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/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/20 10:48 AM
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You have done 24 of these and the very first word to type here is “wife”. How are you still around?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/20 10:40 AM
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Thank you. I wasn’t sure if I needed to eat more calories, read this when I was more awake or if it was an unnecessarily verbose and winding post that read like someone’s journal entry. The corona situation we are in now doesn’t change the underpinnings of what we learn and do any other time. In my case, at whatever stage I’m at in my own process, I’d say it makes the whole thing easier. The opportunities are more glaring and the obstacles and BS reasons to not take advantage of those opportunit…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/04/20 12:44 PM
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Agreed. It’s a nice read with good quotes and reminders from other texts, but nowhere near as dense as other things that should be visited multiple times such as: WISNIFG, 7 habits (underrated RP book IMO - he literally talks about marriage frame without saying the word frame), 48 laws, NMMNG
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/20 11:37 AM
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The self diagnosis of mental disorders can be excuses themselves and create crutches we blame for lack of progress or use to hide simpler fundamental issues (discipline, focus, vision). Some years ago I was working with a therapist. I was trying to figure out what was “wrong” with me. I knew I had something going on and I was special and wanted to put a name to it. I carried on and on. I knew I had ADD or clinical anxiety or depression or special cool mild autism or some other shit I could use i…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/20 08:53 PM
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You: “I have body dysmorphia” You in the comments to someone else: “Wah wah wah. Whiny faggot speak. If you know what to do why aren't you doing it? Get to work, or don't.” You’re creating a pathological demon to offload your issues into. Your ego needs to get rid of that also.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/20 10:39 AM
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And, what you thought was 1000% comfort was probably neediness. There’s a difference.
/r/askMRP22/02/20 10:24 AM
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Are you getting offers but turning them down because you decided the company isn’t a fit for you? Or are you bombing in interviews and not qualified as the next guy then blaming it on being too alpha and the blue world’s victim?
/r/askTRP22/02/20 02:33 AM
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What’s the Spider-Man method? I found something online for reverse come hither (which looks like come hither but upside down and uses the knuckles?), but not that one.
/r/askMRP06/02/20 01:40 PM
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It all comes down to “what do you want” for OP. Which thanks to his “core values” that he wrote down like a good boy when the book said to, he has to guide his decisions. Except they’re not and they don’t make sense together. How can you say you’ll always be there for the kids and also kill it if she cheats? Half assed thinking. He can stay... or not... if he decides he wants to and he really truly can sit well and make his life the best ever knowing he caused her to be a garbage person and chea…
/r/askMRP21/12/19 06:35 PM
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How is this not the only response in the thread? What a circlejerk.
/r/askMRP31/10/19 02:20 AM
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Where’s the MRP part?
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/19 04:26 PM
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I think the problem here is OP can't read. If OP had read most of the sidebar like he says he has, he would know the "advice" he needs is to do the work,
/r/askMRP11/10/19 02:58 AM
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“I have posted twice in OYS recently, was ignored” You are a dramatic, entitled baby.
