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| 22 | Starting to feel hopeless about getting a proposal | ADVICE | princessrorcon | /r/RedPillWives | 02/10/20 03:53 AM |
| 18 | Feeling Down About Uneven Christmas Effort | princessrorcon | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/20 04:48 PM | |
| 2 | RPW NYC Meetup? | LIFESTYLE | princessrorcon | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/10/20 01:43 AM |
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| 3 | I (18f) am confused on how to do my food shop / meal planning whatever... Posted here because I just want some kind woman to guide me. 😊There’s a YouTuber I like who is really good for this kind of thing. Lots of videos on grocery shopping, how to plan for a week of meals, and how to use everything and minimize food waste. His channel is Pro Home Cooks, I’ve learned so much from him! | /r/RedPillWives | 10/10/23 01:42 AM |
| 15 | High demand job is stressing me out, and I am having hard time being light to my husbandI suggest trying to refocus on self-care. My guess is that you don’t want to quit your job; it sounds like you just need to feel good, sometimes, by yourself. Maybe if you’re feeling sad or angry you go get a massage or see a movie instead of coming home right away. Maybe you want to start taking a class you’d really love. Maybe you simply need to ask for some uninterrupted time at home. I also have a hard time not bringing my stressful job home. I find it helps if I have some time to decompress… | /r/RedPillWives | 21/09/21 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Banned from the Christian marriage sub because I suggested someone come here.This exact thing happened to me!! | /r/RedPillWives | 20/07/21 07:13 AM |
| 9 | Just been banned from r/naturalhair for simply commenting under a post here. LOL.Banned from r/Christianmarriage for following here! | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/06/21 02:35 AM |
| 0 | Husband sends me pictures of Instagram models daily, need some adviceI have a strong sense that there may be some exaggeration in this post. I wonder if maybe your husband looks at girls on Instagram and it makes you feel like he wishes you looked that way. I can totally relate. I’m often really insecure about my appearance but it’s important to remember that your husband loves you! It’s totally normal for men to be attracted to other women and to look at them. If he’s not taking any action there’s nothing to worry about. However, you should let him know how it m… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/06/21 02:46 AM |
| 3 | How to purify your mind and body?How did you block all advertisements? This would massively benefit me but I am not tech savy | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/05/21 07:12 PM |
| 2 | Listening to music while homemakingIt’s about love and enjoying the simple things and the occasional lover’s murder, what’s not to like!? | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/04/21 08:33 PM |
| 5 | Listening to music while homemakingI don’t know if you’re into country music but country music. I really love bluegrass especially. It’s usually really wholesome and makes you feel good. There are great bluegrass playlists on Spotify or you can try this playlist of some of my faves! Favorite Bluegrass | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/04/21 08:24 PM |
| 9 | SMV of married womenBroken record as always, but have you tried Laura Doyle? Often when your husband stops paying attention to you it’s because something is going wrong in how you relate to each other. Examine your own behavior and find areas in which you might be mothering him (huge turnoff) and/or controlling him. The control may especially be an issue because you see him as lazy and having let himself go. You can correct this trajectory in your husband by changing your ow behavior. Check out The Surrendered Wife… | /r/RedPillWives | 03/03/21 03:13 AM |
| 12 | My husband is wonderful, but I’m having a hard time seeing past my flaws and being the happy wife he deservesIt’s way more difficult to lose weight if you aren’t getting enough sleep. Cortisol level affect weight loss and you body doesn’t have enough time to reset. Your first step should be to focus on getting more sleep! Try taking a magnesium powder drink or melatonin to help you fall asleep and stay asleep. I’m also in the process of losing about 100lbs and it can be really overwhelming and hopeless but you just have to keep working! | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/02/21 01:05 PM |
| 9 | What can I do that my wife appreciates?This THIS! | /r/RedPillWives | 20/02/21 08:00 PM |
| 2 | What can I do that my wife appreciates?Most women are words of Affirmation and receiving gifts, where most men are quality time and acts of service This is a great suggestion for OP | /r/RedPillWives | 20/02/21 07:39 PM |
| 18 | Annoyed about husband's toilet timeI gotta say I think it's very possible that he's still looking at porn. This sounds like addict behavior; acknowledging the problem but doing nothing about it, being secretive, avoiding responsibility, etc. | /r/RedPillWives | 19/02/21 08:00 PM |
| 11 | The Surrendered Wife and SexI’m not sure things are as grim as the first poster makes them seem. I also have this problem with my boyfriend and find that letting him take the lead is the best way to go about things. However, there is a lot you can do to encourage him. Laura Doyle really emphasizes self care and making yourself look and feel sexy can be part of that. He will be interested in a woman’s form no matter what so show yours off! Work in being appealing to him in every way and he’ll long for you. He is probably so… | /r/RedPillWives | 19/02/21 03:16 AM |
| 16 | Trigger warning dealing with rapeIf you have a hard time finding a therapist who won’t bother you about RP stuff, look for an explicitly religious counselor or even try a pastor. I’m not Catholic but go to a Catholic counseling service so I don’t have to deal with raised eyebrows about my traditional relationship | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/02/21 03:35 AM |
