psilocybeanie Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
183	I wanna thank this sub for helping me recognize my strength...	FDS SUCCESS!	psilocybeanie	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/08/20 08:18 PM
146	UPDATE to "I wanna thank this sub for helping me recognize my strength".	MINDSET SHIFT	psilocybeanie	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/09/20 02:57 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
10	Violence against women is pandemic. In 2020, 163 million Google searches for 'how to hit a woman so no one knows'. Meanwhile, we masked, vaxxed, and stayed at home for 84 million confirmed covid cases. Treat men like they are diseased and depraved until proven otherwise. I was one of those women googling that last year, some of you might remember my posts. Forever thankful for this sub for pushing me to leave him for good.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/05/21 08:32 AM
53	Violence against women is pandemic. In 2020, 163 million Google searches for 'how to hit a woman so no one knows'. Meanwhile, we masked, vaxxed, and stayed at home for 84 million confirmed covid cases. Treat men like they are diseased and depraved until proven otherwise. Lundy is a man, full disclosure, but he works as a counsellor for those mandatory counselling things men who are charged with domestic violence have to attend and he has a lot of insight into their minds and how calculating and manipulative they are.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/05/21 08:30 AM
42	Violence against women is pandemic. In 2020, 163 million Google searches for 'how to hit a woman so no one knows'. Meanwhile, we masked, vaxxed, and stayed at home for 84 million confirmed covid cases. Treat men like they are diseased and depraved until proven otherwise. "Why Does He Do That?" by Lundy Bancroft. I have it on Kindle and it changed the way I think.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/05/21 08:28 AM
22	💯% true for me. Yeah I had a gay best friend in high school, and last I heard he was pimping out young women. Being gay is one less risk factor but they're still men.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/03/21 06:39 AM
7	How many of you “developed” issues while in a relationship? I’ll go first: depression and anxiety. Cured as soon as we broke up. I developed PTSD and unfortunately she's still around. Still mentally ill but I now have no barriers to getting the help that I need.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/03/21 07:11 AM
30	I ignored all the red flags and let a POS dull my intuition to cheat, use and abuse me for 2 years. Never again. My daughter is the only reason I'm glad I stayed for as long as I did. I just wish I left while I was pregnant. I had to be induced because of high blood pressure and I'm fairly certain it was because of my ex and his abuse and cheating.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/11/20 07:58 PM
26	✨Y’all heard?✨ @swampamish is the OC	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/09/20 06:45 AM
6	We have a list of demands. 1. Clean sheets. I’m almost embarrassed now because I hate flat sheets and never use them.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/09/20 08:36 AM
7	Saw this on another thread This made me chuckle, you sound like an awesome mom. And honestly your experience is far more common than you might realize; you're raising a stubborn girl who will grow up to be a leader.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/08/20 02:36 PM
12	😘 If you change your clothes before bed, and wash your sheets twice a week, it doesn't really matter. Showering too much will dry your skin out.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/08/20 02:48 AM
8	I hope they pick her. I agree with you entirely but unfortunately family courts don't work that way. I filed a police report after leaving my ex/father of my child who beat me up multiple times, and after making my statement the police advised me to "communicate" with him and not keep HIS daughter from him.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/08/20 09:59 PM
19	Girl please don't pointless if your goal is to contract as many STI's and have as many pregnancies as possible I guess?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/08/20 09:46 PM
20	The real reason FDS pisses people off so much saying you hate your children? that's fine you're a great mom! saying you deserve better treatment from men? toxic ideology and we can't stand for it	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/08/20 10:42 PM
34	The real reason FDS pisses people off so much I got banned from Breaking Mom for posting here, lol	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/08/20 04:57 PM
3	Does this seem controlling? I’m no longer dating this guy, but he would tell me I couldn’t wear certain things or make any new guy friends and if I objected, he said that I didn’t give a fuck about him. If I thought he was being controlling he frequently called me crazy and irrational Oh god. Run.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/08/20 02:35 AM
