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3	Anyone else feel like absolute crap when you improve something about yourself and don't see results? Progress is neither instantaneous nor is it linear. But if you keep at your challenge (in this case, attracting women) progress IS inevitable. Growth takes time. Learning things takes time. Changing your mindsets and rewiring your brain (and body, with lifting) takes time. You need to have a longterm mindset, not a short term one if you have any hopes of succeeding... because if you give up, most of the effort you put in will be for naught. Persistence conquers all. The reality is the road will …	/r/seduction	01/09/16 06:18 PM
2	Do girls make remarks about your strong eye contact? Your strong eye contact is good. That expression ("why do you look at me like that") is pretty much verbatim the response I have gotten from girls right before things start getting physical. Do not listen to people here telling you that you're "overdoing it." So long as you are not giving her a blank serial killer stare, and look friendly, are smirking, this is the stuff that dominant, mysterious, and ATTRACTIVE men do. Making girls uncomfortable like that creates tension, which translates to se…	/r/seduction	01/09/16 06:05 PM
1	I feel like I have nothing to say College is all about tribes. I was like you the first half of my college career. Then I realized I sucked with women and my social life was terrible. So what did I do? I changed. I started to talk to people in my classes, people in clubs I joined, and people I was already acquainted with. I'd grab their number, and either meet for coffee or pregame (more common) with them on weekends to solidify the connection. The result was that I ended up in numerous groups and went from being a total loser t…	/r/seduction	01/09/16 05:59 PM
1	When Someone Doesn't Respond to First Text, but Seemed interested? The problem here is three-fold: 1) Asking to "work out with her sometime" is disingenuous. If she was staring at you, maybe she was attracted, but this is a very awkward way to handle it. You should have chatted with her and flirted first, then gotten the number for a date if rapport and attraction was there. Otherwise, you should have just taken the convo easy, established friendliness for the future and worked from there. 2) When you got her number, you should have been assertive and gotten th…	/r/seduction	31/08/16 08:59 PM

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