/r/askMRP09/10/19 10:32 AM
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OYS 11 - mobile so a short chunk, but I need to get these thoughts out into the ether before I lose them. Almost didn’t post OYS last week and glad I did. Helped me get honest with myself and get some good feedback on head trash. My wife has been having a tough last few days with a busy time coming up with her business. Struggling to juggle her normal duties with this temporarily increased workload. Hasn’t taken it out on me at all and been more apologetic if anything. I have been helping offloa…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/19 01:20 PM
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I've reread it a few times this afternoon and I don't know if I'm picking up on exactly what you were talking about, but I think it's that the overall premise my hamster runs on needs to be turned upside down. Then things are no longer an issue.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/19 01:21 AM
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I’m not sure I fully follow. Are you referring to my thoughts around the imaginary cheating or overall? A general past-oriented pattern as opposed to forward thinking about what I want? I think I get it - more of a feeling I cant put words to that I’m waiting for the other shoe to drop with this piece of anxiety so I’m ready to react to what may happen.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/19 11:41 PM
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My DGAF oscillates. When my attitude about it is in a bad place I see it as the ultimate ego blow. The rabbit hole I go down is: There are things that I can and cannot control. I can’t stop her from doing anything. But, I can vet well and become high value enough that I can be a guy that does not get cheated on if I leave no room for error. Therefore if it happens, I’m “not high value enough” in some area (pick one, I could improve in any). And the idea that I’m the prize becomes a lie. I know t…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/19 04:17 PM
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that's what gets me sometimes. I'll get way into my own head and then think "what if this is all one big lie? the big giant long con and her being a quality individual is part of the evil empire's plan for me to find out when I'm 80 on my deathbed? etc etc etc" you could probably fill in the rest with whatever kind of paranoid drivel. Was there any turning point for you or did it just shrink over time into a "meh" as part of the work? It is one of the main hurdles I see in front of me still that…
/r/askMRP04/10/19 02:15 AM
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OYS #10 - mobile so no cute formatting 35, wife 33, together 18yrs. 3 kids. 6’2”, 217-220, 17% bf, lifting stats not changed much from last OYS. Haven’t posted in about 4 weeks and need to check in with myself. Currently reading (listening to) ego is the enemy for the second time. It was so good I gave it an immediate repeat. One of the best books I’ve touched in a long time. Physical - needs more discipline on diet. Enthusiasm for training is not waning. Was on vacation then spent another week …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/10/19 04:59 PM
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my instinct was to get some good times in where I could Man I get this big time. I'll spare you my anecdotes, but yeah. I can relate. The walking back to the seat answering questions about how many drinks thing hit home. Such a frame killer.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/19 02:23 AM
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I’ve had more nights and moments like that than I care to admit. You’ve got a drinking problem dude. Not calling you an alcoholic or telling you that you gotta go cold turkey, but your posts (including the free pass on vacation booze for the nutrition challenge) sounds like something I would write a year ago. Your wife sounds like mine and if she’s as good of a character judge as you say she is, she KNOWS your habits, knows you have a drinking problem and is secretly hoping you’ll do something a…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/19 12:24 AM
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When you say “share your vision of your sex life” you literally mean telling her with words? Selling her on why she should have sex with you is not gonna work and sounds boring as hell. Stop doing that yesterday. You can’t negotiate desire. Vaginas do not respond well to PowerPoint. You absolutely did not swallow the pill 2 years ago unless you’ve puked it back up. You are using logic to talk your wife into better sex. Do you understand how ridiculous that is? There should be no “talk around sex…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/19 08:09 PM
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You can kill yourself playing the ‘if’ game. She came home with you. She fucked you. She blew you. You did not take an L anywhere except in your own head. Be more fun when you go out and this will become a non-issue.
/r/askMRP30/09/19 12:51 PM
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^ This, OP. You’re still stuck in BP land and have cognitive dissonance. Love can mean whatever you want at any moment after you’ve broken through. It’s just a word. My five year old loves things. You like the new girl and you want to know if that’s ok to have as a feeling? I guess after being in a relationship with a shitty person the idea of having an intimate feeling toward someone may be foreign. The answer is good for you for liking a chick. If she feels the same way, cool. If not then move…
/r/askMRP28/09/19 06:15 PM
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OP - you need to be grateful as fuck for the other comments here and realize that you have a lot of work to do and it’s not about which “tactic” to use (stfu, withdraw attention). Your wife does sound like a major cunt and she has major issues, no doubt, because who the fuck uses that kind of abusive demeaning language with a 3yo? I would put anyone that spoke to my young kid like that on the short rope for divorce. She’s going to fuck the kid up. You’re not only allowing it to happen, you’re pe…
/r/askMRP28/09/19 11:25 AM
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This is a great point. I’ve indirectly learned just as much about dealing with my kids in MRP as I have about dealing with my wife. It gives them the power when they know they can push emotional buttons or grind you down.
/r/askMRP28/09/19 11:16 AM
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If you need a hug from a bro just ask.
/r/askMRP27/09/19 10:33 PM
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PMS as in periods? I don’t get the period obsession with some RP dudes.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/09/19 07:13 PM
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Fuck that bitch. Why you want to be with someone that doesn’t want to be with you AND doesn’t want you to be successful?
/r/askMRP23/09/19 12:13 AM
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If the comfort is given as authentic, non-needy, no-covert-contract, outcome independent emotion, then holding it back will only hurt you. You’re lying to yourself and to her and perpetuating the game when you hold that back. Being able to tell the difference between the needy little boy kind and the grown ass man that likes his wife kind is the tricky part.
