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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
20	Wife emptied main liquidity account and rerouted her pay		project2027	/r/Divorce_Men	08/02/26 12:16 PM

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2	Survived a High-Conflict Divorce with Kids - Lessons From the Trenches I identify with what you said about being a people pleaser who needs to fix everything. For years I fixed and chased. I remember the fights during the recent fee years - I told her that it is unsustainable that I fix every time and she makes no effort or takes any accountability, I remember telling her this will not go on forever because it is depleting me. And then a few months ago I stopped fixing and stopped chasing. All hell broke loose. Typically during a fight she would stop talking to me …	/r/Divorce_Men	13/02/26 11:59 AM
1	Wife emptied main liquidity account and rerouted her pay Thank you for your balanced response, this is exactly what the lawyer told me yesterday - nothing I can do to get her to start participating in home expenses until a formal process starts. I proposed mediation in a text, to her. no emotions, And will wait for a week. If no response I will file. I am waiting until then with the freezing of CCs and opening my own account because I want to maintain options. I know it is a risk .but a short calculated one. Funny, the lawyer asked me if there is any …	/r/Divorce_Men	10/02/26 09:52 AM
1	Wife emptied main liquidity account and rerouted her pay Thank you. I saw a lawyer yesterday, they checked the county system and she did not file, so either bluffing or is about to file. I sent her a short note with no emotions saying I offer mediation and if she's not on board I will proceed through counsel. I'll give her a week. If she does not reply I will file.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/02/26 09:41 AM
1	Wife emptied main liquidity account and rerouted her pay Thank you for this .. I would be ok with 4 different versions of this. For example send me a text -This is not working let go to mediation , or - I am withdrawing this amount so I can start retaining an attorney ... Just don't get the pettiness of no notice while I am away , emptying the account and letting me pick up that mess, we have enough money , this was not about money it was about control.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/02/26 02:12 PM
1	How I Stayed Centered When Everything Was Falling Apart Thank you for this.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/02/26 12:27 PM

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