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| 3 | Getting the girl insecure about something would make her stick to you. How true is this?You forgot the part where it is psychopathic behavior that makes you a shit person and creates a toxic relationship. If you have to tear other people down and prey on their insecurities for them to feel like they like you, that's low shit. | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 12:18 AM |
| 2 | Has a woman ever shown interest in you first?I've since "retired" from raving, but I loved them when I did go. The amount of people you meet and re-meet, and the girls coming and going were just great for having fun and being social. | /r/seduction | 01/05/22 05:28 AM |
| 9 | Has a woman ever shown interest in you first?For me, if a woman ever gives me the "I want you to approach me" eyes/glance, she is expressing interest first. I've had that a fair number of times, and Im sure you have as well, whether you noticed or not. If you mean they walk up to me and tell me Im attractive or flirt with me, much less common. maybe 1/50 interested women, if that. Ex: I was at a rave festival and had been making out with a girl, who left a sizable hickey on my neck. While I was waiting in line at a bathroom late rthat nigh… | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 10:10 PM |
| 2 | A surgeon once said: When I improve someone’s face they get more woman, it’s not because of his looks but because he believes he looks good.It's not uncommon to see really hot chicks and their sub-average/average boyfriend walking about. | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 03:03 PM |
| 2 | How to play The Rake/ Ideal Lover Combo?This some manipulative shit. | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 06:08 PM |
| 12 | What to do when a girl is obsessed with you and you don’t want herTheres a story about Robert Pattinson having a stalker situation just like you, and he got rid of her by complaining about his life all day whenever he was with her. Basically do that. Be unattractive, lame, needy, clingy, etc. | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 07:30 PM |
| 2 | when I completely ignore attention, girls line up, when i give attention back im ignored.I know you mean well, but it's sad in a strange way that looking for relationship is "low value" and "needy." | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 12:22 AM |
| 1 | “I like tall tatted toxic men who treat me like shit”That is true. I also hate social media tremendously, so I agree with your positioning. My comment was mainly for OP to remind him. | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 04:05 PM |
| 2 | “I like tall tatted toxic men who treat me like shit”Let them. Wouldnt want to be with them anyways. There are people out there who learn to think for themselves and reject all that ya know? Ive dated plenty of white girls, despite them all being indoctrinated by the "nerdy asian bitch boy" stereotypes in every show or movie since the beginning. | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 04:02 PM |
| 20 | “I like tall tatted toxic men who treat me like shit”Social media is not real life. | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 03:39 PM |
| 5 | My favourite date ever if you both like to be active: BoulderingYour advice is top notch though. Ive only taken girls there when we were a bit more serious, and its always been a hit. If it was cheaper, would definitely do it earlier on. | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 05:57 PM |
| 5 | My favourite date ever if you both like to be active: Boulderingits $27 a session, $130 a month where I'm at | /r/seduction | 16/04/22 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Wide eyes, warm smile, curious expression, holding eye contactGood for you, make your own mind on things. | /r/seduction | 12/04/22 05:51 PM |
| 2 | Wide eyes, warm smile, curious expression, holding eye contactI Explicitly said not to scowl or squint too much. "Aspie face" or whatever it is you're talking about is literally not something most people are worried about. Having confidence in your face, with a little bit of slyness in the smile is NOT "aspie face". Having NO facial expressions at all is not good. Acting like a curious, wide-eyed, happy-go-lucky, looking at the sky fake guy is 1) often not authentic and 2) "soy boy" behavior that might get a lot of non-sexual, friendly attention from women… | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 08:04 PM |
| 4 | Wide eyes, warm smile, curious expression, holding eye contactThis is excellent advice... for women. Wide eyes and curious look with a smile is quite literally rule #1 for flirty body language for women. Having a calm, confident resting face (read, no scowling, stone face, or aggressive features), with a slight smile (literally 50% shit eating grin), and strong eye contact is a better way to go. | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 05:50 PM |
| 5 | Trying to get the girl jealous and not giving her much attention has only pushed the girl away from me. Why? Why is it so?... I said dont try to be charming. And this is especially true if youre trying to be something you arent. | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 01:42 PM |
