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I mean that you can hold on to the belief that this woman represents all professional women, and consequently avoid them altogether when you are at work. But if you do so, you will miss out on opportunities for professional growth and teamwork. And in order to be promoted, you need to demonstrate your ability to work well with both women and men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 01:37 AM
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I work in finance, and collaboration is critical in my role. None of the women at my workplace, myself included, would ever want flirtation or anything short of professionalism from our coworkers. the men in my office are respectful and hard working, we have very constructive working relationships. The video is obviously a cherry picked example. No serious workplace operates on such a casual basis. And if you want a prosperous career with upward mobility, strong interpersonal skills are needed. …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 12:45 AM
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Wait why would men avoid women in the workplace? That’s very strange and unprofessional behavior. Work is work. You are there to solve problems, usually through team work. I would be seriously off put by anyone who is antisocial in a team setting.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 11:08 PM
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I’m sorry, maybe I’m misunderstanding your point. Why should a man who is, for example, a doctor, expect a partner who surpasses his own lifestyle? I’m a working professional, an accountant at a managing level in my 20s. My partner is a staff SWE. Pretty much everyone I know is dating within their socioeconomic class. We are in long term committed relationships and take care of our health/appearance. Where is the mismatch? From my POV (and I suspect statistics would support), people generally du…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 09:09 PM
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I’m sorry… but how much higher can the standard get? Women now graduate college more than men, enroll in medical and law school more than men, we all wear makeup every day, spend liberally on fashion, maintain active social lives more than men. If a man can’t keep up, then that’s his problem. I don’t see why I should lower my standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 08:49 PM
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No, I agree that the original comment was incorrect. With that being said, the fact that so many pregnant women become victims of homicides is horrific. I don’t think it’s categorically feminist to say that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 11:29 PM
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Did you read the article? The meta data references the following: “Of 38,417 female victims aged 15-44 years identified in the data set, 10,411 had known pregnancy status; 1,300 of those deaths were pregnancy associated. Of all deaths with known pregnancy status, 3,203 were by homicide (30.8%) and 7,208 (69.2%) were by suicide” 30% is preposterous.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:44 PM
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Right! I forgot, nearly ALL men have deadly jobs. 🙄 get back to us when the number of men in deadly careers outweighs the number of women who give birth.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:41 PM
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Surely technological innovation could resolve the issues brought on by sinking TFR before we… enslave women to have children??? The world is changing quickly, these sorts of regressive solutions you hint at make no sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 10:38 PM
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Shiver me timbers! MisterDudeBroGuy on reddit.com is so big, bad, and scary. What will we do if he chooses to go to war in his loneliness? Go implicitly threaten women with r*pe elsewhere, genuinely, what is wrong with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:23 PM
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Don’t be obtuse. My father met my mother while he was traveling abroad to my mother’s home town in latin america. they became engaged within two weeks. I know first hand the kind of struggle and power imbalances that exist in these types of marriages. I’m not opposed to men going abroad to find a partner, but it really upsets me when men tout its benefits and completely ignore what the reality is for the woman once she moves here. Do you think the racism (often from the husband’s family), career…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/23 03:08 PM
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You’ve played squash your whole life and haven’t made one lasting friendship? What makes you think any other social normative changes will be more hospitable than that. You’ve already missed many opportunities for friendship where they were ripe
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 02:55 AM
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The link you sent states this: One in 4 women and about 1 in 26 men have experienced completed or attempted rape. With that being said, I think I’ll concede that the US does not take male victims seriously at all, and we do need to hold female rapists accountable. I’m sorry to hear about your experience, too, and I can’t imagine someone telling me that I should’ve enjoyed what I went through. Our society failed you if you ever felt that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 04:23 PM
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I don’t disagree that your example has happened before to numerous men. Just that there are many many more rapes which women suffer, with hard evidence. Like rape kits, witnesses, text messages, etc. Still, only 69% of felony rape convictions result in jail time. Where is the justice for those women? https://cmsac.org/facts-and-statistics/#:~:text=60%25%20of%20rapes%2Fsexual%20assaults,50.8%25%20chance%20of%20an%20arrest. At the same time, I don’t think it’s right to view this strictly through a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 04:03 PM
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This is a good point, and I agree that if this is happening, that’s abhorrent. But more broadly, male rapists are not held accountable at the expense of women’s (and men’s) safety, don’t you think that’s also worth caring about?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 03:42 PM
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These are extreme outliers that hardly broach the 1/6 women who experience sexual assault or rape. I agree that all of the things you listed are abhorrent, but I don’t think any of them are exclusive to women. Men also lie about SA, they lie about their perpetration. They abuse their male privilege far more than women are even able to. They don’t just advocate for killing all women, they do kill women at a much higher frequency than the converse. While I don’t agree that there should be a curfew…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 02:56 PM
