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prunkardsdrayer/r/Divorce_Men12/09/19 12:46 AM
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Cocaine only stays in your system 24-48 hours. Taking a test 13 days later and saying you're clean is a joke.
/r/MensRights26/08/22 12:55 AM
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No judge will listen. Look at it from their standpoint. We're all liars wasting their time who picked their spouse, had a kid, and now can't get along. What could they do to fix this? Fines, jail, and child safety. No one is jailing a mother, and fines hurt the child. If there is not physical evidence of danger, all court is wasting time. And you're going to rationally defend yourself? The judges have all seen worse. You will not get your day in court. At best, you'll get a temporary draw. The o…
/r/MensRights14/07/22 09:41 PM
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Don't ever use that language again and delete the comment. You can't ever show emotion or speak poorly of the other parent. Kill your social media, and watch your email and text messages. And be careful of even complaining to friends. You'd be shocked how friends testify against you.
/r/MensRights14/07/22 07:39 PM
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Family Court don't care about perjury or outrageous claims. They assume everyone is lying. Your best bet is to journal daily, communicate with the mother only through something like OurFamilyWizard, and provide a stable environment for the child. If the child spends most of the time with you, prove it. Courts tend to stick to the status quo. If they make more accusations, your best bet is to talk about stability, and pick out a few lies that are easily proved, and state that the child's stabilit…
/r/MensRights14/07/22 07:37 PM
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LLC’s in debt can be ignored. Business emails and address are abandoned, and it’s a dead company, but only if the business has no assets (business account, assets purchased, including land, computers, and other property). Not your problem. They don’t count.
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/19 04:24 AM
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This is unfortunately not true. Once accusations of abuse are made, all “fairness” goes out the window. It is very easy to have “joint” custody and still not see your kids. And if the mother decides to withhold or disobey the court order, it’s very expensive and takes years to do anything about it. That is the norm.
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/19 08:00 AM
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I’m nearing the end of a two year process. Fear and anxiety came in several stages. Stage 1: I didn’t know what to expect in court, how to set up my new life, and how much I’d have to pay. Didn’t know enough to be scared, other than that she would claim domestic violence to get me out of the house. Stage 2: scared about her making claims of violence, but also concerned that the judge would consider me a wallet, because that’s something she could control, but any orders around the kids couldn’t b…
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/19 03:20 AM
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Right with you. Third Christmas without the kids, same shenanigans. But the lengthy legal stuff - here’s to hoping it shows a pattern. Still crazy that it’s so easy for mothers to get away with this.
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/19 03:34 AM
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Melatonin. 3 mg at a time. Stay away from Ambien.
/r/Divorce_Men24/12/19 02:22 PM
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I wish people learned that not having your kids = depression. Men are supposed to be tougher. But taking away your purpose changes us.
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/19 02:22 AM
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That’s just a great affirmation of what’s coming. Good luck everyone.
/r/Divorce_Men27/09/19 12:03 AM
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She wanted retraction to be the standard, not exoneration. Dangerous!
/r/Divorce_Men12/09/19 01:56 AM
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Yes- very odd to have a temporary order requiring child support that doesn’t specify visitation. If you have no court order, stop paying. You owe nothing until the court tells you to.
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/19 03:24 PM
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Pick a lawyer who can explain how to address your judge. If a lawyer can’t tell you what a judge likes and doesn’t like, they’ll bill for process. Go meet them. Pay for an hour of consulting - don’t take the free consultation. Good lawyers always charge for their time.
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/19 03:02 AM
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I was barely shocked, but not surprised. After a year, it really began to affect me. Some people need therapy. Most need good habits. The hardest part is not knowing what will happen. And spending stupid money that could be spent on your kids or future. The key is being prepared and not thinking that good works or logic matters more than a good lawyer. Also, only other divorced men understand and give good advice. You’ll find out there is a fraternity of men who have gone through this. They are …
/r/Divorce_Men06/06/19 12:56 AM
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File for therapy with the courts. Make sure it’s in the temporary orders. Proving parental alienation is hard and expensive. Better to head it off. 8 weeks isn’t much. File for temporary orders immediately, and get the best attorney you can find- one who knows the judge. Accept that this is a long-term battle.
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/19 12:37 PM
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Talk to a criminal attorney. Do not talk to the police without first talking to an attorney. The bad news is you can be arrested and even convicted for this. The only good news is that courts are more aware because this is so common now, and if the courts don’t buy it, it’s bad for her case. You need to find a way to remain calm. It’s horrible, but it’s really common. Be very careful in what you write or text her. Don’t be alone with her. Record your calls. It’s time to play defense.
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/19 06:38 PM
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Because many of us have the same unsent letters.
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/19 08:41 PM
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Focus on facts in the hearing. Avoid all drama. Practice with someone (not your attorney), with tough questions. Be prepared for accusations. Family court is not designed to deal with truth. The judge has heard much worse than you’reHave a plan, ask for what you want, and show that you’re stable. Bring witnesses if you can, and don’t fall into the trap of thinking “best for the kids”’is a trump card.” It’s a war. Make sure you have the right attorney (18 months in).
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/19 01:22 AM
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