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| 4 | LTR tried to commit suicide when I broke up with herWhat the fuck? Drop smoke and run! | /r/askTRP | 08/01/19 04:39 AM |
| 1 | How to get an LTR to improve...feminine hygiene?Suggest she should see her Doc because you've noticed something is off. If she cares, she will address it. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/18 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Advice on two small thingsNot sure if this will help, but worth a shot: Develop a Strong He-Man Voice by Using the Voice Nature Gave You As per your reply to blue_dover, if your looking at team sports you need to go train with a team. I personally like (and used to play) football, so flag football would be what I would pick for a team sport. But again, there is no wrong answer, look around and find something you enjoy. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/17 04:06 PM |
| 0 | Travelling in a group of people that slept with my ltrLTR one night stands with 2 dudes going without you dude..... | /r/askTRP | 06/05/17 03:12 PM |
| 1 | The Good WifeNothing. It's fiction created for those same post-wall women to cater to their fantasies. Why are you even watching it? | /r/askTRP | 06/05/17 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Advice on two small thingsAre you lifting yet? It does more than just improve your body, but mind/confidence as well. As for a sport, there is no wrong answer. Find local teams/leagues, be up front about wanting to learn/try it out, see if they'll let you train with them. Find another sport, rinse and repeat. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/17 03:05 PM |
| 1 | When she said: "I don't feel like I deserve anything"Two ways to go about it. 1) It could be a comfort test. Women are petrified of failure. Use that. 2) It's just a plate. Not yours. Not your problem. Dismiss and change the subject. | /r/askTRP | 06/05/17 02:59 PM |
| 1 | You can take the fat out of the man, but how do you take the 'fat man' out of the man?Fake it until you make it. | /r/askTRP | 24/04/17 08:50 AM |
| 2 | Fellow men of TRpApproach anxiety. It's covered in the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/17 01:53 AM |
| 1 | I found a Ford E, 10 000 km on the new engine, bought in 1980, always been taken care of by 1 a grandpa who owns two others trucks, one is a semi.Correct, Ford certified dealer. Call ahead to ask about costs, and specify that you need everything checked. They should be able to tell you exactly how much the inspection will cost and what it will cover. You should get a detailed report of what they find. Don't be afraid to ask questions. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/17 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Ex GF is miserable... Wut do?Not. Your. Problem. Block, delete, ignore. Move on with your life. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/17 01:27 AM |
| 2 | Do i go hound this girl who friendzoned me for the $20 she owes me or do i let it go?Forget the money. Erase her number. Move on with your life. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/17 01:06 AM |
| 2 | I found a Ford E, 10 000 km on the new engine, bought in 1980, always been taken care of by 1 a grandpa who owns two others trucks, one is a semi.Take it to a certified dealer and have them do a full inspection. Engine, trans, diffs, etc etc. It'll set you back a couple of hundred bucks, but will be well worth it to know if any of the critical systems are about to go. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/17 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Would this be giving into her frame?Why wait, make plans. | /r/askTRP | 20/04/17 12:20 AM |
| 38 | Man punches Woman, BluePill beliefs shattered in an instantShe also setup a gofundme page (that I will not link to for obvious reasons) for $80k because she got a "concussion" apparently from that scuffle. Equality card didn't work, let's try the victim card. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/17 10:57 PM |
| – | Man punches Woman, BluePill beliefs shattered in an instantImportant to point out, she posted on facebook beforehand stating she was out for violence and going to get "100 scalps". No sympathy for moldylocks, got what was deserved. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/04/17 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Invited her home, made out, now what?Don't tell her an open ended "I'll see you next week"... Shes a potential, not your gf. You invited, she couldnt, so the ball is in her court to reschedule. If she doesnt right then and there, she isnt all that interested. Leave her be for a while. Try again in a week or two. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/17 02:28 PM |
