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That doesn’t mean it’s common…ok. You’re right. Intimate partner homicide isn’t one of the reasons women are most often killed. Violence by men is only reported at. 40% average across the board. But sure, it doesn’t happen often. Fuck completely off with your level of privilege.
/r/seduction03/07/22 05:59 PM
1

Who says that’s superficial? It’s also called the health and wellness industry’s?
/r/seduction03/07/22 04:38 PM
3

I’m not saying don’t date, I’m saying keep things casual.
/r/seduction03/07/22 11:45 AM
1

Sure, whatever you say. It’s apparently your forum. My bad.
/r/seduction02/07/22 11:43 PM
1

Ok, no. And do you want me to count how many women I know who have done this exact thing and still been drugged because it’s been at least a dozen every year since I turned 18. That I personally know.
/r/seduction02/07/22 11:38 PM
3

The actual real question here is why is that an insult? Being manly is not the same as being masculine and can engender some pretty seriously toxic traits. If someone says “you’re not manly”….who tf cares? You can be a million other things, don’t get stuck on a word that subjectively describes a social construct.
/r/seduction02/07/22 11:35 PM
2

Omg no it’s not. Not at all! Maybe to some women it could be that subconsciously, but for a large percentage of us, it’s a kink.
/r/seduction02/07/22 11:25 PM
0

Um, that’s categorically false, as we are raised to be less superficial than our male counterparts. Jesus the advice on this sub is trash sometimes.
/r/seduction02/07/22 11:24 PM
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This is why I advocate for ppl to stay single in their 20s. I can’t even comment on what ppl in that age group are trying accomplish because y’all are weird. Look, get yourself figured out. You can’t be with someone until you know who you are and I promise you, you’re not there yet. A confident person is someone who knows what they want out of life. Do you know what you want in 5 years? 10? How about in 20? Confidence also comes from having a well rounded set of experiences. It means understandi…
/r/seduction02/07/22 11:22 PM
0

Ok and? Is world hunger over because you had lunch?
/r/seduction02/07/22 11:11 PM
4

Excellent philosophy.
/r/seduction02/07/22 07:21 PM
-5

That’s…literally not what happens.
/r/seduction02/07/22 06:55 PM
1

Buying a woman a drink at a bar just makes us worried you drugged it. Maybe just ask what she likes to drink and why.
/r/seduction02/07/22 06:54 PM
1

Then I’m not really talking about or to you, right?
/r/seduction02/07/22 05:59 PM
1

Sorry, but therapy is available to everyone and I’m judging all men. Not just you.
/r/seduction02/07/22 05:41 PM
1

Oh my god. Nothing is more fragile than the male ego.
/r/seduction02/07/22 05:30 PM
1

Why was your confidence shattered by one person? Honestly, it sounds like you all need to figure yourselves out and like be your own source of confidence because if one person can “shatter” your self confidence, y’all aren’t ready to date.
/r/seduction02/07/22 05:12 PM
1

Do you look like your profile photos? I cannot even tell you how often I’d meet up with a guy for a date and he looked nothing like his profile photo. Like at all. Nothing. One used his high school prom photo, one was at least a foot shorter than he told me was. And look, I’m fine with short or ugly dudes, but just don’t lie to me. Lie little, lie big.
/r/seduction02/07/22 05:11 PM
-1

You do realize you don’t need to enjoy goin go down on your partner because that’s for their pleasure. How many women do not prefer giving blow jobs and they do it because they’re pressured or they want to give their partners pleasure? Grow up.
/r/seduction02/07/22 05:02 PM
4

Christ, after reading this, I had to double check your age. Seriously 36 and have never gone down on a woman? What’s wrong with you? This post smells like utter horse poo.
/r/seduction02/07/22 04:37 PM
4

Omg that’s a great description.
/r/seduction01/07/22 08:49 PM
5

I may have cackled at this.
/r/seduction01/07/22 08:48 PM
3

Pretty sure if you asked women in other countries they’d have the same response. Source: female friends in other countries. And yes, the states are extra. We are an awful, entitled little shit to the world family of countries. Our government is going through some personal issues. Please excuse our bullshit while we take care of the problem internally.
/r/seduction01/07/22 06:10 PM
2

That rhymes. I like it.
/r/seduction01/07/22 05:53 PM
1

Yes please take our creepy, entitled man children.
/r/seduction01/07/22 05:31 PM
2

Stop insisting women owe you their time. Just because she said yes, she’s allowed to change her mind and whatever the reason, stop foisting your awkwardness as the fault of women. This mentality is pure incel sh*t
/r/seduction01/07/22 05:30 PM
5

