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I can't tell if someone is my "dream" anything when I just met them lmao. If they aren't willing to get to know me and let me get to know them before fucking then they can move right along. Women do not want to rack up astronomical body counts adhering to your demands. Any man who decided I wasn't interested bc I wouldn't get naked with him after meeting like TWICE is a POS I am not interested in anyway. Fuckboys, who will just pump & dump anyway. Women are waking up to this fact. And the ones w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 09:39 PM
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The circles I run in nobody gives a shit what someone looks like. If they're cool and chill they're welcome. You are just hanging out with assholes in your hometown most likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 09:37 PM
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Lmao everyone I've dated since my first relationship has been shorter than him (he was like 6'4) and I hated that he was a full foot taller than me. Made dancing/kissing/etc very awkward. Anywhere from 5'7-5'9+ is totally fine. Once a dude is close to my height I am not as attracted I won't lie. Because they tend to be lean. I don't want to be physically the same size as my partner. A 5'4-5'5 man probably weighs the same as I do, but with less fat and more muscle (I'm around 130 lbs). That is a …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 09:36 PM
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Just because women have been inexperienced enough to sleep with you on the first date doesn't mean they don't regret it. Nobody likes doing that. Unless it actually leads to a relationship, but it's idiotic to think you can know you're compatible with someone for a relationship after one date.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 07:16 PM
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"And its EASY to play the moral high ground when you have NO or limited options, therefore no temptation." You just summed up all the slut/n-count shaming of women by men on this sub, lol. Sour grapes. They can't, and so they act like people who can are lesser. But men who are actually social/successful and have relationships etc are much less concerned about a woman's past unless it's pathological (50+ partners, sex work, shit like that) Every man I've dated has had a significantly higher n tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 07:10 PM
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You are exactly who women are trying to filter out. Feeling entitled to enter someone's body after the first date is a massive massive red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 07:03 PM
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In gradeschool maybe? I don't know what shitty ass people you hang around, but in my adult life that does not happen at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 06:47 PM
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From apps, you can't know whether you have any intentions on them. Because you haven't met yet. So in that case, no. But if you meet the person "in the wild" and accept without being interested, I feel like that is not kind to do. But I do think women have a hard time rejecting men. Don't want to be mean etc. But it's much better to just reject them straight off.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 06:46 PM
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Every woman admits it. Despite the delusion men press incessantly on this sub, women are much more aware of where they stand on the "market." If you are fat, the highest echelon of quality men is off limits to you. If you are ugly/butter faced, same. Those women are not going after "Chad" and "Chad" is not fucking them, he can find above average women willing to do that easily. I stay fit as fuck bc I want a physically attractive male partner. If I didn't, I wouldn't be able to get one. Men are …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 12:16 AM
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I am lol. The vast majority of my friends are. I'm in an area of the US with high fitness tho
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:42 PM
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They refuse to put in any work to be a likable person. The men with social skills don't just have GFs/wives they have lots of friends, solid careers bc of contacts, etc. It benefits every area of one's life. Ugly/fat people with great social skills find success in many areas of their lives as well, and when you see someone unattractive with a comparably attractive SO? That is why. They are a cool, nice, likeable, interesting person.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:41 PM
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at the end of the day if people don't like you and don't want to be around you. Women are included in "people," lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:39 PM
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its the food.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:36 PM
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100%. For women, that is a no-go. He could just be quiet and shy, he could be a sociopath, who knows?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:36 PM
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The effort to look appealing includes being a healthy weight, taking care of your skin, etc. Not just makeup and clothes. Yes if you're fit and sexy you can walk around in an oversized t shirt and be wanted (it's great!) but it takes a ton of work to maintain it (well worth it)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:34 PM
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I've always felt this way. I had to put in WORK to figure out how to maintain a fit body as a woman. The calorie intake, what to eat, how much exercise. Every male partner/friend has just needed to not be a total lump inhaling chicky nugs and mcdonalds and they can get fitter, faster. The ones who do it get the spoils lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:31 PM
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They are unattractive and overweight themselves in a lot of cases. So.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:29 PM
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At the end of the day. If you're not fit and skilled, definitely do not expect a fit and skilled partner. You will not get one.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:28 PM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:24 PM
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You make baby. You pay for baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 07:23 PM
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You can't honestly think women have difficulties in that arena. Isn't that the predominant gripe on this sub? But yeah, no. No shortage of dates lol, in fact too many and I have to turn them down often.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 01:30 AM
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haha yeah, I just get aggravated when I think of people my age preying on what are basically kids. While it's mostly men going after girls, I'm sure there are women in their 30s derailing the lives of 21 year old boys out there too. There is ill intent-- even if it's just not caring about her as a human being. A girl who gets involved with a man in his 30s when she's in her early 20s-- it changes the trajectory of her development. She should be off exploring and engaging (friends and dating) you…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 07:03 PM
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Not about the men. They can die in a fire. Fortunately, no. There are still men who are not disgusting enough to want to basically go attempt to purchase a sex slave aka marry foreign. They are nice and pleasant and socially connected and find women that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 06:54 PM
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Maybe you are dense. If men could run around knocking up women and ditching with no consequences there would be an insane societal strain in the form of children abandoned by sociopathic men. There would be starving kids in the streets. Those type of men don't GAF how the woman would support herself and the child, what her family is like, whether they have a roof above their heads. This still happens even WITH child support laws. If you make a child, you will support that child's life. Get. The.…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 06:51 PM
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I do not think so, on average. I know a girl who is 24 who was dating a man who is 35. She cannot get herself to fully commit because she knows she should find someone her own age. He's actually a good dude, is not pressuring her at all, and wants her to explore (she's traveling across the country living vanlife right now after graduating with her degree) and if she decides a future with him is what she wants, he'll be there for it. He's not looking elsewhere and had found happiness being single…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 12:57 AM
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I mean seems like it, men really are pieces of shit in general. Unfortunately for them actions still have consequences and in a civilized society they will pay financially for their choice to create a child, even if they have no humanity or decency in their decrepit souls to care at all emotionally about their own children. You think welfare is bad now lol. If you "galaxy brained" turds had your way the entire budget would be supporting children men abandoned.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 12:46 AM
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We went over this. I care because women are used and damaged by such men. Women who are at a disadvantage due to no fault of their own. Do I care that undesirable men want to fuck off? No, not at all lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 12:45 AM
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They are probably extremely brilliant, interesting, kind, etc. Some people have insanely magnetic personalities, and women are less superficial than men. I've fallen IN LOVE with a man that, should you have seen us together, you'd have had exactly this reaction. He was perfect to me lol. We are still good friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 12:10 AM
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hmm okay then you're just young. Yes, I am 31. The concept of men my age going after girls who went to prom 2 years ago is FOUL. It's foul to all decent adults, including decent men. There is a huge difference between a man who sees that young women, barely out of girlhood, are sexually attractive, and a man who would involve himself in their lives, thereby derailing them with the power differential. It's inherently abusive. Men in their early 20s can be pleasing to the eye. But would I ever inv…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 12:07 AM
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I mean, I do feel bad for the impoverished women without options being preyed on by said creeps, but as far as the creeps go... why would I care? I live in a place where I am safe and have access to everything I need, I don't need to prostitute myself to gross foreign men to survive. I do seriously feel for those women though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 11:50 PM
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I'd be pretty shocked if you weren't a predator trying to creep on barely of age girls with this comment
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 07:23 PM
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We truly truly don't. The type of men who can't find women here and need to go somewhere to prey on impoverished ones are the men nobody wants. They can leave. PLEASE??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 07:13 PM
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Better than spending even an hour in the company of men like the ones on this sub, let alone attempting to raise a child with them lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 07:12 PM
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it's called biology lmao. "Women have to go through 9 months of pregnancy and then the danger and agony of childbirth, does that seem lopsided to you?" -equally as dumb as your argument. Like no shit it's lopsided? It's fucking biology. Get over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 05:49 PM
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Control your sperm, or you might be a daddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 05:48 PM
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No it's not lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 05:47 PM
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Projection. Men are the ones that pay out the ass for car insurance bc they are too impulsive to drive safely. If they make it past like 25 they’ve missed a couple of the first “passes” where males DIE because of the shit they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 05:53 PM
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Yes, prostitutes exist. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 05:17 PM
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“If all else is the same” except inherently it’s not. Someone 2 years out of high school lol. So many men are predators and so open about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 05:03 PM
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I’ve had very few casual encounters. Spent most of my 20s in a mono relationship. Tried casual/ENM a couple times after. Not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:52 PM
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Ok
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 11:51 PM
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“FWB and ONS”
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 12:40 AM
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Nope. There is 0 benefit to knowing I can get some asshole to jackhammer me at any given moment lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 12:39 AM
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Yes, be sorry. Men suck at sex on average, that’s one of the reasons why women wont fuck random men lol. Boyfriends only, and you have to train them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 12:39 AM
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I don’t value it bc I don’t partake in it bc I don’t value it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 12:38 AM
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Many of us detest "FWB and ONS" and therefore there is 0 benefit to that "privilege." We are not men. Using other humans as sentient dildos doesn't appeal to me whatsoever. We don't orgasm. Men are awful to women they don't value. There is 0 benefit to having sex with random men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 06:07 PM
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BC they want to fuck. They don't care about love or whatever, they want access to easy sex. Men will marry women they hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 06:06 PM
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Nobody has to fuck youuuuuu
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 04:30 PM
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I was head over heels with an "a bit unfortunate" looking guy and I am beautiful. He was fucking awesome though. Do not go rape impoverished women in other countries, don't listen to these creatures. Focus on being someone who is a fucking delight to be around. Who is interesting as fuck. Well read, well traveled. FUN. You'd be shocked how a woman can be just... so fucking into that shit that suddenly a goofy looking man is your sexual ideal and you're like what the fuck just happened lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 12:10 AM
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Eh. People are really good at faking. You have no idea what is going on in those women's heads. Maybe they're like... okay... with their husband. but if you think they don't let the occasional "pool boy" or "insert man their own age here" dip his wick in a lot of those scenarios you're wrong. It's like the easiest prostitution gig ever, just one dude, maybe he's not totally grotesque, maybe in some ways he's pretty "cool" personality wise, but is it the type of love that develops between two peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 12:05 AM
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The OP is basically saying this 30 something year old man settled by getting with a woman 2 years YOUNGER than himself lol. This 31 year old man got salty because he's... gross... and thinks his partner was hotter at 20. Newsflash, 20 year old girls do not want 31 year old men. SO nasty.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 11:50 PM
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I don't know... I can go multiple times a day when I'm in a relationship with someone I'm really into, I feel like that's pretty damn horny??? I know some men aren't even that libidinous from what I've read.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:35 PM
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He is just objectively not a very handsome man. Lots of sun damage to his face, not the best facial features, looked older than his 39 years, had a history of alcoholism that roughed him up. Was in decent shape though, my only real hard dealbreaker physically is being fat. I can't be sexually attracted to a fat male body, it hits me as being feminine or something. But yeah this ex... my friends were all like wtf mate (especially the younger ones, I'm in my early 30s but the younger women aren't …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:55 PM
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When I was a 20 year old girl, anything approaching 30 let alone over it was "Old as hale" to all of us. I don't really see that it's changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:49 PM
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Then women would just start uprisings and be attacking men all the time. You gotta sleep sometime lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 07:48 PM
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Slightly. Like, 5 years max. Moves to 5-10 once we hit ~30ish.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:13 AM
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He is just insecure and immature. A sad way to live, tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:12 AM
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THIS. this so hard. the alternative isn't "a good man." It's whichever flavor of nightmare you decided to pull from the dumpster that is "men." in like 99.999% of cases. Eventually women are like eh. I'm over it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:11 AM
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This is the real answer. And when you have a wide network of true good friends, putting up with some asshole in order to get some dick is way less appealing. And your friends call you out for it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:09 AM
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No, the past ~30-50 years have not undone evolution, not in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 06:06 AM
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Didn’t work out for life priority reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 09:52 PM
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Nobody realizes that while they’re doing it lol. Only afterwards. Love is a hell of a drug.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 09:51 PM
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Most people want to be in love, unless they have like a personality disorder. They prioritize that over money. That’s why so many people pair up while they’re young and poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 08:08 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 08:06 PM
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That couldn’t be further from my vibe but if it was… sure as hell wouldn’t be no prenup 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:56 PM
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Also your data is just incorrect. https://www.pewresearch.org/science/2021/04/01/stem-jobs-see-uneven-progress-in-increasing-gender-racial-and-ethnic-diversity/ Women make up 50% and 70 something percent of health care workers and techs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:50 PM
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Doesn’t change the fact that A. Young women are focusing on their education over dating and B. All of those demographic stats are changing. Even since that 3 year old article it’s moved. And it will continue. The men who date during college are just fucking around. They are a waste of time and energy, which is why women generally either abstain, date a bit older, or use them right back for sex (the uninhibited ones, the ones who actually “ride the CC,” they are a very small minority, and in my o…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:49 PM
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Only a very stupid young woman would waste her youth married to an old dude for money… with a prenup.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:45 PM
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College graduates are over 50% female, as are graduate school students in many fields. It is “most women” and it’s the women who are interesting and desirable, no matter what men say. Only the grossest misogynists literally want the home town diner server/Walmart cashier as long as she’s passably attractive. These “Stacy” men speak of are middle to upper middle class women in college or shortly thereafter. They are focused on themselves and their lives and if a suitable man comes along, great, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:30 PM
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Or she doesn’t think about it, and loves her partner, looks and all. While he’s secretly seething she’s not still 20, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 07:26 PM
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Eh, I’m pretty horny. I’m just not going to have lackluster experiences with shitty men over it. Vibrators exist. But when I’m in a relationship, I hold my own, so to speak lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 06:58 PM
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Only the dumb ones wish they were locked down with some loser’s kids. The ones that didn’t do anything with that time but fuck around. The ones who were focusing on building a life for themselves… it’s quite simply a nonissue. Once you have the career, the money, the freedom to travel with likeminded people, romantically involved or not, nobody is like “sigh. Should have married that ambition less broke ass momma’s boy I dated when I was 21” lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 06:56 PM
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It will never work. Not ever, lol. Young women can become doctors, lawyers, engineers now, and they are. They will never focus on locking down dick over gaining self sufficiency. I was one such young woman and I did date one man for a long time, but it actually ended due to me prioritizing my education and career and I am glad it did. Basically, men can cry about it till they’re blue in the face. This ain’t going back in the box.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 06:53 PM
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You have low self esteem and that makes you an unsuitable partner who needs to prey on young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 06:47 PM
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My ugliest bf I was wildly attracted to bc of his intelligence. We fucked like rabbits. It’s not the looks, it’s that men like him are pieces of shit and that’s not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 06:45 PM
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I would love to see how that works out for him, lol. Men always harpoon their own happiness by thinking they’re hot shit once they get one good woman to like them. Then they go out to date again and… crickets… lightning doesn’t strike twice for the average to below average past the wall dude, and maybe he should have valued what he had. It’s hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 06:44 PM
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The dude is a creepy asshole and if she has a brain in her head she’ll dump him. This is the dude who has a midlife crisis and goes after some girl half his age that is his subordinate at work. Also he doesn’t look as good as he did younger either, and from the sounds of it he never looked that good. Notice how she doesn’t bring that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/22 06:41 PM
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Everyone discusses exes, yeah, unless they’re a triggered little baby or like 23 years old. Once you’re in your 30s, it’s way more of a red flag for there to be no history.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/22 04:57 AM
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I would never cook this bitchboy even a can of soup again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 07:50 PM
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Nah most normal women get along great, we just don’t like the outliers
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 04:43 PM
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If they wouldn't do it without the money, it ain't consensual.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 08:12 PM
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It also seems like they don't care about consent. Being capable of achieving orgasm with someone you know is only there because you paid them is rapey as fuck. A man who doesn't require enthusiastic, freely given consent for his sexual gratification is a very dangerous man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 07:42 PM
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You'd rather date someone who gargles old man balls for money, debases herself for the absolute lowest and most foul men for money, than someone who like sex lol? Weird flex but okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 07:37 PM
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women don't trust hoes either. You don't want a friend who you can't leave around your bf/husband for 30 mins without her trying something. Normal women do not care for pathologically promiscuous women. They also don't believe they are subhuman trash like men do (thus the virtue signaling, it's something like 'your choices are fine! just keep them over thereeee thanks'), but you won't catch me bff'ing a sexworker. Someone who sells sex to any man with $$ will never be trustworthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 07:35 PM
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"Why is someone who abandons their own child shitty?" I don't know, work on your critical thinking skills lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 07:25 PM
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Physically abusive. A great many are emotionally, verbally, sexually abusive... abuse that is harder to prove. Basically, you'll pay for welfare because of the way men behave.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 07:25 PM
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The child isn't fatherless. It's not women's fault that men are almost unilaterally pieces of shit lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 07:14 PM
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It's illegal to be physically abusive to the extent that it leaves a mark. Men get around that allllll the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 07:12 PM
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Of course you think men not being abusive sacks of shit is unrealistic and unreasonable lmao. thus, taxes to support the children they create and either outright abandon or beat on their mothers to the extent that she has to flee.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 07:11 PM
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Other people aren't sociopaths and understand children need to eat. Deal with it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 07:10 PM
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Welp, it is what it is. If men didn't abandon their kids en masse maybe so many women wouldn't need aid from the state to care for them. Nobody is going to say "just let them starve, this is a punishment for being a slut." That's morally repulsive and bigoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 06:17 PM
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Men can't be categorized into Chad vs. Bitch Boy lmao. Of course being a bitch boy is unattractive. The fact that men don't care about personality is weird and gross. I don't want a flesh sex doll, I want a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 06:16 PM
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Absolutely. They can live close and be involved but in the same home? Fuck no
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 06:14 PM
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Lol where? When?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 06:13 PM
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Can't be criticizing men for their fucked up behavior now... they'll take their toys ($$$) and go home.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 06:12 PM
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Yep, that's why child support exists. Choices (like rawdogging a woman) --> consequences (you have a kid you must support). I totally agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 06:10 PM
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It's not women's fault that a massive proportion of men are abusive. The issue is with you. Many of you hide it for a good long time too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/20 06:09 PM
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We obviously aren't AS horny as men but if you seriously think women don't have "active sexualities" you are confused. A great many of us do lol and enthusiastically desire sex with our partners. And yes, how a man looks is important. It's the baseline. If he's not physically attractive to me the rest doesn't matter, he's not in the running.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 08:39 PM
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Eh, the single mothers can bounce back, but the psychological issues that lead a young girl/woman to do porn and then the psychological issues that RESULT from doing porn... those are forever IMO. Something is very wrong there. There's a reason why all of the sex workers I've ever known were victims of child sex abuse and repeated rapes throughout their lives. Happy healthy women with options don't do that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 09:37 PM
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Partially. If you ever asked me how I felt about a porn obsessed man I'd always react with disgust though. Something about it is very pathetic. I used to not really care about a man's porn usage bc the men I'd dated were "normal/casual" users and I didn't even notice it bc it was so infrequent and not an obsession/addiction of theirs. Then I dated the PA and now I recognize how bad it can get and what to look out for for future relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 09:32 PM
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Only the extremely dumb girls believe this. Dumb, and not raised properly. If you have a brain in your head you recognize how society and individuals treat prostitutes, and that you would immediately be relegating yourself to the very lowest social strata, lower than junkies and addicts. You can’t reverse it, and the vast majority of people who ever find out/see your content will irreversibly lose any and all respect for you. You want an education, a legitimate career, a family? All of that is i…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 04:43 PM
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It’s actually the opposite besides pregnancy. The amount of men who have felonies and have spend considerable time in jail if not prison for idiocy they engaged in in their late teens/early 20s... a lot. The dumb shit men do tends to hurt themselves and others, as well as be extremely obvious to the authorities. For women the worst is to do porn or get pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 04:38 PM
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Hmmm examples. How about the nonstop rape of women and girls? Are you brain damaged? I mean, that’s just the most extreme “example.” There’s also the nonstop sexual harassment/catcalling/groping. The drugging women’s drinks. The coercion, refusing to take no for an answer, pursuing girls that are young and inexperienced with the goal of violating and dominating them body and spirit. Examples lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 07:43 AM
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Wow young people are shallow? Imagine that. Not young boys and men though, they seek depth of character when assessing women/girls. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 07:38 AM
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Men produce endless content about how they feel about women lmao. Endless. On this platform and every platform. Nobody believes the lies some of you try to spew, enough of you plainly tell the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 07:28 AM
0

