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| 9 | Guys that can consistently get laid and get it easily, what's the process like and what makes a big difference on something you had to improve on?Yeah as someone who lives in a fairly small area (buggest "city" by me has ~85k people) I can attest to the truth of this. Point #1 above has helped me immensely, and the only thing that limits me much these days is Point #2. Still have a lot of success, to the point of tons of matches that I never even message, or matches that are interested in me that I never end up inviting on a date, but ultimately those are the lowest quality matches (of course) and in a bigger city I'd expect a lot more hi… | /r/seduction | 31/05/26 06:30 PM |
| 27 | The only flirting guide you'll ever need - techniques, mindsets, how to practice, and moreI see a few posts that are hating on this for the clear use of AI, but imo this is once of the best "how to flirt" guides I've seen. The advice is spot on, it's given in a format that makes it easy to read/follow (thanks, AI), and the fact that it gives actionable steps for beginners is a big plus. Got my upvote! | /r/seduction | 18/05/26 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Tonight I'm going out with 7 hot chicks. Any tips?🤣 | /r/seduction | 14/03/26 02:59 AM |
| 4 | My FWB said “is that all you care about is pussy?” .. all i’m saying is, guys never forget about the friend part!Hard agree brotha, respect that you were able to acknowledge that with her and make a move to learn and grow. Some people won't realize it, but thats true "alpha" shit | /r/seduction | 22/02/26 04:31 AM |
| 13 | Went to a bar last night, panicked, and immediately foldedThis is hilarious and actually pretty genuis for a late night hail mary | /r/seduction | 21/02/26 10:54 PM |
| 21 | Your attractiveness is largely dependant on your social validationBro, dont overthink it. People like to see specific DJs because they are talented, in the same way that they would want to see a specific musician/band. If she had said she was going to see insert popular band name here would that be a red flag because of "celebrity worship"? Same situation here | /r/seduction | 30/11/25 01:07 AM |
| 12 | I got laidHeres my two cents: I've used other apps in the past (tinder, hinge, bumble) and always had moderate success but a hard time finding real dime pieces. However, I hadn't used a dating app in several years since getting together w/ my now ex. After we broke up, I eventually got myself back on an app, but this time it was FB dating. Honestly I've been almost flooded with options. Overall, way better match rate, convo rate, date rate, close rate then any prior experiences. Because of this I haven't … | /r/seduction | 16/10/25 02:46 AM |
| 14 | How Do You Flirt and Build Sexual Tension?As they said it depends on the gal, but there are definitely plenty of women that respond super well to this (assuming they are attracted to you) | /r/seduction | 01/10/25 12:12 AM |
| 68 | Have you asked anyone “I wanna fuck you now”?As a literal opener/very first thing you say to them? No. You'd need to be elite levels of hot for that to work, and even then it would probably have low success rate. But I could be wrong since I haven't tried it. | /r/seduction | 21/09/25 12:33 AM |
| 81 | A simple technique to talk about anything with girls when your life is ordinary, repetitive and boringThis is actually excellent advice. There is a limit to how much of this you should do (it can get absurd if overrused) but id bet most men are falling waaaaayyyy short of the "ideal" amount of playful sillyness. | /r/seduction | 12/09/25 05:22 PM |
| 9 | How to get quiet guys to make noise?Honestly I'm pretty damned quiet in the sack except when I'm saying something to my partner (typically directions like "flip over" or similar) or when I'm finishing. It has nothing to do with how much I am, or am not, enjoying it, it's just what my body wants to do naturally during sex. I realize some (most?) women would prefer more noise, but faking it doesnt really seem to be a good solution, so i stick with authentic (and quiet). I bring this up just to let you know that him not making noise … | /r/seduction | 04/09/25 01:37 AM |
| 28 | Full blown got laid in the club [field report]People in here skeptical but I've had similar situations happen. Its just a combination of initial attraction, you playing your cards right (aka dont fuck it up by saying something dumb), and some good old fashioned "timing" (aka she was quite obviously out on the prowl that night, as she herself said) | /r/seduction | 01/09/25 08:33 PM |
