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This is a conversation I had with a feminist woman friend and she essentially said what you said. it's part of the problem of painting genders with broad strokes, where toxic masculinity can be used to describe all men while the nontoxic ones hide under that shadow. It makes it harder to fix those problems. (That said, plenty of men still hide from the problems that are RIGHT IN FRONT OF THEM so I can't blame women for the stance they take on that in general.)
/r/MensRights17/12/23 03:51 AM
2

Please DM it, I have no intention of brigading but I'd prefer to know and read through the sub.
/r/MensRights25/11/23 07:30 AM
53

Yeah this sounds like a repeat sexual predator
/r/MensRights18/05/23 05:59 AM
7

If they thought seriously about inclusion and belonging they might actually fix the diversity problem too... But they didn't, and don't.
/r/MensRights18/04/23 09:53 AM
38

That makes me so fucking angry. I'm sorry.
/r/ExRedPill12/04/23 10:37 PM
1

Yeah seriously this, I'm interested but hesitant
/r/ExRedPill12/04/23 03:58 AM
2

There's always the option to send her an open ended apology and make it clear you're not expecting anything, even a reply. If you think it'll go over well, that is. Some people like knowing others aren't assholes anymore and won't be damaging others down the road at least in the same way.
/r/ExRedPill06/04/23 01:54 AM
5

How disappointing /s
/r/ExRedPill19/03/23 03:21 AM
1

Not sure why downvoted tbh. I'm not sure whether I agree with you or not, but it did add to the discussion.
/r/MensRights05/02/23 12:57 AM
8

I take advice from all the people, I just don't hold any of it as absolute truth unless I resonate with it.
/r/ExRedPill12/12/22 07:28 AM
2

Instructions unclear, controller in my ass
/r/MarriedRedPill06/12/22 08:36 PM
1

I'm certainly not a RedPiller, but one piece of advice might be relevant here: you're in her frame. You're not taking legitimate advice that's been offered here, and are ignoring attempts to both understand and help you.
/r/ExRedPill01/11/22 06:00 AM
4

Yeah some critical info is missing.
/r/ExRedPill12/10/22 03:06 AM
1

Guess disabled people should get nothing ever.
/r/MensRights29/09/22 08:28 AM
2

Patronizing/talking down 👍🏾
/r/ExRedPill15/09/22 01:19 PM
3

Men can mansplain men? Well I guess they can but I don't think we call it that.
/r/ExRedPill15/09/22 08:42 AM
1

Don't remember if I've commented here yet
/r/MensRights13/09/22 01:58 PM
1

Except it's been based on religious reasons.
/r/MensRights12/09/22 07:31 PM
5

I'd probably take Tulsi over her, but balanced take 👍🏾
/r/MensRights08/09/22 05:12 AM
4

I applaud your balance.
/r/MensRights11/08/22 02:52 AM
11

I'm the guy that does the hip machines because barbell squats have given me problems for a long time.
/r/MensRights29/07/22 09:33 PM
3

Which is even crazier because either she's projecting or she really wants to be a victim.
/r/MensRights21/07/22 08:46 AM
3

Good bot
/r/MensRights21/07/22 01:43 AM
2

Yep.
/r/MensRights12/07/22 04:39 AM
10

And of course, it's usually used in the sense that people who subscribe to solipsism act narcissistic.
/r/MensRights11/07/22 11:05 PM
3

Touché. Thanks.
/r/MensRights11/07/22 08:26 AM
2

I'd be interested in how your wife responds to this.
/r/MensRights11/07/22 08:05 AM
1

What an interesting experience and perspective.
/r/MensRights11/07/22 02:07 AM
7

sounds like both the bf and gf are very healthy and responsive.
/r/MensRights10/07/22 11:13 PM
-2

Indeed. Thanks for getting us started.
/r/MensRights10/07/22 05:36 AM
10

Fair. I don't actively try to not be in a relationship but I do sympathize with anyone who makes the conscious choice to not play a rigged game.
/r/MensRights10/07/22 04:25 AM
2

Good old "any press is good press"
/r/MensRights10/07/22 02:45 AM
1

https://youtu.be/jb77H1gf3YI His catch phrase from I Love Lucy
/r/MensRights06/07/22 03:19 PM
1

