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| 507 | it’s all bullshit, but it kinda really fucking isn’t. | pre_internet | /r/seduction | 04/08/18 11:34 AM |
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| 2 | what is something attractive that women do during conservation (in person)?Laugh | /r/seduction | 20/02/21 12:34 AM |
| 26 | Taking a tinder girl out for drinks tomorrow. Any tips on how I can make the conversation more sexual in a nine creepy wayTurn that creep volume up to nine. | /r/seduction | 20/11/19 07:51 AM |
| 3 | Met this Girl on tinder, need your opinionsI don’t chase em I replace em - Notorious BIG Don’t overthink it my dude. Pick a day next week when your free and invite her to do something. That’s it. If she can cool. If she can’t cool. Talk to her and other girls in the meantime. | /r/seduction | 03/06/19 08:44 AM |
| 2 | I get really triggered hearing about people hooking up and talking about sex like it's so easy.It won’t fix the problem completely, but it is a tool you can use to fix the problem from moment to moment. Everything entropies so there is never going to be a permanent fix for anything. Everything will always require maintenance. If you want this it will be something you will constantly have to work at. As for your analogy of two people on an island, where one is eating well and the other is starving you are correct in knowing that the one who is starving should compare what he is doing, his … | /r/seduction | 17/04/19 08:02 PM |
| 5 | I get really triggered hearing about people hooking up and talking about sex like it's so easy.That’s because you’re comparing your experience to theirs. It’s natural, but also a complete waste of time. Only compare yourself to past versions of yourself. Then you’ll be able to see what direction your heading. Your experience is unique, valuable, and ultimately punk rock as fuck. Own it. | /r/seduction | 16/04/19 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Just want to vent about this.. maybe get some advice.Cool dude. I’ve heard meditation works well. I wrote a post awhile ago on frame/inner game and how I approach it. You can find it in my profile and ask me if you have any questions. | /r/seduction | 04/04/19 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Just want to vent about this.. maybe get some advice.Hey brother!!! I read your post a while ago, and saved it because I knew I was gonna comment on it eventually. So without any further adoooo, here comes the bullshit.... My brother, I don’t like the way you talk to yourself. I mean the way your post reads I can tell you really let yourself have it for no good reason. I can tell you have some self hate, and here’s the thing.... You don’t have to. You have no anchor holding you to be the person you were five minutes ago. You have a wonderful mind … | /r/seduction | 31/03/19 09:25 AM |
| 2 | Fuck I messed up. How do I come back from being needy?I feel that you’re overthinking the whole damn thing. Be kind to yourself my brother. Small potatoes my man, small potatoes. I love the idiom small potatoes. It means the potatoes are so small they’re not even worth harvesting. The potatoes are insignificant to the point of being irrelevant. I love that shit. Let’s stop overthinking everything. Here’s a story about overthinking. An athlete who was good at sports in high school goes off to college. While at college the athlete encounters some pee… | /r/seduction | 28/12/18 08:18 AM |
| 5 | What’s with the anti masturbation sentiment around here?It’ll make you blind | /r/seduction | 19/12/18 10:37 PM |
| 4 | I can't believe i actually started shaking when talking to a girl. How do i control this..Change your way of thinking about it. You’re not terribly nervous thinking about all the things that could go wrong. You’re terribly excited thinking about all the things that could go right. | /r/seduction | 02/11/18 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Does it work?Please don’t do this. Grand gestures of affection are appreciated when they’re earned and desired, which will usually only happen well into a relationship. Study some basic kino videos on YouTube and go for the slow burn instead of the volcanic explosion. | /r/seduction | 22/10/18 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Would it be a bad idea to do cold-approaches in high schoolYes!! If you can master outcome independence and only have fun you’ll be well on your way. | /r/seduction | 02/10/18 02:26 PM |
| 1 | How to get girls in college if I can't go to parties?Partying is just like everything else. The more you do it the better you get at it. Just relax, tell yourself I don’t give a fuck, I’ll be dead soon anyways, and enjoy yourself. | /r/seduction | 22/09/18 08:34 AM |
