| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 22 | 3 girls flaked this week | Inner Game | prettyassdolfin | /r/seduction | 09/04/26 07:42 PM |
| 10 | Has the meaning of Red pill changed? | prettyassdolfin | /r/ExRedPill | 28/03/26 03:47 PM | |
| 0 | What income needed to date the most attractive women? | Outer Game | prettyassdolfin | /r/seduction | 11/02/26 05:35 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 6 | Men who've never struggled with dating and hooking up, what do you do differently than the rest of us?True | /r/seduction | 26/07/26 01:45 AM |
| 2 | How do you stop putting women on pedestal for their beauty ?That was my best advice idk what to tell ya. Hedonic treadmill should’ve taken effect lol | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 03:40 PM |
| 4 | How do you stop putting women on pedestal for their beauty ?The best answer is kind of circular: you need to have dated a beautiful woman so you can become desensitized to how attractive she is lol. You’ll see that most women are generally the same, regardless of how pretty they are, and you’ll realize just like regular people, they have annoying traits too | /r/seduction | 23/07/26 01:27 PM |
| -5 | How do you charm bad bitches?What? Why is this the top comment? I could think of a dozen things more important than being “polarizing” | /r/seduction | 15/07/26 02:58 AM |
| 1 | What do yall do once a girl agrees for plans?Send a meme Send her a song she may like Tell her something reminded you of her Tell her you hope her days going well Etc | /r/seduction | 07/07/26 10:29 PM |
| 4 | What do yall do once a girl agrees for plans?Don’t have extended conversations via text daily. Schedule the date then leave her alone for the most part. Quick check ins every day or every other day are good to let her know you’re still interested (most women need this kind of reassurance) and to build a little rapport. Save the bulk of your conversation for the date | /r/seduction | 07/07/26 03:10 AM |
| 2 | Overcoming the friend zoneDon’t. Not worth the effort. Just move on and find someone else. Chasing women who don’t want you is a waste of time | /r/seduction | 01/07/26 11:00 PM |
| 2 | How do I pass this shit testBlocking seems extreme | /r/seduction | 11/06/26 01:27 PM |
| 7 | Do you think a relationship can be the same after a threesomeI’ve done it before in a relationship and it did not change anything. You need to be sure you’re actually interested in it as well and not being pressured. If you’re the jealous type, don’t do it. If handled maturely it can be a lot of fun. | /r/seduction | 20/05/26 02:04 PM |
| 5 | How do you approach in this setting at a clubWait for better opening | /r/seduction | 16/05/26 05:14 PM |
| 5 | Men really need to focus on their appearance more if they want a chanceRight. The trope is demonstrably false. Just go outside and see how long it will take you to find a 8+ woman with a fat, unattractive man. | /r/seduction | 11/05/26 05:16 PM |
| 33 | Men really need to focus on their appearance more if they want a chanceMaybe it’s just my social circle or city, but 9/10 times when I see a gorgeous woman, her boyfriend is also a handsome guy. The other 1/10 times when it is an unattractive guy occurs so infrequently it’s not worth focusing on. Definitely think guys should put more emphasis on becoming attractive | /r/seduction | 11/05/26 12:59 PM |
| 4 | I took my FWB shopping to the lingerie store .. it’s a great feeling!I skimmed over the post. I think that’s your girlfriend bro | /r/seduction | 02/05/26 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Good looking but afraid to make a moveFake it till you make it would probably work temporarily. The goal should be to become the type of person where you no longer have to fake it, of course. The thesis of my point is that you need to genuinely like who you are—don’t just wear a mask | /r/seduction | 28/04/26 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Good looking but afraid to make a moveI don’t think there’s a shortcut. It’s just confidence, at the end of the day. You have to become a person that you’re proud of. I feel like I can legitimately back up my confidence. Also you have to love yourself and identify the ways you bring value to others | /r/seduction | 28/04/26 09:19 PM |
| 5 | Good looking but afraid to make a moveThis is going to sound arrogant, but it’s true: you need to view yourself as a gift to other people, including women. I genuinely believe I am a man of high character. Someone who is a good conversationalist and is fun to be around and takes care of themself. I have a solid lifestyle that women would like to be a part of. Once you start thinking like this, you will be less afraid to approach women because it will almost feel like you’re doing them a favor lol. Pls remember that your actions have… | /r/seduction | 27/04/26 03:47 PM |
| 2 | For those who are very experienced with women, has dating made you trust them less?Yes | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 03:32 PM |
| 4 | How to get women in the gymThis right here | /r/seduction | 20/04/26 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Relocating to Atlanta soon. How’s the dating scene there?Competitive meaning you may not find yourself getting the attention or interest from certain women, when you think you otherwise should be. There are a lot of fine women here, but also a lot of successful, handsome and solid Black men here as well, so you are implicitly competing with these men when you are trying to date women. Why would a girl date you, when there is a similar alternative who dresses a little better or has a cooler lifestyle or is in better shape. Obviously, there will always … | /r/seduction | 16/04/26 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Relocating to Atlanta soon. How’s the dating scene there?Yeah the number of beautiful and smart/professional Black women is high. The ratio favors men but depending on what social circle you’re in, it can definitely be competitive. Honestly, I feel like I meet women every time I leave the house. Being friendly and approaching irl goes a long way. Be wary of scammers and night life women, as always. There are a lot of them as well. Edit: good locations/events to frequent would be High frequency Friday at the high museum, and the summer day parties at e… | /r/seduction | 15/04/26 02:46 AM |