No, I think that's generally the way it goes. Is it ALWAYS the way it goes? Absolutely not. But enough so that it's not a misconception. I actually did experience the opposite for the first time in my life. An actual relationship was impossible because of timing/life/logistics. I was happy to have a casual thing as long as we could and enjoy each other. He couldn't deal with the reality that it was so impermanent, that we'd be in separate states in a couple short months. We had to just stop beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 09:26 PM
7

It’s BC a lot of men are vulgar and predatory, lol. When women have many experiences with vulgar, predatory men, how else are they supposed to see men? Wanna know what you call a woman who doesn’t see strange men as “possibly a predator until proven otherwise?” Victims. Women spend a lot of time and energy designing their lives and social interactions to protect them from men. Making sure you’re always around trusted friends who would never leave you behind if you were incapacitated. Making sure…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 09:19 PM
6

No. Why? Because you aren't worth it. Sorry not sorry scrotes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 11:08 PM
2

Uh huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 10:26 PM
1

Dumb assumption. I and many women I knew “partied” with low n counts. I had a bf for 7 years including basically all of college and we partied together. Edit: actually you can assume that for FRAT parties. Disregard. They weren’t rich, mommy and daddy were. Makes for obnoxious, entitled manchildren. Good looking... frat boys have a shelf life of about 5 years post college. Legitimate good social skills, and not just “manipulating as many women as possible trying to fuck” but actually being good …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 04:46 PM
1

Aka you enjoy the delusion. That is nice for you. Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 04:33 PM
1

Bc if he actually had value several of those would be multi year LTRs. Mansluts are stupid disease ridden wastes of oxygen. They are obvious with their behavior and inherently low value.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 04:33 PM
1

Only the absolutely dumbest bitches alive tell the frat douches their actual number 😂 the type of girls to hang out with that low caliber of men are professional sluts, fr.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 04:31 PM
0

That’s disgusting, he probably has AIDs, and if a rando grabbed me and kissed me at a club I’d assault him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 04:28 PM
2

Mansluts are gross, more at 7
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 04:27 PM
4

They lie to you lmao. God men are so dense.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 04:24 PM
6

Because they're dumb. Adriana Lima is their first choice, they obsessively watch videos of porn prostitutes and know all their names/"stats," but whine like fragile little bitches at the reality that no, they're not the hottest dude she's ever seen just like she isn't the hottest woman they've ever seen, and yes, she has had relationship and sexual experience before them. "WWWWWAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHH"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 10:12 PM
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*Some* teenage girls and women look at men like men look at women. Hotter is better. Then everyone grows up. Men still look at women that way. Women realize that a great very men lack basic emotional/social/life skills to be an acceptable partner. They genuinely value other traits over simply "hotter" and just find a good man who they feel physical attraction towards. Men continue to try to chase the "hottest" piece of ass possible their entire lives, becoming old creeps and then eventually dyin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 10:06 PM
13

Hahaha they won't like that answer. They're supposed to be allowed to be disgusting slobs and get an endless supply of fresh virginal 18 yo pussy. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 02:26 AM
1

Well you shouldn't lmao. If she's the type to fuck you right away, she's fucked someone else right away.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 02:21 AM
2

Your experience working at the Walmart doesn't apply to all workplaces.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 02:18 AM
1

I love working. I loved college and grad school.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 02:18 AM
0

Yep, and there is no fucking way women are going to give jack shit to someone who is unattractive and also a lying sack of shit lol. Which precludes all ugly men from even having a chance. Women have all of your numbers, know what you're like. The delusion "maybe the not so attractive one will be sweet and loyal" is so delusional a woman would have to be borderline retarded to believe it nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 02:16 AM
5

I know from personal experience that this is male delusion. I have witnessed men think a woman is innocent/chaste because she was young and pretty, while she had already told me she had slept with 50 guys lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 02:11 AM
1

Yep. Guys think they have some kind of built in "slutometer" but they don't. None of you have any idea whether a woman you're with has an n of 2 or of 200. Literally cannot tell lol, they judge based on appearance. I've known YOUNG girls (18-19) who were already at 20, 30, or even 50-60 partners (not that many, but I've known some) and I know for a fact all those dudes thought they were some innocent pure angel cause of their youthful appearance lol. Morons.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 02:10 AM
0

That's hilarious, dooming themselves to a lifetime of celibacy lmao. And considering what dogs men are, that must really suck. Keep holding out for that virgin tho
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 02:06 AM
8

He also got to fuck his secretary or whoever else tickled his fancy, and his wife couldn't escape because she had 0 income and couldn't even own property or have a line of credit. He could rape and beat his wife with 0 recourse as well. Good riddance to that trash. Women learned well that depending on a man like that is stupid as fucking shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 02:04 AM
15

It worked. It's infinitely better to have a career and money than get knocked up by your average man in your early 20s or whatever. That's why we keep doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 02:00 AM
1

Lol, you big mad. You did exactly none of that, because you're a worthless drain on society.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 04:45 PM
2

Enjoy your deadbedroom
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 02:23 AM
1

Those are Chads and they don't want commitment. The ugly losers whine about women being sexually active all day every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 02:22 AM
1

Bingo.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 02:22 AM
1

>Have they never had a woman that enjoys sex with them? Boom They out themselves sometimes and it is hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 02:21 AM
2

They're angry that they're not attractive enough to get women to do that with them. It's not any more complicated than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 02:16 AM
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Having 1-3 flings a year while single isn't a lot. At all lol. Men are just angry they can't make that happen (well, I know a lot who do make that happen, so Iguess sexually unsuccessful men)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/20 02:12 AM
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It's because women reflect empathy and decency onto men when there is none. Some women expect that men respect them as human beings and aren't sociopathic. LOL. Good news is that many of us are waking up.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 08:42 PM
2

Girl A is asexual lmao. Y'all are so fuckin dumb. Hope you don't like oral if you only want a girl who refuses to do it lmaoooo
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 08:39 PM
2

Women: too fucking bad, sucks to suck. Men: WWWWAHHHHHHHH YOU'RE ALL WHORESSSS WAHHHHHH
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 08:37 PM
2

We understand, we just don't care. Y'all are in for a lifetime of severe disappointment lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 08:37 PM
2

Because people break up?dafuq? Most single women aren't "sleeping around a lot" but they do have sex with a dude for a few months here and there until the fling ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 08:35 PM
2

What it is is entitlement and sociopathy. No deeper than that. This sub really shines a light on how many men walk around enraged that random women they find attractive won't bend over for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 08:31 PM
5

HA!!!! If she did it for you she's done it for others. Male delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 08:30 PM
3

No. Why would women want to have sex with random dudes once or twice? So that all the shitbag men can call her a whore? Nope, not happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 08:29 PM
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Just remember how angry they are that no women will touch their impotent little peepee and be glad. Their entire existence sucks lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 07:30 PM
2

Lmao, your sexism and utterly trash personality is why you have 0 success with women and are Big Mad.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 04:57 PM
2

Traveling, hobbies, homes, being able to have a family. Whatever they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 04:55 PM
3

You seriously think being capable of intellectual banter makes one a personal entertainer lmao. The standards are so low, it's just pathetic. How dare women not want a useless, boring, lame excuse for a man like men want for women (as long as she's HaWt). Too bad, not gonna be good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 04:54 PM
16

Right? Utterly pathetic. Whatever poor "uninteresting" sap of a woman that's engaged to this dude needs an intervention too.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 04:53 PM
3

He better not lose his job. That type of woman will be gone in an instant with 50%+ of his shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 04:52 PM
3

The PhDs, MDs, and lawyers I know by and large date other professionals. They certainly don't date/marry someone without a degree and some level of passion and skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 04:51 PM
4

It is... uniquely satisfying when those dudes get divorced by the subpar, shallow, unaccomplished women they self selected for, lmao. Sucks to suck.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 04:50 PM
4

Only desperate men with little to no options spew trash like the OP, that's why. "Well, I am not exceptional in any regard, so I just need a fuck doll to follow me around and LauGh At MuH jOkEs"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 04:45 PM
5

You want an ego prop with built in fuck holes, not an "equal" or a "partner" lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 04:42 PM
47

At that point it's like why are you bothering? Why do you even want a coerced proposal? Because she's afraid of being alone. Afraid of "not finding someone else." Until women take back their power and realize that relationships with low effort scrotes are NOT PREFERABLE OR MORE ENJOYABLE IN ANY WAY to being "alone," men will continue to be the worthless wastes of space they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 07:40 PM
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Ahaha I learned this, dumped the fool, then dumped the next time waster too. BUH BYE SCROTES! I'd much rather be single for life than do a single fuckin thing for a useless, timewasting, low effort, trash fire male. Would never let one get a kid on me either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 07:39 PM
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Yep. Even if they’re “in love” for a while: eventually you’ll age. And they’ll be watching “barely legal” videos and subscribing to onlyfans
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 02:56 PM
4

Lol, hilarious. I could have it all and his ass would still need to prove himself paying for dates and being capable of providing in his own right. Looking for a husband, not a dependent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 02:52 PM
3

Ladies: If you EVER feel the need to hit, or retaliate by getting absolutely nasty: just fucking leave. It’s over. I’ve literally never even gotten there in a relationship. I’d have dumped the mf way earlier. There should be no screaming fights or name calling. Period. Someone who acts like that doesn’t deserve your presence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 02:51 PM
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I was actually mature for my age. So yeah, I didn’t date old losers. I had a relationship with a 8 year difference that was fine... bc I was 29 when it started. In your early 20s, anything more than 3-5 years is too much of a gap.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 02:45 PM
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No shit you fuckstick. Your dick is not a prize unto itself 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 02:35 PM
9

The type of man who would go for you is utter fucking trash so yes. It’s bad. Stay below 30 for sure, and you should cap it 5-7 years older.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 02:33 PM
3

Nasty creature.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 10:56 PM
3

Jesus Christ. I seriously cannot fathom continuing to fuck a man that pathetic. Like how? How do you possibly feel you can’t do better?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 10:55 PM
1

Sigh, no. I am legitimately high libido. And it sucks. I refuse to have “casual” shit sex with random scrotes in between relationships. So I get all frustrated lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 10:53 PM
1

No. Don’t start a relationship with someone you aren’t sexually attracted to. Ever. Sure, maybe he’ll go the distance. Or maybe he’ll take you dating (and I assume sleeping with eventually) him as a sign that you’re totally attracted to him fat. Which you are not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 10:51 PM
7

Literally, I hope she leaves and he fuckin kills himself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 10:45 PM
4

These men will catch rape charges. Because they are rapists
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 10:43 PM
3

What a fuckin loser 😂 I love how he pretends that the only thing keeping his worthless ass from becoming a doctor is “lack of opportunities” No, you’re a stupid lazy crabs in a bucket bitch. That’s why she’ll be a doctor and you never will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 10:41 PM
1

Nah, I’m just not a momfriend. Be a loser, stay single.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/20 07:27 PM
2

Lol you wish you could financially abuse someone and they’d have no opportunity to escape you. Too bad, so sad. Men will work to make their wives happy (just like women do for their husbands), they will pull their weight in the home and with kids, they will invest in the relationship and keep it healthy and happy... or they’ll get left. Because “loyalty” to shitty low effort men because women are stuck with them for survival is a thing of the past, and hallelujah to that.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/20 12:41 AM
2

Yeah, women don’t want man children bums with 0 ambition who sit on their ass playing video games/smoking weed/jacking it to porn/whatever. Decent money, as in 50k+ a year, comes automatically with ambition, drive, and talent. Men who don’t have any of these things are unattractive.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/20 12:38 AM
2

This. A man who is a mover and a shaker, who is always progressing, who is successful at many things (and less so at others, that happens when you try different things all the time), who is dynamic and skilled... it’s sexy.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/20 12:33 AM
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AT HIS SISTER'S WEDDING!?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 02:34 AM
49

The kind of c*nt who looks the other way when her rapist husband is touching their kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 02:34 AM
0

It's impossible to know if they aren't fucking you, innit it?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 06:38 PM
2

I have and have had a lot of friends who were ugly and/or just not the gender/type I would ever think sexually of ever, and I have many good feelings for them. I am not disgusted by their appearance bc I don't think about having sex with everyone I spend time with. I just think of them as a person. Their humor, their interests, etc. That's what we talk about and sex doesn't enter the equation. It is not true that all relationships between unattractive people are loveless deadbedrooms, and that's…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 06:38 PM
1

Bruh, I didn't read that shit and I ain't got no rape fantasies. Miss me with your bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 05:27 PM
14

That is not discrimination. That's free will. And I bet if you tried for ugly women whose face/body result in being ignored by men (there are many) they would date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/20 05:17 PM
11

Yes, yes, yes. I never settled for NO value, but I settled for pretty low effort. I thought it was enough. It was shit. I would have been better off if they were horrible, because I would have just dumped their asses much faster. Now I realize I don't need anyone. It feels GLORIOUS. This is true empowerment, not sluttery and prostitution like libfems try to stuff down our throats. Me, working my ass off and successfully building a beautiful life full of comfort and freedom: that is empowerment. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 12:15 AM
3

He did you a huge favor. Your broken heart and sadness WILL fade and you will have a clean slate, a fresh chance to find someone worthy. He ain't it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 09:09 PM
3

Good, he's a rapist piece of shit and he deserves utter misery.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 09:03 PM
7

God damn, accurate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 08:39 PM
1

Just like IRL, your opinion means nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 06:06 PM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 06:05 PM
0

Yeah rape is way preferable to women having free will, totally
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 06:05 PM
1

I don't, even though you desperately wish you could.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/20 06:04 PM
1

No Stay triggered
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 06:39 PM
0

Oh so buying a sex slave from an impoverished country is totes aight because other theoretical women blah blah blah? It's actually rape bro lol. I cannot imagine needing to purchase someone who has no other options and feeling comfortable with doing so. Men are deranged.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 06:36 PM
3

You ain't got no studies lol. Just admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 11:55 PM
4

Lmao, wow. They are doing the MOST to dance around the fact that it's not difficult to just... not commit sex crimes if you don't want to be on the sex offender's list. Hurrah to the girl's dad. I'd do the same. So all these shitty fucking men who are 18+ and think they'll get away with preying on little girls... enjoy your IRL b& from employment, housing, and society at large. Keep your putrid dicks to yourself and away from children or you will suffer, and you will deserve every fucking second…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 11:55 PM
3

Imagine thinking a couple subreddits (probably mostly populated by men) and a stupid book series (have never read, never will) means you know what all or even most women want and like in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 11:40 PM
3

Spoken like someone who doesn't have sex. Stop telling women what they like in bed, you obviously have no idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 10:16 PM
7

We definitely don't want to fuck as much as men, nor do we want to fuck everything with a dick like men do everything with a vagina. But yes, we like sex. With someone who reaches our threshold for physical attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 07:36 PM
7

I think it's both, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 07:19 PM
1

We're spread across the US. Most of them are my friends from undergrad. Yeah if someone is living in some suburban karen-zone or some backwoods "Trump country" area I suggest they leave. There are many interesting people but they aren't hanging out in the suburbs or the sticks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 07:02 PM
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And? Suffering under the delusion that a manslut is a "great husband and lover to his wife, a great father to his children" will assure it. If he doesn't marry and have kids, it's not an issue now is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 11:16 PM
12

And then it is possible for him to lose half of his assets in the divorce. Justice :D
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 09:28 PM
4

All the women I know do some combination of the following (besides being college educated and working on their career): yoga, distance running, climbing, hiking, crochet, book clubs (my mom is obsessed), playing guitar/violin/piano etc, attending dance classes, attending acrobatics classes, painting, drawing, one is now building furniture by hand so woodworking, etc. One picked up welding and is doing that now. It's more like what aren't they working on. They're working on their fitness, artisti…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 09:24 PM
1

ImMaTuRe Unlike this entire thread, which can be distilled down to you repeatedly going "I know you are, what am I." Find something better to do with your time
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 06:04 PM
3

It works IRL if you have a large social circle. I usually live with a housemate or two (occasionally 3) of mixed genders. Through them, their friends, my friends, etc if I wanted to get laid from someone nice and pretty attractive I could do so. I don't though, as I am recently-ish single and leaning towards wgtow.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 05:52 PM
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Hahah yup. It's actually legit when they're honest: "looking for casual/FWB/hook-ups/nothing serious" or "I'm in an open relationship/marriage" or "looking for a third for my gf and I" But of course we swipe left on them with the quickness. I always wonder if men realize what kind of horrible, mentally ill, damaged woman they are self selecting for by posting shit like that. Anybody who responds to one of those by choice is going to be royally fucked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 05:50 PM
1

Nerve, struck. It's okay, there are more naive women for you to string along and take advantage of. I'm just not one of them :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 05:44 PM
1

"Wahhhh makes me feel bad when mean wimminz point out the truth" Too bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 05:44 PM
1

No, just as I don't care that you're going nowhere. As I said good luck with that , lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 05:43 PM
1

What nerve? I'm not the one desperately trying to defend their life choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 05:43 PM
3

No. Just as I do not want to go outside and sell my body to a stranger, I do not want sex outside of the context of a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 05:42 PM
1

Uh huh. Seems like I struck a nerve. As a woman who did not get a degree in a "roadblock discipline" and mega dumped a dead-end musician: GOOD LUCK WITH THAT LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 02:30 AM
1

Spoken like someone who has no merits. Don't be so jell.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 02:27 AM
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Meeting a strange man for sex (or dates, anything sexual/romantic in nature) is inherently a dangerous proposition. It is in infinitely preferable to meet a man through socializing, where he has context.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 10:45 PM
0

It's like over half of men lol. Basically any who have options, so maybe 60-70%? If a man is at all physically attractive and at all successful the chances of him being a fuckboy piece of shit are like 99%. Sometimes they don't even mean it, they're just so emotionally retarded that they are literally incapable of a loving adult relationship. So their relationships last ~1-2 years max before she realizes what a loser he is and that lifetime of disappointment and "forever girlfriend" is in the fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 10:36 PM
1

Or too busy getting more college degrees (we are over half) becoming doctors (same) and actually growing the fuck up. But more men play guitar so I guess y'all have that going for you. Maybe you can suck each other's emotional, artistic dicks!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 10:30 PM
5

For real. 0 reading comprehension apparently.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 10:26 PM
9

No. It makes perfect sense. I don't want the sex without the relationship. I don't want the sex without the relationship. I. Do. Not. Want. The. Sex. unless it's in the context of a relationship. Are you comprehending me now?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 09:23 PM
11

