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You are joking but this is what she really wanted. I was sleeping when she called, otherwise I would probably have gone, I am a sucker for emotional sex haha but I always regret it later
/r/askTRP01/10/20 03:30 AM
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Shit happens, and as you get older it happens more (I am 44yo, and it happens 25% of the time with a new plate, while almost never with ongoing plates). Next time my suggestion is not to push it, and stop before taking your pants off. This will look ‘intriguing’ for the girl. The girl is insecure and she is subconsciously trying to put it on you. Play it cool,m. What I’d do (but that is personal, you may want to use your own style) is to make a big deal about it, with a positive spin. I’d say “m…
/r/askTRP30/09/20 11:56 PM
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I think he is a troll mate, it is not worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 07:58 AM
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I believe personal attacks are against the rules of this sub.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 07:24 AM
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Yes, you are right. I can only talk about my personal experience. My point is that the Red Pill pushes men to aim to be alphas, which is not wrong in itself. But the “alpha” attitude is not always the best option.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 07:22 AM
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So you don’t agree on my post or you just want to attack me personally?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/20 07:18 AM
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Is an escort really the only option for a Red puller at the end of the road? That sounds sad
/r/askTRP10/07/20 10:05 PM
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I asked to this forum because if I ask to relationship advice they will jump on my neck, and anyway they have no idea. I don’t care about my emotional baggage because it is not my problem. They either accept it or they can find some other dude. I cannot change that, so why worry? I am not into prostitution or into sugar daddy. It is not a moral thing, it is just that does not turn me on. And you are very much right about relationships, it takes time! And it takes also a few takes before to find …
/r/askTRP10/07/20 09:19 AM
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Never gave a fuck about socially acceptable. The only people who complains are the older girls. But most young girls will always see you as a sexual object if you are more than double her age, which is good for me now but what about in few years?
/r/askTRP10/07/20 09:13 AM
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Fuck I am so happy not to be a teenager in this generation.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 09:11 AM
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I am the original OP so I can clarify some aspect of this story. I know the ex, even if not that well, and he is a pretty strange dude. I actually discovered that this girl was now single because one of my old plates asked me infos about this guy, saying that he was stalking her and send her dick pics and being extremely insistent to meet. The guy is also a pretty uneducated, manual work kind of dude. Very charismatic, but definitely obsessed with his own body. The girl in question come from an …
/r/askTRP10/07/20 08:49 AM
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Heal first... meditation is under rated. I use the app Head Space. Work out is key for many reasons. It is not only about looking good. You can do fitness but make sure to add some heavy lifting to increase your testosterone. Testosterone is key for confidence, concentration and memory. Career and social life are also very important but they are also linked to your emotional health, so prioritize your body and mind first. Stay away from porn (it is super important), but don’t feel bad to fap eve…
/r/askTRP10/07/20 07:20 AM
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Forget the lingerie man, and check her shaving schedule. That never lies. If she shave her legs and pussy before going to her parents you know what it mean.. it is easy to wear a lingerie to tease you, but no girl would shave her pussy if she is not expecting sex. It is painful and it is bad for the skin of done too often
/r/askTRP10/07/20 05:27 AM
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Hahaha you are overthink it. I have a date with a 19yo next week, and I am 44.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 05:23 AM
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Man, sorry to say that but you are not dating material right now. Even if she comes back to you, you will fuck it up. It happened to me in the past, so I know it too well. Right now all you can really do is to work on yourself, forget girls and get better. It is going to be lonely as fuck and really hard, but you are a man, you have to act like one. Things will change... it may take weeks, months or (hopefully not) years, but if you work hard on it you can get back on top of your game. Harder yo…
/r/askTRP10/07/20 05:11 AM
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If you had a fun time in bed, and you already gave her an opening for the next time, than you should wait. Usually men should lead until the first time having sex, as you are just one of the options for a girl. But after having sex, the girl is the one who usually is more emotionally involved. Don’t lose the balance. If she does not text you in a couple of weeks, than probably this is the end of it. At that stage you could try with a follow up like “I am having a party / going to this place / wa…
/r/askTRP10/07/20 05:01 AM
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Yeah but the quality of the girls I will be dating will undoubtedly lower over time... until my pull to choose from will not meet my standards anymore. Should I squeeze the lemon until all the juice is out or plan for the next phase of my life? This is purely theoretical as I don’t have anyone in mind for a long time commitment rn
/r/askTRP10/07/20 04:51 AM
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At this point? All I want is a hot ass and some fun... my insecurity is for my old age... when is the right time to screen for a companion?
/r/askTRP10/07/20 04:27 AM
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While I am open to have another kid, that is not my point. I already have one and I don’t “need” more, even if it would be nice. I guess my point is: should I get an older quality girl to stick with me when I will be old and wrinkly or keep fucking hot girls until the end? I expect that I reached my peak and even if I will pull few hot asses in the years to come, the quality inevitably will start to go down
/r/askTRP10/07/20 04:23 AM
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Yeah my last LTR was 24, and I met her when she was 20. Sex was amazing and I kept my share of side girls, and some of them end up with threesomes with my partner. I guess that when we broke up few months ago, she pointed out that anyway I was fun but “too old” to marry. Maybe she just got into my frame and I am overthinking it
/r/askTRP10/07/20 04:20 AM
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Man, you are an inspiration!