/r/askMRP22/09/19 03:03 PM
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Yeah. If she’s already a cold bitch about “everything” what’s a drop in the bucket?
/r/askMRP20/09/19 02:45 PM
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She payed sad to see if she still had her emotional hooks in you. Which she did. You perceived this as a win for you because she was silky and you said “pretty good”. Not a W. You then asked her on a date. And she denied. Which gave her the power and validation that she definitely has the hooks in. Her actions are saying “is he still on the line and available so whenever I’m done with whatever this phase is I can go back to him”.
/r/askMRP17/09/19 11:08 AM
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If you think you did ok why do you care? This isn’t about how you did in that situation. It’s about the same stuff as always frame etc.
/r/askMRP12/09/19 12:18 PM
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Terrific Red Pill. Magnificent Red Pill You pick the one you want to be. Different strokes for different folks. No wrong answer no right answer.
/r/askMRP12/09/19 04:07 AM
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They are lying to you. Your wife texts everyone before you see them so people will say what a big boy you’ve become and make you happy.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/09/19 12:17 AM
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Jesus fucking Christ. Looking at the responses from all the experts in this thread... it’s no wonder you unfun grumpy fucks aren’t getting your dicks wet.
/r/askMRP05/09/19 12:14 PM
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Oh I thought you didn’t want to use apps bc of your BF %.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/19 08:24 PM
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Exactly how fat are you at 6’1 190 that you can’t use a dating app? I don’t think those have bf% limits. I’m trying to do the math in my head and with that bench and DL number you have some muscle so I can’t figure it out. Either you’re shorter than you say you are, heavier than you say or I’m retarded. Or all three. Good job kicking that chick to the curb. Sad it got to the point where she would talk a dude up in your face, but now you have the new boundary so make sure you stick to it.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/19 07:26 PM
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I went through a similar depression/mid-life crisis (multiple, actually) period. Stuck in job, stuck in a life I drunk stumbled my way into, lots of victim puke self pity moments. It wasn’t fun and pretty dark at times. Eventually slowed down and I took more active control over things in my life little piece by little piece and found more productive things to spend the extra brainpower on. The pieces are the same as they were, but I see them differently now. This is the “long game” mindset I’ve …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/19 02:04 PM
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Don’t be a moron. If you can’t see between the lines that the dude is trying to improve and move on from where he was into a better place then you’re missing the point of all this. It’s not here for your entertainment or motivation.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/19 01:19 PM
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“No such thing as a metabolic free lunch” -Tim Ferris on Modafinil
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/19 01:14 PM
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Jesus Christ reading this made me sick. What do you actually even want here? Sounds like your main goal is for you wife to want to be with you while she fucks other people? Find a new community.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/19 03:29 AM
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Stats: 35, 6'2", 217-220, 17%bf , wife 33, married 10yrs, together 16. Three kids 1,5,7. Bench: 270, Dead:360, Squat: 250, Press: 200. MMA 3-4X/week. Read: NMMG, MMSLP, Book of pook, Sidebar blogs/top posts, TWOTSM, 48 laws of power, Mindful attraction plan, guide to the good life. WISNIFG, Models, In progress: Not Nice, Practical female psychology, Ego is the enemy (awesome fucking book so far, started it on a whim and have been sucked in. It's like sparring w/ a black belt... the hits keep com…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/08/19 02:43 AM
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I squat a fraction of what you do and have none of those problems. So maybe quit sucking your own dick and actually be the guy that earns respect in his own house. Re-read all the books you said you’ve read. And, do you even like your wife?
