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| 5 | Realistically what's the lowest you'll go in terms of a woman's looks?Relax calling everyone hitler or racist, it makes the words lose meaning. And you’re not convincing anyone but yourself anyways. Here’s an objective “racist/eugenicist” fact for ya: different races have measurably different IQs. And no, it’s not dependent on cultures. You can still find happiness even if men don’t find you attractive. But it won’t be by refusing to acknowledge reality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/20 03:25 AM |
| 11 | Realistically what's the lowest you'll go in terms of a woman's looks?Uhhhh yea you’re right, physical deformities mean children will be healthy. Think you might be in the wrong sub if you’re not willing to be objective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/20 03:14 AM |
| 11 | Realistically what's the lowest you'll go in terms of a woman's looks?Pure attraction isn’t the only motivator so if you’re looking for a gotcha you don’t have it. Attractive also means your children are likely to be healthy. There’s no reason not to have higher physical standards for someone you’re looking to marry and have children with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/20 03:11 AM |
| 2 | If you hate the idea of dating, it's because you're awful to be around.I uhhh don’t necessarily disagree with your paragraph here, although I think you’re way off if you think people are going to stop getting married in general. But none of that seems relevant to the conversation. Yea social media, social status, looks, and social skills are all more important than ever. Really just social status and looks. I wasn’t really talking about any of that. I was (and the poster above was) talking about the decline in quality women. And I would have to agree. It’s rare to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/20 07:35 PM |
| 3 | If you hate the idea of dating, it's because you're awful to be around.I’m not defending the mindset above but you’re also 19... I’m gen z as well but there are legitimate problems with insta-culture obsessed girls, which are the majority of attractive girls. It’s not bad to call them out and talk about them in a place like this. And the whole splitting the tab thing is a lot less cute when you’re not broke anymore. I used to split tabs too and thought that times were changing. Now that women I’m taking on dates or actively dating know I have an actual job, asking … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/20 06:53 PM |
| 1 | Womens political views are mostly influenced by whatever is mainstreamLmao this guy forgot about the part where the media already pushes a narrative about a particular race being bad... and liberal (aka mainstream cultural inclined) women eating that shit up and spouting nonsense while understanding only the sound bites and headlines they’re fed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/20 07:09 AM |
| 1 | Womens political views are mostly influenced by whatever is mainstreamROI is completely dependent on what their degree is in. I would be extremely scared if I graduated with a liberal arts degree in the next 10 years. It also happens that liberal arts degrees, and low ROI degrees in general, are dominated by women. You’re already seeing the beginning of a restructuring of education away from colleges and towards certificate programs with Googles new certificate programs. More will be put together by top tech and education brands like MIT and Amazon. This will deva… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/20 07:01 AM |
| 3 | Popular fake news debunked : men leave sick wives, college educated women divorce 90% of the time“What are behavioral patterns?” — You, 2020 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/20 07:33 PM |
| 3 | Men care more about validation from other men than they do about sex CMVYour third eye may be open but the spirits communicating with it are not from the infinite intelligence. Good luck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/20 02:16 AM |
| 3 | Men care more about validation from other men than they do about sex CMVYour comments read like a troll account and I hope for your sake that you are one. Otherwise... do some self reflection | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/20 02:14 AM |
| 3 | The reason a high N count is impressive in men, but not so much in women:You two are talking about different things. You’re talking about the actual slutty behavior — which yea isn’t necessarily heavily correlated with political ideologies. The poster above you is talking about being proud and loud about that behavior — which is 100% correlated with being more liberal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/20 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Men are vastly overestimating the effect that makeup has on women and men's attraction to themYea nah. I just graduated college. Girls would be wearing make up in class at least half the time lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/20 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Men are vastly overestimating the effect that makeup has on women and men's attraction to themSometimes I gotta wonder how old most of you are. In my experience I’ve seen makeup drastically change the way women look forsure — especially with the existence of YouTube MUA tutorials that girls 14-22 have been watching for years now. It’s not most women, I’ll give OP that, but it’s also not negligible. I’d guess around 20-30% look drastically different at a social event (parties, nights out, dates, dinner parties, etc) and online through social media than they do in day to day life. That can… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/20 10:18 PM |
| 1 | I think social media and online dating is mentally ruining womenI meannnn.... I just graduated from a large state university in California with a... disproportionate amount of attractive girls. I know the perception most people have on here of random male posters saying shit that they don’t know for certain, but I genuinely do hookup and date attractive girls who are 18-22 (I’m 22 myself). I’d say a solid 75% of them care about what your Instagram looks like. It’s not that they’ll think you’re weird for not having a good one — but it is a black mark on the l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/20 06:13 AM |
