psimmons666 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Most girls don’t prefer significantly older men I am absolutely convinced age gaps are only a big deal in a vacuum or debating online as an intellectual exercise. Being an older man myself who's current gf is 20 years his junior and routinely dates women half my age and in a social circle of older men who also have significantly younger gfs and wives.. I really think it comes down to the individual man's charisma, life style and social status within that woman's social milieu. Younger women may not be looking for an older man or even expect i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/25 03:58 PM
–	Women are only against age gap relationships when the man is much less attractive than the woman. Yes dude. Pretty privilege applies to men too. Pretty people can do pretty much anything in society against the rules.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/04/25 08:03 AM
3	Most dating advice given to men tries to turn them into something they're not. Fake it till you make it is a thing. I think the big question many men need to ask themselves is what the hell do they have that would cause women to look up to and respect them? In the end women want a man who they can look up to and respect. Not many men on here are men that would qualify as a man to respect.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/03/25 08:56 PM
14	Most provider men do not end up with traditional women Purity culture nonsense. Men are not entitled to a woman's youth or purity. The red pill obsession with it is pretty damn wierd in a day and age where beauty can be maintained until well into old age by men and women both. Purity shouldn't even be in a man's standards. It's a stupid standard unrealistic in the modern day.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/25 03:55 PM
1	Men will always have to be the ones to approach I LOVE approaching. No shit. Nothing thrills me more than an approach that sticks. Most don't. Most are a polite exchange of small talk, I do a little flirting to see if anyone is interested. Usually not, just a polite "I have a boyfriend" or other such blow off. I tip my head and say "Well ladies, it's been great meeting you. Hope to see you again in the future." and bounce from the interaction. But a lot of approaches, maybe 25% lead to more. One of the girls smiles in that subtle way. She red…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/25 02:42 AM
2	Men will always have to be the ones to approach This is what I think. You can smell the Chad envy the moment you open the sub. When I was coming up in the game. One of first things I learned was to purge limiting beliefs. Limiting beliefs are any belief or view that will hold you back from achieving your goals. My goal was to get good with women. I had to purge any thoughts that might hold me back. That meant none of this "oh woe is me I am so ugly/broke/wierd, women just don't like me." No feeling sorry for myself, no worrying about the stin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/25 11:32 PM
2	Why Men Need to Recalibrate Their Sex Drive: Breaking Free from the Skewed Game of Validation There are so many limiting beliefs in this post.. Thank Providence I am in the "top 20%" of men who don't have to worry about what women think about me, online or otherwise. For every woman a man might upset or creep out there are 2 more who will find him undeniably attractive. You gotta break a few eggs to get breakfast.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/03/25 07:42 PM
1	This sub's understanding of the 'average person' is flawed. Few men can be a Chad. But a lot of men can be Chad adjacent and do a lot better than the median 6 lifetime sex partners most men get. But it takes a complete rewiring of your thought process and will involve a lot of psychological pain. You eventually grow a mental callus to rejection and stop taking it like you are some kind of unlovable loser. You just shrug and say "her loss" and move on. Its a beautiful mental space to be in when you truly give zero fucks over what any particular woman thin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/03/25 07:09 PM
3	Just be what they want Color and accessory coordination is key to making you "pop" in a good way and stand out from other guys in the crowd. The only issue is it takes a certain base amount of self confidence to be a tall poppy. Sometimes people try to chop the tall poppy. One has to be socially intelligent to deal with such things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/25 06:40 PM
-1	Dating Apps Will Never "Fix" Themselves—They’re Built to Make Sure Men Struggle I just have a hard time believing that dating itself is a losing game for most men. I swear I am mediocre as fuck. I make the median income from my state. I live in a shitty little apartment above a garage. I shop at goodwill and thrift stores for my clothes. I'm pushing 50. I have to shoot testosterone in my ass 3 times a week and work out like a dog and moisturize my skin and all kinds of shit. But I am still hooking up with cute girls in their mid to late 20's on a regular basis and all for t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/25 06:26 PM
9	Just be what they want What I discovered is that many women operate on stereotypes of men and then choose a "type" based on those. So your best bet is to watch tv/movies and Google images of men in popular culture and identify these stereotypes and start adopting elements of that stereotype into your dress and style and then expose yourself as much as possible in places where women and alcohol are in close proximity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/25 05:46 PM
