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| 2 | What Is Your Opinion On 50/50 Relationships?I only said that I think it is okay to be 50/50 in that situation, but I wouldn't personally advocate for a woman to settle for it if she has the SMV/RMV not to. Obviously you choose well :) The only thing I can stand by 100% is that if you're doing 50/50 and providing children to your husband you probably have very low self-esteem and will definitely age horribly. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/12/23 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Is it better to invest on a Masters Degree or Plastic Surgery?Most people do not need to do that though. A very small percentage of women need to redo them and it is especially less common to need to do so with silicon implants vs saline. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/11/23 11:48 PM |
| 1 | Is it better to invest on a Masters Degree or Plastic Surgery?Breast implants will last at least a decade, and most will last longer. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/11/23 10:27 PM |
| 1 | What Is Your Opinion On 50/50 Relationships?Are there actions/behaviors on your end that make you feel that way? | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/11/23 10:06 PM |
| 2 | Therapist in the Way?This is so late but I was lurking on this subreddit and saw this post. I love Laura’s materials but one of my least favorite things about her podcast are the women who are trying so hard to make it work with their cheating and abusive husbands. There’s one episode where the woman’s husband literally just got up and left one day to move in with another woman for like a year and a half, leaving his kids and wife behind. I really couldn’t see the story of how that poor woman “got him back” as a suc… | /r/RedPillWives | 26/10/23 06:14 PM |
| 4 | What Is Your Opinion On 50/50 Relationships?You seem like you are taking out your anger on her Your entire post history is you being mean and negative to people on this subreddit actually | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/07/23 10:38 PM |
| 4 | What Is Your Opinion On 50/50 Relationships?Haha everything you said resonated with me. I also learned a lot of amazing homemaker skills that I will keep with me forever. I also agree that the “Dump him” advice is often very applicable, the woman will describe the bummiest LVM that she has only been dating for 3 months and she will be encouraged to keep trying with him, blocking her from leveling herself up in the SVM/RVM categories and getting a better man that will make a better husband. Never would recommend divorce to a married couple… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/07/23 09:46 PM |
| 23 | What Is Your Opinion On 50/50 Relationships?Another commenter in this subreddit said she pays like 60% or more of the dates because she makes more and she also does all the housework and cooking at her boyfriend’s apartment… Where she doesn’t live, she just comes over and does that. I didn’t comment anything because she wasn’t asking for advice on her situation, she was sort of speaking about it as if it was a huge win for her, but I was definitely scratching my head at that, and was confused as to why her comment was being upvoted… RP sh… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/07/23 08:49 PM |
| 23 | What Is Your Opinion On 50/50 Relationships?Women being in 50/50 relationships with men, they break up, and the man ends up finding his dream woman after and he provides for the new girl and they get married. Happens quite often. I am a career woman and work at a respected company in cybersecurity and I would not go 50/50. I’m doing well financially on my own, but my fiancé’ loves to provide for me and make me feel safe and secure. I wouldn’t have children with a 50/50 man, it ages you badly. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/07/23 08:06 PM |
| 81 | What Is Your Opinion On 50/50 Relationships?A lot of people in this subreddit definitely seem to be 50/50 women I personally am not though and would never have entertained someone with that mindset. A personal theory I have is that every man has the potential to want to be the main provider, it just has to be for the right woman. I have noticed this theory be proven right over and over again so I’m going to stand by it when I advise women I love The only time I personally think it’s okay to be 50/50 is if you are child free and plan on st… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/07/23 07:48 PM |
| 5 | Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive?I wouldn’t say I view all men as ugly or anything but I would say majority were unattractive to me even before I was with my current partner. Now all men besides him are like NPCs in my eyes. Even though I’m straight only women really stick out to me in that I might notice a girl’s nice outfit or a unique makeup look that I might want to try out myself later. Men kind of just blend into the background | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 05:43 PM |
| 5 | Are You Single Until You're Married?You know the subjects in here are more nuanced than the earth being flat though. There’s more room for discussion and opinions. The way you respond gives the impression that you are taking it personally when the question she posed wasn’t directed at you. Maybe you are because I can definitely understand why it’s an upsetting topic for sure, especially for men. What she is describing was practiced for centuries and benefited women immensely by allowing them to choose a mate based on their hyperga… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/07/23 08:59 PM |
| 3 | Are You Single Until You're Married?Telling someone to never find themselves on a jury panel and calling people “f****** delusional” is showcasing hostility. I like to imagine you don’t talk to women in real life like that, I know my grandmother would roll in her grave if she saw my dad talking like that to any lady, so it would be gentlemanly if you didn’t do it here. It’s not right, and makes the feminine space feel tainted. :/ | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/07/23 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Are You Single Until You're Married?You are being really aggressive. If you are going to be a man existing in the woman’s sub you should definitely speak to the users here with respect and not make personal attacks on them. It’s a women’s community where we come to discuss things in a civil manner, and a lot of topics are uncomfortable in nature due to the RP hard reality themes. I agree with a few of your points but there isn’t any need for the hostility | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/07/23 08:29 PM |
| 3 | Gal pals with 44F who is single because she keeps herself in a box - takes advice in small doses. What's the right approach?Are you Christian? This doesn’t read like it was written by one, you are being weirdly mean to a woman you don’t even know. From what we describe she revolves her entire world around her faith and is a pure virgin. Most Christians aspire to be equally yoked. Even if if he was a gift from God it doesn’t mean she’s a bad Christian if she didn’t pick up on the sign… she is only human and it is impossible for her to be perfect. It would be kinder of you to pray for her if you are a believer, or offe… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/07/23 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Gal pals with 44F who is single because she keeps herself in a box - takes advice in small doses. What's the right approach?Personally I would suggest just being supportive. Not everyone really wants advice and giving unsolicited advice, especially that is along the lines of telling her that her options are limited, might really not go over well. Even if it is the truth and with the best of intentions, unsolicited advice can come off as kind of rude. You could potentially ruin a friendship for something that doesn’t effect you at the end of the day. She seems lovely and has her flaws like everyone else. Maybe she is … | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/07/23 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Are You Single Until You're Married?I think she just meant that if your boyfriend hasn’t expressed any interest in marrying you after a certain time it’s probably not a bad idea to consider other options to not end up as a forever girlfriend. A month is obviously an insane timeline, but there are men who do say they know within a short span of time whether they consider a woman potential marriage material or not. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/07/23 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Are You Single Until You're Married?A lot of men definitely do claim this. My fiancé definitely shared that he knew I was the one very early on I still think it’s a lot of pressure though and wouldn’t tell a woman to leave a man after a month of dating, but it’s definitely something men say lol. Whether they are being genuine in these claims I cannot say. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/07/23 08:10 PM |
| 7 | Are You Single Until You're Married?Weirdly, the traditional way to go about it is probably genuinely what OP is describing, to an extent. Circular dating was traditionally done and is still practiced in other cultures. If you weren’t engaged or married, you were single. Obviously women were and are still expected to stay chaste in these situations, which I think is a big reason it doesn’t work now in the West. Remaining a virgin til marriage isn’t widely practiced so staying monogamous pre-engagement makes more sense now. The who… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/07/23 08:08 PM |
| 3 | How to react when husband did not get job when he said he wouldWhat field does your husband work in? You have to be more understanding due to the economy. The market is extremely rough and I guarantee he likely feels extremely down on himself right now. For good men not being able to provide can be extremely emasculating. However, obviously bills need to be paid and it is hard to be in your feminine if you are doing everything to support the household financially. Is it possible for him to look outside his field for work? Maybe broach the topic? Also consid… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/07/23 04:48 PM |
| 3 | How are immigrant indian men able to marry non indian women st high rates in US despite their bad media image?This isn’t a SA thing alone but I do notice how certain men definitely treat women from outside their culture much better than the ones who are the same ethnicity as them. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/07/23 01:53 PM |
| 29 | How are immigrant indian men able to marry non indian women st high rates in US despite their bad media image?Indian men in the United States are generally educated and make good incomes with good, respected careers. Indian Americans outpace all other ethnic groups socioeconomically. They are also family oriented and will be providers. Most young Indian women are also very well educated with good careers but men don’t value those when considering attraction as much. There are also more Indian men in the United States than there are Indian women so naturally it makes sense that more men will have to marr… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/07/23 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Are we going to talk about Lauren Sanchez?Get your money up, stop wasting your time in spaces for women. You are making yourself feminine and will only end up with a they/them femnazi who likes girly males. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/07/23 01:07 AM |