| 1 | inner game blockageI wrote a post on inner game, check it out, and hit me up if you have any questions. | /r/seduction | 22/09/18 06:54 AM |
| 2 | inner game blockageYou’re 19. Slow you’re roll my dude. Keep walking up the path, and I know you’re alive and present right now. But these girls are dumb. Young girls are dumb. You’ll be there soon, but in the meantime just keep growing. Just keep working hard and moving up the path. If you do you’ll be killing it soon and light years beyond your peers | /r/seduction | 21/09/18 07:23 AM |
| 10 | Autistic -- there's no hope....Embrace your inner weirdo. Fuck social norms. Normals are boring as fuck. Repetition is boring as fuck. Damn it brah, it’ll all be over soon. It’s gonna sound a lot easier than it really is but just open up your fucking mouth and speak your truth. Don’t hold back. Be insane. Fuck it, it’ll all be over soon. Stop setting the base line of how you judge yourself by how you think other people judge you. Like I said, it’s a lot easier said than done as soon as you start thinking about it. I don’t kno… | /r/seduction | 20/09/18 03:40 AM |
| 3 | 25V horny girl in bed, kill meOf course you can’t control all your thoughts, you’re not a robot, but you can decide to not be attached to your thoughts. You are not your thoughts. You’re thoughts will come and go. Some will be weird and some will be wonderful, however none of them are truly who you are as a person. You are defined by your actions. It’s what you do in this life that matters. | /r/seduction | 28/08/18 11:50 AM |
| 11 | 25V horny girl in bed, kill meYou have to forgive yourself. Everybody makes mistakes, even the best of us. Everything you’ve ever wanted is on the other side of fear. | /r/seduction | 27/08/18 04:49 PM |
| 9 | I mostly attract guys, how can I fix it?Doing it right makes you attractive to all people. Yous on the right track my dude. | /r/seduction | 22/08/18 06:02 AM |
| 1 | What is the number one most important thing in dating?The single most important thing is to have fun. If you’re not, then what the fucking fuck are doing. | /r/seduction | 21/08/18 05:29 AM |
| 9 | Help! Girl says she's broke and can't go outCheap dates are the fucking best dates. If you feel you need to spend money to impress a girl you’re doing it wrong. The most valuable thing you can do is giving someone else your time. | /r/seduction | 21/08/18 04:07 AM |
| 2 | Is it dorky to dance by yourself?Music is the fucking best. Sometimes it gets inside of you so deep you gotta dance to push it out. Dance like an asshole whenever and wherever you want. Trust me, people love that shit. Not that you should give a shit what other people think, but seeing someone getting down and not giving a fuck, it’s hella attractive. | /r/seduction | 18/08/18 01:52 PM |
| 6 | seduction as an undesirable minorityAre you fucking sure, because I have to completely disagree. A fucking metric ass ton of women are hella excited by something that is unique and different and new to them. | /r/seduction | 05/08/18 09:03 PM |
| 3 | it’s all bullshit, but it kinda really fucking isn’t.Everyone manipulates everything all the time. I manipulate my fork when I’m eating so it goes into my mouth and not my fucking eye. Hahahha. | /r/seduction | 05/08/18 08:52 PM |
| 4 | it’s all bullshit, but it kinda really fucking isn’t.Yes sir. You just assume she’s fucking into you. She wants you to be the guy she wants. She’s rooting for you. Having this mindset puts you in the right headspace to be that best version of yourself. It takes the edge off. It eliminates doubt. I might have already said this in here but I truly believe that your happiness is intertwined with your outlook on life. | /r/seduction | 05/08/18 11:36 AM |
| 6 | it’s all bullshit, but it kinda really fucking isn’t.You fuck the right fucking woman and your whole body becomes your dick. Hahhaha. | /r/seduction | 05/08/18 11:28 AM |
| 2 | it’s all bullshit, but it kinda really fucking isn’t.I can only speak on my own behalf and from my own personal experience. When I feel the most affected by a woman is when they are truly, deeply, and freely feeling some type of way about something without a god damn care in their mind about what anyone else thinks. When she’s madly happy and there’s not a god damn thing that can be done about it I feel overcome with joy. When she’s gonna fuck me like it’s her last day on earth and there’s not a god damn thing that’s gonna stop her from doing it I… | /r/seduction | 05/08/18 11:25 AM |