We don't want your worthless NSA sex, in which men get orgasms several times more than women statistically. Seriously. If commitment doesn't come along with it keep your dick to yourself and keep bleating on the internet. Sorry not sorry. That is literally why women reject men lol and why men bitch. Too bad. There are always escorts, they're down, for a fee of course. Yes, I have a degree and a career and if a man doesn't he's not good enough for me and can cry about it. Imagine thinking that wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 07:07 PM
19

God, I hope she finds out. I've learned so much more about men as I've gotten older. Open electronics policy is required. Shared finances (once you agree to marry) is required. Being vigilant is required. You cannot trust them, no matter what you think. If you delude yourself into doing so, you could easily end up like this poor poor woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 07:01 PM
7

It delights me that his time for attracting women as desirable as OP is coming to an end. They think they are peter pan, they think they don't ever have to grow up. They think they can abuse woman after woman forever. Then one day they're just creepy lonely old men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 06:55 PM
1

I am choosing D, none of the above. And more and more are becoming like me. It really is a massive waste of time and energy to even attempt romantic interaction with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 06:42 PM
2

The only men who aren't fuckboys are the ones who don't have any options or the ones who aged out of it. Y'all mature emotionally at about a snail's pace. Thus men who are even the slightest bit attractive (looks, accomplishments, etc) don't even start being slightly decent until like their mid 30s. At that point it's up to us whether it's even worth dealing with some used up "Chad" dick lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 06:15 PM
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"Sexually successful" for men distills down to being able to use as many women for sex as possible. The vast majority of men will never be "sexually successful" by their own definition, because for them to get what they want requires women to bend to their will while getting NOTHING that we want in return. And that is a raw deal. The men I know who got degrees, jobs, and leveled up their lives are almost ALL married or in relationships. They did this for themselves and for their "SMV" and lo and…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 06:13 PM
1

Lol, what men are to cam girls ain’t “nice.” Are you kidding me? They don’t think they’re people. How the fuck is a complete lack of respect “nice?” The fact that you even brought that up means you are probably hopeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 05:19 PM
13

Usually they wanna continue fuckboi-ing around (or they want to continue feeling like they have the option to, even if they are largely unsuccessful historically). Basically men drop off when they realize they don’t want to be in a relationship and would rather have the potential, no matter how slim, to fuck other women. Especially if there are a couple women in their social scene they’re super attracted to. Even if they’re super attracted to you also, they’re unwilling to give up the ability to…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 05:16 PM
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Yup. The Peter Pan complex of men nowadays means that only the older ones are at all suitable for relationships/marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 05:11 PM
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The people who still go out and drink and do drugs (the festival scene etc) are still having sex. Still with less people I think, like not randoms, but yeah. People who sit inside on their computer obviously are not having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 05:03 PM
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Because she can’t change the way her husband behaves. If he has no interest in her she can’t force him to be a living and engaging partner. For me, once they get to the “Netflix and chill for eternity” stage I’m already planning my exit strategy. Low effort = I need to keep looking, this one ain’t it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 04:56 PM
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Cleaning up after yourself and cleaning your own living space is not choreplay. Women are not your maids.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 04:53 PM
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If you don’t think being overly nice to women and making them feel special makes them want to fuck men... that’s why you have an issue with sexlessness in relationships. Men want to be worshiped and catered to in their relationships without even arranging nice dates on special occasions. It won’t happen. She will realize that he is a low effort asshole who expects sex on tap while ignoring her the rest of the time, giving zero shits about what she needs and wants in a relationship... and she’ll …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 04:52 PM
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... because he wants sex. Or he can not court and deal with the lack of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 04:50 PM
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Cleaning up after yourself as a single woman is nothing like cleaning up after your self, a fully grown man child, and actual child(ren).
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 04:48 PM
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Men across the entire spectrum of appearance/success/age are selfish in bed. It’s more likely to encounter one of them than a man who is good at it. This really fucks then over and I think is one of the reason certain men are highly valued over others who think they are “good, nice guys” or whatever. Yes a woman is going to leave the nice guy who is shit/selfish in bed for a less nice one who is bomb at it. Yes they will stick with one who is amazing in bed for longer once the relationship begin…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 04:46 PM
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Well. A huge proportion of men are dirtbags. Not sure what you want women to do about that. Men are not good husbands and fathers, by and large lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 01:47 AM
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To me, it's more about making sure you don't catch STIs from being "nonexclusive" with some manslut. You make men commit because otherwise they are not worth entertaining for a second.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 12:31 AM
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Ask all the people who grew up with an absent or abusive father.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 12:26 AM
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Old dudes dusty ass sperm isn’t worth anything either. Sure they can get someone pregnant... with an autistic, mentally ill baby. Honestly idgaf what men think about women. I don’t let them have their way because I don’t want to, and that’s that as far as I’m concerned
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 10:15 PM
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Women aren’t food, or cars, and their only worth isn’t in their appearance/age. You really have to question why women are resentful of that shit? It’s literally dehumanizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 09:55 PM
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Every single person that knew both of us was literally like “is he fucking retarded!?” after the breakup lmao. So who knows. My picker is broken I guess! Good luck to you as well!!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 09:54 PM
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nah, I’ve got some Pacific Islander in my blood. Thanks parents!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 09:52 PM
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Ugh, negging. I have 0 tolerance for that shit. One good thing about my ex: he was always complimentary about me, my body, etc. or I’d have destroyed him lol. Good on you for dumping that dumpster fire. I do read FDS!! I used to comment on it more with an old (now deleted) username 😁 I’m sure I will again. Love those ladies. Sometimes I don’t even have anything to add lol, they’ve said it all.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 09:49 PM
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That’s why retinoids and sunscreen friend! Also eating well and drinking plenty of water. Shit nutrition—> shit organs, and your skin is just an organ yo
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 09:44 PM
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You can’t know that! Although I feel the same, lol. They key is truly to develop happiness within yourself, it’s the only way, as you can’t control fate.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 09:40 PM
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Yes it was exactly that. I think a lot of the anger for me and other women comes when you realize that he knew he wasn’t capable of an adult relationship, but he faked it to get his needs met: needs for validation, attention, sex from a woman he finds beautiful, social status. For us, it feels like being used in the worst way. I will say I agree that he did me a favor being honest, even if it was after a year. I am just 30 and I would have let him waste more of my time. I had grown to love him, …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 09:39 PM
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Yeah, I definitely am relationship dependent in a sexual sense, just like you describe. I feel the exact same, “casual” is worse than nothing in my eyes. Makes me feel unsatisfied, miserable, and used. I haven’t done it much because of those reasons, after you watch a friendship blow up because he couldn’t sustain respect for you if you were having sex with him... it’s a no in the future. However, I can feel and give so much love for the platonic and familial relationships in my life. Which is w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 09:07 PM
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Yeah, the online manosphere brings out my rad fem tendencies lmao. It’s all the reading men talking about replacing women with objects, wanting to force them into sex, etc. I have men in my personal life that I care for though, including a solid handful of straight men that I’ve managed to established legitimate friendship with
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 09:00 PM
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You too! I think this journey of 100% investing in yourself and your own life is the key to happiness. Looking for happiness from another person, especially a member of the opposite sex, will fail unless you hit that jackpot and find a spouse randomly. A lot of people suck and will disappoint you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 08:58 PM
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Stay vigilant girl. You’ve been doing the right thing. Make this dude prove himself. The worst is when they get you to put your guard down and start caring before you realize what flavor of fucked they are. If I date again, I think the most important things I’ll be looking at (besides the baseline: sexually attractive enough to me specifically, a functional adult, college educated, decent job, etc) is his relationship with friends and family. How many friends does he have? How close are they? Ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 08:56 PM
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My original LTR did not make me to wgtow. He’s actually an awesome person. We grew up together in a sense and ended up having completely different priorities. So we split amicably and now live across the country from each other. It was really one of those cases where nobody is wrong and you love each other but you don’t see a life together anymore. My most recent one, and dating before that, are why I am going wgtow. Also just witnessing my female friends go through relationships and situationsh…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 08:47 PM
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Yeah, definitely on all counts. Women like sex too, but men not only wanna rush into it, they devalue you if you acquiesce. It’s a fucking trap. And that’s a good idea. Once you really think about all the energy you wasted on partners who end up failing you and not being in your life when you could have focused that on your family and long term friends... it’s really goddamn dumb. I’ve finally learned.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 08:37 PM
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It’s gonna sound like a lie, but I have never been the reason why a relationship failed. The first, we grew apart and he refused to grow up. We split amicably after 7 years. The other major relationship was with a man who is emotionally damaged and completely lacks vulnerability in that area. When I’m with someone, I do my absolute best to make sure they feel satisfied in every way. I am consistently kind and accepting of them, I don’t nag or get snippy. I’m always happy to see them. I don’t eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 08:34 PM
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Yeah, I mostly do it for myself. I was in a LTR in my early 20s where I pudged up a bit and he didn’t care at all. I couldn’t stand it though. I lost it because I hated being even slightly overweight, regardless if my partner still 100% finds me attractive. I just love to be fit and healthy. I’m always trying to improve my diet and I constantly exercise, because it feels GREAT. Natural anti anxiety, anti depressant, meditative activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 08:25 PM
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I think women want to date and marry, men want the opposite (until they hit like 40 and start trying to get with women in their mid-late 20s). It’s a complete mismatch of desires. Fundamental incompatibility. But yeah. I have never felt so HAPPY to be single as I am after my last relationship. That shit just ain’t worth it. I like myself too much lol, to subject myself to some man’s bullshit. I’m focusing on making my life as beautiful as I can, for myself and those that I love. Feeling like you…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 08:22 PM
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Yup I’m there right now. My last relationship was with an emotional child in a man’s body. In fact, I don’t think I’ve ever managed to find a legitimately mature man, in all ways. Even if they look mature on paper, degree, job, home, car, they are emotionally retarded. I know exceptions exist. But why the fuck would I waste my energy trying to dig through the massive shit pile to find a diamond lol? I’m focusing on my career and my hobbies/interests for the foreseeable future. We only need men f…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 08:17 PM
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I just turned 30, I’m just fit as fuck and have good genes. The only way it will is if I am unable to find a decent male to be my partner, because you can’t keep looking if you don’t have what they want: sex appeal. However, I am also transitioning to a mindstate where I could actually see myself being happily single for life. I’m starting to realize that the vast majority of men are simply incapable of delivering what I desire. That you can do everything right, be the best wife, the best friend…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 08:05 PM
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We are doing it more and more, but unfortunately for many the hope of finding a man to share your life with is still present. I’ve found as I aged that more women are opting out of dating though. It’s the definition of insanity to keep trying to get men to treat you well when you fully recognize that the majority are incapable and and a noninsignificant percentage would stick their dick in your sister if they had the chance. A vibrator/dildo, pure sexual stimulation, does not replicate what wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 07:55 PM
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I mean, I already knew men see women as objects to fuck and use as they see fit. This does not surprise me, and I am no angrier about it on this thread than I ever am lmao. There are a few decent ones too, so we hold out hope for finding one of those unicorns, but the fact that the general male population would love to have a sex slave chained up in their basement is not surprising. It’s just disgusting and degenerate, and the reason why women are so insanely vigilant about their safety and whic…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 07:52 PM
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We’ll just get the male version. Sure we’d prefer a good man who is loyal and decent. But if they’re all reenacting rape on dolls like the brain dead dick monsters they are, might as well use a fancy pants robot dildo and get your social requirements from your girl friends, who are better people anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 07:47 PM
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This is why women are choosing to reject more and more. Being at the whims of a porn sick creature is not better than being alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 07:42 PM
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The vast majority of males on tinder are utter creatures. It’s like 70% men and they are 99% the lowest value men imaginable. Your hand will literally hurt from swiping left so much lmao. It’s not even worth the time to download and make a profile on any OLD platform as a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 07:35 PM
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“I want to use women sexually like inanimate objects, with 0 respect for them as living breathing human beings, with their own needs and preferences. I wonder why they fucking hate me?” Enjoy your dolls. I truly mean that. Angry entitled men are more dangerous to women than pretty much any other factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 07:31 PM
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It’s not consensual if I do not like him as a person, feel chemistry, and yes sexual attraction exists. Go fuck some 60 yr old fat lady. Wait you don’t want to? I do not “need” sex like you do. Women are not men. Sex with a random does nothing for me and will not “do in a pinch” dafuq? I would stay celibate forever, and I mean that. Many women including myself lean demisexual. We require some level of emotional connection and compatibility to develop and sustain sexual attraction. We cannot just…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 07:27 PM
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They’re not happy because I have free will, opinions, and boundaries instead of being a good little sex doll. They’re not happy because they can’t point at a random beautiful woman in her 20s on the street thay is 100x more attractive then themselves and have her immediately bend over to receive. She has free will and shit💀They are not happy that the female biological imperative requires that she build a situation that is stable and supportive for children, and that a man who isn’t worth shit, d…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 07:17 PM
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Angry where? I am dead serious. I take up about 1/1000 of the men who make passes on their offer. The other 999 could be fucking sex dolls all day instead of trying to pick me up at the gas station and I’d be fucking pumped. Walking around at night would be safer too. Free sex dolls for all men!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 07:09 PM
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No. You are just incapable of empathizing with women. You only think with your dick. Having sex with someone I do not like and am not attracted to is not actually sex. It would be a lot more like rape, in fact it would have to be, because I don’t do that. I don’t have sex with random men, I have to wait until I encounter and get to know one who is compatible with me. So while I could get on tinder and let some creature come stick his dirty dick in me any day of the week, that ability is not a fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 07:06 PM
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Nah, I’m actually really about this. I am not happy about male attention 99.999% of the time. If they could fuck off and stick their dicks in dolls or whatever that would be great. Rape will probably majorly drop off too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 06:59 PM
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Yes, if men have a way to simulate sex with an attractive woman without having to improve themselves in any way or be a decent human, they will absolutely take that option. And it will be a relief for women, honestly. I hope they disseminate them for free so the broke ones can go fuck a doll instead of bugging us too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 06:58 PM
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You don't understand. The thing that is attractive to her, the thing that provides her with "good feelings," is the potential for commitment. A relationship. It is EXTREMELY UNUSUAL for a man to be upfront about "FWB/casual/situationship." and if he does, it's some kind of nebulous "let's see where it goes," bullshit, which she eats up as "OKAY SO THERE'S A CHANCE THEN RIGHT?" The vast majority of those situations result from the man manipulating the woman into thinking it can become something m…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 09:06 PM
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When I say social media, generally it's someone I met at an event in town and then we ended up friends on social media (let's be real they friend me). Then if they're a dude and they start messaging me all friendly-like I know what's up. I literally just was asked by one of these to come hang out with him this past week. I was like... bruh. A. no B. it's a fucking pandemic, extra no
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 08:56 PM
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Yes. They initially are like "hey u want sum dick?" but not all of them take "nah no thanks" as reason to have 0 interest in knowing that person. Some men see women as people. People that they'd like to fuck, but people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 08:49 PM
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Yeah, I can agree with that. It's hard when you're super young and everybody including yourself is a "work in progress" so to speak, but not everyone will stay on the path to even moderate success. I watched a lot of relationships tank due to this, one person kept growing and... grew up... and the other stagnated and never became anything, if not developed substance abuse problems by continuing the party college lifestyle into adulthood without any legitimate goals to restrain them. But yes, I a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 08:48 PM
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Because they're delusional and don't recognize that the second they "give up the milk for free" they'll become less than dogshit in the dude's eyes. I give all my younger female friends this advice. Men don't like to be your friend. How many straight male friends do you have? Why do you think men who are getting sex from you are your friend? Oh, you tried it and he was shitty about responding to texts and then picked up some other chick in front of you? Imagine that. I inherently knew this was t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 08:42 PM
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It seems that your mindset & approach to relationships works for you, so I won't belabor the point any more on that. Celebrating that someone dies in a fire because they leave a romantic relationship is very unhealthy. Both men and female do this, by the way. There are many women who financially support their man through school etc and then he dips when he's successful. Yeah they suck (unless the person they left had become controlling or abusive, something like that), but once again the way to …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 08:40 PM
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Anddd that is why you are unsuccessful with women. Hating the same people you're trying to get sex out of is a poor strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 08:31 PM
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Some do not. Some do. These dudes I speak of have been around through several relationships/breakups/single periods and never became flirty again after I clearly showed no interest when we first met. ALL men only befriend women with the sole intention of getting laid or getting a relationship. I expect that every message I get from men on social media is with the intent of "testing the waters" so to speak. That's just how men operate, unfortunately. The legit ones will stick around after they re…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 08:15 PM
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That seems... like a strange and tit-for-tat view of dating. Most people want someone who chooses to be with them and stay loyal to them because they love them, not because they don't have any other options... Extreme example. The guy pays for the woman's entire education and plastic surgeries. She started as an uneducated 4, now she is a college educated, well payed engineer and also an 8. Again, there are no shoulds in human behavior. But if she is not loyal to him, I am going to say she is a …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 08:11 PM
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https://www.medscape.com/viewarticle/810588
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 08:06 PM
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It's not a choice until I find someone to be in a relationship with. Which takes a long time as there must be levels of compatibility, we have to encounter each other & get to know each other, etc. The "choice" to fuck some random gross asshole is no choice at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 08:05 PM
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Prob cause you don't have friends. Some people are proficient at social interactions, including men, and don't just uncontrollably shoot their shot at every attractive woman they come across. Some men are comfortable with themselves and don't take a woman's lack of interest in them for a sexual relationship as some sort of ReJecTioN/ThReAt/LitErALLy vIoLenT action. They just go sniff around other women until they find one that is interested. Some men like women who are cool and are willing to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 08:04 PM
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Relationships should be equal, especially if you expect them to be successful long term. It's supposed to be both sides giving, not one gives and the other takes. Why should a "low value" person have the loyalty of someone better than themselves (that isn't family)? It makes perfect sense for both men and women to look for people close to their "value." Especially because education level for example is a massive determinant of compatibility; most well educated people are not interested in dating…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 07:30 PM
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Usually they are subtly "testing the waters" early on in the friendship, and they are socially capable enough to recognize it's a no-go pretty quick. Then they just chill with you and look elsewhere for their romantic/sexual pursuits. I'd say I've had 5-10 decent to close male friends that have followed this pattern. We'll get to know each other through the friend group, they'll flirt a bit, realize I'm not about it, and then we are friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 07:09 PM
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Most people could get LTR sex from someone. Even if they're super unattractive, they can find a super unattractive woman and she'll be happy to date him.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 07:07 PM
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Lmao right!?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 07:07 PM
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I have long periods of celibacy when I am not interested in any of the men I know. It's not particularly pleasant but I don't die.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 07:07 PM
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If the baby dies preterm from chlamydia but it's past viability, it's still considered a stillbirth. The baby could have survived being born that early, but it died and was "miscarried."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 07:06 PM
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Nope. Men treat the women they manage to acquire casual sex from like utter shit. They are immediately "low value" in the male's eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 07:05 PM
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If he's angling for sex then yes. That is manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 07:04 PM
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Why would a man hang out with a woman who doesn't want to fuck him lmao? I don't know, maybe because you can't expect every goddamn person of the opposite sex to want to fuck you and you like having friends? The entitlement, my god.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 07:04 PM
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I was like that when I was 19. Eventually if the person really doesn't become an adult it's a major problem. I'm not saying they need to become wealthy by any means. But they need to become a fully functioning adult, an equal partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 07:02 PM
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Not just better options, if you were super undeveloped he may have (rightly) not been attracted to you... because you looked like a child still. How old was he? If he was 16+ it's a GOOD THING he didn't want to date someone who hasn't really hit puberty yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 07:01 PM
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Do not date potential. I mean, it seems like men don't care if their partners end up lackluster af, but if any of you do: do not date potential. Women learn this the hard way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 06:59 PM
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Shouldn't just be physical. Getting a better education, doing things with your life... not even necessarily money, even a man who is currently a student or in trade school or whatever is attractive. Drive, motivation, being kickass is attractive. Especially if the woman is herself, she'll be looking for an equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 06:58 PM
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Nope. I'd literally (and do) choose celibacy over casual sex. I get nothing out of it whatsoever. I get that you can't conceptualize that, because you think with your dick. But it is true for myself and many other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 12:03 AM
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Yeah totally. The universe revolves around you and your dick and how anybody else experiences living in a world full of men like you feels doesn't matter. Because muh dick. Plz touch. Touch it. Just a little? What's your number? Where are you going?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 12:02 AM
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Um, no? Why are you going around this thread asking that lol. The answer is obviously no.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/20 12:01 AM
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THere was a woman on one sub who got chlamydia from her husband while she was pregnant. He was fucking around on the side (obviously). The baby was stillborn as a result. GTFO with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 11:53 PM
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Absolutely. Why would you ever expect fidelity from them lol? They're sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 11:48 PM
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I don't want anybody fucking staring at me while I'm at the damn post office. Why are all of you so fucking dense? And if I'm taken, I don't care what the dude looks like. I am not interested. I don't like being bugged by absolute strangers because they're seeking to get their dicks wet.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 11:47 PM
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Uh I've been in a relationship 8 out of the last 9 years. How exactly did I get any benefits from my "power" over random men? Spoiler: I didn't. I mean it's vaguely flattering to be hit on I guess. I don't really care about it and it can straight up annoy me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 09:33 PM
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Sorry, dudes worth shit have friends, go to parties, and meet women that way. They don't need to be creeps on the street lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 09:32 PM
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Yeah they used to nail thousands of people up to crosses too after they won battles. Do you have a point?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 09:31 PM
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It's extremely random and not the norm. There are a lot of attractive people around, especially if you live in a collegiate area. It's not like you're getting free shit all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 09:31 PM
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Depends on what you mean by popularity. Personally I don't meet people I consider "quality" who do not have an established social network of close family and/or friends. If you're quality, people love you and want you around. Doens't have to be hundreds of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 09:30 PM
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Dafuq get your false equivalence bs out of here. And no, I don't enjoy the slavering attention of the gross male population.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 09:29 PM
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Yeah well there are a shit ton of women that feel extremely awkward and anxious by being stared down by men every time they leave the house, and they matter too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 09:28 PM
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That's okay : ) Getting that it exists is enough for us, really. The idea that catcalling/cold approaching/etc by random strange men in the world is FLATTERING and not an annoying, awkward, uncomfortable inconvenience at best and a frightening, threatening, you need to get the fuck out of there situation at worst is super enraging to me. It's like... the worst side effect of being an attractive woman. Like, I go to the gym and stay fit, I style myself nicely, I do all this because I love myself …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 05:04 AM
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it sucks that it takes most men so long to even register that women are people. It does not endear them to me at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 04:54 AM
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Not just annoying. If you're not quite neurotypical (I have inattentive ADHD, there are high functioning autistic women, women who are overwhelmingly shy or anxious, etc) it can be absolutely agonizing to be stared at like that by strangers all day every day. The male gaze can be fucking heavy. It's horrible to have to avoid eye contact in an attempt to get them to not approach you. It endangers you too, because they could be coming at you while you're pointedly not looking. You basically have t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 04:53 AM
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Lmao okay. Except they do sometimes, the ones who aren't fragile as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 04:37 AM
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Yup. Such an ego boost to have some nasty rando staring you the fuck down, if not actively approaching you and making you extremely uncomfortable. Trying to ask you invasive questions, trying to get your info, trying to find an angle to get you alone. Then you have to figure out a "pleasant" way to tell them to fuck off so they don't freak out on you. A joy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 04:35 AM
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I have some social anxiety with utter strangers and can even have a hard time with eye contact when I'm super uncomfortable (like some weirdo is cold approaching me). You have no idea. Basically, I won't mind lol. And it won't be for many years (i take good care of myself) and I'll hopefully be happily married and just fine going without any attention from men other than my husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 04:29 AM
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Yeah, because it's so easy for men to just snap their fingers and get "more pussy." Maybe if they're 8 to 10/10. Enjoy your celibacy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 04:15 AM
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Men talk nonstop about the effect of OLD on women, how women are too picky nowadays, blah blah blah. OLD and porn have absolutely ruined any and all men in the past decade or so. The ones attractive and successful enough to be "suitable options" on paper are dirty, untrustworthy fuckboy sluts, who probably watch way too much porn. The ones who are unattractive and lame if not actively shitty are manipulative as fuck and... watch way too much porn. Dating men right now is a colossal waste of time…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 04:14 AM
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Yass queen. It's 100% better to end up "alone" romantically but with an absolutely kickass life from nonstop working on yourself than end up some douchebag's bangmaid. There is 0 appeal to getting involved with a man who isn't SPECTACULAR. Attractive enough to fuck, interesting, beyond kind, loyal, giving, connected, etc. Otherwise: no. There is no benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 04:11 AM
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THen they can get dumped and then have to stop being a lazy pig to try and compete for another woman, while she happily rides some hotter dude into the sunset. How sad for women lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 04:04 AM
1