👍🏾
/r/MensRights06/07/22 08:48 AM
1

Alright Ricky Ricardo
/r/MensRights06/07/22 08:34 AM
2

Condescension/patronizing
/r/MensRights06/07/22 08:34 AM
7

I can't hear the woosh at the same time 😭
/r/MensRights05/07/22 09:58 PM
3

I go for it during a fight too 😏
/r/MensRights02/07/22 10:51 PM
4

🤣🤣 nice.
/r/MensRights24/06/22 10:33 PM
8

Thanks man
/r/MensRights24/06/22 09:47 PM
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Sure ma'am, understood ma'am.
/r/MensRights24/06/22 09:02 PM
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And her pleasure is not our only value. 👍🏾
/r/MensRights24/06/22 07:53 PM
6

Average men hate this one trick!
/r/MensRights15/06/22 08:48 PM
1

This is the way
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 09:00 PM
7

Cue Kurenai trying to genjutsu Itachi
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 05:05 AM
2

Don't tell them about tracking cookies guys
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 01:40 PM
1

Heard and her team used arguments that would have been reasonable if they weren't based on denial and gaslighting. That's muddying it all IMO.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/06/22 08:27 AM
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It's an internet culture meme about dealing with things by projection and anger
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/06/22 07:33 AM
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It also unfortunately muddies the water. And the worst part is that Heard is still at it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/06/22 07:30 AM
2

I'm curious if you want to expound.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 04:54 PM
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Getting a report filed from his side is protection in case she tries to pull that on him later.
/r/MensRights11/05/22 02:00 AM
2

As a guy, +1.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 03:59 AM
5

For real. Idk if I would date a stripper but I've got full respect for OP and the way she handles her business as laid out here.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 08:25 AM
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As someone in social science I've gotta agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 02:30 PM
2

You aren't my friend? :S
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 08:16 AM
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It disgusts me that this is the experience that so many women have. I'm sorry.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 01:00 AM
2

Nah
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 04:36 AM
4

Sorry, I didn't catch that. What are they?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 01:14 AM
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They released an All-Inclusive Edition a while back.
/r/MensRights01/07/21 04:20 PM
3

Welcome to India.
/r/MensRights21/06/21 10:32 PM
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You can always take care of other people's kids, for example adoption or just helping out with relatives. No one's saying necessarily to have your own kids as much as being part of a family unit. But tbf, as is Reddit tradition, I didn't read the article.
/r/MensRights19/06/21 03:58 PM
6

You troll lmao
/r/MensRights19/06/21 03:50 PM
3

Long (uncut) hair is Sikh FYI.
/r/MensRights04/06/21 04:23 PM
3

That's cool, thanks for that! Pedantic side note, male refers to sex, man refers to gender. These days there is considered a separation between gender and sex. I'm not sure if I agree/disagree and to what extent, just pointing it out.
/r/MensRights17/05/21 04:39 PM
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For sure. It's an important thought.
/r/MensRights17/05/21 01:22 AM
2

Agree fully if you replace man with human.
/r/MensRights17/05/21 01:19 AM
1

I'm not actually disagreeing with you, I have chosen not to install TikTok due to similar concerns.
/r/MensRights17/05/21 01:09 AM
4

Many American psychologists are paid to do the same.
/r/MensRights17/05/21 12:59 AM
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Yup. I think you're safe from the downvotes.
/r/MensRights19/04/21 07:17 PM
4

For better or for worse, we don't really do that.
/r/MensRights08/04/21 10:21 PM
9

Anything can have an effect, good or bad. I'm just pointing out that this seems to be the biggest factor recently that could contribute to the change.
/r/askMRP10/10/20 11:49 PM
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Or, you know, the psychoactive drug had an effect.
/r/askMRP10/10/20 11:35 PM
1

That the line will end, I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 06:40 PM
2

That kinda makes me sad when you put it that way. But it's certainly an interesting way of looking at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 01:58 AM
1

Neither do I. Why did I read all of this
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/20 08:08 PM
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And it works because you both step up to help the other in the ways that you can or are better at.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/20 06:03 PM
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This might be a dumb question, but how can you know when an individual has done it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 04:32 AM
42