| 1 | insecurity is loud. attraction is quiet. read this before you textPunctuation is too loud for OP | /r/seduction | 22/08/25 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Why Being a Nice Guy is a TrapI agree, but then id also say I rule >90% of women out as not up to my dating standards as well, so I cant really complain | /r/seduction | 11/08/25 03:02 PM |
| 3 | Why Being a Nice Guy is a Trap90% of guys are average or below average? Lol what do you think the word "average" means? | /r/seduction | 11/08/25 12:13 PM |
| 1 | How to Respond When a Girl Deletes a Message Before You Can Read It?If you really want to overanalyze the text you sent I'm sure its not a 10/10, and while there's a near endless combination of ways to change and possibly improve it, the weakest part is that it is just a little boring. I'd probably tweak it just a little, so the last part says something like "saw 3 cats and this absolute cutie" along with a pic of the hedgehog. Thats just a random suggestion, and would work better or worse depending on what the hedgehog looks like in the Pic. Really not a big ch… | /r/seduction | 29/06/25 04:54 PM |
| 5 | How to Respond When a Girl Deletes a Message Before You Can Read It?Bro there was nothing at all wrong with what you sent. As has been mentioned in this thread by others you are putting way too much thought into something that shouldn't really need any thought. You should think "oh interesting, she deleted a message. Silly girl!" And thats the extent of it. Most likely she is overthinming things on her side and deleted the message for one of a million reasons that have everything to do with her and nothing to do with you. Just leave space for her to send another… | /r/seduction | 29/06/25 04:26 PM |
| 3 | How to Respond When a Girl Deletes a Message Before You Can Read It?This is spot on. Hard to put into practice sometimes, but an ex of mine that was a major overthinker and text-deleter helped me work on this for sure. | /r/seduction | 29/06/25 03:25 PM |
| 3 | Potential threesome - help a brother outA game of "truth or drink" provides a perfect opportunity to move the convo in that direction too. The whole point of those truth questions is to ask hard/risky questions, so it makes it "socially acceptable" to hit them with the "ever had a threesome" question | /r/seduction | 17/06/25 06:29 PM |
| 10 | Potential threesome - help a brother outDepending on the vibes / comfort level you either: A) invite them to a spot in public (somewhere with nice vibes and drinks thats pretty close to your place), meet up and be flirty /charming with them both (but subtle, you do NOT want to scare/turn them off by being too aggressive/sexual). Goal here is to build attraction and comfort, and then once the vibes are right you come up with a reason you all should go back to your place - can be as simple as planting a seed by mentioning an epic scene … | /r/seduction | 17/06/25 05:47 PM |
| 3 | Date is going well . Gentlemen, how do you Close? (assuming some modest escalation beforehand)I feel like this doesn't give the thin veneer of an "excuse" that makes her able to play it off as her coming to your place for (reasons) instead of clearly being an invite over for sex. If she is majorly digging you this wont be much of an issue, but there are a LOT of chicks that will be into you, but hesitant to come off slutty, so I would be worried about losing a fair number of them with this approach. I haven't actually tried it though so I may be underselling it's power. | /r/seduction | 21/05/25 04:14 AM |
| 2 | Date is going well . Gentlemen, how do you Close? (assuming some modest escalation beforehand)Nice, I love the simplicity | /r/seduction | 21/05/25 04:11 AM |
| 2 | Date is going well . Gentlemen, how do you Close? (assuming some modest escalation beforehand)Yep this would be a good line. Another example would be when showing them the pictures and they start oohing and aweing about how cute the cats are you can plant the seed with a little joke "if you play your cards right you might get to pet them later" and then later if the date has gone well you can do a call back "alright well (HER NAME HER) you've played your cards pretty well, and I'm a man of my word. Wanna come meet my cats? They are even cuter in person" | /r/seduction | 21/05/25 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Why don't magicians get laid?Speak for yourself. When I put on my robe and wizard hat bitches be swoonin' | /r/seduction | 26/02/25 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Simple but Weird Technique to Stop Putting Girls On a PedestalI always used to say "even hot chicks take smelly shits" 🤣 | /r/seduction | 16/02/25 10:27 PM |
