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| 30 | What's so terrible about men speaking up about men's issues?According to cancer.org, women should start getting a mammogram starting at age 40-44. They recommend men should start getting prostate exams at 50. So not that much of an age difference. | /r/MensRights | 11/03/22 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Looking for interviewees re Men's Rights, 'incels', etc etcI'll help via reddit messages, I identify as a MRA, not incel though. | /r/MensRights | 08/03/22 04:35 PM |
| 68 | Female MRA here , AMAThank you for standing up for men. Do you feel as if you have a louder voice than men when discussing men's issues? Whenever I've tried discussing men's issues, feminists are quick to scream 'misogynist' or 'incel' instead of listening to/debating men's issues. Do you experience similar issues, or are they willing to hear what you have to say? Thanks again. | /r/MensRights | 28/02/22 04:40 PM |
| 25 | 80% of suicide victims are male and there is not mentation of gender on The CDC's page on information about suicideIt's weird how rape and domestic violence are considered 'women's issues' when they happen to so many men as well, yet no one will ever call suicide a 'men's issue'. I'm okay with the CDC site not mentioning gender (because suicide can affect anyone), but why can't they do the same with rape and domestic violence? Because those too, can happen to anyone. | /r/MensRights | 28/02/22 07:22 AM |
| 6 | Why are there no studies on the fact that the vast, vast, vast, vast majority of men have been kicked, punched etc. in the balls (which is sexual assault), therefore making the percentage of men who have been sexually assaulted probably around 97%?If someone puts a part of their body on someone else's genitals without their consent, it's sexual assault, period. In addition to regular assault/battery, there's also a sexual humiliation factor to getting kicked in the balls. If a man were to punch a woman in the crotch, chances are he would be charged with some sexual crime in addition to assault/battery. | /r/MensRights | 28/02/22 04:23 AM |
| 5 | i’m not sure how i feel about this, opinions?I agree with the idea, however the last two texts ruined it. Using body shaming insults (small dick) should never be acceptable. And 'toxic masculinity' isn't real, it's just gender roles. When women don't want to do 'boyish' things, we don't call it 'toxic femininity', and we respect their preferences. Yet when men don't want to do 'girly' things, we call them toxic. Gender roles are very real for both men and women, but feminists choose to use body shaming and calling masculinity toxic instead… | /r/MensRights | 24/02/22 09:23 AM |
| 94 | Tennessee woman accused of raping at least 9 students; community shaken by allegations: reportWhen I was 15, I had a relationship with a woman in her 30's. I unfortunately thought that way too, until years later when I discovered Men's Rights, when I finally figured out it was rape. We as a society need to have a conversation about male victims, this happens way too often, and society unfortunately turns a blind eye to male victims. | /r/MensRights | 21/02/22 01:45 AM |
| 33 | he was called a coward for not giving his seat to a woman when the Titanic was sinkingSame reason men in the UK were given white feathers by feminists to shame and humiliate them for not fighting in WW1 (even if it was for a legitimate reason such as medical issues). Men have always been expected to die all throughout history; yet men are the 'privileged' ones. | /r/MensRights | 20/02/22 05:18 AM |
| 8 | The sinking of the Titanic clearly shows that WOMEN (especially white women) always had more rights, not less, than men. Feminism is based on a lie, always was, always will be.The extends to traditional workplace expectations as well. Men are expected to do all the dangerous jobs, which results in 93% of workplace fatalities being men. Feminism pushes for there to be more female CEO's/politicians/software engineers, but no feminist has ever pushed for there to be more female construction workers, more female ditch diggers, more female line workers, more female truck drivers etc. Someday, 50% of CEO's/politicians/software engineers will be women, however, men will alwa… | /r/MensRights | 19/02/22 03:34 AM |
| 4 | Minnesota police officer Kim Potter has been sentenced to 2 years in prison for the negligent manslaughter of Daunte Wright…Reminds me a little of the Amber Guyger incident (Woman cop went into wrong apartment after work, thought it was hers, saw a black man sitting on the couch, so she shot and killed him. Only got 10 years, and will be eligible for parole after 5. Had a male cop went to the wrong apartment and shot a woman, he would be given life in prison. (Plus no one wants to discuss how if it had been a woman on the couch, the woman cop wouldn't have seen her as threatening, so likely wouldn't have shot her). | /r/MensRights | 19/02/22 01:20 AM |
| 10 | Is colombia one of the most dangerous countries for women? Or men?https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Homicide_statistics_by_gender More men are killed than women in almost every country in the world. According to 2013 UNDOC homicide statistics (shared on Wikipedia), men make up 91% of homicide victims in Colombia | /r/MensRights | 18/02/22 03:34 AM |
| 2 | name three laws sexist towards men/womenThere may be benefits, but whatever happened to bodily integrity? What if it was legal to remove parts of the labia (of newborn girls) because some study said 'it's easier to clean', that wouldn't go well with anyone. There would literally be mass protests until that got banned. If your fiancé is an adult, then he is legally allowed to get circumcised. And that's how it should be; if an adult male thinks it's better for him, he should go and get circumcised. The issue here is bodily integrity, n… | /r/MensRights | 18/02/22 02:29 AM |
| 14 | Someone please explain to me why feminists get triggered when men discuss their issues?I have tried on feminist subreddits/forums, they don't approve posts like these. Funny enough, they'll approve actual misogynistic posts which they can easily prove wrong, but won't approve actual thought provoking posts questioning modern day feminism. | /r/MensRights | 17/02/22 10:26 AM |
