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Alright, based on this wall of text I can already see you don't date many women, at least not frequently. You are over-analysing it. Be direct, it sounded like you had a small talk conversation, no flirting, no teasing. It then becomes odd for her when you jump into "we are both pretty busy but oh hey lets meet up thursday." She should be 100% sure that yeah, it's going to be a date. You don't care if her hair is a mess and her make-up is ruined in the rain. You want to see her and you want to g…
/r/seduction20/08/14 01:57 AM
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Like any other situation. Don't set the mindset that you need some kind of scenario to approach! Just get over the AA and then you will find yourself progressing towards being spontaneous, confident and outcome independent. If you see a girl on a bench, say hi ask if she has seen seen good movies lately, if she isn't being responsive, move on. Like you said, cute girls everywhere!
/r/seduction18/07/14 01:29 AM
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Huge success! Seriously good job, just make sure that you set the frame right and flirt. Seemed solid so far. Have an awesome day tomorrow!
/r/seduction24/09/13 10:31 PM
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Many people here will tell you to move on, next her. But why not friend her? She might have friends, her having a boyfriend puts the pressure off you if you want to practice regular conversation with a girl. You can still flirt, but don't expect too much.
/r/seduction21/09/13 12:06 AM
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I feel like the problem is that you think you have a problem. You got no AA, talk to alot of girls regulary, got great wingmen, athlethic and multicultured, older, more experienced and responsible. That is a package deal. Know it. Feel it. Girls that pick your homies over you, good for them. Well played. Just makes you want to learn more, step out of your comfort zone, say bold things you wouldn't normally, get right out rejected again and learn from it. Feel good from it, find girls that intere…
/r/seduction02/09/13 02:39 AM
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Don't ask her if she got your text. That's needy and beta. "Hey how's your day going?" is a really weak and boring opener. I would suggest that you go with something more situational, maybe something you talked about that reminded you of her. Or something random you thought she would think was funny. If you planned golf you can open with, "Do you like hitting balls?". Wait a few days and reinitiate, still no response I would move on. I don't like "you didn't respond so I made other plans", why w…
/r/seduction31/08/13 11:02 PM
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That's one of the best ways to deal with the friendzone. And excellent job on writing it down!
/r/seduction29/08/13 06:04 PM
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Seduction doesn't care if you got out of a relationship or not and it hasn't changed during the time. There's no difference the principles are the same, it's just your mindset that may need adjusting. If you don't remember, just start reading what's already on here on the right ---> And most importantly just start approching again.
/r/seduction29/08/13 05:56 PM
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No, she tried qualifying herself to me later. But I decided she was boring and went next. Really if I wanted these to be field reports I would have done it like field reports. Told you how I approached and how she said "what do you want" in a playful but still forceful way and that it wasn't a rejection but a 100% shit test. Consciously or not. Like I mentioned in the beginning this is not FRs. I'm not asking you guys do you think this is a shit test? Just take my word for it and give feedback o…
/r/seduction26/08/13 06:51 PM
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Hey man. I'm sorry for your loss. I think there's a difference between having strong inner game and being able to mourn the loss of a person who you loved. Humans are mortal. Death is something that we all will face one day but we always believe that it's far away in the future. When someone close to you dies you express alot of feelings and emotions such as anger, disbelief, regret, sadness, confusion and it's easy to become an emotional mess and lose motivation because what's the purpose anywa…
/r/seduction26/08/13 02:12 PM
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I hope this is a troll post. This is not a seduction question. Obviously he has some loyalty to his wife and his best friend. But I'm not going to even begin explaining to you what that is.
/r/seduction26/08/13 12:16 AM
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If you play your cards right, you might have 2 I really like that one. While I'm all about not putting girls on a pedestal you can't be afraid of complimenting girls. Because said right that thing is flattering. Overall thanks for the feedback!
/r/seduction24/08/13 11:52 AM
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Since you only see the monologue I agree that some might look like rejections. And the third one probably was. But I'm not clueless.