Sounds like there's missing cultural context. But regardless, if you aren't comfortable you might want to reevaluate the relationship since you seem to have very different perspectives on this.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/20 01:07 AM
4

What are you doing father-in-law?
/r/askMRP21/04/20 05:03 AM
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More importantly, she's told him she sees through it and he doesn't believe her for some reason.
/r/askMRP21/03/20 07:42 PM
1

Mixed messages just within these two comments OP
/r/askMRP21/03/20 01:01 PM
2

In California that's without overtime, can't confirm for other states.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 01:52 AM
4

Took me a while to find your actual comment on there OP, lol.
/r/askMRP10/08/19 07:16 PM
4

I just had a thought: I don't think your partner's mom would ever respect your relationship with him unless you're married. Now you've made it clear that you *don't want to, so either you would have to cut her out completely (which your partner doesn't seem to have any intention of doing), or move on and find another partner with a more supportive family. I don't see good options here.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/19 08:25 PM
7

Looks like she's trying to maintain her position above you as the closest female to him. Seems unhealthy, as others have also pointed out.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/19 07:54 PM
9

Just try to be more understanding! /s I think you and him need to have a long talk when she's not there. It's your house, not hers. As much as she wants to be helpful, it's the house both you and your partner live in and if you have kids it might be one they'll share with you. This is not something you leave to someone who has experience, you need to make your own space.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/19 06:17 PM
1

I was so confused when I was attacked, but I understand now. I also apologize for the confusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 11:02 PM
1

I realize that. Your interpretation was unexpected for me. I read it and only thought of how hard the sentence was to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 10:57 PM
2

100% the grammatical one :/
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 01:12 AM
1

I guess I shouldn't read then, wow.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 12:41 AM
1

You seem to have missed a period or two in your sentence.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/19 12:05 AM
1

Yeah, there are ways to increase volume without just doing low weights. As long as you stay lifting heavier you'll have a good hormonal response. We're just talking about some ways you can push your cardiovascular system at the same time. Supersets as the other person mentioned, are basically HIIT.
/r/askMRP23/07/19 04:09 PM
1

Yeah, supersets are great too. You've got some great info in this thread OP
/r/askMRP23/07/19 03:06 PM
1

Yeah. Do you know what drop sets are? It's when you chain the same move with progressively lower weights and higher reps, within the same set. Like if your working set is 50 at 10 reps, maybe for your dropsets you'll start at 60, and you'll do 6 reps. Then immediately after you switch to 45 and do 12 reps. Then you switch to 30 and do 20 reps. Something like that. Everyone's different so they do it differently.
/r/askMRP23/07/19 03:06 PM
2

By "lift weights fast" and "compound movements," taipanshimshon meant you can get your heart rate up and your lungs working just by doing some extra work during your lifts. Reducing your break time and doing things like dropsets is another good way to do it.
/r/askMRP23/07/19 08:50 AM
4

Honesty is certainly a good way to start a relationship, whether starting exclusive or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/19 05:31 PM
1

Can confirm, I'm the average one in my bunch.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/19 10:46 PM
5

It seems like you're trying to rationalize that you don't need to orgasm. And my question is: why? Obviously it feels good and you want to orgasm with him, so you should bring it up with your man. And if you don't want to bother him about an act that should be mutually enjoyable, you might be missing the point of a physically intimate relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/19 04:12 AM
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Say thank you, maybe do/wear more of what he compliments, show that his compliments mean something to you in an explicit way. Remember: 1. He can't see what's going on in your head, and 2. Men are more overt in their thoughts and actions anyway, so if you want him to know you appreciate something make it really obvious to him.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/19 05:19 AM
–

Oof you're right
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/19 06:26 PM
–

Make exciting stuff for yourself and see if he wants to join in sometimes!
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/19 04:06 PM
6

It's just the rating out of 10. HB is hot babe.
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/19 09:50 PM
1

Cool, thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 12:25 AM
1

Oof, link?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 12:19 AM
5

Whoever can't embrace that there are upsides to the other side
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 12:18 AM
2