| 5 | it’s all bullshit, but it kinda really fucking isn’t.I do all fucking three to be honest, and after doing it for awhile you’ll find that some of it just naturally sticks with you. Like muscle memory from repetition, or the knowledge etched in your skull from the test you studied for. | /r/seduction | 05/08/18 11:00 AM |
| 2 | it’s all bullshit, but it kinda really fucking isn’t.Yes fucking sir. I added it to the post. Thank you. | /r/seduction | 05/08/18 10:50 AM |
| 2 | it’s all bullshit, but it kinda really fucking isn’t.Yes sir. This post is about frame, but google the hell outta that shit. It’s magic. | /r/seduction | 05/08/18 05:06 AM |
| 3 | Should i just quit tinder?Never been on it. Personally I’ve always thought it was weird. Now honestly I have a couple friends who slay on it, so good on them. However there’s no substitute to real life face to face experience. I like women more than I like screens. I like having a real life experience more than having one in my head. | /r/seduction | 05/08/18 04:11 AM |
| 2 | it’s all bullshit, but it kinda really fucking isn’t.Body language is the universal language. Fucking love it. | /r/seduction | 05/08/18 03:50 AM |
| 15 | it’s all bullshit, but it kinda really fucking isn’t.If your able to speak then you have an instrument, a beautiful musical instrument. Now me homie, I can’t sing to save my life. Singing in front of people is probably my greatest fear. However, you need to finesse that tool in your throat. Practice homie. Talk to yourself in the mirror. Slow your shit down. Talk slower. Speak deeper. Just try it. It’s kinda mad sexy when you pull that shit every once in a while. Also it’s fun to talk fast, get excited, be excited about what your passionate about.… | /r/seduction | 05/08/18 03:28 AM |
| 3 | it’s all bullshit, but it kinda really fucking isn’t.Me too sometimes dude, that’s why I keep this list on my phone and look at it whenever I’m lacking. | /r/seduction | 05/08/18 12:52 AM |
| 3 | it’s all bullshit, but it kinda really fucking isn’t.Everyone suffers. Everyone who has ever existed. However you never can truly appreciate eating a really fucking amazing taco where you’re like holy fuck this taco is the fucking best taco in the universe until you’ve had a really shitty taco that tasted like wet newspaper and kept you on the shitter for three days. | /r/seduction | 04/08/18 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Field Report: JennieYes sir. Get a journal. If you have nothing to write about that day then write about nothing. Think of the mind like a muscle and exercise that fucker. You’ll get hella stronger at writing. On top of that you gotta read. Read the poets, the romantics, shit if your into cars read the fucking users manual. Just read about shit you like. Take what you find and edit it into your life, like when you hear a song and you don’t know the words but you think you know the words because you invented the wor… | /r/seduction | 04/08/18 10:25 PM |
| 11 | it’s all bullshit, but it kinda really fucking isn’t.Abundance mentality is based on the principle that women are repelled by neediness, and unfortunately it fucking true. Having an abundance mentality means truly knowing that you will always have options available to you in your life because you know your fucking awesome. I’m madly in love with someone right now. However, I know that if we should ever part for what ever reason I will be ok. I’ll be hurt as fuck for a while, but if I ever want to fall in love again I know I’ll meet, charm, seduce,… | /r/seduction | 04/08/18 10:18 PM |
| 26 | it’s all bullshit, but it kinda really fucking isn’t.The long and short of it is men are rational and women are emotional so logic doesn’t work. At the end of it all women deeply care and are connected to how you make them feel. So make them feel. Trigger their emotions. Get good at it. Play it like the most fascinating instrument you’ve ever discovered. | /r/seduction | 04/08/18 10:09 PM |
| 23 | it’s all bullshit, but it kinda really fucking isn’t.Thanks dude, I’ve been fucking with the community for years, but this is the first post I’ve ever made. | /r/seduction | 04/08/18 10:02 PM |
| 9 | it’s all bullshit, but it kinda really fucking isn’t.Undoubtably yes. I by no means approve of that fascist fuckhead, but something bad happened to him during his life that broke him inside. Mental illness is real and tragic and gross. | /r/seduction | 04/08/18 10:00 PM |
| 1 | it’s all bullshit, but it kinda really fucking isn’t.That’s a lot of situational questions my friend. This post was all about frame. Feel free to pm me with questions and I’ll do my best. | /r/seduction | 04/08/18 09:57 PM |
