prune-juice Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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0	FR: Escaping the Friend Zone...but not really I regret trying it because I wasn't attracted to him but I thought I might grow attracted to him, especially with how pushy he was being. I think a lot of attraction is "how does this person make me feel?" and there was a window where I was open to him showing me what he could do for me since he seemed to be offering a lot, but I was disappointed, thus feelings never really took off for me. If I don't foresee myself developing feelings after x amount of time, there's no point in having sex imo. …	/r/TheRedPill	19/06/14 08:39 PM
4	People who date way below their SMV Beta-chasers exist, especially after investing prime years in a failed LTR, and doubly so after seeing what's out there with the carousel riding. She probably can't afford to make another 4-year mistake like that again so she's playing it safe. but she rebukes their attempts at Alpha fuxing her at every turn. Alphas trying to fux you and nothing more is not a good feeling. It's basically a giant neg because it implies she's not worthy of commitment. When game works, it's because girls sense this…	/r/askTRP	16/06/14 01:47 AM
2	FR: Escaping the Friend Zone...but not really You can think I am imagining all this about the involuntary effect on the woman, but why don't you just admit it? Haha, because it doesn't always happen, sorry to say. I kinda thought it would too, but this situation was about as soul-touching as a long gynecologist exam. I tried really hard to catch feelings and make it work, because if it did, then great! But he got more and more attached as I stayed in FWB-mode because he wasn't doing the boyfriend things I needed him to do in order for me to…	/r/TheRedPill	16/06/14 12:10 AM
11	FR: Escaping the Friend Zone...but not really Yep. This is a great FR because it shows that it's not exactly sex that most men go after in these scenarios. He wanted to affect her and touch her soul in some way, and when that didn't happen, it left him really confused about why he didn't feel like the winner even though he technically got out of the friendzone. Friendzone isn't about getting or not getting sex from the woman. It's about getting her respect/validation (which often comes along with women giving up sex). I've been in the girl'…	/r/TheRedPill	15/06/14 03:07 AM
2	EVERY man must always follow The Rule Well that's where "chemistry" enters in. You may be paying for sex ultimately, in the most logical conclusive motivator for your actions, but if you make the woman feel like that's what you're doing, she's likely to close up. Women are super sensitive to feeling like the guy is paying for sex. We want to feel like there's something else beneath the surface that you're ultimately going for, aside from sex. Call it an ego thing, but it's probably similar to how men are turned off at the idea of be…	/r/TheRedPill	12/06/14 01:45 PM
1	Dealing with the powerplay of men or women ignoring you on purpose This. Look at what girls do in these situations as this kind of social passive aggression comes up a LOT and girls have to learn to become masters at deflecting these while saving face starting in middle school. you have the option of either leaving or commenting on their rude behavior It's not in my introverted nature to comment on the rude behavior, so I always go with the first one, even if that means migrating off to talk to someone else, or staying put and turning my back to talk to someone…	/r/askTRP	12/06/14 12:49 AM
-1	EVERY man must always follow The Rule Maybe for some guys and/or sociopaths, but I personally need some kind of connection otherwise I'm just not motivated no matter how "skilled" he's reputed to be.	/r/TheRedPill	11/06/14 07:46 PM
1	EVERY man must always follow The Rule No, it wasn't enjoyable. It was awful and awkward and I broke up with him and never saw him again after that night. :(	/r/TheRedPill	11/06/14 07:13 PM
3	EVERY man must always follow The Rule Dude, if I fucked every single guy I felt a bit of "tingles" for, my current bf probably wouldn't be too happy with my past.	/r/TheRedPill	11/06/14 05:21 PM
0	EVERY man must always follow The Rule The problem with this Rule in general is that you'll be selecting for sluts only, and LTR-worthy women will expect more. Some level of male resources (money, attention, validation, protection, etc) almost always predates sex, unless the woman is a complete slut that will sleep with you without even knowing your name. First come dates and rapport-building, then comes sex. So yes, there may be an exchange, but that exchange doesn't happen in real time. And if she gives you sex first, before you gi…	/r/TheRedPill	11/06/14 05:17 PM
4	Female Jealousy over Boyfriend's sexual past I think it's BPD honestly. I know the preselection tingles thing is there for women, but for some of us, it's just too triggering to the point where we won't considering dating men who've slept with a lot of people even if we're otherwise compatible. Hell, my newest bf lost his virginity to me while I've had a few bfs and I still worry and lose nights of sleep over his past (he's dated girls, but hasn't slept with anyone as he was strictly religious). I think some women are formulated to look fo…	/r/askTRP	30/05/14 06:24 PM