You summed up perfectly why dating men is an exercise in futility and self harm.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 10:00 PM
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Yeah, but it's not BECAUSE other women want them. It's because they possess characteristics that are desirable. It's kind of a chicken or the egg concept. Of course other women will see the appeal of your man if he's an awesome one. But it's because he's awesome that you desire him... and why other women do too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 09:58 PM
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>Attractive women for example are more inclined to put headphones in and have tunnel vision when walking around in public since everyone is staring at them DUDE. THE TRUTH. you legit CANNOT look around at people as an attractive woman. Men WILL approach upon eye contact. So if you are looking and acknowledging them, you're gonna get cold approached & bothered. Which, if you're at the bar or sitting around doing some kinda leisure activity, is whatever for the most part... but if you're walking t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 09:55 PM
1

It doesn't have to be A LOT of female friends. Just a handful is fine. Legitimate ones. It shows that he is a normal guy who relates well to people, and sees women as people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 09:49 PM
1

lmao whatever you say. You're not one of them, how would you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 09:42 PM
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>someone who is social and fun to be around This. They are generally liked. They are capable of seeing women as human beings, at least enough that they don't get excommunicated from social scenes for being users (pump and dump, lying/manipulative) or creeps. It's a major "green flag" when a man has people of both genders who love him & enjoy his presence in a nonsexual way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 07:17 PM
1

It's never the hot rich guys tryna cold approach. Ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 07:15 PM
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Yeah they need to be baseline physically attractive to me, of course. That's like requirement 1 for a romantic relationship, because it involves sex. And yup. the "large social circle, which by extension has a lot of women" guy is the one I go for. The one who has legitimate fond friendships/acquaintanceships with women that he's never fucked or tried to. We love that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 06:28 PM
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Yes, exactly. Even if they are attractive and I am single, it's weird. It's like... socially inappropriate. Like the first thing he does is stomp on a normal ass boundary. Red flag. If I'm engaging in some leisure activity though, I do not mind men approaching and I understand why they do!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 06:27 PM
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You’re a unicorn. You’re the type of man an interested woman will try to snap the fuck up. Source: am woman that goes weak for men who respect other women as human beings not prospective fuck objects
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 05:14 PM
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I’ve personally known women who found out they were the side chick. Who found out their dude was dating someone else at the same time. It’s not that difficult for pathological liars. Also, it’s extremely unfortunate but there are some pathetic ass 0 self respect women who will allow these creeps to scoop them up, KNOWING that they have an ex wife and kids that they basically abandoned, and will have MORE kids by them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 05:07 PM
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And if that’s your goal in life, sorry the roll of the genetics die didn’t make you a top 5% tier attractive human who can be any sort of asshole/psycho they want but people will project humanity on them (because they want to believe this hot person is also a good person) and try to engage.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 05:05 PM
1

It’s absolutely common. Men have multiple whole ass families.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 04:51 PM
1

Lmao, okay. Just don’t be surprise when women think you’re annoying at best and a creep at worst when you waylay them out of nowhere while they’re going about their business.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 04:38 PM
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Depends on what you mean by quality. Even moderately physically attractive? Yes she does. Men don’t value personality/accomplishments/career/literally anything enough to eclipse looks. If a woman is physically unattractive (obese, unkempt, poor style or even hygiene) she will have 0 luck with even average men. Only women date down.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 04:31 PM
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And? People cohabitate for 5-10 years before marriage nowadays. If a kid comes along, does that make it less of an abandonment of family if the man fucks off? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 04:28 PM
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The type of man who is interested in “rape play” and hardcore choking/hitting/degrading... by selecting for men who enjoy that sort of shit these women are selecting for abusers. It is not healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 04:26 PM
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Yes, I agree. The men who approach (especially inappropriate time/place) are almost always unpleasant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 04:18 PM
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It also depends on where we are. Any venue that gives even a slight “we like the same things” vibe is better than the parking lot at the grocery store for example. If a man chats me up at a show/concert or a farmers market, when I’m not trying to do anything/get anywhere, I will be polite and unbothered regardless of my interest level. It’s like a time and place thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 04:18 PM
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If chad needs to holler at strangers chad has a personality disorder and is to be avoided.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 04:16 PM
1

It’s true that I will not always smile at men. If it’s nighttime or I’m like in an enclosed space with them (like a bus or train for example), hell no. Many men see it as in invitation. In the middle of the day, walking by a lake? Anybody will get a smile and nod. I’m not worried about them bugging me and if they do I’m not worried about my exit strategy should it get unpleasant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 04:14 PM
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I think this is a fair approach! If she’s looking and smiling twice at you specifically you have a good shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 04:13 PM
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No. When I am interested in someone in a group and we’re “vibing” aka getting along well, making each other laugh, I will gravitate towards them. That’s one of the clearest signals a woman can give. If in a group setting she’s always by your side, trying to talk to you specifically and enjoying the conversation (lots of laughs and smiles), it’s fair to assume you can shoot your shot and probs have success.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 04:11 PM
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No, I would think someone who is mega hot and does that shit is probably a fucked up dude. Seriously. Why would he have to? He should have a friend group and many women vying for his attention. Why doesn’t he? Why is he forced to holler at random women on the street? Red flags abound.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 04:09 PM
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If I meet a man socially and he decides to ask me out, I won’t consider him a creep unless it’s super weird (as in, I have given 0 indication of any interest over many times seeing each other at social events, literally treated him no different than any other person including women and gay dudes). Then I might be like ugh. But I won’t like... be rude or tell people he’s a creep. I’ll just kindly turn him down.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 04:07 PM
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Or they’re cool and nice with interesting hobbies and find it easy to make friends 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 04:05 PM
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YES. I don’t understand how men don’t get this. If you have no context I don’t want you. Who knows what kind of freak you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 04:04 PM
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Nope. I still think he’s a freak for coming out of nowhere and trying to get with me. It’s alarming and honestly a red flag. Because who the fuck are you!? It’s different if you’re at a bar or a “leisure place,” even like some sort of farmer’s market or something where people are sitting around. If a man came up and politely spoke to me then I’d be receptive. But I’m just fuckin walking in the world going about my business?? Leave me alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 04:00 PM
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Really??? It’s common in America. It’s awkward to meet eyes with someone and not acknowledge them somehow... usually a nod and a slight smile, maybe a “hi” or “hey.” Just to acknowledge that they are a person...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 03:58 PM
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That’s because that’s what they do lmao. A straight male friend is one of the rarest things imaginable and it’s usually the ones that are secure enough in themselves to keep talking to you after they initially shot their shot and failed 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 03:57 PM
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Yes, it can be okay, as long as it’s not pointed conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 03:56 PM
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95% of my adult life I’ve been in a relationship. And no, I do not want or crave attention/hit on/approached by men when I am taken.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 03:56 PM
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I don’t think I understand what you’re trying to say.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 02:38 AM
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Socially. I go to events and parties. I do hobbies that are gender neutral. Even online is better than someone stomping up on you out of nowhere because they think you’re fuckable and want to shoot their shot. Men judge women 100% on appearances and then try to like... acquire them. It’s disturbing. I’m walking here. Why do you think I am interested? How do you know I’m not in a LTR? What are we going to have in common and why would you think we’d have ANYTHING in common except both being humans…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 02:38 AM
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Same, lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 02:16 AM
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Yes. You don’t know her. She was smiling bc she’s polite and smiles at people when she sees them out and about. It’s a common courtesy. If you want to hit on someone make friends and a social group and get to know women. Women do not want random strangers to approach them to chat them up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 02:15 AM
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It’s always harassment if: she’s a total stranger, she’s at work, etc. women do not want to be hollered at by anyone at the grocery store or flirted with at work. It’s fucking annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 02:13 AM
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It’s not that women want to do anything to random men who are consuming hardcore pornography. It’s that they don’t want to date them, or sleep with them. There’s no push for some like punishment for watching porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 02:12 AM
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Dafuq. Women should not engage in casual sex or prostitution, fify. Both are fucking stupid, gross, often dangerous and literally go against her self interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 12:19 AM
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Okay so if a dudes dick is like... abnormally strange: super small or thin or both or WHATEVER that can definitely be a struggle I would think. I have not encountered any of that personally, just normal dudes with normal dicks. Most women are NOT size queens and average is totally great. Both of the men I dated for long periods of time had “performance failure” at least once early on (lol) and I literally thought nothing of it. If it had repeated again and again, once again that would probably b…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 11:53 PM
2

What exactly do you mean by attitude? Like they are actively “bratty,” rude, or inappropriately demanding? Or they have strong boundaries, require a healthy relationship with good communication, and will not settle for less? For me for example, my boundaries are iron clad. What I consider to be cheating, what commitment level I seek and when it should happen, what level of involvement with each other I require (for example, in a relationship I will eventually require cohabitation after 1 year bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 10:15 PM
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Lolz frat boys??????? Okay sir. Edit: Women take chances on completely normal/average men and this is where they end up (it’s funny I went to my home page and this popped up immediately) https://www.reddit.com/r/UnsentLetters/comments/gjiqjp/dear_husband/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 09:09 PM
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Oh, I didn’t know fertility was based on whether one was a “whore.”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 09:08 PM
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Not all beautiful women are the types to become models. You were selecting for a particular personality— narcissistic to some extent (or at least extremely vain). I’ve known beautiful fit women who are lawyers, MDs, and I myself have a PhD and am pretty lovely if I say so myself. “Model” is not a career for a self actualized woman. Most of the chicks I’m talking about take selfies sometimes but they aren’t going to try and make a living off of wearing clothes and making a pouty face. That’s a ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 06:58 PM
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Or she can decide that a baby and a monthly check sounds all right. You never know! Maybe a vasectomy for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 06:55 PM
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“Top men” (oxymoron) won’t commit to Halle berry. It is folly to try and change anything about yourself in hopes that it will make any particular man more loyal or less of an emotional vampire. It won’t, so women need to get their degrees, their homes, their exciting lives for themselves and then if a unicorn shows up, great. Trying to cater to men is why so many women end up broke taking care of some douchebag’s spawn. They stopped going to school/work (biggest mistake) to bear and raise said s…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 06:54 PM
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Men cheat more than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 06:51 PM
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It is infinitely better to end up alone, educated, with $$ than have permanently affixed yourself via marriage/kids to the first piece of shit that tried to manipulate his way into your pants. The vast majority of men are not worth shit and ending up single is far from the worst outcome. So yup, career, self, be hot, have fun, if you find a decent one great, if not you're still 1,000,000x better off than the majority who grit their teeth while they pretend their Nigel isn't a low effort creep wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 04:22 AM
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That's because men are sluts. Birds of a feather etc
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 04:17 AM
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Because men are untrustworthy. Women do not trust them. That's why. It's not a fuckin mystery lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 04:09 AM
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it's okay, the decent women don't want the cheating mansluts anyway. Weeding them out is the best way.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 04:05 AM
2

buh... buh... muh dick. muh entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 04:03 AM
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It makes them manipulative pieces of shit who completely lack empathy. Deal with it. No woman is every going to think men who lie every time they open their mouths are anything but yes, parasites.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 04:02 AM
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A huge percentage of men don't value decency, education, or loyalty in women, and men cheat on the most beautiful women alive. There is no "keeping" many men, who are just one offer away from sticking their dick in someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 04:00 AM
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can always blame rapis-- i mean "sex tourists" for their crimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 03:57 AM
2

Your body, your monthly bill. Or you could always keep your dick to yourself, you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 03:20 AM
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psst... it's because they all cover for each other, and even the ones who don't act deplorable will stand behind the ones that do...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 03:20 AM
2

When did I say 50-50 custody isn't a real man?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 03:19 AM
1

I could see this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 03:19 AM
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don't have kids But if I did I'd be responsible for them, because I'm not a sociopath
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 03:18 AM
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The fact that you assume any dude worth wanting is a cheating "Chad" is indicative of how degenerate the male species is lol. Decent looking, driven, accomplished... obviously gonna be a massive man whore, bc if men have 0 self control ergo if one has options he's probably an integrity-less, dishonest hyperslut.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 03:18 AM
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Same with athletics. Getting into it young + good facial genetics = life on cruise control (with some hiccups, of course). Appearance is only important in that you have to feel genuine sexual attraction to the person. I've felt that for men who my friends were like huh!? But I didn't care what they thought, lol. Same when they're all into a dude I think has 0 appeal. Hot guys aren't nicer than ugly guys. Neither are particularly nice lol, it's hard to find a genuinely nice one. That's why FDS is…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 03:15 AM
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That 20% is different for every woman. In fact, it's probably more like 20% of men are attractive to MOST women and at LEAST 60-70% are attractive to SOME women. Every one of my friends has dated a string of men I would never touch. They were all about dat D though, and it's honestly better when you don't have the same taste in men as your girls, lmao. That last 30% tho... I do admit their plight is real. It is really an unfortunate fact of biology that men, the thirstier (by far) sex have very …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 02:59 AM
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A lot of the FDS women are not pathologically anti-men, even the ones who have suffered horribly at their hands. A lot of the VIRULENTLY anti-male rhetoric on there is basically a response to RP/MGTOW/manosphere misogyny. It is... not pleasant... when a group of people who are literally murderously violent against your demographic at noninsignificant rates gets together to talk shit about how horrible you are for not being their fuckslaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 02:46 AM
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Yes, in my opinion being a selfish lover is the definition of being bad in bed. What else? Being unattractive? If you're fucking someone you don't find sexually attractive that's YOUR bad, not theirs. They aren't bad in bed bc you don't think they are hot. That same early bf, he had to get used to sex with a woman (as did I, with a man) and definitely "popped off" too quick sometimes at the beginning. Did I give a fuck? Hell no. He made sure I got mine, and we got better over time, and we procee…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 02:38 AM
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You'd be surprised how many women report that their families basically drilled it into their minds that nobody would want them and then that they should be thankful when some ugly or way too old for them (or both) dude comes to "take her off their hands." Young people are suggestible, and when everyone in a young woman's life is acting like it's a good thing and she should be thankful for the interest of an unattractive man because "nobody else will want you" she might just believe it. But yes, …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 02:34 AM
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I don't think so. Someone who cares, asks, learns, and tries is good in bed. It's not like brain surgery, taking the time to ask how a woman likes to be touched and then practicing until you can get her off. My first long term bf was inexperienced, as was I, but I never would have called him "bad in bed" at any point. We learned what each other liked together and it was great the whole time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 02:28 AM
2