/r/askMRP27/08/19 10:22 AM
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I like how you bring up value add. It's a cool way to look at the role a woman can fill in life and can fit in many multiple containers. In essence, it boils down to being controlled in your emotions. And framed as the expectation that's she's special for being allowed to see them. And if she can't handle them, you can shut her out. The "middle path" approach you have to this is very insightful. I do not agree with the premise of the OP IF what he is saying is to bottle it up, don't let anyone s…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/08/19 07:09 PM
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I have 3 kids. There are tired nights around my house too and it was a struggle for me for a while. Here are my general mobile phone thoughts on it (warning, not Konami code or always even fun): First, understand you’re being needy. You’re another kid that needs care. The more you force it or try to make her do anything the more counterproductive this will be. Don’t take her tiredness personally. Understand that you have kids and if she’s a good SAHM, she’s going to be tired. Recognize that the …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/08/19 07:36 PM
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When you use alcohol habitually or frequently, there's a reason for it. Coping with constant stress, pain, anxiety, boredom, etc. When you remove the coping mechanism, you're still left with all those feelings and depending on your situation, it can be work. Like taking a different red pill to bust out of your own matrix of bullshit. I was a weekend warrior. Friday and Saturday nights I'd get drunk. Have a few beers on Sunday sometimes, but none on regular work nights. I'd stopped before periodi…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/19 02:49 AM
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If your experience cutting booze is anything like mine, when I locked in for the long haul, shit got harder and weirder before it got better. Then it got a lot better. It was more of an enlightening journey than I expected it to be when it came to my long term mental state and attitude. One of the most interesting things is that the long game seemed more important.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/19 08:45 PM
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OYS #8 Stats: 35, 6'2", 217-220, 17%bf , wife 33, married 10yrs, together 16. Three kids 1,5,7. Bench: 270, Dead:350, Squat: 250s, Press: 200. MMA 3-4X/week. Read: NMMG, MMSLP, Book of pook, Sidebar blogs/top posts, TWOTSM, 48 laws of power, Mindful attraction plan, guide to the good life. WISNIFG, Models, In progress: Not Nice, Practical female psychology Mentally, I had one of those weeks where all the things I'd been learning and "knew" internalized and started to fall into place. I started t…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/19 12:45 PM
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She has fucked with me at my very core. You say elsewhere that "she's not bad, she made bad choices"... what the fuck would she have to do to you to be labeled "bad" in your book? Really. Fucking with you at your core isn't bad enough? Your thoughts and words are absolutely not congruent dude. Read through your comments and you'll start to see some of your exterior crack in certain phrases. The actual honest emotions will start to come trough, which is OK and something you need to sit with right…
/r/askMRP20/08/19 03:35 AM
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Was the holotripic breathwork session recorded or in-person? Those always looked interesting. Also, how are you liking Naked Mind? Never read it but listened to her “podcast” a little and found some nuggets useful.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/19 11:43 PM
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OYS #7 Stats: 35, 6'2", 215-217, 17%bf (depending on what you ask), wife 33, married 10yrs, together 16. Three kids 1,5,7. Bench: 260, Dead:335, Squat: Mid 200s?, Press: 200. MMA 3-4X/week. Read: NMMG, MMSLP, Book of pook, Sidebar blogs/top posts, TWOTSM, 48 laws of power, Mindful attraction plan, guide to the good life. WISNIFG In progress: Models, enlightened sex manual Mental: The last two weeks were pretty odd and I felt like I was off the otherwise upward trajectory in some moments. Then, t…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/08/19 03:32 PM
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Yeah, thanks. I thought about it and see that now. My original intent was to treat it like the gym and get in reps to practice my mindset and push through the headtrash. My new, more reasonable plan is to sit with whatever comes up and see what my actual intentions are instead of acting like a hammer. Thoughts on that?
