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| – | Modern feminism and online dating have destroyed dating; absolutely nothing to do with TRP, which is simply an acknowledgment of reality.If you truly are a pretty high value man, then feminism and online dating are amazing for getting your ideal situation. You have to be willing to put in some work, but it definitely can be navigated to get what you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/24 07:42 PM |
| – | A bunch of questionsPussy is basically the answer to all these questions | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/24 08:18 AM |
| 3 | Not placing unrealistically high standards on women is causing the dating crisisMen have higher standards, we just have higher standards for LTR and marriage. We don't have the same level of standards for casual relationships or casual sex. Meanwhile, women typically have high standards for all casual dating and casual sex because they have more choice there. They typically compromise on some of their standards when it comes to looks and desirability in return for someone who meets their standards in a relationship or treatment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 05:56 PM |
| 8 | The Red Pill is the most effective strategy for men in the world of modern dating.Yeah going to the gym and self-respect is not red pill lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 04:28 PM |
| -2 | Being misogynistic does not have an impact on your dating prospectsHomophobic comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 04:18 PM |
| 6 | Being misogynistic does not have an impact on your dating prospectsA lot of gorgeous, intelligent, kind, and caring women are also attracted to shitty men. It's not just shitty women. There's plenty of amazing women who also prioritize shitty men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/24 04:11 PM |
| 2 | Is it not advisable for men to date when un or underemployedIt's like 12th on the list. Attraction matters way more. I think my intelligence and emotional intelligence helped me a lot, but those women wouldn't have been on a date with me if they weren't already attracted to me physically. Once you've established the connection, then you can use those attributes to get ahead. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/24 01:59 AM |
| 6 | CMV: Passport Bros should not be allowed to marry foreignReason 1. Just an opinion, no argument. Who are you to determine how people date and marry. What makes you feel entitled to men"s wealth, reproduction, commitment, and labor? Reason 2. This would violate constitutional law. Loving v Virginia affirmed the right to marriage in the U.S. and struck down interracial marriage bans. This would most certainly be used as a legal precedent in you trying to legally restrict men from marrying different races/nationalities. Additionally, how would you enforc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 05:26 PM |
| 7 | CMV: Passport Bros should not be allowed to marry foreignBoth of these points are hilarious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/24 04:29 PM |
| 0 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADSure, but those men don't have issues getting married. Even OJ Simpson got into a LTR after literally murdering his ex wife. I understand your point and opinion, but it doesn't apply to society at large. The biggest male whores can get married when they want | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/24 01:34 AM |
| 1 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADI guess, but women prefer a successful and attractive man who has experience. They aren't lining up the marry all the Redpill, incel virgins posting here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/24 01:00 AM |
| 2 | Question for those that "gave up."Women definitely do not have low sex drives | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/24 09:07 PM |
| 2 | N COUNTS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADThat's your opinion, but most women disagree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/24 08:56 PM |
| 3 | The commercialization of marriage is a lesser known factor that’s contributed to the loss of legitimacy for marriage as an institutionFinancial reasons are the number 1 issue in divorce. Finance is still very much a large concern. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 10:28 PM |
| – | Is the redpill about generating wealth to be attractive, or is this a misreading?Where did I say anything about "super wealthy". First off I'm a Marxist, so classism is the main focus of my social lense, which dictates that the majority of people are part of the working class and not super wealthy, which is statistically true. I said women like if a man has steady income. That could be a 50k salary in some areas. It could be 70k or 100k. Can broke men date? Yes, but your options are extremely limited. Very beautiful and educated women will not date a broke man. Stop projecti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/24 12:55 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: When dating, do you find success with being the "consummate gentleman"?Yes, and you don't have to do all of the above either. Flowers alone get you far. So many women haven't had a man buy or bring them flowers. I don't do all the extra gentlemanly stuff "taking off hat". But being polite, opening car doors and door, paying for date, pulling out the chair, offering your coat are a given. And yes, this absolutely helps your outcome. But I probably wouldn't do all of this on every first date. Depends on how attracted I am to the woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/24 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Many women who complain that men only ever want one thing don't seem to offer much elseIt's very true, not all women or even a majority (as sweeping generalizations can never hold true). I've had it happen to me multiple times were I was in a fwb situation and women tried to force a relationship or act like I was somehow leading them on when I was just being nice and courteous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 11:42 PM |