| 1 | My LTR asked me "what's redpill?" Out of the blue.Treat it like you would any other shit test. Maintain frame, dismiss the topic, carry on as usual. I would say even if she learns what the entire TRP toolbox is, nothing bad can come from it UNLESS you break frame. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/17 02:23 PM |
| 4 | My gf has a blatant crush on another guy in our friends group.Indeed. But no need to explain yourself. End it and disappear. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/17 02:10 PM |
| 7 | Ended things with LTR. Now she's threatening me"you deserve what's coming" Screenshot EVERYTHING. Stop answering calls. Record ALL the things. | /r/askTRP | 08/04/17 07:50 AM |
| 2 | [FR] giving me mixed signalsCulture may be a big factor here, but I have no experience with arab girls, sorry | /r/askTRP | 07/04/17 03:23 PM |
| 1 | plate not happy with frequencyRight. She even showed it. OP straight up told her she wasn't the only one, and she stuck around. She'll break eventually. Enjoy the ride OP. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/17 04:34 AM |
| 3 | How to end things with a plate?Have to agree here. Terrible sex and a bad kisser? She may barely be starting on the carousel! Get in while it's still fresh! | /r/askTRP | 07/04/17 04:30 AM |
| 2 | [FR] giving me mixed signalsTough one. Did you escalate properly (hard and fast) at the bar? Was she signaling she was DTF? Too much alcohol is a no-no. If I hear the word "drunk" it is a HUGE red flag, call to immediately back the fuck off. Too many horror stories of guys being fucked over by the system because of "regret rapes", "can't consent due to alcohol", etc. If she actually fell asleep at your place, makes me think she was actually over her limit. If I were in your shoes, I'd escalate much harder at the bar. Kino,… | /r/askTRP | 07/04/17 04:26 AM |
| 2 | Showing boobs on instagram...is she a slut?Humblebraging, attention whoring | /r/askTRP | 07/04/17 04:16 AM |
| 10 | Potential plate offers to have sex and then immediately recedes offer.I really think she is just attention whoring and never had any intention of going all the way. asks if I need a fuck buddy Flip it. "(annoyed) another one?!?", "saving myself for marriage", "looking for my soulmate", "you think I'm that easy?!", etc etc wanna bone Eehhh, reeks of showboating to her friends. The bipolar text was not necessary, you showed she struck a nerve and holds the power. I'd suggest less texting, logistics only. Escalate in person. If she flakes, then you save time and ener… | /r/askTRP | 07/04/17 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Girl with boyfriend and my unwillingness to NEXT herRound and round you go, yet fail to see your huge orbit? | /r/askTRP | 07/04/17 03:06 AM |
| 1 | What do you do when she complains?Bro's want solutions. Chicks want sympathy. Don't be her emotional tampon. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/17 03:03 AM |
| 3 | Girl trying to out me in the friendzone after fucking for a while.You just said, it's happened before. Respond the same, ie: "Hey, I'm glad for you. It'd be awkward pretending to be friends when we've been intimate / more than that. No worries. Hit me up later if it doesn't work out. See you". Or something along those lines.. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/17 02:56 AM |
| 3 | Plate asks "Are you my bf"?I'd reduce the time spent with this one, lest it start to go to her head | /r/askTRP | 07/04/17 02:47 AM |
| 2 | I'm thinking this deserves a well placed "k"k "and honestly you're not the only one I've been with" = riding the CC Enjoy the ride while it lasts | /r/askTRP | 07/04/17 02:45 AM |
| 3 | Is buying a plate lingerie weird?Lead her to what you want, and reward her good behavior | /r/askTRP | 07/04/17 02:41 AM |
| 1 | I broke up with my LTR, she's now dating someone she met through me, makes me sickThe hell? Remove her from: social media / phone number / email / life. What in the world are you doing stalking her posts?? Go work out, slay some strange. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/17 02:39 AM |
| 3 | Plate is threatening to withhold sexThis right here. OP, you have a girlfriend with no official title. Stop fooling yourself. Go find more options. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/17 02:37 AM |
