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psycho_sid/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/22 09:03 PM
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you serious? you think any part of that helps me? That's a massively failed comfort test (edit, I said shittest at first). Her spending a couple of days with her sister, trusting me to keep things running and I go to supper with the divorcee? Especially while denying that while she's here? When I go hunting or fishing and the wife stays behind, I don't expect her to go for supper with a neighbor. Dude, you had some wise words in earlier posts. Wtf happened? FYI I call her snake cause she bad mou…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/22 11:34 PM
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i think folks missed our mutual sarcasm.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/22 09:10 PM
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what was it? It was a culmination of me being an asshole for a long time with the cherry on top being this: Friday's was left over days. SO wanted to go to restaurant sometimes with kids or order food and I would always say no. Then that week, she went to spend the weekend with her sister (her sis's bday, and the bro in law got them a spa package). On the day she left, a freshly divorced snake (she had recently moved in) that lives next door (our kids play together) suggested we take our kids an…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/22 04:01 PM
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Let me try this: 49, 16 years with gf (46), two kids At 49, I can sadly say I still sought validation for my success and what I've done for my family. I've been working on just accepting that's what is. My work doesn't need anyone's validation. The fruits it yields is more than enough to show me that I'm on the right path and doing well. My action plan on this is to STFU more often and stop obsessing over being right and use more tools like AM, AA to deal with any bumps or shit tests. I also hav…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/22 03:48 PM
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lol, I see you what you're saying. Point taken. Yea, I didn't realize that telling her I'd treat her like an adult and an equal signals co-captaincy. More lessons.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/22 02:39 PM
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yes, I do. Very much so. My jealousy/resentment got the better of me for years though. Did quite a bit of damage until I dealt with that.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/22 02:34 PM
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Yea, maybe it started as that. At that point I was looking for a solution. Thing is, after a few weeks only, I realized that I liked this new me better and kept doing it for me. Sounds cheesy, but that's what happened. And that's why I was able to maintain it. If it were dependent on her, I would have stopped that 2.5 years ago.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/22 01:25 PM
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Thanks for your enthusiastic support. It means the world to me.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/22 01:30 AM
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Absolutely she got frustrated. For years we were nasty to each other. Total bitch and total ass. I think I actually had more frame back then cause I didn't let anything she said bother me. Idgaf. But I took it too far. One thing I didnt do, is give up on my work and ambition though. I am one of the best in my field and get paid as such; plus I love my work As for manipulation I didnt really see any, even when I look back. She lied big time to me about her past when we first met. They all will. B…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/22 12:46 AM
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with regards to my gf fucking me enthusiastically as the best version of me, at the time, that's what I thought. I didn't differentiate it from the most arousing. I assumed both were the same. But I used this as a motivator What happened was, I started to really like what I was becoming. I didn't need to be told to do shit. I started fixing shit more often. Anything that was heavy/mechanical/nasty I took care of without prompting, taking care of my kids, setting down my phone, etc...started losi…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/22 12:31 AM
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when you're neck deep in your own ego and think you're it.... I came back to this forum too late to learn that on my own. Been doing much reading.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/22 12:12 AM
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I've responded with : no babe, yours is the only pussy I want. That's why I'm still here. STFU would have been better knowing what I know now.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/08/22 12:08 AM
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the lesson that started my change on aug 16th three years ago was: If I want my woman to be the best for me, fuck me enthusiastically and follow me anywhere I need to be the best version of me possible. That's when I woke up and really cleaned up my act. I still needed frame, I still hadn't let go of the need to be right. Took me 3 years to use amused mastery, to feel it. To STFU. to AA. One comment I'll never forget from her on that day: You act like you're a teengaer in here, I have to tell yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/22 11:24 PM
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thanks dude, I'll figure out what's good and not good in this forum and deliver better content.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/22 11:13 PM
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I'm 49, and when things are smooth, i greatly enjoy her soft caring and compassionate side. She's also quite agreeable to be with. She also stayed quite hot for a woman in her mid 40s (she was a model when I met her at 30). And she tells me, I can go from being so fucking awesome to being an absolute asshole with shit comments and no STFU (I kept thinking I could logic her). Another part of the resentment towards me is my shaming her over the years. She lied about her past (duh) and I caught on …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/22 11:12 PM