| 7 | 7 Tips to Retain a Loving Relationship with Small ChildrenThank you for this post! I’m hoping to get pregnant in the future and have been loving all this RPW advice for mothers. These are all amazing tips, and some are ones I haven’t heard of or thought of before. I enjoy journaling and writing these down for future usage so it really appreciated that you take your time to do this. Can’t wait to have a gentle and loving motherhood. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/07/23 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Did anyone hear about Arab women affected by western lifestyle overseas. Families are collapsing?I promise you no woman looks at passport bros and regrets not wanting them. I think this is rhetoric that makes a certain sect of men feel better about themselves but Western countries enable women to be choosier simply because women can financially support themselves in ways that aren’t awful like working in factories or sex work. A mediocre salary will not turn heads in the West for a man unless he has other redeeming qualities. A lot of women end up regretting their bad mistakes when it comes… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/07/23 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Are we going to talk about Lauren Sanchez?Yes, and you lack knowledge in the RP. Anyone knows Jeff Bezos is literally inherently an Alpha Male. Also RPW is different from RPM, so please educate yourself and stop invading the hen house to whine amongst women. It’s not masculine. Jeff Bezos would never do that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/07/23 03:04 AM |
| 7 | Did anyone hear about Arab women affected by western lifestyle overseas. Families are collapsing?I don’t use the word dusties, and I even pointed out that passport women are equally as bad, if not worse in many cases. There is 0 hostility. Women get told here all the time that if you are LV you either need to level up or settle and make a good life with what you can. I don’t shame LVM for doing the same. I think it a good thing that they seek women abroad who accept them for who they are. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/07/23 10:05 PM |
| 6 | Did anyone hear about Arab women affected by western lifestyle overseas. Families are collapsing?Majority of passport bros are undesirable in the West though. Also, women who are passport girls are also undesirable in the West. Nearly all of them seem to have unpleasant/awkward/creepy personalities. They also are generally conventionally unattractive. Being not so good looking and also having personality deficits, plus making average/below average income is pretty damning for a man in the western world. Part of being red pilled is acknowledging that it is their fault to some extent. Their $… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/07/23 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Movie recommendationsSecond this | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/07/23 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Is it classless/a bad sign if a man uses Instagram as a dating app, or is it just what everyone does now?Yes, it is a red flag. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/07/23 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Help me stop eating!MyFitnessPal is what I recommend. The free version itself is immensely useful. Very easy to track your calories, can scan barcodes, you put in your weight/height/activity level and goals and it tells you how many calories you need to eat. If you don’t exercise this is especially useful because it will tell you how many calories you can consume that will still allow you to lose weight even if you didn’t move a muscle. Track everything you consume. Measure everything. Invest in a food scale and us… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/07/23 02:30 PM |
| 7 | “He wants to take things slow or is he just not interested” dilemma?The “Hi, I’m back” was a fatal mistake. That would give anybody the ick. Obviously you are dating multiple people but you can’t tell a man that he is on the back burner so blatantly. No man with self-respect would like that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/07/23 07:02 PM |
| 4 | What career do you have/ are pursuing?Cybersecurity :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/07/23 02:13 PM |
| 4 | Are we going to talk about Lauren Sanchez?This is literally so goofy, I can’t even argue. RP men overestimate the value of RP in their lives. Bezos is not worried that your internet community thinks he is “blue pilled”. He is one of the most successful men alive and his personality definitely doesn’t scream blue pilled at all. Nothing about him screams blue pilled, literally the opposite and I don’t even think being BP is a bad thing. He simply is just not. Lol. He’s extremely RP in nature. He’s a workaholic, innovative, and apparently … | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/07/23 08:09 PM |
| 14 | Are we going to talk about Lauren Sanchez?Bezos doesn’t need to know how to speak to women to attract women. He is one of the richest men on the planet. RP does nothing for a man of that high caliber. To imply he isn’t with someone younger simply because he doesn’t have the “game” is delusional. He could have any woman he wanted and stay mute the whole time. He is with Lauren simply because he wants to be and loves her. He spends A LOT of time with her despite being an extremely busy man. It has been observed by many that all his free t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/07/23 03:52 AM |
| 6 | Am I overreacting that I don't want my husband to go abroad?Honestly I don’t have much advice for this but I’m sure others do. Just wanted to offer my sympathies, I can’t imagine how stressful that is for you to be pregnant and your husband talking about going to an entirely country during one of most significant moments of your lives. He really may just think he is doing what a great provider man would do, being career oriented to make more money for his family. However, he might just need to be talked to about how his presence is much more valuable rig… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/07/23 01:45 PM |
| 9 | Pro-tip: If it has been 2 years and he still hasn't proposed , it's probably a sign that he's not that into youYeah definitely loyal doctors out there but honestly I could never advise someone spend their best years supporting a man they aren’t married to through med school. Too much risk involved. I completely believe the doctor you are mentioning, I have heard the same from so many nurses lol | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/07/23 07:23 PM |
| 8 | Pro-tip: If it has been 2 years and he still hasn't proposed , it's probably a sign that he's not that into youPlease respect my boundaries. I can’t talk to aggressive people who don’t respect that. It’s rude | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/07/23 06:16 PM |
| 5 | Pro-tip: If it has been 2 years and he still hasn't proposed , it's probably a sign that he's not that into youI’m so happy that you found the man of your dreams! Your story really emphasizes that you have to sometimes make tough choices to find your path. However, sorry about the in-laws. Honestly I lucked out in that department miraculously, but I bet the ladies here have some good advice on this subject because it is so common. My cousin divorced her cheating, alcoholic, bum of a husband and his family sided with her and they still get together haha. Sometimes the in-laws are better than the man attac… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/07/23 06:14 PM |
| 7 | Pro-tip: If it has been 2 years and he still hasn't proposed , it's probably a sign that he's not that into youGive your opinion? I didn’t say you could not, you are just talking with a mad attitude like it personally offended you. You seem mad about other people’s opinions.OP wasn’t directing it personally at you. Have a good day, please don’t @ me anymore lol. I can’t with the toxic behavior anymore. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/07/23 06:05 PM |
| 7 | Pro-tip: If it has been 2 years and he still hasn't proposed , it's probably a sign that he's not that into youYou are interpreting the post that way because you are projecting your bad mood onto it. Carry on | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/07/23 05:59 PM |
| 17 | Pro-tip: If it has been 2 years and he still hasn't proposed , it's probably a sign that he's not that into youOP is doing a noble service. At the end you know your relationship better than anyone could, but men admit to knowing quite early on. The post is definitely not saying they aren’t worth shit, you are putting words into their mouth. Lol. It’s a cautionary tale that many women need to consider so they don’t end up 40, single, and childless with only the leftovers to pick from. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/07/23 05:48 PM |
| 28 | Pro-tip: If it has been 2 years and he still hasn't proposed , it's probably a sign that he's not that into youYou definitely made the right call. Have seen so many stories of people choosing to stay through med school, support their partners, then get left as soon as their partner finishes. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/07/23 04:35 PM |
| 5 | How do you know when you’ve hit the wall?The anti-aging industry is huge. Women already know, even if they don’t know it by “the wall”. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/07/23 02:50 PM |
| 8 | How do you know when you’ve hit the wall?While I disagree with “femnazis”, feel like it’s still immature and low class to imply that they will be ugly faster than RPW as if there is some civil war going on between the communities lol. Like just because we are fundamentally different paths that they will grow haggard super fast but we will be forever young… Being RP doesn’t magically save you from the wall. Being mindful of your habits and investing in your looks does. RP women don’t have some magical ability over any other woman. While… | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/07/23 10:08 AM |
| 6 | Where to find a committed man when you’re in your 20s?Ugly people cheat all the time. You’re better off being cheated on by someone you are attracted to rather than being cheated on by someone you aren’t. Lol | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/07/23 09:11 PM |
| 19 | Where to find a committed man when you’re in your 20s?I don’t really fully agree with the whole date men in their 30s and 40s suggestion when you are in your 20s. It’s really popular here and while I can understand where people are coming from and don’t doubt that there’s merit to it in some cases I think a lot of the male options in their 30s and 40s are leftovers. High value options often get snapped up in their 20s so you should really focus your energy on finding a more age appropriate man while you can. You can vet and find good, responsible m… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/07/23 09:10 PM |