/r/seduction24/08/13 11:37 AM
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It sucks when a friend fucks someone you been eyeing. The best way would be to blame yourself and say well I'm not gonna let that happen again. I won't let it get to that since I will do something about it sooner. You fancy a girl. Charm her. You like a girl. Show her. You want a girl. Tell her. You will fail sometimes but it won't get to that oneitis jealousy again. Now flirting at the work can be tricky. Best way is to be flirty now and then and and even after she rejected you, you can still p…
/r/seduction20/08/13 11:45 PM
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"So once upon a time a guy went up to a girl." "Yeah?" "The girl was swoon away by his charm and originality." "Yeah it's not working." "But the girl played hard to get. So he asked an invisible fairy to make her smile." No smile. "But the fairy failed miserably and that guy should have never trusted that fag." It's not what you say, it's about having the balls to leave an impression.
/r/seduction14/08/13 02:24 AM
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"Hey, found the dog yet?" oh it's you heh no. "Alright lets go look for it!"
/r/seduction11/08/13 02:26 AM
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Well it was just more of a creative banter speech I gave to demonstrate what you can do if she told you she wasn't over her ex. Don't take it word by word you should of course always tell her stuff that is genuine. Then tell her she's a nice chick and you enjoy spending time with her and go on. Yeah it is dangerous, but that's the point. You win or you lose, you show her something new, something exciting. You know you can't score if you don't shoot, or you would have just left her alone without …
/r/seduction09/08/13 03:16 AM
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Don't use freezing out as an attempt to get her closer to you. When a girl mentions her ex and especially that they aren't over them you can either respectfully tell her that you understand. That she seems awesome and to give you a call whenever she feels ready. Don't go on second date, don't text, it will just get you deeper into the friendzone. Or you can chose to ignore it and try to charm her into you using twisted reasoning. Tell her that you find her too irresistabe to leave alone, that sh…
/r/seduction09/08/13 02:46 AM
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There is always time to fuck when you got a movie night...
/r/seduction01/07/13 01:38 PM
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You are spot on in calling him out on it like that. Because I don't think that he is bored, he's probably just insecure. Because he still wants to be more social, he wants to be in charge of making his nights memorable. He is scared and he probably has AA. If you are tall and good looking, I say fake it until you make it. Confidens that is.
/r/seduction29/06/13 04:39 PM
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haha guess your not up for today/tommorow then :p I wouldn't send that. It comes off a bit clingy and the needieness shines through in my opinion even if you do want to know if she recieved the text or not. She most certainly recieved it though and is chosing to ignore it. I would send away a text the same day saying something like. -"Hey, we're gonna be at xx at 8 pm. Join us!" It puts the pressure off her, she doesn't need to respond because it's not super personal. Again this is only because …
/r/seduction29/06/13 03:10 PM
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Cocky is good as long as you aren't arrogant. Being good looking with confidens is all you need to game most girls at a bar or a one time event. Going on dates and getting that deeper connection that you're talking about is something different. What I do is that I start to open up about myself, show a little bit of vurnerability. Talk about a pet that died when you were a kid, a book that fucking made you lose your mind and cry because it was soooo good. Just this little bit of vurnerability wil…
/r/seduction29/06/13 02:26 PM
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He wasn't attacking, he was arguing. You respect women that deserves it, they don't get it for free because they carry a pussy. Bro. Btw, nothing to do with user mizu4444, she's got a point aswell as VMikel.
/r/seduction29/06/13 12:03 AM
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No, save yourself the trouble and don't practice bar game if you're too cheap to buy a drink. Night time club game you might get away just ordering free water, but daygame, coke with a lime if you're not legal. You can go up to a table and ask if you might join her/them but just drinking water or nothing will come off bad and probably if you don't have amazing natural game give off a bad vibe and kill any attraction.
