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I would suggest trying to tone it down, while guys can tolerate it for a while you don't want to be in a situation where they get tired of questions like that. While passionate is good, I wouldn't consider this passionate.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/19 09:04 PM
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Hey, the way you're talking to him, is this common where you ask questions like this before you're even committed? He's being polite now but you don't want to seem this insecure and unfun before you are even together. Otherwise he'll stop talking to you and it won't be because you didn't have sex with him.
/r/RedPillWomen05/12/19 01:17 PM
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I think it's more about what you're not doing. Have you read the surrendered wife? Have you truly let go of control so he can take over? Do you even respect him and does he feel like you do? I think there are some guys who are a lost cause but I don't think he's a lost cause. He did want to give you these things, I think you have to work on being inspiring to him.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/19 04:54 PM
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I had been trying not to micromanage him and let him figure things out himself/develop his relationship with our son. I think what you did was better! Micromanage would have been telling him exactly what outfit he needed, how turned on the AC needs to be, how many wipes to use, wake me up if he poops- You just gave him your needs and asked them to be met and now he is able to confidently help you and the baby all at once!
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/19 02:06 AM
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I actually much, much, much prefer appreciation then help. I love it when he says he loves how the house looks, or I'm amazing because I spent the day reorganizing bookshelves. He still thanks me when I do the dishes. I'm not sure if you will get help from him if you're vague and you say you just generally want more help from him especially since you've just figured out you want help vs appreciation, it would help if you take the time to figure out what's been too stressful for you lately or a c…
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/19 04:12 PM
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