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I have been reading a lot. Working on my business- taking my time to set up my website...EIN...load items on the site. Trying my best to come out of this thing just a little better than I started.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/20 05:24 PM
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I love that you ventured out and started wearing dresses. The feeling of freedom is priceless.
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/20 11:31 PM
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😘
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 01:24 AM
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Maybe she is too busy earning a 6 figure income!! That's why she has a man!!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 01:23 AM
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This is a smart man!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 01:21 AM
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Take that back...apologize!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 01:18 AM
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I am sure your GF appreciates that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 01:18 AM
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Who wants to live in a dump??? Men should be concerned about the yard. Be honest! At least make the place habitable for heavens sake.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 01:03 AM
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Only when the guy BEGS them...and they don't want to hurt his feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/19 12:57 AM
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I can totally relate!!! Even after implants (following amputation)...I went from 40DDD to barely a C. I'd like to think I have fairly high self esteem and confidence out of the roof. But I must admit there is a lot of pressure to fit into societies perfect box. Even with a nice round butt that turns heads and makes grown men drool...from time to time those insecure moments hit hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/19 06:47 AM
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One should always trust but verify in MOST situations. However, in relationships there comes a certain responsibility... Exp: you've decided to give a relationship a try...you decide the person is LTR material. However, daily you are reminding the person about how the previous (ex wife) relationship has made you bitter and cold hearted. You EXPECT the person to hurt you and leave you!!! If I experienced this type of toxicity from my relationship I would seriously feel insecure. There is nothing …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/19 07:21 PM
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If it's worth anything <rolls eyes> If a man can't produce his cards...he gets NOTHING - NEXT!!! Men have become way too entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 11:36 PM
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Not true!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 10:38 PM
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Or fingernails stuck in your back fir!!! Just saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 10:37 PM
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I once took clippers to my BF back hair...it was near braid and beading stage. The yard was full of hair. I'm glad he has great hygiene or we would have a serious problem. One thing I love about it...he's always warm!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 01:23 AM
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Hmmm...studies? Well...not true!! You need to do more research lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/19 06:37 PM
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I was wondering the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 02:39 PM
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Or they want to Fuck you more!!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/19 07:10 AM
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Seems like the current GF is in for a STR...and should be prepared. Perhaps you need to have a conversation with her. It's only fair. Instead of posting here. Don't you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 04:20 PM
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This is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 04:15 PM
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This is an excellent question.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/19 04:15 PM
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Can you respond to ONE post without bringing up your ex wife? #annoying #RepairThisBrokenMan
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 09:39 PM
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Hahaha...I need to teach others...hmmm!!! Call it...UNBO (Universal Non Basic Orgasms)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 02:52 PM
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Yes it takes "special talent" and getting to know yourself to male this happen. I am super happy to say...I have mastered this talent...having a hot BF helps as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 01:51 PM
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I agree 100%... Its sad to watch. This sub is a setup...and weak men bite like crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/19 12:44 AM
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I know this feeling!!!! It's only only endless hurt and disappointment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/19 04:42 PM
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...personally..the TRP has been 100% off with predicting my (woman) behavior in ALL instances!!! TRP is for chumps crying out for someone to justify their bitterness.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/19 09:52 PM
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I didn't!!! My household seems to be the opposite. My BF thinks everything that's mine is HIS...from my ass to my food!!!! Hahahaha
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 09:28 PM
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Dear God in heaven...we already know!!!! You know what they say about people who have to mention it a lot....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 09:26 PM
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I don't believe this person is hard to find!!! Often times people have this type right in front of them and are too stupid to see a gem of a person. One who goes above and beyond. If a person is too blind to see my value...I will be moving on. Life is to short to play dumb games. Sometimes it's hard when you are dealing with someone still living in the past. Still living in past hurts. The current relationship is guaranteed to not go anywhere. Even once the person on the receiving end moves on..…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 04:14 AM
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Good luck to you
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 04:03 AM
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Are you blind?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/19 04:00 AM
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So you are getting fancy huh? A whole 2 bucks...that's impressive!!! What happened to $1 McDonald coffees?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/19 06:54 PM