| 3 | How to fall in love with husband again?I feel this should be an auto response, but have you tried Laura Doyle? Read or listen to “The Surrendered Wife.” You’ll find feeling negatively toward your husband is usually rooted in your own behavior and insecurities. It will also teach you how you can get what you want from him by just changing your behavior. Laura Doyle also has a great podcast. Check it out! | /r/RedPillWives | 26/01/21 09:59 PM |
| 1 | I'm a whiny ass bitch with a HUGE victim complex-- Suggest me a book to yank me the fuck out of thatI’ve had a ton of luck with “Fuck Feelings” by Sarah and Michael Bennett. It’s a little harsh but in a really refreshing way. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/01/21 09:55 PM |
| 14 | Men should be more emotionalThis exactly! Men are stable during turmoil, that's why we love/need them!! | /r/RedPillWives | 19/01/21 04:57 PM |
| 4 | Men should be more emotionalMen and women are different. The differences are what makes relationships between us so special and important. I think men should make their feelings clear when they have them, but I think you his it right on the head saying that they don't have a constant stream of feelings or the need to express them like we do. Thank goodness! | /r/RedPillWives | 19/01/21 04:56 PM |
| 5 | Married Male Friend (early 30s M) is Not Allowed to be in Contact with Me (late 20s F)To be honest, I don't have any male friends besides ones I grew up with. My bf is not comfortable with me spending time alone with another man, even sometimes with my best friend from childhood. I love men and spending time with them, so I have built friendships with my bf's close friends, but I would ever spend time with them alone or even text them outside of making plans in which we're all involved. There's just no real reason to be friends with men, unless you are single and trying to build … | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/12/20 04:44 PM |
| 3 | Feeling Down About Uneven Christmas EffortThis is a really good suggestion. Wish I’d thought of it two years ago | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/20 09:58 PM |
| 9 | Feeling Down About Uneven Christmas EffortThanks! I appreciate your info, I'm am totally certain that he really loves me but your comment helped me realize that I am kinda being a jerk about this and I need to get over myself!! Thank you for weighing in. The gifts he gives me are not wrapable and way more valuable than any paycheck could cover! | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/20 05:51 PM |
| 7 | Feeling Down About Uneven Christmas EffortSo he does get me gifts and they're usually very nice and useful gifts that I love and/or use all the time. But I do feel like I have to carefully ratchet my expectations so I'm not disappointed. For example, I desperately want a Kitchenaid stand mixer but I know he would never spend that much on a gift for me. He is definitely making an effort! and he loves me very much, just not Christmas he even says, "Christmas is for you," so, you know, shrug emoji. Actually reading these comments and respo… | /r/RedPillWives | 16/12/20 05:49 PM |
| 6 | DH m/32 says women shouldn’t hold political powerIf this were the only issue I would suggest you let it go. Lots of rp men and women don’t feel women should be in leadership positions because we believe in traditional gender roles. So it’s a pretty straightforward issue. However, given everything else that appears to be going on with you, it sounds like your husband is actually just horrible and taking advantage of your fear of leaving. | /r/RedPillWives | 15/12/20 12:37 PM |
| 19 | Femininity isn’t always about clothing. This video is about the true character and mindset of a feminine womanThis is actually something I've been working on for about five weeks now. I think a lot of femininity is about strict adherence to manners and being very polite. Just kindness and making others comfortable as often as possible. Here are the things I've been working on: -Speaking softly, not yelling, in a pleasant tone (I have a naturally loud voice) -Thinking before I speak (do I really have something to add to the conversation?) -No cursing or use of slurs -Don't engage in gossip (this is so ha… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/10/20 05:38 PM |
| 6 | StoicismAlso, Marcus Aurelius. His book, Meditations comes from his diary and it’s wonderfully helpful. | /r/RedPillWives | 21/10/20 01:34 PM |
| 3 | Birth control?Despite you being a total jerk, it turns out you’re right! I’m sorry, I haven’t taught in eight years and I forgot, how dare I! Here is the correct information. Thanks so much for your help! | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/10/20 04:57 PM |
| 2 | Suggestions for setting up “surrendered wife” support group?We could launch a discord? I would love to be part of this. I just read the book a couple of weeks ago and definitely need a community for support! | /r/RedPillWives | 17/10/20 03:11 AM |
| 8 | Birth control?The best non normal method that will prevent pregnancy before eggs are even released would be the copper IUD. It is 99.8% effective and will not have any other effects on your body. Because it stops ovulation, there is absolutely no relationship between this method and abortion. If you want to stop using condoms without risking pregnancy, this is absolutely your safest bet aside from abstinence. I know this because I taught sex-Ed before I was red pilled. Edit: it turns out I misremembered and t… | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/10/20 05:24 AM |
| 2 | Narcissist ex boyfriend using me as a bait for making his wife jeolous,blocking my feminine journey ,making me crazy.Should I involve my parents in this matter??Wish I could give this an award. Thanks for putting so much thought into your response! I’m not OP but it’s so great to see | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/10/20 03:56 AM |
| 2 | What books are you reading ATM?Good bot! | /r/RedPillWives | 01/10/20 10:57 PM |
| – | Monthly GoalsI plan to lose ten pounds Completely cut out swearing and the use of slurs (including the "r word") Rebuild self confidence by eliminating negative self talk out-loud and internally Make one new friend and spend time with them irl | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/10/20 08:58 PM |
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