| 7 | Someone please explain to me why feminists get triggered when men discuss their issues?I have never done this, nor personally seen this happen. I remember during the MeToo movement, I saw a guy I know discuss his own sexual assault, and a women kept attacking him for 'taking women's space' (even though it was his FB status) so he eventually deleted it. If it happens in the examples you're providing, I agree with you, but in my personal experience, I've seen men silenced when they aren't interrupting women's issues. | /r/MensRights | 17/02/22 05:21 AM |
| 30 | For all the gaybros of this group: Why did you decide to become a MRA?I'm bisexual, and I've been sexually assaulted several times in my life. Yet whenever I've tried to talk about it, I've either been laughed at or told men can't be raped. Men's issues need more attention, which is why I decided to help by being a MRA | /r/MensRights | 17/02/22 03:49 AM |
| 111 | name three laws sexist towards men/womenMen are made to sign up for the selective service; therefore would be sent to die if a big war breaks out Circumcising baby boys is (unfortunately) legal There are financial grants solely for women in college; when they make over 60% of college students | /r/MensRights | 17/02/22 12:51 AM |
| 54 | This video was posted about an Indian men and his wife taking pictures during a photo shoot and made the front page of Reddit and the comments are nothing but stereotypes and racism towards the man and comments defending the man gets downvoted.Apparently it's okay to be racist if you disguise it as feminism. | /r/MensRights | 16/02/22 11:40 PM |
| 3 | If companies could get away with paying women lower wages than men, they wouldn't hire men at all.There is no such thing, not sure where you're getting that information from. The Equal Pay Act was passed in 1963, which literally says that's illegal in the entire US. | /r/MensRights | 16/02/22 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Female friend complained about not getting DUI ticket because cop found her attractiveAgain, I'm not denying any of that. Nor am I blaming her in any way. I literally never said the cop hitting on her is okay, nor did I say she is at fault in anyway. If you want to have a proper debate, you can't just put words in someones mouth. All your points are literally trying to deflect from my argument. You're completely right that the cop was wrong to do that, and you're completely right that she has a right to feel that way. However, my post is about privilege. Because of her gender, sh… | /r/MensRights | 16/02/22 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Female friend complained about not getting DUI ticket because cop found her attractiveI'm sure some comments here are extremely wrong (I downvoted some I saw); but my post is pointing out a serious flaw in our justice system. When one demographic group is treated less harshly by the justice system for the same crime, that is privilege and it needs to be discussed. I'm not saying it's okay for cops to hit on people; but I'd much rather get hit on than get my life ruined. I've known women who have gloated about getting out of tickets because they're women. And how many of them will… | /r/MensRights | 16/02/22 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Female friend complained about not getting DUI ticket because cop found her attractiveAbsolutely no one ever said anything like that. If that's what you got out of this post, please see a psychiatrist. She had every right to feel uncomfortable about being objectified, and the cop was in the wrong for doing that. However, a man in the same position would have been arrested, and spent the weekend in jail. And then paid massive fines. After that, he'd have his license suspended for a year. And the DUI would stay on his record forever, ensuring he never gets a serious job again. A mi… | /r/MensRights | 16/02/22 08:59 AM |
| 1 | Female friend complained about not getting DUI ticket because cop found her attractiveClearly you have never received a DUI. It isn't just paying a fine. You spend a weekend in jail. You get your license suspended (for years sometimes). You can never get a serious job again. Furthermore, she wasn't followed home. He drove behind her to make sure she didn't crash into anything (which he had to do or he'd get in serious trouble if she go into an accident). Not saying what the cop did was right at all, nor saying she didn't have a right to feel objectified or uncomfortable. But mino… | /r/MensRights | 16/02/22 08:54 AM |
| 1 | Female friend complained about not getting DUI ticket because cop found her attractiveThe thing is, is that the cop is the 'system'. And when the system chooses to be more lenient on one demographic group, it is definitely a social problem to be discussed. I don't know any man who has ever gotten out of any ticket, definitely not a DUI ticket. A man in this position would easily have his life ruined. Weekend in jail. Large fines. License suspended. Never get a serious job ever again. Men receive 63% longer prison sentences than women for the exact same crime (and are twice as lik… | /r/MensRights | 16/02/22 08:49 AM |
| 32 | Study: "In every country (without exception), more girls than boys aspired to a people-oriented occupation, and more boys than girls aspired to a things-oriented or STEM occupation."We have so many programs/scholarships trying to increase the number of women in STEM majors. STEM employers aggressively recruit women, even when their resumes are weaker than male job seekers. Yet, we never see the same for men seeking jobs in occupations dominated by women (i.e., nursing, teaching etc). | /r/MensRights | 14/02/22 07:47 AM |
| 4 | What is your general take on abortion?I'm very pro-choice; however, this means forced child support/forced fatherhood is wrong as well. | /r/MensRights | 14/02/22 07:26 AM |