1	my cousin the beta seeker... know of anyone in the west like her? Nah	/r/askTRP	20/05/14 02:22 AM
1	my cousin the beta seeker... know of anyone in the west like her? short guy with average face but make a lot of money Well speaking as a girl who seems to have a similar dating preference as your cousin, there's no point in dating a guy who's not hot if it doesn't seem likely that he'll put her first (judging from his strong composure). What's the point then? You can only get away with stubbornness if you're physically attractive, and it's an in-spite-of, not because-of thing. A guy needs to be nice (beta) or hot (alpha). Ideally, he should be both, which is w…	/r/askTRP	19/05/14 08:13 PM
1	Finance Finds Out About GFs Past Threesome ...That's not how logic works. You don't need to be in love to enjoy a threesome. A lot of people believe that threesomes are for casuals only because of the messy emotions that get involved when it's with people you care about.	/r/TheRedPill	15/05/14 06:04 PM
1	Finance Finds Out About GFs Past Threesome A girl who signs up for a threesome, either MMF or MFF, is usually deeply in love/lust with one guy You're wrong.	/r/TheRedPill	15/05/14 05:02 PM
-4	Finance Finds Out About GFs Past Threesome Read my comment again. You do all those common/accepted romantic gestures for a woman (whether or not she asks for them) because you love her. Why else would a guy ever do all that? A girl would be right to feel insulted because those gestures are often a direct representation of how in love and invested the guy was in the previous girl. Otoh, a girl doesn't sign up to get spit-roasted because she's in love with the two guys. She does it for the experience itself, and the people in it are just i…	/r/TheRedPill	13/05/14 09:32 PM
-2	Finance Finds Out About GFs Past Threesome I'm not saying he doesn't have a right to feel upset, but that analogy doesn't really hold. Written poetry, candlelit romantic dinners, massages, serenading and expensive holidays and marriage proposals These are all things you do for a person you really love. Ass to mouth? Not so much. I can understand the mentality of only wanting to do threesomes with casual partners, because with serious partners, it's too emotionally messy and risky. Sex stuff just doesn't scale the same way romantic gestur…	/r/TheRedPill	13/05/14 08:45 PM
1	Finance Finds Out About GFs Past Threesome Yep, this would disappoint me for sure.	/r/TheRedPill	13/05/14 07:21 PM
2	Beta Chasers (Good Girls) they shun the alpha and perhaps their sexual desire along with it, so they tend to be prudish and don't know themselves sexually because they have blocked this. I've often been told that I come off as sexually conservative, but within an LTR, I'm up for almost anything. I guess that I just hide it well, and am selective of what I show because it's personal and all that, so that might come off as "prudish" to alphas who are used to extraverted girls openly flirting or talking about sex with them.…	/r/askTRP	09/05/14 03:14 PM
3	Beta Chasers (Good Girls) I'd say that I'm one of these self-proclaimed "beta chasers" and /u/Dreamtrain is more or less correct in saying that we subconsciously know betas will be way more cooperative when long term conflicts come up. That's definitely a huge motivator. A lot of beta chasers tend to also not be into drinking alcohol or drugs. It's in the same vein of knowing ourselves, keeping frame, and not wanting to lose control. Chasing alphas, and even being in an LTR with an alpha is a constant, stressful dread wh…	/r/askTRP	08/05/14 09:46 PM
1	What do you think about spinning plates? What's this talk about a "compatible woman"? A man's priorities for a "compatible woman" is that tab A fits into slot B, and that he finds slot B attractive Oh god I'm just going to stop responding.	/r/RedPillWomen	15/04/14 08:10 PM
10	What do you think about spinning plates? There are high value men with traditional principles, believe it or not. A lot of them are due to religious or other traditional backgrounds. Or maybe they just have the moral conviction to not use women for sex. why would he end up bothering with a woman Because one day he might find a compatible woman and most people want to have children?	/r/RedPillWomen	15/04/14 07:44 PM
4	What do you think about spinning plates? Players/PUAs may be RedPill, but not all RedPillers are players/plate-spinners.	/r/RedPillWomen	15/04/14 07:29 PM
17	What do you think about spinning plates? I'm not okay with a man who's had a long sexual history, personally. I have been selective and careful with my partners, so I expect that same self-control and patience from my partner. I also wouldn't be okay with knowing that he potentially used and slutzoned girls who wanted more than just sex from him. I don't friendzone guys, so I expect him not to slutzone girls. It's just not nice and it hints at sociopathy and poor character because he just ~neeeeeded sex~. I understand that women might …	/r/RedPillWomen	15/04/14 05:39 PM