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hahah this is me. i straight up tell people i just have no interest in doing it. would i like the benefits? probably! does not make me want to do it at all though. just the most boring activity ever for me personally
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:35 AM
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people think trans women are inherently socialized to be like men because they were raised as boys, but that ignores that many trans people start experiencing dysphoria at a really young age. more than likely, even if they didn't have the words for it, trans women knew they weren't boys, or at least didn't want to be or felt uncomfortable with that notion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:27 AM
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i think alot of this comes from how girls are raised and grow up together. when i would make a new friend as a young girl/teen we would often have sleepovers for multiple days in a row even if we met THAT DAY. the weird blend of friendship/romance/sexual desire can be extremely nebulous and you often end up hanging out in this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:19 AM
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incidentally the same states with abortion bans tend to be the ones that support child marriage. coincidence? idk.. food for thought
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:14 AM
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no i loved it alot. used to use it to make art and stuff welding in my spare time too, but moving into an apartment means i don't have the room anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:11 AM
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who mentioned abortion?? abortion is also not legal in all states?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:03 AM
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who mentioned baby killing?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 08:54 AM
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child marriage is legal in the USA still and disproportionally effects girls and women. 87% of minors in child marriages are girls. most of these girls are wed to grown men. and this is only official marriage licence numbers. many girls WORLDWIDE are being forced to be married right now. many others in the USA in unofficial marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 08:48 AM
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i was a blue collar worker and women absolutely get harassed out of workplaces. that is why i no longer weld.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 08:44 AM
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in this post he mentions he is gnc
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 08:36 AM
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yes there is, you must believe you are involuntary celibate. what kind of feminists? intersectional? liberal feminism? marxist feminism? ecofeminism? if you mean radical feminism do you mean radical-cultural or radical-libertarian? trans exclusionary radical feminism?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:34 AM
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except incels pushed everyone else out of the community. feminists arent one group. most of us dont even agree with eachother
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 11:33 PM
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wlw have a hard time initiating anything. it's mostly small escalations over a long amount of time. it isn't easier? but very different. wlw also have a hard time dating because of pure numbers. there arent that many lesbian/bi women. and bi women are more likely to date men because there are more straight men available. wlw have a pretty small dating pool. it's a known joke in the community that you end up dating your ex's ex and so on
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 10:09 PM
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it must get tiring comparing yourself to others all the time like this
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 10:05 PM
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i'm a queer gal. it wouldnt bother me personally. i really like feminine men, and i find i have more in common with them. men who explore their gender and sexuality are usually way more openminded and kinder in my experience !!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 07:57 PM
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im a woman but theres no no pill woman flair 1) i already do alot in my personal life to advocate for mens mental health. i also raise money a few times a year for the men's homeless shelter in my city. mens mental health is a serious issue, but most men just use it as a talking point online. almost all other volunteers locally are women. 2) no, i don't give attention to men or women (im bi) because i am not interested in most of them. i only fall in love with friends. 3) no. but most men would …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 07:56 PM
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incels have given themselves this definition with their behaviours. the woman who created the term and original website was a very openminded bisexual lady. her website was inclusive of all genders and sexualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 06:57 PM
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lesbian divorce rates are not significantly higher than other kinds of marriage. that study is often misquoted. lesbians have the highest rate of divorce because many in that study were previously married to men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 06:44 PM
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do you think women get dressed everyday and think, "how can i torture the men around me?" most people just wear what is comfortable. yoga pants are comfortable. men should try them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 06:31 PM
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yeah, resentment is natural, even justified. but i don't think it's okay to take that out on others either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 05:32 PM
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this has happened to me twice. once i lost alot of weight unintentionally and suddenly even my friends liked me alot more. i didn't change personality wise, i didn't change how i dressed, it made me feel really sad that people were often ruder or downright mean when i was heavier. my feelings weren't about the romantic attention i was getting now, just that i was treated second class for such a long time. i mean, people would spit on me if i went dancing with my friends. and i wasn't even consid…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 04:10 PM
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except my most recent relationship, all men i've dated have been shorter than me, and i'm only like.. 5'1 ish. i dont care for height. i dont even ask
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:41 PM
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everyone should be giving it their best
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 01:38 PM
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what would i not know?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 12:52 PM
