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Translation: I’m not sexually attracted to you. Move on bro. She’s got plenty of options, it’s your turn to show the same abundance mindset.
/r/seduction06/08/22 12:45 PM
1

Bro, keep it simple. It’s your turn. That’s pretty much how your mindset should be unless you’re gonna marry her.
/r/seduction31/07/22 05:18 AM
64

Wanna come check out my new sofa? It always works.
/r/seduction29/07/22 02:37 AM
1

Be patient king. She’s just been played a few many times. She don’t want another guy who likes her only for her tits and leaves once they get bored. Give it a couple more dates and make her feel comfortable and secure around you.
/r/seduction05/07/22 09:35 PM
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Oh well now that we have some context, it makes more sense why he acted that way. He’s probably just guarding his heart since it “appeared” that you had a lot of options from the dating app. At the end of the day, guys are humans too and they don’t want their heartbroken. If you like him, I’d honestly just provide the guy with some reassurance on your next date.
/r/seduction05/07/22 06:54 PM
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Dude stop overthinking. Want to find out if it’s a no? Text her and ask her out after a couple days. If she still makes excuses, then she’s not into you. Move on.
/r/seduction05/07/22 06:29 PM
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If player is synonymous to a man who has his life together, then yes, your speculation is correct. Honestly though, he seems like a guy who has experience/options and isn’t looking to commit to anything. He’s definitely testing the water but is that really a bad thing? Considering you guys met on a dating app, that’s very normal. If you find him attractive and fun, I’d continue to hang out with him, but play a bit of push game too, just to level the playing field.
/r/seduction05/07/22 06:15 PM
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facts
/r/seduction03/07/22 09:12 AM
1

Doesn’t seem like a shit test but more of a stop acting like a dumbass in a serious situation lol. But yeah more context needed.
/r/seduction03/07/22 09:09 AM
1

Women could definitely sense desperation and weakness. It’s in their biology. Their nature is to find the best provider. Try to understand females from a biological standpoint, and you’ll soon realize why they say and act a certain way.
/r/seduction03/07/22 09:06 AM
1

You put women on a pedestal. Treat them like a normal human being and focus on your craft.
/r/seduction03/07/22 09:03 AM
4

Meet more women dude. The only reason you’re insecure is because you lack the experience she has.
/r/seduction03/07/22 08:59 AM
2

It’s your first time back, let your mind get used to the scene again king.
/r/seduction03/07/22 08:58 AM
1

to be honest, odds are against you. That is fact. But you could still make the most out of you what you’re given. So grind at work and grind at the gym. Attractiveness, you’d be surprised, comes in all shapes and sizes.
/r/seduction03/07/22 08:57 AM
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They’re extroverts, but it might also be their mindsets. They enjoy life to the fullest.
/r/seduction03/07/22 08:55 AM
1

Honestly, your relationship with her seems like more than friends already. I’d go in for the kiss at the right time and naturally the DTR question will follow.
/r/seduction03/07/22 08:53 AM
1

Bro. Non-needy is synonymous to independent, not asexual.
/r/seduction03/07/22 08:49 AM
4

Translation: you’re a nice guy.
/r/seduction30/06/22 05:22 AM
1

Keep her on the side. She’s just going through the highs of the trip. Once it settles and she needs attention again, she’ll be more receptive.
/r/seduction29/06/22 04:51 AM
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Y’all instead of spamming him to leave her, let’s first accept the fact that OP is clearly attached to the girl and wants a solution that allows him to keep her. Best solution: Let her be while she cools down. Let her reach out to you first. Distract yourself with other things while so you don’t miss her in the meantime.
/r/seduction24/06/22 05:06 AM
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First off, you’re a good conversationalist. With that said, I don’t think the girl was necessarily attracted to you. I think she’s just a chill and sociable person. Her playing with her hair and touching her neck area are her subconsciously calming her nerves not related to attraction. Sometimes when girls have to socialize, they get fidgety no matter who they talk to. However, if you and her were in a different setting, I think you and her would vibe well. I could definitely tell that you were …
/r/seduction19/06/22 01:02 AM
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So a fwb right? Living the life king
/r/seduction18/06/22 11:00 PM
3

