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Yeah everyone knows that women from more "traditional" societies Hispanic, Asian, and eastern European are all famously docile. Latinas, Famous chill. Tiger moms? Never heard of them. Where do they think the stereotypes come from?
/r/ExRedPill12/04/26 01:02 PM
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I've actually made the same point about the weird pua phase in early male social media. It's easy to dismiss a grown man in their mid 30s who's given themselves a nickname. I can't say for certain that 14 year old me would've resisted the Andrew tates of today.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/26 12:04 PM
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There are certain conversation topics where I have very strong stances on the subject, and I am prepared, and have on many occasions, faced an entire room as the sole minority defending my positions. Under these circumstances, I normally don't like it when people in the discussion start going "Why can't you just let this person believe what they want?" because they're uncomfortable with upsetting their peers temporarily. To me, it feels like asking to play full contact football but complaining a…
/r/ExRedPill06/06/25 04:14 PM
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I feel like we're both correct in that yes you catch more flies with honey than vinegar. The honey works, but I've also dealt with flies that take the honey for granted which brings us back to the vinegar. Am I certain op definitely falls into box 2 instead of 1, of course not but when you roll out the gate like this you're gonna get lambasted by someone.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/25 06:27 PM
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Normally I'd agree. However when it comes to developing children (I strongly suspect OP might be <25) I'm not in the business of fostering naive arrogance because they'll be doing this shit in college in the blink of an eye. It may seem unkind, but I'm really just pointing to someone that paying a computer to metaphorically lift weights on your behalf does not make you physically stronger or really more impressive in any way.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/25 06:03 PM
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Who tf is Ben kessler? And why should I care what they have to say? A quick Google reveals they're a reporter, journalist, and freelance writer working on a novel. This tells me they're neither a full fledged news reporter nor industry expert with any real insight or experience on the subject, and I haven't even read a single sentence in the article yet. Anything they have to say would only qualify as mere speculation in a sandbox imagination exercise. You could've told me you wrote this yoursel…
/r/ExRedPill05/06/25 05:29 PM
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I had the impression that ChatGPT If only your sense of vibes were infallible.
/r/ExRedPill05/06/25 02:56 PM
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People who grew up with "let him feel like he's winning" moms.
/r/ExRedPill10/05/25 05:28 AM
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So they rag on their tinder matches for being shallow when that's their whole reason for swiping as well..
/r/ExRedPill10/05/25 05:26 AM
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I agree. The mindset seems to share similarities with the guy at the gym who accuses everyone bigger/stronger than themselves of steroids.
/r/ExRedPill29/04/25 05:35 AM
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You can't have competition if you can't be compared. So the question of am I good enough becomes a schrodinger's fragile ego.
/r/ExRedPill04/03/25 10:39 PM
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Incel only official when you start accusing the women as being 100% for not giving your dick a break for being mediocre.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/25 06:29 PM
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They want to be the only ones who have the RIGHT to be ignorant. Everyone else has to be practical.
/r/ExRedPill18/02/25 10:19 AM
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I don't know about now, but back in the 2000's it was sort of positioned very closely alongside men's lifestyle websites. These are websites designed to sell men's fashion and grooming products through advice articles. And much like what cosmo does for women, there's a lot of articles about dating and how to behave and what to showcase etc. It's weird to say but the whole thing is kind of a slippery slope where a few clicks and a few links is it takes to end up in front of someone who speaks ver…
/r/ExRedPill26/01/25 08:32 AM
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You realize this isn't going to work out either way because nobody, man or woman, straight or gay, is ever going to hitch their wagon onto your whole situation. The decision doesn't even involve anything related to your physical appearance or any of the other stuff you've cited thus far. The reason this isn't going to work is because nobody is going to date someone who's clearly just aiming downwards in life, so how is there even an upside for the other person? Doesn't it just mean you're alread…
/r/ExRedPill25/01/25 08:49 PM
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Yeah, reality check, that's not happening. The reasonable man adjusts themself to their environment. The unreasonable man expects the environment and everyone in it to adjust to them. So in the end, all progress rests on the unreasonable man. You want to be desired, be desirable. You want women in your life, then don't behave like the walking male stereotype that women find repulsive and thus actively exclude from their lives for totally valid reasons. I'll give you credit for acknowledging that…
/r/ExRedPill25/01/25 12:57 AM
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I'm going to try and unpack your process here so these aren't my beliefs or whatever. If all you're interested in is doinking a chick and doinking a chick there, then why not just book a professional? From the looks of it, It's not like you even enjoy any of the stuff that comes with the typical combo meal, and you probably hate having to "pay for extra stuff" you don't even want, then why not just make the same investment and get what you actually want? What's your end game here? Because I have…
/r/ExRedPill25/01/25 12:39 AM
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I'm going to try and unpack your process here so these aren't my beliefs or whatever. If all you're interested in is doinking a chick and doinking a chick there, then why not just book a professional? From the looks of it, It's not like you even enjoy any of the stuff that comes with the typical combo meal, and you probably hate having to "pay for extra stuff" you don't even want, then why not just make the same investment and get what you actually want? What's your end game here?
