , and will have no problem acquiring sex (you can always pay for it). However I still desire companionship, someone to grow old together with. I think a swinger lifestyle can allow you to keep your relationship interesting, flirting with other people, having sex with other people. This way you don't feel "stuck", and it can make your rela… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/20 07:36 PM |
| 1 | An experiment in hypergamy/polygamy theoryBest of both worlds though, your sex life is always good, but you still have security and companionship thru a relationship Most men can't make it work though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/20 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Is the marriage/birth rate declining because women don't want it? Or is it because men are of increasingly low quality.Not enough Betabux for all women? This is exactly why women are told to not ride the carousel for too long. It's like a college app, the earlier you apply the higher the chance of getting accepted. If you ride the carousel for 10-15 years and then apply for betabux, your chance of acceptance is much lower. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/20 08:45 PM |
| 2 | Is the marriage/birth rate declining because women don't want it? Or is it because men are of increasingly low quality.They're still in the phase of their life where they want to ride the Chad cock carousel Wait 5-10 more years until they're not young and hot anymore, and they'll settle with Mr. Betabux, who will lift them out of poverty Men will likely have to get out of poverty on their own | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/20 08:30 PM |
| 3 | Is the marriage/birth rate declining because women don't want it? Or is it because men are of increasingly low quality.Honestly I don't know much about poverty stats, but economists probably have a reason for why people in poverty can't move out of it. It's likely not as simple as going to trade school. I don't think guys are actively choosing to be poor, they probably don't have any other options. They might be an ex con, former druggie etc. The reason we might not see as many women in these situations is because like I said above, women can find a betabux provider to lift them out of poverty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/20 05:30 AM |
| 4 | Is the marriage/birth rate declining because women don't want it? Or is it because men are of increasingly low quality.Then there's plenty of "economically viable" men if you want to go by your definition. Just look at the stats. Men still earn more than women, even though they aren't going to college as much. This likely means they are going into those trade jobs you mention. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/20 05:11 AM |
| 3 | Is the marriage/birth rate declining because women don't want it? Or is it because men are of increasingly low quality.The median income is only 60k or so. That means 50% of men are making less than that. I don't think it's as simple as "pull yourself up by the bootstraps and find a 6 figure job" otherwise everyone would be doing it. I'm going into dentistry to guarantee a high income. You wanna know what % of the American population has a doctorate degree? Only 2%. And yes, seats are limited. My point is that for majority of men out there, they can't just go find a 6 figure job. And if they're in a dead end car… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/20 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Every (wo)man should be exposed to red pill content, as this would help achieve the antithetical goal of trp itself.I feel like you're projecting hard here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/20 09:56 AM |
| 0 | Every (wo)man should be exposed to red pill content, as this would help achieve the antithetical goal of trp itself.That just sounds painful tbh, I can't imagine reading incel forums as entertainment I wouldn't wish that on my worst enemy lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/20 09:01 AM |
| 2 | Every (wo)man should be exposed to red pill content, as this would help achieve the antithetical goal of trp itself.Lmao idek what to say You freaky | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/20 08:21 AM |
| 0 | What are your thoughts on Bella Thorne making $1 million USD on onlyfansShe made 1 million in one day. That's a lot lmao, I don't think you understand how much that is. Extrapolated over a year she would bring in over $300 million To put that into context, LeBron James makes around $40 million a year. The most famous A list actors usually make less than $100 million in a year. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/20 06:16 AM |
| 1 | What are your thoughts on Bella Thorne making $1 million USD on onlyfansIm an actual escort and some men I see are total Chads. Chads pay too. Yeah this is one of the few areas where I disagree with red pill They are really against seeing escorts, but as someone going into a high paying career, seeing escorts only makes sense to get consistent high quality sex while you work on a relationship on the side There's this misconception that only incels or betas see escorts, but often times doctors, lawyers, and other powerful professionals see escorts because they don't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/20 06:11 AM |
| 2 | Every (wo)man should be exposed to red pill content, as this would help achieve the antithetical goal of trp itself.Next thing you know your man starts wearing your lingerie | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/20 05:27 AM |