| 34 | Untouchable girl?I don’t think the way you are describing it from Tiktok exist at all. Very desirable woman will always be approached and sought after. Your last question is more accurate in my opinion in that by leveling up your SMV/RMV you do eliminate a lot of low value men from approaching you. Some will always approach because non-HVM tend to overestimate their value, but definitely less will try to do so if they’re not completely unaware. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/07/23 03:17 PM |
| 64 | To be fair, I agreed to this.If you don’t want that, don’t accept it and let him find someone else. Unless he is wealthy no woman with an ounce of healthy self-esteem would tolerate it. RPW doesn’t endorse being with unfaithful men. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/07/23 01:15 AM |
| 8 | Shift in husband’s behaviorHuge leap to suggest that there is another woman, especially based off of what OP has described. 5% less infatuated with her is not strong evidence at all. Marriages are not going to be 100% passionate all the time. It likely is that OP needs to change some of her behavior and aspects about herself (she should probably lose weight, tone down the playfulness), but to assume infidelity right off the bat is just going to add a lot of tension and anxiety that could cause so much more problems. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/06/23 12:46 PM |
| -1 | Should I put on my dating profile that I have a high body count?She doesn’t always have to be a promiscuous woman. There is redemption for her. She can dress well, close her legs, be more selective. Why should she portray herself as that? I am marrying my high school sweetheart and don’t have a real body count besides him but I can see that the advice her for some reason isn’t actually RP, it’s sabotage. A lot of women seem to set other women up for failure. RP men can be harsh but they seem to give advice to fellow men that will benefit men in their goals. … | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/06/23 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Should I put on my dating profile that I have a high body count?I agree with you that I think OP is clearly mentally off. Normal people would never ask a question like this. However I disagree that bringing up sex on a second date is an appropriate way to secure a good man. That is far too soon and runs the risks o attracting the wrong kind of man. Only feminists, socially unaware, and promiscuous women engage in that behavior. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/06/23 03:57 PM |
| 2 | Should I put on my dating profile that I have a high body count?It’s really not that hard to understand. If you want to appear attractive to a mate and RPW is primarily about utilizing tools and the differences between men and women to get further in your goals then telling a man on a second date unappealing things about yourself openly goes against that. RP doesn’t equal traditional relationship always but it does mean there are roles within the relationship. There is 0 benefit to telling a man you have a huge body count for no reason and the only reason yo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/06/23 03:17 PM |
| 2 | Should I put on my dating profile that I have a high body count?RP is a toolkit. Why would you advise someone to tell them about your body count on the second date without any prompt? That isn’t what a RP minded woman would do at all. Only women who do that are very blue pilled women being courted by blue pilled men. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/06/23 02:06 PM |
| 2 | Should I put on my dating profile that I have a high body count?Bad advice and not RP centric whatsoever. Definitely sabotaging OP. There is no reason for her to bring up body count to a man unless he brings it up himself. Even if she was a virgin it would be weird and gross for her to do. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/06/23 01:27 PM |
| 13 | I’m afraid I came too strong on him. Help please?It really is so simple, despite the fact that so many people still struggle. If he is not chasing you he does not want you. So many women go into their 30s single because they waste all their time and energy chasing after a man who has 0 investment in them instead of focusing on where they are wanted and appreciated. OP stop going after men in other countries if your goal is marriage soon. Long distance relationships very rarely work out. And stop chasing! Do not put all eggs in a basket if you … | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/06/23 01:23 PM |
| 26 | How can I make him love me after years of rejection?You can’t. If there was ever a time you ended up together it would be because he could not find any other option. The kindest thing you can do for yourself is to block him and not allow him to toy with you. Ultimately you must hold yourself accountable and realize you are the only reason he is able to breadcrumb you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/06/23 08:14 PM |
| 10 | My boyfriend (40) of six months wants me (28) to move in with him.I think it is generally ill advised to move in with a man you aren’t at least engaged to. Your last statement is kind of confusing. Would you be paying rent to him or would you not be? If the latter I would definitely say absolutely not. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/06/23 09:13 PM |
| 2 | Disabled ex husbandHe divorced her and had a whole other child with someone else. Like come on. Despite infidelity and divorce OP is still taking care of him. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/06/23 12:43 PM |
| 8 | Left holding the baby...Some of you act in your masculine energy lately. But especially you lol. It’s hard to distinguish considering all the angry men in this subreddit lately. You definitely need a chill out from this community, I don’t know what you are upset about in your real life but people here aren’t your personal punching bag | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/06/23 05:57 PM |
| 8 | Left holding the baby...It is really not appropriate to talk to people like this. I legitimately thought you were a male as you write in a manner that emulated a man in his RP anger phase. You should be more polite. We can disagree in more feminine ways… However this is supposed to be a supportive community that holds each other accountable, not just insulting people so hatefully | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/06/23 05:36 PM |
| 1 | I (27F) left work 2 weeks ago & am obv worried about money. Fiance (33M) of 7 years still hasn't offered to help. Red flag?I’m sorry but you type in an extremely masculine and aggressive way like you were really angry over me not wanting to completely bash OP. I even said I think OP has a lot of work to do to better and improve herself. I also don’t think her junkie partner who isn’t open about his finances is a great man either. Addiction is one of the three As that Laura Doyle believes is enough cause to immediately end a relationship. On top of all the other issues in the relationship, doesn’t seem to make sense … | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/06/23 11:16 AM |
| 1 | I (27F) left work 2 weeks ago & am obv worried about money. Fiance (33M) of 7 years still hasn't offered to help. Red flag?Meghan bagged the better brother sooooo….. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/06/23 11:14 PM |
| 3 | I (27F) left work 2 weeks ago & am obv worried about money. Fiance (33M) of 7 years still hasn't offered to help. Red flag?I don’t think he sees her as marriage material. Going through her history it makes it clear to me that this is probably the situation. You can insult and criticize OP but clearly she doesn’t respect him and he doesn’t seem that into her either. He also has a plethora of issues himself. OP could level up and get a better prospect than a drug addict who doesn’t seem to be serious about getting married. OP obviously has a lot of work to do to be a higher value woman. Going on trips you can’t afford… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/06/23 10:32 PM |
| 44 | How to introduce/bring up Redpill to SOYou don’t bring up the RP to people irl, especially not your partner | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/06/23 10:10 PM |
| 3 | I (27F) left work 2 weeks ago & am obv worried about money. Fiance (33M) of 7 years still hasn't offered to help. Red flag?They have been engaged for years which leads me to believe he has 0 intention of marrying her as he keeps pushing the goalpost back. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/06/23 07:44 PM |
| 2 | I (27F) left work 2 weeks ago & am obv worried about money. Fiance (33M) of 7 years still hasn't offered to help. Red flag?Honestly looking at your post history, I say this lovingly, it does not seem like he intends to ever be your husband. I think you are largely wasting your time. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/06/23 07:43 PM |
| 5 | I (27F) left work 2 weeks ago & am obv worried about money. Fiance (33M) of 7 years still hasn't offered to help. Red flag?They just sound incompatible. She needs to be with a man who makes more money/exhibits more traditional provider qualities that are in line with her culture and he needs a more frugal woman. Adultery and finance problems are the biggest causes of divorce. It’s also weird at 7 years that she is in the dark about the true nature of his financial situation. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/06/23 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Friction in relationship admidst job changeLife circumstances change so they have to be prepared to adjust. It’s not always logical to stick to the status quo when the situation has changed drastically. OP should not run herself ragged, likely worsening her mood and not keeping up with her appearance, if she can’t balance work and doing all the chores anymore. You can never fully divide labor equally but you can lessen the gap so it doesn’t feel unfair or impact the relationship or person negatively. Your situation is kinda different as … | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/06/23 05:10 PM |
| 33 | Is there a feminine „Andrew Tate Counterpart talking about similar values but only for Women online?I would say this is probably the most accurate female counterpart to Andrew Tate. Shera, who I disagree with on quite a few things, is probably more radically Redpilled than anyone here. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/06/23 04:56 PM |
| 6 | Friction in relationship admidst job changeDo you go 50/50 on rent? I work a full time job and do the majority of the cleaning and cooking, but I also don’t contribute at all to our housing and bills. In order for her to thrive in her feminine he probably would need to step up the masculine provider aspect. He might not realize/understand this as it is sort of normal in this generation for women to go 50/50 and also do all the cooking and cleaning. Definitely a conservation to have. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/06/23 12:16 PM |