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You asked her to figure out why those points weren’t included in your OP. So, please, in your endless wisdom, tell us why they weren’t! Surely this will be an easy slam dunk for you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 02:51 PM
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Your title states that the top 5% of men are responsible for 50% of all sex. This commenter explicitly dismantles that, and your best retort is “try again, pointdexter” 😂 also, the quality of paper chosen for this post demonstrates your clear lack of actual research experience or legit stat analysis of any kind. The paper mainly poses a research question, it doesn’t actually summarize metadata about sex distribution. You shouldn’t masquerade with unfounded confidence and spread misleading inform…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 02:30 PM
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Funny how when women were called degrading names and “silenced” by men throughout many decades, they did not turn to extremism? What ever happened to personal accountability and self help?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 02:23 PM
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You’re making less than 35k and providing for 2 kids???? I would defo be picking up extra shifts in your situation, if only to provide a bit of financial cushioning.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 10:35 AM
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MANY sex workers are trafficked, and even more are stuck in the industry because of the stigma. Also… lazy? I mean it’s a job lol. Defo hardwe tha mcdonalds, which is why most of us choose that over sw
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 02:41 AM
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Take one look at pornhub search stats and tell me you still believe women love violence lmao https://www.pornhub.com/insights/2022-year-in-review#gender-demographics the most popular genre among women has been lesbian for years. The study in the vice article has several unexplained confounders.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:43 PM
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I can respect that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:36 PM
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Lol, yeah, I think hard core drug dealers suck too
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 03:01 AM
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Thanks for explaining your viewpoint in more detail. I agree with your opinion that we shouldn’t govern whether adult people can consume porn or not. My opinion, boiled down, is that I personally take issue with porn viewership. That basically means I will not be with a man who consumes porn, since habitual porn viewers have more than likely consumed images of pain and suffering. As far as OSHA standards in Nevada, there is still the prevalent issue of sex trafficking and pimping. Independent co…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:57 AM
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Lol really? A.) prove that statement B.) the sex of the porn viewer has no baring on its morality
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:47 AM
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Hard to up and leave when you have literally no other job prospects? Especially given the social stigma towards sex workers. Not to mention sex trafficking, where the women are forcibly kept in the industry. Do you have zero awareness of how industries and corporations function in the US? They must comply with certain standards and perform accordingly during audits. The victim is not at fault for their own abuse, there is obviously someone else in the wrong. Name ONE other industry where rape an…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:27 PM
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Correct me if I’m wrong, but most industries where the employer abuses or takes advantage of the employees, we hold the employer accountable, rather than the employee for choosing that job (e.g., amazon). In porn, the victims just so happen to be 90% women. What accountability are you referring to exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 07:18 PM
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Tell me why the sex industry fails to comply with OSHA standards, yet it’s completely ethical in our economy? We should still have standards. Other industries comply with workplace safety mandates, and if they don’t, we can generally acknowledge that the industry which harms its employees is in the wrong. With that being said, there is something quite grotesque about consuming the visuals of women and men in abusive situations. If you are a regular porn viewer, you have VERY likely witnessed (un…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 06:54 PM
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I don’t think it’s radical, nor exclusively feminist, to oppose rape, abuse, and CSA that stems from sex work? If you are aware of the massive pitfalls of the porn industry AND STILL continue to watch, then that is the real moral abomination. And it’s not that I think people shouldn’t be able to sell sex if they want to… my issue is that the vast majority of women (and men!) involved feel they have no other choice and have to deal with abuse as a consequence. Is that not concerning to you?! Even…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 05:24 PM
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Because the consumers are largely part of the oppressive tier within the sex work industry? Men own, film, pimp, and sell women’s bodies. Don’t be fooled by the .01% of sex workers who get rich on OF, the majority are trying to claw their way from poverty with the one commodity they have to sell. The porn industry is littered with rape and abuse. I do blame men who consume this content rather than the women. That’s because the consumers could easily put an end to such prevalent abuse by NOT CONS…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 02:28 PM
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No woman is going to be itching to set up their pal who complains about women on reddit with one of their friends. Find an interesting hobby
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:06 PM
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Wow wtf. The “karens” were mothers trying to keep their children safe. Sex offenders hang around parks sometimes and they’re literally always men. God forbid they’re cautious at your expense
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:56 PM
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Okay, then you’re clearly not who OP was referring to anyways? Women have no empathy for entitled sexless men. I mean… nobody’s entitled to someone else’s emotions lol? I think we all understand this as reasonable people
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 04:48 PM
