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| 1 | Do many RPers still support Trump after the last few weeks?I think it's funny how the people who are all over Trump's balls believe that he actually cares about the little guy Especially given his cabinet picks and lack of concrete plans to help the little guy. He was a con man in business and he will be a con man in office. The working class' infatuation with him is mind blogging. Is it because he talks like a doge meme? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/17 07:05 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Captain/first mate ideology is just a polite way of saying I can't be happy in a relationship unless I have my way 100% of the time.A fundamental truth of all relationships is that one person leads the relationship This is fundamentally untrue. It is the nature of some relationships, but not all. But insisting on perfect 50/50 equality So called egalitarian relationships aren't perfectly 50-50 equal. That would imply that every topic or problem, there is an equal compromise, which is practically impossible. It would also imply that everyone cares about every topic or problem equally, which is also not realistic. No, what it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/17 06:49 AM |
| 4 | What are the lies that society tell us in regards to dating/sex?We even celebrate real life instances of it as if this is how it should be Yes, but the reason for this is that it's ingrained in our psychology. Higher apes possess the concept of fairness. It is an evolutionary trait that makes its appearance in highly social creatures, the same way that traits of empathy and 2nd point of view do. We derive an actual neurologically pleasurable sensation from watching deserving people get punished, and we derive actual sensations of anger when people cheat. The… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/17 05:47 PM |
| 1 | It's odd to complain that movies aren't real life when they cater to your fantasies.Advice for men AND women downplays the importance of looks because those giving the advice are less concerned with % of success and more concerned about quality of relationships. They figure most people would have the social skills and social cognizance to get themselves to the point of having a couple of options, at which point their advice becomes important for determining quality. Like I said, most of this advice is not intended for hook up culture because back then, hook up culture didn't ex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/17 04:04 PM |
| 7 | It's odd to complain that movies aren't real life when they cater to your fantasies.Seriously. And even in that case, the movie portrays the Beast as an exceptionally caring man, and Belle as an exceptionally intelligent woman. The message to take away from that is to not judge a book by it's cover, but not that a beautiful woman will always wind up with an ugly man. In fact, I'm pretty sure most of the village thought Belle was insane for not wanting Gaston. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/17 04:45 AM |
| 16 | It's odd to complain that movies aren't real life when they cater to your fantasies.It's also odd to complain about movies when so many of them state the so-called truth. For example, most of us grew up on Disney movies. Those are typically considered the earliest messages of romance we receive. Well, did Cinderella or Jasmine ever fall for the derpy, chubby, average dude? Did Aladdin or Eric fall for the uglier sisters? Why didn't Esmeralda get with the Hunchback? No one lied to these people. Maybe they overemphasized the importance of niceness or personality, especially in ho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/17 04:38 AM |
| 1 | How will Trump's Presidency change gender relations, feminism, etc?Not likely. ? Trump has explicitly said he will do this, and his cabinet picks certainly illustrate that's the direction he's going in. Only difference is bill was a liberal hero, but the liberals will be upset when Trump does it Trump will go further than Bill Clinton in this regard. He's also looking to eliminate regulatory committees which Clinton did not, and he's doing it at a time that it doesn't make sense to do that, whereas Clinton responded adequately to a time in which it was necessar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/17 05:47 PM |
| 7 | How will Trump's Presidency change gender relations, feminism, etc?The extreme left/SJW is the bane of left/progressive movements. If there's one thing I hope to get out of a Trump presidency, it's that their influence will be decreased, allowing for the actual voice of the left/progressive side to be heard, which a lot more people could identify with and which doesn't strive to alienate people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/17 05:44 PM |
| 14 | Evolutionary Psychology DebateI don't need to, I double majored, and one of my majors was evolutionary psychology, at a school renowned for their biopsychology fields. I am well familiar with evolutionary psychology, the actual field, and their goals and methodology. What you should read is "How to Think Straight About Psychology," by Keith Stanovich, which will really demonstrate to the extent to which the field of evolutionary psychology and the media coverage of evolutionary psychology are disconnected. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/17 05:40 PM |