| 27 | Is this cheating?It has been years and he has moved on. You will not need to apologize for it. I also would not share this with dates upfront, and I would probably recommend holding off on dating until you are in a better place mentally. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/06/23 06:57 PM |
| – | FulfilledProbably some weird man | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/06/23 12:42 AM |
| – | FulfilledThis seems like a fetish post lol | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/06/23 12:17 AM |
| 4 | Ideas on introducing Red Pill content to men who are not awareYou don’t, as others have said. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/06/23 01:24 PM |
| 27 | RPW stance on the "casual" stage?This is way too much drama for someone you barely know and who is over 10 years older than you. End this as you are obviously way more interested in him than he is you, and do not have sex with men who have not committed to you anymore. Raising your body count for men who don’t even care about you offers no benefit to you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/06/23 01:38 AM |
| – | How to weed out useless datesI have a career and won’t be paying for my food because I’m engaged to a traditional man :) I cook it and get treated out to it. I would highly suggest you stop arguing with women in women forums. Instead hit the gym and improve your skills to better your career development. Much better usage of your time and will help you increase your SMV and masculinity, as well as confidence. | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/06/23 11:41 AM |
| 9 | What do you disagree with F&F on? (Besides the having multiple women or dating 50 women stuff because I already know that triggers you trad cons) Give specific examples/points you disagree with.The 1% man does not consume his content though so I doubt he is stating this for his general audience. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/06/23 05:42 PM |
| 2 | Are superficial careers like modeling, pageantry, influencer, etc a turn off to a HVM?I mean I did note that it was high class models, not just any random models. I do agree with you though that social climbing will always be risky for the climber. However with new money men the odds are more in your favor than any old money guy. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/06/23 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Are superficial careers like modeling, pageantry, influencer, etc a turn off to a HVM?There is a difference between hookers and models and actresses though. Obviously you don’t want sex workers around a nice affair but plenty of high class models are at such events. And honestly women interested in marrying into old money should just diverge their interests in marrying new money. Old money almost never marries outside of their bubble so it is mostly pointless no matter what you do. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/06/23 04:26 PM |
| 2 | Are superficial careers like modeling, pageantry, influencer, etc a turn off to a HVM?This is very likely because his mother is intimated and jealous of these women though. I’m a woman in STEM and definitely not a model by any means but I know plenty of women who really dislike women who can profit off their beauty. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/06/23 03:43 PM |
| 1 | How to weed out useless datesLol unlikely as we are always together, both WFH and travel together each weekend. :) if he does that ever, and I doubt it as he is probably the most morally good person I know, then he knows I will happily leave and thrive. You sound bitter though, I’m sorry life turned out the way it did for you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/06/23 09:03 PM |
| 1 | How to weed out useless datesLol we are both educated software engineers and I definitely have more assets than him. I came from a well-off family and luckily inherited properties and land. He still provides because he is a traditional man and he worked for everything he has now which I admire. I was there when he didn’t have anything and moved from a beautiful place to be with him in a small box at the start of our relationship. We have grown together in wealth and love and our dynamic works well. However I would be fine i… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/06/23 02:03 PM |
| 3 | How to weed out useless datesJust a personal opinion and is by no means RP advice here, but I think if a man can’t afford to potentially waste 30-50$ for a potential partner’s meal here and there he is not financially ready to be married. I dated intentionally for marriage, as I presume most of the women in this community do/have done. Money is not everything and you do not need to date a wealthy man, but a provider man with good financial stability that can budget costs will be a better father to your children and provide … | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/05/23 05:44 PM |
| 2 | His clingy female friend and how to approach boundaries as a RPWYes, you are so extremely right. I always feel aggravated for Cameron Diaz’s character by the end. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/05/23 10:00 AM |
| 3 | His clingy female friend and how to approach boundaries as a RPWBeautifully put. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/05/23 09:52 AM |
| 3 | How to weed out useless datesWhat works for you works for you. I’m engaged to a high value man who plans trips and outings for us and this is how I vetted. I live in a luxury apartment and all the women there also have provider men. I came to this community to find likeminded women who value traditional relationships as I step into the role of wife this year. Not everyone wants provider men here which I can respect, but this is clearly what OP wants so my advice is geared towards her. Women who follow your mindset to appeas… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/05/23 09:46 AM |
| -3 | How to weed out useless datesWanting a traditional man to pickup the bill on a first date is not entitlement. A woman from a good family who has a father in her life and who is attractive and educated will expect that. It would be entitled and trashy to make a scene/make him feel bad in the restaurant, but it’s not entitled to decide not to see the man again. I have never had a man take me up on my offer to split, but if I did, I would smile and pay my half, tell him I had a good time and just text him later in the week tha… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/05/23 09:34 AM |
| -2 | How to weed out useless datesIf a woman is physically attractive she has many suitors. However she shouldn’t talk about it to any of them, you don’t rub it in a date’s face about how many men you have chasing after you, that is just the truth. You would have to settle for unattractive, physically out of shape woman if you wanted a woman with little to no suitors. I tend to find this is difficult for many modern men to understand. Ultimately both people win in your scenario. OP vets out a man who doesn’t have a provider mind… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/05/23 03:09 AM |
| 1 | How to weed out useless datesThis is the way to do it. Offer to split the bill, but if he accepts do not see him again. HVM with provider instincts will not split the bill with you on a first date. | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/05/23 02:51 AM |
| -5 | How to weed out useless datesThere is a whole counter wave going on with the whole splitting the bill situation. A lot of women are not accepting splitting the bill and will not settle for a cheap, feminine man anymore just because modern feminism tells them too. If she has to pay and she is at all a desirable woman who has suitors you will not get a second date unless she is a ridiculously liberal woman with low self-esteem. I’ve seen so many men, who frankly are not very attractive, not tall, not charismatic, nor have a p… | /r/RedPillWomen | 31/05/23 02:50 AM |
| 15 | loyalty until marriage?This is also called circular dating. While I did not partake in this myself and probably never would have, I can admit that I see that it is extremely beneficial to women if done correctly. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/05/23 11:41 PM |
| 26 | Feeling guilt, what would you do?This relationship seems like a toxic mess. Cheating and constantly breaking up over and over isn’t going to lead to marriage or even a healthy relationship. The best thing to do is to cut him out from your life completely and just work on yourself. A great person doesn’t cheat or verbally degrade their partner. Even if you weren’t 100% perfect yourself you could level up and find someone better. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/05/23 10:38 PM |
| 11 | What do you do when the one you love calls you “useless?”Boyfriend of 5 years is already a huge red flag. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/05/23 03:49 AM |
| 17 | How can I (25F) emotionally seduce him (30M) to get what I wantHonestly I feel like OP should do whatever she can to make this work, as long as his mental health issues are in check. Becoming a single mother will decrease her RVM significantly. Dating world is difficult and her child would be better off being raised in a two parent household with their biological father. He brought up thinking they should get married himself which is a good sign. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/05/23 05:11 AM |
| 9 | Need advice on relationshipI would not proceed. You are young and could find someone else. The trauma of being cheated on never really goes away, and you will always have distrust for him. Most cheaters are just morally flawed. His only saving grace is that he told you himself, at least that is what I have gathered from your post. Regardless, I probably wouldn’t advise you stay with him. He sounds pornsick and if you search up porn addiction communities those women are living terrible, sad lives with their boyfriends/husb… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/05/23 02:15 AM |
| 9 | He will rarely have s3x with me, is it my fault?It could be a variety of things. Have you tried just bringing it up gently? | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/05/23 03:44 PM |
| 9 | Taking feminine role before first date? “Running game”?He was just running game and isn’t interested in you at all. On to the next! He may try to wiggle in because his other conquests he preferred more didn’t work out so don’t give him that opportunity | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/05/23 02:42 AM |
| 9 | As RPW, what are your opinions on age gap relationships?People are just pointing out realities of age gap dating and that it involves a lot of challenges and potential downsides. Old men produce worse quality sperm and studies have shown that age in man and their sperm is linked to risks of the baby being born with certain disabilities such as autism and Down’s syndrome. There’s no reason at 22 for OP to date a 45 year old man with an ex wife and children, that is unnecessary stress in her life. When she’s 60 he will be in his 80s… like? Back in the … | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/05/23 05:54 PM |