Monogamy with what those on FDS refer to as a "high value male" (aka one who will not treat you like that description) is ideal for women, and that is why women pursue it. Allowing a revolving door of low effort men to pump and dump under the guise of "poly" or "open" does not fulfill women's needs, sexually, emotionally, or otherwise. This is why the true "poly" women I've known are all struggling with a history of severe sexual abuse, have been sex workers in the past or currently, etc. It is …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 02:26 AM
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Okay, she's an anomaly and poly isn't "dating." Are you gonna lock down an unattractive obese woman, put a ring on it, etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 02:21 AM
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Yawn
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 02:20 AM
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Significant, as in: not insignificant. Nearly every woman I've known in my adult life has been molested or full on raped by a man. They are not an insignificant portion of the male population. I believe estimated between 1 in 15 and 1 in 6.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 02:20 AM
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Uh huh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 02:19 AM
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No, its great for women, which is why we generally pursue it when we choose to engage with men. "Poly" is shit for women, and pushed by men who want access to as many vaginas as possible with as little commitment as possible while still pretending to be in a "relationship." Women will never want to join men's harems, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 02:19 AM
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Male delusion. Men abandon their wives and children all the time. Orders of magnitude more often than the inverse happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 02:16 AM
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Uh, are you dating any of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 02:16 AM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 02:15 AM
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If you think the literal turds masquerading as romantic options in the male population are a prize you're denser than I thought. Yay, a life of grey area rape and servitude to an entitled piece of garbage. Maybe he'll infect you with something eventually when he cheats, often while women are pregnant or recovering from childbirth. Living the dream. Cats & singlehood are 100% better lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 02:14 AM
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THey should get extensive therapy. Moids are using "rough sex" as a defense against murder 1 nowadays after raping, beating, and choking women to death. Shit ain't healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 02:12 AM
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>Talking about how men don't know what they're doing in Bed does not serve any purpose to "warn" other women whatsoever. Of course it does. It helps by informing them that they can boot the fucker and find a man interested in a mutually pleasurable experience. Some women literally don't think men who care about female pleasure EXIST. Which was insane when If ound out, but literally pick mes are out here being sentient fleshlights for sociopaths.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 02:09 AM
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*sees list of inconceivably horrific sexual trauma and attempted murder inflicted by men on women* "Wow, those women who accurately assess a significant portion of the male population are so hateful. I hope they get therapy"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 02:08 AM
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Lol, and all those women should tbh. Amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 02:06 AM
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You'd think they'd be eager to differentiate themselves from the absolute degenerate fuckery that exists in a significant portion of men out there. There are good men. But they are the MINORITY.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 02:05 AM
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It's honestly because society tries to drill it into womens' heads that they're shallow if they pick men they're attracted to. It's incomprehensible to me that any of them listen to that message lol, I certainly did not, but yeah some women do "take a chance" because her family/friends say "he's such a nice guy" and give her the idea that she should be "thankful" to have an offer from any male.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 02:04 AM
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That's a common delusion, and then women get burnt hard when the uggo treats them like shit or cheats the first time he manages to get an offer. Oh, and some women are legit psycho and will fuck an ugly dude bc they are jealous of the hot(ter) girl he's dating and/or just get off by homewrecking, so even an unappealing man will get chances to cheat occasionally bc of that. And they will. They are no more loyal than their "Chad" cousins. Chad is just hotter and gives better dick. If men are going…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 02:01 AM
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Hot guys don't date ugly girls. The only time you'll see that kind of mismatch is a hot girl with an ugly dude. Fin
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 01:57 AM
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Yes, because all women have (constant) experiences with men who turn out to be utter trash. And we discuss these with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 01:55 AM
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If you believe that, you're living in a delusional dream world. Even men who don't up and 100% bail on their kid(s) after a divorce/breakup do not seek 50-50 custody. When they do, they receive it, but they...don't. They'd rather see their kid every other weekend so they can fuck hoes and pretend they never had one. Women care for children because men don't. The state even recognizes it lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 01:52 AM
1

At least you're an essential worker. The people need their KFC.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 01:47 AM
1

Don't be so down on yourself. You'll find some bitch pathetic enough one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 01:40 AM
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Nah, cause men are pieces of shit who would never pay for any of their offspring lmao. Even the patriarchy knew that, thus child support laws
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 01:40 AM
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It's not "one asshole." It's many of you assholes. Men are sociopathic, not even their own flesh and blood matter to a great deal of them. It's honestly pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 01:39 AM
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That is why I do not fuck dudes making $18k a year frying chicken at KFC. Any other questions? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 12:37 AM
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I mean, a dude who doesn't care about his own kid is literally worthless. At least you get a nice fat check from him every month, with the added benefit of not having to see him or do anything for him lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 09:25 PM
2

Wait, you've never heard of someone running a background check on a dude they're dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 09:24 PM
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"Only if you choose to" What, you gonna leave the country? If you're fucked up and weak enough to be willing to bail on your entire life to avoid supporting YOUR child, well... you're a trash human, and that's why nobody loves you. Women run background checks on men they date before they agree to marriage. Precisely because so many of you are sociopathic creatures hiding a history of abandoned kids, sexual crimes, etc. My friend runs them for us for free at her job :D
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 09:21 PM
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It doesn't, though. You will have to pay. And normal, healthy women reject men who have preexisting children that they've abandoned. Many men's parents/family won't adhere to his abandonment and will seek a relationship with their grandchildren anyway, so his support structure is also damaged. Actions --> consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 09:16 PM
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^ and here we see the sociopathic male bleating about how it can't abandon it's offspring. And they wonder why so many women view them as soulless predatory creatures who only care about "muh dick" getting wet
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 09:10 PM
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Lmao ain't got no kids, and reject any men who were stupid enough to impregnate women. Deadbeat fathers are the lowest of trash. But hey, if it ever does happen, i'll take the check and be happy to lose the asshole lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 09:09 PM
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Not if they're ugly or have shit personalities. If they're ugly better be a multi millionaire
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 09:03 PM
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Hahah you're still responsible for any kids you make, control your sperm or pay up
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 09:02 PM
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LMAO "success" If those morons were successful they wouldn't be so frothy with rage all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 09:02 PM
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Let's blame men for being sociopathic deadbeats.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 09:01 PM
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Something must be really wrong with your personality if you relate to most of the dudes on here lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 07:31 PM
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Yeah it's mostly about loving yourself, investing in yourself, and not allowing men to take advantage of you. Thus why predatory men fucking hate it. They hate the idea of women being aware of their BS and rejecting them for it. But all self respecting women in the world unknowingly follow FDS principles. They just don't have a name for it. Making sure you can take care of yourself so you don't have to submit to some piece of shit male's abuse is like... the reason for feminism. Making sure you …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 07:26 PM
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It's funny that men don't see this. Femininity is competition too. That's why you see hot fucking women everywhere who eat leaves for lunch and work out intensively 3-5x a week, then expertly paint their faces and fashion their clothing/hair to be even more appealing. Bc if you want to attract & keep a quality man you need him to be attracted to you, fucking duh. Men are borderline retards for thinking anybody is gonna fuck or date them because of their fake ass "niceness." Nobody gives a fuckin…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 07:23 PM
1

