princesabubu Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	On how being a pickme could kill the ones you love and destroy your life (a long story)	TRIGGER WARNING	princesabubu	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/04/21 07:56 PM

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15	Guys who say "FDS helped me understand and respect my wife" okay but why didn't you listen to your wife before you found FDS? Lol I remember the time when I actually ran an survey with people on the internet because I wanted this soon-to-be-a-psychologist to '''''believe''''' my argument in a discussion. I still have the answers in a spreadsheet. It was basically me telling him that harassing fat people wasn't good for them because yk if you say you care about their '''health''''' then you're not supposed to make them feel miserable with themselves! But he just didn't believe that because yeah why would he believe me h…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/04/21 12:02 AM
12	This Is How It Went Down For Me TOO Many Times! I guess that explain why they're so invested in getting to know your past and trauma bonding with you: so that later they can be original when they hurt you lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/04/21 04:44 PM
36	Would love to flip this around and ask sons of fathers who visited prostitutes, how do you feel about what your father did? JESUS FUCKING CRIST. I saw this earlier today and all I could think was "sons of prostitutes, how do you feel about prostitution? How do you feel about the fact that men felt entitled to pay for access your mother's body and eventually impregnate her? How do you feel about your buddies when they tell you they are going to """whore houses"" (I don't like this word, but I guess it translates the way men usually refer to it, in my country actually, so I'm translating)?? Do you tell them about your …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/04/21 11:04 PM
10	“There are just some things about FDS I don’t agree with.” *** My journey to the truth. What if I just stopped playing the caretaker role and start playing the main character in my story? For me this synthesize everything about FDS. It's an awesome insight for us to stop playing all of those roles this patriarchal society gave us but to actually own our lives. And by that to understand that it's our happiness, our health, our self-development, our physical and financial security that matters the most. All of the other people are supporting actors. Also, turns out we are the casting…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/03/21 03:02 PM
26	Friendly reminder to forgive yourself. It's one thing if you keep making the same mistakes and don't want to learn, but we're all about growth here! Definitely not. But it's a nice perspective to help one forgive herself for being lied to, abused and degraded by someone. I can speak only for myself, but it's really common here to see other women talk about how hard it is to forgive herself for being in such a vulnerable place and to believe all the lies, and to not have walked away sooner. We kind of blame ourselves for the abuse. So I guess the message is to remind us that. To give us a compassionate point of view and help us leave behind t…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/03/21 02:20 PM
10	Being/acting insecure will only ever get you a manipulative low/no effort NVM: know your worth and show it, never settle I will never be able to thank FDS enough for all you're giving me. It's compassionate but still raw reality being splashed on my face like a really nice expensive moisturizer that at first might itch but then soothes the skin	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/02/21 04:01 PM
20	Being/acting insecure will only ever get you a manipulative low/no effort NVM: know your worth and show it, never settle FFS I guess we both dated the same guy lol He wrote me a letter and sent through messenger (yeah, cause he couldn't say it on my face) saying e.v.e.r.y.t.h.i.n.g the other lady wrote above and it's bizarre because I am still coping with regaining my self esteem because even though he said all that he first did quite a good job in brainwashing me into thinking he was the best creature to ever walk on earth and our love was the purest and most magic special blablabla I truly deserved so much bette…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/02/21 03:49 PM
4	Why We Take the High Road Women have rarely have the power of choice. If you are reading this and have choice in your life, you should see this as the most treasured gift in history. It is the rarest and most hard fought for freedom women have obtained. We need to reframe your mind to truly appreciate this. This sounds like a loud and clear wake up call. I've always considered myself a feminist and worked hard all through my life to achieve my life goals and to become independent, and developed a really high sense of a…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/02/21 10:38 PM
12	What LVM really mean when they say... "You're the love of my life" or even "I love you so I consider you my family" can also translate to "I like being with you because you're so easygoing and has this pickme traits that make you accept me as the LVM I am, but as soon as you start complaining about my poor and sexist behavior and low effort in the relationship and tells me you want me to change I will breakup with you through text messages"	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/02/21 06:24 PM