| 16 | GF sleeping with gay friend. Thoughts on this?Say I take your word for it, and this guy is the fruitiest fruitloop in the box. Say he is physically repulsed by vag, the mere thought of it makes him gag with disgust. He is neutral party. The fact is your girl is grinding on this dudes dick. She snuggles his dick while he spoons her. Who knows what else they have done behind closed doors, on their girls night out. This has nothing to do with homophobia. It has everything to do with her actions. Have some self respect. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/17 02:33 AM |
| 1 | I [28 M] am falling for a married woman [39 F], I know it is despicable but how do I woo her?Touché | /r/askTRP | 06/04/17 04:05 AM |
| 1 | I [28 M] am falling for a married woman [39 F], I know it is despicable but how do I woo her?Yeah no. He'll tell you to fuck off for not even reading the sidebar in asktrp. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/17 04:03 AM |
| 2 | Girlfriend cheated - What is the best way to break it upI need to let her know it is over... No. You don't. You think you need to, but you don't. Ghost her. Ignore all calls, ignore all messages. Straight up block her if you need to. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/17 03:52 AM |
| 1 | want to finally embrace the red pill?Read the sidebar. Drink plenty of water - cut all sugary/carbonated drinks. Get your 7-8 hours of sleep. Read the sidebar again. Know it will be difficult, don't pussy-foot around it. Find a good hobby to entertain you in your spare time. Have you read the sidebar? Read it again. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/17 05:52 AM |
| 2 | Sadie's Budgeting 101 ClassExcellent post. Might I add a tool that help me go from rubbing nickles together waiting for payday to having an emergency fund plus 2 months expenses paid for. YNAB (you need a budget). I don't use the automated bank sync, but prefer to manual admin everything.The concept is nothing groundbreaking, just a fancy worksheet. The implementation and UI on the other hand is what did it for me. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/04/17 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Where did I f**k up at?You missed his point, you said too much | /r/askTRP | 01/04/17 07:11 AM |
| 1 | Plate says I dont actually love her because I never asked her out (exclusivity)Plate I love you Wtf? Read the sidebar.... | /r/askTRP | 01/04/17 07:07 AM |
| 1 | I [27M] wanted to marry a woman [27F]. She and her family worked together to knowingly manipulate me and advance their position. Seeking your counsel.you just sound like a delusional stalker with oneitis Truth hurts sometimes. Even though the post is not a wall of text, it's a jumbled mess. OP, you need to GHOST EVERYONE of these people. Have some semblance of self respect. For your own sake. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/17 06:52 AM |
| 1 | Ex gf trying to contact me.Wrong advice for a newbro to TRP, someone who has/had oneitis, or anyone else in general. If she is an ex, she is out of your life, forget about her. Go out and build your own life. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/17 06:26 AM |
| 5 | How to respond to, "Do you want me to not talk to you anymore?"Agree and Amplify. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/17 04:43 AM |
| 2 | Ex who left me is in a official relationship with the guy she left me for. Its had me fucked up all day.She was never yours, it was just your turn. Lift heavy. Eat well. Read tons. Spin plates. | /r/askTRP | 16/02/17 10:54 PM |
| 2 | LTR of 2 years going nuclear. Partly my fault. HELP !Anger is useful, if you focus it correctly. Cut your loses and focus on improving not only physically but mentally as well. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/17 05:41 AM |
| 2 | LTR of 2 years going nuclear. Partly my fault. HELP !Otherwise known as the sunk-cost fallacy. | /r/askTRP | 11/02/17 05:35 AM |
| 2 | How can I be myself if I'm too aggressive? I was a nice guy my whole life.Yes | /r/askTRP | 10/02/17 12:19 AM |
| 6 | How can I be myself if I'm too aggressive? I was a nice guy my whole life.Here is another thread that fits perfectly. Aristotle said, “We are what we repeatedly do. Excellence is not an act, but a habit.” Find a role model (alive or dead) and read up on their life and follow suit. Shut your mouth and listen more (fixes the unnecessary nice comments). Know that everyone is fighting their own battle, and more than likely you know nothing of it, so treat everyone how you would like to be treated. Like /u/pragmaticredtruth said, read read read. Sidebar, recommended reads … | /r/askTRP | 10/02/17 12:18 AM |