| 2 | How will Trump's Presidency change gender relations, feminism, etc?The only problem people have with the emails was that their release was weaponized, not the release itself, and that Trump/his supporters dont seem to care. And the reason why that's a problem is that when information is weaponized, there's an agenda that you don't know about. To use your example, what if the person who gave you the information about your spouse cheating was actually your coworker with whom you are competing for a promotion? Sure, it's good that they gave you the info, but you s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/17 05:38 PM |
| 7 | How will Trump's Presidency change gender relations, feminism, etc?The GOP can be a champion for the middle class, but the current generation of the GOP party is deeply in favor of corporate interests, which unregulated, are definitely not middle class interests. And it's only getting worse, because you have a huge portion of the voting base that doesn't understand issues. All they have to do is point the finger - minorities, ISIS, globalization, Obama, blah blah blah, while they chip away at the few existing regulations we have that exist to protect the middle… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/17 05:31 PM |
| 5 | How will Trump's Presidency change gender relations, feminism, etc?This is right. Clinton depended too heavily on moralistic arguments, many of which have worn out their meaning thanks to SJW's or while addressing a voter base that doesn't care much for them. Sanders did both. He argued the moralistic argument and the factual, practical argument. "We shouldn't do this because it's bad and undemocratic, but also, it would be disastrous financially." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/17 05:26 PM |
| 3 | How will Trump's Presidency change gender relations, feminism, etc?Or the focus on moralistic arguments. If people shared those views, they'd be on your side. They obviously don't, so you need a different strategy to convince others. It was incredibly frustrating to watch Hilary debate immigration, where her argument was, "We should offer amnesty because we should." Better arguments to convince undecided voters would have been to discuss the financial repercussions of going with Trump's immigration policy, financial value immigrants bring to small businesses, a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/17 05:24 PM |
| 3 | How will Trump's Presidency change gender relations, feminism, etc?hey fucking conspired with the Clinton campaign The irony of talking about conspiracy in relation to the Clinton campaign while defending the Trump campaign... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/17 05:19 PM |
| 6 | How will Trump's Presidency change gender relations, feminism, etc?but I think there's a lot more Trump supporters who "do their own research" I disagree. Many things that Trump supports believe he stands for or plans to do is in direct opposition to what he himself says he will do, let alone his actions. Also, Trump isn't exactly an open candidate either. I think in the last two months most people who oppose Trump have moved on from "he says stupid shit" and are more concerned about where his loyalties lie. But many of his supporters seem unwilling to ask them… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/17 05:17 PM |
| 11 | Evolutionary Psychology DebateAgreed, but the way people talk about evolutionary psychology is also incorrect. We are not animals programmed to only operate on evolutionary drives. Evolutionary psychology mainly focuses on identifying phenomenon in our behavior and tracking them down through the animal kingdom. It recognizes that many of the mechanisms through which our brain operates on has been bestowed upon us through evolution, but that we also have unique adaptations such as a large frontal lobe that impacts behavior ju… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/17 05:09 PM |
| 3 | Blue Pills: Have you tried any Red Pill strategies?The entire time? Or only after some time had passed? Loss of interest came gradually. Typically connectedness grows over the course of a relationship. As the relationship progressed, there was a greater and greater disparity in terms of where we should be in intimacy and where we were. The point at which I lost interest, I was apathetic about the future of the relationship. That came immediately following the reaching of that threshold. Passive dread is still dread even if it feels okay to you. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/17 05:54 PM |
| 4 | Blue Pills: Have you tried any Red Pill strategies?You didn't know you had him, so eventually, you let him go, he failed to give you enough comfort. The implication with this is that I was somehow still pining for him or that I did it unwillingly. I lost interest because there was nothing to substantiate interest. The letting him go part came happily. But that's precisely why dread is a bad strategy. You're going to get a similar reaction with most non-BPD women. Passive dread (a term which doesn't really need to exist, because it's really not a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/17 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Blue Pills: Have you tried any Red Pill strategies?Oh ok. I didn't know reading comprehension now involves cherry picking grasping for straws. Thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/17 05:25 PM |
| 2 | Blue Pills: Have you tried any Red Pill strategies?Ok, how did you go from the post above saying there are common sense parts to TRP, and most of the original stuff is not common sense and mostly paranoia, and then conclude he/she said "TRP is common sense?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/17 05:10 PM |