/r/seduction21/06/13 01:54 AM
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Everything in life doesn't have to be rationalized into what will get you laid. Sometimes the best things can be having a beer with a like minded dude, playing some xbox and listening to some Johnny Cash. Sure I like to get laid, but its not what I choose to live my life around. All I'm saying is that you gotta enjoy life and do what you love. If you don't like pokernight and whisky then it's okay but understand that there are guys that passes opportunity to get laid just so they can hang with s…
/r/seduction05/06/13 12:17 AM
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Next time if you're really invested in the girl. Call her up, "Hey, it's you know Devario from Saturday!" Get response like "Oh yeah, hi" "Well, what's up? I never heard back, you're not thinking of flaking on me are you" Said with a sarcastic voice so she can hear your fucking smirk through the phone. ... You can say it over her voice mail too, start with "Oh voice mail, cool... okay." Or something, make it sound spontaneous. Make yourself sound exciting. Refresh her memories of you being that …
/r/seduction28/05/13 11:18 PM
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Sure mate, if that makes you feel better believe what you want! Would you mind explaining what could have been done better and how I come off "virgy?". Thanks
/r/seduction16/05/13 10:50 PM
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Yeah I know. I had one when I was kissing Yvonne Strahovski last night. And I was like am I dreaming???? naaaah it must be real.
/r/seduction16/05/13 08:48 PM
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Actually I did, but it might not have been clear enough. And I apologize for that. After leaning in to talk to them I was standing pretty close but not invading their personal space. I didn't go out of my way and make any unnatural kino escalations while doing the opener. Just very strong eye contact. After the introduction we had some small talk about the univercity I'm attending, since they asked what I do. I left it out of the FR because it was not going to give you any insight. It was just r…
/r/seduction16/05/13 08:22 PM
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As /u/AfroSamuraii said, remember to not rush your sentences. You are controlling the conversation and acting confident if you emphasis and make pauses. I usually go for situational openers and rarely use pick up lines, but it's nice to have some really cheesy ones when needed.
/r/seduction16/05/13 08:06 PM
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90% of all my jokes are offensive in some way, but you should know that it is jokes and I mean nothing by it. The world is messed up, better joking about it and spreading knowledge then ignore it.
/r/seduction16/05/13 07:49 PM
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Thank you. It works better if you get a real good kiss, but seeing her reaction I felt like such a boss anyway!
/r/seduction16/05/13 07:46 PM
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Alternatively, Rise and shine sunshine. If you wake up early!
/r/seduction05/05/13 03:21 PM
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Sounds like you are too afraid to get rejected/burned. You know what people say about confidence, fake it until you believe it. Let us play a game, next time you see a cute girl, pretend that you approach girls for a living, like you were born to make girls drop panties, believe it. Doesn't matter if you fail, you are someone who approaches 20 girls everyday. What do you care if she looks at you funny. What's her problem? So you wanted baby steps, well what doesn't kill you makes you stronger, w…
/r/seduction05/05/13 01:52 AM
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THIS is pure gold. Although it's the same mindset, the psychology is different in the beginning. Falling from a rail hurts physically. You pick yourself up and retry it on the same rail until you can do it in your sleep. Like beating a video game. But it doesn't embaress you in the same way failing an approach does. Which hurts you psychologically. Approaching women if you are insecure is scary because being reminded that you are not good enough as a person hurts on a deeper level. I would say i…
/r/seduction23/04/13 10:09 PM
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No it was fake, he could tell by the yoga pants!
/r/seduction23/04/13 09:44 PM
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After the show she climbed on stage, stood in front of me nervously and said, “I didn’t know you were in a band!” I patted her on the head, said, “Yes. I’m in a band.” Never happened.
/r/seduction23/04/13 09:15 PM
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Geez, I was cringing so hard of all the typical and predictable lines. This is not pick-up, this is just a poorly written script. I'm not saying that hot intelligent woman doesn't fall for this kind of stuff, but the narrative, consistency and cliché parts was just flooding. This was not for me.
/r/seduction23/04/13 01:24 AM
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sooo.. are you a girl or a guy? cause im sensing schitzo!