| 14 | Every (wo)man should be exposed to red pill content, as this would help achieve the antithetical goal of trp itself.I wonder why people like you still hang out on these forums, if you're truly satisfied with your husband Are you looking to get back in the game? Hypergamy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/20 05:00 AM |
| 3 | Do you ladies ask men out on dates? And for men, if a woman asks you out how do you feel about it?I would definitely feel useless if I wasn't the high earner in the relationship. I don't want to be a caretaker, I just want to be the one with the money so I have some power in the relationship. Luckily I'm going into a high paying field so most women I date will be making less than me. I know it's not a popular thing to say with the "woke" men of 2020, but I'll stand my ground on that one. Being dependent on a woman for your finances is the worst situation for a man to be in. You'll end up hom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/20 08:42 AM |
| 1 | What are the pros AND cons of being in a relationship with you?oh oops sorry i misread | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/20 08:20 AM |
| 0 | What are the pros AND cons of being in a relationship with you?Why'd you call him a fag lmao? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/20 07:52 AM |
| 1 | [Discussion] No woman has ever seen how men really areHow do you even block someone on reddit lol I dont see it as an option anywhere | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/20 07:13 AM |
| 1 | "Gender wars" will always exist in society, because the male and female sexual imperatives are diametrically opposed.That's the problem isn't it Doctors making 500k/year are paying more in taxes than some rich "investor" aka inherited daddy's money It's a backwards system, they should tax capital more and lower income taxes on the upper middle class. That's the only way to "tax the rich" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/20 06:59 AM |
| 1 | CMV: looks are subjective in the same way taste in music is subjective - very littleYeah I mean if you're an outlier then height matters. 5'3 is like bottom 2% for men, which is really short. Height only matters if you're an outlier, otherwise it's just a box to check off. Women want a man that's taller by a few inches, that's about it. So as long as you're 5'6+ you're fine Body and face aesthetics matter the most. Money helps too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/20 06:49 AM |
| 1 | CMV: looks are subjective in the same way taste in music is subjective - very littleProbably not because that's shorter than the average girl in the US When I said height doesn't matter I meant more that as long as you're taller than the girl it should be fine, ex. being 5'8 won't put you at much of a disadvantage compared to a 6'2 guy if you have better face and body aesthetics than him. However 5'3 is really short, and at that point it might start being a big disadvantage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/20 05:37 AM |
| 3 | Are we moving to a situation where many men don't feel as if they have a stake in society anymore?It's like stock picking. Successful stock picks are going to be better than simply investing in VTSAX, but if you get burned you get burned bad. It all depends on how much risk you wanna take. Same thing with marriage. Higher risk, higher reward, but also higher chance of completely ruining your life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/20 06:36 AM |
| 2 | Are we moving to a situation where many men don't feel as if they have a stake in society anymore?Dentistry too Graduate at 26 (or 30 if you want to be an oral surgeon like me), buy a million dollar practice within a year or two after graduation and start raking it in. The plus side is, you can work 4 days a week, 30-40 hours, unlike investment banking or similar where you're working 60+ hours. This leaves some free time to go out and smash. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/20 06:29 AM |
| 1 | Do women consider themselves to be "high value" even if they themselves aren't loyal?Lol I'm not planning on having kids And I sure as hell won't marry someone who plans on staying at home all day. It's 2020, men don't need to carry the entire financial burden while the woman stays home and fucks the mailman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/20 04:19 AM |
| 3 | CMV: looks are subjective in the same way taste in music is subjective - very littleA fade is like the most clean cut you can get wym? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/20 07:36 PM |
| 1 | To women that seek out partners a foot taller than them... Why?If you're tall and your husband is tall, your son is probably gonna be 7 foot or some shit like that. Not sure that's a good thing though, unless you want him to be in the NBA. The taller you are, the more back problems you have and the earlier you will die in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/20 07:58 AM |
| 1 | To women that seek out partners a foot taller than them... Why?It's kinda true tho If you're on the streets and some thugs approach you, being heavier and taller won't do shit, but a glock near my cock will do wonders lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/20 07:56 AM |