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i wouldnt say it's popular in my area. some men try it, but not how it's popular online
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 12:47 PM
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i agree but i don't like how op worded this lol. redpill is corny at best, downright abusive at worst. sliding scale of shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 12:42 PM
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for me it's time completely alone. i'm ND and i NEED to be alone at some point during my day. usually just an hour or two after work. no talking, no touching, no acknowledgment that i even exist. i just need to do my decompression or there's genuinely health effects. alot of my previous partners would take this very personally, but would also get mad at me for hanging out with my family often (my brothers and i are very close). they would get mad at me for hanging out with my friends if i didn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 12:16 PM
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people in genuine slave like conditions would possibly also get PTSD, but the traumas aren't comparable really. it would be a disservice to act like they are comparable. they need different treatment and support.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 04:38 PM
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just my experience, idk if it matters i identified as a lesbian for a couple years because i couldn't recognize my own attraction to men. it's much more common for queer girls to experience the opposite (not recognizing attraction to women, because alot of female friendship in your teens can look very homoerotic). when i first started feeling attraction to a man it was after i had known him for well over a year. his appearance never changed (he was short, kinda smelly, the kinda guy some people …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 01:15 PM
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it's actually 61% don't
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 10:30 AM
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i am! there's lots of short guys. i've never had trouble finding them?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 10:09 AM
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just wrong. i love short and chubby guys. most men i've dated are shorter than me or at my exact height, and i'm only about 5'1
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 10:03 AM
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some do, i always have
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/26 09:58 AM
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it's pretty much exactly what it's like to live there. i no longer do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 04:23 PM
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no, i just grew up in a conservative small town
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:59 PM
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really? i only graduated highschool in 2020, my teachers and family were definitely telling me i needed to get married by 25. this was a public non religious school in canada.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:06 PM
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i met my partner on a faceless dating app. it's rebranded now and a shadow of its former self. going on two years soon! edit: i shouldnt say it was faceless, but we were early users and almost no early users used irl pictures on the app, instead opting for memes and photos of interests usually. i feel like some ppl here might know it but it'd awful to admit
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 12:56 AM
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ayo i used to be in a male dominated field so ur barking up the wrong tree w ur sewage comments 🤨
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:55 PM
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nono i gotta breed my man u dont get it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:48 PM
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yes and make the men submissive and breedable. my Evil Feminist Agenda mwahhaha
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:44 PM
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it sucks, but being more open about what we desire is the best we can do! i believe alot of women hold on to traditional roles because they feel socially obliged too, and often there are benefits to playing the existing system (for all parties, just kinda depends on perspective). i think alot more men and women are interested in this kind of dynamic, but either don't know or are too scared to try. i try to be the change i wanna see in the world
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 07:40 PM
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i wish the economy wasnt ass my real dream job is sugar mommy 🙂‍↕️ rn im just lucky to have a job at all. hope ur future gal spoils you!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 06:27 PM
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you can see all my opinions on this post if u scroll a little more lolol, sorry but i don't wanna have the conversation again. tldr: agree before conception (because she may not want one regardless and in that case either party can choose to end the relationship) or risk the relationship after the baby arrives.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 06:04 PM
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this sub makes me lose faith in ppl more and more everyday lolol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 04:17 PM
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theres alot of stepmoms in the world too. i dont know. it's def an individual choice i don't think anyone should be judged for. blended families have different dynamics but most people i know in them turned out much happier and healthier than people i know who's parents stayed together and constantly fought. idk. anecdotal of course.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 03:06 PM
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they would dna test the mother in this case, not the father.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 01:19 PM
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i'm glad women are equivalent to... seatbelts in cars, medical rights, and poisoned food. i think that's incredibly silly argument. if you cant trust the person you are family planning with to even carry YOUR child, what kind of family are you planning?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 11:54 AM
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if your concerned about her cheating, why would you have a child/unprotected sex with her?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 11:44 AM
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these buttons dont exist though. i don't see how it's relevant. even if you get a dna test and the child is yours, she can still cheat on you after the fact. the dna test doesn't stop cheating or lack of trust.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 11:40 AM
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hahah, maybe men should 'choose better'. that's what they like to tell us
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 09:45 AM