| 1 | I think social media and online dating is mentally ruining womenFor younger generations, your Instagram account is quite literally your online identity. To not have one, or to have a substandard one, is seen as minimalist at best and like weird person/loser behavior at worst. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/20 05:48 PM |
| 0 | Most guys on here wouldn't be bothered by a woman with a high N count if all of her partners had been womenLmao you’re never ever gonna get a reputable study on something like n count. I have a lot of experience with women. And I’m not a socially awkward mf, like a lot of the men here. I guess I should have prefaced it with it’s just in my experience but eh. Good luck convincing others | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/20 10:13 PM |
| 0 | Most guys on here wouldn't be bothered by a woman with a high N count if all of her partners had been womenThe causes of and effects of high n counts on men and women are not the same. In women, as a general rule, it is indicative of mental, character, or other flaws/issues that make her worse at maintaining an LTR. In men, it is indicative of (relative to other men) superior mental, character, or other traits that make him better at maintaining an LTR. That’s the uncomfortable truth you’re doing mental gymnastics to avoid confronting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/20 08:34 PM |
| 2 | Do you think a large number of millennial and gen z men will end up without a life partner and chance to reproduce?I’m well versed in Econ, trust me. The problem with your analysis is you’re not putting yourself in their shoes. You’re thinking about yourself and people like you. Yes, population growth leads to economic growth for the whole world, therefore more money for those powerful people. But they have so much money at this point that an extra $1B does nothing (relatively) to increase their power. And more importantly, they already have so much control over the monetary and economic systems worldwide th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/20 08:28 AM |
| 13 | Do you think a large number of millennial and gen z men will end up without a life partner and chance to reproduce?Is it really that hard to imagine extremely powerful people wanting less people on earth? There’s way too much info to really get into it here but the families that do have all the power aren’t just billionaires that you see mentioned in the public consciousness (bezos, Buffett, etc). For the most part they keep their wealth hidden (who owns the fed? Nobody is allowed to know) and have been building wealth and consolidating power for hundreds of years (literally). They plan decades and further o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/20 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Young white women on campuses pretend to care about blacks and LQBTQ because it is fashionable and trendyBro relax lmao white girls enculturated to white culture don’t like black dudes that much unless the black dudes are encultured to white culture. And the white girls you really want (seems like you may fetishize them a bit) aren’t into black guys. It’s that simple, and blacks tend to not move towards white culture for a variety of reasons I’m sure you’re more familiar with than I am. You saying all these dudes coping but you’re ignoring reality my guy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/20 07:34 AM |
| 1 | In an ideal society, what should men and women's gender roles/social expectations look like? If you could design your own society how would you socialize men and women differently?You think 1980 gender roles, and gender roles now, are the same?.. Gender roles have never been less imposed upon women. The internet and social media globalized feminism and hypergamy and unleashed it to what feels like it’s fullest potential. I mean think about it. An 18 year old in the US can now get a dm from a Saudi royal and be there, with his shit on her chest, in under 24 hours. Incredible times. And a much different world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/20 06:11 AM |
| 22 | [Q4W] What would your dating life be like if you were born a man?These responses are fucking delusional lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/20 12:21 AM |
| 0 | In an ideal society, what should men and women's gender roles/social expectations look like? If you could design your own society how would you socialize men and women differently?Definitely helpful, but expected less and less by younger generations. I would also say highly dependent on location. Cities like sf and nyc are not going to have expectations put on women like that. I guess what I’m really saying is, the more attractive a woman is, the less she has to adhere to those traditional feminine behavioral qualities | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/20 10:57 PM |
| 2 | In an ideal society, what should men and women's gender roles/social expectations look like? If you could design your own society how would you socialize men and women differently?Dressing feminine, wearing makeup, and presenting as attractive are the few “roles” that women still have to adhere to. Idk if you’re new here but... looks are important to men. And to be honest, adhering to “roles” that involve appearance are the easiest gender roles to uphold. I’m talking more about behavior. When it comes to that, women have had less and less gender roles to conform to there as time has gone on, whereas men’s have not budged at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/20 10:48 PM |
| 3 | In an ideal society, what should men and women's gender roles/social expectations look like? If you could design your own society how would you socialize men and women differently?Read the last sentence again | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/20 06:20 PM |