| 9 | Female friend complained about not getting DUI ticket because cop found her attractiveNo one ever said it's appropriate for a cop to hit on a civilian. I'm saying she's privileged that she didn't have to spend the weekend in a jail like a man would have. She's privileged that her license won't get suspended like a man's would have. She's privileged she won't have a DUI on her record for the rest of her life that will prevent her from getting good jobs. Stop trying to twist my words; this is why no one likes you feminists. | /r/MensRights | 14/02/22 07:20 AM |
| 43 | The Feminist theory that the European witch hunts were caused by misogyny can't be true because in many places most convicted witches were men. It's no rocket science.Even in the most famous witch hunt in the US-The Salem Witch Trials-five of the 18 victims were men. And to make it worse, all the accusers were female (literally teen girls and one woman were the eyewitnesses who were used). Yet that somehow always gets left out whenever feminists discuss The Salem Witch Trials. | /r/MensRights | 12/02/22 06:52 PM |
| 227 | "That's right, we only treat women" - Manchester Mental Health Trust UKMental health treatment has always been geared towards women, and people wonder why 77% of suicide victims are men. Even when the media discusses mental health, it revolves around women. I remember reading an article a few weeks ago about how COVID is harming women's mental health. Netflix shows like '13 reasons why' also revolve around how mental health affects females. I hardly ever see the mainstream media discussing how issues surrounding men's mental health, just a result of the gender empa… | /r/MensRights | 04/02/22 11:56 AM |
| 7 | "6 out of 10 college freshman are women, so there are more and more scholarship programs and grants available that cater exclusively to women needing funding for college." Um, aren't demographic based scholarships/grants supposed to help the underrepresented demographic group?Equal opportunity is provided; women just choose to not go into those professions. Look at US politics for example. A lot more men choose to run for political office compared to women. However, women have a higher success rate at being elected when they do run (look at the results of the 2020 congressional races). More women choose to be a stay at home parent compared to men; and when women choose to work, they go into other fields such as humanities, nursing, secondary school teaching etc. 65% … | /r/MensRights | 01/02/22 02:06 PM |
| 24 | My first experience with a female who made up completely false things about me.Literally every woman who I know who has confessed to cheating, always defended it by 'I did it because he was abusive'. So many women accused of killing their husbands/boyfriends claim it was because he was abusive or sexually assaulted them. The problem is, we have no way of knowing which women are telling the truth and which are lying; but to say we have to believe all women just because they are women is absolutely ridiculous. | /r/MensRights | 28/01/22 02:13 AM |
| 12 | Connecticut Supreme Court: Women-only gym areas violate state discrimination lawA gym in my town actually charges men more than they charge women for a membership, makes absolutely no sense | /r/MensRights | 27/01/22 12:18 AM |
| 27 | Woman rips off man's testicle and tries to eat it after he turns down her advances.This is sexual assault as well. The man didn't want to be touched, but she forcibly put her hand on his genitals; yet she didn't get charged with any sexual crime. Society refuses to believe that plenty of men are victims of sexual assault as well; they only saw this as a violent assault, not sexual assault as well like they should have. | /r/MensRights | 26/01/22 01:38 AM |
| 1 | The struggles of traditional male roles are ignoredExcept mainstream media (such as tv, newspapers etc) are the ones who have the most power. Tell any person that 79% of homicide victims are men, and majority won't believe you. Why? Because mainstream media only reports on female victims (white female victims, which makes it a race issue as well tbh), but the point is, this is a perfect example of how men's issues are ignored and society gets a false perception. Society knows that we need to teach women to protect themselves, but no one teaches … | /r/MensRights | 21/01/22 06:59 AM |
| 1 | The struggles of traditional male roles are ignoredHundreds of YouTube videos/podcasts/lectures yes, but nowhere in the mainstream media. I've heard the 'gender wage gap' heard on the news hundreds of times, but never the fact that 93% of workplace deaths are men. I always hear how women are underrepresented in politics, in engineering, in business etc, but never that they are underrepresented in construction work, ditchdigging, line working etc. Nor do I ever hear about how men are underrepresented in teaching, nursing etc. So no, I can't say t… | /r/MensRights | 20/01/22 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Male homicide victims are at an all time high in the UK, and the number keeps climbing higher (yet the media completely ignores gender when it involves males)Men are, but that does not mean a male victim matters any less. Just because a male victims shares a gender with his perpetrator, does not make him any less of a victim, nor does it make him complicit in his own murder. | /r/MensRights | 20/01/22 04:37 AM |
| 7 | Male homicide victims are at an all time high in the UK, and the number keeps climbing higher (yet the media completely ignores gender when it involves males)I didn't use the word rate; the title discusses victims, pertaining to the number of (male) victims. | /r/MensRights | 08/01/22 02:47 AM |
| 16 | Police Brutality is Men's Rights issue in addition to a racism issueEveryone has mental breakdowns. Women are offered words of support and hugs, whilst men are seen as threatening. The bigger issue here is that (even with criminals), police play the judge jury and executioner. Even if a man is resisting arrest, the police have tools to arrest him instead of killing him. Female criminals are apprehended in a very different way. | /r/MensRights | 03/01/22 03:37 AM |