18	Boyfriend of three years still refuses to give me his passcode to his phone. Is this a red flag? yeah that flag is very red. do you trust him? really? I wouldn't	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/08/20 02:21 AM
11	At least he’s honest about his game? We love a man who self reflects I feel like this would make even a Pickmeisha run the other way. What the fuck is he even trying to do ahahaha he's showing his cards and it's a really bad hand	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/08/20 02:19 AM
64	How to heal and forgive yourself for being a pickmeisha 😭 First things first: I am so fucking proud of you for rising above it all and making a life for yourself. Truly. That is amazing and I hope you are proud of yourself, too. Second: Are you in therapy? A good therapist can change your life. You have dealt with a lot in your life and you would benefit from some help building your self esteem and coping strategies. Third: Be gentle on yourself. You deserve a HVM to treat you right, but more importantly, you deserve to treat yourself right. You're sti…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/08/20 01:52 AM
51	The hoops we have to jump through. Stay safe! Lol, I did that when Mormon missionaries were trying to insert themselves into my life while I was waiting for a bus. "Can I have your cell number?" Sorry don't have one. "Oh do you have facebook?" Nah I don't do social media. "What about email?" Man Im way off the grid. All while holding my iphone in my hand. 🙄	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/08/20 02:11 AM
22	Pick me job hunting for her boyfriend- sis come on! As a recruiter, I see this way too often and it’s concerning....if he wanted a job he would get one. She's gonna be calling in sick on his behalf at least twice a week, too. 🤡	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/08/20 05:05 AM
32	Pick me job hunting for her boyfriend- sis come on! As a recruiter, I see this way too often and it’s concerning....if he wanted a job he would get one. "I'm only available to interview after 6pm"	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/08/20 03:58 AM
78	Pick me job hunting for her boyfriend- sis come on! As a recruiter, I see this way too often and it’s concerning....if he wanted a job he would get one. $20 says he resigns because he feels "disrespected" during training	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/08/20 02:55 AM
60	Pick me job hunting for her boyfriend- sis come on! As a recruiter, I see this way too often and it’s concerning....if he wanted a job he would get one. that "preferably evenings or nights but is open to mornings" part... lol the boy wants to sleep in all day	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/08/20 02:14 AM
6	Where have all the good women gone? Scrote with ex issues laments that he only meets women with ex issues. But he had the same job for FOUR STRAIGHT YEARS! Holy steady eddie 🙄	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/08/20 06:59 PM
42	Women these days have it so easy! Doing 100% of your own will always be better than doing 80% of yours and his. Proud of you!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/08/20 05:12 PM
13	Women are more likely to stay in marriage when their spouse is ill, yet men are more likely to leave if their bangmaid is too sick to put out anymore oh this made me DEEPLY sad. It just kept getting worse and worse.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/08/20 10:13 PM
13	I wanna thank this sub for helping me recognize my strength... I can only imagine that leaving after another 11 years would be even more difficult. I am proud of you, too!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/08/20 02:56 AM
12	I wanna thank this sub for helping me recognize my strength... I have done a LOT of reading on the horrors of growing up witnessing abuse. I want no part in it. You're awesome for doing the hard work unlearning that, I wish you the absolute best. 💞	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/08/20 11:51 PM
43	I wanna thank this sub for helping me recognize my strength... Thank you for this. Trust me, I know. He has made that threat before. This is why I am not telling him I'm going until I'm 100% gone and I am considering filing for an order of protection. At the same time, he isn't as brazen and tough as he acts. I'm not scared but I am cautious.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/08/20 10:01 PM
5	You ladies inspired me and I whipped this piece up in less than 24 hours. If I want to, I will ✌️ there's something inherently sassy about cross stitch, i fucking love this	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/08/20 09:54 PM
11	Basically Literally. I had to teach my husband how to shop on Amazon. He doesn't use instagram or reddit or anything, just uses my laptop to watch Netflix sometimes. I wouldn't have it any other way.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/07/20 08:00 PM