| 29 | you dont need looks or money , all you need is charisma and be good at playful banterLooks matter. You don’t need to look like michael b Jordan, but the woman needs to find you attractive. Not sure why this is debated so much lol. The other traits you mention are vital as well, but a girl generally doesn’t care how funny you are if she doesn’t find you cute. Get in shape, wear a decent outfit, have a solid haircut…these should be non negotiables | /r/seduction | 11/04/26 04:45 PM |
| 1 | 3 girls flaked this weekYessir! | /r/seduction | 10/04/26 04:29 PM |
| 2 | 3 girls flaked this weekMainly strangers. It helps to have a decent IG page already. You want to have pictures of yourself so she knows what you look like. Maybe some photos of your travels or doing interesting things in your city. Nothing crazy When it comes to the actual DM, I’ll follow a girl, give it a day or so for her to follow me back. If she does great sign, if not, we proceed anyway. Then I just wait for her to post a story about something that I can make conversation about. If she posts a plate from a restaur… | /r/seduction | 10/04/26 02:27 PM |
| 5 | 3 girls flaked this weekIt really is | /r/seduction | 09/04/26 08:13 PM |
| 3 | 3 girls flaked this weekExactly man. Just have to keep shooting | /r/seduction | 09/04/26 08:01 PM |
| 1 | How to balance between girls and having a lifeMan I was just having this conversation with myself last week. I feel like I’m spending too much time and money chasing women, and it’s detracting from other things I want to accomplish | /r/seduction | 07/04/26 01:46 AM |
| 1 | Has the meaning of Red pill changed?Good argument | /r/ExRedPill | 30/03/26 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Has the meaning of Red pill changed?This was exactly my experience with the red pill. The Glad to be affirmed that it wasn’t just me lol. The line about “oneitis” took me back to high school haha. Seems like the consensus in these comments is that our experience was an outlier, though 🤷♂️ | /r/ExRedPill | 30/03/26 03:44 PM |
| 4 | Has the meaning of Red pill changed?Fair points. Maybe I was reading general male dating advice content and not stuff that was actually red pill. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/03/26 06:35 PM |
| 1 | What income needed to date the most attractive women?Appreciate the reply but I think you’re reading too much into my thought process. Simply put, attractive women generally have higher financial standards for dating. I’m just wondering specifically how high those standards might be. You echoed this yourself in your reply; this girl you hooked up with has a wealthy bf who lives on a golf course. You’re not her boyfriend | /r/seduction | 14/02/26 06:01 PM |
| 16 | How do I shift from “big brother vibe” to potential romantic interest with my younger flatmate?Dude, don’t do it. The probability of her not reciprocating and things going south is too high. I’ve lived with a platonic female friend before and I couldn’t imagine how awkward it would be if I tried to have sex with her. That would’ve made her feel unsafe in her own home. Find another girl | /r/seduction | 13/02/26 03:04 PM |
| 1 | What income needed to date the most attractive women?Thanks for this response. I agree, the guys saying money doesn’t matter are deluded. That range you provided seems fair depending on the location. | /r/seduction | 11/02/26 10:29 PM |
| 1 | What income needed to date the most attractive women?Strong disagree. Money matters. It’s not the whole equation, but it matters | /r/seduction | 11/02/26 10:25 PM |
| 1 | What income needed to date the most attractive women?She’s just an example for the level of attractiveness that I am trying to convey. I’m not saying I’m specifically going after women who want to fly on private jets | /r/seduction | 11/02/26 10:23 PM |
| 1 | What income needed to date the most attractive women?Yep good point | /r/seduction | 11/02/26 09:48 PM |
| 16 | No sexual tensionGotcha. If sexual attraction is important to you, and you have to do mental gymnastics to tell yourself you can attracted to her sometimes, it sounds like it’s best to move on. Especially since you didn’t mention if she has other great non sexual personality traits that you like. | /r/seduction | 11/02/26 07:19 PM |
| 29 | No sexual tensionIs her behavior the issue, or is it her looks? You mentioned you aren't that attracted to her so you haven't felt any sexual attraction. There's no reason to pursue a romantic relationship with someone if you aren't attracted to them. | /r/seduction | 11/02/26 07:01 PM |
| 5 | What income needed to date the most attractive women?Agreed. Money isn't everything, but men should be honest and pragmatic about how it affects their dating lives. | /r/seduction | 11/02/26 06:56 PM |
| 1 | What income needed to date the most attractive women?sounds about right | /r/seduction | 11/02/26 06:55 PM |
| 1 | What income needed to date the most attractive women?Thank you. This is the type of reply I was looking for. I live in the south, so I was thinking around $250k. | /r/seduction | 11/02/26 06:41 PM |
| 1 | What income needed to date the most attractive women?Fair point honestly lol | /r/seduction | 11/02/26 05:45 PM |
| 2 | No girlfriend title until after sex. What are your thoughts?I almost wrote this same post the other day haha. I agree 100% | /r/seduction | 11/02/26 04:22 PM |
| 4 | How long should I wait till ask a girl to go out?I don’t think there’s much reason to delay doing so. If I meet a girl on Friday, I’ll text her on Saturday with plans for next week | /r/seduction | 28/10/24 02:16 AM |
| 3 | How do you turn the conversation sexual?😭 this can’t be real | /r/seduction | 06/04/24 03:28 PM |
| 4 | Anatomy of the "Alpha Fucks"Booooo. This is terrible advice about sex. If one is to be truly good in bed, they must actually concerned with satisfying their lover. Most women will not orgasm from penetration alone. Oral and manual sex are required also. No woman will think less of your for wanting to pleasure her in bed. They will always come crawling back for more if you show them you are good with your mouth also. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/11/15 04:31 AM |
| 1 | Are Black Men More Alpha Than White Men?A wonderful generalization of black culture | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/15 07:45 PM |
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