| 2 | I will DM you a few of my OLD convos if you are willing to tell me what I'm doing wrong and what to fix.. If your fixes work over the next week, I'll venmo $300This is an often touched on topic, and in many ways it's complex and has so many variables that it can be difficult to grasp for those that simply don't get it. But if I had to boil it all down to the simplest form that I could, here's what I'd suggest. Treat your matches as if they are a close friend, right from the get go. What that means is the tone of your message shouldn't be formal, and it shouldn't be boring small talk. Do you do that with your close friends? Of course not. Yall send each… | /r/seduction | 22/01/25 09:51 PM |
| 2 | I will DM you a few of my OLD convos if you are willing to tell me what I'm doing wrong and what to fix.. If your fixes work over the next week, I'll venmo $300Lots of people helping you already, but I'd hazard you're doing one of two things wrong: You are either A) being TOO sexual and turning women off, or (more likely) B) being too boring. | /r/seduction | 20/01/25 08:48 AM |
| 2 | Until what age can a man go to clubs and be very successful with women?You edited your prior reply to mention not calling women girls after I wrote my response, and added additional details that weren't in there originally. And calling every person that frequent this thread a douche is exactly the attitude that got your original comments downvoted. You also keep referencing how me or OP could finally get women. OP has already stated that he has plenty of success with women, and ive never stated to you one way or the other. But I'll state it now: I also have plenty … | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 06:32 PM |
| 3 | Until what age can a man go to clubs and be very successful with women?Your first comment was mostly fine except you referenced OP not being able to get girls, which he never stated (as he pointed out in his reply). Your response to his reply is where you were a douche. | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 04:08 PM |
| 7 | Until what age can a man go to clubs and be very successful with women?You're being down voted for coming in and being an asshole for no reason to OP, and derailing his OP and replies to force in a narrative that fits the agenda you clearly have. | /r/seduction | 19/01/25 03:33 AM |
| 3 | When was the last time you got laid? Asking just to see were the average lies.A | /r/seduction | 04/01/25 06:40 AM |
| 26 | What Does Mean To Flirt? How To Become A Good Flirt. - The Fundementals Of Emotional Variance And Verbal Skills.Ignore the haters, this is a great post | /r/seduction | 21/12/24 06:15 PM |
| 1 | How to confirm a date without seeming needy.I think it will work w/ certain chicks, which is also true of most advice I see on here. People try to generalized everything as if there is just one magic thing/way to communicate to every single women that will/won't work. It's not that simple, every chick is different. This line will get positive responses from some women (it depends on the women, you_her perception of you, and the dynamic that you two have created. These variables will be different for every single person/date, so there's no… | /r/seduction | 26/09/24 07:11 PM |
| 17 | Financial Freedom Is Nice, Nothing Beats Social FreedomYour idea of financial freedom is a little different than mine. In my opinion financial freedom means you no longer have to work, period. As to the other points, for sure being socially adept is a huge advantage qhen it comes to meetijg women. No disagreement there. | /r/seduction | 13/09/24 01:43 AM |
| 1 | How to became friend with benefits with a woman?Weird, why not? | /r/seduction | 15/06/24 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Any good book to reattract an ex?The answer to your first questions depends on what your physique is currently. I was always very skinny, and had no body fat. I was able to make visible gains within a matter of 2-3 months, and the longer I stuck with it the better I looked. I now tend to work out for a few months to get "summer ready" and then slack off the rest of the year. Those several months can make a very noticeable improvement in my looks. | /r/seduction | 25/05/24 12:01 AM |
| 0 | When a girl brings up a perceived weakness of yours… twiceHaha this is pretty good | /r/seduction | 24/09/22 06:57 PM |
| 2 | If you are attractive, how much effort should put in?I fully agree with you on that. But I will say my own experiences as a man lend some weight to the crux of OPs question: I find that the women who I put the least attention into, and have the most cavalier "take it or leave it" attitude, tend to fall for me the most/hardest. Then with the women that I actively chase, or even perhaps start out with a careless attitude but then develop a deeper attraction and naturally shift my behavior to reflect that, there is a pattern that becomes more and mor… | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 12:41 AM |