| 6 | CMV: looks are subjective in the same way taste in music is subjective - very littleI feel like in real life, it's all about face + body aesthetics. Height helps but isn't necessary. For men, most of attractiveness is in your control, unless you were truly born genetically deformed. Lift and get larger shoulders, triceps, chest, but don't lift too much cuz that hulk look ain't sexy, Lower your bodyfat to under 12% for facial aesthetics and vascularity + abs. Shave to show off the jawline (stubble is fine). Get a haircut, preferably a fade. Have a good skincare routine and eat h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/20 07:31 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Dating advice should only come from well-adjusted, mentally healthy, secure, mature, and high-value peopleYes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/20 07:15 AM |
| 8 | Keeping boyfriends secret: why?Lmao we’re gonna need a source on this one chief | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/20 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Sex workers are not good for lonely menYeah a regular person likely can't even afford escorts on a regular basis so this strategy won't work for them. You have to be a high earner. This is probably what I'll be doing in the future. I'm studying to be an oral surgeon, so I'll be in training till 30, working crazy hours. I don't want to work hard on the job and come home to chase pussy, I would rather just cut the bullshit and get right to the source using money. This is why OP's post is mostly bullshit. Men that use escorts usally are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/20 08:42 AM |
| 5 | Sex workers are not good for lonely menYou can strive for a relationship and still see escorts. They are not mutually exclusive. In fact, you can have plates and still be seeing escorts who fulfill any of your needs that a FWB or GF wouldn't. I'll give an example: A doctor just got out of training. He's working 50 hours a week, doesn't really have time to go out every night and chase pussy. So he fulfills his needs through escorts. In the meantime, he could still pursue relationships in his free time, with other professionals, rather… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/20 05:14 AM |
| 2 | Do women consider themselves to be "high value" even if they themselves aren't loyal?Lmao what? You're really buying into that SAHM is a harder job bullshit? C'mon man. I'm going into a high paying career, but there's no way I'm gonna support a bum for a wife. She's gonna pull her own weight or she's getting the boot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/20 09:03 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: Does it bother you when you dump a guy and he does not seem to care?Bruh this gives me no confidence whatsoever that I will ever find a good woman for me lmao Honestly if this is actually true, I would rather just Dan Bilzerian it for the rest of my life than commit to a woman who won't commit to me. I'm studying to be an oral surgeon, so realistically I'll be making enough to live the sugar baby/escort lifestyle. Hugh Hefner lite ... But I won't lie though, I definitely wanna find love in my life. It's just I would definitely get hurt a lot if I knew my woman d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/20 07:12 AM |
| 1 | The red pill assertion that the male prime years are between 35-45 is hogwashThis is why you don't get married and have kids! Having kids is the most pointless thing in life. I would rather just invest that money and spend extra time at my job and retire early and live a carefree, hedonistic life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/20 06:29 AM |
| 1 | The red pill assertion that the male prime years are between 35-45 is hogwashI think this is the correct answer. I'm studying to be an oral surgeon. This means I'll bascially be in training till I'm 30, broke as fuck. I'll keep working on myself but there's no way I'm going to be in my prime until atleast my early 30's, once my career is underway and I'm raking it in. Every male has their own trajectory in life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/20 06:08 AM |
| 5 | Q4W: Does it bother you when you dump a guy and he does not seem to care?As a guy I wouldn't wanna date someone who was lining up boyfriends to migrate to after me. It's not really cheating, but if I found out my girl was lining dudes up I would feel like she wasn't commited to me, so it's not worth it to keep the relationship going. I feel like most self respecting, high value guys would feel the same way as me. It goes back to your original comment, of how we need to feel important. If your girl is lining up dudes to replace you, then of course you won't feel impor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/20 05:33 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Raw GSS Data shows that Men's Sexlessness is Overstated.Lmfao that actually made me chuckle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/20 05:14 AM |
| 3 | The red pill only teaches you how to attract Stacy, which does not work well on average women, and warps your perception of women.So what's your issue then? RP is just a way for clueless men to get on board and take control of their life. You focus too much on the negatives of red pill, but not enough on the positives. I was a clueless dude in HS and reading RP motivated me to become a pretty successful dude now. I went from being a directionless bum in HS with a sub 3 GPA, to getting thru college with a 3.97 and pursuing a career in dentistry. There aren't many support groups for men out there. It's not just about getting… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/20 04:22 AM |
