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Look, I’ve never had sex so I don’t know how to explain those details their discussing, but I think they are talking about those preferences because of what fits their pleasure best. There are also many comments of women who don’t want 8 inches and want something different because that’s what pleasures them best. I think they’ve had bad experiences with guys who had ED from porn addiction and refused to care. I don’t agree with body shaming men, but it’s also okay to have a preference on what yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 08:39 PM
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I don’t know what body shaming post you are talking about? I checked the new posts, nothing is there about body shaming? I’m so confused. Also I think it’s men who treat women who they don’t think are attractive as if they don’t exist. I know men who literally think there’s no point in keeping female friends who aren’t attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 08:24 PM
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No one said you had to ask anyone out on a date if you don’t want to. There are many women who ask men on dates. But the problem is those women probably don’t fit your standards of beauty. That’s a you problem if you can’t find the women you like without asking them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 08:21 PM
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A woman would plan a good date, if SHE’s the one asking YOU out. But we are on the premise that YOU are the one asking. No one said anyone’s time is more valuable than the other. But you need to understand that by asking someone out, you already made the choice of giving up your time, you are now asking them to give up theirs. You have to give them a good enough reason to.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 06:52 PM
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If you are asking a woman out on a date, you already made that choice to use your time. You are asking for her time and energy. For her now she has to make the decision if it’s worth to take you up on the offer when you clearly will not take much effort to make that time worthwhile. You are asking her to meet her halfway for nothing exciting, yeah you are asking for too much. You are asking her to take time out of her day for a stranger for a boring coffee. And yeah it is your job to romance her…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 06:20 PM
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Coffee isn’t even a real date. It’s what you do when you meet coworkers. There’s no ambiance and it’s not fun. Also, no one said anything about a fancy expensive dinner. It has to be a decent dinner date at a decent restaurant. No one has to be fancy or expensive. Even if a girl shows up in pajamas, she still has to block off time out of her day to meet you wherever she has to meet you. You seem like you don’t understand she is taking time to prioritize a stranger over her time that could be spe…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 05:46 PM
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I think in the modern age we have seen that FaceTime and zoom are great resources to meet people. I have been able to meet new friends virtually through zoom. Also the FaceTime is a prerequisite to the REAL first date, you are just using this time to get to know the person. You can easily schedule out an hour of time just like a coffee date without the extra time taken to get ready and go to a location. You can also easily leave a FaceTime date if you get uncomfortable by ending the call. The fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 05:14 PM
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If you are so unsure about the person, do a FaceTime date first. Don’t half ass a first date. Also drinks put women at risk of being drugged. Not safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 02:56 PM
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Damn bro I’m tired this is so much work
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 07:11 PM
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That’s the problem I can say I’m trying but once 25 hits they are going to take things in their own hands and start talking to people for me and I don’t want them to do that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 06:21 PM
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I do visit home every once in a while but the city I moved to is a flight away so i can’t do on the spur leaving the house when I do come home
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 06:18 PM
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I already have moved out but FaceTime calls make it very easy for them to be controlling from far away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 06:17 PM
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I already moved out of my house in a new city but I don’t have any other family other than them. I have good friends though but it’s different you don’t want to burden them. I can’t talk to them about “how bad men are” because my dad isn’t a great example himself and my mom is a strong pick me on her own. My mom thinks I’m bitter when I say “men are trash” when her own husband doesn’t ever listen to her emotions
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/21 06:16 PM
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......you must not have very good relationships nor are you very interesting to be around if that is your only two standards. People look for way more than just that and it’s not “surface level” to have things in common, it’s called developing an emotional connection. I highly doubt any 19 year old girl can emotionally connect with a 30 year old man. I know what pedophilia is and it includes adult men going after barely legal women. Older women aren’t cynical towards men, it’s just they have exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 02:26 PM
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A 19 year old is barely an adult and honestly a grown adult man in his 30s would have like nothing in common with her. On top of that her brain isn’t even fully developed and she’s not as mature as a grown 30 year old woman. Also women in their 30s can bear children just fine, it’s men past 35 who have to worry about their sperm count declining rapidly. Eggs don’t disappear the minute you hit 30. Also the myth of women not being able to rear past 30 is from olden days where people died early any…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/21 04:35 AM
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You’ve literally been name calling me the whole time: no empathy, ignorant, manipulative. I called out some of your language because I only see the redpill guys using terms like “withholding sex” because normal people don’t call it that, they call it “not consenting”. Immediate commitment is not always a good thing. It doesn’t even give people a chance to get to know the persons morals and characters. And women tend to have men lie way more to them so this is an unsafe deal. I’m also going to pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 04:00 AM