| 2 | If you are attractive, how much effort should put in?That's a refreshing take, and I know that I love that in a gal. I'm willing to bet a lot of other guys do as well. Being hot helps too | /r/seduction | 21/08/22 12:27 AM |
| 1 | If you are attractive, how much effort should put in?It's a whole different world for men and women though, and OP was asking as a man. Not trying to discount your experiences at all, as I'm sure it would be valid for women, just noting that OP is a dude. | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 11:59 PM |
| 18 | what to do on first date with MILF ??You are younger than 18? Or you mean because y'all are gonna be drinking? | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 01:49 AM |
| 51 | what to do on first date with MILF ??Dude, don't lie about your age. Own that shit, and be honest. | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 11:21 PM |
| 3 | How to keep a woman's attention/interest until the date (Tinder)?I cant tell if this is a troll post or not lol. The "try to be witty, funny and tease them" part is actually great advice. The rest is absolutely awful. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 01:19 AM |
| 7 | How do I make my texting less boring?My man bcool dropped some absolute bangers for tips above, glad you read it and agreed. I think it's worth you bookmarking his comment and coming back to look at it occasionally, using it to refer to your convos and see if you are improving. Your next challenge, as you graduate from inane, boring interview convos, will be how to seamlessly flow the convo into new areas. This will simply take practice, there is no way around it. But dont worry - every failure is a nee lesson learned! | /r/seduction | 26/07/22 07:08 PM |
| 4 | Stop chasing and pick the women who choose youYeah I do pretty well but still frequent this sub, mostly because I find it entertaining but I do still read some stuff that I feel is useful to me. This thread is actually a great example - I tend to follow the philosophy of the hot guy at the bar. I'd rather put in way less effort, but the truth is I do miss out on the hottest chicks because of this. Personally I feel okay with it, but everyone's gotta make their own choices. | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 11:33 PM |
| 1 | How much rapport is required before meeting someone IRL?Boom Damn, this is actually a big brained move. It even subtly conveys that you've got shit to do as an added bonus. | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 03:08 AM |
| 6 | Best parting message for a flaky girlThere will always be exceptions and outliers, but I'd bet that the majority of the time when a flakey, uninterested chick ends up meeting up with a dude it's because he went radio silence on her, or at least avoided a "closure" type of message such as you are suggesting. It can be worth reaching out many days/weeks later with a completely unrelated message along the lines of "hey theres a new bar that just opened up that I'm thinking about checking out tonight, are you free?", or other messages … | /r/seduction | 05/07/22 03:23 AM |
| 4 | What do women mean when they say they want a confident man?Mmmmm, donuts | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 04:36 AM |
| 6 | Why do women say they don't like players yet they feel attracted to guys with options and a lot of experience in bed?Yep, pretty spot on | /r/seduction | 03/07/22 10:03 PM |
| 14 | Women like good-looking men. Having game is an additional bonus but not necessarily mandatory.Well you got the second rule wrong, and it actually matters. The second rule is "don't be unattractive". Now both rule one and two can (and do) refer to physical looks, but they also both can (and do) refer to all the elements of game - by being charming, smooth, witty, charismatic, etc, you are complying with both rule one (be attractive) and rule two (dont be unattractive). For example take a good looking guy who is completely silent and says nothing. He has fulfilled the physical side of rule… | /r/seduction | 25/06/22 04:20 PM |
| 1 | CameltoeFlash her your "cameltoe" next time you hang out | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Whenever I see a girl I am interested in talk to someone else I lose interest?And may I ask how successful your dating life has been with that mentality? | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 10:36 PM |