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My dude, this entire post and your responses come off as you trying to self soothe virgin anxiety. Most people have sex, it’s not that big of a deal. If you’re a virgin, you’re out of the ordinary. Sorry, but the scientists aren’t wrong about that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 09:08 PM
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No you’re right, I’m sure James_Curse on reddit.com is so big and bad and muscular. Definitely a superior specimen right here, folks 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:59 PM
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As a woman in her 20s who gets hit on persistently by men in their 30s, I’d rather be with my bf who’s my age lol. They disgust me and all my friends feel the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 07:05 PM
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Legit was just trying to answer your question 😭 there is substantial evidence that porn consumption impacts a man’s perception of his partner. I’m sorry if the truth is uncomfortable or upsetting. I had to come to terms with the difficult facts about why porn is bad, too. It’s hard
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 01:42 PM
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Here ya go: “Currently, there has only been one meta-analysis, which shows that pornography consumption and sexual and relationship satisfaction are negatively related for men but not for women (Hum Commun Res. 43(3):315-43, 6). Potential mediators of this link include a preference for pornographic over partnered sexual excitement, the devaluation of intimate sexual communication, decreased partnered sex due to masturbatory displacement, and upward comparisons between one’s own sex life and sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:15 AM
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Okay, if we can’t even trust the men we know and trust, why the fawk would we trust a stranger?? I say this as a CSA survivor,,, once your trust is broken by a man, especially as a child, it’s so incredibly hard to feel safe when you’re alone
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:25 AM
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If you’re asking why porn is bad, let me assure you that its detriments extend far beyond moral anxieties. Firstly, the class stratification is extremely asymmetrical in sex work, meaning only a very very small percentile of sex workers make a livable wage. Such a lifestyle is far from empowering, in fact, it precedes a life dominated by financial struggle. Beyond that, sex work fails to comply with the basic safety conditions mandated by OSHA, which inherently positions a career in SW as one wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 03:11 PM
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Does someone need to reach YOUR threshold of respectability to deserve empathy?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 06:09 AM
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Dude, porn stars regularly experience traumatic events as a byproduct of the career. We shouldn’t compare it to any other trauma, because you’re right that it’s very different from a soldier’s PTSD. Nonetheless, it’s still an issue
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 05:47 AM
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What? This is the dumbest comparison; when you gamble, there is no guarantee of any return for your money. When you pay a sex worker, you get exactly what you pay for.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 01:25 AM
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Absolutely agree that men overall are generally great and harmless people. But, when it’s at the point where over 97% of murders and assault are committed by men, then I think maybe we should ask ourselves why? It’s not a matter of physical strength, since men hurt other men far more than women hurt other women. We shouldn’t just ignore the issue entirely since it impacts both men and women everywhere in this country
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:07 AM
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Okay but in longterm relationships, you obviously go through every possible emotion with your partner. You will 10000% see your man cry, and most normal women will only want to comfort and hug their partner in that moment. It’s not a turn off at all; just because misogyny and toxic masculinity socialize men to feel ashamed of more stereotypically “feminine” expressions, doesn’t mean you can project it onto the other sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:02 AM
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Men across ALL ethnic groups commit more homicide and violent crime than their female counterparts
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 04:51 AM
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Lol I’ve met lots of people who think they’re geniuses just because they’re ever so slightly smarter than the average dude. I say this as someone who works with ivy league graduates in the finance field and as someone who is with a computer scientist from one of the top 5 grad programs in the country: most if not all of these extremely high achieving people are in long term relationships with people who are also high achieving. I find they have less trouble getting into relationships than averag…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 05:07 PM
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The ones who say this sort of thing are never “terribly intelligent”. They’re just average people with an ego complex
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:57 PM
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Speak for yourself, I don’t have a career in any of those fields and work in a male dominated space
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 12:05 AM
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🙄🙄 these guys will never talk about their job bc they either a) still live with mommy while shitting on women on reddit, or b) have an unimpressive career
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 03:42 PM
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Genuine question: what happens to your world view once these jobs become automated? Because they will in the next hundred years
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 03:40 PM
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Lmaoooo please tell me about your undying contribution to society as a man? Are you trying to tell me that traditionally female jobs are useless?? Teachers and nurses? And what about the modern day women in medicine, law, economics, etc. Me and all the women I know have successful careers, and we do it while wearing makeup. It’s incredibly hurtful when men diminish our hard work, investment in our education, and passion. Can’t you empathize with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 03:35 PM
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Wtf😭 it’s terrifying to see someone genuinely think these things. Maybe, just maybe, women were pressured to be their most beautiful and refined self for thousands of years, and recently, were able to enter the workforce so that they could live an independent lifestyle. Meanwhile, men are graduating college at a lesser rate than women and don’t have the same pressure to become beautiful. How about you catch up, instead of arguing for a society that drags women down to your level