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First of all, I don’t know why you are talking about me, I don’t have any past flings. But if hypothetically I djd I would explain if the guy asked me. But I would explain me waiting just means I’m waiting with him for an emotional connection first. So simple. And no I won’t date people I’m not attracted to that’s stupid. Look I don’t personally know women who do that so sorry if I don’t know ur friend group. Johnny can figure out through her other actions in the relationship if she’s genuine no…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 11:51 PM
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The whole example scenario you gave was literally an issue with Johnny’s ego and not with Janie. Here’s the thing, most women would not knowingly date a man who is a friends with a past hookup so I’m going to assume Janie in this situation didn’t know jimmy and Johnny were friends. Janie is allowed to have one night stands when she is single, but when she is in a relationship she is also not in the wrong by wanting to wait until there is an emotional connection in order to not be blinded by lust…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/21 03:25 PM
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Why does everything for you revolve around men’s ego? Can you not comprehend that some people need a strong emotional connection before sex? Or is your ego more important than anyone else’s needs? Women who want to start different for a new relationship when they had sex too early in a past one probably got coerced or were traumatized from the experience, and they want to find a strong emotional connection in their new experience first. It’s not to make men feel lesser but I don’t get why they h…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 01:11 PM
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A long term relationship is not marriage, it’s just a serious relationship. I said sleeping with someone outside of that serious relationship commitment can feel trashy for some people. Also I’m not 100% on waiting for marriage I’m just unsure right now so it’s just until when I feel comfortable. Also women can regret sex too early in past relationships and change their mind and want to wait for a future relationship. What’s wrong in wanting a financially stable man? Is that a crime to want? Wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 12:01 AM
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What’s wrong with a woman waiting until she’s in a relationship? It’s not currency, some people just don’t like hookup culture and sleeping with someone outside of a serious long term relationship is participating. To some people hookup culture is super trashy And what’s that’s supposed to say about people like me? We’re just supposed to drop our morals because men’s sex drives are more important than our fears?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 10:58 PM
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Sex is not a right that is withheld. It’s called consent. And no women do not just get into relationships to people they aren’t attracted to. And you can easily tell by whether or not the woman is kissing you or is open about her relationship with you. And that’s the thing, for women it’s a win to weed out men who wouldn’t want them just because they aren’t ready to have sex, which means the guy never really liked her that much in the first place. Also, her being a girlfriend still is not full c…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 10:35 PM
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That’s why you hold off on sex until there is commitment and you can see if he is a trustworthy guy, and even have them take an std test. It’s not foolproof, but it definitely lowers the risks
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 10:12 PM
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But a lot of FDS women don’t want casual sex or want to sleep with anyone early on. That’s the point we shouldn’t drop our boundaries for any reason. Even FDS women who aren’t virgins will only have sex with commitment because it is safer (std test and one partner only)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 10:10 PM
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Yes we are aware there are men like that, but that doesn’t mean someone like me should lose our virginity for that reason or anyone should feel pressured to have sex in fear of wondering if a the guy is just “thirsty” or if he’s there for real.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 09:24 PM
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I mean yeah sure maybe the pickme is lucky and that didn’t happen, but FDS just says it’s not worth the risk to find out because you could end up wasting a lot of time of men who aren’t genuinely interested in you and just talk to you because they want quick sex. It’s just easier to wait for men to ask you out on a date because at least you know it’s someone who’s interested in getting to know you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 09:22 PM
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I don’t think it’s playing game it’s just waiting for the guy to show what he’s looking for and his true intentions. If he wants you, he will make time for you
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 07:22 PM
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No one said they were looking for a sugar daddy...we are looking for future husbands that can provide for a family. My father paid for most of the bills at home, and I would like a husband who can do the same. We want thoughtful, kind, caring, financially stable men, not a shallow man who puts all of his value in looks and money and refers to women as “whores and bitches”.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 04:05 PM
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No one said they were looking for a sugar daddy...we are looking for future husbands that can provide for a family. My father paid for most of the bills at home, and I would like a husband who can do the same. We want thoughtful, kind, caring, financially stable men, not a shallow man who puts all of his value in looks and money and refers to women as “whores and bitches”.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 04:04 PM
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No one said they were looking for a sugar daddy...we are looking for future husbands that can provide for a family. My father paid for most of the bills at home, and I would like a husband who can do the same. We want thoughtful, kind, caring, financially stable men, not a shallow man who puts all of his value in looks and money and refers to women as “whores and bitches”.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 04:04 PM
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It’s not about just being well spoken and having a good job, it’s about treating women well. A doctor with no personality is just a shallow man that I don’t want. If he’s 30 years old going after 21 year old girls....it’s just creepy. Not the kind of man I want, and I’m still in my early 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 03:58 PM
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The problem is many men act kind in the beginning then later on become bad. You can’t always tell. Also...I don’t think you know what pickme means....
