psychedman Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	An echo chamber		psychedman	/r/ExRedPill	02/03/20 10:52 AM
2	Feeling lost		psychedman	/r/ExRedPill	27/02/20 04:13 PM
1	How attraction works	Fundamentals	psychedman	/r/seduction	08/10/20 03:24 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	I feel like RP is the worst thing I discovered. I think most of the RP is about creating a mind palace for yourself to compensate for the lack of love and satisfaction in your life. It's us vs them mentality, trying to gain an upper hand against the rest of humanity. Thier sense of self stems from being better than one's around them. What an insecure way to live. But some part of it still remains true to me. That we make decisions from our primitive brain that has not evolved. Maybe that is because I believe something and try to map the real …	/r/ExRedPill	11/10/20 07:35 AM
3	My first girlfriend cheated on me after asking to wait for sex and even after years later I am still no better at getting over it. A few months after that is when I found the red pill but I didn't know it was controversial at the time. I'm sorry if I sounded like that mate. I guess you're trying to say that the damage that she has done is permanent. I have been through it and I tried to tell you about what helped me through it. I don't think the damage is permanent for me, but everyone takes things differently. I hope you have a make a good time out of what you have left.	/r/ExRedPill	16/03/20 01:33 PM
2	My first girlfriend cheated on me after asking to wait for sex and even after years later I am still no better at getting over it. A few months after that is when I found the red pill but I didn't know it was controversial at the time. Yes, she did not have to do that but she still chose to do that. Try to see it from her side about how miserable must she really be on the inside to do that to someone. You take control of what you can control which is how you react to what she did to you, either you forgive her for coming from a really miserable position to do that to another human being or stay the same the entire life blaming her and waiting for her to take the blame which she never will. I know it feels like shit to be treat…	/r/ExRedPill	16/03/20 12:49 PM
3	My first girlfriend cheated on me after asking to wait for sex and even after years later I am still no better at getting over it. A few months after that is when I found the red pill but I didn't know it was controversial at the time. You should stop blaming her for what she made you go through. This may sound quite harsh, but you do not externalize the problem that is there internally. Even though what she did sucked you out psychologically, you have to find the power in yourself to start again and take small steps towards what makes you feel fulfilled. Go out and try to talk to people just to have some fun rather than thinking about spending your entire life with the person when you have just met. Don't think about what is …	/r/ExRedPill	16/03/20 07:20 AM
0	Feeling lost Yeah, it's a form of what you see is all there is. I agree that I have been looking inwards too much without much living to find answers that I have been looking for a long time. This is a very complex thing to break down and understand completely. I read about jung and the shadow and relate to what he says. This creates a lot of conflict. I sometimes feel the urge to manipulate people who are weak and hurt them deliberately so that they may see for themselves how the world work. I felt like tha…	/r/ExRedPill	28/02/20 03:53 AM
1	Feeling lost Also, I'm open to suggestions about any book or article that speaks about this in detail. Would like to uncover and explore my deepest desires to understand them and not let them take over me like that.	/r/ExRedPill	28/02/20 02:55 AM
1	Feeling lost Yes, that's what I was thinking too. Apologizing even when I'm not sure how they have taken it . It might be some other reason for her not replying. I'll elaborate the story a bit more. It was a marriage in our native town. Our culture is all about people marrying within our own culture. These marriages are an excellent opportunity to make friends with other potential partners- that's what our parents have led us to believe and it's quite true. So I have a brother too about the same age. On the …	/r/ExRedPill	28/02/20 02:23 AM
1	Feeling lost I'm not even sure if I was the only participant in the game. I understand the consequences this has and have to take better care about my metal health and not indulge in these toxic games which are very much like a snake that bites itself. This was enlightening. I would like to know if I should talk to them and apologize for my behavior or leave it to them to understand? I'm confused, I think if I apologise I'll show myself as low value. Man this thinking has really fucked me up and is holding m…	/r/ExRedPill	28/02/20 01:50 AM
1	Feeling lost I had no intentions of hurting them, it was just a little fun game for me in my head.	/r/ExRedPill	27/02/20 11:40 PM
1	Feeling lost Thanks for that, I see how deluded I was with the fake sense of grandiosity to make myself feel temporarily good. The first step I think is realising that the games that I played come back to bite me too. And it stems from a deep insecurity within me, which must be addressed. I'm glad that this experience happened to me and opened my eyes since I'm yet young and can still drop the toxic ideologies that I have used to cope up with this harsh world. I shall learn how to deal with it rather than co…	/r/ExRedPill	27/02/20 04:58 PM