| 15 | Police Brutality is Men's Rights issue in addition to a racism issueMajority of people killed by cops in the US could have easily been arrested. In fact, majority of the people killed by police are unarmed. Like I said in my original post, there are men who have been killed simply for having a mental breakdown. The cops get called, and they see a man experiencing a breakdown, and assume he must be threatening and violent. That's what this post is about; police seeing men as disposable, and more threatening due to their gender. Everyone knows about police brutali… | /r/MensRights | 03/01/22 03:14 AM |
| 21 | Police Brutality is Men's Rights issue in addition to a racism issueRacists here try to invalidate the 'Black lives matter' movement by pointing to statistics that show black people committing more violent crimes here to justify police killing them. That logic is racist and bigoted. You're using that same logic, but applying it to men. | /r/MensRights | 03/01/22 02:50 AM |
| 16 | Police Brutality is Men's Rights issue in addition to a racism issueThat is the same argument I hear from the 'all lives matter' people, are you one of them? They always come with 'black people commit more crimes', but that thinking is bigoted. So is your thinking. Very few people deserve to be killed by police; majority of people who end up getting killed could've easily been arrested. | /r/MensRights | 03/01/22 02:38 AM |
| 2 | We need to stop misogynistic men too if we actually want men's issues to be solved.I agree completely, however, there will always be a tiny percentage of misogynists that will be used as the 'poster child' of mens rights. Even if a million men are against misogyny, and there's 1 misogynist who supports men's rights, that misogynist is how the media will define mens rights. Which is ridiculous considering that doesn't apply with misandrist women. For example, there are literally women saying 'k*llallmen' on social media, but that isn't the face of feminism, nor does that invali… | /r/MensRights | 02/01/22 02:26 AM |
| 23 | 95% of Japan's homeless is maleMy roommate was homeless for a while. I just asked him about his experience with homeless shelters, and he said he'd never come across a homeless shelter exclusively for men (I tried googling, and they do exist, but they're rare and aren't large ones). He also said that even regular all gender homeless shelters would discriminate against single men; men with a woman or children with them would be given a preference, and he'd be made to leave fast even when he was given a bed. | /r/MensRights | 31/12/21 01:45 AM |
| 60 | 95% of Japan's homeless is maleMore men are homeless than women everywhere in the world; I believe in the US, 75% of the homeless population is male. This is a result of the various social safety nets most women have. First, there are many homeless shelters who will only accept women, yet there are no 'male only' homeless shelters. Next, there are many programs and charities which focus solely on female homelessness. Furthermore, society in general will help a woman in risk of homelessness over a man in risk of homelessness. … | /r/MensRights | 30/12/21 09:38 PM |
| 8 | MGTOW Brought Back. How?There are plenty of women who have had bad experiences with men, and when they say they don't want a man and want to be independent, society applauds them and calls them queens. Yet when men have had bad experiences with women, and try to say the same thing, they're suddenly misogynistic. I know plenty of MGTOW who have been victims of domestic violence, sexual assault, and false allegations. Many of them have trauma as well, and them saying they don't want to date anymore shouldn't be seen as h… | /r/MensRights | 29/12/21 02:08 AM |
| 18 | Why is there such a lack of accountability for female criminals?The comments I read weren't on the article, they're on the Facebook page where it was shared. | /r/MensRights | 27/12/21 09:51 PM |
| 18 | Why is there such a lack of accountability for female criminals?https://abcnews.go.com/US/wireStory/missouri-woman-charged-killing-boyfriend-sword-81949209 | /r/MensRights | 27/12/21 09:20 PM |
| 55 | Hitting a man in the groin should be seen as sexual assault (in a non self defense situation)Even movies that are meant for children show this, such as Shrek 2 and Despicable Me. | /r/MensRights | 14/12/21 01:51 PM |
| 66 | Hitting a man in the groin should be seen as sexual assault (in a non self defense situation)Its honestly a much bigger issue than 'boys will be boys', considering plenty of girls do the same thing to guys. In my middle school, a girl kicked me in the groin as a joke, and the female teacher who saw it held in her laughter while telling her she shouldn't do that. Besides that, she didn't get in trouble (despite the fact that my school had a zero tolerance fighting/assault policy). So clearly not all places view it as sexual assault. | /r/MensRights | 14/12/21 12:33 PM |
| 13 | "Its men doing that to other men" - Response to struggles men face, stumped me in a debate with friends and I regret not knowing what to sayThat doesn't make men any less victims. And you're right, it is similar to racist thinking, I've heard racists invalidate African-American homicides by calling it 'black on black crime'. Furthermore, when feminists discuss patriarchy, they completely ignore hierarchy. For example, Jeff Bezos is a man, but most of his warehouse workers who are treated unfairly, are also men. Feminists view the 'patriarchy' as a system where all men love each other and look out for one another, while completely ig… | /r/MensRights | 13/12/21 11:07 AM |
| 1 | Do any subreddits or twitter pages exist which show hypocrisy of posts by women attacking men?It is not rageporn; the idea is to start a conversation about how men are talked about (and that it is not okay). Currently it's acceptable to degrade men, to body shame men, to make rape jokes about men etc etc. If it's not acceptable to say to or about a woman, it should not be acceptable to say to or about a man either, and showing the hypocrisy in that is the only way to start a conversation about this in my opinion. | /r/MensRights | 11/12/21 01:38 PM |