| 1 | I don't know how to greet people with smile. Can someone explain?This, while looking in the mirror. Then practice the fuck out of it. | /r/askTRP | 03/02/17 05:03 AM |
| 8 | In the wake of the U.C. Berkeley riots, let us remember something important: only focus on yourself.The current liberal/sjw/left/etc ideology is imploding under it's own weight. They are figuratively eating their own, burning their own bridges and have lost touch with reality. This small vocal minority is waking up the silent majority, and their party will come to a screeching halt. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/02/17 04:13 AM |
| 3 | Plate troubles: awful smell..Yeah, I get you. No, I wouldn't open up with "hey lets talk about hygene". I would lean more towards "babe, don't take this the wrong way, but a gynecologist visit wouldn't a bad idea". Full stop. Read her reaction, if she just says "ok", leave it at that, the doc should attend the situation. If she starts freaking out and pushing you for a reason, evade, only say she has a much stronger smell than usual and you are worried for her health. Full stop, dont say what you think it may be. Let the do… | /r/askTRP | 28/01/17 05:52 PM |
| 3 | Plate troubles: awful smell..Smell can be fixed. STDs have already been mentioned, but it could also be an infection. Or just flat out bad hygiene. The first is grounds for dismissal. The second and third can be fixed. Especially since she is so submissive, as you say. Don't be an asshole and a retard about blaming her for an std if you have no idea if you were the one that gave it to her. Get tested. Now and every 6 months. | /r/askTRP | 28/01/17 05:01 PM |
| 6 | Girl asks me if I want to be her study partner tomorrowThis right here. Escalate! | /r/askTRP | 25/01/17 04:30 AM |
| 2 | What Keylogger do you recommendI'm sorry about your grandma, hope she gets well. Things are rarely black and white. It is very decent of her to look after your grandparents, and yourself. When a woman is involved with not only yourself, but your family as well, everything can get more complicated. At the end of the day though, I'd bet your family would want you to be happy regardless of whether she is in the picture or not. My previous advice still stands. Get busy and work on yourself more. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/17 11:56 PM |
| 2 | What Keylogger do you recommendSounds to me like you lost frame (or never had it) and she is calling the shots. You want to keep her around? For what exactly? So she can continue to walk all over you? I don't know her and I'm already sick of her shit. Plates don't get the right to dictate anything. If they earn it / deserve it, they get the privileged to share our company. Analyze it. Why are you putting up with her shit? Would you put up with this type of behavior from say, a friend from school / work / social circle whom yo… | /r/askTRP | 15/01/17 06:35 PM |
| 2 | Revealing your Nice Guy past?No. Just no. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/17 07:57 PM |
| 2 | GF cancels date, says she has to study even though that's clearly just an excuse. Simply ignore her or write a last sentence in the terms of: "have fun studying""k" Game other women. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/17 07:53 PM |
| 1 | What Keylogger do you recommendGood on you. Just remember that demoted plates have a tendency to break much more easily than those promoted to plate status. Keep your guard up. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/17 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Was she trying to turn me on...?While I wouldn't jump to conclusions from this single incident, this is definitely a sign of open/receptive body language which is a green light to continue the chase and escalate. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/17 10:26 PM |
| 3 | What Keylogger do you recommendAre we exclusive? Handling "The Talk." May not fit exactly to your situation, but it's a great starting point. On your journey into reading more, start with the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/17 10:17 PM |
| 2 | What Keylogger do you recommendAvoid the topic of her giving you a key. Soft nexting is essentially to stop chasing her, respond only when she reaches out - playing it cool as if it's business as usual. Demoting means you withdrawing commitment. Get busy and stay busy. Invest in yourself. You're lifting, right?? Lift more, read more. Stop answering texts right away. Get a new hobby or three. Hang out with the guys. This will help you sort your mind out and put things into perspective. It will also apply some light dread. Reme… | /r/askTRP | 11/01/17 09:51 PM |