The reason why nobody wants you is because you're a rapist
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 07:19 PM
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Yeah, those horrible women, taking responsibility for the children men abandon. Retarded
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 07:15 PM
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Yep lmao. Too bad, so sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 07:14 PM
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You must not read it. There are often threads about getting an education and becoming self sufficient, which are both high value behaviors AND allow you the flexiblity to leave a relationship at any time once it's not working for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 07:13 PM
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I mean, reading the comments it's apparent a large portion of males who post on PPD are worthless. Thus why they can't trick anybody into sex and REEEEEEEEEE with such frothy rage all the time. So it's not surprising are unbearable, which includes being racist. People who don't have gutter personalities can get laid lol. It might not be super frequent but uggos, fatties, etc get into relationships and have sex regularly... if they are cool to hang out with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 07:03 PM
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I had an ex that let it slip he was "on a first date" the previous valentine's day... we had been seeing each other for several weeks at that point, sleeping together, etc. Men do this slut shit too, and it's fucking gross. Said ex also met with his ex for dinner while we were together, exclusive, but not exactly "bf/gf" (he was slow to define the relationship, I was fuckin dumb). People are trash, you can't trust anybody. If you're an honest and loyal person trying to date you're literally fuck…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/20 06:59 PM
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Sex with an aesthetically beautiful person vs sex with a repulsive ogre: the choice is clear. I would be 0% attracted to either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 04:55 PM
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Yet she’s not the one gnashing her teeth and frothing about how sexlessness makes life not worth living 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 04:51 PM
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That’s because men don’t give a single shit about anything but access to women’s bodies. Not our fault. If they want to sign up for personality disordered, damaged, disloyal young women because pussy they deserve what the get.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 04:49 PM
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I’d rather fuck a hot girl and I’m straight as they come. At least she wouldn’t be repulsive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 04:48 PM
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Cause they want to stick their dick in, not because of some deep kindness in their heart 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 04:47 PM
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The fuck? How did you make that leap? There are a great many narcissistic men that are practiced at being perfectly charming and then slowly ramping up abuse once she’s caught up. And there are a great many misogynists that will show a woman a shitty time if she makes the mistake of dating them...but never raise their hand against her. That type of criminal, personality disordered, violent behavior is its own phenomenon.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 11:19 PM
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The guy you describe is a sociopath. I have male friends (who are actually nice and love women as people)who report the same. They say “you would fucking hate what those guys say when you ladies aren’t around.” It’s sad, dude. Because that girl he fucked is a dumb hoe who deserves to get hers for being a disloyal bitch. But guys like that, and they are legion, they purposefully fuck up all women. They change their face depending on what they think you want. If you’re a hoe, they’re “alpha chad.”…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 11:15 PM
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You’d be surprised, those average dudes fuckzone women too. They really do. I’ve dated down and been like “why did I do that” when he also turns out to be a manipulative POS. I agree that young men have the highest sex drive and the least interest from the opposite sex. And that has to be hard. The one who turn to hatred and incel-like thought are just dooming themselves to a full lifetime of rejection and misery though. Making the choice to stay positive and focusing on being a good person has …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 11:10 PM
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Rejection is hard, and being seen as a threat is hard too. I get why they’d be nervous. There are such clear signs though. If a woman is seeking you out repeatedly in your social group, making eye contact constantly, open to spending time with you alone or splitting off from the group, giggling at all your jokes, little touches... that’s when you shoot your shot. And the ones who don’t know when to do it and DON’T are still massively better than the ones who just try to fuck every woman in their…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 10:49 PM
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Especially cause it’s a balance. You can’t come across as a straight up predator who smelled blood in the water but you can’t be a platonic friend Bro teasing her like a little sister either. A man should be friendly, like legitimately so, and learn WHEN to turn on the overtly sexual energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 10:46 PM
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A lot more dudes would get laid and stop bitching.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 10:44 PM
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You’re probably carrying yourself differently as well, and putting more effort into your appearance. Confidence is sexy. There’s a limit of course, a 300 lb person can think they’re THE SHIT and a great many people will never find them attractive, but for people more in the “average” range taking care of yourself (and gaining pride from doing so) definitely makes you more attractive! Congrats on the loss btw!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 10:44 PM
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Yep and news flash: people pick up on it when you have hatred for their very being simmering under the surface. I swear I can detect misogyny from a mile away. If a man’s response to his failures at dating is to start hating women, he will never, and I mean never be successful. He will seem desperate, threatening, pushy, and the dreaded “creepy.”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 10:41 PM
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I haven’t seen a lot of unattractive short dudes manage it... like if a dude isn’t fit and short he’s fucked. But I’ve known a lot of super sexy shorter guys who made sure to work out and watch what they eat and have a new girl whenever their old thing ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 10:40 PM
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I feel bad for these ones. I make sure to not judge based on this right away if he looks decent and seems good on paper. I think men like that just don’t want to be threatening or creepy, and that’s sweet. I get that it’s a hard balance to strike, knowing when to move things in that direction. THAT is what men should be teaching each other, not this “women are subhuman sex objects” shit from the manosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 10:38 PM
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I get where you’re coming from, but dating as a woman, even a pretty one, isn’t really a good experience either. You get more interest, but mostly from men who turn out to be extremely substandard. You are constantly dealing with men trying to manipulate you into sex. Men play games and are flaky. They lie, holy shit they lie. Women regularly take chances on dudes only to get completely taken advantage of for some number of months (or even a year) by men who had 0 intention of being a good partn…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 10:36 PM
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Well... some women are 5’7 and above and either don’t want a shorter man OR have been rejected by fragile masculinity shorter men for being taller than them and want to avoid that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 10:33 PM
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She’s settling too lmao. That’s life. Some people are less shallow and can be legitimately happy with their looksmatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 10:30 PM
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The ones I have known to do so have crazy high ones. You’d have to, there’s no way that shit works out, then you’re single, then you’re dating.. cycle repeats. I’ve also known more branch swinging men than women, so. I think women are more likely to feel stronger loyalty/care for their previous partner, even if they don’t want to be with him anymore. With a lot of men it seems like they can flick a switch and not care whether their partner lives or dies, which makes it easy to cheat and complete…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 10:26 PM
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What I mean is, if a woman can delude herself into thinking a man is a solid prospective life partner because he’s nice to her at work (because he wants sex) and makes her vag tingle with his appearance she’s a dumbass. That’s predominantly male behavior. People who do that shit, male and female, usually come crawling back when they realize that they’re a dumbfuck who never knew a single real thing about their new shiny fucktoy. Suddenly they realize that s/he is actually a slut, or mean, or unw…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 10:23 PM
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That’s cause you don’t have abusive controlling/jealousy problems and a shit personality that nobody but a near-child would put up with. This is good for you. Not all men are like you though.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 10:16 PM
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No, because we know that underneath the shiny sexy exterior probably lies the same turd/trash pile that most men are inside. The good ones are rare. Only dumbasses seriously think some dude from work is going to be a good life partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 10:13 PM
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I’ve seen the opposite. In my experience women think things out more. They also tend to have bad experiences with at least some men. So the hawt dude at the office.... you recognize that he’s probably an asshole you could never live with and it’s just a physical attraction. Men are more likely to act on physical attraction when they’re “over” their relationship. When I’m over a relationship the last thing I want is to deal with another man, especially one willing to basically “poach” me from a r…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 10:11 PM
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You’re describing a slut. The first part of that has happened to me. So I broke up with him. Was single for quite some time after too. I didn’t go fuck someone else, dafuq.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 10:09 PM
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Men branch swing just as much. It’s hilarious that they try to pretend it’s a female problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 10:08 PM
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It’s easy for us to cooperate against a group that is unrelentingly horrible to us. Why wouldn’t it be!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/20 10:07 PM
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It makes me start to hate him. And then leave. SoOOOooOoooo... it’s almost like women are different people
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/20 03:58 AM
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Men are incapable of love, got it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 05:53 PM
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It’s more like if there is no affection there will be no sex
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 05:52 PM
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It’s not “payment.” It’s that women don’t want to fuck men that aren’t emotionally in tune with themselves. Women don’t like being used for sex, more at 11
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 05:52 PM
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🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 12:37 AM
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Happily, I’m sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/20 12:37 AM
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The wall is real for all. A lonely existence is in your future
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 08:57 PM
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Becsuse they were raised by those people and internalized their belief systems ...?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 08:55 PM
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Low self esteem, weak, mostly young and inexperienced women. I tell them to fuck off. But I’m not insecure :)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 08:54 PM
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Snore
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 01:18 AM
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Hey man, I haven’t done ANY of those things. I don’t treat straight male friends any differently than female or gay male friends. Not all women are interested in sexual attention from men they don’t want, in fact to many of us it’s icky. I believe this shit happens. The male equivalent is being manipulative and feigning legitimate interest to get in a girls pants and then immediately dropping the act and treating them poorly if not straight up ghosting. For those women, they want money/goods/ser…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/20 12:03 AM
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You admitting this makes you better than the others who won’t even admit they’re shooting above their league. Get relatively ripped, you might manage it. That can make up for a lot. Not like steroids crazy shit but a nice lean muscular male body, just like how men love that tits-waist-hips ratio with a healthy BMI women like a trim lean male. There was a hit up dude (seriously) who also sounds homosexual when he speaks and ALSO is a rude douche to people which caused him to get the boot from our…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 11:53 PM
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...... Before the FITNESS (most most most importantly) and better clothes they ARE ugly. They can find a chunky girl in ill fitting clothes from late high school or they can fix themselves to do better, idgaf
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 11:47 PM
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Sigh. I know. She’s above average though. If men think she’s “average” that’s why they are so disgruntled. She’s like a 7. He’s like a 2. You won’t find the inverse because men are shallow as shit https://www.instagram.com/p/B0LgqguBLaj/?igshid=lxs7qp5zk49h
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 11:45 PM
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Then he’s a 2. At most lol that’s being nice
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 11:40 PM
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Not true. Seriously. I’ve been on fire for a man who is not by any means objectively the hottest I’ve seen. And attractiveness isn’t objective? To a large extent it is. Symmetrical features. Big open smile with nice white teeth. NOT FUCKING FAT. Seriously if someone is fat or even just skinny fat and expects a partner with a good body... they are fucked in the head. They can keep looking for that needle in that haystack but it’s rare, so rare. Women know this. Men will choose the fit girl 100% o…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 11:34 PM
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From comments from another user and the general tone on this sub I’m realizing that men vastly overestimate their own looks and that of other men lmao. They think they deserve a woman who matches their delusion of how attractive they are. That’s... unfortunate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 11:31 PM
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Lmao, okay. This is why dudes on here are so pissed. It is a rare occasion when a man who looks like that lands a woman who looks like her. Don’t expect it. Men think hot women who work on themselves should settle with ugly blobs. Also: my man has a bald spot. Most men are balding. The ones who stay fit it’s not unattractive. Balding and overweight = hell no.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 11:29 PM
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... or 10,000 thirsty men commenting illicit shit on some thots pouty faced tits out bikini pic... People like attractive people. Everyone does, including those that aren’t attractive themselves, and that is where this entire problem lies: people refusing to go for and be satisfied by someone who is equally attractive as they are and feeling like “personality” should get them a hottie.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 11:17 PM
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I’m not sexually attracted to women at all actually. I can just objectively evaluate beauty in humans. If you seriously think that flat stomach after 3 kids, beautiful face, willowy blonde is looksmatched with a fat balding unattractive faced guy, I think it is you that is not seeing reality here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 11:05 PM
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For real. Especially because such a fuckboy “Chad” is a boogeyman Lol, and lots of women hate PUA type dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 10:59 PM
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Dafuq. If you think he is ANYWHERE APPROACHING HER LEAGUE you are absolutely delusional. This is a looksmatched couple (https://instagram.com/p/B8y5w6LJKUG/) Tall and “strong” ain’t shit if you have mantits, bucko. Damn men are delusional lmao. Here’s a looksmatched couple (https://www.instagram.com/p/B82BcTTBkss/?igshid=1esokkid4p33k). Another (https://www.instagram.com/p/B81NXZNjfpP/?igshid=1edpmzzpvs9z5) Funny enough I was looking through a couples tag and it’s hard to find examples because m…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 10:58 PM
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It’s so not true lmao. I’ve always given of myself sexually, sometimes when I’m not particularly in the mood but not against it because I love him, to my partners. Always contributed financially to our lifestyles. In a world where women are statistically proven to do vastly more housework and child care how can you even say it’s “always on you?” There are men who just stare stupidly waiting for direction while their wives literally do everything. That’s another large child. Shit even if you don’…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 10:52 PM
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Everybody has a different definition of Chad... many here define it as a man who has regular success with women, generally in the context of relationships but in between those also short lived flings. But yes, the kind of freak manslut you are describing exists and they are trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 10:47 PM
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No, the second one was leading you on and a horrible person. I completely agree that women like that suck. They are manipulative and use men for attention. The first one, that is implied “I don’t think we fit as a couple.” It’s hard for women to actually give concrete rejections because a lot the of time men will be like “why??” And want a list of things and it’s like do you want me to tell you I’m not sexually attracted to you? Or? When a woman is saying crap like that that’s her way of telling…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 10:46 PM
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Ah, I see you edited your comment. If you think taking care of your children and supporting your wife is "dancing like a monkey" then just use your hand. Nobody wants that low effort shit. Amazing, women want men that make them happy, more news at 7. If she's only fucking you a few times a week either she's having a medical issue (happens a lot after childbirth), always has had a low libido, or she don't like you because you treat her like shit. We have to like our man to want to fuck him. So ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 10:04 PM
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The idea that "all that matters is personality" is literally fucking retarded. Any mouth breathing moron who believes that deserves what they get. It flies in the face of evolutionary biology, behavioral psychology, common fucking sense, and literally everything you see around you ever day. The people for whom "all that matters is personality" are your family and friends. That you don't fuck. If you're going to fuck someone you have to want to fuck them. This is like 2+2 = 4 shit. The fact that …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 10:01 PM
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That's literally what I meant. Literally. He has a new chick (or several) in a steady stream. He's not pressed about me saying "no thank you" when he originally is scoping out the "scene" there so to speak. The actually cool ones don't go after actual children (18-20) once they're 25+ though. They go after women their age, slighhhtly older if she's amazing, or up to 5 years younger. It's predatory af to creep on 18 year olds who just left their parent's home and went to prom less than a year ago…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 09:56 PM
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I mean, that is unpleasant. But why were you still hanging out with some woman you openly told you liked and didn't return your interest? You think that because she didn't say "FUCK YOU" after you told her you liked her that that meant she was going to change her mind about dating you? That is not how that works. She was just being nice by continuing your friendship after nicely letting you down. When you continue to orbit someone like that you're in for a world of pain. They aren't going to cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 09:54 PM
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Okay, I understand you better. Personally, I am extroverted and while I love to be nice, I can flip that switch in a moment if someone is pressing me. Constantly appeasing people is just weak. Someone who has basic self respect and boundaries doesn't necessarily not care about others... they just won't let others take advantage of them by literally caring more about them than themselves. And yes, this is a good trait, and one that can be had alongside being agreeable to pleasant, non boundary st…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 09:52 PM
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NO. MEN ARE SHALLOW AF. 75th percentile dude is chasing Stacy. No fucking exceptions. If he can get it, he's going for it. If Becky has 10 extra pounds or isn't drop dead beautiful in the face she doesn't exist to him. You will NEVER find the inverse of this couple (https://www.instagram.com/chasingthesummerfields/?hl=en). He is fat and ugly while she looks like a freaking model after 3 kids and is pregnant with the fourth. You will NEVER find that discrepancy with a hot man and an objectively u…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 09:50 PM
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Uhhh "the fuck what" is that some people are shitty, some people are shallow, some people are incapable of love or anything but selfishness, that's the way the world is and bitching about it does nothing. Also, if you chose a "looksmatched" woman who has a modicum of loyalty then no, you have nothing to fear about her being snatched away. If you're shooting orders of magnitude above your league then yes. It'll be very difficult to get those women to engage in the first place and OF COURSE attrac…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 09:46 PM
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I mean... you know how many men have "midlife crises" (aka are total fucking dbags) and leave their wife to fuck some almost-child because they suddenly had the chance? We can't stop ourselves from aging. You can't change your genetics, sure... but you could adhere to a diet/exercise regimen and become AT LEAST 50% more attractive to women. You just don't want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 09:27 PM
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Confident and outgoing does not mean disagreeable tf? By confident and outgoing do you mean "not a spineless doormat?" Because the most successful confident and outgoing people I know are super nice, but they have hard boundaries and self respect. If you infringe on their boundaries they'll tell you to fuck off, because... confident. But if you don't they're totally chill and "agreeable." It's not confident, outgoing, and an asshole or a spineless weak doormat who is "nice."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 09:25 PM
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I'm a lady and I've had these friends! As long as you don't engage in their bullshit they are usually pretty cool lmao, after all despite mansophere delusion it's not just physical appearance that attracts women. They're often pretty nice, interesting and engaging with a lot going on. I've had several and they quickly realize I am not an option and because they aren't desperate (they have options and a new gf/fling regularly) they're totally fine to have some platonic chick casual friends. Basic…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 09:21 PM
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This. This is the truth. Meanwhile there are many average women who think an average man is cute, they get together and fuck each other's brains out happy as clams. Don't these men have EYES? I see happy looksmatched couples everywhere. I know a TON. And the idea that these mega hot dudes are having sex with even "5/10 average" women is ridiculous. They don't have to and they don't, because of the aforementioned obsession with youth and physical appearance that men have. "Chad," the actual one, …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 09:15 PM
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Based on all available data men cheat more than women lmao. Soooooo....
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 07:46 PM
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This has not been my experience, at all. A shorter dude with a decent face and fit destroys a tall scrawny not particularly nice-faced one every time. A handsome short dude crushes a tall ugly one every time. Height is not as important to us as you think. I'm 5'2 and I can't even dance very well with someone a foot taller than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 07:22 PM
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I mean, why do you take that to mean that she is romantically interested and not just stating a fact? It's not just niceness that gets people into relationships, there are many factors, additionally, sometimes someone you THINK is nice ends up being... less so... after you are deeply committed. If you weren't already orbiting you'd be like "lol that sucks, are you sure that relationship is for you" and not care one whit. Do not orbit women you have intentions towards pretending to be a "friend."…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 07:19 PM
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No, no I don't. Men are willfully and intentionally duplicitous in completely normal dating/relationship situations. When women are, it's obvious as shit... does the millionaire who wasn't even hot when he was young really think the 9/10 early 20s girl is interested in him for anything but money? Only a really, really dumb man would think that. A huge percentage of men misrepresent their intentions or outright lie to manipulate women into sex. So if a woman dates 6 seemingly cool, interested guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 07:14 PM
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Yawn
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 07:04 PM
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Maybe if they get super fat or something. The vast majority of women are not entering into relationship with men they don’t want sexually. Nobody wants someone they don’t want to fuck humping on them 24/7, which is basically what men do at the beginning of a relationship. “Laying back and thinking of England” daily for months is not something the vast majority of women are willing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 07:02 PM
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Who your mom? Lemme know what she says.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 06:59 PM
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Honestly? I don’t know much about the blue pill but I doubt it. And yes, heterosexual women keep trying to date men despite the sociopathic behavior of many of them. Is this surprising to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 06:57 PM
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No, women are just not brutal with their rejections due to societal training (and fear, harshly rejecting men can get you into a bad situation). Anything but “omg yes!” is a no. Men just refuse to face reality and take a kind rejection as “false hope.”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 06:56 PM
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U still obsessed with me? Go pay some sad whore to suck your microdick.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 06:54 PM
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Uh... I don’t know what kind of low to no self respect gutter bitches you hang out with. But, no. That’s not what women like. Maybe you don’t read all the reports from women who literally hate men because of shitty ones like that lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 06:53 PM
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Yeah lmao a dude could try it. He’d get dumped. I don’t think they want relationships. They want to fuck as many random women as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 06:52 PM
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Exactly. The only time I’ve seen ANYTHING analogous to this “women need to lower their standards and suck my PP even though I have nothing to offer” in the “womansphere” is the delusional fat activist/fat acceptance people, who are majority women and seem to think they can browbeat men (specifically fit/sexy ones) into ignoring... the entirety of their reproductive evolutionary programming... and find morbid obesity sexually attractive. They are just as pathetic as all the RP/incels IMO. But the…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 06:47 PM
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Being sociopathic, you mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 06:40 PM
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No, if someone is pretty with makeup on they are pretty without it. If someone has a hook nose, weak chin, asymmetrical features, etc makeup does not hide any of that to a discerning eye. It is not true about men lmao. Just read the comments on here. They openly state that they seriously give 0 fucks about anything but looks and are in fact threatened by intelligent and accomplished women. They want a “hawt” girl within a couple years of having left her parents with 0 life experience, because it…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 06:37 PM
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K. Refuse to pull your weight in a marriage and see what happens. This ain’t the 1950s no more, women aren’t automatically accepting the position of incubator/bangmaid.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 06:32 PM
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K
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 06:30 PM
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I don’t think anybody is entitled to my friendship, so no. If someone is insanely promiscuous to the point that it makes me uncomfortable, can’t meet a man without trying to fuck him, etc, I’m not going to try to be their friend. They need help. I can’t provide it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 06:30 PM
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They don’t want to date her. They want to pump and dump because vagina and men have no standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 12:22 AM
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All male “friends” of women are beta orbiters. Either women can completely eschew and reject “friendship” from men they don’t want to date/fuck or they have dudes hanging around hoping they’ll get it in one magical day. That’s a male problem, not a female one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 12:14 AM
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Men don’t mind rejection nearly as much. Culture teaches them that rejection is a part of life for men. Keep trying! Shoot your shot! Just try 100 and you’ll get a few! Women get no such messages from society. If you go after a man (already incorrect, almost all media shows the male pursuing the female and her being demure, him having to win her over or be persistent to get her) and he rejects you, that is a horrid event because your worth is based on men wanting you. That’s why we wait until me…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/20 12:02 AM
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.... are you sure it’s not the women you’re going after? Are you sure it’s not the way you’re treating women? The vast majority of 5’2 and below women (read: like half of us) would fuck the shit out of a ripped, perfectly nice face 5’6 dude. Unless he was trying to RP us or coming out with some crazy republican shit (your username). Most young people are “loopy lefties” nowadays especially women. The right is trying to fuck with our reproductive rights entirely based on a Bronze Age myth book. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 11:56 PM
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If men do get that bamboozled by makeup, they are dumb. It’s hard for me to have sympathy. A girl who is gorgeous with makeup on is never ugly without and vice versa. I mean I can easily tell how pretty a girl is underneath her makeup! Women might fuck some hot loser. They ain’t marrying him though, unless they themselves are losers. Women are smart enough to know that kids don’t eat because the dude is hot. Or “nice.” We are evolutionarily programmed you look for resources and protection. For o…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 11:53 PM
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This is really not true, lol. I will say if someone has an average to below face they should work on getting an above average body. That will do the trick unless they are like deformed levels of ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 11:41 PM
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Professional help. Nobody wants to be someone’s therapist. Someone who is so dysfunctional that they go after married/taken people even if they are friends with the SO don’t get to have friends. Who is gonna stay friends with that? They need to work on themselves first.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 11:39 PM