| 3 | Do most conventionally attractive/professionally successful men cheat? Is there any sign that they would or wouldn't?There’s really no way to know for sure if someone will cheat. Unfortunately a lot of people cheat, both men and women. Some red flags are if he has friends who cheat he will be more likely to cheat, if he has a history of cheating in the past, obsessed with porn/strippers, or if he has a lot of female friends. If he just has loose morals in general that’s a good sign he will be more inclined to commit infidelity I don’t think a man being attractive means he will cheat and frankly a lot of ugly, … | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/05/23 07:57 PM |
| 9 | This sub: "If you're a man, you should focus on TRP." Also this sub: "A man with RP knowledge is a red flag."This is a space for women alone. Women and men both deserve to have their own spaces where they can discuss things with their peers without having to worry about the opposite gender intruding on them. Most of Reddit is free for everyone to utilize, RP women deserve their space just like RP men have a right to theirs. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/05/23 07:48 PM |
| 4 | I am feeling conflicted about opting to be a housewife or stay-at-home mom instead of pursuing a conventional job.I guess it depends on your industry but I am in the tech field and it has completely transformed in the last few years. Before without a degree it was easy to break in. Now a degree is basically mandatory. Having a bachelor’s degree doesn’t guarantee you wealth or a good husband but it does grant you so many more opportunities. It has become the new norm. Honestly I think it reflects badly in a lot of circles when you don’t have a bachelor’s because some people view it as not having a high schoo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/05/23 05:38 AM |
| 17 | I am feeling conflicted about opting to be a housewife or stay-at-home mom instead of pursuing a conventional job.It’s a personal choice no one can decide for you. However, women who go to college have a higher chance of meeting a man that can actually support a SAHM lifestyle. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/05/23 12:43 AM |
| 16 | I am feeling conflicted about opting to be a housewife or stay-at-home mom instead of pursuing a conventional job.Going to college gives you access to college educated men and much better dating prospects. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/05/23 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Some guy said to me that the only thing I have going on for me is that I’m nice ? Is this negging ? He randomly said to me that “I’ll die alone “… and then added “you’ll eventually find someone “🧐Yes a true gentleman would never feel this way about a woman, and if he somehow did, he would never ever voice that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/04/23 02:37 PM |
| 3 | How would you handle?Does he have children with this ex? Because I can’t understand why his mother has his ex over otherwise. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/04/23 06:21 PM |
| 3 | Should I tell my new boyfriend I am friends with my ex?He is your orbiter, not your friend. Stop contact with him, it is disrespectful to your current partner to talk to your ex who has feelings for you behind his back. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/04/23 02:57 PM |
| 45 | Hi, I'm not redpilleed at all but I've found it enlightening in this groupI would argue a good amount of women in this community would not even entertain a redpill man. It’s almost an unofficial code here to not date RP men because honestly most of them are too negative, jaded, and want to sleep around with as many women as they can to affirm their masculinity. Their goals are fundamentally different from ours (not always, but usually), and while there definitely good RP men out there that make great partners, I would say it is pretty slim. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/04/23 02:47 PM |
| 52 | The guy(M32) I’m talking to did not want to be official with me until I(F22) gave him an ultimatumToo many red flags. At 22 you have way better options than this man. Long distance is also usually unsuccessful, and I really think the rare chances it works the people clearly ADORE each other and wouldn’t be so flip floppy like this. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/04/23 11:05 PM |
| 3 | Guy having tons of female friends: red flag or normal?He definitely is immature. Why is he even boasting about this publicly on social media? He sounds socially stunted, insecure, and unable to behave to fit social norms either. At his grown age that is a huge ick. Definitely move on from this dud. You can do much, much better. It appears that the women in his age range have rejected him as a good mate and that is why he is where he is, it’s natural selection at play | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/04/23 05:20 PM |
| 16 | Guy having tons of female friends: red flag or normal?That post you found is a huge red flag. And honestly I have found that men with a lot of female friends are really not worth the potential drama and hassle. Same goes for women with a lot of male friends (aka orbiters), I would tell a man that it isn’t worth the stress. I don’t think men and women can be friends in most cases, outside of a few circumstances. I say this as someone who works in a male dominated space and used to have a lot of male friends. Even though I would not have any attracti… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/04/23 04:53 PM |
| 64 | do I look fat/overweight to you?The shirt is extremely unflattering. You don’t look fat but you do look out of shape/slightly overweight. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/04/23 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Is my relationship a bad idea and what does it mean to build a man up?While Islam does not require a man to marry a Muslim woman, it is still not encouraged in Islam to marry a woman who is not Muslim. The woman also has to be a woman of the book, meaning she must be Christian or Jewish. OP mentioned that she was agnostic/atheist, I believe, so she would technically not qualify if this is the case. Generally the status quo is to marry a Muslim woman who shares your values. Muslim men do tend to be very family oriented and it is difficult to raise Muslim children w… | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/04/23 05:58 AM |
| 8 | Is my relationship a bad idea and what does it mean to build a man up?It is unrealistic to expect if you ever have children that he would not want them to be raised Muslim. I really would not move in with this man unless you are married. Arab and Muslim men often future-fake non Islamic women, have their fun with them, then marry a Muslim women when it is time for them to do so. I’m not saying this is what is happening here, but it is a common phenomenon that is discussed widely in the community. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/04/23 11:51 PM |
| 19 | Is my relationship a bad idea and what does it mean to build a man up?Have you met his family? Honestly I feel like this is an important thing to know before I can offer advice. I don’t think a lot of people here are familiar with Muslim or Arabic culture, especially when it comes to interfaith and inter-culture relationships. It’s a good sign if he has brought you around the family and they like you, but not a good sign if the former is not true. A lot of Arabic and Muslim men tend to date outside of their culture and religion but end up settling down with a woma… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/04/23 01:23 PM |
| 0 | Why do women get so offended when a man tells them the truthThis post does not belong here. And honestly unless you are a woman’s partner or father you have no business criticizing her on anything unless she asks. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/04/23 01:47 PM |
| 16 | I think my boyfriend is too ambitious and I'm stuggling with it, help!The right advice is to tell her to stop being so insecure, not to leave a man who appears to be high value. Your advice makes you sound jealous and like you are trying to sabotage OP. Yes OP is in the wrong and needs to change her behavior drastically, not just leave her partner. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/23 07:41 PM |
| 13 | Can someone kindly assess me unicorn list and tell me if I need to lower my standards?Your requirements are literally the bare minimum every man should be and what every woman should require, except perhaps the height and ethnicity situation. Honestly you have very, very low standards that I imagine only an insecure (most likely case and therefore perhaps seek therapy cause this is bad) or extremely low value woman would allow for. | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/04/23 01:19 AM |
| 8 | What the heck! Got permanently banned from "r/Off My Chest" community for participating in r/RedPillWomenI wish the subreddits would distinguish between the men’s and women’s. Unfortunately they only see Redpill so they assume it’s going to be the toxic insane cesspool that the redpill men subreddits tend to be. :( | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/04/23 04:29 PM |
| 21 | Should I pursue a relationship with my colleagueLow value man. Two kids and divorced? At 30 and about to be a doctor, as well as not having children nor a divorce, you could do a lot better. Also the general advice is to not date coworkers. I wouldn’t go against this advice for a man with that amount of baggage and obvious poor judgement. In the way that RP men advocate against being with single mothers, I really believe RPW should be advocating for childless women under 40 to not engage with single dads. Blended families are not ideal and de… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/04/23 05:32 PM |
| 4 | Wanna Talk?There is really no value in paying to talk to someone who is unlicensed, has a lack of ethics as a student of psychology, and wants to be paid in order for him to learn how to talk. If you need to learn, why are they paying you? Should it not be the other way around? This also isn’t the subreddit for it and you’re just spamming this in subreddits who don’t allow for solicitation. Unethical. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/04/23 05:27 PM |
| 6 | Wanna Talk?Respectfully, why on earth would anyone pay 10$ to talk to some random college student??? | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/04/23 04:46 PM |
| -2 | FemcelsThere are no femcels. Any woman can get sex. Most self-described femcels are attractive “e-girls” anyways | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/23 02:22 AM |
| 19 | Is this cheating?Hard agree. Dr. Laura’s content, which are commonly suggested guides for the RPW community, states there are 3 As for divorce. Adultery, abuse, and addiction. If it doesn’t involve these 3 you should do everything in your powers available to work it out. His actions indicate that he is adulterous in nature and a liar at that. They’re not married but 0 reason to subject yourself to someone who has shown he is not healthy marriage material. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/03/23 03:04 PM |