| 8 | Blue Pills: Have you tried any Red Pill strategies?Not a blue pill man, but I can lend you some insight on why men are blue pill vs red pill when addressing this: I'm just curious as to if you've seen the effect on women that a simple day of no contact dread can do. How can one saying not texting her for a day is abusive? When I was a teenager, my very first boyfriend at times would employ dread to keep me interested, I guess. At first, it worked, because I was an insecure teenager. But you see, using that strategy to keep a woman interested mea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/17 05:07 PM |
| 6 | Blue Pills: Have you tried any Red Pill strategies?Talk about selective reading. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/17 04:54 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Incel-Saturday Megathread (07 January 2017)To expand on the latter, I think also many FA type men will also pursue women that aren't great options or are incompatible with, for the opportunity to check off those boxes. I have known a FA type friend who went on a girl he 1) didn't think was that attractive, 2) didn't really have much in common with, and 3) thought was boring. But she said yes, so they went out. Unsurprisingly the date was an awkward mess and there wasn't a second one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/17 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Intimacy in Relationships. Why does it disappear over time and how can this be prevented?Oh, sorry, the last part of the comment was directed at someone else who said something similar to you, I just didn't want to type out everything again. But yeah I didn't mean to say it's men's fault. Just the way the system is functioning right now tends to encourage women to opt for the cock carousel more than the alternative. Women still have a choice to join it or not, it's just for a lot of women it's more convenient to jump on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/17 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Intimacy in Relationships. Why does it disappear over time and how can this be prevented?https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/5m1mc5/intimacy_in_relationships_why_does_it_disappear/dc3a1uj/?utm_content=permalink&utm_medium=api&utm_source=reddit&utm_name=frontpage | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/17 08:38 PM |
| 2 | Intimacy in Relationships. Why does it disappear over time and how can this be prevented?Not sure how you read fault into that. I'm describing the reality of the dating market today. Most attractive men are not in a position to be interested in settling down into serious relationships or marriage. Women respond to that. Men respond to the women by continuing to refuse to settle down due to lack of suitable women. Etc etc. It's a dynamic system that feeds off of itself. If you want more women to be interested in settling down young, you need to a) push kids to start growing up in the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/17 08:36 PM |
| 2 | Intimacy in Relationships. Why does it disappear over time and how can this be prevented?Possibly. I feel like cock carousel is more a result of the younger generation of men being for the most part bad relationship options (and thus women shield themselves by refusing to get emotionally involved) and it being "cool" and over hyped and apparently the only way you can be liberated according to a lot of people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/17 01:20 AM |
| 2 | [Q4BP]If deregulating the sexual market place leads to more sex for everyone, would the same thing apply to the financial market?Men rate women on a bell curve but only pursue the top third. Women rate men on a slanted curve but still message men proportionately. The rest of what you said makes no sense. If men message only the most attractive third of women, then Chad certainly isn't lowering his standards because Chad would be the one getting a response from them. Chad would only lower his standards in situations where there are no attractive women around. An average woman may luck out and experience Chad, just like som… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/17 01:17 AM |
| 4 | Intimacy in Relationships. Why does it disappear over time and how can this be prevented?Number one thing is choosing the right partner with the patience to stick around through the frustrating times, assuming you yourself are patient. Second to that is a balance of compromising and holding your ground depending on the importance of the topic. "Pick your battles." People expect perfection in all facets of their realtionship from their partner. I would say, list 10 things that are important to you, rank them. Find a partner that hits your top 3 things and 60% of your list. Waiting ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/17 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Good vs bad envy at work in the SMPSo how many obese women did you message in the last week? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/17 09:35 PM |
| 2 | Good vs bad envy at work in the SMPFetishists and trolls. The OKCupid study (and other online dating studies) that came out a while back demonstrate the arguments I've made. https://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-looks-and-online-dating/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/17 08:38 PM |
| 2 | Good vs bad envy at work in the SMPI linked you to a study earlier that shows otherwise. Women obviously get more attention on hookup apps due to the nature of sexual dynamics between men and women but the kind of attention you're referring to is reserved for the top 20% of men...And top 40% of women, not all women. I'm saying, a lot of those men don't even acknowledge the other 60% of women that exist, in the same way the 40% of women that get attention don't notice that 80% of men exist. You think a woman in a wheelchair gets a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/17 08:12 PM |