| 2 | What Keylogger do you recommendDo you really want to be with someone who gas lights a week long fight over something beyond stupid. Listen to your gut. It's over. Finding out the "truth" won't do jack shit for you. If you can't demote, soft next her. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/17 09:30 PM |
| 1 | I'm on Phraks GSLP Full Body. Is there really that big of a difference between 48 vs 42/43 hours between workouts?No. Eating and sleeping well IS your recovery. A few hours +/- means zilch. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/17 12:26 AM |
| 2 | a sweet girl that i fucked on the 2nd date became cold and wants to take things slowShe is boasting higher SMV, and you are bending the knee. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/17 06:44 AM |
| 2 | Do I need to have a clean place?One of the basic rules of RP is to do things for yourself, not others. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/17 02:58 AM |
| 3 | Plate gets a LTRSoft next. No reason to close that bridge. Yes, you should put in some work on yourself. Go out and approach. As you said, if you had more options, you wouldn't think twice about this broken plate. Abundance is golden, go get some. | /r/askTRP | 08/01/17 02:53 AM |
| 3 | Billy beta gets friendzoned by his WIFEThe front half or back half? | /r/TheRedPill | 07/01/17 11:01 PM |
| 6 | Trying to set clear boundaries with girlfriend to avoid dramaActa non verba I think this is going to go through one ear and out the other. Then she'll tag you as "controlling" or some other bs. While I agree on all your points, I don't believe this is the best way to go about it. Treat her like you would a child. Dismissing/ignoring bad behavior, and rewarding good behavior. like I've told you, I want a healthy relationship with you When did the roles flip that men are now pushing for commitment? You are giving her a cheat sheet on how to act around you. … | /r/askTRP | 07/01/17 09:42 AM |
| 3 | What to do when you get the urge to ask blue pill friends for advice?I want to avoid taking responsibility for my actions If you've read the side bar (right?!?), this statement should immediately stand out. when you feel like... Dude.. You are afraid of making mistakes. How do you get over this fear? By going out and making mistakes, then realizing the world doesn't end. Are you lifting? Go back and read the sidebar. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/17 09:20 AM |
| 8 | Getting a girl to leave in the morningAs others have said, there is no need to beat around the bush. No need to be an asshole about it, but you're a busy guy and have shit to do. Let her know, get up and start getting ready for it. She'll follow your lead. It is much harder to "politely" kick someone out if you show no signs of needing to do anything / go anywhere / etc. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/17 09:02 AM |
| 10 | Plate is absolutely insatiable. Urgent tips needed in order to try and keep up, keep it up and satisfy her.Up the foreplay before and during to get some short brakes. Also stay hydrated. Take the opportunity to explore some kinky stuff. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/16 06:48 PM |
| 1 | famil pissed me off for the last time. should i move out? need adviceThis. Take a walk, cool off a bit. Then go over to the PF sub. There have been many threads about this topic, though you are going to need to post much more information rather than just vent. | /r/askTRP | 03/12/16 09:02 PM |
| 2 | Is there a 'ultimate' Guide to changing yourself for the better on TRP? More specifically from nerd-nosex-foreverugly-bluepill into the Ultimate male or the AlphaTRP is the ultimate cheat-sheet. Does the possibility of having to actually work for the things you want rustle your jimmies? | /r/askTRP | 22/09/16 05:22 AM |
| 5 | Avoid misogyny: Keep women in the sex-only boxDr. Dre - Housewife | /r/TheRedPill | 09/09/16 03:30 AM |
| 2 | I've read everything on the sidebar on TRP. Good idea to read the sidebar for TRPWoman? Or should I not waste my time and check out /r/becomeaman and /r/trpgame?This is what /u/PraetereoBonobos was refering to. Get a new hobby or three. Learn a new trade. Learn to code. Read more (philosophy is always a good choice). Contribute to TRP. Grow as a person. Learn your meaning of life. | /r/askTRP | 12/08/16 12:30 AM |
| 1 | I've read everything on the sidebar on TRP. Good idea to read the sidebar for TRPWoman? Or should I not waste my time and check out /r/becomeaman and /r/trpgame?Get up, lift, eat right, go out, approach, make mistakes, learn from them. Rinse and repeat. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/16 10:04 PM |
