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| 80 | No PUA course is good?The first lesson I had to teach myself is "I'm the problem." And I don't think anyone wants to pay for such a bitter pill to swallow. | /r/seduction | 14/06/24 01:47 PM |
| 15 | What apps or sites do you use?Yelp to find a bar. Instagram to look up that bar to see what to wear. | /r/seduction | 13/06/24 02:54 AM |
| 457 | We all know a couple with average looking and hot girl.It really is all confidence and enthusiasm for life. I do stuff that makes me confident. Fresh haircut. Road trips. Read a lot so i can talk about all kinds of stuff. Shamelessly rock out at karaoke. Quick wit to turn anything into a double entendre. Nice clean house. Pretty good at making breakfast just in case 😏 What ever you think helps build your confidence, go do that. | /r/seduction | 11/06/24 10:20 AM |
| 2 | I sexted some random chick last night and dont know how to follow up the day afterWorks exceedingly well for me. | /r/seduction | 11/06/24 12:26 AM |
| 6 | I sexted some random chick last night and dont know how to follow up the day afterI usually go with "after sunset me is an animal 😘. Anyway, we should get some drinks tomorrow. 8pm? Early enough to be respectful. Late enough to get into trouble." | /r/seduction | 10/06/24 07:58 PM |
| 2 | How good is your game?You wouldn't believe me. | /r/seduction | 03/06/24 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Why will women respond positively to flirty/teasing messages and the soft close for the date but then ghost you as soon as you ask for their availability (“When are you free?” Or “Whats ur schedule like this week?”)People kinda dumb. Best not to project anything further. | /r/seduction | 01/06/24 06:19 AM |
| 0 | How to keep the guy interested when long distanceNudes. Video phone calls. But long distance isn't really a relationship. At worst should have a well known and planned end to being long distance. | /r/seduction | 27/05/24 07:54 PM |
| 14 | Since when is cold approach not seduction?Looks like we have a new moderator. Been on this sub for years under various usernames. Have always agreed with random mod team comments before... Anyway, cold approaching is when you chat with a stranger. Notable because usually most people meet in more structured situations. Friend groups. Work. Your grandma setting you up a blind date with the new coffee girl. College. And so on. Cold approaching is recommended here because it's a real easy way to meet new people not normally within your reac… | /r/seduction | 14/05/24 06:51 AM |
| 5 | My bestfriend is mad at me for having a threesome. How do I fix it?Haters gonna hate. People love to be jealous. Don't brag about all your good times. Maintain a subtle mystery about your after dark endeavors. If your friend brings it up again, ignore the topic. Change the subject. Or the best move is to only respond to positive messages. | /r/seduction | 12/05/24 07:34 PM |
| 4 | OLD: Call out one worded answers?So... some people suck at flirting. Some times you need to do all the lifting. You can decide if it's worth it. I have found it frequently is. And some times your chat game is terrible and one word replies is a subtle hint. Calling out never helps. | /r/seduction | 10/05/24 12:43 AM |
| 5 | Approaching while carrying my huge traveling bagIt's in your head. If anything, you are showing how you are well traveled. Showing how you have a life. These are good things. I usually have to pull out my pilot license to indicate I travel a lot. | /r/seduction | 09/05/24 07:25 AM |
| 5 | Approaching while carrying my huge traveling bagFix your logistics. Stop carrying awkwardly large bags. I travel with a small backpack which contains my laptop, two pairs of socks, two pairs of underwear, one pair of pants, and one shirt. And my credit card that can fix a lack of pants. | /r/seduction | 09/05/24 07:10 AM |
| 78 | Would you guys date a high body count woman?As a dude with a high body count, yes. Greatly appreciate a woman with the same energy as me. | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Do you really enjoy flirting or am I the only one who doesn't?I'm an intp. I love flirting. Also enjoy the happy coincidence that sometimes flirting leads to other things. | /r/seduction | 03/05/24 04:11 PM |