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Any time :)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 11:38 PM
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Women want a physically attractive dude like men want a physically attractive women. Women do not want to be treated like shit, not ones who have self respect. If you just want to fuck, yeah go game low self esteem, young, naive women. If you want an awesome wife & life partner, being a shit will not give you that. It’s like men here think an ugly dude can be an “alpha” acting dick and start swimming in pussy. No. Work out, be clean and well dressed. Be ambitious and do decently for yourself. Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 11:38 PM
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Yes, but they aren’t doing it to look better to men. I mean that may be part of it—if she’s single— but no woman on earth thinks makeup can make a man who is not attracted to you attracted to you. Men are extremely visual. Many are like extra weight? Fuck no. Plain face average body? Fuck no. No unattractive/big woman suffers under the delusion that makeup will make men who are not attracted to big/unattractive women be interested. It most certainly will not, and we’re aware of how men are prima…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/20 12:53 AM
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Men suck. Like you, although you’re an especially terrible case that would never get past “first conversation.” I can find good ones. It’s just difficult lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 10:59 PM
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You ignore the reason behind the divorce. It’s rarely just because the woman is a hoe and got bored. It’s often because the man is extremely low effort: refuses to pull his weight in home duties despite both of them working, refuses to be a present and hands on parent to their children, jacks it to porn daily instead of fucking his wife, never plans any dates or makes any effort for special occasions, becomes verbally, emotionally or financially abusive, etc. Some women divorce because the man i…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 10:53 PM
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Absolutely she would, and you see it all the time. A heavily made up obese and/or unfortunate in the face woman. Women are not delusional. No amount of makeup will make “Chad” pass up “Stacy” for her if she’s not good looking. We know this because men who do not find you attractive, especially young men, either completely ignore your existence like you are invisible or for really fat/ugly girls they can be openly hostile Many unattractive women report men saying nasty shit to them for the horrib…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 10:04 PM
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I can see that, and that’s sad. Unfortunately life isn’t fair, and if you don’t have and are unable to cultivate attractive traits (either because ugly, lazy and therefore fat, and/or irreparable asshole/misogynist) you will never in 1,000 years get those beloved early 20s beauties you seek. They have too many superior options and no human being thinks “I should just charity fuck this loser because it’s the nice thing to do.” Some of these dudes spew HATRED towards women while screeching about h…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 09:53 PM
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This may be true for some girls. But generally after 1-2 they realize “oh, I am very attractive actually, I am allowed to have higher standards.” They don’t just “CC” all through college unless the men they are with are manipulative and tell them what they want to hear to get them into bed while being low value. Eventually they realize he is trash (or he straight up cheats), it ends, and they’re looking again. Also some girls do manage to find a decent one who is willing to commit, even if it’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 09:41 PM
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They don’t inspire commitment because these men are looking for some insane perfection that doesn’t exist. There are beautiful girls pursuing their education all around them and they don’t feel the need to lose those options by locking down one beautiful, nice, smart young woman who wants commitment. I agree though I knew men who wanted a GF too. And a few women (very few) who gave zero fucks about all that. Nothing is absolute.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 09:29 PM
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Just my observations. Most women are pretty facially in some way, many men are not at all attractive facially. Yes fitness is huge. But men will go for a slightly pudge girl if it’s distributed correctly. Extra fat on a male just looks... wrong. Men aren’t supposed to have breasts for example. Most younger women aren’t like OBESE, they’re just pudge. It takes some time to figure out adult eating/fitness habits. But age is on their side and many are thin/fit or just barely pudgy but look attracti…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 09:26 PM
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I saw a lot of women trying to find a man to lock down, failing because he was... a college man, and then looking to the next. Some relationships of 1-2 or even 3 years. Most men were running around trying to manipulate their way into as many pants as possible though. Girls fall for it because they say what they want to hear: I want a future with you, I love you, you’re so special, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 09:23 PM
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It’s not. Women are observant. A man who sees you as “wife status” WANTS to provide. Wants to pay for dates early on etc. they see you as someone they want to be around forever. It’s utilizing male nature to maneuver around the dating scene. A man who wants to go 50% on everything from the get go is not only fantastically cheap but also sees you as “here for a good time, not a long time.” The vast majority of FDS women are not gold diggers with HS diplomas. They are college educated with decent …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 09:22 PM
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Dude, no! They pretend they are. These girls want to feel special and adored by a quality male who had eyes only for them (pipe dream in college lmao, I managed to find a pretty good one and it was sheer luck). They want the fairytale wedding etc in 5 years or so. They keep looking for “Prince Charming” but as you said he doesn’t exist. They just project his image onto whatever fuckboy they’re seeing at the time. Then slowly the delusion fades and they break up. Repeat. College aged men aren’t w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 09:13 PM
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I’m just explaining to you why they ignore you. No matter how determined a strange man is to make conversation I swerve them every time. Not interested. Busy. Leave me alone. As a result yes, you will need to approach many many women to find one silly/naive enough to engage. Most of us place negative value on the attention of random men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 09:10 PM
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Yeah, girls are timid and unwilling to date in HS also. It’s too insular and “incestual” to fuck around in high school. Everyone will know and everyone will talk. Nudes may be passed around. You know these people since childhood mostly and your entire social capital is wrapped up in their opinion of you until you escape. I didn’t TOUCH a peer in high school. The few boys I made out with were completely unrelated/from other areas/schools. Don’t shit where you eat and all that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 09:07 PM
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False. Women are brainwashed to want commitment. “Prince Charming” and all that. It’s mostly the opposite: they act like/say they’re cool with casual, while all the whole hoping for the real deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 09:05 PM
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Soooo... the vast majority of college kids ride the cock/pussy carousel, because they have flings constantly that don’t work out. Why is it even a discussion? That’s called dating. I made the mistake of settling with the first seriously compatible man, for 7 years, and we grew apart. I honestly recommend young people date around.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 09:04 PM
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The relationship zone for young attractive men does not exist. They prefer to fuck around. The male nature means that the overabundance of young pretty girls their age leads them to not value a LTR at all until they are older, at least 25+. Especially the type of dudes in the “Greek life,” lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 09:02 PM
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No women Ive known ever got with “randoms every weekend,” you need to have a psychological issue to do that as a female. A. Most men aren’t good at sex so you don’t get anything from bouncing from one to another B. That is some dangerous fucking behavior and a great many women have been raped by tinder “dates” or randoms at the bar they foolishly went home with C. Socially it’s suicide, men will obviously see them as trashy whores and even women will avoid them because as I said, women who are t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 08:59 PM
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FDS is not just about find a “rich sucker.” They push making sure you can take care of YOURSELF first and foremost: aka going to college and investing in a career for yourself. Then they push that if you do date a man, make sure he is at least your equal, treats you like you deserve to be treated, and has also invested in himself. This is to avoid low value fuckboys that have nothing to offer besides a subpar dick game.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 08:52 PM
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Yes lmao. Any woman with eyes and ears knows just how thirsty young men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 08:50 PM
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It’s dishonest, just like a woman who has fucked like 30+ men lying and greatly deflating that number. I think relationships should be based on honesty. If you used to be a fuckboy, say so. The girl who has had 4 men might want to opt out and that is her right. I do think people who are highly promiscuous are a gamble. They tend to have addiction-like sexual behaviors. How do you know they won’t relapse? Some mature and change and don’t. Others creep around paying cam girls, looking for validati…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 08:15 PM
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You know, I actually have known some women that became high n as fuck really young but after maturing had no issue being monogamous. However I think it’s a gamble... someone who has a lot of history picking up attractive strangers to fuck (like every attractive man ever unfortunately, but you’ll never know the extent of it because they just don’t own up to it or lie) has a higher chance of doing it again, I would think. But as I said I’ve personally known some exceptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 07:24 PM
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Dang son are you ever not on reddit? What a life, Reddit and prostitutes. I’d just off myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 07:20 PM
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Yes. Attempting to push through stranger’s boundaries because “Muh dick deserves a chance” is entitled as fuck and extremely rude. Women are not here for it, thus why we completely ignore men that try. Nobody wants an entitled creepy dude that tries to holler at random women on the street, regardless of whether the two of them live in closeish proximity or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 07:20 PM
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Don’t you have whores to fuck, you triggered loser? Glad I got to you, but get a life forreal lmao. Lowest value human in the planet: a “man” who has to pay for sex, and gives 0 shits that the women he’s fucking would just as soon cave his head in if they didn’t need money 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 07:14 PM
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“Creep fetishizing youth” If you’re 30+ creeping on college coeds you’re gross. The experience differential is too high and such men are OFTEN abusive in some way, they target young girls to sexually exploit them and because they’re too young to have solid boundaries. Everyone thinks this btw, normal men and women who date other adults instead of going after kids. If you bring around a 20 yo girl to your colleagues they’re going to think you are a freak asshole. Many people 40+ have 20 yo childr…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 07:10 PM
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Natural looks. Many women are at least somewhat pretty: symmetrical faces, big beautiful eyes with long lashes, etc. Men are often just weird looking. Men win on a fitness level I’d say, or at least young ones. There’s more chub young women than men, probably because it’s easier for men to stay fit due to higher metabolism (more muscle and size). Imma female so makeup does not bamboozle me. Makeup cannot make an unfortunate looking woman look beautiful. It can make a pretty one look like a smoke…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 07:07 PM
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Yeah, I’m an adult, and I know what men 30+ want 21 year olds for, and it ain’t the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/20 01:18 AM
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At least you admit you have to pay hoes for sex, you butthurt creep 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 11:45 PM
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No, no they’re not lmao. And ur prob paying them 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 11:41 PM
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Your “bangmaid” is a sad pathetic low self esteem “pick-me” to date a slug like you lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 11:36 PM
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Awwwwwww. So sad. Sorry nobody touches your PP, it’s because you’re ugly on top of being a douche :)
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 11:35 PM
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It depends. If a man is 35 and she’s 27... 40 and 32.... Totally fine. 26 and 18? 28 and 20? Even 30 and 22? The life differential is too high and he’s a creep fetishizing youth Edit: also I’m 29 but fit and hot so no, I’m not jealous. I’m also not into late teens and early 20s men... they’re like kids and I value my partners for being my intellectual and “adulting” equals at least.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 11:34 PM
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Honestly I’m 29, in the best shape of my life, and barely look different than I ever did. Thanks genetics and good choices!!! By late 30s they start to fade no matter how well you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 03:09 AM
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What science?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 03:04 AM
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Lmao okay. You prob have 0 friends and no social life, thus why you can’t use not only your own experiences but that of friends and acquaintances to make inferences about the world. Sucks. Men aren’t romantic btw, not once they’ve got the regular sex on lock. They’ll be all sorts of sweet before then but it’s not genuine. They’re blowing smoke up her ass. Then it’s a long slide to low effort, mediocre, taking for granted, be my bangmaid, wouldn’t plan a nice date if my life depended on it, trash…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 03:02 AM
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K. 🤣 Men couldn’t BE less romantic lmao. From the gender that brought you “doesnt matter, had sex” and “3 am booty calls because I’m a low effort turd” : TwUuuu RoMaNcEEE
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 02:57 AM
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lol this must be a joke. Plop a healthy weighted long haired average pretty faced female and 100% of men will be ON IT. I am a woman and I’ve watched many friends go head over heels for men that I’m like HUH? Some like long hair, some like short. Some like professionals, some like artists. Some like scrawny dudes, some like tone, some even prefer slightly pudgy dudes if they’re strong under the fat. Some of these dudes my friends were obsessed with were objectively ugly to me! And some if the on…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 02:53 AM
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I was never obese but I was a Chub for a while. I became unusually invisible to men, compared to my normal state. That part wasn’t so bad lmao, I had a bf and I fucking hate being hollered at constantly. I just couldn’t stand being unfit, not only did I despise it aesthetically but I also value being pretty active and athletic. Regular exercise does wonder for you mental health. Being all out for shape and too heavy to jog too weak to lift feels terrible. I felt like if I didn’t fix it, if this …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 02:48 AM
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LOLLLLLL
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 02:40 AM
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You are great. Keep keeping on. The psuedo-scientific misogyny is too damn high with most of these delusional RP men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 02:37 AM
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I’m on the smaller end (5’2) and I definitely don’t require a 6’ tall man to be completely satisfied. I’d say 5’6-5’7+ and it’s fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 01:45 AM
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That has nothing to do with the “number of new dicks” and everything to do with the male version of hypergamy: their obsession with youth. With dominating, feeling like they have the upper hand advantage on a woman, which requires a naive and malleable young one. With feeling like their dick is magical and one of the first ones she fucks (spoiler, many of these hot young girls that men thirst after have INSANE n by like 18. I knew some lol. Do you think men cared???? They were 19 yo hotties. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 12:30 AM
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But... liking sex and having it solely because they want to doesn’t make them a slut, lol. I’ve had a fucking ton of sex... just mostly in the bounds of a few LTRs with my partners not with a bunch of different people all the time. That’s what you want, you can’t trust anyone male or female who literally just has sex with hot randoms consistently for years. They will cheat. I agree that having sex for any reason but mutual desire is gross. Using it to manipulate or take advantage of someone, lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 12:06 AM
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It’s more like... if she’s good at cooking and not much else but a driven person she’ll pursue that and become a chef. People that are interesting and engaging have passions, or at least have determination and do various things, take opportunities, better themselves... The fact that so many men on here would date or even wife up some dumbass woman he can’t even have a decent discussion on any slightly intellectual topic because tiddies (Walmart cashier? Really?) is mind boggling. Stupid men are …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/20 12:01 AM
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What! This is news to me, lol. Most people have instances of slut behavior but if one is a like baseline a “slut” it goes hand in hand with them sleeping with a lot of people... or do you mean literal prostitution “hoe?” I generally agree, I know people who have casual sex and/or date around a lot, both male and female, and I like and respect them the same as long as they don’t come after my relationship or otherwise be gross about it (pursuing taken people, being inappropriately sexual while ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 11:42 PM
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Also not my experience. Women will legitimately befriend males they find unattractive. Said males often eventually decide they should shoot their shot just in case pussy is possible, at which time the women are hurt because they thought they were actually friends. I have had male friends that are unattractive and the ones you keep are the ones who aren’t stupid enough to think they have a shot despite you NEVER throwing even the slightest non-platonic, different than how you literally treat your…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 11:35 PM
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The only ones who think they are are also low value and think getting sex out of young/dumb/immature/shallow women is the absolute pinnacle of human existence. Most men want to settle down eventually, or they get dickmatized and fall for one and want to keep her. Fuckboys keep pursuing the same demographic, even if they are now early 30s and it’s weird to be going after 19-22 year olds. Then they’re shocked when these in reality low value women, due to extreme immaturity and a lack of values, ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 11:22 PM
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I find intelligence extremely sexy. No, they can’t be an uggo and make up for it by being smart, nor can they be rude/condescending/patronizing (especially because I am a bright person in my own right) or completely socially inept. But a man who is decent looking but not anything to write home about at first glance but is also intelligent, warm, and engaging is sexy as fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 11:12 PM
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It’s just been my experience. Believe me I really dislike it. Men acting overly interested in friendship want you. Men who don’t want you are ambivalent about your existence at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 10:51 PM
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Unfortunately unless we are in a place that is specifically for socializing we are not interested in conversation either. A huge part of it is the frequency that men try. Have enough of those experiences and you have like negative patience for it especially if you’re not having the best day or whatever. I would never date a man who approached me on the street tbh. Even apps are shitty, because they are strangers, but at least you can chat/text a lot and feel them out before dealing with them in …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 10:45 PM
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It’s not rude, because they are not entitled to your attention. Random men that want stuff from you aren’t entitled to more than very basic polite behavior. In fact, being naive enough to give more than that is the behavior of women who are usually extremely young and targeted for victimization. Because many men will try to ask you to go somewhere with them etc if you engage, and if you entertain that nonsense for a moment you’re an idiot. I have a friend who is terrible at this especially drunk…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 10:30 PM
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Men are only interested in getting to know women they “would.” We have caught on and that is why we do not tend to value new male “friendships” and are suspicious of them as a rule.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 10:15 PM
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I think men said that women don’t care about looks. Tried to will it into existence by saying it a lot in hopes attractive women will get brainwashed and settle with less or even unattractive men... unfortunately it worked to an extent, some women DO give chances to men they don’t even want because “he’s nice” “you should be flattered” basically society brainwashing women into believing that if they have physical standards they are shallow whores or bitches or something. Personally idgaf, nothin…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 10:14 PM
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They might not say it but it’s clear in their actions.... even the relatively decent ones will get up to fuckboy shit, cheat, manipulate women for sex at least once in a while
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 10:10 PM
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... there are social men... yeah they only tend to get super close to other dudes in the group and have a more surface level/acquaintanceship type friendship with the women but there are a lot of men who like to socialize.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 10:07 PM
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Cause they do. Because we have a lifetime of experiences getting outright ignored by men unless they’re trying to get sex. Especially younger males, they’ll start dating your friend and have 0 interest in knowing you whatsoever because you are not prospective pussy due to being close to their current pussy. I’m not kidding. It’s bleak. When I find men who have platonic long term relationships with women I am shocked because they are by far the exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 10:06 PM
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I think it’s evolutionary. Men are naturally promiscuous af. They want to “spread their seed” and whatnot. Women are choosy. If you fuck random low value dudes you risk getting pregnant with a loser’s kid. Of course now In the days of BC and quality condoms you can mitigate that. But that is extremely new from an evolutionary standpoint, like not even a blip. Women inherently want healthy, capable, provider-type men and that is an ancient desire. Meanwhile men are down to fuck a ton of subpar wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 10:04 PM
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If you stop for even a moment 99% of the time they will immediately try to strike up a conversation. Half the time they’re trying as I’m walking away! Like the “perfection” guy, I said thanks and was nice and then walked on and I could hear him trying to continue on but I just kept it moving. Honestly I don’t know who a lot of my neighbors are. I see people from surrounding neighborhoods walking around, biking, jogging and I have no idea what proximity they are to my home nor do I care. I just..…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 09:48 PM
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Men are constantly shooting their shot at women. Therefore even moderately attractive childbearing age women become extremely good at ignoring/swerving unknown males because we are inundated with them all the time. When a man tries to chat up a woman and she, for whatever reason, is actually in the mood to speak to a stranger and chats for a minute he is A. Surprised B. Immediately hopeful for sex. Then he shoots his shot, she is immediately sorry she ever engaged with him, and she goes back to …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 09:40 PM
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Uhhhh... not easy? Okay then! Hope you’re okay with extremely high n women because if the bar for entry is that low (he just has to look decent to good and it’s on) she has a LOT of casual/NSA hookups. Which, I don’t judge, but it seems like a lot of men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 09:26 PM
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Imagine this. Every day as you go about your day random dudes are trying to get your attention and/or straight up bugging you. Just recently I was in a grocery store and a man stopped me and said “you are perfection” and I smiled and genuinely said thanks because he did not have a creepy vibe and that is a nice, not gross, compliment; but I’m not looking for that when I’m trying to pick up some groceries. Like at all. I then went to the gas station and was hit on by a man in the parking lot and …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 09:24 PM
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Basic human decency is when he says “hey” you say “hey” back and make eye contact. Anything more cannot be expected by a stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 09:10 PM
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A. Genetically predetermined B. Women have vastly different tastes in men, some like the pretty boy, some like the Chad, some like the hipster, some like the young professional... it’s like .01% of men that are ubiquitously physically attractive to women without putting in any effort C. Many women are demisexual in nature, if you can’t be cool and make her feel good she still won’t get “the tingles.” I’ve met douchebros that were certainly physically attractive and their personality or lack ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 09:08 PM
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But... men don’t like that. Seriously. The high value ones will want to feed you and spoil you. They put their money where their mouth is if they see “wife” potential. Women are not just acting this way to save $50-$100 every once in a while on dates. MOST men don’t like being openly pursued/when a female initiates a relationship and they want to provide and take the “manly” role. Personally I find it comfortable to be in the feminine role so I just roll with it. Of course I pay sometimes and br…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 09:05 PM
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I disagree... by 25+ even the slow-moving/independent women are definitely amenable to settling down. We are very aware of our biological limitations so if you want kids you can’t just fuck around and then try to find someone at like 33, get to marriage/kids by 36-37, then you better hope you have an easy time fertility wise, which many of us have no idea whether we will. I’ve never been pregnant on purpose or by accident, so I have no idea whether ill have any fertility issues. Also, if your hu…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 09:01 PM
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Sperm quality goes down at 35. Energy levels plummet from 30-40. Plus, despite male delusion most young women are not interested in 35+ until they themselves are approaching 30. If you want a childbearing age wife and family, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/20 08:55 PM
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this. Men always wanna lock me down. They’re the ones that instigate commitment. Because they don’t want me to go to someone else if they don’t (which is exactly what would happen)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 04:55 PM
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It’s almost like different jobs pay different amounts 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 04:16 PM
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Omg I’m glad you recovered. It’s really not the way to go. Most people, including women, have finely tuned bullshit meters. And yeah we know a “thinks he’s suave fuckboy idiot” from like the first sentence out of his mouth lol. Plus some of these dudes... if you’re not like banging hot and you try that shit even the low self esteem naive women won’t go for it lol, it’s like a giant blinking “FUCKING RUN” sign. And yes. Both people need to come to the relationship with full cups, not expecting th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 08:54 AM
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What I meant by that is that my mind went to psycho places (is he cheating on me!?) because I NEVER IN 1,000 YEARS WOULD HAVE INDEPENDENTLY CONSIDERED THIS SCENARIO. It is so far from my realm of existence as a woman that I am shook. Holy shit I was sure something weird was going on with the porn use, even though we were always together and had passionate sex all the time, literally all the time... and nothing weird was on his phone and he literally gave me his laptop to use... and the whole tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 08:39 AM
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Sure, but confidence with no legitimate warmth underneath it is swarmy and skeezy. The awesome women, the prizes— they run from that shit. You know those men who are good looking, you guess, but something about the way they look at you, the way they speak & interact with people, the things they say makes the hair on the nape of your neck stand on end? And once they’re gone you & your girls are like Eurgh what a creep. The best they can hope for is to false bravado themselves into situations wher…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 08:33 AM
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The guys on here aren’t failing with women because they’re “nice” but just “not fun.” They’re not at all good or nice, read the damn comments. They’re horrible. Entitled, hateful, pathetic, obsessed with women sexually while also absolutely despising them. I’m sure they exude that same horrid energy IRL too. And yeah when nobody likes you because you suck and blame all your problems on other people, the only way you are “fun” to any women is if you have a lot of money and can pay the ones that c…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 08:17 AM
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Holy shit, you just blew open a massive issue in my relationship. I suspected my partner for having PA tendencies, but snooping found nothing (bad, I know). He’s openly admitted to watching it sometimes but we spend entire days together often so I have been somewhat conflicted as to what was going on here... he takes a long time to O and I wondered it if was death grip/PMO related. After reading this I asked him and he cycled 3x when he was a fucking personal trainer. Well then. What the fuck. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 07:53 AM
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Because the truth hurts the man babies on here. They want a cheat code that will allow men to get what they want with 0 self improvement and it does not exist. It’s not your lack of riches resulting in your utter romantic failure, boys. It’s your shitty fuckin personalities and subpar lifestyles lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/20 07:45 AM
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LOL I totally believe you. My partner has an ex who is a lawyer and she is a piece of work (this isn't just ex trashing either, others including her sibling have directly told me). I guess that for some people, when their JOB is to argue, they can't turn it off when they come home. Her own family told me everything is an argument with her and she needs to WIN. Sounds exhausting tbh, I love to argue and debate, but I don't make up arguments where none should exist nor do I tend to instigate them …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 08:49 PM
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I know it’s hard to imagine, but I do other things for hours of my day and don’t always read your important, oh so important responses until the next time I am able to burn some time on reddit. Either way, we have reached an impasse, so no further conversation is needed: have a good day!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 08:30 PM
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No! It’s not “simpler” to assume that men are so goddamn dense that they don’t recognize that orgasm are good and people like them. They sure do spend a lot of time chasing them... because they already know. If a man doesn’t know what an orgasm looks like despite having one with every sexual experience he’d have to be dense as shit. The ONLY case I could see this is if the couple is young and the girl has been faking it, so he thinks what he’s doing (no foreplay jackhammering PiV usually) works.…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 08:10 PM