| 2 | I've read everything on the sidebar on TRP. Good idea to read the sidebar for TRPWoman? Or should I not waste my time and check out /r/becomeaman and /r/trpgame?This is the right answer. OP, you've read the theory, now go practice. | /r/askTRP | 11/08/16 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Why the fuck I'm feeling happy for my ex getting married? Am I cuckold material?I never really liked her, I was only with her for benefits but with time I grow attached to her I would say you became accustomed to her, as you do when you spend a lot of time with someone. Good on you for being honest about your intentions. If she follows, she's in your frame with full knowledge of the rules of the game. I don't see anything wrong with feelings of happiness when you see another human being doing well. All it means is that you aren't a cold hearted bastard. Remember, she was ne… | /r/askTRP | 24/07/16 10:41 PM |
| 1 | What do you do when you can't afford to have a bulk diet?Diet example from swole.me | /r/askTRP | 20/07/16 04:35 AM |
| 1 | What do you do when you can't afford to have a bulk diet?Here we go, round 2 | /r/askTRP | 20/07/16 04:35 AM |
| 2 | What do you do when you can't afford to have a bulk diet?Give swole.me a try. Here is an example diet I setup with (mostly) the basics Edit: Holy crap, I didn't review the auto-generation of the diet. Scrap that, give me a few | /r/askTRP | 20/07/16 03:41 AM |
| 2 | What do you do when you can't afford to have a bulk diet?Bodyweight | /r/askTRP | 20/07/16 02:10 AM |
| 2 | What do you do when you can't afford to have a bulk diet?We need more info. What is your daily caloric goal? | /r/askTRP | 20/07/16 02:10 AM |
| 2 | What do you do when you can't afford to have a bulk diet?Are you kidding? My food budget is between $200-$250 per MONTH! And that includes a lot of "nice to have's". Is the cost of food insanely high in your area? Stick to the basics, like /u/pocketriki suggested. | /r/askTRP | 20/07/16 02:07 AM |
| 3 | Tinder: What to do when she ask if I want to hook up or date?Was this just minutes after matching her? If so, it could be a scam. I've gotten a few of them recently. Minutes after a match, "she" texts a hello, then right after "date or hookup?". Regardless of what you respond, you'll get a sob story of some kind. She'll throw out an address, and ask if you are close by. Then either a) ask you to verify your age using a credit card at some shady website, or b) ask you to video chat using some shady website (that also requires a credit card..). Three scamme… | /r/askTRP | 08/06/16 08:12 AM |
| 9 | How to bang on a first date - By Luke MooneyBeg to differ, except feeding the dog. It's my frame and I'm also very busy most of the time. I'm leading, setting expectations. It may also come down to age differences as I'm in my 30s, and go after younger girls. It could also be geographical differences, eg. Smallish city vs large metropolitan area. At the end of the day, this has worked for me on many occasions. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/16 06:16 PM |
| 9 | How to bang on a first date - By Luke MooneyI do this too. You can make up all sorts of excuses as to why. "I need to change shirts", " I need to pick something up / leave something", "Drop your car there, I'll drive", " Need to feed my dog", etc. Making a point that it's just a pit stop, and I'm not trying to avoid going out - when we've just met. Buuuuuut if it leads to staying in, so be it | /r/TheRedPill | 27/04/16 04:26 PM |
| 2 | What does it mean to make it as a man?Though not strictly RP, I do enjoy Brets articles | /r/askTRP | 21/04/16 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Girl wants to cut contact, I agree. Now after two days she starts messaging me again, as to why she says she just wants me to be fine. I was fine until I replied. What the F does just want from me?Drama and attention. Stop feeding the fire. I just told that we shouldn't see each other anymore, at least for a while. You set a boundary, hold yourself to it. Disable notifications on your phone, or block her number even. Keep busy. The world won't conquer itself. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/16 03:49 PM |
| 2 | LTR going to festival with mixed groupExcellent read, thanks for the tip | /r/askTRP | 15/04/16 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Respond to "how am I doing" comfort testLead her, ie: change this / like this / like that / slow down / speed up, etc etc. Otherwise if she is in fact doing fine, I wouldn't respond and just keep going with gusto and/or up the intensity. Even if she is seeing another guy, she may be trying to make sure you are happy and satisfied. | /r/askTRP | 15/04/16 10:00 PM |