| 28 | Why don't cases like these make national news? If the genders were reversed, it would be on all media outlets for several days, and we'd be having conversation about teaching men to stop murderingBecause whenever there is a murder story that the media discusses for days, it's always where the murderer is a man, and the victim is a woman. The majority of murderers are men, and majority of their victims are men as well (around 80%), and those never make the news either. But if the murderer is a man, and the victim is a woman, that story (statistically speaking) has a much higher chance of developing a large following. It's true that not all murder stories make headlines for days, but when … | /r/MensRights | 10/12/21 04:43 AM |
| 58 | Rant: Most feminists do not give two shits about male problems, they just dismiss them and redirect them to forward their own agendas.I've literally heard a feminist defend male circumcision by saying 'It looks better to women, he will have an easier time getting a gf'...like wtf, imagine the outrage if people defended female circumcision by saying 'it looks better to men, she will have an easier time getting a bf'. | /r/MensRights | 08/11/21 10:51 AM |
| 67 | Rant: Most feminists do not give two shits about male problems, they just dismiss them and redirect them to forward their own agendas.They say they support equality and men's issues too, but will use hashtags on twitter such as #k!llallmen and #pegallmen which literally encourages violence and sexual assault against men. Yet if we say anything against any of that, we're 'evil misogynists'. | /r/MensRights | 08/11/21 10:03 AM |
| 9 | Masculinity may have a protective effect against the development of depression — even for womenConsidering men make up 75%-80% of suicides, I don't think it does. More men likely have depression, we're just good at hiding it because the world doesn't react as empathetically to a depressed man. | /r/MensRights | 24/08/21 06:11 AM |
| 3 | Cover charges and ladies nightsThere's a gym here in my town that charges men almost double for membership, makes absolutely no sense | /r/MensRights | 24/08/21 06:01 AM |
| 30 | Walking home from town behind a girl with the same pace as you and having to change your route so she doesn’t think you’re a rapist.Every woman says she has been followed...and every man says he's felt like a follower walking behind a woman. Maybe this is a result of the fear mongering culture we've created. Honestly, it's the men who have more to be afraid out alone. 79% of homicide victims in the US are men. Majority of people shot, stabbed, beaten up in public, are men. As for rapes, that rarely happens by random men on the streets. Almost never, in fact. In almost all rape cases, the victim knew the rapist, and it happen… | /r/MensRights | 24/08/21 05:52 AM |
| 17 | Michelle Lujan Grisham (New Mexico's Governor) was accused of sexual harassment by a man, how come the mainstream media didn't report this?I said especially compared with Andrew Cuomo's accusations. How many of these stories ran for hours on cable news? Writing a few articles (which never made the headlines) isn't nearly the same. If you polled people and asked how many even knew this happened, very few would know. | /r/MensRights | 24/08/21 02:48 AM |
| 6 | Let's stop swallowing the term “patriarchy”The 'patriarchy' is just a result of biology and the need to survive. Tribes needed to survive and increase their numbers, so couples were expected to have 10-15 children (since many died during infancy). Since women carried the babies and breastfed, it made since for them to be the ones to stay home, while the men went out and did physically excruciating work. Women make it sound like men kidnapped women from another planet and made them their slaves, when it was a mutual compromise based on th… | /r/MensRights | 23/08/21 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Children's book series (Harry Potter) makes a mockery of male rapeIf a rapist was alone and detoriated, I wouldn't pity them at all, I'd be glad they were in that condition. No one would feel that way about a male rapist, which is exactly my point, the world takes male rape less seriously, and isn't as harsh on female rapists. | /r/MensRights | 23/07/21 03:16 PM |
| 2 | Children's book series (Harry Potter) makes a mockery of male rapeYou say Harry pities her, yet she isn't seen as a victim? No one is supposed to pity a rapist; feeling sorry for someone is seeing them as a victim. | /r/MensRights | 19/07/21 11:47 PM |
| 17 | Thoughts on "teach your sons not to rape"?Not something you can teach someone, everyone knows it's wrong. Just like murder, I'm sure if someone went back in time and taught Jeffrey Dahmer that it's wrong to kill, he'd still do it anyways. Criminals have always existed and always will, this whole idea you can just teach someone to not be a criminal is crazy, they know it's wrong, they make the choice. That said, that quote completely ignores that women rape too, and very few get caught (and very few men even realize it was rape consideri… | /r/MensRights | 09/07/21 04:11 PM |
| 8 | What exactly is the goal of your movement?My personal goal for the movement is to have men's issues recognized as legitimate. Men have a lot of the same issues as women, except they're mostly ignored, or even mocked, by society. There are many men who have been sexually assaulted/raped, yet there are so many rape jokes about men in the media and even in real life. I joined the men's rights movement because when I tried getting support about my sexual assault, I was literally laughed at. The same goes for other issues, such as domestic v… | /r/MensRights | 28/06/21 06:35 AM |
| 8 | Respond with "Rape all women" to people who say "Kill all men"No. The media already demonizes the men's rights movement as misogynistic, that'll just give them more reason to invalidate men's rights. Furthermore, let's not go low like radical feminists, the 'kill all men' crowd invalidates feminism for most sane people, let's not do the same for the men's rights movement. We already have enough facts and figures that show the need for a men's rights movement, let's work and sharing those and building up on that. A better response to 'kill all men' should b… | /r/MensRights | 28/06/21 06:23 AM |