/r/ExRedPill25/01/25 12:37 AM
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The short answer is you don't like women as people, or at least you seem highly indifferent to the things that differentiate them as individuals. You're just biologically attracted to them. Remember, it's not that they don't have personalities, it's that you have zero sensitivity or appreciation for any that do.
/r/ExRedPill24/01/25 10:00 PM
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It's been nearly three weeks since I've said anything to you, and everything you've said screams you have no intrinsic sense of self worth. I'm blocking you now.
/r/ExRedPill18/06/24 04:39 AM
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Then feel free to choose any sub threshold synonym that reflects your emotional animosity towards women as a group: contempt, abhorrence, indifference, disdain, distaste, resentment.. It's not like it makes things better. When women comment on men being privileged, no one says "you don't see men as people" lol Umm you see it all the time on IG comment sections. It doesn't matter what women post online, there's always a horde of painfully single guys who will shoe horn their misogynistic takes in…
/r/ExRedPill30/05/24 06:12 PM
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Then it sounds like you're due for a solid break from screens. Put the phone down, get off social media, and go book a two week vacation at a resort. Social media isn't the same as living in social reality
/r/ExRedPill30/05/24 02:53 PM
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So do you just want to doink a chick here and doink a chick there and call it the day? Or do you actually want to settle down with someone? Cuz if it's th former.. I'd recommend oust hiring a professional. Look I love me a fun pretty young thing to bring to places and show off as much as the next guy, but I also don't have the cauldron of molten hate for women churning inside me like you do. It sounds like.. Despite your success and whatever you still can't accept the fact it doesn't take much f…
/r/ExRedPill30/05/24 12:12 PM
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Mate it's no wonder you're not doing well with women, you're not even friendly. I'm not talking about superficial charm here, any idiot fake that for an evening. You're a mess. Take all that money you've made and go see a therapist. As for what I bring, I'm well established. I have my own place, car paid, good job, no debt. I actually don't have trouble getting dates to be honest. And you think this.. Gives you power over them? Mate I didn't have any of this shit when I was young. I did alright …
/r/ExRedPill30/05/24 12:08 PM
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None of us have to answer your stupid questions because none of us are struggling as hard with our dating situations. It doesn't matter whether people say yes or no since it's not gonna change anything you one way or another. You just want strangers to validate your resentment, and as long as you get that you can always talk yourself out of ever having to put any effort into changing yourself because that's just too difficult for you. Plenty of guys have gotten themselves out of deep dark holes …
/r/ExRedPill29/05/24 08:34 PM
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How would YOU even know the difference? You got a lot of shit-talking confidence there buddy and with zero experience to back it up from the looks of it 😂 women can get any guy they want except for the specific guy they want, especially if they don't have good criteria. You can also enjoy the same results and frustrations if you just threw your standards to the wind. While we're at it, what exactly is it that YOU bring to the table besides being "nice"? Cuz let's face it, nice is really just wha…
/r/ExRedPill28/05/24 11:06 AM
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This is just grass is greener thinking mixed with a misplaced sense of envy for the opposite sex.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/24 03:06 AM
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Your comment says more about you than it does about the world or how the women in it treat men in general.