Ehh, this one’s tricky. Once you start to show interest, she’ll lose interest.
/r/seduction18/06/22 10:59 PM
1

Next time go with a group of extroverted friends. It helps especially if you’re shy.
/r/seduction18/06/22 10:56 PM
3

LOLLL good luck with her. Keep her around though, because she might call you over when she’s feeling lonely.
/r/seduction18/06/22 10:52 PM
1

Depends on her level of attractiveness and the amount of money she makes.
/r/seduction18/06/22 10:47 PM
1

Dodged a bullet bro. Stop thinking too much about it.
/r/seduction18/06/22 03:07 PM
2

Bro, you already go it. Keep it simple. Just say: Drinks on me if you can take me down with your jiu jitsu moves. Make it a fun challenge with a reward.
/r/seduction18/06/22 12:41 AM
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Keep it casual and fun. You’re in college so don’t make it serious. Build rapport, crack some jokes, flirt a bit. If she seems into you, as in she gives you some flirty eye glances or touches you or compliments you, then you escalate. Don’t force physical touch. Be respectful. Enjoy your date king. You got this. Also, sometimes holding back on physical touch the first date could get you brownie points and score you a second date and much more 😉.
/r/seduction18/06/22 12:34 AM
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Bro literally say anything, she’s into you. A light joke joke such as: “You know what they say about big arms?” This will get her imagining. She’ll probably reply back with whatever reaction. You’ll say, “Wanna find out with a sly smile emoticon?” If she’s down, she’ll accept your invite. You got this king.
/r/seduction18/06/22 12:27 AM
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Bro it’s just an expression. Don’t think too deep into it. She sounds like she’s a drama queen.
/r/seduction17/06/22 09:54 PM
1

Approach any cute girls as if they’re your friends. If they’re receptive, as in if their eyes light up when you talk to them, then toss a compliment here and there. Since you’re going to be in a college setting, I’d be super casual about everything. Everyone’s away from their parents, so they’re down to be adventurous. Just make up the dumbest excuses to go back to your places and girls will get the hint. Don’t think too hard. Everyone in college wants to have a good time.
/r/seduction17/06/22 09:51 PM
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Here’s your problem mate. You “feel” as if you’re attractive. And you derive this confirmation from other girls commenting on it. The only way you can truly make your personality sexy and attractive is if YOU believe yourself that you are an attractive person.
/r/seduction17/06/22 09:46 PM
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In addition to all the great advice given here, I’m going to be an outlier and recommend that you lose your virginity ASAP. I’m going to argue and say that until you have your first sex, you won’t be able to transition into manhood. Your views on sex will change and the way you interact with girls will change. Sexual confidence definitely helps.
/r/seduction17/06/22 09:42 PM
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You got this king. Make sure not to drink too heavy.
/r/seduction17/06/22 09:17 PM
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You mean HANDSOME, shy guys right?
/r/seduction17/06/22 09:03 PM
1

Okay bro. It’s all perception. When you’re handsome and silent, you’re “mysterious.” When you’re average and silent, you’re “shy and reserved.” When you’re ugly and silent, you’re “anti-social or a creep.” In a society where first impressions matter a lot, it’s better to come off sociable than the opposite both in the professional and romantic scene. You want all the advantage you can get. I don’t know if you’re still in college, but once you’re out, it’s harder to make friends without engaging …
/r/seduction17/06/22 09:01 PM
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He earned his status and high paying job. If it’s to his advantage, why not use it? Don’t hot girls use their looks to get dates as well. If he really does not want gold diggers, he can obviously pick and choose one that makes a decent amount of money as well. Hot girls could make a lot of money these days, it ain’t the old times no more.
/r/seduction17/06/22 08:05 PM
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I’m assuming you specifically mean flirting through text. In that case, one of the best ways you could flirt is through playful teasing or playing with her imagination. Important thing is though, you have to be the same guy you are online, in person as well or things get awkward real quick.
/r/seduction17/06/22 01:27 AM
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I feel like the best way to score your coworkers is if you guys do a hangout after work. With that said, you work at a pub and you’re both young, so I’d say go for it. There’s nothing you can lose. Good luck king
/r/seduction17/06/22 01:22 AM
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Bro first off chill the f out. You’re acting way too eager. This will quickly land you in the friend zone, especially since she just moved in and is probably looking for friends. Just invite her over to Netflix and chill man. Maybe even order something on UberEats. Get yo know each other. Have a couple of alcoholic drinks ready to just set the mood. Don’t expect too much though.
/r/seduction17/06/22 01:17 AM
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Dude lol. Here’s an analogy. Dating is like shopping. Girls like to window shop a lot before committing to something. Let’s say prior to working out you were a Honda Civic. Once you get a nice body, you’ll be a BMW. Once you get your money right, you’ll be a Lamborghini. Do you see why people tell you to focus on yourself? Because it makes it so much easier for you to score dates. Of course, it really depends on how you use what you have. You can be a Lamborghini but if you drive only 20 mph, yo…
/r/seduction17/06/22 01:08 AM
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Gotcha, tbh I think she just wants companionship. Sometimes it might translate into cuddling or spooning only. Other times, it could be passionate sex. If you want to continue seeing her for the fun of it, I’d go in with the mentality that sex might not always be on the table. This will save you the anxiety and blue balls down the road.
/r/seduction17/06/22 12:59 AM
1