| 33 | it’s all bullshit, but it kinda really fucking isn’t.I mad about being present, but a couple canned lines for the shit tests spoken slowly and deeply with no hesitation, followed by a smirk. God damn. | /r/seduction | 04/08/18 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Can someone analyse this hot situation?I'm real close manShe just wants a little excitement in her life. Maybe she wants more, and maybe she wants more from you, but probably she’s just taking a small exciting risk that she won’t get burned by. | /r/seduction | 04/08/18 05:18 PM |
| 5 | it’s all bullshit, but it kinda really fucking isn’t.Then change locations, but also stop relying on the external atmosphere. You be fun, happy, exciting no matter what happens. | /r/seduction | 04/08/18 05:13 PM |
| 203 | it’s all bullshit, but it kinda really fucking isn’t.Yes sir. She says: you’re a player. You reply: if dating 17 girls at once is being a player then I guess you’re right. She says: I’m not sleeping with you tonight You reply: who says anything about sleeping? She says: you’re not my type. You reply: I’m not my type either, I like short guys. Anytime she challenges you, you just agree and exaggerate. | /r/seduction | 04/08/18 05:08 PM |
| 9 | it’s all bullshit, but it kinda really fucking isn’t.Well you must be one charming motherfucker, like ten times more charming than that Arnold on Green Acres. Hahahaha | /r/seduction | 04/08/18 04:57 PM |
| 3 | Can someone analyse this hot situation?I'm real close manHave you never heard smooth operator by Sade? It’s the shit. She likes danger. She likes standing next to the fire. Next to the fire. Not with you. Next to the fire. Fuck text messing, unless you’re a writer it’s the lowest form of communication. Go do you homie. You’re a smooth operator. | /r/seduction | 04/08/18 01:15 PM |
| 4 | She said she is bringing her friendI’ve been in this place many times. It’s either awesome or awful. So here’s what you do. You go out with them. Show up late. Not too late. Twenty minutes is good. When you arrive kiss the girl you want on the cheek and say how good it is to see her, then game her friend. Now the way you game her friend you have to understand is that her friend is your little sister. She is and has always been your best friend she just doesn’t know it yet. You are playful with her friend. She’s fun, you’re fun, y… | /r/seduction | 04/08/18 01:07 PM |
| 8 | Can someone analyse this hot situation?I'm real close manHonestly it sounds like a bust, and I feel that way because she kept bringing up someone else in a positive way. Let it go. I can tell by your post your a smooth operator. Go find some one who wants to fuck with you, and not some drunk chick who’s obviously taken and likes standing next to the fire. | /r/seduction | 04/08/18 12:37 PM |
| 2 | Field Report: JennieHonestly I had a hard time reading this. I’m a crappy writer and I can’t always get my point across. I feel like the post was not really laid out for me to read like a screenplay. There was a lot of nuances going on and I couldn’t catch them all. However. I love and commend the commanding attitude, and your vampire diaries joke was the tits. | /r/seduction | 04/08/18 12:13 PM |
| 15 | it’s all bullshit, but it kinda really fucking isn’t.Yeah buddy. Kino is the shit. Study it. It’s basically the physical chess game of how to touch a woman. It starts with the back of the arm or elbow whenever you start joking. It’s the first safe place to touch. There’s an art to becoming physically intertwined with a women’s body. It’s a slow burn. It builds comfort. It builds attraction. It fucking rules. | /r/seduction | 04/08/18 11:43 AM |
| 2 | Todd's The System, should I buy it?Nope, there are no magic bullets in this game. Just go talk to everyone you meet, especially girls. Be honest, be weird, be yourself. Keep doing it forever. You’ll figure it out as long as you don’t quit, ever. How bad do you fucking want to feel alive? | /r/seduction | 04/08/18 01:37 AM |
| 42 | Got a cute girl’s number, but I’m hesitant to text her after learning more about her life on social media [x-posted to r/dating_advice]Ugh. You’re fucked. You are so involved with these ideas of who you think this girl might be, and yet you’ve only met her once and briefly at that. Honestly l doubt you’ll be able to get the fuck out of your head enough to do something about it. I hope you do, but after reading your post I can clearly see you value your idea of who this girl might be over what you believe about yourself. Please think about studying frame, because I don’t think you have one. I’m kinda being I dick, and I’m kinda … | /r/seduction | 30/07/18 01:34 AM |