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 06:40 AM
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If you want to talk heternomatively, there would literally be no society to run without women who birth and raise men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 04:51 AM
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Okay, then why don’t men step up and put the same effort into their appearance?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 04:07 AM
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Ok and? Just use makeup, spend thousands of dollars a year on fashion, get plastic surgery, hit the gym, buy expensive haircuts, and learn proper etiquette like women do
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/23 03:26 AM
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How exactly are women oppressing men with their power? You are aware that men deferring to their “tingles” (lmfao) abuse their power every day by raping and abusing 99% of all victims (which includes both men AND women). PLEASE explain to me where women’s power comes into play in this society
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 06:46 PM
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What else is there left for men to do but hate women for their dry spells 🥺🥺🥺 they definitely couldn’t focus on “looksmaxing” (which women have done since always re: the billion dollar cosmetics, fashion, and plastic surgery industries) instead of complaining that nobody wants them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 06:42 PM
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Since you brought up stats, could you kindly share the research behind the idea that “Successful men do seem to have an "official" educated wife in their class while fucking other cheap but hot women around. No one cares, no one can stop them and women actually rather suck their dicks and be their flesh lights than marry their class. Well, get fucked, but don't expect commitment”? Why are you speaking on behalf of successful men? I am sure you are not successful simply based on your vulgarity an…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 11:29 PM
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What is wrong about this? If you can’t attract anyone, you are, by definition, unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 10:36 PM
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Literally everyone holds women accountable for their pregnancy, my dude. Deadbeat fathers are the ones who get a free pass, and holding them accountable is not putting any more onus on them than they deserve. Both partners chose to have unprotected sex, and therefore, both need to deal with the consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 07:13 PM
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If then men didn’t want a kid, then why did they go condomless during sex? Lol the government is rightfully harsh on these me; they did the ONE thing that brings a child into this world, then people get surprised and offended when we try to hold them accountable
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:59 PM
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You’re so right, we need to treat women like adults and they need to stop freeloading off the government so men can continue to have the freedom to behave like children 😡 after all, women have the responsibility to choose the right man, take birth control, and carry the baby to term. If they didn’t do everything right along the way, well, they just need to grow up and choose the right man child to go through the trauma of child birth for. It’s ridiculous to think that men should wear a condom, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 05:36 PM
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This is very common in immigrant communities in the US. My parents bought a couple homes for our family back in MX as soon as they were financially able. I know many families who have done this as well
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 06:18 AM
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Wow, putting the onus on a woman who is in sex work to reduce a man’s urge to commit violent acts is horrendous in the moral sense. Nobody should have to bare the responsibility of another person’s virtue
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 02:15 AM
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Sure, the root cause can be psychological, but the actual experience of the condition is physiological. As someone who used to have vaginismus, it’s completely out of your control, reflexive, and very painful. It also doesn’t necessarily entail sexual situations either; many women with vaginismus first discover they have it when they try to use a tampon for the first time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 06:03 AM
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You can have moral objections to things like porn, alcohol, etc., while also understanding that it will still be bought and sold
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 01:01 PM
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Okay? And nobody has to buy them? It’s a free market economy, my dude. People can buy and sell just about anything they want
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:08 AM
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In the case of cheating, abuse, addictions, absent parenting, etc., there is an obvious person at blame. Otherwise, probably both played a significant role in the crumbling relationship. I don’t think filing stats say much about the issues which led to the divorce itself
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 09:05 PM
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This is intentionally obtuse. Obviously, relationships are usually dead/draining/unhealthy long before the filings actually proceed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 06:42 PM
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I was addressing your apparent belief that violence is not fueled by hate, when it obviously is fueled, at the very least, by something hate adjacent.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:28 PM
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Right! Why don’t they just get it through their head that violence is fueled by love and compassion
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 01:46 PM
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I definitely agree; male victims of abuse often do not receive the care and support that they deserve. Emotional violence also goes under the radar, yet has a profound impact on men and women. Perpetrators, regardless of sex, should be held accountable for their behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 10:55 PM
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But like you said, the relationship never would have existed in the first place if he hadn’t asked. He put things into motion and his choice to ask was the most imminent