/r/ExRedPill26/05/24 06:09 PM
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Oh cool. Don't worry. Not trying to start doing whataboutism, it was just my evaluation. As you were then, gentlemen.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/05/24 09:16 PM
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Yes.. What you're saying is accurate but it's not like women have no experience dealing with contradictory expectations themselves 🙄 that's kinda what they've been raving about the entire time but a lot of men have selective attention when reviewing those grievances.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/05/24 04:11 PM
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One group is toxically masculine while the other group is aspirationally toxic.
/r/ExRedPill03/05/24 01:46 AM
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It's the same "not like the other girls" logic
/r/ExRedPill29/04/24 10:05 AM
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It basically means don't be the kind of guy that makes everyone else hate guys, and this includes other fellow guys too.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/04/24 03:15 PM
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It seems to really upset you to learn that somewhere out there two people might just be happy together in a relationship that doesn't hinge exclusively on physical attraction. You can act as derisive and indignant as you want it doesn't automatically make your position right. Nobody here cares if you ever snap out of this because there's really no point in trying to wake you up when you're just pretending to be asleep.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/24 04:37 AM
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Red pill guys want sexy looking women who are clearly sexual but will bemoan them the minute they start being remotely sexual. I mean, is it a yes or a no man.. The only rational explanation is they want to be the one who magically awakens a woman's sexuality despite their soul crushing mediocrity, after which she becomes a sex demon for nobody but them. It's like the inverse of your typical romance novel plot - where the Prince/neurosurgeon's bestial nature and reckless risk taking is tamed by …
/r/ExRedPill13/09/23 02:22 PM
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If you're from a wealthy strata you're told to just keep at it in an enthusiastic "atta boy" fashion because success is like a birthday to them it'll happen eventually.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/08/23 07:28 PM
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I'd even go a step further to say that most women's default rejections aren't even the "I'd rather chew glass" kinds of rejection. Sometimes the no is just "not under these conditions" whether said conditions are due to your situation or hers is a separate matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:11 PM
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Man for someone who's defending him this hard you really don't know anything about him. Kinda like how most evangelicals have never read the bible properly. Where does he say he makes them stay there with armed guards? If you watch the vice documentary about him it's one of the first things you see when the film crew approaches the compound. Two at the gate and a couple more inside his compound. These women think there going to be in a long term relationship with a guy like tate? They should be …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 08:00 PM
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The biggest factor for not being attractive to women isn't being out of shape, it's not being able to make women laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 03:09 PM
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No I'm being derisive. It's not like your relying on anything besides the internet..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 02:32 PM
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Do you mean "and" women have to do all of... Or are you trying to disagree with what I said?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:29 PM
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The point stands. When I was a baby there were women who looked after babies from multiple families in the area in their own home as their job. Your country may do things differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:27 PM
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If anything the tasks of mothering: cleaning, cooking, teaching, and property management are all paying jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 01:14 PM
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You can be anything but boring. Keep in mind a guy might still be sexually attracted to you if you're boring but other than that he'll probably try to keep any further communications to a minimum.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 12:06 PM
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They're not pretty, they just look that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 12:04 PM
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You mean besides the fact he transported and harbored people across national borders for the purpose of sexual exploitation through force, fraud, or coercion?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 11:21 AM
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But those same women, when asked about the history of their dealings with Andrew tate, gave descriptions that were factually and functionally congruent with how lover-boy trafficking operations typically work
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 11:19 AM
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The best part about his "girls are dumb and don't know how taxes work" comment is that he's saying it to a chatroom full of teenage boys who have also never filed taxes before.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 11:12 AM
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Where do you get your information to defend tate? The public library? The library of Congress?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 11:08 AM
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Amazon workers have more freedom than this..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 11:05 AM
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You have legal (no force, fraud, or coercion) methods of recruitment and contracts detailing the terms of employment and compensation. By legal I mean a) you don't use trick people to come to where you are with story A (long-term monogamous relationship and marriage) and changing to story B once they arrive. b) don't restrict their freedom of movement outside of work hours including but not limited to confiscating passports and using armed guards for intimidation. c) don't lie to them about help…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 11:03 AM