| 2 | Good vs bad envy at work in the SMPIt's especially frustrating when you consider that most of them are talking about failure with women who are at least average looking. If they are truly having that hard of a time in the SMV, why not go for women who don't get a lot of attention? Women in wheelchairs? Women with social anxiety? Women with bad skin? They believe that lowering their standards is going from 7 women to 5 women, when they themselves are about a 3 and should be chasing women 3 or lower. It is entitlement. (and for the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/17 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Good vs bad envy at work in the SMPA subset of Guy B can sometimes be, "Look at that guy getting all the women. He has it easy, he had everything handed to him. It's not fair for someone like me who didn't get everything handed to them. Odds are stacked against me, it's hopeless to bother trying." I see a lot of those guys on here, at least, more than the people arguing for government interference. Guy B is basically a guy whose envy turned into defeatedness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/17 05:09 PM |
| 8 | Q4All: Do you think more men are satisfied with their dating and sex lives, their relationships or relationship prospects? Do you think more men are not?I want to be a millionaire, that doesn't mean I'm not OVERALL satisfied with the finances I have right now. I have enough to pay my bills to live where I want, and enough disposable income to do most of the things I want. Glass half empty vs half full. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/17 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: Do you think more men are satisfied with their dating and sex lives, their relationships or relationship prospects? Do you think more men are not?What do you mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/17 04:50 PM |
| 3 | [Q4BP]If deregulating the sexual market place leads to more sex for everyone, would the same thing apply to the financial market?Ok. For the fitness argument. Yes it is true. Men who spend more at the gym have better physique, and a better physique is more attractive. http://www.ejhs.org/volume7/fitness.html http://medicalxpress.com/news/2007-07-weights-resesarch-muscular-men-partners.html Yes, there are a few exceptions where men are naturally gifted in terms of physique. These men are very rare, and represent no one I know. For most people I know, and most people general, physical fitness is a direct reflection of diet … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/17 04:48 PM |
| 7 | Q4All: Do you think more men are satisfied with their dating and sex lives, their relationships or relationship prospects? Do you think more men are not?I don't think most men want obligatory sex. The idea of a partner who just does you even though they don't want you doesn't seem like it will satisfy most people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/17 04:08 PM |
| 8 | Q4All: Do you think more men are satisfied with their dating and sex lives, their relationships or relationship prospects? Do you think more men are not?Speaking from my personal experience, most of the men around me are overall satisfied. For those who are single, they may want a girlfriend or more casual relationships but have a good grasp that these things take effort that they're not willing to expend. For those who are in relationships, they are pretty satisfied. I think outside of these sites that we all frequent, most people are pretty happy. I will say though, being stuck in the hook up scene loop seems to make people pretty unhappy, and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/17 03:50 PM |
| 3 | When women say they don't want kids?I really don't think so. I think if a woman says she doesn't want kids, it comes down to two things. 1) She doesn't want kids 2) She doesn't want kids right now A lot of the time it's simply the latter. We have been slowly babying our modern generations such that most people are becoming adults in their 20's instead of their teens; as such, most correctly acknowledge that they're not ready to have children. I think anyone who takes this sentiment in the way you're proposing is most likely insecu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/17 04:10 PM |
| 2 | CMV - More men than not care about their female partner's N count, most are just too afraid to voice it or act on itSee not being afraid to judge is a true signifier of manhood But targeting others with undue judgement due to them living lives that threaten the narrative you've crafted for yourself, is not. See you're not just, "telling it like it is." You're not calling cucks, cucks. You're preoccupying yourself with concerns about successful men who are living life, because they don't share your worries, when they have no need to. It's like being poor and worrying that someone's going to ring up some rich g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/16 11:34 PM |
| 2 | CMV: America is not as "free" a country as it's cracked up to beWell I wouldn't know, but according to research, there's not much difference unless something went wrong with the procedure. Apparently it can make the penis more sensitive, so who knows. Why bother with the grass is greener on the other side if your lawn is flush? The important thing is that you are able to enjoy sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/16 09:21 PM |