| -2 | Am I being awful for not wanting to pursue a relationship with him because of his p€nïs size?There is never a time where saying “I only enter relationships with men who have at least average sized penises” would not be vulgar and strange. Social norms are a thing. Whatever you would do has nothing to do with OP or this entire community. It’s not advice, you’re just being rude and bitter. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/03/23 05:27 PM |
| 4 | Am I being awful for not wanting to pursue a relationship with him because of his p€nïs size?Men can have their preferences on women’s weight, cup size, butt size, hair, face shape, legs, height, race, age, clothing, but when a woman has a preference for a man’s penis not to be tiny she is terrible? | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/03/23 05:04 PM |
| 14 | How do I (28F) reconnect with my now responsible ex (34M)?Liberal man and wanting partner to be housewife generally do not go together usually. You may need to be more open minded. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/03/23 02:22 AM |
| 34 | How do I (28F) reconnect with my now responsible ex (34M)?If he wanted to be with you, he would. Men will often put women in categories and it seems like you are in the sex only/casual category. Not wife material category. At your age you should focus on finding stable men who actually value you. You are quickly approaching 30 and maybe you want to try and force this to work more out of desperation than really believing you two are meant to be. Also, it’s not a “somehow” thing. If men are only interested in you for sex, you are giving off low RMV. I wo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/03/23 12:00 AM |
| 3 | Wall-friendly careersSome of the suggestions were good like nursing and IT, but most of these careers people have have proposed will leave you poor and very vulnerable. Definitely listen to this person’s advice, OP. Being a florist or receptionist are not great jobs unless you have a husband with good income. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/03/23 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Am I being sensitive?I think you could just be projecting because you think she should leave him? A 19 year old pretty woman can get her man to change his behavior easily. | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/23 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Am I being sensitive?I didn’t say leave him. XX | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/23 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Am I being sensitive?Your boyfriend sounds like a loser. Also there is a lot of truth to jokes, especially when they have odd common themes. You’re 19, you’re beautiful… I won’t tell you what to do but you know what you can do ;) | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/03/23 09:24 PM |
| 13 | Am I a low value women? Would any man want to marry me?Just out of curiosity, are you aware that RP for men and women are different? I think a lot of people who are new to this community think it’s just RPM but with women talking. This forum is for strategies that optimize a woman’s outcome in whatever her goals are. It’s sorta like Female Dating Strategy without the misandry and delusional “yes you’re a queen no matter what” mentality. There’s accountability stressed, but ultimately all the advice here is to benefit the woman. OP obviously knows be… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/03/23 08:05 PM |
| 24 | My Intake On Trad Wife CriticismYou can be abused and cheated on regardless, you are correct. However it is significantly easier to deal with these awful things if you have your finances in order. Many women get trapped in awful situations because they can’t leave. I think trad relationships are beautiful and I have tried to bring elements of it into my relationship but personally for myself I could never advise anyone rely on anyone else solely when it comes to their finances. If you are a woman who plans to be a SAHW with no… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/03/23 05:46 PM |
| 33 | Am I a low value women? Would any man want to marry me?What good could RPM content do? Red pill men are strongly anti-single mother. OP should not try and date men who follow an ideology that views her as low value, she should go after men who are unaware of that sphere. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/03/23 05:03 PM |
| 2 | Am I a low value women? Would any man want to marry me?This seems judgmental in a really unhelpful way. | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/03/23 01:33 PM |
| 2 | Trigger warning: Men really do cherish a flat stomachYou are 100% right. I spoke out of frustration which was deeply wrong of me. My apologies, I really do appreciate your important role in running this community. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/23 05:18 PM |
| 4 | Trigger warning: Men really do cherish a flat stomachLMFAO this sent me. This subreddit has some awful posts lol | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/23 04:43 PM |
| 3 | Trigger warning: Men really do cherish a flat stomachIt’s very perplexing. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/23 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Trigger warning: Men really do cherish a flat stomachHonestly I’m not sure why the mods are leaving this post up. Everyone already knows being skinny is many men’s preferences and someone’s partner’s preference is not advice for us. | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/03/23 02:08 PM |
| 0 | Is it possible to be a RPW as a single mother?The first sentence you just wrote is my point and that it is wrong. You can be an amazing woman that many men would have wanted to marry but a child from someone else is a dealbreaker. A man who is turned off from you already having a child isn’t someone who wouldn’t have wanted marriage anyways. A lot of men are interested in single moms solely for sex. Telling OP that the men that will be interested in her are more marriage minded is a lie and harmful. She can find a marriage minded man but sh… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/23 01:36 PM |
| 10 | Is it possible to be a RPW as a single mother?Just because a man does not want to date a single mother does not mean he is not marriage minded. That sentiment is just lib feminism cope. A single mom can obviously find a good man, albeit it is harder to attract HVM as one because most men with resources want their own children. It’s not RP to bash men for not wanting that and acting like being a single mom is a good way to vet out noncommittal men. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/23 12:30 PM |
| 6 | My (25F) boyfriend (25M) isn't very verbally affectionate and it bitters me toward himI’m really tired of men who have no idea that the IG fitness models they follow almost all have had cosmetic work done. Just cause they film themselves in the gym 24/7 doesn’t mean that exercise alone got their butts to be as big as two bowling balls. You can be a healthy fitness nut and also have had cosmetic work done. Often both actually go hand-in-hand because those who would get plastic surgery obviously care more about their physical appearance than most and would probably value the gym mo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/23 04:04 AM |
| 4 | My (25F) boyfriend (25M) isn't very verbally affectionate and it bitters me toward himNo offense but I don’t think you know what you are talking about. Legitimate personal trainers will say that no matter how dedicated and how hard you work you can’t expect the exact results you want. You will have great results but more often than not it will not look like what you expect. If you are a thin person with a flat square shaped butt no amount of years of working out will give you a BBL looking butt. Doesn’t mean you won’t get a cute bubble butt but you need to be honest and realistic… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/03/23 04:01 AM |
| 8 | Would living in a van be seen as a red flag by good men?Yes this will be a red flag to good stable men that are of the provider mindset. Hippie, hobosexuals might be into it but you will not be attracting what you seem to be seeking, respectfully. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/03/23 09:30 PM |
| 6 | My (25F) boyfriend (25M) isn't very verbally affectionate and it bitters me toward himYou can definitely improve your butt by going to the gym but large large butts are often genetic. It is simply impossible for most women to achieve the BBL look if they aren’t genetically gifted it no matter how much they workout at the gym. It’s a huge misconception that women can go do enough squats and donkey kicks and they’ll have a huge butt. A nicer shape, maybe slightly fuller, toned yes? But big? Probably not. This seems like an attraction issue that OP might not be able to feasibly “fix… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/03/23 08:28 PM |
| 7 | Am I just a root and boot?Please respect yourself more. This man see’s you as easy sex as that is what you are to him. | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/03/23 03:11 PM |
| 5 | My husband hit on a 19 year old when he was 39, makes me feel uneasy. F25 with M42.Honestly sir, I really do not see your point because nowhere did I say it was “immoral”. The whole point of RPW is to encourage women to choose to optimize the best outcome for themselves. A man that only dates extremely young women is probably a red flag for the purpose of a long term marriage. Nothing about morality. Your comment does not seem aligned with using the redpill as a woman and unless you are an endorsed married man you shouldn’t even be contributing here anyway. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/23 08:27 PM |
| 7 | My husband hit on a 19 year old when he was 39, makes me feel uneasy. F25 with M42.It does not make it a guarantee but it makes it much more likely. If a woman cheated in all her relationships she might not cheat on her current partner if they have a strong bond, but perhaps her behaviors do reveal a pattern and likelihood to do it again. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/23 03:47 PM |
| 1 | My husband hit on a 19 year old when he was 39, makes me feel uneasy. F25 with M42.This is exactly it. If he only goes after young women you are at much higher risk of being traded in. If he’s had a variety of different aged women it’s not necessarily a concern | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/03/23 03:44 AM |
| 1 | Boyfriends condescending “jokes”Usually the whole financial situation is an excuse by the man to delay. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/03/23 03:09 PM |
| 3 | Boyfriends condescending “jokes”Agreed. OP is young and is clearly not doing a good job vetting. Her partner sounds like an awful person you don’t want to tie yourself to legally nor live with. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/03/23 03:07 PM |