| 11 | Trying to get the girl jealous and not giving her much attention has only pushed the girl away from me. Why? Why is it so?The best pickup technique? Stop playing fucking games. And dont be a "perfect boi" and try to be charming and entertain her either. Genuinely, just put yourself first, be who you are and do what you want. Dont let a girl dictate how you act and behave. Being grounded in yourself, be authentic in yourself, and you will attract the right girls. No need to make her miss you or whatever. | /r/seduction | 28/02/22 01:35 PM |
| 2 | What to do if you hate, dislike or resent women...Absolutely. I fixed some of my issues while I was single, and I thought that I'd gotten rid of all of the "nice guy" issues with myself. I was happy then. I'm in a relationship now that has been struggling a bit, and I had lost myself in it. This book makes it glaringly apparent that I still had many issues (these ones deeper and more tough) to overcome. | /r/seduction | 31/01/22 04:06 PM |
| 42 | What to do if you hate, dislike or resent women...Read "No More Mr. Nice Guy" I'm serious. I didn't think of myself as a nice guy until I realized the true roots of my issue. Similar to yours right now. | /r/seduction | 30/01/22 09:32 PM |
| 4 | How introverts flirt?You know, there are people who are fine being introverts and extroverts, and who don't use it as an "excuse" right? That is who they are as people... I meet and talk with 45+ people every single day, for years, but I'm at heart more introverted and need that time to relax. You're telling me I'm making excuses to not talk to people? Your DNA is quite literally the pre-programming of who you are, taking all of the experience of your ancestors and distilling it into you. You're telling me your DNA … | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 08:26 PM |
| 16 | How introverts flirt?Lmao this is absolutely not true at all. People have natural temperaments they're born with and their external environments only influence where they land within that temperamental range. Example being famous psychology case study about the identical twins separated at birth, who grew up in completely different environments, but ended up nearly the exact same as each other. | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 07:40 PM |
| 1 | How to become more physically attractive?In terms of height, I'm 5'7" and have only ever had problems if the girl is more than 3 or 4 inches taller than me. Just know that some girls wont talk to you because of your height, and others will talk to you regardless. Don't concern yourself with people who wont. In terms of lifting, going to the gym is going to be the best option. But if you really really can't, see if you can invest in a weighted vest. That will add to your own body weight and allow you to progressively load more tension o… | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 04:21 PM |
| 1 | For menThis was so beautiful that I'm gonna go print this out and put it up somewhere as a centerpiece in my house | /r/seduction | 28/11/21 10:04 PM |
| 40 | If all of this is “game” do you ever stop playing? Even after you get in a relationship do you still have to game?Theyre everywhere. The Art of the Superior Man. No More Mr Nice Guy. The Enchiridion. Self-Reliance. If. So on. The core principles of being a man, being a leader, trusting yourself, dealing with others, being a lover, a protector, a father, a warrior, a philosopher. Being grounded, being calm, being confident in the self. Its not about game or getting chicks. Its about striving to be the man you are meant to be. Theres only so much I can write in a Reddit comment, but pickup is just one path to… | /r/seduction | 24/10/21 06:22 PM |
| 80 | If all of this is “game” do you ever stop playing? Even after you get in a relationship do you still have to game?As I read once, once you get into a relationship, you need to really become the man you are practicing to be. It is the true test of the core principles of pick up. The gamey pick up BS is not really the core of what we should be aiming for. | /r/seduction | 24/10/21 05:03 PM |
| 134 | what does it mean when a girl's friends pull her away from talking to you?You've got to game the whole group. If you solo up a girl and ignore her friends, her friends will pull her away. They don't know you, and they're being good friends by protecting the girl from you. If you talk to all of them and gain their trust a bit, and they can see that you're a high value guy, when you make the transition and separate from the group with her, they'll be more ok with it. Edit: If the girl says she'll text you, but the friends don't like/know you, they'll tell her to not tex… | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 03:32 AM |
| 3 | Should I text a girl after a hookup(no sex)?Exactly. If I used OPs definition, my "hookup" count would literally 10x higher than my actual count. | /r/seduction | 05/09/21 06:07 PM |
| 23 | Should I text a girl after a hookup(no sex)?Just for reference, Hookup usually exclusively means sex, so it makes zero sense to say "Hookup (no sex)" | /r/seduction | 05/09/21 02:37 PM |
