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| 84 | How to win in family court: a PSA from a lawyer.Completely spot on advice. I followed it exactly through good instincts, good advice and a bit of dumb luck and I’ve maintained custody through 2 contentious cycles. I could very well be in court every few years (family court is such a great tool for abusers). But I’ll be there with my tall, slightly older, handsome, married, slick but not slimy lawyer and a cool head. LISTEN TO THIS LADY. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/22 09:14 PM |
| 5 | FDS exercise: How many red flags can you spot before he went bashit crazy?✋ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/22 12:35 PM |
| 95 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 41 -Strategic Incompetence: Men Mysteriously Bad At All The Things They Want Women To DoNot only is “mens work” less frequent as opposed to “womens work” it is also often outside the home (lawn care, vehicle maintenance, grilling, etc) where they’re more likely to receive social validation for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 05:09 PM |
| 9 | Carrie & Mr. Big Show How Toxic "Endgame" Relationships Can BeThis is 100% the correct reading in my opinion. It should be a cautionary tale for forever girlfriends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 05:07 PM |
| 100 | This Christmas don’t be like me - Watch out for holiday lovebombingSame thing just happened to me but I resisted the urge to get him the gift. It was SO STRONG though - was literally on the payment screen before I snapped out of it. Women are so good and loving. It’s really a shame we have to hold that beautiful part of ourselves back because of the games they play. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Settling because you want kidsThank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 06:08 PM |
| 2 | Settling because you want kidsI'm seriously considering this. Could you share the places your clinic recommended? PM is fine. Good luck! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, expecting a father to support his child financially is LITERALLY MURDERMost judges are men but sure yeah the system is rigged 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 12:52 AM |
| 5 | Types of PickMes and how to heal your inner oneAwareness is so important and I am on that road (partially due to this community). Mostly struggling with the Hurtlocker and Scarcity Mindset varieties at this stage in my life. Like you, I just recently realized I need a gratitude journaling practice. Thank you! Good luck on your journey. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 05:01 PM |
| 6 | Types of PickMes and how to heal your inner oneAll of them resonated, help. (Also this is brilliant, thank you.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/20 04:48 PM |
| 13 | Prime example of the type we don't give our valuable presence to. A date with a woman is worth far more than $18.75. He had the audacity to call himself a "gentleman" after all that! 😂Right? Even with friends, unless what we ordered was DRAMATICALLY different, we just split it straight down the middle. This guy is a mess. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 11:49 AM |
| 11 | Incels new chart about women.Blocker with Demon aspirations | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 01:41 PM |
| 12 | Please keep this in mind, marrying a man should be a choice, not a necessity!Would buy that in a heartbeat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 12:48 AM |
| 53 | Where's The Lie Though?God has her chosen people (I'm jealous) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/08/20 02:05 PM |
| 7 | Wtf, and men complain that women have “impossible” standards.Womens sizes are so confusing. I'm your exact height/weight (or I was, pandemic stress has me down to 102) and I wear a 0. So strange. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 01:09 AM |
| 3 | I don’t really like your boyfriendThat spoke to my soul. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 02:03 AM |
| 16 | LETS 👏 TALK 👏ABOUT👏THIS👏Or both! (Eldest daughter here too, woof) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/06/20 03:16 PM |
| 19 | A man comes into MY life and I have to compromise!? FOR WHAT!?Me too! I watch it and the Cher "I am a rich man" at least monthly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 05:05 PM |
| 109 | Struggle is realAnd many of them are D) All of the above | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 02:24 AM |
| 12 | Thank youThe first date should be dinner not coffee but you're new here and handled it well so we'll be nice. Welcome! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/06/20 12:03 AM |
| 10 | Prepping you for zero effort 101 - a 38 year old’s journey of nothingness."People who don't take themselves too seriously" or any variation thereof is an automatic swipe left for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/20 01:10 PM |
| 47 | "Meet up" "Hang out"It's gems like this that make this subreddit life changing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/20 01:12 AM |
| 45 | I just can't anymore.Mine does and it was never in question. If I'm going to risk my life to make this person, it's sure as hell getting my name. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 04:48 AM |
| 21 | I just can't anymore.Not even just the man's family. My ex took my last name and right before the wedding my OWN FATHER whose name I was continuing told me he thought it felt wrong for the man to change his name. (And the marriage was wrong but the name thing turned out to be a great call.) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/20 04:46 AM |
| 1 | If it's emotionally hard to stay away from a LVM, post here. If you need encouragement, post here. If you want to stay on track but its been tough this week, post here. I will give you ENCOURAGEMENT, AFFIRMATIONS, and SUPPORT to other Queens that need to get through this shitty week. Don't text him.The absolute truth. I really need to still be investing in myself and my leveling up journey. Thank you. I will take you up on that if the urge gets too strong but just calling out the oneitis has already helped me move past it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 06:07 PM |
| 4 | Online dating strategy to find a HVMThis is amazing! Did you use multiple apps or just Tinder? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 01:08 AM |
| 1 | If it's emotionally hard to stay away from a LVM, post here. If you need encouragement, post here. If you want to stay on track but its been tough this week, post here. I will give you ENCOURAGEMENT, AFFIRMATIONS, and SUPPORT to other Queens that need to get through this shitty week. Don't text him.Thank you. It's frustrating but I'm glad I know better now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/20 12:59 AM |
| 3 | If it's emotionally hard to stay away from a LVM, post here. If you need encouragement, post here. If you want to stay on track but its been tough this week, post here. I will give you ENCOURAGEMENT, AFFIRMATIONS, and SUPPORT to other Queens that need to get through this shitty week. Don't text him.Oh goddess I needed this. Covid loneliness is getting to me and I developed a big crush on the man I'm talking to. We were set up in February and have just been talking on the phone and video chatting because we're both worried about the virus. We had one in person but socially distanced date and I thought were moving to more but haven't been asked out again since (3 weeks ago). For the amount of contact and depth of connection, I mentally WAY overcommitted. Lately it's felt like he's pulling ba… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/20 10:41 AM |
| 13 | Leveled up and threw away all the "gifts" my LVM exs bought me that were REALLY for their depraved sexual pleasure. A HVM does not NEED to tie you up, treat you like a kinkmeisha, or use any depraved pornsick sex strategies because hurting someone they care about should be a HUGE TURN OFF.I've been hanging on to it for the same reason but I need to throw it out. I'd be embarrassed to show it to a new partner and that's just not my life anymore. Thank you for the nudge. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/20 04:17 PM |
| 3 | when tall women wear heels unapologetically, I liveAwww, that's really quite charming. The guy I'm talking to right now found a very subtle way to work into our first conversation that he was 5'6". I don't care about that at all but I appreciated him trying to tactfully save my time if I did. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 06:03 PM |
| 2 | What do you think, ladies?I agree 100% but would argue that is still the case for a lot of businessmen. At a certain level up the corporate ladder, it becomes really rare to find an unmarried man whose wife doesn't shoulder the domestic tasks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/20 01:24 AM |
| 3 | I Love Men: An Open LetterOMG that must be a hallmark of dodgy guys. Last one I dated insisted that respect was a construct as well. What? Should have ran the moment he said that & I'll know better next time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/20 03:50 PM |
| 11 | Woman risks her life to work as a CNA during COVID and this is the thanks she gets from her “partner”That was the part that struck me too. I'm sure she was harassed. And the kicker is he SHOULD be offering financial support if he wants her to quit her job to make him comfortable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/20 05:00 PM |
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