| 2 | Whenever I see a girl I am interested in talk to someone else I lose interest?Damn, you guys are really damaged huh? So if a gal is interested in you, she should never talk to another guy again in her life? | /r/seduction | 03/06/22 03:44 PM |
| 2 | What’s the longest FWB you’ve kept around?A mix of physical attraction and my personal style of not-giving-a-fuck, in a genuine way. I tend to just be who I am, and take pride in it, and women find that attractive. | /r/seduction | 19/05/22 06:13 AM |
| 2 | What’s the longest FWB you’ve kept around?I've had a couple that lasted three-ish years (with some overlap between the two). One of them I ended things because despite her saying she didnt want more it was very obvious she did, and she is now in a committed relationship. The other one is giving similar vibes (saying she is fine but all signs point to her wanting more) but we are still currently fwb... | /r/seduction | 18/05/22 08:00 PM |
| 2 | Daygame is a magnet to fun girlsLmao for real. I recently found this out the hard way, and the chick got halfway upset with me. Shes like "you thought this was my real hair?!?" And yeah, to be fair I was an idiot not to notice. | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 06:40 AM |
| 18 | I want to bring a board game to make my coffee dates better. What are some good games?See that's the problem, it's an either/or situation. Either you get to fuck them, Or you play chutes and ladders. Choose wisely. | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 02:24 AM |
| 2 | Still don’t know what the fuck to talk about when I meet a girl at a party or a night outYour example is way to blunt, but you can in fact make a comment about the music have a sexual voice. Something like "my god what a sexy beat", or "this song reminds me of making out behind the bleachers in high school", or something else. Those are random examples, but the point is they are more "calibrated" then your original comment. | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 03:48 PM |
| 4 | sorry for long post. Need help, very confused. (i feel like i know the answer but there is slight hesitation on back of my head)My advice: If you ever write that love letter, make sure it's even longer than this and definitely continue to rock the whole "no spaces between paragraphs" look, chicks love that. | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Am I overestimating how charming women expect us to be?Some women will genuinely like that, and most women will prefer it to you faking being someone you're not. | /r/seduction | 17/04/22 03:37 AM |
| 1 | Tells me persistently to send her a picture of the haircut that I just got. Ghosts me afterwards. Mind you she seen plenty of pictures of me before. Is dating this weird now in days or is just me?Damn bro not even gonna drop the pic? What a tease | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 02:47 PM |
| 1 | What does snapchat mean to older Gen z (20+). Does he care about the streak?You are overthinking it. And he said he doesnt want anything more than sex, so when you're not banging him why are you putting thought into him? | /r/seduction | 08/04/22 07:11 PM |
| 3 | Do girls get more attracted to us if we have a nice body and workout often?I went from 163 lbs up to 209 lbs in ~ 8 months, then cut down to a lean 190 and looked GOOD, all natural some years back. My lazy ass has since reverted to sparse, intermittent working out like so many others but the point is my gains were all natural and yet I had people constantly joke about me using steroids, wink when I said no, etc. Obviously 'roids make it easier but they aren't required. | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 02:45 PM |
| 0 | I have been invited to a threesome and I don't know what to doLol wtf, how is that relevant. Are you the guy that posted about dumping his gf cuz she had once had a MMF threesome?!? | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 01:13 AM |
| 2 | Got rejected by more than 5 girls in a clubs, what am I doing wrongThis is a very well put together post, and I hope OP reads it. | /r/seduction | 02/04/22 01:04 AM |
| 6 | How to respond to "how old are you?"You "look good for your age" and have good genes | /r/seduction | 13/02/22 06:28 PM |
| 5 | I finally asked her out!Believe it or not, some girls actually have boyfriends. Crazy, I know! | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 03:26 PM |
| 2 | Deez nuts joke to a girlBro, nooooo. Just leave it alone, go do something else or text some other women. | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 02:53 PM |
