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| 1 | Bothered by the thought of my girlfriend getting off to other people - any advice?You have low self esteem about your appearance and sexual performance compared to other men and women and you are projecting that onto her. Seek therapy. You probably stare at women all the time, I would advise you stay single and work through your self esteem issues with a trained mental help professional before you date again. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/22 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Dating apps ruined my self esteem.Don't want to sound insensitive but what race of women do you want? Also has anyone in your family ever mentioned your skin color or your father's? | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/22 03:05 PM |
| 1 | Skipped most of the Redpill and went straight to blackpill. How do I recover?The women get offended when I don't help more Your behavior has indicated to them that you help without expectation, yet you complain about helping them because they request even more help. This is why I said you have a people pleasing streak in you, yet you denied that. As I said before, what you are doing and what you are typing out are two different things. You are also way too available to a woman in a relationship, your boundaries are not healthy at all. At no point should you be buying $10… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/22 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Skipped most of the Redpill and went straight to blackpill. How do I recover?If you lead with wanting to have a partner/have sex you will likely get shot down A sane person would want to be with someone who wants them, rejection is part of that process. Low self esteem men are the ones who mostly want to get in via the friendship door and it rarely ends well. If you are a friend, you get to see this person with a new partner and might even get an invite to their wedding. Why would a sane person submit themselves to that kind of emotional and mental torture? It is not hea… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/22 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Skipped most of the Redpill and went straight to blackpill. How do I recover?When you help out a man he is reciprocal because that is the social contract, unless someone explicitly states they don't want you to pay them back(you do this women), most people will be reciprocal. I have a VERY hard time believing that you are simply helping random women with only the intention of friendship. If you were you would not be complaining right now since you're making your "friends" happy. You are buying friendship and attention from these women with the hope of a romantic relation… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/22 02:10 PM |
| 4 | Skipped most of the Redpill and went straight to blackpill. How do I recover?Sounds like you're picking the wrong "friends" and are a bit of a people pleaser. You're buying $1000 dollar electronics, helping with assignments and God knows what else and you're shocked that this woman wants more from you? You accustomed her to expect this behavior from you, without expectation of reciprocation as you said yourself. You are the suffering in silence type, you do for others with the intention of proving worthiness but don't know how to express your own needs, and something tel… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/22 12:48 PM |
| 2 | Skipped most of the Redpill and went straight to blackpill. How do I recover?Why can't men handle the fact that not every woman they are sexually interested in wants to have sex them or be their partner? Too many men start romantic relationships as friendships with the sole purpose of those friendships blossoming into romantic relationships, then get angry when the woman merely wants a friendship. It's an ass-backwards approach, if the intention is to be a partner to someone, then lead with that instead of trojan horsing them. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/04/22 12:33 PM |
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