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/19 08:21 PM
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You owe it to the kid you may potentially foster/adopt to NOT bring them into this unstable environment. So don’t do it. Period. She’s sampling the single life and you wouldn’t mind walking out any day? You’re both free to fuck your own lives up as much as you want. It’s not a responsible or healthy decision for the CHILD. If you were trying to knock her up the situation would be the same. Don’t do it. You already have two kids of your own you need to worry about not fucking up.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/19 06:55 PM
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BF% - yeah you’re right. The posted number is stupid and mostly out of frustration. I need to pick a method/# and stick with it. Based on pics online, I’d estimate I’m truly at 15-17%. Hard to tell exactly. Shits looking better though. I read your OYS. We are in the exact same boat. Aside from my recent retardation, I could have written that word-for-word. And your comment about sex drive not being as high as you thought is something I haven’t admitted to myself until just now. Given my caloric …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/19 02:09 PM
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OYS #6 Stats: 35, 6'2", 215-217, 11-20%bf (depending on what you ask), married 10yrs, together 16. Three kids 1,5,7. Bench: 260, Dead:320, Squat: Mid 200s?, Press: 200. MMA 3-4X/week. Read: NMMG, MMSLP, Book of pook, Sidebar blogs/top posts, TWOTSM, 48 laws of power, Mindful attraction plan, guide to the good life. WISNIFG In progress: Models, extreme ownership One step forward, two steps back. I had a fucked up last few days. My mood and energy levels all tanked at the end of the week. I spiral…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/19 09:40 AM
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OYS #5 Stats: 35, 6'2", 215-217, 20%bf, wife 33, married 10yrs, together 16. Three kids 1,5,7. Bench: 260, Dead:320, Squat: Mid 200s?, Press: 200. MMA 3-4X/week. Read: NMMG, MMSLP, Book of pook, Sidebar blogs/top posts, TWOTSM, 48 laws of power, Mindful attraction plan, guide to the good life In progress: WISNIFG, extreme ownership Mental: I've been working to internalize what I've learned. Things are starting to be a little less "conscious" and more natural here and there. So instead of having …
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/19 04:01 AM
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Doing the hard shit gets results. I've noticed that along this path, even when following the "sidebar + lift" mantra, there are the easy ways to go about it and the hard ways to go about it. Sidebar + Lift, easy method: Read blog and mrp posts in a flurry, pirate sex god method, bench at the gym, fuck around. Then inevitably wonder where results are. Sidebar + lift, hard method: Read the prerequisites, NMMG and WISNIFG. Really digest them. Take some notes. Internalize them. Do the exercises. Use…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/07/19 03:45 AM
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OYS #4 Stats: 35, 6'2", 215-217, 20%bf(?), wife 33, married 10yrs, together 16. Three kids 1,5,7. Bench: 260, Dead:320, Squat: Mid 200s?, Press: 200. MMA 3-4X/week. Read: NMMG, MMSLP, Book of pook, Sidebar blogs/top posts, TWOTSM, 48 laws of power, Mindful attraction plan, guide to the good life In progress: WISNIFG, TWOTSM (x2), extreme ownership Background: OYS #1 here The theme I've given myself this week is patience and gratitude. In every aspect of my life I've made a lot of progress. The a…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/07/19 12:15 PM
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Every fucking week it’s “great thanks for the actual useful help but can anyone MAKE ME FEEL BETTER with storytime about how your life turned around”. Fucking no man. Because the stories are All. The. Fucking. Same. AWALT AND AMRPALT. Do hard shit. Get good results. I got my shit together (like actually together). And my wife followed. I’m also 6’2”. So welcome to the “free SMV points with no excuses Bc you can’t add height club”. But I vetted my girl better than you (even if it wasn’t conscious…
/r/askMRP20/07/19 08:52 PM
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You can’t go wrong with anything pro MMA fighters train in. BJJ, kickboxing (actual kicking and punching, not “cardio”), boxing... up to what you want. Each is different.