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 05:45 PM
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Nobody is arguing that women shouldn’t be treated as “fully fledged adults” when it comes to choice and dating. Firstly, the woman did not choose for the man to harm her. It was not her choice, and the onus for another person’s actions should not be placed on her. The man chose to harm her. Why do you only discuss the woman’s choice to initially date him while completely disregarding the more obvious and major choice involved with abuse: the decision to inflict harm. Should abusive men not be tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 05:26 PM
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Okay, and? The woman’s approval has literally nothing to do with the initial choice to ask her.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 05:20 PM
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As someone who has been verbally AND physically abused, this is laughable. When you’re being beaten, the words don’t matter at all. Physical abuse is so, so much worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 05:17 PM
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I apologize if I came off as upset; not my intention at all. With that being said, I was responding to your apparent belief that a man who is a 5 making 100k being with a woman who is a 5 who makes $100k may be settling, in your view (compared to the same man being with a 10 who is in a lower socio economic bracket). Your example of Japanese men who have untraditional relationships also confuses me, since this type of lifestyle is not actually conducive to wealth expansion, whereas marriage with…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 08:03 PM
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Have you been in a relationship before? It’s not settling to be with someone who has a compatible lifestyle with your own. Most of my friends, family, my partner, and myself make good money, have higher education, similar values, etc. Our lives are harmonious because of our similar lifestyles, and I surely would consider it settling to be with someone who doesn’t fit with my habits. My friends and myself are in happy and fulfilling relationships without any major conflicts or power struggles. In…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 07:36 PM
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As if chris chan is not an obvious outlier 🙄 the average basement dweller would benefit from therapy AND socializing/building friendships to strengthen their empathy, satisfaction, and sense of fulfillment. If a dude doesn’t want to “touch grass”, well, that’s his loss!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 05:22 PM
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If you were truly indifferent, you would not have such strong and biased opinions of misogyny and disregard certain forms of violence based on your own opinion. Btw, I was obviously not talking about the casual label of misogyny, I was referring to the control tactics and psychological abuse associated with actual misogyny. Also, we DO have actual knowledge if violence occurred more often than not due to the burden of proof. For example, bruises, recordings, or witnesses. And correct me if I’m w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 03:22 PM
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I did not say most men are misogynistic. The men in my life are incredible and kind people. What I said was that misogyny is a precursor to IPV perpetration. This is well documented and I think it’s worth knowing: https://journals.copmadrid.org/ejpalc/art/ejpalc2019a1
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 03:19 PM
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Oh my. Did you know that misogyny is one of the best predictors of IPV? This mindset us damaging and unhealthy. We do not know the circumstances which led to the woman choosing to marry that man. I am not all knowing, and neither are you. The authority you speak with is unjustified
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:57 PM
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You commit the same transgression as OP then, sensationalizing and underplaying for the sake of making a point. Personally, all of the above are pressing issues. And 1/3 of women, millions of people, experiencing spousal violence is millions too many. Maybe we should give a damn about that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:41 PM
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You’re right! Since respiratory diseases, accidental deaths, and suicide are more prevalent, we should ignore the inconsequential issue of murder😐
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/23 01:28 PM
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Okay, and the whole of women come together to share experiences about creepy men. So are men are using feminine logic to justify their nihilism? Why is it only wrong when women gather to share opinions about men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 05:56 PM
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My mistake, I was referring to the incel community and virginity as it appertained to the original topic of this comment thread. I also don’t claim to know have any position of authority to tell men or women what to do. Which is why I suggested other professional men to begin with. On the other hand, are you arguing that you are in a position of superiority to tell women how they ought to react to men? What do you view to be a healthy way of communicating, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 07:00 PM
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Absolutely not. I specifically reference male-approved and developed methods of communication by referencing books written by male scientists and therapists who specialize in male trauma. Besides, women as a whole did not personally victimize you. If you’re a virgin, you’re most likely blaming women for something that’s ultimately your fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 06:30 PM
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Oh please, stop lamenting about “women approved” topics. Nobody but the echo chambers on redpill forums will tolerate entitlement or prejudice. Your language here, reducing misogyny to simply not “woman approved” and calling women harpies is, quite frankly, annoying. Learn how to communicate your feelings in healthy and meaningful ways by reading one the many great self help books written by male psychologists or get a therapist that specializes in male trauma. Alternatively, you can blame women…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/23 06:18 PM
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That’s exactly my point, though. Wallowing does nothing for your character; beyond that, it’s not the self-reflection you claim it to be. Self-reflection requires an inward critique and challenging your own beliefs, not blaming every hardship on women. “Being a misogynist doesn’t make you a terrible human being” is not reflective of self development, you accepted your own faults.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 05:29 PM