| 0 | Many women who complain that men only ever want one thing don't seem to offer much elseI mean most guys here are probably red/black pilled so what they say doesn't really matter. They just hate women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 11:19 PM |
| 0 | Many women who complain that men only ever want one thing don't seem to offer much elseRight but most of this manipulation is just women ignoring red flags and being delulu. Real manipulation is abusing power or someone's issues like mental health etc. People that use their power or position and abuse it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 11:18 PM |
| 5 | Lonely/single women are often disrespected or falsely accused of thingsYou just have to ignore the criticism. I'm guessing most of it is coming from incel men who are projecting their frustration from an inability to have sex on you. Because you're a more chaste woman, it angers them as they feel like their virginity is a form of societal oppression. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 06:42 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADI think most people are understanding it in the context it was posted, which is compared to hookup/fwb. I would agree that husband material is a compliment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 08:44 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADYou're leaving out the part "but you're not hookup or fwb material". Which indicates a woman does not find a man hot enough to hook up. When a woman says "we were fucking casually, but he was an asshole and just used me", she still finds the man good enough to fuck. So if she doesn't consider you a fwb, she simply doesn't find you as attractive physically, unless she has done some changing on her dating strategy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 07:09 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREAD"I'm not that attracted to you" = "I'm not that attracted to you" You don't get it and that's okay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 07:02 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADImagine if a man said that you were only worth a hookup, and not the type of woman he could date or be in a LTR with. It's essentially that feeling for us. Being husband material is a compliment on its own, but when you compare it to hookup or fwb, it starts to feel more like an insult. As a man, it sort of signals that she had a stronger attraction to the men for hookups, but settled for just fwb/hookup as the man wouldn't commit. So for us, it's almost like an insult that she is "settling" for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 05:16 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADMen should never express their feelings, or even have them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 04:25 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADYes pretty privilege is a pretty universal societal rule for both men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Men are affected by the wall 10x worse than womenThe title of the post is "men are affected by the wall 10x worse than women". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Men are affected by the wall 10x worse than womenAcross the board, men struggle more for casual sex and casual dates. As far as marriage, I'd say it's a lot more equal. It's much easier for a man to get into a LTR than it is for him to have lots of casual sex. It sounds extremely ableist to focus on people with disabilities and claim they "hit the wall". Of course there are a myriad of social and institutional barriers that could hinder disabled people from finding a partner. Which is why a show like Love on the Spectrum and similar services e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 01:37 PM |
| 2 | Is the redpill about generating wealth to be attractive, or is this a misreading?No. I'm saying women care if you have some level of money. Women typically don't like to fuck with homeless men or unemployed men. They usually want you to have steady income, and pay for the date if you ask them out. This is why I've assumed you never have been on a date with a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 01:30 PM |
| 2 | CMV: chores outside of the home are easier than inside choresOkay. So marry a woman and then do all the manly chores. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 06:44 AM |
| 1 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADHard to tell, thought the pants were joggers. Shoes don't matter then if it's bowling. I think some darker pants would compliment the white better. If you google "white overcoat men" you'll see a bunch of different ways to style. Some do wear white pants, but with a white sweater for a monochrome look. I think the white black white black is a lil disjointed and sort of makes you look like a villain from some 80s movie. Maybe try it with black/grey/charcoal pants. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Is the redpill about generating wealth to be attractive, or is this a misreading?Lol are you a man or a woman and have you ever been on a date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 01:08 AM |