/r/seduction02/04/13 03:48 AM
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What do you want us to say? Yeah you fucked up. I got no problem taking a girl off someones hands if the situation allows it. Come on "PUA"nick, learn some manners and be a bro. Good job seeing your own mistake though I can't imagine someone calling himself a pua isn't aware of this already!
/r/seduction01/04/13 02:06 AM
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I think that you were trying too hard to come off as you were giving no fuck and telling yourself to not feel any pressure. There are alot of different ways to not give a fuck, for example you can tell the cute redhead that she is the cutest redhead you seen all day. Saying what you want and doing it without putting the pressure on yourself "I have to get her number", "I have to set a date" etc is a good mentality. You don't give a fuck what anyone thinks and just do what you want. You will star…
/r/seduction28/03/13 05:09 PM
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This is solid advice, if somehow you dont have mutual friends dont ask her directly if she is seeing someone. Just assume she is single and do some regular eye contact, kino and look for IOIs.
/r/seduction21/03/13 05:49 PM
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Ok are nobody else annoyed by the hair being different in every explaination video? Anyway pretty solid approach and close.
/r/seduction20/03/13 07:07 PM
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doesn't matter had sex?
/r/seduction13/03/13 02:03 PM
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wow, I would give you pointers and in field tips for a beer and a laugh. Don't buy these bootcamp fucks. Reading this just made me angry.
/r/seduction25/02/13 01:06 PM
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Okay so you are asking how you are screwing up and what you are doing wrong. The answer in most cases is. NOTHING. And by that I mean, you are doing nothing and after 20 minutes of the girls dancing with you they will lose interest. Either they think you are taken, you are not attracted to them enough or that you are just not interested in more than dancing. I would say eye contact, more heavy grinding, move your hands sexually up and down her body but be polite and not grabby. Make her feel goo…
/r/seduction06/01/13 03:15 AM
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You are correct. But check my response to circa7! :)
/r/seduction06/01/13 02:45 AM
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She gave you her number without you having to do a thing. She is already interested. Just go for, so you think im cute huh? Well are you going to ask me out or what!? :) /bartender
/r/seduction05/01/13 07:27 PM
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Dafuq?
/r/seduction27/12/12 01:26 AM
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Man. There was a time when I probably would have done the same mistakes as you did. We all start somewhere, be glad that you learned it the hard way, cause thats when you dont repeat it. Well thats all I really had to say, thanks for sharing!
/r/seduction19/12/12 02:28 AM
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Okay, firstly, she is 100% aware of the effect she has on you when writing stuff such as poke and spank you. I am not saying that shes writing it because she likes you already but either you got a chance or shes playing you like a stupid bitch. Its your job to figure it out. Secondly, like Clam and the date rape guy said, treat her like a women you are on a date with. If it gets awkward, pull out. You are not looking for a cute hot friend. Dont be afraid to show her you know excatly what you wan…
/r/seduction13/12/12 02:13 AM
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Believe me, that was smooth! Well done!
/r/seduction07/12/12 12:46 AM
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I see your point. We don't speak english in my country and a slight poke and hi seems better than an "excuse me" for me. Really no point for an argument here :)
/r/seduction12/11/12 11:16 PM
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I like to open indirect and get direct if there is any connection. Opening to strongly can sound so cheesy and leaving you with the feeling that you have to keep on comming strong and direct after the opener. Which is no problem if you are used to it. But for someone that is gaining the confidence I would say start indirect.
/r/seduction12/11/12 10:43 PM
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Well, its all about taste there i guess. I like to use "Hi" over "Excuse me" because I am not excusing myself as taking her time, like im sorry or something. I am simply introducing conversation. Well just keep praticing!
/r/seduction12/11/12 10:35 PM
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Hi do you know of any good coffee places around here? Now its very important to read the situation, is she smiling, do you have eyes locked, is there some chemistry. If not carry on, if yes. -Oh, don't worry give me your number and I'll text you if I find one. -Thanks, wait how can I trust you? Want to join me? Its all about reading her, if shes busy, doesnt seem up for it theres nothing more than that.
/r/seduction12/11/12 08:12 PM
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