| 0 | In an ideal society, what should men and women's gender roles/social expectations look like? If you could design your own society how would you socialize men and women differently?That may be it. I’m not really sure myself bc I’m in that demo myself and I am kinda repulsed it. But maybe it’s a reflection of the fact that serious relationships are happening less often in that age group | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/20 05:46 PM |
| 7 | In an ideal society, what should men and women's gender roles/social expectations look like? If you could design your own society how would you socialize men and women differently?To attract really high quality partners, yes. But even then, if a girl is physically attractive and has masculine traits it’s seen as a plus by a lot of men. Ex. (And I know this sounds dumb but it does kinda make a good example of what I mean) check barstool sports Instagram page and you’ll find a lot of posts of girls doing something masculine like shotgunning beer with the caption being “WIFE” or something similar. Clearly not feminine behavior, and it’s seen as a positive thing by the 18-35 … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/20 05:14 PM |
| 42 | In an ideal society, what should men and women's gender roles/social expectations look like? If you could design your own society how would you socialize men and women differently?It comes down to women being free from all aspects of gender roles (if they want to be) whereas men must still conform to all of their traditional gender roles in order to attract mates and be successful in life. That’s it. That’s the whole problem, and it’s why so many men don’t like feminism. You can either have traditional gender roles for both or none but it doesn’t seem like the current arrangement is sustainable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/20 04:26 PM |
| 6 | Who has it harder, Men or Women?IMO men have it harder and it’s not close. All you need to know to prove that is a man can’t abandon his own life and set up a new one in a more successful woman’s life, while the inverse is most definitely true. That, and most of the problems women face are somewhat easy to solve in a modern society — even ugly people can get surgery to make them attractive. Shoutout Kylie Jenner. Men have to put in hard work to improve their lives and make it something they, and potential mates, can be proud o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/20 07:36 AM |
| 1 | Do men have to always date down if they even want a slight chance at all?The term alpha widow comes to mind for this discussion, which is something that I’ve seriously seen in action. I have only found girls to be forgiving of me after they are pretty emotionally invested in me and the relationship. Before then, they are very calculated with their comparisons. And the time to that investment can be different for each man, maybe you are particularly good at connecting with women like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/20 05:16 PM |
| 4 | Do men have to always date down if they even want a slight chance at all?I do it too but the comparison is probably a little more intense and ruthless when done by a woman lol. It’s literally part of their mating strategy, their biology makes them good at quickly comparing different men to find the one they feel is superior. Whereas with men, the stakes are so much lower, the comparison is a lot more forgiving of differences. Your current partner being “not as good” as your previous partner isn’t necessarily detrimental to the relationship as a man, whereas for a wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/20 05:05 PM |
| 0 | Do men have to always date down if they even want a slight chance at all?22 and go for it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/20 04:56 PM |
| 3 | Do men have to always date down if they even want a slight chance at all?These things can be simultaneously true. It’s just what I’ve experienced. A weird side note I guess, most of the men around me that are older (50+) ended up marrying the cute girl with good morals/character, not the hot Stacy. I’ve talked to them about it and really when it comes down to picking a person to live life with, most people do want that person who will be the best for them. But that doesn’t change the reality that you have to be better than them as a man to generate and sustain attrac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/20 04:55 PM |
| 2 | Do men have to always date down if they even want a slight chance at all?I agree, it’s a combination of the two. Her attributes determine the quality of men that could successfully compete for her. And of course you will be compared to them pretty much non stop unless you have deep emotional investment from her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/20 04:51 PM |
| 49 | Do men have to always date down if they even want a slight chance at all?From my experience as a relatively young man even with physical attributes that females tend to be attracted to, the only way to maintain a stable relationship is to be your woman’s superior in at least a few categories. If you aren’t better than her in a few areas, she will almost always either change her behavior towards you to test you more often to make you prove your worth again or lose that initial attraction she had and find another man who fits her idea of better in the categories she va… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/20 08:47 AM |
| 3 | [CMV] Mainstream recognition and acceptance of female hypergamy (as TRP sees it) is inevitable and will happen in the next 20 years.I would imagine that many men would refuse to participate in society. Society would become very unstable, with some of the men that realize they are part of the 80% deciding to become more and more violent and apathetic towards upholding and improving society itself. It wouldn’t even take a large proportion of that 80% for it to be extremely damaging. And for as toxic as the MGTOW sub is, they’re right when they say that the really important jobs, the jobs like dock worker and construction and w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/20 08:04 AM |
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