100% Having to reject males is TERRIFYING. You never know which one is going to fly off the handle. From personal experience, I’ve gotten every reaction from “ok cool” to being cursed at and threatened. We have NO IDEA what reaction is waiting so it’s safer to say yes and ghost.
/r/seduction01/07/22 05:28 PM
3

100%! A lot of these dudes who are giving advice are giving terrible advice and I mean, Jesus, we’re in a pandemic still. Like let’s list the struggles and stress most ppl are under right now.
/r/seduction01/07/22 05:18 PM
3

It’s not a soft rule, it’s common sense. You never shut where you eat.
/r/seduction01/07/22 05:17 PM
3

First of all, a cold approach is weird. If you have no rapport with her, why would think she’d want to spend time with you on a date. She’s a coworker. Second, some ppl are busy. Or maybe she gave you a wrong number because she didn’t want to say no outright? I think a lot of guys don’t realize the manner in which you approach a woman you’ve never spoken to is almost always a threat. Also, if you live in the states, you have to understand the political climate has taken a huge emotional toll on …
/r/seduction01/07/22 05:16 PM
1

When you Google “women murdered by men for rejecting them”, that’s exactly what they are and that’s exactly what I said to do the first time. It’s not funny and there’s no explaining any of it away. Don’t be daft and stop trying make room in this conversation for a devil’s advocate. The biggest threat to women is men.
/r/seduction01/07/22 04:52 PM
1

I’m positive there’s more to the story. Either way, the request isn’t typically a test.
/r/seduction30/06/22 05:43 PM
1

Riley whitelaw was like a month ago. If that. And I’m not talking about killers who are “incels”, I’m saying men kill us at a far higher rate than anything else does. Google is your friend.
/r/seduction30/06/22 11:53 AM
-2

Ever consider that maybe you are incredible AND she doesn’t have to be attracted to you to find you so? This false equivalency of the friend zone is straight up misogynistic trope and it’s TIRED AF. Women don’t ever owe you sex because she exists and if you’re only into any woman for the possibility of sex, please be up front about that. That way you don’t waste her time and force her to come up with a nice easy way to let you down without the possibility of becoming the next missing person. And…
/r/seduction30/06/22 04:29 AM
1

It’s absolutely not true, first of all. “You can be the juiciest peach in the world and there’ll be someone out there who don’t like peaches”. Everyone, at some point, for some reason gets rejected. If they “don’t have a problem getting chicks”, they either A) let rejection roll off them or B) don’t see no as a complete sentence and have likely done something wrong.
/r/seduction30/06/22 01:05 AM
2

I think a conversation about respect is in order. It’s one thing to notice attractive ppl, I mean we all do it. She maybe doesn’t need to announce how hot these other dudes are though. You can let her know you think it’s overkill on her part and if she’s trying to prove a point or manipulate you in some way, she needs to stop. I had this problem with an ex fiancé talking about how fit other girls were, in front of me. At the time, I was thicker, but we both worked out 5 days a week. He stopped a…
/r/seduction28/06/22 11:55 PM
1

I think…a lot of posters to this forum need to find a happy medium.
/r/seduction28/06/22 11:02 PM
2

You should have apologized. Unless you know her REALLY well, that’s not funny and in some cases super inappropriate. Negging is incel behavior. Stop it.
/r/seduction28/06/22 10:36 PM
1

No, just inconsiderate. I don’t think they really gave it much thought back then.
/r/seduction23/08/21 08:45 PM
1

A friend in highschool had it from babyhood. Her mom’s friend gave it to all 5 kids so they grew up having to deal with it. She didn’t have a problem with getting a boyfriend….
/r/seduction23/08/21 07:05 PM
4

Ok, well dudes still have a cycle. Just use this as like “out for maintenance”. You’d be surprised how many ppl have herpes and have healthy sex lives.
/r/seduction23/08/21 04:24 AM
7

Obviously you wouldn’t have sex during a flare up. Maybe consider it like your period, it’s going to be cyclical and you may or may not be regular. It’s honestly not that bad. Disclose so your partner can make their decision and of course use protection. Best of luck!
/r/seduction23/08/21 04:11 AM
4

Don’t. Jesus what is with you guys on this sub? She has a goal and you’re not it.
/r/seduction06/08/21 09:54 AM
1

I don’t care. The advice dudes on here are doling out is gross af and perpetuates rape culture. Stop talking over women who tell you that isn’t working because it’s gross and perpetuates rape culture or start dating each other and leave us out of it.
/r/seduction06/08/21 09:50 AM
-1

And your experience as a woman tells you this, does it?
/r/seduction06/08/21 01:48 AM
-4

Jesus Christ. What’s wrong with being a woman’s friend?
/r/seduction06/08/21 12:07 AM
0