| 30 | Do you ever feel shitty when the media talks about “women and children” and men” separately?Also when men die, it's always 'people' not 'men'. For example, the victims in the shooting in the California warehouse was all men, but all media reported it as '8 people killed'. Same thing with what happened in Ethiopia/Tigray conflict a few months ago, they went door to door killing every boy and man, yet the media reported it as 'over 100 civilians killed' or '100 people killed'. Men dying is so normalized that society just doesn't care, men make up 79% of homicide victims in the US, but th… | /r/MensRights | 28/06/21 06:13 AM |
| 3 | “Teach her young” or “L’Oréal, cause you’re not worth it” A PSA on domestic violenceEverything women have had to experience in DV, just as many men have experienced it too. Yet whenever men try to talk about their experiences, they always get shut down, and called misogynistic for talking about men's issues/rights. The fact that we don't even have anywhere to go if we are in a serious situation says it all (no taxpayer funded DV shelters for men in the US). There's basically zero support for a male victim of DV, in fact I know a male victim of DV who was arrested because the co… | /r/MensRights | 27/06/21 04:21 AM |
| 6 | It sucks that men aren’t allowed to display emotions because women will use it against them or start questioning their sexuality?Everyone always say it's men who this, but in my life, it's always been women. My mother and sisters are the ones who have always been against me acting feminine or displaying emotion. My female friends and girlfriends were the ones who got triggered whenever I wasn't 'acting manly enough'. Guys in my life have never given me shit for expressing emotions, it's the women who have. | /r/MensRights | 27/06/21 04:16 AM |
| 22 | "men do it to other men" "only men say this" who's tired of hearing these kinds of statements from women?As someone who's been sexually assaulted by a woman, this is absolutely ridiculous. Very few men ever even tell their stories because we literally get laughed at when we try telling our stories. There are men who don't even realized they were raped/sexually assaulted by women because society tells men that can't happen or that we're supposed to enjoy it. Women blame men for everything in the world, but they forget that they make up 52% of the population. They make up 52% of the electorate. The w… | /r/MensRights | 26/06/21 08:19 AM |
| 468 | Men of Reddit, do you agree with the saying “only women, children and dogs are loved unconditionally. Men are only loved under the condition they provide something.”?Yes, women have always been and will always be valued just for existing. That's the hardest part of going through puberty as a male; realizing that your existence isn't valued anymore as you grow older, and instead you're seen as a potential predator to everyone. To find people to value you, you have to give them something. | /r/MensRights | 25/06/21 08:32 AM |
| 6 | Why can't we look to finding solution that affect men in society instead of constantly blaming women and feminisms for are problems.I haven't seen people blame women on here. I don't blame women or feminists, but I do blame radical feminists. Radical feminists try to make it a trend to hate on men and demonize them using hashtags #KillAllMen and #MenAreTrash etc, those are the only kinds of feminists I blame. Other than that, most of the most upvoted threads I've seen on this sub are about men's issues, and not about feminists. | /r/MensRights | 25/06/21 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Should trans athletes be able to compete in women's events at the Olympics?I think every league/organization should make their own rules. Does an average trans woman have an unfair advantage over an average cisgender woman? Definitely. But then again, a lot of people's bodies are naturally advantageous over others in sports; i.e. a 6'4 woman has a much easier chance at succeeding in the WNBA the a 5'0 woman. Most successful athletes already have an unfair advantage because they were born in bigger and stronger bodies, and they worked up from there. That's why I think t… | /r/MensRights | 24/06/21 10:53 PM |
| 5 | I am scared, and I am thankful to have you.Men's issues are very real and very ignored by society, yet when a man tries to discuss them it's always because 'he's misogynistic' or 'doesn't care about women's issues'. This is why most men just shut up and let their issues get ignored, as the issues keep getting worse. There really is no winning as feminism has taken over mainstream media; you're automatically seen as a bad person for trying to discuss men's issues. | /r/MensRights | 24/06/21 12:07 AM |
| 40 | If you could rank the 5 most important men’s issues, what would they be?Society ignoring male sexual assault victims, and continuing to make rape jokes about them in the media Society ignoring male domestic abuse victims, while continuing to normalize violence against men in the media Nearly 80% of suicides are men; yet society doesn't address mental health issues towards men and instead blames it on 'toxic masculinity' Men get longer sentences than women for the same crime, and 97% of people killed by police are men/boys, this is systemic sexism and needs to be cal… | /r/MensRights | 23/06/21 08:44 PM |
| 108 | Wow this sub seems to hate everyoneNo one has any way to know how many false accusations there are. Feminists always claim it's only 2%, yet that number only means that 2% were PROVEN to be false accusations. Most of these proven false accusations are where the women/men admit that they falsely accused. 80-90% of cases are dismissed. Because they're just a he said/she said argument in court, with no way to prove who's lying. We'll never know the real number, but to assume women are the ones always telling the truth is sexist; wom… | /r/MensRights | 23/06/21 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Is there a way that you can talk common sense into a feminist wanting all men dead?No you can't, people like that are too brainwashed where their identity turns into their ego. The funny thing is, feminists are always calling men's rights folks misogynists for having debates about men's issues, yet they are okay with the feminists who use #KillAllMen and #MenAreTrash. I've never seen men saying stuff like that, yet somehow it's men who are the evil oppressors. | /r/MensRights | 23/06/21 08:21 AM |