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 03:51 PM
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Who said women are the ones causing drama? In a lot of relationships it’s the men who instigate drama. And no it’s not about being entitled, it’s about having boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 03:43 PM
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That’s your preference, but there are women who want a provider type of husband where they can choose to work if they want to or not and the family can stay afloat financially regardless.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 03:40 PM
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So I actually currently work a very well paying job at the moment so the money I make now is going into savings for sure. My wanting to be a stay at home mom comes from how nice it was as a kid to have my mom take me to after school events and be there for me as a child and I want to do the same for my kids. I went to daycare for a very short period of time as a kid and absolutely hated it. I also know how dangerous the world is and I would much rather be able to watch over my kids than trust ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 06:28 AM
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This isn’t false a lot of men do this in custody battles
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 05:26 AM
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I’m not sure if I ever saw a post like that, please link it to me?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 05:18 AM
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Yes I understand some couples have both people working as a means of survival but I personally don’t want to be in a marriage like that as I grew up with a father who took care of most of the bills at home and we didn’t have to worry about money. And yes FDS, prefers women to work to have their own financial independence and that’s okay too, but for me if I was working in a marriage, I would like the man to be able to afford a nanny and maid for the house so we can focus on work and relax when w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 05:18 AM
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I love this and happy your boyfriend is a very calm, caring and generous man. I swear people act like it’s a crime for a woman to want a man to pay for a date on this app.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 05:12 AM
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2 years of dating is not a risky game. A risky game for women is 4+ years of dating because at that point a guy is keeping you as a placeholder. Many women want to be married before 30, and the 2 year rule allows you to weed out men who clearly aren’t ready for marriage but want to waste your time
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 05:06 AM
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Look some women haven’t had sex yet in their entire life because they aren’t ready, and waiting is what they want to do, which is okay. The key is not to tell a man “when” you are ready, just that you aren’t ready and you will let him know when. Whether or not he respects you for your decision and drops the topic will tell you if he’s a good one
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 05:04 AM
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Look, women have always expected to be nice or have a soft tone, FDS is a safe space for them to express frustrations they can’t express in the real world. Let them have their place.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 05:01 AM
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I don’t think they ever said that. It’s about making sure you make time for your partner and don’t put them on the back burner and make them feel less valued than your friends or hobbies. And I think they called out men who play video games, which in moderation is okay but the problem comes when you don’t keep up ur responsibilities because of video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 04:58 AM
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Some women like gender roles there’s nothing wrong with it. Feminism is about choice, and being respected for the choice. There are still many women who love romance of relationships and want to be courted and taken out on dates. Also when looking for a husband you want a man that can provide for a family, and give you the option to stay home with kids. A guy that goes 50/50 is probably not too into that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 04:52 AM
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The women in FDS don’t want men who waste their time and don’t meet their standards. So while your standards are different, doesn’t mean theirs are bad. It’s perfectly normal to not want to live with someone before marriage (cultural/religious reasons) and expect proposal after 2 years of dating as an adult
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 04:44 AM
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Yes true no man owes a woman, but women are allowed to have standards and if they are looking for a future husband they want a guy that wants to spend money on them because they will have the money to provide for a family
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 04:42 AM
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Women are allowed to have standards.....
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 04:38 AM
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I mean if he heard what trouble you went through and re-enacted it, he’s trash too. I feel like you weeded out a bad guy by telling him what you went through because he chose to do the same
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 03:03 PM
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One time my ex and I went ice skating and just zoomed past me for the first 15 minutes and then got mad at me for not telling him to slow down if I needed it. Like sir you came on a date to skate with your girlfriend, she shouldn’t have to tell you to go at her pace.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 10:30 PM
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Y’all cannot trust a man you just met to be social distancing trust me. My ex and I broke up partially because of difference in opinion on social distancing and this man got on hinge a month after....he was partying and inviting people from out of town and still is.... Better off just waiting for a damn vaccine so all the intelligent men get back to dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 05:46 PM
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