Don’t be gross and act like you’re expecting it. Nothing turns us off quicker.
/r/seduction06/08/21 12:04 AM
0

Stop acting like incels or worse, entitled babies and I might. Stop giving out rapey advice and I might. Stop perpetuating toxic masculinity and I FUCKING MIGHT.
/r/seduction05/08/21 02:50 PM
3

Says the person making assumptions about tinder and women being on it.
/r/seduction05/08/21 02:48 PM
1

You’re wrong. That’s it.
/r/seduction05/08/21 02:47 PM
1

This isn’t even actual incel interaction, sadly. I’m not surprised by their unwillingness to listen. That’s the sad part.
/r/seduction05/08/21 02:46 PM
4

Let me answer the question by first telling you how many times I’ve been assaulted because the guy read my “non verbal consent” incorrectly. The answer is I can’t remember because it was often. STOP MAKING ASSUMPTIONS. And dude, especially to a woman telling you this isn’t ok. I hope someone reading this at least understands that your mentality is one giant red flag.
/r/seduction05/08/21 02:45 PM
-9

Fuck your rules. You’re trying to date women so ask actual women what they want. Fucking incel.
/r/seduction05/08/21 04:33 AM
-10

Don’t make assumptions. Ask for consent. That’s it. Don’t be disgusting.
/r/seduction05/08/21 02:10 AM
9

Listen to me; ask for consent. Always. We like confidence, yes, but that’s assumption and possibly assault if you’re not careful. Ask first. Always. Don’t ever assume it’s ok to kiss anyone without their permission.
/r/seduction05/08/21 02:07 AM
17

He made the mistake of asking for consent instead of trying to force himself on her. Yup. Huge mistake. Why are there so many incels on this thread.
/r/seduction05/08/21 02:06 AM
13

Uh NEGATIVE. Always ask consent. What’s wrong with you?
/r/seduction05/08/21 02:05 AM
9

Don’t listen to the ass who commented below you.
/r/seduction05/08/21 02:04 AM
18

And?! Why is that ever a bad thing? Oh no! A girl wants you as a friend…how is he ever going to survive the insult. Women don’t owe men sex for being decent to us.
/r/seduction05/08/21 02:04 AM
307

This is so wholesome. You respected her boundaries and listened to what she had to say and she will remember that. Good for you.
/r/seduction05/08/21 12:44 AM
1

Using the terms “power” and “beta” instantly disqualify you from consideration because those are red flags. Women don’t need men to perpetuate toxic masculinity.
/r/seduction04/08/21 03:18 PM
1

You’re not even close. Racism is still hella prevalent. You should pay more attention.
/r/seduction16/07/21 05:19 PM
1

Lol no! Your circumstances may be effected by the area you reside? I don’t know you so I can’t just say “try this…”; but my husband’s cousin is a great person, very kind with a good sense of humor and really sweet parents. He’s Japanese and Polynesian (cousin on their dad’s side, MIL is white) and he’s perpetually single. But he will only date younger “Asian” girls in the city he lives, which basically means unless he owns his own home and drives a Mercedes or BMW, they aren’t interested. Plus h…
/r/seduction16/07/21 05:16 PM
1

My honest advice is to hire a sex worker to hone some skills. It may sound weird, but they’re more likely to give you helpful information and communicate in a manner that helps you, since they’re basically an objective party. I would also post to r/askwomen as well and I believe p0rnhub has some instructional videos on various sexual techniques (not actual p0rn, but legit instructional videos.) Best of luck!
/r/seduction09/07/21 04:15 AM
-1

I don’t need to try shit again. Its what the term was coined for. Why do dudes always think the dictionary definition is the totality of a word’s meaning?
/r/seduction23/02/20 10:48 PM
-2

The term “whore” refers to women who use sex transactionally. If you’re going to mainsplain, at least do it correctly. And yet, it’s dick that is of abundance and of low value. So basically men are projecting their own bullshit misogyny onto women. Again.
/r/seduction23/02/20 06:04 PM
-2

No, they don’t. It’s a matter of pointing out the obvious lack of respect for autonomy women show in their own lives. But hey, y’all incels wanna sit here and bitch about the fact that your own terrible attitudes about women are why you can’t get women interested? Be my fucking guest. Don’t blame women for wanting to hit and quit.
/r/seduction23/02/20 05:53 PM
1

Well your first problem is that you refer to any woman, regardless of her sexual proclivities, as “whore”. Maybe work out why you feel you have the right to call anyone a whore, especially given that you’re willing to have sex with her.
/r/seduction23/02/20 05:13 AM
1

Do yourself a favor and don’t take any of these comments’ advice. Women like men who are compassionate, interesting and engaging. It’s 2020; apathy is canceled.
/r/seduction12/01/20 06:46 AM
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