| 29 | Need a smooth answer for when she asks the question "Who do you think you are?"Sounds like you're gonna give her commitment issues, then break her legs lmao | /r/seduction | 24/08/21 11:38 PM |
| 1 | If you were me, where would you take this conversation?Ohhh ok. Dude that sucks Ive never even thought about tindering near a border. Just do the Niagra Falls thing, big isnt bad. Otherwise, id personally wonder if its worth it dealing with the cross country stuff | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 01:13 AM |
| 1 | If you were me, where would you take this conversation?Can you explain to me how meeting at a lake/park is more difficult than at a major wonder of the world? Genuinely confused | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 01:09 AM |
| 1 | If you were me, where would you take this conversation?Offer to have a doggo date, get her number/snapchat. Take em on a walk at a park that has plenty of other things to see/do (ex: ice cream, art shops, etc.). Easy peasy. | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 12:53 AM |
| 13 | The Importance of Being Good in BedGood bot | /r/seduction | 24/07/21 11:34 PM |
| 18 | The Importance of Being Good in Bedbro what do you mean bro, I squat 6969 lbs 5 sets x 1 rep and have a large-sized salami in my pants, but I can't satisfy anyone bro what bro | /r/seduction | 24/07/21 11:29 PM |
| 9 | [deleted by user]Spend more time around girls. Whether in a platonic or a romantic way. Unless youre a real hard case, spending lots of time with women (or whatever makes you anxious) will eventually make you less anxious. Even saying out loud that you feel anxious/awkward can make it less of a "no no" thing. It happens, we're all human. Once you get less anxious, and you learn theyre human through experience, itll click. | /r/seduction | 21/07/21 11:35 PM |
| 1 | 16 Commandments of Poon by Chateau Heartiste: Tips for MenYes, insecure and childish girls like to be manipilated and toyed with. But not nearly all women. | /r/seduction | 01/07/21 02:41 PM |
| 2 | 16 Commandments of Poon by Chateau Heartiste: Tips for MenThis is exactly what I wanted to say. This is all psychological manipulation and creating a fake self to dominate relationships. "The way of the supperior man" described it best as Type 2 masculinity/independence, which isnt fully formed and which wont give you really satisfying relationships. It creates a relationship where a woman is constantly doting on the man, which can be annoying. | /r/seduction | 01/07/21 02:39 PM |
| 0 | The nuclear bomb to any shit testrEpEaT wHaT sHe SaYs iN a MoCkiNg WaY Shut up nerd | /r/seduction | 19/05/21 04:51 AM |
| 644 | As a younger guy, am I going to regret avoiding casual sex when I'm older?Regret is in every part of your life. Youre gonna regret not going out and getting all that ass. Youre gonna regret catching that STI. Youre gonna regret not meeting your wife cause you were too afraid. Youre gonna regret missing your chance with your wife because you were too busy messing around. You gotta decide what makes you happy now and what you think will make you happy in the long run. Trust the process, you are where you need to be. If you feel you need to move towards chasing women for… | /r/seduction | 07/05/21 04:24 PM |
| 2 | [Likeability] My wing and I are gaming the same girls separately, and I notice my wing is getting better reactions from the girls. We’re both being authentic and I guess my natural friendly personality isn’t as likeable as his. Is this possibly out of my control?1) You are so deep into the theory and being/emulating the RSD guys that the post is borderline obsessive 2) You are overthinking everything 3) You are basing your success on the girl and her response to you 3a) It almost seems like you would be willing to change how you act if that meant a more positive reaction 4) You are unaware of this all Edit: I dont mean to be an asshole with all this, but dude, yes, all people are different. But when youre talking about your vibe and your authenticity ge… | /r/seduction | 06/05/21 12:40 PM |
| 1 | [Likeability] My wing and I are gaming the same girls separately, and I notice my wing is getting better reactions from the girls. We’re both being authentic and I guess my natural friendly personality isn’t as likeable as his. Is this possibly out of my control?This post is the difference between you and your friend | /r/seduction | 06/05/21 12:36 PM |
| 3 | POV:- You are here because you don't have good genetics.Imagine reducing women to just their looks and wondering why someone would "settle" for an average looking person over a model. Ive met a handful of amateur models and none were "mother of my future children" material. | /r/seduction | 12/03/21 03:53 AM |
| 1 | “we don’t really care what you say when you’re flirting with us, it’s about how attractive and confident you are”The only thing I have control of is myself. So I will act accordingly. The onus of change is in the person who is suffering. If a women continues to be beaten by her husband, it is his fault for beating her AND her fault for staying. She cannot control him and force him to stop. She can control herself and do something about the issue. I have no control over another person, nor of what society may or may not say. So I will act accordingly. You are the part of society that blames everyone and eve… | /r/seduction | 17/02/21 02:24 PM |