| 7 | Deez nuts joke to a girlHe quite clearly said dont send the follow up messages, and so did someone else. The (correct) advice given was that if she ignores you/doesnt respond you do the exact same thing. Just act like nothing happened (hint: nothing did, basically), and then in a day or so when you have a new topic to bring up text her again. Ignore the fact that she ignored your lame joke. Dont bring it up, dont act different about it, just move on. This is the most attractive way to handle it. | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 02:52 PM |
| 11 | my milf neighbor wore a leopard print nightgown with no bra when i brought her suitcase in for her a bit ago, should i go back and ask if she wants to have a drink or something?Ngl I actually think his "play book" here is pretty spot on. It's rare for people to give detailed descriptions of things to day or do, and even more rare for them to be things that are likely good advice. But I genuinely think he pulled it off. The above working is contingent on her having some initial attraction (of course), but the point is to guide OP into making a move, and I think this was an excellent example. | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 04:34 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]You want "plain answers without going into a Ted Talk tangent" and also a "tutorial on how to flirt"? Seems like those are a bit contradictory. Heres the short of it: Every single interaction and conversation, EVER, is unique. It is made so because every human being is unique, and because conversations build on themselves while taking into account obviously the prior words in the conversation but also subtext, non verbal cues, each persons emotions, etc. tldr: there is no magic shortcut. Practic… | /r/seduction | 31/12/21 06:07 AM |
| 17 | How to become more physically attractive?Yeah just to pile on with the others that is WAY too much. One spray, two at the MOST. | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Any older female virgins (>25)? How do you get over it?Yeah I'm gonna second Tombstone, if you want to get laid you can no joke just message dudes on reddit. Shit, send me a pic and I'll check my schedule... | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 07:07 AM |
| -2 | Gf(21 F) talked about how her casual phase worked well for her, and it made me a bit uncomfortable. I(23 M) am confused about my feelings.I agree, but don't worry there are still people in here that don't have massively hypocritical, outdated, sexist views on women having sex. | /r/seduction | 26/12/21 04:38 AM |
| 7 | want my main plate to be ltr. helpWell put, and I really hope u/TryMobile3330 pays close attention to this. OP sounds like he has insecurities and his "plan of attack" to deal with them is to be controlling. Trust me homie that is *never* going to lead to a happy, healthy relationship. You need to enter a relationship with trust. And OP statements like "they all act like a hoe to an extent they need boundaries" really suggest that you should do a little reflection on your thoughts on women. You are talking about her disrespectin… | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 01:38 AM |
| 5 | want my main plate to be ltr. helpWho are "most people"? Sounds to me like she is into you, and you are demonstrating a noticeable lack of power by not going for what you want. | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Got this cute chicks number while cold approachingBruh | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 05:24 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I would recommend trying to initiate some physical contact with her (grab her hand as if to lead her somewhere, touch her back/side/shoulders etc). If she responds positively aka doesn't stop the contact or better yet even makes some effort to continue it then that is a good sign. You can start this off with a hello hug right when you first see her, and make it a longer hug then you usually would. You should immediately be able to gauge hw she responds to that. There are a million other ways, in… | /r/seduction | 18/11/21 04:35 AM |
| 7 | [deleted by user]It seems like there is a fairly decent chance she is into you considering the level of interest she is showing and the effort she is making to find time to hang with you. But you won't know for sure based off those texts. As the other commenter said, you should go and find out in person. | /r/seduction | 18/11/21 04:29 AM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]A real alpha male wouldn't hesitate to rip one. Do it | /r/seduction | 15/11/21 06:39 AM |