/r/askMRP19/07/19 07:24 PM
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Here’s my assessment as someone that got with my wife about the same age you did - You probably have oneitis for this girl. High school sweetheart, lovey dovies, young fucking and all that... I’ve been there. BUT. Do you still actually like this girl? Enjoy being around her? She’s fun, cooks, etc? You didn’t mention any positive reason to keep her around. She tries to control you but also seems flaky which means she’s a pain in the ass and not the good kind. Probably on antidepressants or some o…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/19 06:37 PM
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How much were you having sex at your peak? 7 years so you must have gone through a fuck like rabbits phase together.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/19 04:22 PM
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Yes. They suck right now. Had some knee injuries in the past that had me avoiding a proper leg day and using shitty form. Started 5/3/1 boring but big a month ago and am doing squats and DL 2x/week as prescribed.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/19 01:38 PM
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OYS #3 Stats: 35, 6'2", 215lbs (-2), 20%bf, wife 33, married 10yrs, together 16. Three kids 1,5,7. Bench: 260, Dead:320, Squat: Mid 200s?, Press: 200. MMA 3-4X/week. Read: NMMG, MMSLP, Book of pook, Sidebar blogs/top posts, TWOTSM, 48 laws of power, Mindful attraction plan In progress: WISNIFG, seduction and game materials, assorted top MRP/TRP posts on inner game Background: OYS #1 here Physical: New diet/training approach is working well. Dropped 2 lbs last week and am now at my lowest in... y…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/19 10:55 AM
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Probably has to be a decently solid baseline of respect from her in order for her to have faith that you making a final call about your son was the right move. That’s got to be the hardest of hard calls to ever make as parents. All the guilt she had could have turned to anger or resentment toward you for “taking him away” sooner if she didn’t trust that you had a track record of making decisions that were the best for you and your family. If you can’t hold to a decision (or any big one) afterwar…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/19 02:56 PM
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You’re exactly right. I’ve started to use it as a filter to run responses through. More mental pause to dig through my toolbox than literal shutting up. The outcome very well may be carry on with my life and don’t open my mouth or it may be AA AM or it may be a direct statement about what I want or don’t want happening that’s directly related to the issue at hand. Putting in reps smooths the grooves.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/19 02:39 PM
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They also get pregnant together.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/19 11:40 AM
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It’s all tools in the toolbox and can go the route of dogmatic thinking at the same time if you want the community to validate a certain guy’s techniques. MRP is man-focused, those dudes are woman-focused and, depending on the situation any could be the right or wrong tool to pull out. If you get caught up in how to fuck before you can manage yourself, you’re gonna have a bad time. Like the dudes that read SGM out of the gate then wonder where their red pill candy land is. Doesn’t work like that…
/r/askMRP14/07/19 01:06 PM
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People don’t usually give out fish around here. If you show you’re putting in more work on yourself and learning to fish then you may get some “how to” on specific scenarios. However, if you read, try to internalize, think about shit objectively, it will come along and you will have the answers to your examples before you even type them out. Also, I’ll spell this out Bc I like reading what I type: act like an adult that can take care of himself. You’re here Bc something isn’t cool with your wife…
/r/askMRP13/07/19 07:42 PM
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Zing!
/r/askMRP13/07/19 07:29 PM
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This is a great metaphor. I've approached the gym in a more honest and calculated way recently and that seems to be happening in other areas as well. Red Pill, work, regular life shit... It's all one bit intertwined thing. ​ “The way a person does one thing is the way they do everything”. ​ I used to not give a shit if I tossed something toward the trash can and it missed and nobody was looking. "Fuck it, I'll get it later". But now I'm accountable to myself. And I don't like disappointing mysel…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/19 01:40 AM
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If you want to make sure you’re up when you’re supposed to be, mix up a glass of preworkout at night. Set it next to your bed. When the alarm goes off, chug it. Then lay back down until it hits (if you’re feeling lazy) or realize you’re about to take off into orbit and your ass may as well get up.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/19 07:37 PM
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a couple links related to d/s in this comment: here
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/19 12:12 PM
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Re: mental development - You mentioned drinking like a fish... stop. I was a weekend warrior and thought it wasn't bothering if it was 2 nights/week. Loved the friends and culture of it and all that. But when I cut it out things fell into place way easier. You will have some mental hurdles, but they will help you. ​ I guess telling dudes this is my thing, but I cannot believe the mental shift that happened when I cut out booze. I'm of the belief that if you're struggling with the mental side of …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/07/19 12:05 PM
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Jack10 had a quote somewhere “quit trying to fuck your wife and work on becoming more fuckable” or similar vibe. That’s kind of the whole point of all the stuff we do here. If you’re on your game it should be “do or do not, there is no try”.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/19 01:02 PM