| 1 | “we don’t really care what you say when you’re flirting with us, it’s about how attractive and confident you are”Find a better woman. | /r/seduction | 15/02/21 09:01 PM |
| 1 | To the guys who hook up with a lot of chicks, what do you think you do differently?I think you think too much. Relax and just focus on having fun and moving toward your goals. | /r/seduction | 07/02/21 03:15 PM |
| 1 | How do men release their emotions?Write. Meditate. Talk with friends. Music. | /r/seduction | 04/02/21 06:36 PM |
| 1 | “we don’t really care what you say when you’re flirting with us, it’s about how attractive and confident you are”Im a dude dipshit | /r/seduction | 01/02/21 12:55 PM |
| 7 | “we don’t really care what you say when you’re flirting with us, it’s about how attractive and confident you are”Who gives a fuck about a womens expecations? If Im following my purpose and fulfilled with my life, what else matters? Some chick doesnt think im man enough? ok she can fuck off. Ill keep doing my thing. You think trying to be a good man is what leads to male suicide but expectations of toxic masculinity doesnt? Ok. Good luck with that. | /r/seduction | 28/01/21 01:03 AM |
| 4 | “we don’t really care what you say when you’re flirting with us, it’s about how attractive and confident you are”Striving for a good and virtuous life and aiming to be a good man is not the cause of suicide. Having high aims and lofty goals is not the cause of suicide. Nor is the shortcoming of those goals and expectations the cause of suicide. Emotional repression and an inability express and resolve emotions and traumas in a healthy way lead to suicide (Toxic masculinity). Living a worthless life doing nothing but pleasure seeking leads to suicide (just being worthless). Ignorance and stubbornness in the… | /r/seduction | 28/01/21 12:45 AM |
| 2 | “we don’t really care what you say when you’re flirting with us, it’s about how attractive and confident you are”And this little summary hardly captures them all. | /r/seduction | 28/01/21 12:26 AM |
| 60 | “we don’t really care what you say when you’re flirting with us, it’s about how attractive and confident you are”One is being an abusive prick who thinks hes entitled to a womans body and is loud and obnoxious and arrogant. Usually drinks and smokes and wants to fight and does shit that seems hypermasculine just because. The other is a strong, humble, confident man who has a full life of value and connection to his purpose, and is a leader, caring, inspiring, protecting, providing, for the people in his life and beyond. At least this is how I see the difference. | /r/seduction | 27/01/21 02:38 PM |
| 4 | What tricks can I use to fool girls into thinking that I have other options, and am not easily replaceable?By not being a manipulative dude who uses psychological tricks to "make a girl" do things. | /r/seduction | 27/01/21 01:16 AM |
| 3 | What tricks can I use to fool girls into thinking that I have other options, and am not easily replaceable?Welcome to the real world. Be the best version of you. Have more options. If you find a girl you like and who likes you, make a relationship with her. If she leaves you, fuck her. Move on to other options. Dont get hooked on any one girl because there are a million others out there. There is no such thing as a desirable girl nobody else is vying for. Hack it or get out of the game. | /r/seduction | 27/01/21 01:09 AM |
| 3 | What tricks can I use to fool girls into thinking that I have other options, and am not easily replaceable?Have other options. | /r/seduction | 27/01/21 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Losing interest in girls after they become available to meYou might have commitment issues, just based on your history and how it looks like you're suffering now and you go emotionally numb once you start to sense things getting more serious. Getting some professional mental health could really help. | /r/seduction | 02/01/21 11:00 PM |
| 3 | Whats your routine for getting into a mindset for pickingup?Just remind myself that these are important and to practice portraying them. Just reminding myself of the rules almost | /r/seduction | 31/12/20 05:05 AM |
| 8 | Whats your routine for getting into a mindset for pickingup?Because my goal is to be a better man, not just get laid. | /r/seduction | 30/12/20 08:01 PM |
| 7 | Whats your routine for getting into a mindset for pickingup?Picked up over several years of reading and use. I wish I could find the original article for the values/atrributes, it was a whole in depth guide to pick up. Oh well. General 1) Body Language 2) Eye Contact 3) Vocal Tonality 4) Vibe 5) Intent Values/Attributes 1) Confidence 2) Dominance 3) Warmth 4) Humor 5) Whatever else you want to add Affirmations (my least favorite, but it works for low self esteem) 1) I am the highest value person in this place 2) Everyone here loves me 3) All these girls … | /r/seduction | 30/12/20 02:30 PM |
