prophiles Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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10	Women (most of the time) are REPULSED by inexperienced men. Agreed. Virgin women are usually those who are religious and turned off by / unenthusiastic about sex, unwilling to even think about anything beyond vanilla starfish sex (no oral, no riding, no kink, no toys, etc.). A minority of them may be autistic or asexual rather than religious. Virgin men are much more often those who can’t find sexual partners, not those who don’t want to learn or who have negative attitudes about sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/23 03:19 AM
1	Women (most of the time) are REPULSED by inexperienced men. Same here	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/09/23 03:01 AM
1	CMV: The average man is attracted to the average woman. The average woman is not attracted to the average man. That is absolutely untrue. Some men can’t grow beards, and some men undergo male pattern baldness. Show me from reputable sources how they can change these conditions.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/09/23 04:54 PM
1	CMV: The average man is attracted to the average woman. The average woman is not attracted to the average man. Not every man can grow a beard, and not every man has hair. In any case, none of those things change one’s appearance as drastically for the better as makeup does.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/23 03:13 PM
6	CMV: The average man is attracted to the average woman. The average woman is not attracted to the average man. 18-20 means they’re all in school, which is a structured environment where they’re forced to get to know one another. That builds potential attraction that doesn’t happen nearly as often on dating apps or among working adults.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/23 05:10 AM
1	CMV: The average man is attracted to the average woman. The average woman is not attracted to the average man. Women have the privilege to put effort into those things. If men could wear makeup without being ostracized and turn themselves from a 5/10 to a 7/10, I’m sure a lot of them would.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/23 05:06 AM
1	Do TRULY average men actually struggle to date and have sex? I’m 36 going on 37, make $85k a year in a lower-cost metro area, and own my own house. But I’m short (5’8” on a good day), bald, and Asian, and I don’t come across as very confident. And so I haven’t had a partner since I was 19. She was way above my league, looks-wise (realistically a 8.5/10, whereas I’m a 5/10), so I’m not going to pretend that I haven’t had high standards. But I agree — I want to date someone at my level or above, not below. I’d be happy with a 6.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/23 02:45 AM
1	A lot of women are awfully entitled to male company and friendship I think what women need to keep in mind is that as long as men are required to be the pursuers of romantic relationships, they’re going to pursue. Men would not enter friendships with women with the potential intent to evolve it into a romantic relationship nearly as often if the playing field were more equal (i.e., if both women and men pursued each other equally and gender roles were not a societal expectation).	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/23 09:01 PM
1	Why Men Are Resentful of The Way Women's Sexuality (Often) Works I just crossdress when I go out and want attention. (Unfortunately, most of it is from men…but it’s still attention.) I pass pretty easily and look super sexy, so it’s easier to pretty myself up for the evening than to go to the gym everyday and try to get washboard abs and giant muscles.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/23 11:37 PM
1	Why Men Are Resentful of The Way Women's Sexuality (Often) Works Men don’t get to show off those abs, muscles, and veins on a date or when they’re going out to the club. Especially not the abs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/23 11:30 PM
2	Why Men Are Resentful of The Way Women's Sexuality (Often) Works Agreed. I don’t know why women like r/Here4Bach think that men can just acquire traits they don’t already have. Some people are naturally more anxious, some people are naturally more confident. Some people are naturally more laidback, while others are naturally more high-strung. It’s a combination of genetic and environmental factors, including who your parents are and how your childhood was. The ludicrous idea than men can just change these traits by working on themselves and that it’s their so…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/23 11:22 PM
2	Why Men Are Resentful of The Way Women's Sexuality (Often) Works That’s a great analogy about the cat. 😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/08/23 11:16 PM
2	If you cant get casual sex easily then you are unattractive That I fulfill women’s needs from a relationship/emotional standpoint (and am attractive to them once they get to know me over a long period of time) but that I am not someone who creates the initial attraction needed to get me to that point	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 05:02 PM
2	If you cant get casual sex easily then you are unattractive I’ve only had ever one single woman ever pursue me in a reasonably persistent way in my 37 years, other than a small handful of women on dating apps who have ‘liked’ me on more than one app and the one woman I dated 17 years ago. That’s got to be less than 0.01% of all women I’ve crossed paths with. I’ve certainly had my share of married or partnered women who were interested in me, but very few single women who have shown any persistent signs of interest.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 07:49 AM
5	If you cant get casual sex easily then you are unattractive Men do, because men’s worth in society is dictated in part by how sexually attractive they are (i.e., how many sexual partners they can attract). There’s no expectation for women to increase their “body count,” because a high “body count” is not indicative of a woman’s attractiveness. It’s solely her physical appearance that does that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/23 07:45 AM
1	How would you want society to address “sexlessness”? You're clearly not dating the right men or asking them the right questions early in the relationship. I've noticed that you said you're in your 30s, but your ex was in his 40s. Maybe stop dating men who are significantly older than you, as 1) they're more likely to have traditional gender role expectations, and 2) older typically means they're the more dominant partner and thus will expect the woman to be in a more submissive role.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/21 08:22 PM
1	What is the minimum amount of money/lifestyle a guy would have that is "sufficient" to be a target (or, if you prefer, participant), in a golddigger relationship? The problem with this is that you're expecting a man to ask you on the date and not vice versa, and thus you expect him to pay for you. What if a man asked the same question: "If this woman is genuinely interested in me, she will want to pay for the date (at least in the early days)." You can't have it both ways. If it's going to be, "whoever asks for the date, pays," fine, but women still rarely ask men for dates because they don't have to. It shouldn't be the job of a man to impress a woman by…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/01/21 08:13 PM