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Hmmm...she's brave lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/19 06:32 PM
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I AGREE
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/19 06:22 PM
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IF I ever thought about getting married again...I would want to to be something special that we both agreed on. Cost is not the issue...memories are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/19 06:21 PM
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Even when you are married...the other party owes you NOTHING!!! If people would pay attention to their significant other's CHARACTER rather than being desperate to "have" someone who they "think" loves them...they would be better off!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/19 06:19 PM
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FIRST you will need someone willing to marry you...don't you think? Wait!!! Unless the ladies are busting down your door. Love your confidence sir
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/19 06:14 PM
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Listening to your mate and honing in on their needs is so important. Pride and ego can certainly get the better of us. RP can really take a guy away from reality and ruin otherwise good relationships. It's toxic and unfair.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/19 02:15 PM
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Or a guy with sexual hang ups. Won't do this...won't do that!!!! Snoozer=boring.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/19 08:50 PM
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Yes, it seems to be that way-the emotional abuse part. Sad that someone can be so insecure to go to those lengths to abuse someone that way...psycho!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 10:01 PM
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Absolutely right!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 09:54 PM
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Cheating is an action often caused by a reaction. It doesn't just happen. It IS however the person fault committing the act. When the person in the relationship feels they are not getting the attention they desire...before they know it- elsewhere becomes more desirable. As a woman - if you are working out, cooking, cleaning, working in your OWN career AND fucking your husband/BF nightly and he still seems to be drifting...OR looking elsewhere...it's time to NEXT!!!! Because he is just GREEDY. I …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 09:52 PM
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Both men and women lack the ability to express themselves...mostly PRIDE and EGO!!! Women carry on and on about how they feel and on the other hand men completely stop talking. Learning HOW to communicate is becoming an art form!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/19 09:43 PM
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They may outbreed - but the well off/educated will still flourish. There will just be fewer. There is also the rarity of poor/uneducated people turning the table and setting the next generation in a different direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/19 09:53 PM
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My point exactly. It should never even be conversation. UNLESS he's a Jackass.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 08:50 PM
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...the only way would be from him talking to much. What purpose would that serve at this point? Especially if he's choosing to not do it going forward?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 08:46 PM
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People just need to STFU!!! If he really didn't like it he could have just said he didn't like it and left it. He didn't even need to mention the ex. If the new GF was not okay with it...she can walk away.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/19 08:19 PM
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This made me LMAO!!!! I did notice the bathroom pile...this time the dirty clothes were folded neatly! This is progress. In no time the laundry will magically appear in the basket...tick tock
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/19 09:01 PM
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I met my first husband on a Saturday and we moved in Monday...lasted 23 years. So time, I I has very little to do with it. Things can go sideways after knowing someone for years. I believe the ace in hole is going to be how well you let go of the past and give this relationship a fair chance...on its own!!! No one likes to always feel that they are being compared. Or that you are living in the past. Looks like you have a woman "trying" to love you. Let it happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/19 05:19 PM
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/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/06/19 08:12 PM
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Your choice!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 04:23 PM
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A woman with a high sex drive (loves to fuck), cares about her body, allows you to be yourself, loves family and taking care of home, can take care of herself alone (bonus when combined) speaks up for herself is GOLDEN in most mature guys eyes and would do what is necessary to make sure it's solid. Any other approach is dumb AF!!! Being "Reddit tough" TRP game does not make panties wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 03:40 PM
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LMAO...I love your rough guy Reddit approach lol - thank you for the info lol This works both ways...trust and believe...when there is an adequate amount of skin in the game..it hardly works this way. Jealousy from either is a deal killer. I'm not policing anyone. If something makes me feel a certain way...of course I will address it. But if you are in a relationship with an adult...you both know what's appropriate and what's not!!!! I don't have patience to babysit a grown baby...NEXT!!! In a r…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/19 03:16 PM
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Okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 03:28 PM
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Does it ever occur to you that a WOMAN just might know what a woman needs...IMAGINE THAT!? Talk about taking women back to to the 50s. We do have brains and can willfully think for ourselves...most of the time lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 12:43 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 05:33 AM
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Nice guys WIN!!! Please don't change who you are. Your personality will attract the right woman. No matter what these lonely folks here may say. It's a bonus to stay in shape...but if you carry with it JERK behavior, you will forever be lonely. The women you met were just not compatible with your spirit and that's OK. When you meet someone you connect with...it will be easy and you will just know. It won't take so much work. You can just be yourself...no changes needed. Good luck on your journey…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/19 04:24 AM