1	Dating Apps Will Never "Fix" Themselves—They’re Built to Make Sure Men Struggle I couldn't imagine dating apps being the primary way a man uses to meet women and date. It's horribly inefficient and low volume and waste of time and resources. It trades off so much for convenience and is really a crutch and an impediment to learning true game.	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/03/25 04:52 PM
–	Toxic masculinity keeps getting reproduced via women's dating patterns Well always choosing to be single mea D you are damaged then. It's not natural to spurn romance and love.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/03/25 10:36 AM
4	Why are there never forums of people trying to decode men in the same way people try and decode women Women tend to give pretty decent advice to each other and they actually heed it. Men here don't really want real, detailed, actionable advice because it will require actual work to heed it. They want their anger at the universe and western society validated so they have the easy out of not having to bother trying. I mean, if the dating market really is all about looks, money and superficial image. Then it makes sense for those without those advantages to cross their arms, MGTOW out and play CoD …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/03/25 01:44 AM
1	The best way to correct the dating market is for men to leave women alone. Oh yeah it's changed alot. So many young men are so lame their women are running around with guys my age and laughing at you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/03/25 03:30 PM
1	The best way to correct the dating market is for men to leave women alone. Only if they are relying on online dating almost exclusively to find dates and have no real social or nightlife.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/03/25 07:41 PM
8	No matter how you shift the goalpost, getting satisfying sex is easier for women than it is for men. So what? I just don't understand this focus on sheer numbers of lonely men. As if all men are interchangeable automatons off a factory line and one is just as good as another. The fact is human mating, like most things, rests on a curve. The 33% of men who unfortunately find themselves on the far left side of the bell curve will always struggle to date and have sex. They will probably have 0-2 sexual partners in their lifetime with years long stretches of celibacy between them. One third of men,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/03/25 04:56 PM
4	Everything being men's fault may be somewhat true, but THAT might not be men's fault. Men aren't women. We are never going to be socialized like women. No cis het man wants to or will ever want to live in a genderqueer dominated, androgynous zeitgeist of radical equality. We don't want our sons indoctrinated in that way either. The gender binary and at least some of our societal gender roles are sacrosanct.. Sacred.. Untouchable by culture or society or "progress". The world I came up in. Soft, weak, noncompetitive men die. They might die at work, on the street, or by their own m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/03/25 01:52 PM
1	CMV: Women should train the men they're dating to be a provider None of that FDS stuff works on attractive men who have options. In my world, women buy me shit. Half my wardrobe was bought by women. Women loan me money, pay for some of the dates and bend over backwards to keep me content and happy. Women who try and be materialistic towards me get replaced the next weekend. I do not screw around when it comes to dating.. I'm more than happy to pay dates and provide entertainment and modest gifts but entitlement gets you tossed. Most of the men in my peer gro…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/25 09:05 PM
9	Why are people so aggressively against unconventional relationship boundaries? Well in my personal experience. When two people share "unconventional" boundaries.. The relationship itself is usually severely one sided in favor of one partner. The other partner may accept the boundaries but usually gets run over/walked on. Poly relationships I have seen with my own eyes are usually 1 malignant narcissist who has 2 or more codependent partners and the narcissist plays these partners off against each other for fun and profit. So yeah, I'm pretty skeptical of such shenanigans i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/25 08:57 PM
–	The entitlement epidemic Please explain to me something. You say "after dating many women" and then go on about their supposed entitlement. How does that conversation go exactly because normally, if a woman starts talking like this it's a red flag for any man and women know this?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/25 03:02 PM
1	Having a terrible baby mama is not an excuse to abandon one’s kids. Wanting to be a father when convenient still makes the guy a bad father. Because it's financially impossible to maintain a child's QoL while married vs while divorced/split up without screwing the non-custodial parent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/03/25 01:50 PM
