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| 2 | Advice on how to cope with being aloneYou have a lot of options at 28; socially, professionally; somehow I think the bigger issue is you finding out about her infidelity; that's what needs to be addressed first...there's a Netflix movie with a similar theme: An Interview With God; yeah, sounds all religious and stuff, but it isn't a bad movie, you might consider checking it out. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/09/21 03:50 AM |
| 4 | Asking the Divorced Men for some success storiesIn my free time I literally devoured every book I could find on finance, economics, banking, trading, etc; so when I hit pretty big in the markets (and it was all my gain since I didn't have to share it anymore) that was my comeback; also landed a really good govt.job overseas with all expenses paid (rent, utilities, etc.); stayed 8 years and made it all back and then some; traveled Europe, joined a local 8-ball league and a Texas Hold Em' poker group; great German beer (bier) gardens and access… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/09/21 09:35 PM |
| 2 | Question for you guys who managed to escape alimonyI did a Property Settlement when I left (but I didn't have a house); sold stocks, mutual funds, savings bonds, IRA, bought her a new car; her brother owed me 15,000 at the time which I knew would never be paid back (to me anyway) so that was part of her settlement too; paid taxes on all of it plus a penalty for selling the IRA too early; still wound up paying 300,000 in Alimony over the past 20 years; I left with 20,000 in a checking acct and a credit card; its all good now, but those 1st few ye… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/09/21 03:06 AM |
| 2 | Helpless in OhioGiven what you describe as your current financial situation; before you can be divorced, most states want you to be legally separated; could be six months, could be a year; depends on the State of residence. Then you have to start paying taxes as a Single filer again; at same time you're also paying to maintain two separate households...like, what kind of life are you going to have. Find some happiness in other stuff, maybe? Golf, hunting, fishing, NFL football, reading books, whatever; maybe yo… | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/09/21 02:38 AM |
| 4 | Is marriage worth it?a.) wait until you're at least in 30s, try to marry a mature person; at least "ready" for marriage b.) don't marry into a family that doesn't have a pot to piss in, in the 1st place | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/09/21 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Looking to make the jump but scared and getting pressured to stayI think a lot of marriages end up like this; I've never had success with "marriage therapy"; I'd consider these aspects: 47 is still fairly young, but your 60s are not far off, and that's typically when health starts to go south; do you want to marry again or face being alone in those years, is one question to ask yourself; your spouse sounds like a good person, even if you're no longer in love with her; I'm sure she would stick by your side if/when you need someone; what makes you think you'd f… | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/09/21 04:27 PM |
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