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if you can't trust her why put ur baby batter in there
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 09:30 AM
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there is, but women will get labelled a bitch more often for having good leadership qualities. because many people (including other women) find it uncomfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 08:40 AM
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i don't understand. isn't this all personal preference? i'd never agree to a date with someone who approached me (personally) so obviously i would reject any guy who asks. you say it's about men needing to read cues on a dime but thats how all social interaction works? do you think when you approach us we aren't looking for signs from men either? if you come up, fists clenched and too direct, i'm going to be concerned for my safety. if you are just an awkward guy, most people can tell you mean n…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 08:35 AM
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hi thats me i love those men edit: lol i dont keep up with celebs but actually it seems like peter dinklage gets alot of thirst edits from a cursory glance. maybe not ur best example
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:45 PM
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well i've only dated overweight men shorter than me (5'1) until my newest relationship. only one of them was white. all had no money, no assets.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:36 PM
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no one says he will be more successful, just that he's somebodies type
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:31 PM
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women have lots of types men just dont believe us
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:27 PM
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this is the worst ngl. when women lead we are bossy/bitches 🙂‍↕️
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 07:09 PM
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i really hate when people hear my opinion or decision on something and say, 'what does your boyfriend think about that?' like i need his permission to make my own choices 😓 i dress very femininely, , i'm short, i'm soft spoken, people tend to speak to me like a child or like i am stupid. i dislike when people assume i want to take care of the home, or that i should have kids. i think i want kids, but i'm too young to decide for sure. i would never want to be a stay at home parent. my biggest goa…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 06:56 PM
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women are definitely worried about even rejecting a date with a man, considering even doing that has gotten some women killed. but regardless, we HAVE to take precautions because even if we know statistically we'll probably end up alright, not taking precautions can land you in a worse place. like having your underwear held up in a courtroom while others debate whether your underwear choice indicates you actually wanted to get raped
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 04:23 PM
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most of my heterosexual friends are single, not sworn off dating but most men they end up meeting aren't interested in LTRs and they are, so just some number incompatibility/mismatch of what people want i guess in my area
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 03:34 PM
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dread game is literally the trash taking itself out LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:58 AM
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im a woman like thing i just dont use a woman flair so i gotta post here the second time i met with my now bf he cried. for me, it felt very brave that he would do that in front of me, because i had never let anyone see me cry in years. i've never lost attraction to a partner for showing their feelings, i'm sure some people do that but as someone with avoidant attachment issues, the need to run away from other people who are emotional is also a problem in itself alot of the time. especially if y…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:40 AM
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lolol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:26 AM
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or is it reactive manipulation?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 11:01 AM
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dread game has got to be the corniest thing in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 10:44 AM
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maternity leave should be better in most places. but most women do eventually want to return to work
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 12:34 PM
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people forget the term incel was invented by an LGBT woman and she ran a very progressive and welcoming website. it is the incel community that gave it it's own misogynistic connotations
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 10:28 PM
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y'all just don't believe women like anyone but 'chads'. almost everytime i mention my type its met with someone telling me "no, you don't actually like men like that" how would you know...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 10:09 PM
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nightmare public transit scenerio. this guy is an unskippable cutscene
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:20 PM
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it's not a law but women would lose their jobs for not adhering to dress codes, which often included heels in most jobs, even low level retail sales positions.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 09:15 PM
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i'm inclined to say it works on attracting some women, but it might not be the kind of woman they want a LTR with. i think any dating 'games' or strategies are pretty dumb and invite more issues than they solve. i highly dislike alot of red pill and traditional dating stuff, though. so obviously i am not the kind of person who these tactics really aim for and obviously when people attempt them it sticks out like a sore thumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:43 PM
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sure, women get their genitals mutilated everyday (not defending male circumcision here, but the consequences are more severe for women), have less rights globally, have more travel restrictions, face femicide but misandry is bad because it hurts your feelings on the internet when a bot comments 'kill all men' smhhh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:28 PM
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I agree. I think alot of men tunnel vision when it comes to sex. I am not justifying rape or SA in any way, but I think that's why some of men don't understand the scope of sexual coercion and why it's bad
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:15 PM
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thats outdated. and i love men, but men (as a group) inflict alot of violence on to women
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 02:03 PM