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Being a surgeon does not mean you are pleasant or engaging to be around. But it is an amazing accomplishment, and I would recommend leading with your passions rather than your bitterness to make friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 05:03 PM
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Consequence of an infirm character. You wasted time devolving further into your own prejudices instead of reading, studying, exercising, and doing. You only proved your critics right
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 01:31 PM
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I meant that your “random sample” seems to stem from the results you believe would represent the views you have read on this website. Therefore, the bias would be unclear simply by looking at a graph since it came from a niche. My entire point is that I DON’T think 80% of men are below average. I think the majority of insecure redditor men on here claiming that they’re part of a majority are plainly wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:49 PM
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Most people are in normal relationships that don’t demand settling, and they have a partner with compatible values. Many men marry before the age of 20, and I’m sorry to say, lonely reddit men don’t suddenly metamorphosis into marriage material successful men at the age of 30. But please, do tell me more about the cock carousel women ride before settling down. Or is this just another justification for your bitterness at being alone? There are far better things in life to concern yourself with th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 05:24 AM
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Then tell me how more than 20% of adult men are in relationships? Just because you’re viewed as objectively unattractive, does not mean it’s some societal mistake and that, instead, you’re actually average + everyone else surely views most men to be as ugly as you. Doesn’t it make more sense that you would be in the bottom percentile of attractiveness?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/23 03:58 AM
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Ah yes, world renowned research group, onepoll.com just proved everyone wrong. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 08:32 PM
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No? In a healthy relationship, two people provide for the relationship equally.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 08:58 PM
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My issue with this take is that the statistical correlation between race and crime can actually be explained by historical socioeconomic stratification along race lines, such as redlining, slavery, housing discrimination, and racial profiling within the justice system. On the other hand, violence perpetrated by men specifically towards women cannot be explained by social class or historical oppression. Rich men commit IPV, as well as poor men, minority men, white men, liberal men, conservative m…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 09:32 PM
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I’m sorry, but stereotypes and your honest to goodness opinion just don’t cut it. Bring me statistical facts that refute how men’s aggression is a more pressing societal issue right now than PMS. Men frequently demonize women through their misogyny, further, misogyny is a precursory ideology to violence. But you shouldn’t (and you likely won’t) care about femicide simply for women’s sake. The violence and murder committed towards men is disproportionately committed by OTHER MEN. Pointing this ou…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/23 12:44 PM
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While I do certainly see the challenges men face in these days with dating, I still think it’s damaging to reduce feminism to sex and romance (since it primarily aims to eliminate violence, unequal representation, and sexual assault for women. With that being said, I think that men’s issues, such as the risk for assault, intersectional issues, and suicide, also deserve advocacy.) Your approach to women, which appears to be motivated mostly by sexual urges, dooms you to fail. Women can sense horn…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 06:17 PM
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Concepts like hypergamy and masculine frame are so rudimentary in society, that they are central themes in age-old fables. Explain to me how we were all raised on stories like Cinderella and Snow White YET hypergamy and masculine men’s assets centered on their ability to be “strong” or “providers” is a newly mainstream idea? Either Redpillers lack historical knowledge and a fundamental literature education, or they’re lying to themselves that these concepts are silenced at the societal level in …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 05:45 PM
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Clarify what the moral difference is please
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 08:12 PM
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they disproportionately impact women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/23 03:26 PM
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They’re acting like rape statistics on college campuses aren’t extremely high. 1 in 6 women has been sexually assaulted.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:30 PM
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Really? They have it worse on every metric? How about date rape, stalking, and the fatal risk of intimate partner violence?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 05:18 AM
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You do realize that there is more to an individual apart from looks? She’s clearly an outlier due to her lifestyle and choices. I don’t know any woman in my life who would give up their career to become a sugar baby. Rather, we are in happy and fulfilling relationships where we feel respected and accepted for who we are. As far as abuse goes, women are at a much higher risk of bodily injury and even death than men are as a result of domestic violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 08:33 PM
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Then why focus on an obvious outlier? At best, you’re arguing that the average woman has stooped to the level of the average man. Both work, both are kinda crusty looking, and both are uninteresting. Big deal? When women refer to the bar being in hell for men, they aren’t talking about the superficial bs like physical appearance or money. It’s usually in reference to the way their partner treats them (physical/verbal abuse, cheating, etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/23 04:46 PM
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Comparing adult virgin men to victims of naziism … only on r/PurplePillDebate, my friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 01:41 PM