| 13 | A quote from MusashiYou should read "Self Reliance" by Emerson if you want a deep dive into the idea. Ne Te quæsiveris extra. | /r/seduction | 28/12/20 09:35 PM |
| 2 | Point of View of a Woman: Why Most of this Doesn’t WorkThis is a funny opinion. While it may not work for YOU, this works for a lot of other women. And I don't know if this subreddit is a good representative of pick up. I've only been here for a few months, but real "PUA" concepts typically don't rely on texting games, negging, or petty mind games. Being honest and forthcoming might work if you are already attracted to the guy. Doesn't work for many many dudes because they don't have the fundamental attractiveness base needed to reach that. While it… | /r/seduction | 21/12/20 08:00 PM |
| 3 | How important is it to be able to defend yourself and your partner under the threat of violence?What everyone here has said is really good. Another word of note, make sure you keep your chill even after you've gained said gun/training/whatever. You should not feel safe even if you have those things, because in the chaos of those kinds of situations anything can happen. You can have a handgun and still get hit over the head with a bottle from behind, etc. And if you do end up getting into an altercation and handle yourself just fine, if you KO a dude and he tombstones and bounces his head o… | /r/seduction | 02/12/20 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Lowering social anxiety in public spaces and finding the courage to talk to girls by not putting on a mask.If I so felt like it, I could wear a helmet when I drive. But me wearing a helmet in my car won't have any affect on if I kill someone else or not. It's pretty clear you are avoiding every point and twisting the conversation. I never once argued to engage yourself in every minor inconvenience for your own sake, but I am arguing to do it for the sake of a potential MAJOR protection for others. Sum and point: think about others for once. If wearing a mask has scientifically been proven to help red… | /r/seduction | 01/12/20 10:51 PM |
| 2 | Lowering social anxiety in public spaces and finding the courage to talk to girls by not putting on a mask.I do wear a bike helmet when I bike. And I drive at the speed limit, which is determined to be safe enough to protect drivers given the road. I also stop at stop signs and don't run reds.... Literally... just following the law. Dude the fuck are you on about? Are you just some dude who breaks all the laws just cause? | /r/seduction | 01/12/20 10:43 PM |
| 1 | Lowering social anxiety in public spaces and finding the courage to talk to girls by not putting on a mask.I actually do. Taking after Japanese culture, who didn't have such explosive rates of COVID. | /r/seduction | 01/12/20 10:41 PM |
| 2 | Lowering social anxiety in public spaces and finding the courage to talk to girls by not putting on a mask.Re-infection is possible. So is your influence on other's by not wearing a mask, encouraging similar selfish tendencies in those who can spread it. "I believe someone's safety is their own business. If you think my choice not to drive sober puts you at risk, I would argue you must not be driving a car that is protective enough to keep you safe. It's insane to expect everyone else in public to keep you safe from car crashes." -tropicislandexplorer's logic It's a mask. It's literally the smallest … | /r/seduction | 01/12/20 10:31 PM |
| 2 | Lowering social anxiety in public spaces and finding the courage to talk to girls by not putting on a mask.Masks aren't about your health. People wear them to stop spread to people who won't be as lucky if they catch what you have. | /r/seduction | 01/12/20 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Are guys in typically in their peak both physically and when it comes to picking up girls from 25 to 36?Biologically speaking your testosterone levels start to decline at 30, you definitely dont peak physically in that window | /r/seduction | 01/11/20 02:35 PM |
| 2 | Advice from any 5’6-5’7 men?Im 5'7" and the majority of the women I have been with have been taller than me. If anything helped me itd be this. Some of the most legendary, most influential people in the world are 5'7 " or 5'8". Leo Messi, Bruce Lee, Scarface, Floyd Mayweather Jr., etc etc. Lots of power in this height. | /r/seduction | 02/10/20 01:30 PM |
| 2 | What the hell happened to the PUA community?Idk where you are from, but in the US, that is the dominant and growing sentiment in society. Men are hated for existing, and the thought of teaching men to be sexually confident social beings would be equated to furthering the patriarchy. It's not everywhere, and certainly seems bad looking at the news, but it's growing for sure. | /r/seduction | 29/09/20 11:48 PM |
| 8 | I am convinced the vast majority of dating / “seduction” advice is utter bullshit as long as you follow basic common sense guidelinesWhat seems pretty basic and common sense to you might not be for others. There are some very clueless people out there, us included. | /r/seduction | 10/09/20 12:45 AM |
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