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well the leading cause of death for pregnant women is.. murder by their male partners so
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:54 PM
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'reproductive organs maxed out by another man' oh brother
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 01:00 PM
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not all women 'choose shitty men' alot of us experience intense violence at the hands of men at such a young age there is no choosing.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:41 PM
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classroom structures in the west are the freest they have ever been. schools used to be so rigid they'd BEAT you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 12:32 PM
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right, you can look but if you stare just don't be upset when i call you (general) a weirdo for staring 🤷 idk, i am a very curvy woman and i've been that way since about age 13. men will leer whether i have a hoodie on or a tank top. no amount of clothing can hide my boobs (i even used to chest bind)! i am considering reduction but thats unrelated i understand a glance and most women also do. we just don't like when we can see you undressing us in your mind
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 08:07 PM
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lol what
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 09:11 PM
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is that why you deleted ur comment
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 03:03 PM
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this is a lot of reaching. hope you stretched beforehand
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 07:05 PM
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when i rejected a guy at work so he waited in his car 4 hours until we closed to try again 🫠
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 06:00 PM
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the thing is alot of women can't tell if they are actually into women or if they like the attention being into women gives them from men. i say this as a bi woman. alot of girls find it thrilling to be with another girl because men get off on it, not because she likes women. women also tend to have really close, almost romantic looking friendships. sometimes women don't know how they should feel about them so they try dating women and realize they aren't so into that, just the intimate friendshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:53 PM
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idk i love my short kings. i cant save em all 😕
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 09:29 AM
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i think theres alotta weirdness all around
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:14 AM
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🤷 just an off topic comment for the noggin
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 10:06 PM
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yeah idk. wouldn't be what i put on my list personally but i like seeing all the answers on this post regardless :)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 07:18 PM
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yayyyy i literally never noticed that before in my entire life
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 07:10 PM
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nope!! all of the relationships were in adulthood/late teens (16-18)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 07:07 PM
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lolol i love short guys so i guess i don't get the hype. i've only dated ppl shorter than me (5'2) until i met my current partner
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 07:00 PM
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yeah my comment is lighthearted. but ppl do get really defensive here about women preferring tall men.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:52 PM
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multiple men replying they want to be valued for height but women r bad when they do it 😓
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:45 PM
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depression is affecting all demographics at unprecedented amounts. women are just more likely to seek psychological help. does happiness and quality of life not count if medication contributes to that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:34 PM
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if the boundary is crossed and you choose to stay but instead say over and over "i will leave you for this" or "i should leave you for this" but never follow up- that is emotional manipulation at best and abusive at worst. depends on the relationship. if you actually leave, that's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:12 PM
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adult single childless women are the happiest demographic in the world. i'd say they are making it just fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:06 PM
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just my two cents- as someone who sells clothes for a living. most people (men and women) do not (generally) pick what they wear day-to-day to attract the opposite sex. people do dress to impress but that is much more at large events like weddings, graduations, and funerals (if you could believe it). they are dressing to impress a crowd and typically not a single person. it's only happened twice that i serviced it and it was men getting ready for a first date each time. if you meet someone who's…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 01:11 AM
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when people leave abusers is when they are in the most danger. i know someone who's ex cut their brakes when they found out they were going to try to leave the home.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 10:18 PM
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Ironically enough, Afghanistan has more protections against child marriage than some* US states.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:47 PM
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child marriage is still legal in 33 US states.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:56 PM
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For sure this is cultural. Many cultures consider big expressions of emotion very masculine. Not so much in the west, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 10:23 PM
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i am a woman just cant respond bc i am no pill. i'm in a relationship now but my biggest issue was men not believing i didn't wanna hook up with them. i very clearly stated on my profile i was asexual (i am not, i have PTSD and that comes with intimacy issues but that's a downer to put on a dating profile). they felt very entitled to me and my body oftentimes before the date even happened. asking for nudes, trying to sext before they even knew my favourite colour lmfao. many men think their dick…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 04:54 AM
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okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:24 PM