| 2 | How to deal with dryness from women?One, most people suck at flirting. Some times you have to carry both sides. Two, your specific examples are hella dry. "Graze her hand". And "hey what's up?" fucking yikes. That's how I interact with my dad. So yes, online (aka tinder) you need to go slightly harder. However, there is a lot of space between "hey" and "wanna fuck". For example, "no pants party on Thursday. Should I bring wine or vodka?" Real obvious, but slightly less direct. Women love that plausible deniability. | /r/seduction | 03/05/24 08:06 AM |
| 21 | I don’t get this cuck stuffThese questions don't matter. "Why are things the way they are" doesn't matter. It just be like that some times. | /r/seduction | 03/05/24 06:10 AM |
| 24 | How to ask someone to “hangout” casually?Less words better. But seriously, you don't need to add a "casual" quantifier because all dating is casual before it becomes serious. Simply don't do the serious part. | /r/seduction | 02/05/24 12:43 AM |
| 9 | Shy after incredible, nasty sex with new guy (graphic!!)"We should do that again 😘" has always worked for me. Simply send a message and go about your day. Will eventually respond or not. And if they dumb enough to not respond, you get to avoid a dummy. No downsides. | /r/seduction | 30/04/24 09:26 PM |
| 7 | Can you get your old skills in game back? or is permanently goneNaw, it's like riding a bike. Probably a bit rusty. | /r/seduction | 30/04/24 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Can he really like you if he doesn't text?Texting is not any type of connection. It's like short emails. | /r/seduction | 27/04/24 06:33 PM |
| 17 | Too scared to approach gym receptionistsYou should be afraid to approach someone who is working. Don't do that. Plenty of women outside. Go talk to them. | /r/seduction | 25/04/24 03:39 AM |
| 4 | Want To Date But Not Have SexBoth would be good topics for a therapist. They are very related. And don't go thinking you are broken, but simply looking for some lifestyle guidance and tweaks. | /r/seduction | 24/04/24 09:25 PM |
| 10 | Want To Date But Not Have SexMost humans like sex. A lot. Go to an endocrinologist and see if something is wrong with your hormones. Saw a dead bedrooms post about someone not liking sex and turned out it was thyroid cancer. Husband saved his wife's life because of horny. And if they don't find anything, find a therapist. | /r/seduction | 24/04/24 08:39 PM |
| 14 | Attachment to a personReally all you can do is keep being your best awesome self. The same thing that attracted a woman will usually keep working. If you are the prize, then you know a smart woman sticks around. And a dummy will leave. And you don't want a dummy. | /r/seduction | 23/04/24 06:50 AM |
| 5 | How do you respond to the common shit test of “Well you (or I) do/did it, why can’t/ don’t you?” 🥺None of these examples are shit tests. It's called flirting, and you should be taking notes from this lady. | /r/seduction | 22/04/24 06:59 AM |
| 3 | How do you handle a girl that flaked due to self esteem issues?Personally, I go with "I've been around a while. Your nonsense is not gonna scare me off 😘. We vibe via texting. Let's do it in person." But I really have been around a while. "I've seen it all and done most of it." is a common refrain and very true. That said, this insecure shit does not make for a good LTR. Expect that to not change any time soon. | /r/seduction | 21/04/24 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Opinions on girls with lots of piercingsThere is no correlation. I've been around enough blocks to know women are a bunch of horny pervs. All women are hella easy, but a nipple piercing does not mean they are easy for you. | /r/seduction | 17/04/24 06:21 AM |
| 6 | What am I supposed to do at the bar?Disagree. Weeknights are slow but it's all service industry people. And they know how to party. | /r/seduction | 13/04/24 12:50 AM |
| 48 | Where to meet singles if you don’t go to bars and clubs?Go to bars and clubs. They serve water. | /r/seduction | 31/03/24 12:55 AM |
| 124 | What pick up line works for you everytime?No such thing. I've had "hi" fail. And "woah, that's a big booty" work. Say whatever, but learn to humbly eat a rejection. An enthusiastic awkward attempt is always better than some half hearted lines. | /r/seduction | 27/03/24 07:34 AM |
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