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You shouldn’t have to, then you can just focus on being. It’s best not to step in and fill in gaps.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/26 02:47 AM
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Ehh it’s easier to relax and just be with someone who displays competency without laying out the roadmap. Tough to trust in his abilities otherwise.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/26 12:44 AM
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Is your fiance the father of your soon to be child? Does his job industry have upward mobility/is he hard working?
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/26 11:32 PM
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What brought you to this sub OP? What do you actually desire in a partner for a relationship? Why would he choose you? Are you in therapy to address your father wound and how it can affect how you show up with men, whether you’re in a relationship with them or not?
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/26 05:12 AM
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Just do what you need to do and don’t let it become your personality. Don’t sabotage your ability to take care of yourself for a relationship that doesn’t exist at this moment, but also be aware you will need to be intentional in how you relate to men as you go through this transition, keeping your feminine frame. Many accomplished women are feminine in their relationships as wives and moms.
/r/RedPillWomen21/01/26 03:04 AM
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A natural response would be to share what he’s looking for. It’s a RP tactic to have women qualify themselves with this question. I’d sidestep the question entirely and focus on why he thinks it’s a big ask/what he’s actually interested in.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/25 02:58 AM
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If he pushed you back to work after a surgery after you needed to heal, is he genuinely caring for your person? is the almighty bottom line more of a priority than your well-being? What would he be like after labor omg
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/25 04:30 PM
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What do you mean “doesn’t see a point in taking care of children past infant stage”? I think this absolutely warrants discussion children are dependents that need their parents hired staff aren’t substitute parents!
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/25 11:16 AM
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I disagree it is a choice, particularly to pursue a life like Christ daily as a believer. OP’s husband should’ve known about being unequally yoked, and OP it’s best to pursue a heart for Christ for yourself, not your husband. As a SAHM how will you impart a love of Christ onto your kids as agreed upon with your husband before marriage? Your spirituality is personal but in the home it’s also the first example. Praying for you to gain clarity here.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/25 10:57 AM
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Are you in community with friends your own age/family? Are you isolated? He doesn’t seem to respect you as a partner. Please guard your youth.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/25 05:57 AM
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You were only 22 when you met, it’s okay to change what you desire in life you’re still learning and growing (not that that ever stops tbh). What kind of women did your fiancè see in relationships growing up? Has he been around men that primarily provide for the family? Tangibly what would be the plan with children, would caretaking be outsourced while he wants you both to chase after your careers or will you be expected to handle all? If not SAHM have you discussed scaling back at work after ch…
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/25 05:00 AM
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You are interacting with men in a masculine manner. What is your desire here what brought you to this sub? Are you meeting men that are passive that you aren’t attracted to? Do you want a male-led relationship? Have you read the sidebar? What are your thoughts on feminine energy in dating and relationships?
/r/RedPillWomen07/10/25 06:12 AM
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What do you want your life to look like. Are you committed to remaining Adventist? What about children would they be spending their whole weekend in Church? Will you be enforcing Sabbath keeping? There’s a reason why most Adventists marry each other. I’m in a similar situation (he’s Baptist) but we have the same cultural background and he’s familiar so there’s understanding. I’m not that religious in attending church though. Either way, a relationship like this can only work if there’s openness,…
/r/RedPillWomen29/09/25 12:47 PM
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Do you not believe in sex just for pleasure/not procreation with a spouse?
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/25 08:19 PM
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I think by and large women would be much happier vetting against men who want to be treated like princesses, want a mommy, and are unwilling/not capable of leading. These aren’t men you can rest in your feminine with no matter how much you desire. Capable and kind men allow for the space for women to step back because she can trust he’s got it handled.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/25 02:51 PM
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Yeah I agree, the field report from yesterday had vibes of earlier feels though
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/25 08:33 AM
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In your early conversations you can mention how it makes you really happy when a man you’re seeing is able to flex his creativity and take initiative planning outings for you both to continue to get to know each other Are you open to men from cultures outside the US?
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/25 09:18 PM
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I agree with the other poster that this isn’t a before marriage thing but you can learn to be an agreeable girlfriend in the meantime. Head over to r/redpillwomen and read the sidebar
/r/RPChristians13/08/25 11:30 AM
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I think r/relationshipindia may be better for you OP
/r/RedPillWomen20/07/25 06:06 PM
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I get the sentiment. Is he ambitious? In a career with upward trajectory/the ability to make comparably more? This is a side effect of being a bread winning woman. What are the things that drew you to him to the point of accepting his proposal?
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/25 06:07 PM
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Integrity, loyalty, honesty, caring, ability to work through conflict in love with resolution towards a stronger union
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/25 07:48 PM
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Are you going to share what tangible changes you made to get to where you are now
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/25 05:30 PM
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I don’t think this is a good indicator of whether to continue a relationship or not, honestly. Also, OP is only 9 months into her relationship to compare that to a marriage is apples to oranges.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/25 06:07 PM
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Yes this stood out to me the most. OP not sure where you are in your own spiritual journey to consider not just marrying someone unequally yoked but of a different faith altogether/considering converting to Islam for this relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/25 10:06 PM
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I think you’re speaking more along the lines of vetted introductions ex. Mrs Spielberg has a nice single son home from college that’s doing well for himself. If you’re (daughter) open to it we should arrange an introduction to see anything can develop from there.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/25 09:54 PM
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At 33 what is a 24yo male doing for you genuinely curious
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/25 05:13 PM
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I can’t imagine anyone with a solid sense of self esteem putting up with this…what in the world. Please seek help to understand why you’re entertaining this situation, not joking.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/25 11:17 PM
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Thanks for this lol these dudes wouldn’t be able to handle that info at all
/r/seduction23/06/21 04:11 PM
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