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whos begging? i'm a little lost here. maybe if you want better porn you make a club or somethin
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:18 PM
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lots more men enjoy it compared to women. congrats on not liking porn lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:12 PM
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im a woman but cant respond bc my flair is no pill alot of women dislike the porn industry because porn generally isn't made for women to enjoy. it is painful looking and unemotional at best. downright abusive at worse. you have a really narrow view of erotic lit and i think thats what is affecting you. most women i know don't even read straight romance. it's usually gay erotica (mlm gay, not lesbian). i don't know how much more man you could want in a sexual story lolol. the erotica women consu…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 05:41 PM
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you aren't getting it and i can't make you get it because you're unable to put yourself in a women's shoes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 12:01 PM
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when have women ever benefited from centring men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 07:22 PM
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cant say for sure. i know most of my friends irl are pretty happy to support their partners short term and generally just prefer 50/50 or equitable sharing of bills (splitting them fairly based on income). but most of my friends are also really progressive so it's anecdotal :) i do think the vibe is shifting towards women being more open to this kind of thing but it's just hard for alot of outside factors too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:53 PM
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i know you didn't ask me specifically but im a gal who's supported multiple partners financially in the past. it doesn't bother me at all, i enjoy working alot and if it was possible in this economy i'd seriously want my boyfriend to stay at home (if he wanted to). i dont find any joy in homemaking lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:07 PM
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Edit bc i sent my comment too soon That's just untrue. Women aren't generally being pressured to marry at 21 but there is a sense of failure and pressure from our families and communities to marry before 30 for sure. Women are still not encouraged to pursue male dominated jobs. There are social repercussions and pressures we still face even in the freest of countries because our freedom is so recent. It was much harder for women to get an education for decades. That discrepancy in education of a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 01:04 PM
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legal freedom and social freedom are different. social status doesn't change overnight and discriminatory practices are still rampant today against women. it takes generations to feel this change because it's not like everyone just decided to start raising their daughters differently overnight. yes, women could legally support themselves but it was still HARD. when a group gains rights or freedoms they didn't have before, theres this social undercurrent in everything that this is not how it supp…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 11:49 AM
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and texting them (your friends) is prioritizing them?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 08:53 PM
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if you can't trust your partner to have friends just break up, the trust is already gone. if you can't maintain friendship with people who aren't of your own gender, that's weird. by this logic all bisexual people would need to drop their friends as soon as they enter a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 08:01 PM
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terms like masculine and feminine are not really helpful or tell you much real information so i tend to agree. masculine and feminine are more like feelings than anything imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 03:32 PM
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women do this work but often don't choose it because of the harassment we face in trades. i wanted to be a welder but men genuinely would steal and destroy my equipment for.... being a lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 02:10 PM
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flirting can be romantic, not sexual
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 04:10 PM
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flirting and sexual attention is inherently objectifying if it's unwanted, no matter who is doing it. you should never be giving sexual attention unless theres explicit consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 03:00 PM
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women do not want to be sexualized by men they don't know generally. it does not matter how attractive they are or what their 'status' is. if a man stares at my chest, it's uncomfortable. it doesn't matter how attractive i find him. what your missing in this is we usually aren't having friendly, or flirty conversations when we are being objectified. we are at our jobs, or walking home, or on the bus, getting groceries. that is the objectification women are talking about. when our personhood is d…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 02:47 PM
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Also "competing" with her friends, I think alot of men forget. If her friends are making her feel more loved than you, somethings wrong. (This goes in reverse too but this post is focusing on this perspective).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 01:35 PM
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This kind of makeup can't be worn irl (well it can but you can tell) it's like stage makeup- it only looks good photographed.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 12:08 PM
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Yes... because legislation does not protect us from social effects of these things.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 03:14 PM
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weird cherrypicking with the credit card, but the fair housing act wasn't passed until 1968, but it wasn't until 1974 an unmarried woman could apply for a mortgage without a MALE cosigner. 1975 women were finally not excluded from juries in the USA. Until 1981 men had unilateral control of all jointly owned property. Marital rape was not illegal nationwide until 1993. 1993 was also the year a victim no longer needed to show or prove they were "damaged enough" by sexual assault. YES, Many women p…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 12:51 PM
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the thing that gets me about these physical attraction conversations is like.. how are we defining attractive (physical)? everyone has their type, not every woman is looking for 6+ foot gym bros, just like not all men are looking for supermodels. it's weird. i've never met any dudes i'd call ugly, never met any women i'd call ugly either on looks alone. especially when something considered ugly can be considered beautiful in a year or two socially.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 02:59 PM
