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presbush/r/askMRP23/11/16 03:33 PM
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presbush/r/askMRP19/10/16 04:24 AM
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Thanks. I dated a lot after the divorce and she was the best. But as nice guy saw lots of desperation. I meet girls regularly in my business and social life. So not a problem there.
/r/askMRP02/12/16 02:06 PM
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Thanks. Don't know and no.
/r/askMRP02/12/16 02:02 PM
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Thanks. You may be right.
/r/askMRP02/12/16 03:47 AM
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Thanks for this. It is a change in control. I think once I put the papers down, she will have a change of heart.
/r/askMRP02/12/16 03:47 AM
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Yes, she is severing ties and it may be over.
/r/askMRP02/12/16 03:44 AM
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Bobby, you misread. "move in" meant moving in for action. I am in the house. We were in bed.
/r/askMRP02/12/16 03:43 AM
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Why are you asking her questions? You are asking her to lead. She is not thinking logically. She doesn't want to lead. The one thing you said that shut her up was for her to move out. That's good. You need to find your frame and lead. And if she can't sleep tell her to sleep in another bedroom. You stay there. Be an oak. Give this more time. You are too new and you don't have it that bad. She is not going to help you look for your balls. But keep looking anyway and reattach them.
/r/askMRP28/11/16 03:42 PM
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Agreed he is not there yet, but often courage is required at times when not prepared. But he doesn't know what he wants or what his mission is.
/r/askMRP08/11/16 02:12 PM
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True and it could also show her that he has a spine making him more attractive. Once she gets comfortable staying with her dad and siblings, he's gonna have a hard time getting access to his kids.
/r/askMRP07/11/16 05:47 PM
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That's fucked up. Your best solution is tell her that the kids aren't going to FIL, you are going to take care of them or get a baby sitter, and if she takes them to immediately file divorce. And I wouldn't bluff on this. Get the best custody arrangement you can now before she establishes residence in another jurisdiction and you end up paying child support for kids you rarely see and supporting her dad. That's the best solution. She is mentally 15.
/r/askMRP07/11/16 04:39 PM
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Thanks. Went very well. Had it out with her over finances last weekend. She was very upset, angry. DEERed very little if at all. Got shit-tested, then comfort tested a lot (even though they seemed like shit tests). Passed them all. Sex went from duty to great this week. She needs me more than I need her, and she realizes I know that. Hope to keep it that way.
/r/askMRP06/11/16 07:59 PM
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You need to figure out what you want. Your prior post about your drinking, porn and laziness shows me that you have an incongruity in what you want to do and what you believe (or were told) you should be doing. First, you gotta quit drinking. Throw all the booze in the house out and don't drink for two weeks. If you can do it, great. If not, you might need to see someone about that problem. Second, from your prior post your wife is irrational. What are you going to do when she goes to the RV wit…
/r/askMRP06/11/16 07:49 PM
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Gotcha and totally agree. My girl thinks I should own her materialism too. It's great that you don't subscribe to that way of thinking. I've got to convince her of that--or walk.
/r/askMRP20/10/16 11:13 PM
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Busting my ass working. Lifting, running, reading. I have a band as an outlet. Meeting girls all the time. I'm pretty jacked. And fun. Confidence is great. Trying not to nuke it or go Rambo too fast, but haven't set a time to leave. She realizes she's losing control. And I can walk at any time. Y'all all have given some great lessons.
/r/askMRP20/10/16 02:46 PM
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Thanks. I realize it is a crappy situation.
/r/askMRP20/10/16 02:08 PM
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Thanks. I realize this.
/r/askMRP20/10/16 02:07 PM
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Thanks. That is funny. And good points.
/r/askMRP20/10/16 02:06 PM
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Thanks. How does that work? We make about the same. My business is doing well. This year I might be making more. I am prioritizing the business.
/r/askMRP20/10/16 02:05 PM
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His book is my next one to read. She likes to follow my lead. She wants me to own the "taking care of her" role that I did not sign up for.
/r/askMRP20/10/16 02:00 PM
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Thanks.
/r/askMRP20/10/16 01:57 PM
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Thanks.
/r/askMRP20/10/16 01:57 PM
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Thanks. I need to do more AA/AM.
/r/askMRP20/10/16 01:55 PM
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Yes its grim. But I don't see how you pull her out of her dad's frame--especially now that she has kids. So she's real private? Probably doesn't confide in anyone other than you, her dad and family. Probably not big on social media. I bet she ostracizes friends who disagree with her. She and her family are special. You're special too--until you stop complying with her wishes. Then you are a mistake she made. You are going to have a fight on your hands on custody. Get a nanny to help and start pr…
/r/askMRP18/10/16 06:46 PM
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I don't think MRP is going to work on this one. Your wife is in her father's frame. They are enmeshed. I don't see her leaving his frame even when he's dead. You will never be the captain. You are an outsider. A stowaway on the ship. That is why the sex is frequent and halfway decent. You are the bad boy. You are also the procreator and the provider. As long as you continue to provide, and follow her and her father's lead, you will get morsels of affection. But once you stop--say stop giving her…
/r/askMRP18/10/16 02:51 AM
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