| 67 | I feel sick to my stomachNot all women, but enough women. (Seriously though, most children who are killed are killed by their own mothers). | /r/MensRights | 22/06/21 07:34 AM |
| 9 | If the patriarchy is stopping men’s rights, why aren’t female, feminist politicians doing anything about it?There was a time when there were rape jokes about women in movies (70's-80's), but feminists successfully got those made a no go (which I'm glad that they did). However, male rapes jokes still exist in movies, and they've just gotten worse. Feminists love to claim that they fight for men's rights as well by striving to reach equality, but the truth is, they give 0 shits about men. Feminist plays a large part in the UN, Hollywood, mainstream media, plus large nonprofit groups. If they wanted, the… | /r/MensRights | 22/06/21 01:51 AM |
| 6 | What are your views on the sex offender registry in the US?I knew a couple who got arrested for public sex. Funny enough, only the man got put on the list, the woman somehow managed to get her case dismissed. It needs reform to include just actual sexual crimes in my option, stuff like public urination should get community service and no list. | /r/MensRights | 22/06/21 12:00 AM |
| 3 | Your response to the "poisoned berries" analogy?'Oh, interesting to see you think the same way as Donald Trump Jr.' https://www.bbc.com/news/election-us-2016-37416457 Most feminists are die hard liberals as well, and pointing out that Donald Trump Jr. used the same analogy to compare Syrian refugees as poisonous skittles makes the point | /r/MensRights | 21/06/21 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Men are Evil. Change my mindSome people are bad, some people are good. It's bad people vs society, not men vs women. There can be good or bad people of any gender/race/sexual orientation etc | /r/MensRights | 20/06/21 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Men made up 95% of marijuana arrests in NYC, even though men and women smoke marijuana at nearly equal ratesCompletely agree, 97% of people killed by cops are men, yet no media outlet wants to talk about that | /r/MensRights | 20/06/21 09:14 PM |
| 3 | 'Boys will be boys' has never been used to defend rape/sexual assault, yet feminists have hijacked the term and pretend people use it to shrug of rape/sexual assaultI actually agree that abortion should be completely a woman's choice, what I don't like is what happens after the child is born. In my country, a man has to pay child support for 18 years, or he goes to prison. Abortion is legal in my country, and a woman's choice. So basically, if a man doesn't have a say in abortion, which I agree with, I don't think he should be made to pay child support. Unless the situation is where a woman wants to abort, but a man wants to keep, only in that case a man sh… | /r/MensRights | 19/06/21 06:05 AM |
| 0 | 'Boys will be boys' has never been used to defend rape/sexual assault, yet feminists have hijacked the term and pretend people use it to shrug of rape/sexual assaultSorry about what you've been through. I agree boys will be boys has been used for the examples you've provided, but still I don't believe anyone would ever use it to defend actual rape/sexual assault. Everyone knows that's extremely wrong, and no one shrugs it off as normal behavior of men. In fact, it's men who get the angriest at other men for sexually assaulting others, we don't say 'oh it's cool, boys will be boys'. | /r/MensRights | 19/06/21 05:49 AM |
| 15 | Movies and violence towards menYes, and it isn't even movies, it's children's cartoons too. Pokemon for example, has Misty hitting Brock or Ash when she's mad at them, the media normalizes it at a young age that it's okay for women to hit men when they're mad at them. | /r/MensRights | 19/06/21 01:03 AM |
| 68 | Was Reddit always this misandristic?No, something has happened the last 3-5 years. I'd say it's because more people are using social media than ever. There's a term called '4th wave feminism' and it's the type where everyone has to agree with you, or you're a misogynist. Furthermore, feminism has been absorbed into mainstream media. It's become standard to hate men. Making anti men jokes or calling men trash is normalized in society, and that just ends up reflecting on reddit. | /r/MensRights | 18/06/21 02:18 PM |
| 9 | I’m doneIt's weird how there are women only scholarships, and they make up 60%+ of college grads, but yet it would be misogynistic to have a men only scholarship | /r/MensRights | 18/06/21 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Women and the Death PenaltyShe claimed she was a victim of domestic violence, and the juror went easy on her. Makes you think, how many female murderers get off because they claim it was self defense or were sexually assaulted? You don't even need proof, just get a juror to believe you, no way to prove either way | /r/MensRights | 18/06/21 09:30 AM |
| 44 | I’m doneIt's funny, they are trying to push women in lucrative STEM careers, but no one is trying to push women in other male dominated careers, such as construction work, truck driving, electric line workers, garbage collectors etc. Nor is anyone trying to push men into female dominated careers, such as teaching, or nursing. | /r/MensRights | 18/06/21 09:27 AM |
| 8 | Why women feeling unsafe at night is bullshitI think everyone feels unsafe at night when walking alone. I'm a man, and I've been beat up and had a knife pulled on me on the streets. The problem is that the media only makes it seem like a women issue. News and crime shows mostly focus on women homicide murders, while completely ignoring the men, who make up 79% of homicide victims in the US. Most women use catcalling as their examples of feeling unsafe, and while that's a terrible thing to have done to you, it is not usually linked with vio… | /r/MensRights | 17/06/21 08:06 AM |
| 12 | Why have I not seen any mans right protest yet?People tried that in Australia in 2018 I think. Got a ton of counter protests by feminists, and got shut down pretty quick. Media of course made it look like mens rights protesters were the far right, and were trying to incite violence etc. | /r/MensRights | 17/06/21 01:30 AM |