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Stats: 36, 6'2", 217lbs , 20%bf, wife 35, married 10yrs, together 16. Three kids 1,5,7. Bench: 260, Dead:320, Squat: Mid 200s?, Press: 200. MMA 3-4X/week. Read: NMMG, MMSLP, Book of pook, Sidebar blogs/top posts, TWOTSM, 48 laws of power, Mindful attraction plan In progress: WISNIFG, Guide to the good life (Audiobook... should just be a long article...), select posts on leadership, stuff by /u/inchargeman and other MRP content The more I get into WISNIFG.... holy fuck. I wish I would have read t…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/19 09:31 AM
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Same here. It gave me an opportunity to really pull back the curtain and see why I thought I needed something to help me have fun, loosen up or otherwise cope. The long game became more apparent than it ever has in my life.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/07/19 05:02 PM
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Your dick function got worse on TRT? How was that?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/19 03:47 PM
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Dread level 9.5: print this post and put it on your fridge
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/19 11:32 AM
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How long ago was the manic lawyer incident? I’d think you’d want to make sure when they bounce off the ground in a situation like that they arrive in a brand new reality if you want it to keep up. Otherwise momentum pulls them in the same groove eventually. Based on some previous posts I’ve seen of yours it looks like a new reality is probably the case, but is that something you’ve planned for?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/19 11:27 AM
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What d/s book are you reading?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/19 07:44 AM
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Thanks. I’ll check those out. I have passionate marriage on iBooks. I suppose meditation is something that can help in general as well to shut my monkey mind the fuck up.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/19 03:48 AM
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Thanks for the spot on analysis. You’re right about wanting to share my plan and progress. I already do that shit when she comments and compliments on my “transformation” lately. Instead of just Smiling and owning it and moving on I get into details about my workout plan, good stuff happening at work, etc etc and she will start out excited then glazes over. She just wants to know if my pecs are going to keep looking better and if I’m telling people “fuck you, pay me”. I will keep a special eye o…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/19 03:47 AM
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OYS #1 Stats: 36, 6'2", 217lbs , 20%bf, wife 35, married 10yrs, together 16. Three kids 1,5,7. Bench: 260, Dead:320, Squat: Mid 200s? (nursing bum knees), Press: 200. Read: NMMG, MMSLP, Book of pook, Sidebar blogs/top posts, TWOTSM, 48 laws of power. Some of these are from years ago and need repeated In progress: WISNIFG, Mindful attraction plan Background: Not sure how I would classify myself before I started learning this shit. I'd say beta with a side of alpha due to some irrational confidenc…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/19 09:23 AM
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Father of young kids here and can also confirm you’re hitting it on the head here. She goes from needy kids to a needy husband. So then he moves out of his own room because she won’t comply. Butthurt all over. Big baby version of crying wrapped in a thin “red pill” reasoning burrito. You need to give her some reprieve from being a mommy (especially your mommy) if you want to be treated differently. A few minutes of playfulness or something to remind her she’s a woman and not just a caretaker. Sh…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/19 06:00 PM
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When I stopped drinking in January I noticed immediate short-term benefits (no hangovers or 3 day mental recoveries yay) but the crazy thing is I noticed my thinking, reactions to things and my frame all improved as well. I got more long term goal oriented since I wasn’t living from weekend to weekend anymore. Also my dick got bigger/better. Lately, I’ve begun to think that making hard life changes while drinking makes hard mode even harder and any guy struggling with the process has no business…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/06/19 04:12 AM
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“As they are” usually changes over the course of a relationship though. People get comfortable... then too comfortable. Stop putting in effort. They got the job, but then they end up slacking off all day then wonder why there’s no promotion or raise. At some point you’re not the same person that got the job initially.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/19 01:50 AM
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Well your first mistake is giving her the later week days. Sidebar clearly states the man should take Thu-Sat Bc those days are more fun and Wednesday is “Hump day” so THAT should be the bonus day. Women do early in the week days Bc the man is out hunting and gathering and hustling during those times anyway so it doesn’t matter wtf she does. Your other mistake was literally everything since making that arrangement including typing this post. So go read everything twice over because you have no i…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/06/19 10:57 AM
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Yeah I had to upvote this Bc it shook my feel goods from the OP. Whether it’s verbal praise and/or actual changed behavior - using her as a compass is a dangerous game. Most of us dont truly look out for #1 (ourselves) enough. It gets wrapped up in “Alpha takes care of his family” so people build houses and buy horses because it’s for the “family”. Look, take care of your kids and stuff but momentum is a bitch. And the gravity from previous behaviors and habits can pull you in like a rip current…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/06/19 04:05 PM
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Do you even know what A&A means? You did neither. I’d ask how socially awkward you are in general, but my guess is you have no idea.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/19 02:48 PM
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Worth what?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/19 12:39 AM
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Some autistic fuck is going to read this and hit dread 10 bc his wife said she knows exactly what she wants for dinner.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/19 02:56 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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