| 9 | Any RPers stay married after wife cheated?Relative is going through this, though he is Purple Pill at best. Loyal member of the Captain Save-a-Ho club. Oneitis'd hard, pedestals galore. Unplanned kid forced the marriage (cultural pressure). Years later, wife went on a "business trip" after they started having more serious problems (read: he lost frame). Surprise surprise, she went to try and reignite an old flame that kept her as a plate. AWALT, Alpha Widow, Branch swinger, etc etc. She got denied of course. Everyone found out - her fam… | /r/askTRP | 15/04/16 08:22 PM |
| 3 | Can someone change my unrealistic views on work?You are not special. You are not a beautiful or unique snowflake. Not satisfied with dead-end, soul-crushing jobs? So are most others working there. What differentiates you? What do you have to offer, that would help get you hired in a better job? Why should someone hire you? Even worse since you are studying full time, not just anyone will hire part-timers. Do you have any special skills? Mechanically inclined? Tech savy? Knowledgable in another field? Enough so that you can teach others about … | /r/askTRP | 14/04/16 10:20 PM |
| 5 | Smarmy Email from LTRYou are (should be) WAY too busy to deal with petty jabs. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/16 09:25 PM |
| 2 | Got a little touchy with a girl in a rekationship. Friend told me later that she said she got freaked out. Did I do something wrong?Agreed. TRP is amoral. It's on you to say if you are willing to risk the consequences or not. That said, only the girl is in his extended social circle. IF she was receptive at first, she may have chickened out and told him to stop to save face. OR he completely read her wrong to begin with, she at no point was receptive, his persistent advances freaked her out, and he came across as creepy. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/16 08:19 PM |
| 7 | Since my break-up over a year ago my world came crashing down.Why are you purposefully evading the main points? No one said we don't need/want sex. There is no magic trick. There are no instant fixes. TRP is a toolbox for life. These tools can help with your situation. Read the sidebar: "The Red Pill Primer" to get started. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/16 08:09 PM |
| 5 | LTR wants a break on vacation because she wants to feel "free"Completely natural and understandable. Acknowledge the feelings, let them pass through and out of your system. Then go bang a young hotties brains out. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/16 03:47 AM |
| 2 | Asked a girl out and this is what she told meFormer! Former = first. Latter = second/last. Go and escalate. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/16 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Asked a girl out and this is what she told meThat's the shit test she's using, by calling it a "getting to know each other" thing. Go and escalate. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/16 09:35 PM |
| 2 | I tell my girl to meet at X at X o'clock. She says "You're very strict with your organisation". Huh?Agreed. It wasn't a question, it was a statement. No need to respond. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/16 09:21 PM |
| 5 | Guys are calling me "buddy" and talk down to me like a child what do I do?You've already identified your body language as a cause - fix it. Stand up straight. Look people in the eye when talking to them. Use a firm handshake. Deepen your voice to your natural tone. Dress well. You can't change your height - ignore it. Hit the gym, get swole in body and mind. | /r/askTRP | 07/04/16 05:07 AM |
| 2 | talking to women like to childrenRelax, it's a process. You need more practice that's all. Some may be more "naturals" than others, but game can in fact be learned. Which is basically one of the cornerstones of TRP. So to answer your questions, this "way of communication" is Game. Have you read the sidebar yet? Yes, with no game you could potentially pick up the leftovers or very low hanging fruit. Question is, is that what you want? Start talking to everyone. It'll be hard as an introvert, but you need to break that mental bar… | /r/askTRP | 28/03/16 10:20 PM |
| 1 | Prospect booty call text, how to respondThis. You can't know if she has plate potential if you haven't pushed it that far. Escalate. | /r/askTRP | 26/03/16 11:19 PM |
| 7 | Just got a place with my "NAWALT" and WHAT THE FUCKYou dingus! | /r/askTRP | 10/03/16 05:36 AM |