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Sure, but what’s better? Being an adolescent boy with no hope for the future who can barely get out of bed, or a boy the same age with a purpose, a goal, no matter how lofty? You think it's a good sign when a grown man advocates for goals that even a teenager would wince at? This isn’t true. In fact, the majority of Tate’s advice centers around work and exercise and what it means to be a man. His university has no mention of dating, it’s all focused on business. Whatever he puts on that site of …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 10:31 AM
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Well adjusted men also know he's full of shit. Tate is the guy you met in college who thinks the best way to show everyone you're cool is to constantly talk about how awesome you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 10:20 AM
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No that's not what i'm saying. What I am saying is that "women CAN try harder to further their career, whereas men HAVE TO try harder to succeed in their career in order to even stay in the game at all". When you have that kind of fire lit under your ass from day one, the current state of men and women in modern society is hardly unfounded. Just to get the ball rolling, I'll try to organise my thoughts a bit more clearly. My original comment is based on the natural criteria by which women select…
/r/AntiFeminists12/11/20 10:47 AM
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Gender differences cannot be objectively compared, which is why social science has parsed it into one of the big 5 personality dimensions (agreeableness). Once you apply that metric, it tends to offer the same degree of measurement variability between men and women while still allowing us to draw valid comparison in earnings. One potential answer to your big question is... Because no man in the history of the world has ever told a woman the following: "Susan, due to your modest earning potential…
/r/AntiFeminists11/11/20 07:54 AM
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That's a figure that's not adjusted between professions, it's just a lump sum. If you're gna tell me there's no overlap, I'm gna dismiss you. If you tell me there's no point in training people who are overly agreeable on how to negotiate their salary, I'm going to dismiss you. What exactly are you looking for here? We're not saying the gap doesn't exist, we're addressing why the gap exists, and it's certainly not solely based on gender.
/r/AntiFeminists11/11/20 07:24 AM
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So what happens when you look at it in terms of hourly wage? If we're paid the same hourly wage, but I choose to work more hours and you don't, it only make sense that I receive a larger paycheck at the end of the month. And there's no excuse for you to demand me to wind down my work hours.
/r/AntiFeminists11/11/20 04:44 AM
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Yup take-home gap.
/r/AntiFeminists11/11/20 04:42 AM
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If everything else is the same except wage, why wouldn't most businesses hire women exclusively to keep costs down? The wage gap argument basically implies men cannot possibly compete in the job market.
/r/AntiFeminists11/11/20 04:42 AM
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Say "maybe"
/r/seduction15/05/19 01:23 AM
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Hit the gas til you hear a yes or no, emphasis on the no, since women like to keep the "yes" as a question mark, hint hint wink wink, mainly because they want to act sexual without the risk of being judged negatively by you or others. You don't want to seem needy? Then stop acting like getting a no is the worst thing that can happen to you. It's infinitely worse to spend six months pining over someone even tho you never tried moving things forward, now that's needy. It's like complaining about a…
/r/seduction21/04/19 03:23 AM
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She's not interested. Learn to operate in the real world. Unless a woman is already attracted to you, they typically use social media to farm male attention. The very nature of texting is that you can respond whatever whenever. She's got your interest notched up to an 11 and it's all on tap.
/r/seduction21/04/19 03:16 AM
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You strike me as someone who doesn't have a FOB accent but still thinks in the timid Asian mindset, which is just run of the mill nice guy syndrome in Western culture. Brutal truth time, Asian men are not weak, you are. If the girl is willing to just transition like that on a dime, you probably didn't hold her attention at all, and she probably couldn't even remember what you said 30 seconds ago because she's been trying to shake the convo 30 minutes ago. I'm a 5'5 Chinese guy, so I've been ther…
/r/seduction21/04/19 02:49 AM
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You strike me as someone who doesn't have a FOB accent but still thinks in the timid Asian mindset, which is just run of the mill nice guy syndrome in Western culture. Brutal truth time, Asian men are not weak, you are. If the girl is willing to just transition like that on a dime, you probably didn't hold her attention at all, and she probably couldn't even remember what you said 30 seconds ago because she's been trying to shake the convo 30 minutes ago. I'm a 5'5 Chinese guy, so I've been ther…
/r/seduction21/04/19 02:38 AM
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I'd laugh if she's saying this while her ex is dating someone the likes of Elizabeth Hurley at 50, most women wish they look that good at 50 which is fair play unless they don't even look that right now.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/05/18 05:47 AM
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If this woman's only idea for maintaining a relationship after having a kid with a guy is to continue being fuckable and nothing else, she deserves what she has now because it means that she believes the only buying rationale is sex and vanity.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/05/18 05:45 AM
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If this woman's only idea for maintaining a relationship after having a kid with a guy is to continue being fuckable and nothing else, she deserves what she has now because it means that she believes the only buying rationale is sex and vanity.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/05/18 05:44 AM
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You should never hold back skill, only strength.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/05/18 05:04 AM
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It's almost like the whole "I'm just here for a degree" mentality stops working after you leave college...