Seems like you have the tools to succeed (good looks and height). At this point, it all comes down to practice. Like Nike said, just do it. You see someone shoot you an IOI? Go over and say hi. Sometimes you’ll cringe after flirting and then beat yourself over after saying something stupid. Eventually though, you’ll realize it’s not a big deal. People literally don’t give a shit and won’t remember you after a quick minute. Failure is a part of the so called dating game. Practice makes perfect. Y…
/r/seduction17/06/22 12:56 AM
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Honestly, since you’re a doctor, you shouldn’t have much problem getting dates. If I were you, I’d just let everyone in my social circle know that I’m looking for someone. Trust me, everyone wants to introduce their friends or friends of friends or relatives to a doctor haha.
/r/seduction17/06/22 12:50 AM
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Bro, dating is like shopping. You never settle for the first thing you like. She’s going to move to a new city and she anticipates that she’s going to meet many new guys. She’s not in any rush to settle or commit to you. Just spread your options as well man.
/r/seduction16/06/22 03:08 PM
5

Bro, no cap, you text way too many details. Next time just say, “I gotta go I’m busy, ttyl” instead of “I just got to the gym and I got class right now so I’ll text you in a couple hours.” And stop asking her if this is okay or or if that is okay. Choose a date spot and sell it. For example: “This patio has awesome cocktails. Can’t wait to try them.” She probably sensed that you’re a nice but boring guy so she made plans with another guy who seemed more adventurous. Level up king, you got this.
/r/seduction16/06/22 03:00 PM
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Bro, sex/relationship IS great. But putting anything on a pedestal is bad because you tend to get desperate. Girls hate that shit. Aka nice guys finish last. That’s why everyone here tells you to focus on yourself because once you become a higher value man, you’ll have more options and not come off desperate. It’s all about equalizing the playing field. Once you’re attractive, you’ll have more confidence to hit on girls without having to play games. So to answer your question, should it be your …
/r/seduction16/06/22 02:51 PM
1

Bro, slow it down when she comes over. Don’t jump into it. Even fwbs need time to get ready. Relax and enjoy.
/r/seduction16/06/22 02:44 PM
3

She literally opened the door and you’re asking how to walk in? Bro…
/r/seduction16/06/22 02:42 PM
2

bros. This guy just wants a girl that’s not easy. Let him be.
/r/seduction16/06/22 02:40 PM
1

If you’re sexual attraction towards each other has dwindled in the recent years and it’s to the point where she’s repulsed by your physical touch and you’re becoming anxious about initiating sex, I’d really sit down and reconsider the relationship. Isn’t that wasting your time? Let’s say marriage is the ultimate goal. Could you imagine being in the same type of relationship the rest of your life? Save both of you guys the time and trouble and find someone more sexually compatible.
/r/seduction16/06/22 01:35 AM
1