| 1 | The Red Pill teaches dudes how to not get played by the games women play - And Women hate seeing their own game being played against themNah bro ur not getting it, that's a different type of walk. Idk why ur going into law, but lets say you want to be a big law partner making millions of bucks a year. Are you really gonna find teachers who walked that walk in law school? Why the fuck would they be wasting their time teaching? They've got better things to do Even in dental school, every teacher has practiced dentistry. They've all walked the walk, but it's a different walk. I'm not going to dental school so I can make the perfect … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/20 03:55 AM |
| 1 | The Red Pill teaches dudes how to not get played by the games women play - And Women hate seeing their own game being played against themLol you realize most of the teachers you have had throughout your life have never walked the walk right? You're not learning physics from Stephan Hawking, you're most likely learning it from some half brained schlub who barely made it through college to get his teaching degree. The people that actually walk the walk are too busy walking the walk. I'll give you a personal example. I'm going into dentistry. If you look at CE courses being taught on practice management, they're mostly taught by guy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/20 03:15 AM |
| 1 | The Red Pill teaches dudes how to not get played by the games women play - And Women hate seeing their own game being played against themUr trying to say that you need to walk the walk to talk the talk, but I don't think that's true A red pill preacher is the same as a teacher. Even if they haven't walked the walk, they're teaching other people how to do it. I mean I agree that leading by example is the best case scenario, but if there's men out there pulling strange on the regular do you really think they're gonna teach a bunch of neckbeards how to do it? Nah, probably not. That's why you got these red pill preachers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/20 02:40 AM |
| 1 | The Red Pill teaches dudes how to not get played by the games women play - And Women hate seeing their own game being played against themBill Belichick is one of the greatest coaches ever Put him on a football field and even my pansy ass would clobber him I don't think your point stands tbh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/20 02:30 AM |
| 2 | How would radical life extension affect dating?Haha yeah I agree, I’m fine with the way I look. I wouldn’t mind getting some swole muscle genes tho lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/20 07:46 PM |
| 1 | How would radical life extension affect dating?Anti-aging scientists are working on senescent drugs to eliminate senescent cells. This should basically nuke all the bad cells in our body (not necessarily cancerous cells but cells that malfunction and cause problems) Then there is also epigenetic reprogramming. A bunch of scientists are working on that. That can reverse some of the epigenetic changes that occur as we age, we just need to know which genes to target. Of course somatic genetic reprogramming is probably the ultimate "cure" but th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/20 07:13 PM |
| 1 | How would radical life extension affect dating?If we successfully reverse aging, I'm sure we can also reprogram our genes to make ourselves all look attractive. We'll all be a bunch of Chads running around haha | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/20 07:03 PM |
| 0 | Why won't men date a woman he finds attractive enough to sleep with?Well then I guess you could say if you’re not a successful man you’re not going to have value in society anyways, regardless of if you are single or in a relationship. I don’t see how being in a relationship gives a man value I’m single rn and I feel valuable as fuck, but I’m relatively successful and going into a high paying career. Most of my friends/family look up to me an are proud of me. I’m not sure what being in a relationship would change for me. In fact the last time I was in a relation… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/20 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Why won't men date a woman he finds attractive enough to sleep with?Here's the basic takeaway We fuck to bust a nut. That doesn't mean we want to get in a LTR with that woman, we just wanted to bust a nut. For a LTR, we look at many other qualities as well. This isn't just about busting a nut anymore. Simply being fuckable doesn't qualify you as LTR material. Women I guess are wired differently. They only fuck men who they would get in a LTR with, but it's not true for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/20 09:50 AM |
| 0 | Why won't men date a woman he finds attractive enough to sleep with?You think men can't be valued members of a community without a woman in their life? What kind of goofy ass logic is that? You think Jeff Bezos needs a woman in his life to be valued? You think the neurosurgeon at your hospital needs a woman in his life to be valuable? Men have intrinsic value too, our value is not dependant on women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/20 09:45 AM |
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