/r/PussyPassDenied05/05/18 04:57 AM
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They like the consumer facing side of it, so they being tech literate can actually go a long way of your in marketing, sales, or product development. You just don't wanna be the girl who says "retina display" without any further understanding of what that entails. Part of being successful in stem is that you have to be the kinda person who's brain goes "whoooooooo" when it solves a complex problem, and truth is most women don't get the "fuck yeah" feeling when they do these sorts of things; they…
/r/PussyPassDenied05/05/18 04:55 AM
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Even among poly ppl, women who do this do not play the game ethically because they don't like letting go of the first trapeze rung before grabbing the next one, it's an incredibly selfish and cowardly thing.
/r/PussyPassDenied05/05/18 04:44 AM
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These are the hard and fast rules you set before every major life decisions and investments. It's what makes you seem more powerful at the end of the day because you know your limits, you have standards and a realistic end goal in mind. In my case, I go by: honesty, fidelity, and hostility. Any times a woman's actions drastically contradict her stated beliefs of herself or our shared relationships, I don't ever need to hear the explanation, I just up and leave. At this point watching them backpe…
/r/PussyPassDenied05/05/18 04:41 AM
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Or some women just can't admit buyers remorse
/r/PussyPassDenied05/05/18 04:08 AM
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Gee I wonder what kind of political group is always micro managing people's sex lives
/r/PussyPassDenied05/05/18 03:54 AM
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This is just you huffing and puffing blowing smoke and talking shit with no substance, we all feel frustrations here.. But what you're saying is about as practical as trump saying he'll build a wall and make Mexico pay for it. As far as I know, no Mexican has raised their hand to this day and said "yeah we got it covered" If you're gonna play the free speech card, that's not what free speech is. You spat out drivel, now we're telling you it's drivel.
/r/MGTOW29/09/16 05:38 AM
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Maybe you need to date better adjusted women who have surpassed the psychology of a child
/r/MGTOW28/06/16 12:21 AM
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There are two tragedies in life: one is not getting what one wants, the other is getting it.
/r/MGTOW19/01/16 06:00 AM
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I see feminism as if you want women to have same opportunities in life as you (employment and wage) and be held to the same standard as us (reproductive and healthcare) then you do subscribe to some feminist beliefs and this actually just makes you more of a decent human being. If you believe a woman can date and sleep around like a man without judgement and slut shaming then yes you're a feminist. What i don't put up with is anything where men are labeled as "entitled" when the issue addressed …
/r/MGTOW15/12/15 07:23 AM
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Most girls don't have the balls to pull that off
/r/seduction19/10/15 05:19 AM
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Yeah it's definitively a win in my book and great ego boost. Plus it makes my work day wayyyy more interesting haha. I'm a bit wary of the more chase part. Cuz she's set up hoops for me to jump through like "I'm bored, entertain me" which I just dismiss cuz I have other shit to do and I'm not a dancing bear.
/r/seduction08/01/15 12:24 AM
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Course haha. But I only make these posts when I'm like only like a few yards from touch down, but I guess you don't score until you score :L
/r/seduction07/01/15 04:15 PM
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http://i.imgur.com/KNbt04t.png I tried something similar to this for a date she has on Thursday, she said she'll try to get out of it but she still wants to have a drink and meal with the guy (fine by me if she's wined and dine before she gets FUCKED!!!) but I have a feeling even if she does come through and texts me, it still feels like a power play by her somehow.
/r/seduction07/01/15 03:38 PM
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it's not even work when it's a catch 22
/r/seduction07/01/15 02:46 PM
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Mop.... mop
/r/seduction15/04/14 04:11 PM
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