2	The best way to correct the dating market is for men to leave women alone. I'm sorry man. I know it sucks that mother nature doesn't want the neurodivergent reproducing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/25 02:45 PM
-1	The best way to correct the dating market is for men to leave women alone. There is no "fixing the dating market" for sweaty palmed, twitchy introverts, high functioning autists and chronically depressed, poorly groomed neck beards These men have always suffered the slings and arrows of romance worse than others. That isn't going to change just because they self delete from the gene pool through general strike. Get off the porn, get off the game console. Read How to Make Friends and Influence People and The Art of Seduction. Study body language and how a to stand, walk…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/03/25 06:25 AM
2	Modern dating and IRL approaches I'm not some out of touch old man. I am out there in the bars and clubs several times a week playing music. I watch from stage as men and women hook up in real time. The only difference between when I was in my 20*s and today is women just don't take the same shit from men like they used to. They are much more vocal and assertive about their needs but they aren't that much different in what those needs are. Being a successful dater is more complicated today than it used to be. But the social dyn…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/25 06:54 PM
3	Modern dating and IRL approaches Gen X. I am 48. My current gf is 30. The one before her was 28. I lived a much different life than most men though. My mother was a hard drinking veteran and pool shark who spent a lot of time in bars. Once I hit 18 she started taking me along with her and acted as my wingman. Teaching me the ins and outs of how women really work. I'm probably one of the few men who was taught game by their mother. My father was and still is a whipped pussy. Lol mom didn't want me to be that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/25 06:08 PM
4	Modern dating and IRL approaches Well I am an old man by reddit standards but I have always loved women and love socializing with women. Drives my girlfriend nuts that everytime we go out I am surrounded by female friends and acquaintances from before we got together. Even though I am a mature man who has no problem keeping his penis in his pants when in a relationship. The insecurities my friendships can cause break up a lot of my relationships. Just an inherent part of who I am and the lifestyle I lead. All that online crap i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/03/25 03:42 PM
–	Men make women miserable. When given the choice, women will always walk away from men and be happily single. Men should realize this and live their lives accordingly. Autistic my ass. Reads like Lesbian Feminism.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/25 09:40 PM
2	Do Modern men lack personal responsibility? American social life isn't broken. What is broken is many young men's ability to express themselves in a confident, clear manner. To many times I am out and see young guys in their early 20's absolutely terrified at the idea of approaching a woman without some kind of crutch like an online app or whatever to introduce them first. Then if they do, often they stand there, sweaty palmed and nervous with poor body language and can't carry a conversation. They all dress in the same boring way without…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/25 09:19 PM
2	CMV : playing seduction "mind games" only works with women who are more interested than you are That's a gross misunderstanding of pickup artistry as it should be practiced. Like everything else, Pickup artistry had been corrupted by charlatans and red pill bozos. When the movement picked up steam in the early aughts the motto was "Leave 'em better than you found 'em" There were a few aggressive idiots out there but the old industry focused on teaching men important social skills, proper body language, socially acceptable touching, embracing a unique fashion style, and how to walk, talk, a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/03/25 07:16 PM
1	People (and red pillers) often underestimate the necessity of young love/teen love and the impact it can have on am average guy's dating life in the future. There is a lot of truth in this post. I myself was denied healthy interactions with girls growing up due to relentless bullying by the popular girls in my school from early childhood to graduation. It was miserable and left me terrified of beautiful women. Going to college filled me with dread.. So I didn't go. I was a shut in until 28 playing video games and selling and smoking pot. For years I just peddles weed. Never leaving the house except to go to some easy slacker job and my only socializ…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/25 05:10 AM
1	Social awkwardness in men is exactly as much of a turn-off to the opposite sex as being a fat woman. More than that. A man who has lots of platonic female friends can be a huge boost for a man's dating prospects if he otherwise has his game squared away. I always laugh when a woman says "Let's just be friends." Bet... I remember I met a woman and wasnt dating her but we were hanging out together at a local bar we liked regularly and she would flirt with me a little bit but it was clear she thought I would simp for her and buy her drinks if she pretended to like me. Lol Yeah, I took her out and …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/02/25 04:51 AM