| 13 | What is the best way to know whether you will be okay to be part of a blended family? (Me F 30, BF M 38)If you don’t have to put yourself in that situation, I would never advise someone to. At 30 you’re not too old to find a man with no children or an ex wife. Blended families are really not for the faint of heart at times, but some people do manage to pull it off. Divorced people often have a lot of baggage and a 20 year relationship with a small child is a lot. The reason why they are no longer together honestly probably matters a lot when considering this decision If you do want to be in this r… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/03/23 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Why do you women act like this?What does this have to do with this subreddit or us? Sounds like you got exposed and you’re angry about it. This isn’t a vent chamber for you | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/03/23 05:07 AM |
| 15 | Banned from subredditI think people associate r/RedPillWomen with all the other redpill subreddits whose members have been pretty delinquent and unpleasant. Unfortunately the new wave of red pilled men are nothing like the original. It’s silly and probably unfair but just make new accounts to go around the bans. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/03/23 05:41 PM |
| 3 | Advice on what to do after reconcillation with an ex boyfriendDrop this. It’s a waste of time and energy and staying friends with your exes looks unattractive to potential suitors. As he doesn’t have any apparent interest in dating you again your grasping for this friendship out of desperation. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/03/23 04:55 PM |
| 40 | Can you attempt dropping the handkerchief more than once or is that desperate?When a man is into you I think there’s never a question. I would just step back from this situation and let him chase if he wants. In the meantime, broaden your horizons to expose yourself to men who will let you stay in your feminine energy because you are sure they want you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/03/23 04:53 PM |
| 6 | Finding the right man has been a very frustrating journey …I definitely agree with you that you shouldn’t be putting all your eggs in this basket as you two live in different countries and he hasn’t indicated anything about moving to live together. Long distance relationships rarely work out, though there is some potential as you visit one another. Would you say that you have somewhat high standards in a man? It might be worth assessing what you use to filter potential romantic partners and ease up on certain areas that could be barring you from finding… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/03/23 10:30 PM |
| 13 | embarrassed to say that I left the man I was trying to build a future withIt’s really serious. Men who engage in sex with other men (trans women are biologically men) are at significantly higher risk for STDs, especially HIV. You don’t want to put yourself at risk any further by sleeping with a cheater who is ashamed of who he is. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/03/23 06:27 PM |
| 30 | embarrassed to say that I left the man I was trying to build a future withHe’s attracted to them for their penis. He’s gay, or maybe bisexual, but he has a fetish for men with makeup on. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/03/23 05:55 PM |
| 41 | embarrassed to say that I left the man I was trying to build a future withYou fell in love with a gay man, it’s not your fault. Under no circumstances should you get back with him. He would only want to be with you because you could act as his beard. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/03/23 05:38 PM |
| 1 | How to stop being angry at exWhy bother trying to be friends with someone who has such poor character? I think it is a waste of time and energy to stay in contact with exes (barring having children together) even if the relationship ended on good terms. So being friends with someone who manipulated you to get what he wanted is out of the question completely. Cut him out completely, block on all social media, and heal. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/03/23 05:09 PM |
| 10 | Tell me this is stupidI’m so confused on what this post even means. Are you guys dating??? You can’t lock down a man, especially if you aren’t even dating. Regardless you should always be working on your appearance and health. | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/03/23 01:53 AM |
| 27 | Would love some advice on how to approach effort/intimacy fading with the man I have been datingHonestly at 26 years old, if you were my dear friend, I would tell you that you do not need to settle for a divorced man who is way older than you and is already showing problematic behavior so early in a relationship. When you hit your mid 30s then I think you might need to diversify your dating pool to include divorced men but right now I wouldn’t. You are in your prime, I would try to vet and seek out a more affectionate man without baggage. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/02/23 08:25 PM |
| 1 | where to shop for feminine clothes that aren’t revealing?Amazon, Old Navy, Uniqlo, and American Eagle are usually my go-to. I also like poshmark and depop | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/02/23 10:55 PM |
| 1 | where to shop for feminine clothes that aren’t revealing?Non-Muslim women probably do not want to appear Muslim. There’s conservative and then there is dressing to Islamic standards. Safe to assume OP is a western woman. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/02/23 10:54 PM |
| 2 | Need AdviceWas there ever a point in which you were attracted to him? If it’s not too personal do you take birth control or any medications that could be effecting your libido? On birth control I lacked sex drive pretty often, though eventually through changes I made it went back to normal. | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/02/23 10:51 PM |
| 32 | I need serious advice, I am the girl that men date before they get into a serious relationshipIf you are doing any of these things, stop immediately: Sleeping with a man when you are not in an established relationship. Doing girlfriend/wife things for men who are not your boyfriend/husband. Entertaining men who say they’re not ready for a relationship. For the right woman a man will be ready. As soon as he seems flop floppy/flakey drop him. At your age it is the time to vet as much as possible as time is on your side. There is 0 reason to waste any of your precious time on a guy who isn’… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/02/23 10:45 PM |
| 6 | Tips for dressing feminine but not polished and classy?I also use Sookie Stackhouse for inspiration! Lol | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/02/23 06:00 PM |
| 7 | A friend is married to a man who refuses to do a job and just sits at home while she brings in a significant pay check & she’s encouraging me to tolerate the same. Thoughts?Seriously unless he has a medical reason to not be working I can’t imagine anything more unattractive in a man. Obviously some women claim to like it but men who do not seek to provide have something biologically faulty with them and that will naturally lead to other issues, usually. The pushiness definitely seems like a cope. OP should definitely be polite and just avoid conversations about this topic with her friend. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/02/23 12:46 AM |
| 0 | Thoughts on “Passport bros”?Male troll is male troll. Western women are not better, but they have more options and opportunities to provide for themselves. They don’t have to choose to date the undesirable men, where as wonderful women in other countries that predatory passport bros flock to may be willing to sacrifice their happiness to make a better life for themselves and their families. I respect the women and it easily could have been me if I wasn’t an American citizen. Also, read community rules as you are not allowe… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/02/23 02:27 PM |
| 5 | Am I doing it wrong?It depends, what are you currently doing with your life? Are you in school, working? Do you have hobbies? | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/02/23 09:45 PM |
| 2 | Im officially engaged 💍Congratulations! | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/02/23 03:17 PM |
| -1 | Thoughts on “Passport bros”?Yeah, yeah. Every defensive dude (who should not be on the woman’s sub as per the rules of the community) has jumped in this thread to describe themselves as these allegedly high value men. No one asked and honestly it just reeks of insecurity. If it doesn’t apply to you you wouldn’t feel the need to defend yourself. Obviously none of us think every international couple involves low value men. Passport bros describe a certain type of man. This is not the space for you and it is disrespectful to … | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/02/23 07:22 AM |
| 1 | Boyfriend Thinks I’m High Maintenance for Wanting Valentine’s Day PlansHopefully not too brutal, I have had my fair share of relationship mishaps and questionable choices and I want to use my past experiences to help women out. It really comes from a place of care and concern. I think many of the women here, including myself, have experienced the same thing as you and had to learn the hard way. Don’t want the same for you or anyone. You deserve better. I think already you are on a good path of improving yourself and your vetting process. My best advice is to always… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/02/23 02:33 AM |
| 6 | Infertility and further studyAgree with this take. Right now your focus should be on falling pregnant. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/02/23 02:21 AM |
| 6 | Infertility and further studyAt 22 months of having consistent sex there is likely a fertility issue going on. Definitely time for the both of you to see a doctor and fast. It’s not unheard of to take a few months to fall pregnant, but 2 years means there is a problem. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/02/23 02:20 AM |
| 6 | Boyfriend Thinks I’m High Maintenance for Wanting Valentine’s Day PlansYou are a placeholder. This man does not love you, he probably doesn’t care about you much. As soon as he finds a woman he likes he will drop you. If I were you, I would not wait around for this to happen and leave with your dignity and find a less cowardly man. It’s not easy, but you are wasting your youth on someone who doesn’t seem to like you. When a man loves you it is a completely different experience and it is worth leaving this familiar, albeit extremely lackluster situation to find some… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/02/23 10:46 PM |
| 6 | Thoughts on “Passport bros”?What about passport bros screams high value men to you? They are unattractive, make low to average incomes, and are generally too unimpressive to be successful in dating women from their own country. They are only successful in poorer countries in Latin America, Asia, and Africa, and sometimes Eastern Europe. And the women are not getting with them for love and admiration. Many of these women eventually will leave once they get what they need. | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/02/23 02:26 PM |