| 1 | What is TRP opinion on religion?Amused mastery. Imagine a five year old trying to convince you to do something. Tell her you'll think about it, then change the subject. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/16 06:23 AM |
| 1 | What is TRP opinion on religion?Even worse then. If the dad is a BB, and the mom wears the pants.... Then she may be mimicking what she sees at home. You could potentially salvage the situation, but it wont be ease for you. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/16 06:21 AM |
| 1 | What is TRP opinion on religion?she ignores basic logic You are describing most women. Take a deep breath. You haven't said what denomination you are, yet, but it seems this argument was about her specific religion. If so, she's got you tightly in her frame. Frame control! | /r/askTRP | 09/03/16 05:01 AM |
| 3 | What is TRP opinion on religion?As long as it doesn't affect me, you can do whatever and worship whoever you please. pressing her views on me Frame control. Re-read the sidebar. The topic doesn't matter, you need to pull her into your frame. Divert her attempts to break your frame and pull you into hers. I've had this happen to me on numerous times. My go-to reaction is Amused Mastery. They try to "convert" me, and I give them a chance to express themselves briefly, one time. I tell them I'll consider it, then go on to talk ab… | /r/askTRP | 09/03/16 04:58 AM |
| 9 | Plate Posted Pictures of Slit Wrists on FBAny kind of talk of suicide is a huge red flag. Posting pictures on their unrestricted social media page about possible actual suicide attempts, even if not her own, is a suitcase nuke you want to not walk but run away from. Hard next. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/16 08:32 PM |
| 2 | Guys around 30, how often do you hang out with friends? What do you do?M-F 9 to 5, but don't hang out with any co-workers. I have many "friends" of different types, but can count true friends on one hand and will have fingers left over. I hang out a few times a week, but trying to cut back so I can catch up on sleep. Is it realistic? Of course. Are you going to have to dig around? Definitely. On to the more pressing issues. Stop hanging on to your ex's. Just stop. It's not healthy for you. You say you are self employed, how many hours a week are you putting in? How… | /r/askTRP | 17/01/16 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Hard Next - She wants to have lunch with me and friends.I don't see a problem. You did try to plate her and failed (so far). She's trying to get you to commit / orbit (by involving you in her social circle). If you only want to plate her and don't want to further commit, then do what was already suggested, bring up a work related excuse. Try to reschedule when you two can be alone. Or..... If you know for sure there will be more girls there (not just the best friend) why not go? Ignore her, focus on the others. At the end of the day, you should not c… | /r/askTRP | 13/01/16 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Is it okay to ask my boyfriend to occasionally sleep with other girls?Firstly, you've communicated your desire / feelings / approval to him. That's it, you're done. Whatever he does or doesn't do will be up to him. Stop pushing the matter. Secondly, head over to /r/redpillwomen . They may be of more assistance, or rather more appropriate assistance. | /r/askTRP | 11/01/16 01:26 AM |
| 6 | Single mom wants has to bring kids on first meetup, next her?Spot on. Instant and pretty damned efficient BB filter she has setup. Hard next. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/16 07:45 PM |
| 1 | AMA - Milo Yiannopoulos - Thursday, Dec 10th, 5pm London time, (12pm EST) on TRPThanks for the links. Damn, that was a great speech! | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/15 06:27 AM |
| 2 | Life After 30: How to Be an Old GuyI'd suggest Redpill Theory flair | /r/TheRedPill | 08/12/15 04:57 PM |
| 0 | Stefan Molyneux on Robin Williams: Death by AlimonyI was subscribed to Molyneux for, I hesitantly say, a couple of years until I came across this gem. | /r/TheRedPill | 29/10/15 08:30 AM |
| 3 | #NoNothingNovember 2015 ChallengeI'm game. New account but have been lurking for quite a bit. No alcohol during the week No porn No unhealthy food & Reading daily for one hour (at least) | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/15 11:44 PM |
| 5 | Girl agreed to dinner, then blocked me on facebook - how to proceedYes, it's a thing. Look elsewhere. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/15 09:19 AM |
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