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I seriously doubt that a statically significant number of respondents rationalized a bad faith answer like that. Women aren’t as different from men as you seem to believe when it comes to work ethic. In fact, as the times change and more of us crave independence, women increasingly outperform men in college and outnumber men in the US’ college educated work force https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2021/11/08/whats-behind-the-growing-gap-between-men-and-women-in-college-completion/ https://www…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/23 06:51 AM
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Why should you, SecondEldenLord, have any authority to tell women OR men how they ought to live? Decide for yourself how you want your life to be, but you have no right over anyone else. Self improvement does not subsume a superiority complex and a sketchy moral compass
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 02:27 PM
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I don’t think anyone is stopping you from doing so? Go live happily then, unmarried, childless, with a gf who is younger and hotter than you. None of us in fulfilling relationships care, so why do you feel the need to shit on the very thing that makes our lives joyful and fun? Many married men and women are happy
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 02:07 PM
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Yes, exactly. So in both instances, it is NOT as easy since they have to pay. The “names” women call these men (e.g., passport bros) is referring to the money they have to spend to experience intimacy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 10:42 PM
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Okay look Holden_Flame, I don’t know anything you’ve been through in life or what troubles you deep down in your soul. I do hope that any turmoil or insecurities you have can be addressed in a professional setting and that you can find passions beyond sex/intimacy. I may be misreading, but if you’re a virgin, you’ll realize how much more there is to life than sex once you do the dirty a few times. The insecurities and issues you have won’t be magically healed by puthy. You still need friendships…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 08:16 AM
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0.0 I should have stated my initial comment more generally to apply to both genders, so I apologize. It’s selfish to enter into a relationship in an emotionally fragile state bc this can lead to toxic dynamics, codependency, etc. Anger issues and uncouth desperate expressions online absolutely need to be addressed on a personal level, and I don’t say this from a man-hating POV. I say this as someone who has gone through extensive therapy and psychiatry to manage my traumas before entering into a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 07:52 AM
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A note on vulnerability - the ability to communicate emotions with maturity and honesty is incredibly important in a relationship. I personally value vulnerability so much in my relationship w/ my bf. However, certain displays of vulnerability can be super off putting. I see many men on here claim that women these days are misandrists who reject emotionally open men. I would counter that many men on this sub are plenty emotional in their anger, blame, desperation(cough lamenting online about goi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 07:23 AM
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Hahaha no worries. Looks are just a nice cherry on top. My partner and I find each other to be 10/10 looks and personality wise, and once you find someone you’re really crazy about, every other option sort of fades away
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 11:06 PM
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I do feel very lucky. I truly hope others here will find healthy love and that they can enjoy their own company until then.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 10:47 PM
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That’s absolutely not true lol. I finally found my ideal partner, and he is both masculine and gentle with me. He was 100% worth the wait, and I encourage anyone (man or woman) reading this to never settle. Being alone is preferable to being in a loveless relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/23 10:27 PM
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Guys, we are witnessing greatness. Economic expert, sellingXY, just exposed how eliminating women from the work place will prevent impending recession bc 50 years ago, women didn’t work and it was “just fine”. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:15 PM
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Fair enough. Best of luck with the sugar daddy-ing 🙏🏼
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 01:30 AM
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Speak for urself buddy, I’m with my partner because he’s a good person and a good partner
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 01:24 AM
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If that’s your preference, why haven’t you relocated to one of those developing countries yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 01:18 AM
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This is honestly obscene. The poverty rate between men and women is roughly equal. The only real difference is that women are more likely to utilize social benefits. Why not encourage men to do the same instead of dragging everyone down to your level so you can use a hypothetical financial advantage to get laid? The rest of us have no issues with romance or sex, don’t blame social welfare for your virginity
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/23 01:17 AM
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Looks matter, sorry. Pretty privilege isn’t a new concept, and it applies to both men and women. Maybe go for women in your league and you’ll have more success
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/23 02:57 PM
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So abuse victims who ignore red flags should be punished for their imprudence? That is ridiculous. There isn’t an intellect threshold for victimhood lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 12:57 AM
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While I’m sorry you were cheated on (and I believe it’s the cheaters fault and not yours), it is seriously concerning to conflate your cheating experience with rape, assault, and femicide.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 09:43 PM
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This subreddit is mind numbing sometimes, but it’s good to be reminded that most men are empathetic and good people. I wish more people on here would work to understand each other better, and I appreciate your perspective here
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 06:59 PM