| 5 | I've lost the desire to socialize. How do I fix that?Wow. You just lost two people who you were really fucking close to. Your heart is probably deeply homesick for them. I write this because your post comes off as very blue, and that’s ok, but it’s probably affecting you in ways you know and don’t even know. I’d imagine your heart desires to fill this void and it will in time. In the meantime exercise does wonders for the body, mind, and spirit. I can not recommend it enough. That shit is pure alchemy. Also when you’re dealing with people don’t be… | /r/seduction | 30/07/18 01:00 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys do it?Talk to everyone. All the time. If you’re only waiting to talk to pretty girls then you’ve already put them on a pedestal which is triggering your approach anxiety. | /r/seduction | 21/07/18 07:32 AM |
| 1 | Balancing seduction and emotionsNeeded that right now. | /r/seduction | 17/07/18 05:56 AM |
| 3 | How to keep her chasing?That’s awesome dude. Good fucking job. Just keep doing what your doing with her. It’s working thus far and if you need to change you’ll figure that shit out when the time is right. You can still game and flirt with other girls, but don’t fuck em. You made a commitment and you should honor it. Instead of spending the time you would be spending with those other girls do something for yourself. Pick up a hobby. Find something that your passionate about and invest in yourself. | /r/seduction | 13/07/18 02:48 AM |
| 1 | How the fuck do I get over feeling bad about how I lookGo to the gym. Work the fuck out. | /r/seduction | 10/07/18 03:55 AM |
| 1 | Now that I am no longer in college, what do I have to do to live the party life and make friends with people who are a part of that lifestyle?Ohhh hell no. The only way any of us were able to survive was the simple fact that we didn’t have to be at work until 4pm. Then we’d get off around 11-12 and tear the city and each other apart. I swear I didn’t see the sun for years unless it was rising. That’s when you knew it’s time to go home. | /r/seduction | 09/07/18 04:57 AM |
| 1 | Now that I am no longer in college, what do I have to do to live the party life and make friends with people who are a part of that lifestyle?I worked at a nice, big, fucking awesome restaurant when I got out of college. Holy shit do servers know how to party. Cash in hand after every shift. A revolving door of new female employees. We partied every fucking night like animals setting fire to our inside and lives for fun and pleasure. Now I’m not saying do that before you settle down because it takes a monster, a really beautiful monster of a person to thrive in such chaos, but holy shit it was fun. | /r/seduction | 09/07/18 04:19 AM |
| 3 | Is he interested?I can’t reassure you that he likes you, but I can reassure you that you like him. My read is that you’re scared of rejection. We all are, however rejection is awesome. It separates the people who don’t fit into our lives from those who do. You’ve got to look at rejection like a skateboarder looks at a skinned knee. A skateboarder looks at a skinned knee with pride, because he took a chance and even though he failed he knows he tried. Now go speak your truth, and when you feel nervous as hell rig… | /r/seduction | 09/07/18 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Is he interested?Remember that you’re a prize and tell this man you would like to see him sometime outside of his work. That’s what you want to do but instead you’re posting on reddit waiting for someone to tell you what you already know. Go for it. Take a chance. Everything that’s worth a damn is on the other side of being afraid. | /r/seduction | 09/07/18 03:35 AM |
| 1 | I have no game and I’m tired of it. What should I do today to start working on myself so that I’m in a better place next week than I’m in right now.So true, but seduction is not about the women. It’s about falling in love with yourself. | /r/seduction | 30/06/18 04:14 PM |
| 5 | I have no game and I’m tired of it. What should I do today to start working on myself so that I’m in a better place next week than I’m in right now.Word. People told me this when I was younger and I brushed it off. I really didn’t put my heart into it until I was 27 and it changed everything for me. Pure alchemy. | /r/seduction | 29/06/18 09:50 PM |
| 11 | I have no game and I’m tired of it. What should I do today to start working on myself so that I’m in a better place next week than I’m in right now.Workout. It’ll take more than week, but a year from now you’ll feel and look amazing. | /r/seduction | 29/06/18 09:32 PM |