| 9 | Should i move on?Honestly he is probably not into you. In my experience men are very forthcoming when they are romantically interested in a woman. | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/02/23 11:24 PM |
| 2 | What do you guys think of the future for men being single dad's through surrogacy?His whole history is weird. Some financially and mentally unstable pedophile ? | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/02/23 03:11 PM |
| 1 | how to deal with grooming?Your post honestly doesn't even really make sense in the scope of r/RedPillWomen. The most you can do is heal, learn, and have a better vetting process in the future. Best of luck. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/02/23 11:03 PM |
| 2 | how to deal with grooming?Grooming has a specific legal definition. Unless you were a minor or mentally incapacitated, like having a severe case of down's syndrome, it was not grooming. You can play make-believe but nothing you described was illegal. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/02/23 10:57 PM |
| 2 | how to deal with grooming?You were not groomed unless you are mentally handicapped to the point that you can't ethically consent. He can be an abusive manipulator, but there is no grooming and nothing you can do legally. | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/02/23 10:52 PM |
| 2 | RPW SinglesYou probably will not acquire what you view as a 'HVM' unless you are stunningly model gorgeous or a celeb. Being a single mom is one of the most damning things to a woman's inherent marketplace value. You can find a man, but you will have to lower your standards and date an average guy. Which is fine. Average men can be good, kind, and reliable. I absolutely think you should let him go, as he clearly is really not that into you nor is he a principled man. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/01/23 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Husband is leaving(?)Can you confirm that he is actually with a friend? Often when people randomly up and leave their shared homes it is because they have started a relationship with someone else. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/01/23 09:43 PM |
| 6 | Boyfriend wants me to dress sexier and less modestThe advice is literally not welcome based on the subreddit's rules... You are in the women's sub and you should be respectful of the community. Not everywhere needs to be inclusive, both men and women deserve their own spaces. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/01/23 06:53 PM |
| 3 | This subreddit made me realize that there is still hopeWhy are you lying about your age? Just because you deleted the post that proves you are a teenager doesn't mean we didn't see it. Dishonesty is such a huge character flaw, which is just another reason why you can't contribute anything meaningful to this subreddit. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/01/23 03:20 AM |
| 8 | This subreddit made me realize that there is still hopeThe sidebar explains it quite clearly. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/01/23 01:57 AM |
| 9 | This subreddit made me realize that there is still hopeHonestly, it is not respectful to come to a female-centric community and not read the rules before posting. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/01/23 01:56 AM |
| 5 | This subreddit made me realize that there is still hopeI really hope something is done about it, it really ruins the energy of the sub. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/01/23 01:49 AM |
| 10 | This subreddit made me realize that there is still hopeA teenage boy has nothing to offer to RP-minded women trying to better themselves and our relationships. One thing you have to understand is that not every space is meant for you. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/01/23 01:44 AM |
| 14 | This subreddit made me realize that there is still hopeThat's why I said generally, but I suppose I should have made it more clear. OP is a teenage boy that loves Andrew Tate so he definitely should not be contributing here whatsoever | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/01/23 01:43 AM |
| 14 | This subreddit made me realize that there is still hopeI am definitely happy this subreddit gave you hope. However, only endorsed RP men who are married are generally welcome to participate in this subreddit so be mindful of that. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/01/23 01:12 AM |
| 8 | Is it fair.The few male-endorsed contributors are great, but the rest are so aggressive and bitter. They can't accept that not every space is for them and that RPW really has very little to do with the state of TRP. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/01/23 10:47 PM |
| 4 | Is it fair.A woman should know when to shut up and not intervene in male spaces. Men should be respectful of women's spaces. I don't believe in the concept that everyone deserves to be in whatever space they want. I reject absolute inclusivity because it is liberal garbage. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/01/23 10:43 PM |
| 6 | Is it fair.This is not the men's sub. This is the woman's sub. The anger is misdirected and out of place which is why it is being downvoted. No strong man would want to whine and cry to the little ladies just minding our business and discussing how to be better homemakers and good wives. It is unsightly. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/01/23 10:40 PM |
| 3 | Is it fair.I didn't say you are spouting feminist ideology, I am saying you are wrong about your female-chauvinist indoctrination accusations. You are angry and taking it out on the random women here. This is a woman's space, the majority of us our trad and conservative women. Feminists get banned or told to stop posting feminist and blue-pill content. What you are doing is the modern-day equivalent of invading the church ladies knitting club to accuse them of shutting down your boy's club. It is an incred… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/01/23 10:38 PM |
| 6 | Is it fair.It is almost a brigade at this point and it has made the subreddit incredibly toxic. I hope the mods get on top of it and start banning them :[ | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/01/23 09:56 PM |
| 6 | Is it fair.It really doesn't. TRP being quarantined has nothing to do with RPW and it is frankly emasculating for all of the men from that subs still in their anger phase to come to the lady subreddit to harass and make false accusations about the users in said subreddit. Feminist ideology gets shut down immediately here. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/01/23 09:55 PM |
| 2 | BF Meeting Friend He's Slept with BeforeIf you want to live with AIDS for the rest of your life, this is how you do it. Having sex with a man who does drugs and has sex with other men is endangering your health and future prospects. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/01/23 04:13 PM |
| 5 | I believe my husband is resentful of me and I don’t know what to do.No offense, but you are a man and you also seem lost at that so probably should not be offering advice or invading a space for ladies... Calling cooking, cleaning, and doing all the chores, on top of also working a part-time job as OP does the bare minimum is almost insulting. It is the equivalent of fem Nazis saying anything a man does is the bare minimum when we should appreciate a man who works 40 hours a week to provide. Most women will not keep your house spotless as OP does on top of worki… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/01/23 05:26 PM |
| 5 | I believe my husband is resentful of me and I don’t know what to do.If you are doing the majority of the cleaning, and meal preparation, and are mindful of your spending your husband is being completely unreasonable. If this doesn't apply then you may need to adjust your priorities to ensure he is coming home to a clean home. Obviously, he feels overwhelmed with his job and is taking it out on you. Maybe the solution is for him to find a different position. Thought maybe having a smaller commute might fix some of the problems. Have you suggested this to him an… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/01/23 10:15 PM |
| 4 | A Cautionary Tale from an Ex RPWI am not OP and dislike liberal feminism but it seems RPW has lost its way a bit, or at least I think people do not use it in a way that actually prioritizes the happiness and success of a woman first. Too many men are active on this forum. It has gotten worse, and I think it would be for the benefit of just putting a hard NO on men interacting. Or make it so there are threads that men can interact on but bar them from the rest of the sub. Men have their own safe spaces that I would think are tr… | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/12/22 06:45 PM |
| 7 | How to stop obsessionI really don't understand how this advice ends up on this subreddit. Surely there are better things OP could be doing with her prime years than initiating (operating in a traditionally masculine role) and chasing after a guy for who she was just an Instagram booty call. It seems like liberal Feminist advice that really would be shooting a RP-minded woman in the foot. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/12/22 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Weight LossI would recommend a nutritionist if you are struggling to lose weight on your own. Weight loss is dependent on what you eat, not really on how much you exercise. Even though exercise definitely is excellent for you and can aid in a calorie deficit and tone up your body, ultimately it is how many calories you are consuming in a day. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/12/22 05:45 PM |
| 3 | Should a woman go "the extra mile" for a man during the vetting phase? RPW and TRP opinions welcome.Honestly, unless a man is low value in some way and perhaps would see your self-esteem issues as a bonus to easily use you, I think this behavior is going to be very off-putting. I would try to cancel that hotel reservation. It is not a good look at all. It could make you look cheap and desperate. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/11/22 09:01 PM |
| 2 | He’s perfect but not financially stable. Am I wasting my time?Are you trolling? If what you have works for you, that is fine. However most women, especially here, want better for themselves. Your dream life might be your dream situation, or you really are just settling for whatever reason it may be. Should not advocate for women to settle for such a below-mediocre situation though. | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/11/22 06:01 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else experience this?Red pill men and red pill women have different goals, so perhaps you may need to reassess what "redpilling" means. | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/11/22 05:57 AM |
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