| 2 | CMV: America is not as "free" a country as it's cracked up to beThis doesn't really sound like a serious post but I'll bite. I am not sure where I stand on the circumcision argument. On one hand, I can understand frustration men feel that it was a decision that was made without their consent. On the other hand, parents make decisions without a kid's consent all the time. Other surgeries, where to live, which school to go to, what to eat, which religion to follow, etc. How do you differentiate between these things? Second of all, while botched circumcisions c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/16 09:11 PM |
| 3 | Link me to cases of prenups in the US being "tossed out" by judges in favor of the woman...Indeed, that's why I said legal prenups. Any legally binding document can't be made under duress. Foreign cases represent a whole new set of issues, but I see people claim prenups are useless in countries such as America, where, like you said, if made via the proper protocol and with representation, almost always hold up. So it is nothing more than an urban myth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/16 08:13 PM |
| 15 | Link me to cases of prenups in the US being "tossed out" by judges in favor of the woman...Regarding that case, while the wife/her lawyer tried to invalidate the prenup (understandably) through whatever defense they could muster, the court upheld it. The court document refers to a "marital settlement agreement." The document also said that the premarital agreement from July 2003 is valid. Source: http://www.chicagotribune.com/business/ct-ken-griffin-anne-dias-divorce-1008-biz-20151007-story.html So I don't think this is an example of a case that /u/Atlas_B_Shruggin is referring to. I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/16 07:59 PM |
| 1 | How come The Blue Pill constantly says they're a satire sub but yet stuff like this gets upvoted?Hyperbole for the sake of illustration. No it's not. It's hyperbole coming from a place of anger/resentment towards how they perceive the current state of the dating market/women. You can definitely say single mothers are bad choices for dating with no nuance without attacking their humanity. They choose not to. Call a spade, a spade. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/16 05:18 AM |
| 3 | CMV you don't respect your relationship if you let yourself go.Indeed, but that's how it is. A lot of people don't actually have the time or energy to take care of their health. But I think I was more trying to say that I don't think you're going to find most 40 year olds who are willing to dedicate as much time at the gym and personal appearance as 20 year olds. They may still go to the gym but certain other spheres in their life have grown, or new ones arrived, that eat up time and energy. It's inevitable. That's why I think it's more reasonable to expect… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/16 04:26 AM |
| 5 | Cock Carousel riders and Pussy Carousel riders: How do you view people who are virgins or inexperienced?I think a lot of virgins think people with high partner counts think of them that way. It's a reflection of them being self-conscious and embarrassed of their virginhood. The only time I have seen anyone think of a virgin as pathetic or loser was when that virgin went out of his way to remind everyone how pathetic and a loser he was (seeking sympathy) and conducted himself with a severe degree of desperation, such that he would say/do really inappropriate things in certain contexts. At that poin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/16 04:15 AM |
| 1 | CMV: If the concept of culture, race, gender roles, etc all become "a la carte" and societies increase social welfare programs, biological determinism becomes the largest factor in human decision makingpeople will make their decisions based on their biological desires and impulses. I believe people will make their decisions based on a combination of biological desires, impulses, and individual personality and preferences. The latter always gets left out. Even if you eliminate the divide of culture and gender, people will retain some degree of individualism and uniqueness and you cannot discount that when it comes to partner choices. This allowed women to choose men based strictly on biological… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/16 04:04 AM |
| 1 | Riding the CC Hurts Future Relationships and Prevents Good Relationships from FormingI actually agree with you a lot in your original post (although I believe your standards for what meets a carousel rider are too low, and I believe most of the negative side effects of carousel riding can be eliminated by having long-term relationship experience). However, I don't see the logic through which you would acknowledge the negative effects of carousel riding (basically that too many options and no experience dealing with relationship problems), and yet deny the same would occur with m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/16 03:54 AM |
| 2 | CMV you don't respect your relationship if you let yourself go.I believe everyone should attempt to maintain themselves enough to keep their partner attracted, but I think it's both unrealistic and unreasonable to expect long-term relationship partners to keep up with their appearance to the level of early dating. For starters, when you are dating someone, they only see you once in a while. As such, since each outing is planned, one can put time and energy into making themselves a certain degree of presentable. They have time to choose fashionable clothes, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/16 03:44 AM |
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