| 6 | Reflecting On My First Tinder Date EverCongratulations on pushing yourself out of your comfort zone. That being said I felt a lot of self loathing from your story. Don’t beat yourself up about it. A first anything can be trying. Look at what you accomplished. Next time try to just enjoy yourself. Don’t worry so much as to what she thinks or says or does. It’s your life. Enjoy it. It’ll be over soon enough. When you do this you’ll be more relaxed and so she’ll be more relaxed. Assume attraction. She’s going on a date with you for a re… | /r/seduction | 26/06/18 10:17 PM |
| 2 | So this happened..Sounds like an over-thinking-the-fuck out of a situation to me. I’m the werewolf who will they’ll you there’s no silver bullet. Life is complicated, and messy, and awesome. Follow your heart, find a way to fall in love with yourself, speak your truth, and fuck everyone who doesn’t want to enjoy you as much as you enjoy yourself. | /r/seduction | 25/06/18 03:19 AM |
| 3 | Starting and holding a sexual subject during a conversationBigger picture is you have to become comfortable enough with what you want out of life to risk making mistakes, risk saying things or doing things that others may be turned off to. By doing this two things will happen. Some people will fuck off, and some people will get on board with you. The true nature of pickup is to fall in love with yourself, express that truth you’ve found, and find like minded individuals who want to share in your experience. | /r/seduction | 22/06/18 08:58 PM |
| 5 | Starting and holding a sexual subject during a conversationTotally seen as a pervert every once in a while, but it’s totally worth it. Matter of fact, most people are perverts anyways. Check their browser history. | /r/seduction | 22/06/18 03:36 AM |
| 3 | The paradox of seduction: having desire for the girl you want but not never ever showing more desire than she does, otherwise you lose the gameI have to disagree. I love the feelings that come along with desiring someone, and I let my feelings be know. I’ve always felt this works in my favor. Hell, I go quite overboard with showing my feelings. The issue then comes down to one of the oldest pickup theories of all time which is don’t put them on a pedestal. Don’t sacrifice your own time, beliefs, character, etc in order to appease them. Stay true to yourself. So fuck it, if you want to show desire then do it. They already know what the … | /r/seduction | 21/06/18 11:12 PM |
| 5 | Guys who only gamed to keep their blade sharp. What's your plan and routineI’m in sales so I constantly reinforce my frame, adjust, adapt, and most importantly be present. | /r/seduction | 16/06/18 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Tomorrow for sureWith myself I feel becoming more attractive person is more important than being alpha. However that’s not the reason I’m replying. What I want to say is this. It’s important to set goals and to work towards achieving them, but in every situation you will ever find yourself in the dynamics of the interaction will be influenced by an insurmountable amount of factors. Keep your goals in mind, but focus on being present. Being present in the experience is amazing even when the experience is not. | /r/seduction | 15/06/18 04:23 AM |
| 1 | Best friend /Manager sleeping over. Don't know what to do, how to escalate or if I should escalate..This guy fucks | /r/seduction | 29/05/18 09:12 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with a guy who keeps poking fun at me in front of girls?Oh shit! I feel your struggle man. Back when I was on my come up I’ve been put in this situation a few times. It’s basically a shit test from a dude. My favorite response is first to agree with whatever they said just said. Secondly say “it’s better then being a hater like you.” Make an amplified joke out of what they originally just said (basically agree and amplify) the crazier the better. Finally work it back towards no one likes a hater. Here’s an example. Say dude calls you a fag. Hahahaha.… | /r/seduction | 29/05/18 09:02 AM |
| 6 | Pussied out and fucked up...how do I recover?If you think you fucked up just remember that you’re under no obligation to be the person you were five minutes ago. | /r/seduction | 25/05/18 04:31 PM |
| 5 | Got over the friend zoneI get rejected, and become best friends with em. They end up becoming great wingmen, give me social proof, and introduce me to other women. It’s great. | /r/seduction | 15/05/18 12:41 AM |
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