| 2 | What are some specific tips on how to make sure there is no "friend vibe" on a date for a guy taking out a woman?Yes a dermatologist would be the right call. I actually went in to ask about a mole which ended up being benign (nothing to worry about) but while there mentioned my hyperhidrosis and the doc was like "you should try drysol". Legit best mole ever since it led to getting my shit cured. Like I mentioned above I believe for the rest of the body they will prescribe a pill, and I cant personally speak to its effectiveness, but I have read good things online. Please let me know how it turns out for yo… | /r/seduction | 13/11/21 04:01 AM |
| 1 | What are some specific tips on how to make sure there is no "friend vibe" on a date for a guy taking out a woman?Not almost 100% - completely 100%. Its amazing. Drysol is a prescription treatment specifically used for your hands. Not sure where your hyperhidrosis kicks in. If its other places I believe there are OTC medications (pills) that can help. They dont typically work on the hands though. Drysol is just a little bottle of an alcohol solution. I apply it to my hands in the evening before bed - at first you have to use it for three or four days in a row, but once you do that you can go down to a coupl… | /r/seduction | 13/11/21 01:06 AM |
| 2 | What are some specific tips on how to make sure there is no "friend vibe" on a date for a guy taking out a woman?Have you looked into Drysol? I had fairly bad hyperhidrosis of the palms and it really affected me physically and mentally for years. I recently tried it out (couple years ago) and it is absolutely amazing - literally 100% cured as long as I apply a couple times a week before bed. | /r/seduction | 12/11/21 08:57 PM |
| 7 | She said give her space over a small issueSpace works extremely well. Absence makes the heart grow fonder and all that. There will be countless moments throughout the day where something will make her think of you - could be someone ordering their coffee just like you would, or a song coming on, or she's just home and horny. The longer you wait, the more intense many of those feelings will get for her. If she finds/has some other guy she is into then that changes things, but reaching out to her in that case still wouldnt be any better. … | /r/seduction | 02/11/21 01:33 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]His recommendation isnt the worst as it gives you an excuse to get her insta, but its better if you are honest with your intentions if you are attracted to her. The gentlemen above gave an excellent example via the flirting with the gal. Still, if you arent comfortable or dont have a good opportunity this will be fine (not great, but fine) | /r/seduction | 27/10/21 10:46 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Is it a good "excuse"? Yes. Is having an excuse what you should do? No. You should be honest and upfront about your intentions for two reasons: First, because that way you are pursuing what you want, which is good. It increases the chances of actually getting what you want. Second, because women are attracted to men that act like men, and this includes men who pursue what they want openly, rather than acting ashamed and using manipulative tactics to pretend they want one thing when they really w… | /r/seduction | 13/10/21 05:38 AM |
| 1 | What does it mean if girlfriend wants to meet your family.Bang 'em | /r/seduction | 09/10/21 05:54 PM |
| 3 | What does it mean if girlfriend wants to meet your family.To meet your parents | /r/seduction | 09/10/21 06:54 AM |
| 8 | [deleted by user]reply Sucks, man, but honestly the solution is to pull back. Focus your energy other directions - yourself, your friends, these other "boring" girls. Don't engage with this girl for a week+, if she contacts you first be polite but short, and DON'T contact her first. If she wants to schedule something say you're busy then, but you'll get back to her later. Wait several days at minimum before getting back to her. Then you can TRY to hang out with her after that, although tbh it's more likely than … | /r/seduction | 05/10/21 01:56 AM |
| 2 | She told me "You make me happy & I talk about you all the time"...now she's VERY distant...Where did I fuck up?Yeah tbh that should be first on the list. OP, you've repeatedly told her no to a relationship, now she is trying to move on. She probably met someone that night when she got super trashed, and things have been heating up since then. Also quite possible she was with him when she was "with her family" and unable to talk. | /r/seduction | 14/09/21 12:31 AM |
| 2 | Hand removed by her during touch escalation?Thoughts: she has a boyfriend. Don't be an asshole. | /r/seduction | 12/08/21 05:01 AM |