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It’s deeply sad how OP finds a way to blame women for injustices thrust upon them by men they trusted. He does not have a lens of morality, independent of sex, to understand victimhood in general. OP, if you’re reading this, please keep in mind that we should reject the type of people who use violence to interfere with someone else’s free will. Man or woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 06:49 PM
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I’m sorry; are you implying that women need to take responsibility for being abuse victims? Regardless of gender, perpetrators of violence are the ones who the law forces to take responsibility. It’s an issue of morality, which appears to be defunct in your eyes when a woman is involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/23 06:39 PM
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I didn’t realize women exist to satisfy your lust, LupeDyCazari. You realize women have passions, hobbies, friendships, and goals just like any man.. right? Or does your life revolve around lower pleasures so much that the worthwhile things disappear? I sincerely hope that you find a goal worth living for
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 04:46 PM
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Why are you so terribly bitter 😭😭 no fit and attractive person calls other people fat. So out of pocket
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/22 08:05 PM
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I’m confused what the purpose of degrading women’s intellect from an evolutionary perspective entails, though. By your logic, hunting is a task that can be done by animals as simple minded as rats. But clearly this information has zero impact on the modern man’s intellectual abilities
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/22 03:41 PM
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I am sorry that you have been ignored and rejected. I do think that you deserve compassion and respect from others, and I hope that you are able to feel secure in your identity one day. With that being said, respect does not entail romance, and some of us are destined to be alone in that sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:39 PM
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Your actions are concrete. Accomplished man who has an ego problem < accomplished man who is actually humble
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/22 06:15 PM
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Why? False equivalence here. More aptly: If I am against dating a man who pays for sex, then I can’t have a problem with a man who won’t date a woman who pays for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/22 02:25 PM
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People are free to have their preferences, and I would never blame anyone for listing sexual history as an important factor. With that being said, why is it unacceptable (in your view) for a woman to judge the consequences of a man’s lack of sexual history (not good at sex, can’t keep a hard, awkwardness, etc.), yet a man can judge a woman for the consequences of her “colorful history” (e.g.: trauma, doesn’t want to repeat uncomfortable positions, waiting to have sex)? This sort of dichotomy dem…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/22 01:39 PM
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i live in a state where abortion is illegal, sadly. but please pass the popcorn anyways
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:31 PM
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Men on here really will insist that they are agency-free babies who can’t decide on their own free will to have condomless sex. Like……….. we get it, you don’t understand sex dynamics cuz you don’t get any play. You don’t have to insist on these naive points over and over😭😭
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:23 PM
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where have you been the past six months😭
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 04:17 PM
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Pausing contribution or leaving to another country doesn’t increase their chances for sex though lol. People can want whatever they want… money, sex, success… doesn’t mean they’re entitled to it whatsoever.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 04:08 PM
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My goodness, you are bitter. Aging is perfectly okay and natural, for both men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/22 05:00 AM
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It’s time to put away the thesaurus
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:15 AM
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What! Men are also victims of abuse, and it’s horrible in equal measure. I would never blame an abuse victim, and it’s very cruel to act like there is anyone to blame for abuse other than the abuser. That was my point
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 03:38 PM
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So what? We do away with rehabilitative programs, therapy, and anger management classes for perpetrators because alas, abuse is an inevitable crime? Of course not, education and prevention helps women identify red flags (like misogyny) and establishes a reintigrative path for abusers. To your point; if you think women should take responsibility and just leave an abusive relationship, why wouldn’t this logic appertain to our approach to relationships? That we will not engage with someone with red…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 04:20 PM
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Abuse is extremely complicated and often entails conflicting emotions, like loving someone who hurts you. as an abuse survivor myself, I believe it’s narrow-minded to tell someone that it’s their fault they were hit or strangled because they didn’t up and leave. Nevermind the suicide/murder threats and other fear mongering tactics abusers use to keep their partner in that situation. If you lived with a man twice your size who beat you up every time you tried to get help, I’m sure you’d have a di…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 03:21 PM
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What exactly should women change then, in your view?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 01:47 PM
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the irony of this comment on a thread putting the onus on women to avoid abusive relationships instead of the men who are abusers 😩😩😩
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 01:23 PM
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The risk of death for women who experience abuse is very high. I don’t see a good reason to center a discussion around women avoiding red flags for abuse (misogyny being one of those https://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/intimatepartnerviolence/riskprotectivefactors.html ) around how people who exhibit those red flags have a hard time dating. Should women be the ones burdened to change in this case, or men? My partner is a feminist, and that was one thing I found very attractive about him!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 01:19 PM
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