| 2 | LOOKS WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADThe coat is cool, I like it. Trying find ways to up the fashion a bit more. It doesnt fit with the pants and sneakers. You need trousers and some boots/loafers/etc. Glasses are super dorky, maybe find a more stylish frame. Could go for more stylish haircut too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 12:47 AM |
| – | Women who are thirty plus have a good amount of fertility left and if no man wants to start a family with them, they should have kids by themselvesI actually am supportive of this idea as a man. And I'd even be potentially interested in having a business arrangement child with a woman with similar values, where we commit to having and raising a child but either don't get married or keep the marriage just a business arrangement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 12:20 AM |
| – | I think I know the root cause behind the "men who hate their wives/gf" trend. Do you agree?It's accurate portrayal of some very lonely and chronically online woman's delusions. Just femcel behavior | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 11:56 PM |
| 2 | If men don't exclusively care about sex then why do they devalue everything else about a woman?Touch grass | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 11:50 PM |
| 2 | If men don't exclusively care about sex then why do they devalue everything else about a woman?If you just walked outside and touched grass you would literally see. Men and women going on walks, going for a jog, going hiking, going to a cooking class, going to a show, going to a musical, men buying women gifts. Just open your eyes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 11:44 PM |
| 0 | Men are affected by the wall 10x worse than womenWhat you just described it just biology and reproduction. Of course women that are young and at a good reproduction age are going to recieve more attention as male attraction drives reproduction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/08/24 11:39 PM |
| – | Only way for a man to win in a war is to dodge the draft..Nationalism, imperialism, and economics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/24 08:56 PM |
| – | Misandry is when rich men are exploited by pretty women, while the man gets blamed and the women are unknowing helpless victims.Sad losers who hate women. Jealous of men using wealth to obtain hot women, but because of misogyny they have to gaslight themselves into believing that such men are somehow victims to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/24 08:32 PM |
| 5 | If the government passed a law saying all premarital sex had to be prostitution (even for only a small $ amount), I think men would lose all interest in itWhatever religious content you're consuming has rotted your brain | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/24 08:29 PM |
| 25 | Apparently women turn “demisexual” around average menYes, that's true for men and also there are tiers for women as well. It's not just dating as well. Attractive people are found to be associated with good morals and good character, easier time in finding employment and promotion, and just over all better treatment from society such as customer service. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 06:35 PM |
| 3 | If you are in a casual relationship, or if the guy is trying to avoid commitment with the usual 'Not sure/Wanna take it slow' excuse, I think ya'll should be more impersonal and not offer anything apart from sexThat's probably true on paper but many women don't follow that level of intention with dating. It's a pretty common scenario even if it doesn't apply to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 04:00 PM |
| 98 | Apparently women turn “demisexual” around average menYes, this is called pretty privilege and it's essentially statistically proven in social spaces and the work force. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 03:33 PM |
| 3 | Most ppl want to be the AdorersI agree with this. I think this is the best dynamic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/24 02:38 PM |
| 0 | This whole idea of "get with someone you're not attracted to because it's your duty as a citizen"Yes it's ridiculous and it's only loser men who would think so. Some level of attraction must be necessary. But attraction can cover a wide variety of things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/24 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Calling men "pornsick" is a distraction from the fact that social media has over-exposed women to choiceExactly that's why we play the game | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 06:37 AM |
| 1 | Women are hypocritical for rejecting coffee datesThere's no point in talking about fairness lol. Plan a date, get dinner, buy flowers. It's the easy route to success and already you clear the vast majority of men that way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/24 05:20 AM |
| 4 | All love is transactional and some men simply have nothing to offerThis just sounds like sexual desire or limerance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/24 02:35 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Men should stop initiating DatesYou might as well ask men to be celibate and turn down sex. We will always pursue and date as that is the best method of meeting and building a connection to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/24 06:48 PM |
| -1 | People confuse female privilege with privileges females can have.I mean Ukraine is basically a fascist country that is extremely sexist and patriarchal. War is a role for men in that type of nation. There should be no surprise that they were forced to stay. That's what happens in a fascist country ruled by men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/24 05:42 AM |
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