| 1 | 23F and am coming up on a year of no sex.RIP your inbox, but also RIP your "in box" if you know what I mean | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 02:47 PM |
| 19 | Girl ghosted me… a boyfriend in just a few days after. Wtf?After reading all of your responses all I can say is... bro, seek help | /r/seduction | 22/07/21 04:17 AM |
| 6 | Got coworker number easilyTake it from someone who worked at a restaurant for a looooooong time - some of those servers are mad hot and it's hard not to take a shit in that food bowl from time to time. | /r/seduction | 12/06/21 01:31 AM |
| 128 | Girls don't do things by accidentIt means she wants it in the pooper, get it boy! | /r/seduction | 18/04/21 03:33 PM |
| 2 | 7 hour date (!) gone wrong?Escalation can be a big mental block, but it really doesn't have to be. You can literally just say "hey, quick question. Wanna make out a bit?" and you'll get a pretty good sense of where you are at. (Reminder that a fun, playful vibe, easily conveyed with a bit of a smirk/smile, helps heavily when flirting, so throw in a smile and maybe a wink with this question to really up its effect). There are *better* methods (that's sort of just jumping in) but it eliminates all of the guess work, elimina… | /r/seduction | 16/01/21 10:42 PM |
| 2 | How to overcome the "You are too young" shit test?Indeed lol. I probably should have said "in the immortal words of Cam'ron", it might have saved me from being downvoted to oblivion. | /r/seduction | 01/01/21 06:54 PM |
| -14 | How to overcome the "You are too young" shit test?Say " I'm 26 but i've lived a crazy life. Plus I'll tell you what the 90's like. And I know what the ladies like, need a man that's polite, listens, and takes advice. I could be all three, plus I can lay the pipe" | /r/seduction | 01/01/21 06:04 AM |
| 4 | If women like good men, why do they date bad boys?Judging by your username I think you already knew that | /r/seduction | 21/12/20 02:34 AM |
| 5 | What to do after you had sex with herlolwut, got a source for that "scientific fact"? | /r/seduction | 21/12/20 02:19 AM |
| 6 | What's with this double standard of hot girls wanting to be treated as normal people while acting like dating less attractive guys is below them?Considering that like 93 different people in this post have all interpreted your post to mean that, maybe the flaw isn't everyone not understanding you, but rather you not communicating it correctly. | /r/seduction | 15/12/20 03:46 PM |
| 17 | Instead Of Learning What To Say To Women, Learn How To Hold Good Eye Contact. Here's Why...invitation I'd probably add on that you should have the faintest hint of a smile or a playful smirk while holding this contact. If your face is blank as you stare its more likely to hit those creeper notes that you'd likely rather avoid. The goal is to project positive, playful vibes. | /r/seduction | 15/11/20 07:37 PM |
| 1 | Honesty when looking for ONS?Yeah but if you mix em together you can make a slushee | /r/seduction | 10/08/20 04:44 AM |
| 3 | Honesty when looking for ONS?They keep boning, and occasionally end up dating. | /r/seduction | 10/08/20 04:42 AM |
| 7 | A Fix for conversations “drying up”Extremely solid advice in there from start to finish. Appreciate the effort, you broke it down quite eloquently. | /r/seduction | 27/04/20 03:00 PM |
| 158 | I’m in a bf/gf relationship now, early 30s, wanted to remark something she said.After a month of watching her ("seeing her") she finally noticed him staring at her through the bushes. | /r/seduction | 13/03/20 02:32 PM |
| 43 | Let me remind you of a few things when it comes to social interactionsAbsolute banger of a list, well done | /r/seduction | 08/03/20 03:56 AM |
| 1 | My sweaty hands are ruining my gameI've had sweaty hands ever since I was a little kid, and have struggled with the many little moments in life where they can range from slightly annoying to nearly debilitating. I had tried several different potential remedies, but recently for the first time in my life actually went to a dermatologist. He prescribed me a very easy to use prescription liquid called "Drysol". I had read mixed things online, but I can officially confirm that it works for me, and it has had a MAJOR impact on my life… | /r/seduction | 18/09/19 07:06 PM |
| 74 | Things I've learned recently about being one of those "Nice Guys" for the inexperiencedWell said. I like the way you break down the things woman dislike in nice guys and the things women like in nice guys. Never seen it written out quite like that before, but I think you've hit the nail right on the head here. | /r/seduction | 27/08/19 07:12 PM |
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