| 2 | [Question] How is International Men's Day doing in your country?I posted a link below to what the UN posted about international mens day. Tells you all you need to know about how the world feels lol https://twitter.com/un/status/1329441047940898817?lang=en | /r/MensRights | 17/06/21 01:28 AM |
| 22 | For men who are victims of sexual assault, rape, etc. When you speak of your experience, is it often brushed off?I've been sexually assaulted 3 times, and I've been laughed at when trying to discuss it. Every time I hear a rape joke in movies or just from people, I get extreme anxiety, but can't do anything because society sees male rape as a joke. A man could say something sexual about a woman, and she'll post a long #metoo post about how she felt so violated etc, but a woman can full on rape a man, and he's 'lucky' that she did that to him. A lot of us on here turned to men's rights because we're sexual … | /r/MensRights | 16/06/21 03:56 AM |
| 9 | Does anyone have any research links about women getting more health research funding than men worldwide? I need it for an argument if you have it, so thanks.Here are some links to news articles discussing this, specifically prostate cancer funding compared to breast cancer funding, when nearly an equal number of people die from them https://www.news.com.au/lifestyle/health/men-die-earlier-but-womens-health-gets-four-times-more-funding/news-story/6bfc4ea7da62ad84743d7451de6de960 https://www.fatherly.com/health-science/prostate-cancer-research-funding-breast-cancer/ | /r/MensRights | 15/06/21 05:25 AM |
| 13 | I just joined a few days ago, why does it say that I might not be allowed in other subs if I post or comment in here?Because feminism has hijacked mainstream media, and anyone who stands up for men's issues is automatically labeled a misogynist. | /r/MensRights | 15/06/21 04:44 AM |
| 25 | I hate how some people try to make issues like domestic violence, rape, and assault gender issues.Yes, it's a human issue. Evil people vs society. Just like suicide is a human issue, it impacts mostly men (80%), but no one calls it a men's issue, yet rape/domestic violence is almost always viewed as a women's issue. This leads to society making rape jokes about men as if its non existent, which hurts the victims further. | /r/MensRights | 15/06/21 03:33 AM |
| 3 | Suicide attempts by teen girls spiked during COVID-19 pandemic: CDC - The spike of successful suicides by teen boys unimportantI know a lot of women who have been hospitalized for suicide attempts. They will take a couple pills and call 911, or cut themselves and call 911. This is the cry for help stage. Most men don't have a cry for help stage because we've been told no one cares about us for so long. Men commit nearly 80% of suicides, but no one discusses that as a men's issue, instead, all mental health wellness is discussed as in a feminine point of view, as in they discuss coping methods that help women, not men. | /r/MensRights | 15/06/21 01:04 AM |
| 5 | I need genuine help. I'm not acquainted with these but I'm scared.It's good you have evidence, that can help in the long run. Since she attacked him just by hearing your voice, she's not a stable person at all. He needs to get away from her as soon as possible, she will likely do it again | /r/MensRights | 14/06/21 06:54 AM |
| 26 | I sometimes wonder what it would be like if all men and inventions of men were removed from earthMen do all the dirty jobs women would never do. If men disappeared, there would be no garbagemen to pick up the trash. There would be no electric line workers to keep the power running. There's a push to get women into white collar jobs (i.e. STEM, CEO's, politicians), but no one wants to talk about how it's almost all men doing the dirty low wage labor work. They say 'patriarchy' by looking at a handful of CEO's and politicians, but ignore the millions of men who are pushed into hard and danger… | /r/MensRights | 14/06/21 06:30 AM |
| 8 | I need genuine help. I'm not acquainted with these but I'm scared.The best thing is to convince him to get her to leave. I don't see going to the cops to work in his favor; all she'd have to do is say it was self defense or he sexually assaulted her, and the legal system will turn on him. If he can't get her to leave immediately, see if there's a domestic violence shelter that accepts men in his area. Very few do, but there are some private ones that do. Domestic violence is serious, he needs to get away from her before it gets worse. Good luck to you and your… | /r/MensRights | 14/06/21 06:24 AM |
| 3 | Why is men getting hit in the groin comedic and socially acceptable?I believe it's just how our culture has become, even we men see ourselves as disposable, and unimportant. From childhood we are taught never to hit women, and that women are important and go through a lot of oppression by men. This leads us to grow up not caring for our own needs, and seeing ourselves get hurt as comical or even normal. I've had my share of groin hits, and definitely know it's no joke, just wish we could change this culture | /r/MensRights | 14/06/21 03:49 AM |
| 73 | We need more women to stand up for men. "'Men Have Problems, Too': Woman Defends TikToker for Controversial Song Cover"Agree, women have a lot more power than us. As in, people actually listen to women. Whenever a man tries discussing issues men face, they're automatically called 'misogynistic, 1ncel, loser, mansplainer' etc. When a woman talks about men's rights, people listen, especially other women. | /r/MensRights | 13/06/21 06:10 AM |
| 1 | There's Institutional Sexism against Men in the USWhen sentenced, the man gets an average of a 63% longer sentence. But a woman has a 200% not getting sentenced at all (i.e. getting case dismissed). Also, this is comparing the same crime, such as a man arrested for a heroin possession would get a worse sentence compared to a woman arrested for heroin possession. So not comparing average male convict to worst women convicts. | /r/MensRights | 06/06/21 09:13 PM |
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