/r/askTRP10/07/20 04:17 AM
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Yes I know. And even if they don’t, you may end up having to look after the woman for most of my old age, like my father has been looking after my mother, which is suffering from health issues. I have a son which I adore and even if I am open to have more children in the future, my DNA lineage is safe already. But still... dying at 80 or 90yo (my whole family live long and I have many relatives in the late 90s) after decades of solitude is fucking scary
/r/askTRP10/07/20 02:44 AM
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The problem is that I don’t want stability in life right now, but I am aware that it is going to be harder and harder to find stability in the future. I was married before and when my ex wife got depressed for 5yrs after our son was born, I stayed with her until she was mentally healthy again. Only then I left her. During that time we stopped having sex and I banged few chicks on the side. It sounds fun but it is not... I hated to go back home to my son still smelling of pussy.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 02:39 AM
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Yeah, there are ways around it. I know of guys in their late 50s that still bang hot chicks, and use Testosterone replacement therapy to keep their body looking great and healthy. But even there... I expect to live until my 80s...
/r/askTRP10/07/20 02:32 AM
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Dangerous though... if she knows that crying gets her a weekend away, you are training her to do it again. I am not saying that OP should not put the effort, but it is a tight rope to walk on
/r/askTRP09/07/20 01:08 PM
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Shit man, I hate to admit that you are right on almost all points... the reason I asked this question here is because I did not want a “nice” answer, but the raw truth, and you delivered. I am dating two other girls and another two plates are on the making, so I don’t have oneitis, but it is true that a damaged girl get my “nice guy” beta instinct to come up in force. I consider myself a decent human being but I am very dominant with my girls, still this one got through my frame with the sob sto…
/r/askTRP09/07/20 12:57 PM
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Good to see your point mate, lots of truth in it. Balance is everything in life
/r/askTRP09/07/20 12:47 PM
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Sorry to tell you man, you went to the wrong school
/r/askTRP09/07/20 06:35 AM
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It sucks that people are giving you shit just because you use BMI. From someone who is exclusively with skinny girls (my kink) appreciate it. Anyway it sucks to go back in the scale. Few months ago I broke up with a solid 8 super skinny girls after 4 years, and the first time I went with a lower grade girl (6) I could not get a proper erection!!! Give it time though, and try to shoot to the higher value girls while you wait. Still worth for me, a proper 8 is worth 10 fatter chicks
/r/askTRP09/07/20 06:30 AM
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That is called pre screening. Girls notice other girls more than even men... if you enter a party with the most beautiful girl, all other girls will notice you, and consider you potentially higher value.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 06:23 AM
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Harsh words but with a lot of truth. Of course you don’t know me so you don’t know what girls I attract. I am pretty straight shooter and tell things how they are. All the rest is true though, feelings don’t dry girls, fake feelings do
/r/askTRP09/07/20 06:20 AM
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I agree that NoFap can actually be negative. It creates too much expectation and too much stress each relapse. There is a balance though... masturbate only maybe once a week and only thinking to girls you want to fuck but you did not fuck yet. And take your time, do it slowly and avoid too much pressure (dead grip)
/r/askTRP09/07/20 06:12 AM
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It was a shitty fuck (my fault) and she did not come back the day after...
/r/askTRP09/07/20 05:49 AM
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Yes but in my experience being empathetic of their feelings makes girls dry... there must be a balance between a psychopath and a white knight somewhere...
/r/askTRP09/07/20 05:47 AM
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I mean, she is going through a rough patch and she shared with me. I end up being the “good listener” which is usually reserved to orbiters. But in that case it felt right. But I see your point, I am playing with fire here. It sucks because even if I have a couple more plates ATM she is my kind of hot.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 05:46 AM
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Yeah... fuck! Thanks for the wake up call
/r/askTRP09/07/20 05:41 AM
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This is so true, and normally I would. But she seem mentally stable, really smart and she has an incredible ass... also I don’t plan to get into a relationship.
/r/askTRP09/07/20 01:22 AM
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Agreed. This is also the reason to keep your game active even if you have a partner. I am not saying that you should fuck around when you are in a relationship, but you should keep your female hunting muscle memories trained. Keep orbiters around Recently I had a tough reminder, I mutually broke up with my LTR gf of 4 years. During this time she kept her Instagram very active, and all her orbiters around, while I did not. She was not cheating on me but like all young and beautiful girls she love…
/r/TheRedPill13/05/20 11:57 AM
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This post is perfect! Thank you. Approaching a girl in the right way is a Sales skill, and having a good SM is a marketing skill. You can sell yourself without marketing? Yes sure, but why make it harder for yourself? When girls match you on Tinder, they will do a pre selection based on your SM. They have unlimited guys to choose from, and SM is one of the tools they will use to choose the next chad. I also found that you can get a better impression of the girl real face on SM if you dig deep en…
/r/TheRedPill07/05/20 01:01 AM
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