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There is a clear difference between normal upkeep chores and cleaning up after someone. Both parties should make a real effort to adult and pick up after themselves. With that being said....everything else is routine household chores. Personally, I was raised watching my mom make a comfortable home from the HOUSE my father provided. Moving forward I have evolved to see things a bit more equal. As I prefer to manage inside home chores...I am no stranger to cutting grass, painting or an occasional…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/19 06:26 PM
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My need where a man is concerned is not monetary. My need lies in the nuances of his touch...his way of "taking" care of me...listening to me...the way he looks into my soul...the attention he pays to things that truly matter. Many may not agree...but this is a strong man!! I will always bring 100%. Because he will ALWAYS be taken care of...the bedroom will never be dry!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 03:17 AM
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Actually...I used zero household funds to fund my grad school. I was working my own business at the time and saved up. This allowed me more flexibility. Yes it took a lot of discipline. It was not easy at all. I did a lot of things wrong and a lot of things right. The marriage did not work out in the end. He was not very ambitious and had a time keeping up. It began to bore me. The sad part is even though you come off as "strong" when in all actuality you need someone to have your back the most.…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/19 03:07 AM
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So true...it can certainly be done. I managed to complete my MBA partially online(semi single-military wife)...maintain a house, kids activities, PTA, GS cookie mom...and still kept a clean house and laundry done. People need to manage better.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 10:27 PM
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Sorry this happened. It is his job to take control and do what it takes to make you feel secure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 01:57 PM
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The woman has to put in effort as well. I totally agree. She will react by the way she is made to feel (speaking personally)! She is HOWEVER responsible to do things to make herself feel sexy...ie, doing things to keep herself attractive (working out, grooming, etc) feeling good on the inside shows on the outside. On the other hand, a man making his woman feel special (saying and making her feel that she is his prize) only enhances and makes the sex hotter and more frequent!!! And of course if h…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 01:49 PM
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Women are super emotional and have to feel sexy within themselves first and foremost. Then having a hot guy at home (who is well behaved) only sweeten the deal and makes for super hot sex. Let's say HOT includes being physically attractive as well as an ALPHA PROVIDER!!! With this combination the bedroom should be on fire. As long as there are no outside distractions-ex fiancee/wives- It's difficult when an ex and their hurt is constantly being brought up...it cripples the current relationship a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 01:35 PM
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Then what is you pull to remain in the US? Better economy, safer and reasonable women...a win win!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/19 02:53 AM
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I believe a meaningful environment can be created....as long as they are not constantly spouting off about previous n counts and giving specifics. It's a major turn off when that happens. The last thing a SO wants to hear about are the "details" of previous experiences. Or constant talk about exes...bad or not. Personally...if my SO has a high n count it wouldn't make our exchange any LESS meaningful. Out of site out of mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/19 08:47 PM
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Trust me if my BF were a complete jerk or I didn't think he was a good person...he would never experience the fruits of my vagina...not to mention all these tricks and treats I do for him in return !!! I wouldn't care of he was good looking or not. It's a good thing I have a hot BF. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/19 04:05 PM
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Lol haha
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/19 04:00 PM
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Be nice...lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/19 03:58 AM
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Have you ever encountered someone good looking...but no conversation whatsoever? That part!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/19 03:55 AM
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Trust me...it's not with looks alone. A mature woman would expect more. Nothing worse than a tall...dark...handsome DUMMY lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 08:29 PM
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Food for thought: The point that I believe the RP missed and many men here FAIL to understand...LOOKS WILL NOT KEEP a woman!!!!! I am not saying do not focus on personal building of self...but it's so much more than physical looks. If you had a shitty, non caring attitude you will be kicked to the curb (20 somethings gloat on looks....not grown mature women). A mature woman is attracted to your mind...how you treat her... If a man is not nurturing the relationship and keeping the woman sexually …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/19 03:33 PM
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Biggies for me would be - -poor hygiene -dumb/stupid/boring -no ambition -lazy -liar -obvious overly flirting -cigarette smoker -boring in bed/little to NO sex drive -the need to consult REDDIT daily -inconsistent
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/19 12:38 AM
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Contrary to popular belief...some women actually want and crave sex daily. And get this WHILE living together with their SO. If the couple gets along on other levels besides fucking...the thought of it being a chore dissipates. The union is based on tryst and respect...fucking becomes SPIRITUAL!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/19 03:23 AM
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I agree!!! Integrity and loyalty tops the charts for me. People pleasing has never been my thing. I have nothing to prove to anyone. The biggest turn off is someone going out of their way to be someone they are not!! Pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/19 06:05 PM
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It really sucks to have something like that happen right after sex!!! But if you all were JUST hooking up FWB...you have to know there are no real obligations and perhaps he was rotating and didn't want to hurt you face to face because he didn't want drama. You all were not BF/GF (labels). Disclaimer: even when there are labels some people still don't have the courtesy to "formally" break things off by having a conversation. It's really immature - but the best advice is to be thankful you didn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/19 06:21 PM