So you've outgrown its usefulness; I congratulate you. I'm not at that point yet. As such, I'm grateful an effort is being made to continue this community.
/r/askTRP01/10/18 07:46 AM
1

Maybe it's an attempt at social proof lol
/r/askTRP16/09/18 12:18 AM
3

*consequences. (Sorry)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/18 06:37 PM
3

LOLed so hard
/r/askTRP10/08/18 06:54 AM
5

Add the good stuff to your post, then read it all to yourself.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 10:20 AM
1

So she wanted to have something to look forward to, interesting.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 09:56 PM
2

Did she think not letting you finish would make you want to do more with her?
/r/askTRP27/07/18 07:35 PM
2

Thank you. I wasn't aware of that post.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/18 10:16 AM
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Good question, am also curious.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/18 04:34 AM
2

Yes.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/18 03:56 PM
1

Why would you teach someone your personal flow? Individuals are all different, so one size doesn't fit all, especially for something as subjective as game.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 11:52 PM
1

Oh yeah good point, I don't know how I didn't realize that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 07:16 AM
3

I wish I could tell you. Something tells me to weeks isn't enough for you to determine that, but if the men aren't feeling any real interest generated by you, then it might even be too long for them. That's just how we work: you've gotta give us clear signs or we'll assume you're not interested either.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/18 02:43 AM
2

This. If they don't know you well enough, they aren't going to trust you enough to be emotionally available.
/r/RedPillWomen30/05/18 11:25 PM
1

Different men have different standards and criteria. Humans are different, who knew.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 11:22 PM
1

Yes, but the point the above poster was making is that what is in those 1800-2000 calories matters as much as (if not more than) eating that amount of calories. In other words, the macro/micro content of your foods matters as much as, or more than, calories alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 11:19 PM
1

Dude... In less than 10 seconds of reading that post, I found "They are not all whores (at least not as the post read). They are just AWALT." If you disagree with AWALT though, I'd like to see your argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/18 03:14 AM
1

Yeah, definitely not matriarchal. The culture is heavily collectivist, so there's a focus on everyone needing to be happy, which means everyone pretends to be happy. So there are a lot of betas in our culture running around pretending to be happy while they try to please their wives :)
/r/askTRP26/05/18 04:19 PM
0

The Claremont colleges?
/r/askTRP25/05/18 02:24 AM
6

Works even better if you sell in-cum mangoes
/r/TheRedPill22/05/18 09:27 PM
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"The classic example of projection is that of a woman who has been unfaithful to her husband but who accuses her husband of cheating on her." If you switch the man and the woman, you have your current situation. https://www.everydayhealth.com/emotional-health/psychological-projection-dealing-with-undesirable-emotions/
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/18 02:00 AM
18

American version of this quote: "You can't turn a slut into a housewife."
/r/askTRP16/05/18 08:51 PM
0

Great article.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/18 06:59 PM
1

Good luck. :) We're cheering you on.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/18 04:32 PM
3

It's reverse psychology at work. Think about it this way: Someone tells you to not think about dogs. What do you do? You start to think about dogs. Then a while later when you aren't even near the person, you realize you're still thinking about dogs and you can't get them out of your head: first it was just puppies with cute noses that you just want to boop, and now you're thinking about a big fluffy mountain dog, and huskies that howl, and then you remember that one beautiful dog you saw the ot…
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/18 05:55 AM
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If it makes you feel better, the metaphor made a lot of sense.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 07:58 PM
1

+1, if it's the same friend and they're close, it sounds like standard male communication where you subtly (or outright) jockey for status, or just joke. I wouldn't be concerned unless he's been talking this way about you to other acquaintances or unknowns. But as I'm not female, if it bothers you, definitely tell him.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/18 08:02 PM
7

This put a big smile on my face. Kudos to you, and may you find a good partner.
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/18 07:05 AM
6

Yes. Start off less than 5x even, don't burn yourself out. Focus more on rest as you'll be much more sore starting out. As you adjust over a month or so, it'll get easier to go for more.
/r/askTRP03/03/18 09:43 AM
1

Right?
/r/MGTOW25/10/17 04:10 PM
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Also INFJ, the aloneness is sometimes annoyingly natural.
/r/MGTOW25/10/17 06:40 AM
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