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It was only in 1974 women could recieve a credit card without a male cosigner.. because women were not allowed credit beforehand. There was STILL additional hoops women had to go through. Discrimination doesn't end at decriminalizing something.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 10:07 PM
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sex is a benefit of a relationship, not required. men are more likely to leave when the relationship no longer serves them (if their partner becomes sick or disabled). when women enter relationships with men they do so usually under the belief of mutual love and care, and are less likely to leave their sick and disabled partners. it's shitty to lead someone to believe you care about their life, their personality, their thoughts and feelings when you only want sex. no one is saying sex doesn't ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 05:20 PM
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you say "men usually know what they are getting into" but i do feel like that is a small minority of men in these spaces online. alot of men think they are the exception as much as women do. likewise, there are circles of women who like to play with cheaters too. you just havent seen it yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 04:05 PM
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i don't see much of a difference in reactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 04:01 PM
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men also date serial cheaters. this isn't really a gendered issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 03:49 PM
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i don't think we can use celebrities to get any accurate picture of the dating world. this is 100% PR and they operate their lives completely differently. we also cannot get any useful information out of fans and their reactions, fandoms are emotional places of expression and not where people get their dating or life advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 03:45 PM
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men did not 'naturally find a wife' back then. women needed to be married to live any kind of life. we couldn't buy houses, we couldn't apply for credit cards, we couldn't get loans.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 12:46 PM
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women definitely feel sexual sparks about the male body, but we CANNOT act in haste. it's very dangerous. our attraction looks different from the outside because we NEED to make sure we are safe first and foremost which takes longer to tell. there is no magical "i'm physically attracted to you now but i wasn't before" it's more like "you have made me feel safe enough to show my attraction towards you, which may be intensified by your personality because it's taken longer". lolol i hope that make…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 02:44 PM
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i am a bi woman. i don't think this is accurate at all. we express our sexual attraction more openly and quickly because we generally feel safer around women, but it isn't a different kind of attraction, like he implies.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 01:08 PM
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i would say this is the opposite? lol so many women i know cannot orgasm with physical sensations alone. you need foreplay, you need the mood. women are really cerebral, that's why audio porn has such a bigger market for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 01:04 PM
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sorry, i didn't understand your question. he needs to interact with the queer community more irl because theres alot of intersectionality in our identities. he's theorizing about lesbian and bi women when he doesn't have a clue.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:49 PM
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because most people here have 0 idea how the queer community experience dating or the world in general and project weird heteronormative standards on to a community they have never actually engaged with beyond the extremes you see online
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 12:37 PM
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i need you guys to talk to real lesbians really bad. i really need you guys to interact with real gay, trans and other queer people. this is so weird 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 11:15 AM
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I think as long as the issues we are currently facing exist, people will continue to choose to not have children. I think these views are usually shaped by experience in the world, so they'll always exist to some extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 12:50 PM
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Look man, I don't know what you're coming at me for me for because we mostly agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 02:32 AM
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rape/SA and dating are UNFORTUNATELY intertwined for women. there is a real danger in meeting men for women. almost every woman has a story. if you want to have a discussion with women about dating, you have to talk about rape. because we cannot go on dates without protecting ourselves in some way, lest something actually happen and your choice of panties indicates 'you wanted it'.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 07:27 PM
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I think that entirely depends on why someone is being told to attend therapy. Usually it's because people do not have the skills to help you and self help is also a learned skill. Like I said, "Go to therapy" isn't really productive to say because therapy as a practice is incredibly broad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 07:11 PM
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therapy will never solve a problem, therapy teaches you coping skills so your life is easier to live. there are lots of kinds of therapy, if cbt isn't for you could try dialectic therapy, exposure therapy, EMDR, group therapy, etc. Therapy is not one side fits all and therapists aren't either. It also why it's bad advice to just say, "Get therapy." Therapy isn't just one service or treatment, it describes a HUGE variety of help you can receive.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 06:05 PM
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i'm a woman and i'd consider myself marriage neutral? i think like anything it can be used to control and abuse people, and usually that is the woman in a heterosexual relationship (unfortunately) i am lucky to live in a part of the world where i can choose if i want to marry or not, i know many women in the world do not have that choice so i am coming from a place of privilege in choosing to not really care about it, and also in a country where women can freely divorce. i don't yearn for marria…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 05:04 PM
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