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Active and healthy (and therefore normal/healthy BMI, not sedentary), college educated, decent career doesn’t have to be anything crazy, enjoys bettering himself and learning/experiencing new things, adventurous, kind, and respectful. That would be perfect. If he has hobbies I don’t care for as long as they’re not like... intrusive it’s fine. I wouldn’t date someone who played 4 hours of vidja a day for example. Or someone who blasted music I hate all day every day. We need to have some overlap …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 07:58 PM
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That’s very weird. Lawyer chasers, lol. I would expect them to either be other lawyers (and therefore want to have that in common & be with someone who understands their work) or for them to be fine with some other high powered career. I’m a professional and I’m not into people in my field tbh. They’re stuck up. I only date men with at least a bachelors and some decent career, but I don’t require grad school or anything. I’m one of those “nerdy girls” who prefer an intellectual for sure, but I k…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 07:06 PM
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No thank you. Deal with it: people have different dealbreakers and standards. No amount of fake virtue signaling about how they’re narrowww and not fairrr will change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 06:36 PM
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It’s more attractive when someone is physical in a functional way tbh. Dudes who snowboard, hike/trail run, etc. gym bro-dom is way more narcissistic and obsessed with aesthetics. A body that looks like it MOVES is hotter than one that looks like the owner chugs protein and skips leg day
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 06:33 PM
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I’ll have to read that one... and yeah the current state of things is very depressing. I don’t think what I’m looking for exists. I think that If you want a relationship with a man you basically have to settle for pornsickness and immaturity, with at least some subconscious misogyny thrown in. It just doesn’t seem worth it tbh. If I become single again I’m staying that way unless a unicorn falls in my lap, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 06:32 PM
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Yep, it’s because we are college educated and make our own money. We generally want a man who is at least close to equal income to us (for example, a woman making 100k wants a man making at least 50-75k) because A. He’s on a similar level motivation/life wise and B. He can contribute to the quality of life of a family. Childcare etc is prohibitively expensive in many places, especially places with lots of high powered jobs, so six figures is not automatic “life of comfort, can have a stay at hom…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 06:29 PM
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They’re into the fact that lawyers are financially stable and can support a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 06:27 PM
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Ain’t going anywhere, except with other Muslims.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 06:27 PM
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“Consent” Johns are sick. If you’re sick, maybe try and get better? Don’t know can’t relate.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 03:44 AM
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I thought it was a debate sub? Sorry not fucking you is bigotry— actually no Idgaf
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 03:44 AM
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For rape victims? You’re such a big man 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 03:43 AM
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Lol maybe. I get pursued a lot, so maybe not!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/20 03:42 AM
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We’re right back to “I don’t care about your opinions on how I choose my sexual/romantic partners” lmao. You do you and stop worrying about other people. I observe the world and I act according to how it seems to function, if you wanna call statistics “stereotypes” then go for it. Males being horndogs ain’t no stereotype. It’s incontrovertible truth. Attempting to convince a WOMAN otherwise is idiotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 10:56 PM
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No, no they are not, no matter how much you tell yourself that. She’d rather be anywhere else, they just don’t care. Vaginas literally don’t work like that lmao they’re in pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 10:48 PM
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Wait, do you think I’m running up on bi men like “YOU STD RIDDEN SKANK!” Certainly not. I am just not going to date one. It’s difficult enough to find a straight man who won’t cheat, and im sure a decently large part of it is definitely tied to how difficult it is for them to get women to do it with them. If I lived somewhere where prostitution was legal, for example, I wouldn’t touch any men. In sexual matters men cannot be trusted. They’ll do whatever they think they can get away with. Going t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 10:42 PM
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Sigh. Why would you think this? You know all those fit girls in yoga pants walking around? You think they are not aware of the benefits of a fitness regimen on not only the body but also the mind? It does foster attractive traits like discipline and self motivation that seep into other areas of your life. Gotta keep it moving. Stagnation = death.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 10:22 PM
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I don’t remember if it was you I posted the STI stats of gay and bi males to or someone else, but they’re on this thread. Refer to that to answer your question.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 10:16 PM
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They try to, unfortunately a large percentage of men are degenerate sexual predators and very good at hiding it. It’s really unfortunate and I honestly wish I was gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 10:15 PM
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Lol cool they aren’t ugly..? They probably actually are, even if they weren’t when they got married. Men age like milk. Anyway, who gives a shit about that shallow bullshit? Well I’m a rapist but at least I look good! We need more sting operations to ruin their lives. Those always give me warm happy feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 10:12 PM
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Someone who cheats on their spouse is a piece of shit. Someone who cheats on their spouse with a prostitute is a piece of shit rapist. Both suck, one definitely sucks worse, and they’ll get their’s ...protection isnt 100%, nothing is, and they’re basically dipping their wick in a Petri dish. One can only hope they don’t manage to infect their unsuspecting wives. Johns are inherently disgusting people. You will never convince anyone, ESPECIALLY women otherwise. There are reasons why we account fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 10:08 PM
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O rly? I did. Not that it’s freaking relevant how exactly the monstrous men manage to abduct their victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 09:41 PM
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How bout this: I don’t care and I’m not dating a dude who fucks dudes. Maybe other women will feel differently. Good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 09:39 PM
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They snatch 10 year old girls. The average age of people trafficked for the Super Bowl is like 13. It’s not all or even mostly grown women looking for work in other countries. And of course you have no sympathy for women being tortured and raped, I am not surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 09:38 PM
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What women? Not me. I actually have empathy for my fellow human beings.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 09:35 PM
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What a stupid response. You wouldn’t give shit, they would take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 09:33 PM
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They are exactly “sickly furtive johns.” They are sociopathic liars; fundamentally dishonest wastes of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 09:30 PM
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Wait, are you comparing women who have consensual sex to men who fuck prostitutes? I hope all you idiots enjoy ur herpesyphilaids lmao, protection only does so much when you’re fucking someone who is fucking 10+ others every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 09:24 PM
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This. It should never be decriminalized or normalized. It’s evil and degenerate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 09:20 PM
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Johns are the exact same, skeezy shit piles that they are 🤢 used up rapist trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 09:19 PM
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The percentage of women who “use men for their money” is much smaller than the percentage of gay males that age promiscuous. There is literally data, both self reported and more official STI/medical data, to back this up. Men are hornier than women. Gay men have a lot of sex because there is no woman to say “no, not unless you commit to me, blah blah” If you have a problem with reality, sorry bout it. It is what it is. It’s not a moral judgement and what dudes do with each other does not bother …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 09:09 PM
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It’s almost like I can extrapolate the behavior of straight men onto them as well as observe the behavior of the 50+ gay men I’ve known over the years. Imagine that. No, gay men are actually nuns. Grindr, cruising, all just mean rumors. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 07:55 PM
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Because those men don’t see women as human beings and are capable of enjoying sex with someone who doesn’t want it and would never be doing it if they weren’t paying them. That is intrinsically abhorrent to women. A man who thinks he can purchase a woman and use her for sex is scum to me. It is 100% a dealbreaker. Many sex workers are trafficked, underaged, rape victims, drug addicts, or all of the above. These men don’t give a shit because to them they aren’t people, they’re warm holes. They ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 07:53 PM
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Nah. It’s because men who see women as objects to be bought and used are disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 07:48 PM
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Well. A lot of rape victims develop rape fantasies. I’m not a psychiatrist/therapist but I’ve read that it has something to do with taking their power back. Feeling like it was a choice, although it was not. And way more women experience rape than we even know, or at least molestation/assault if not outright penetrative rape. So that probably accounts for a lot of it. I also think some *women have rape fantasies because we are brainwashed into believing that if we openly desire sex we are amoral…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 07:47 PM
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I guess I am selecting for openly gay people because those are the ones I’ve been friends with. There aren’t so many closeted ones at universities anymore tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 07:35 PM
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Lmao yeah maybe the entire gay community of the massive school I went to for undergrad were outliers. Or maybe they’re promiscuous and THAT IS FINE, but not something I’m interested in romantically.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 07:34 PM
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It’s more like certain things are major dealbreakers. Porn issues are fucking terrible. Nobody wants to marry a porn addicted man. It’s grotesque to women. “Here’s your “prince charming” the great love of your life... but he stares at other women getting rammed in the pussy and mouth all day” No woman wants that to be the great love story of their life. It’s better to move on. With other features, I’d say I can be happy with someone who has 75% of the things I look for.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 07:31 PM
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It’s more the lack of trying. Everyone knows women need foreplay. Fucking everyone. If you sleep with a man and he makes no effort to get you off, multiple times, he gets nexted. We aren’t here to teach men how to be decent.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 07:30 PM
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A man who is passionate and engaged in multiple hobbies, at least one of them physical, is profoundly attractive. If he socializes and engages in these things he will meet women. Yes, there are still different facial features/voices/whatever that different women like. But he will have interest unless he’s like hit with a frying pan ugly in the face.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 07:29 PM
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Again, top 20% of men receive the attention of the majority of women. I'm sure those who are not in that top 20% who are not ALL boring, out of shape and low achievers. I really don’t know. It’s also hard for me because I am not basic. I can’t be with a man who sits around watching sportsball/playing vidja and listens to top 40s rap music. I just can’t. Or a stuck up gym bro. Any HINT of negging/misogyny and my vagina desiccates. I’m not going for the stereotypical “Chad.” I am looking for a man…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/20 07:27 PM
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I’m sorry. I will say I’ve known straight women who liked men like that. So it’s not a hopeless situation! Definitely get involved in majority LGBT social circles, they tend to have people who are more flexible with what they like in a gender sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 11:29 PM
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Not that I know of.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 11:28 PM
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I’ve had bad experiences. They shape you. Especially when you see your friends have bad experiences as well, so yours just fit into a framework... a very negative framework about how men think about and treat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 11:27 PM
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Lmao sleeping with a bunch of different people is not required to become good in bed, Jesus Christ. My ex and I surely fucked well over 1,000x.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 10:39 PM
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low fat percentage = small breasts in the vast majority of cases. Unless they get implants. The curves men like require some fat, on top of some muscle. Like 20%-25% BF is glorified by males in society I would say. And many are okay with a bit more than that if it goes to certain places. Gay men provide no such allowances lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 09:23 PM
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How I wish that were true. Seriously. r/deadbedrooms is full of miserable women who fling themselves at their male SO, only for him to choose daily PMO over being with her in real life. ED is much more prevalent now than it ever was (and at younger ages) due to constant porn use. As for degrading... nearly all pornography is degrading for women in my opinion. None of those women are doing those things out of love. They're only there to be paid, some of them are victims of trafficking and most ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 09:20 PM
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How many women do you know with abs? Yeah. Women have a much higher BF% than men. Straight men are attracted to women, often up to slightly overweight BMI, because they are intrinsically attracted to curves. If the weight is in the "right" places and carried well, men will be about it. Gay men are 100% nothing like that, and to be overweight/obese or even just a bit pudgy/out of shape is basically a death sentence to the romantic/sex life of a gay male. Apparently they value abs very highly. I o…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 09:09 PM
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I've always found that bi dudes are at least a bit feminine. I don't mean feminine like.. the way they dress or that they have stereotypically feminine interests (makeup etc) like an openly gay man . I mean slight mannerisms, the way they express/approach emotions,etc. There is a difference there between a bi guy and a straight one, in my experience anyway, and I've always been able to pick up on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 09:07 PM
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A woman might gaze longingly at a taken man who is high value and wistfully wish she was his partner. She’s not going to fuck him though unless she’s pathetic. Any woman with any sense won’t trust a man who leaves and/or cheats on his partner for her. “How you got him is how you’ll lose him.” Signing up for a low integrity branch swinging man is... well you’ll get what you deserve once you’re boring to him and the next dumb cute thing with 0 integrity comes along. Tits are sacks of fat and mamma…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 08:52 PM
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Friendships don’t involve sex lmao. We don’t need those fake ass “friends” we have actual friends. We have sex with our bf/husband. Only men try to call that crap friendship. Hint: if you two would never hang out if you weren’t banging (or if you weren’t hoping to bang at some point) it’s not a friendship. And yes women want commitment, family, etc. not to waste time with fuckboys masquerading as “friends.”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 08:48 PM
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Women don’t like friendships? What the what? You must not know any women. And we don’t. Men just try to pressure us into them. They’re always a bad choice from the female perspective. Always. And if a “friend” tries to take things there he ain’t no friend. Give him the boot.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 08:37 PM
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Lol, nah. Thanks for the concern tho
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 08:36 PM
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If recognizing the reality of their behavior is hating them, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 08:35 PM
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This comes from us having a fundamentally different view of friendship. In mine, it's not just for now, it's for life: I have friends that I've been close to for over a decade. Also, no sex is involved: a friend is someone who desires my company and my company alone with 0 ulterior motives. Anything else I do not want, thus why I know better than to trust "friendly" straight males.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 08:22 PM
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How is wrong to state the reality that men are, if given the opportunity, orders of magnitude more promiscuous than women, and that a man who sleeps with men has wayyyyyy more opportunity? Women are the gatekeepers of sex, it's why so many men on this sub hate us so much. When the gatekeepers are removed from the equation, it's a veritable free for all. We just know this. Because you know, we have eyes and ears and are hounded by thirsty men since puberty.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 08:18 PM
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Touching anyone with express consent or an established deep friendship is a NO, I completely understand you there. By treating like one of the girls, I mean involved in stereotypically female conversations and activities. Most men don't want to hang out with 6 chicks girling out. Gay men often do though.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 07:52 PM
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Most man have few to none platonic female friends. It is literally rare for a straight man to have platonic female friends he sees on the same level as his bros. Usually at one point he did or will shoot his shot, also. Believe me, I wish it weren't so. It's pretty hurtful to realize half of the population only sees you as good for one thing. At most cases men don't value their FWBs because these FWBs don't show and offer their value besides sex. Most men don't value women for any value besides …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 07:50 PM
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I mean, I'm a woman who socializes with tons of other women, most of whom are in their 20s. Yeah, nobody wants to be close to the town bike... usually because she has mental issues and you can't trust her around your man. But a single girl who dates around and has a new dude a few times a year is standard and totally supported by other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 07:41 PM
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Also it’s perfectly valid to be fine with men having sex with each other but not want to have sex with people who participate in such activity. Let women have sexual boundaries, my god. Thank you. More men attempting to brow beat women into sleeping with them via moral outrage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 07:36 PM
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A lot of bi men are effeminate. I can sense a non-hetero man from a mile away. There is something... primal in me that just KNOWS. And I am not attracted to them. Just like I am not attracted to other women. I've had gay male friends since I was 14 and found out what gay was, I celebrated the passage of gay marriage and the repeal of DADT, I think gay people should be able to adopt etc, I'm the farthest thing from homophobic imaginable. But I don't want to have sex with them on a very basic leve…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 07:34 PM
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I think for most people, they may have a preference but there are individuals that would shatter it. As in people who have never and would say they don't think they would date blacks or asians or whatever (but aren't actually racist, just have very little experience with that race, very little opportunity to find individuals of that race who are on the same socioeconomic level, humans inherently are attracted to people who are SIMILAR to us) would immediately shirk all that if an interesting and…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 07:27 PM
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Not "all genders." By men. Men are the ones who think homosexual male activity is so disgusting, by and large. They like lesbians because they fetishize them. The lesbian porn men watch is 99.99% non-lesbian actresses... acting. They just like not seeing dicks. Double vag and double tits! Great! Same with slut shaming. Women do not tend to slut shame each other UNLESS the woman in question is being gross about it... fucking other people's BFs, fucking around an entire social group & causing dram…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 07:21 PM
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"Like pets" is foul but many gay males WANT to be treated as one of the girls. As well as non-binary/trans people who were born male.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 07:18 PM
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I hung out with a very LGBT-leaning crowd in college and IME there were women who were into it (it being more effeminate, bisexual if not openly gay (!!) men) while most women saw them as basically asexual relative to themselves (I am in this category). The type of girl who has (ill advised) crushes on her openly gay male friends is the type OP needs to find. They generally frequent campus drag shows and parties that are majority LGBT (jk but there are usually some of these girls who are more "f…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 07:17 PM
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My ex was a "normal" user, as was I... as in maybe every few weeks or whatever when the other one isn't available for sex, and he wasn't the type to watch super degrading/painful/horrible shit or try to replicate porn during IRL sex... and so I didn't even care at all. Men want to act like we are saying NO PORN FUCKING EVER but it's more like "daily ingestion of gangbangs, choking, painful basically-rape to the extent that your sexuality is skewed and your dick doesn't work" that we have an issu…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 07:02 PM
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It's theirs, of course. And yes, the ones who are interested in learning, learn. Many are not. They just don't care. Personally I can't imagine sex where I didn't care about the other person's orgasm whatsoever, but this is the reality of how a lot of men feel. I don't date men who aren't eager to give pleasure and whenever I hear one of my girlfriends talking about men who are not I encourage them to dump his ass like last week's trash. But unfortunately some women are brainwashed enough to thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 06:54 PM
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Thanks, I will :D
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 06:52 PM
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Wahhh. Spend more time learning where the clit is and less time being triggered about reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 06:46 PM
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Many men on this sub would say otherwise. They literally act like getting NSA sex from women and being the mythical "Chad" is the height of human existence, lol. By standards, I meant... how women demand "labels" like BF/GF, demand commitment like engagement & marriage after some years, demand to be treated as a priority and like the man VALUES you and is thankful that he has you. Of course you must reciprocate that, you show your man that you value him and are thankful for him as well, but if y…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 06:46 PM
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That would make perfect sense, because you're male and our drives are different. Evolutionarily we are complimentary. For us, those secondary traits are more like co-primary if that makes sense. Like purely aesthetic attraction is NEVER enough for me. Never. So really, "personality" and physical attraction are co-primary traits. What this doesn't mean, and where a lot of guys on this sub go wrong, is that one can completely lack physical attraction and make up for it with... anything else. No. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 06:40 PM
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shrugs not my fault so many men are shitty in bed. It's a huge reason why women tend to stick with a decent one once they find him... not only can't most men find the clit they don't even care to try, it's 100% about their gratification and using your body as a porn prop. I couldn't even count the amount of threads I've seen on r/relationships, r/deadbedrooms, etc where women are in relationships with men who do NOTHING for them sexually. Literally these losers get an orgasm every time while she…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 06:34 PM
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I live in a college town right now. No, the vast, VAST majority of young women are not engaging in even 1/100 offers they get from boys. They will sleep with one here and there but its always with the hopes that it's going somewhere, aka it's the beginning of a relationship. Then if it doesn't, they're on the search again. Men, especially young ones, aren't even good at sex. They quite literally need to be trained how to give head, find and stimulate the clit, etc. There is 0 reason to have a bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 06:24 PM
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You are definitely unusual and “special” IME. You have a more female approach to sexuality/dating. It’s similar... our access is basically infinite but we are very choosy for a variety of reasons both social and practical. Safety, reputation, lower libido all factor in to why women are so much less sexual than men and turn down 999/1000 offers (if you count OLD likes as well as IRL approaches). We also are more responsive desire generally... so we don’t want to have sex with a rando because he i…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 06:20 PM
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Men being picky has NEVER been my experience. Most hetero men, if provided a steady stream of healthy weighted, sexually mature/fertile, willing women would fuck themselves into a coma. Literally the entry fee to ride is "not fat or old" and sometimes its not even that! I mean, look at this sub. It's literally chock full of men raging about how women's "standards are too high" and how women are so eViL for refusing to provide NSA pump and dump sex to random losers because... ??? There is no reas…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 05:51 PM
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Lmao, you were almost at the answer there... then you veered into “women know they’re only good for sex blah” Listen, I have a gay friend (beloved to me) who was at n=200 by the ripe old age of 23. He’s 33 now and I can’t even imagine, lolz. Women know what happens when we are removed from the sexual equation... men have 0 self control. I love the gays, truly do, but I would never have sex with a man who sleeps with men. You said 100 women sucking your dick... what man has had 100 women suck the…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 05:24 PM
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Some, for sure. But I am a very social, extroverted person and I've seen these same patterns with MANY female (and male) friends and acquaintances. It's especially easy to see with acquaintances in a social group: males trying (and sometimes succeeding) to maneuver around being skanky. Also my ex was a weird exception, he really only had eyes for me and wasn't the type to want to bang as many women as possible. He had legitimate, deeply emotional platonic relationships with females and was just …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 05:01 PM
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>These men are whining simply because they couldn’t get laid in the hook up culture back in the college days, yep they are pushing 35 and whining about some girl who rejected them over a decade ago, now they want to pretend they had these genuine intentions with her all along. This sums up this sub tbh. Sour grapes because they wanted sluttery during college. Even if a college girl gives a "nice guy" a chance, he'll just waste 5+ years of her life and then be pissed that he never got to sleep ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 04:57 PM
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If you are a woman in your early 20s and you wanna do the wild and crazy college co-ed thing, you do that. This is a very low percentage of girls, probably between 1-5%. The rest of them are looking for a boyfriend/life partner. The issue...men in their early 20s are children. Men do not seem to be ready to settle down and actually commit until their mid to late 30s at earliest. So these girls end up dating some kid for 5, 7, 10 years... only to realize that he has 0 plans to move into the next …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 04:06 PM
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I'm not even sexually attracted to women and I disagree. So many more women are pretty if not beautiful. Men are generally much worse looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 03:55 PM
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It's really a stupid concept, for all the reasons you state early in your comment. We would all have fucked 300 guys by 25 if we were like men. Also, I don't know any women who suddenly don't want sex at the ripe old age of 30. We actually go through a period of increased libido due to our biological clock from 30-40. So if a man is with a woman who refuses him, he should be aware that it's because that particular woman is not attracted to him. It's not some indictment of females as a whole. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 03:52 PM
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Exactly. I was in a relationship for the vast majority of my 20s and have pretty a low n. Am in one now that is not going very well. I am 29. I will most likely be single in my early 30s, despite doing my best to find a man to settle down with. I'm not too broken up about it actually, it's allowed me to really develop myself as a person (the demise of the LTR, period of singlehood, other relationship,etc) and 30-35 is a good age to find a mate. But I, and other women, did their best to live by t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 03:49 PM
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Men are not becoming pornsick due to anything women are doing. Men as young as 22, 23 years old are developing ED because they've beat their genitals into a state of insensitivity binge watching rape videos. You couldn't make this shit up. Men who are pornsick are not prizes. They are misogynistic and usually don't even know it. They expect sex that is painful and degrading. Some of them spend so much time watching strangers fuck that they no longer can perform sexually and bring about the end o…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/20 03:41 PM
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Could you start being attracted to obese women if smaller ones rejected you a lot? Just... make your mind think they’re attractive? You can’t chAnge what you’re attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 10:56 PM
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It’s mostly the physical attraction fading. Nobody wants to fuck an unattractive person all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 10:53 PM
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Same for women. I don’t blame people who leave their spouse because they got gross. I blame them if they cheat because that’s fucked up. But attraction, sex, and feeling like your partner is a “prize” is a huge part of being in a romantic relationship. Plus, it’s just dumb... as you said it’s important to have options should your relationship ever end.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 10:53 PM
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Evolutionarily, size/fitness/symmetry are indicators of male health and that is all we evolved to think of as “quality.” Our ancestors didn’t need a “nice” man they needed one that could defend them and provide for offspring. In other species it’s the intricacy of their dance, the color of their feathers, their ability to build a nest, strength of their mating call, etc that leads females to choose specific males. Same with men pursuing women, they look for indicators of health and fertility: hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/20 10:46 PM
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