Gotcha.
/r/seduction16/06/22 01:30 AM
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Why is the man getting so much hate for stating the truth? He just woke up to female nature. Sure, he needs a bit of confirmation from other people. But let’s not pin him down for it. Obviously, now it’s up to him whether or not he wants to pursue growth knowing this.
/r/seduction15/06/22 05:24 PM
2

Honesty, you’re doing great. Just make sure to show her affection when she deserves it.
/r/seduction15/06/22 05:18 PM
1

Bro, there’s the problem. You’re dependent on her for sex. That’s why you come off needy. Realize that life offers more than this and enjoy it in other ways.
/r/seduction15/06/22 05:16 PM
0

Honestly, it’s hard no doubt. Let’s not frame it as something that’s easy to overcome. In addition to what everyone suggested in terms of improving your “value” as a man, I would also suggest to date more hot women. Once you date one, the next one and the one after that one becomes easier.
/r/seduction15/06/22 05:14 PM
15

Let’s be real. It’s harder to meet a nice, PRETTY woman in the age of the social media. There’s plenty of nice women out there :)
/r/seduction15/06/22 05:07 PM
1

I think you’re trying too hard. Same concept as if you chase money, money will run. You’re trying too hard to be alpha. Just be yourself man and let the self-love that you have radiate from within.
/r/seduction14/06/22 10:51 PM
1

Well said
/r/seduction14/06/22 10:47 PM
3

Bro, if you truly have all your shit together, it won’t matter if you’re super goofy or playful. In fact, it will be a plus. Some of the most charismatic and successful people I’ve met give off vibes that they don’t take life too seriously.
/r/seduction14/06/22 10:44 PM
2

Bro get off dating apps asap. It’s making you into an insecure mofo. Continue to focus on yourself, go out with the boys, and flirt with girls wherever you go. At this point, I feel like even if you get into a relationship with a girl, you’ll be hella insecure because she’s had more experience than you.
/r/seduction14/06/22 10:43 PM
2

This guy gets it
/r/seduction14/06/22 06:19 PM
1

Bro, show your interest through a change in actions not words especially since you’ve been friends for four years. Words might come off a little too strong right now. Have her wondering a bit and then when she asks what’s up that’s when you confess your feelings.
/r/seduction14/06/22 06:15 PM
15

No, don’t apologize. The moment you do, you’re admitting that you’re worth is lower than hers. She came dolled up for the occasion, so naturally your instincts were to flirt with her. That’s okay. Just pretend it never happened.
/r/seduction14/06/22 06:10 PM
3

Move on bro. The only way you can change her perceived attraction/status of you is if you drastically change, which obviously won’t happen overnight. Like others said, continue living your life and improve yourself.
/r/seduction14/06/22 06:07 PM
1

It’s honestly probably your lack of confidence. You’re probably more shy and introverted than your shorter friend whose probably an extrovert.
/r/seduction14/06/22 06:05 PM
1

Honestly, you need money and status.
/r/seduction14/06/22 02:46 AM
1

Dude don’t even think about women. Work on yourself for your confidence.
/r/seduction14/06/22 02:36 AM
2

Fuccboi means you’re good looking. Thank your parents for good genetics.
/r/seduction14/06/22 02:35 AM
1

You sound like a “nice guy”. I only say this so you can improve, not to be offensive.
/r/seduction14/06/22 02:33 AM
6

Bro next time just say you gotta use the bathroom. It’s that easy man.
/r/seduction14/06/22 02:31 AM
8

Women and men are the same. Looks matter for that passionate, he’s the one, type of love. Money matters for the more, he’s a good provider not my type but I feel secure around him, type of love.
/r/seduction14/06/22 02:25 AM
1

Best solution to this is: be the man with options.
/r/seduction07/06/22 07:17 PM
1

Keep your options open bro
/r/seduction09/03/22 10:31 PM
1

Honestly it seems like she’s a high status woman just looking for casual relationships. But you’re the same so stop putting all your eggs in one basket.
/r/seduction08/03/22 03:09 AM
3

Honestly it seems like you just want to play around and taste all the colors of the rainbow. Unless you really want to commit, I’d say just enjoy your singlehood.
/r/seduction22/02/22 02:10 AM
3

I think max is trying to save you some money 😂
/r/seduction24/01/22 07:10 AM
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