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There are no expectations for a man to pay...especially when dating. Once you are exclusive - things are a bit different. I believe it is okay for either to pay. Or if one person pays the other picks up the tip. Something like that. Whatever they feel comfortable with. As a woman who is in a relationship, I don't mind paying. Unless there is a situation where I can't. Then I am happy to next time. Balance!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 04:37 PM
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A woman will slut for a man she is into. It doesn't mean she is that way with everyone. If she is not into him - especially on an emotional level, all bets are off. There is no faking it LT. It will dwell from daily to once a month. Me and my BF have a great connection...a few times a day works GREAT.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 04:29 PM
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You should do that. What info do you need?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/19 03:13 AM
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Not true!!! That's BS.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 06:35 PM
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Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/19 06:34 PM
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There is nothing worse than a lazy lover. Communication is the key. Some woman don't know their bodies well enough to assist her man in making her orgasm. So often times she is left frustrated because she is not satisfied. She was too lazy to explore her body (masterbate) and he was too self to make sure she came as well. Also...they should be having lots of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 03:38 PM
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Be prepared to cover DINING!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/19 01:18 PM
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Unable to complete!!! And not very attentive outside of the bedroom. When in a relationship there is give and take. You have to do what it takes to keep your partner engaged. Small gestures matter. People don't want to put in the work to make a relationship work. Seems to be easier to just throw it away.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/19 12:04 AM
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This is sad...but true. I once dated someone under 6'0" and it seemed as though everything else was magnified. He was very handsome and muscular...AND made slightly more than me so he was high value. However, he fell short in BED!!! He had the equipment but could not deliver!!! What a waste?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/19 11:01 PM
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I can't argue that!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/19 05:14 PM
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Not when you have a GF and she's not what you desire!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 03:21 PM
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I'm not even CLOSE!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/19 03:18 PM
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I was thinking the same thing!!! How could someone know that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/19 08:11 PM
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are you sure you are capable of belong faithful?!!! Make sure YOU are doing all the work to be LTR potential yourself!!! Many times people think they have all it takes....instead of making sure THEY have the goods for LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 04:42 PM
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I can't imagine you settling down with one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 04:35 PM
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Well...it's your job to capture as many as you can bare!!!! The hunt is on...have fun
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 04:31 PM
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Lol...really? Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/19 04:20 PM
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Some do lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 07:57 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 06:01 PM
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...but pass for a LTR. Lol...what woman wants to compete for the makeup mirror? A man should keep himself up but not to the extent of being METROSEXUAL. ***balance.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 05:52 PM
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If attractiveness is ALL that one has to deliver...they don't have much!!!! I would personally admire a less attractive man with brains and not FULL of himself over a socially acceptable (good looking) man any day. Vainness is unattractive...a turn off...and immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 05:31 PM
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While I understand that we make decisions based on our past...don't you think it's unfair to make relationships going forward pay for the selfishness and self centered actions of a previous suitor? I can see proceeding with caution...but to outright change who you are is still allowing the person who hurt you to continue controlling your life. Perhaps over time you can trust again.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 10:36 PM
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Whether you consider yourself alpha or Beta..there will still be work to keep a woman satisfied. Capturing her attention (with or without promises) is one things and keeping her satisfied (whether in bed or outside of the bedroom) will eventually require you to be who you really are. Also, it will ultimately depend on the end goal. To secure a LTR or simply getting bedded. Either way, alpha or Beta will have to invest. Correction-if it's just to have sex there may be minimal investment.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 10:11 PM
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Do you consider yourself Alpha or Beta?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 09:13 PM
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There is nothing more brutal to watch than a guy trying way too hard to lead the conversation and have no idea what he is talking about!!! When all the poor sap has to do is relax and have fun. Generally if there is no compatibility...you can't just create it. The fun will just happen. Can't force it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/19 07:23 PM
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Extremely new to this. I certainly will do that. Thank you for suggesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 08:14 PM
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She was just being niiiiiice....I'm sure of it!!! How tall are you again?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/19 06:20 PM
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Confused!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 04:00 AM
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Can't you afford it?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 02:51 AM
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Can you be more specific sir?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 02:15 AM
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What does "white enough" mean? Did you share this with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/19 02:04 AM
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