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that s a great question. WE moved from mtl to Ottawa 5 years ago cause I landed a a job that paid about 50 grand more. So she gave up her 35k/year job that she actually really loved. Bitterness -for sure; but she was hoping that she'd go to uni and do nursing, and my attitude back then was "fuck no, I'm not your parent, I didn't hook up with you to educate you and pay for your training" I didn't say it quite like that, but I pushed her into staying home to take care of the house nd the kids in t…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/22 10:30 PM
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All good points. I will add that I've been lifting 4 days a week for years (I'm a big muscular guy). Exciting? I'm not boring, , I think covert contracts and no STFU killed it for me. I head out on my motorcycle regularly (dirt and street), lift weights, did Krav until covid closed it, did Salsa/bachata etc... Attractiveness is maxxed. I think one of my problems is I need to remove things that make me unattractive. And like you said, drunken captain, built lots of resentment. She also goes on ab…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/22 10:12 PM
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Just pointing out a major fuck up on my part and if it can help someone else, then good.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/08/22 09:56 PM
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Indeed, never let my guard down. Plus I never got married. My rules. Peace.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/18 02:21 PM
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Well, it seems I've misunderstood what mgtow means. Afaik, mgtow is a guy that wants nothing to do with women in any form of relationship, unless it's simply a sex thing. My statement was based on that assumption. What you just explained is a whole different thing. Btw, I'm not saving western civilisation on my own. No one person will do that. A whole bunch of us have to do it. Each their own way. I chose mine. I'm not some little runt that picked leftover scraps and hopes shit works out. I've g…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/18 04:54 AM
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Then you would say 80% of men are wimps right? Or some of the best warriors and conquerors in history that totally gave up on women and kids, for glory and etc, were wimps... <= Not many warriors left today. If one of those warriors show up, i'll take back my words. In 2018, yes, most men are wimps. Who do you think is going to make a better tomorrow? yea, sounds cheesy, but it's reality. Not you. Mgtow (before kids), are just that, mgtow. They've given up, they don't want to be bothered. Who's …
/r/TheRedPill02/10/18 12:45 AM
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That's precisely how 90% of alpha male offspring was raised in history lol. <== I know that, which is why i said I dont want a beta raising mine. From your handle, I don't see any fruitful conversation coming out of this exchange, just that your view is simply that, your view. I don't need to go to a non feminist country to raise my kids. My woman? Yea, she's pretty awesome, not perfect, but I'm not bound by marriage, and what, she'll take half my stuff if we break up? yea, half is hers. So big …
/r/TheRedPill02/10/18 12:24 AM
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And how exactly do we have kids? I don't want a beta raising mine. Sure, getting out of the game changes us, but i still train several times a week, look sharp, do really well at work and remain high value, while my woman takes care of my house and kids.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/18 08:33 PM
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yes, there are many, but heres one close to home. http://www.women.gov.on.ca/owd/english/economic/entrepreneurs.shtml
/r/TheRedPill13/07/18 02:58 PM
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LoL, this is hilarious, this is what feminists are, but replace men with government: Benevolent sexism—or BS, amusingly enough—is an existing research term that refers to “an affectionate but patronizing attitude that treats women as needing government's help, protection, and provision (i.e., as being more like children than adults).” More scholarships for women Affirmative action hiring Government loans for women in business No draft for women to vote Family court bias towards women, and they w…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/18 01:52 AM
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bah, I can't argue against that. In my beta university days, I hung around with an alpha for a few months; this guy was a beast. Didn't have a crazy body or anything, but he was good looking, dressed well, came from money and was supremely confident knowing HE was the prize. He had plates galore, he was a natural. He once told me "dude, I can have a gorgeous model in one arm, and a gorgeous model in the other, but if one walks by, I'll want her too". Back then I just thought he was insane. I got…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 07:17 PM
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Probably true. There are those women that stay beautiful, give you beautiful kids, give up their jobs to stay home to raise them and take care of the house while keeping the man happy. But they are uncommon. That type of woman can secure an alpha for a while. :) I really can't complain. But I stay sharp. Never stop training, learning new things, keep pushing myself so I don't get complacent.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/18 03:07 AM
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I may add, your last line, if you get to the point where your woman tells you she wants you to be someone (and you're not doing some sexual roleplaying shit) then you fucked up and lost frame or slipped back to your beta self and you've lost it.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 03:56 PM
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The "secure support for herself and children" can come from an alpha provider as well. We are not unicorns.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/18 03:41 AM
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yea, my bad; one exercise, ie I only do bench press, squats, deads, overhead press and barbell rows on 5x5
/r/TheRedPill10/07/18 02:21 PM
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nah, some of the most efficient sessions last 20 minutes. I've made some fantastic gains training for less than 20 minutes 5 times a week. the 5x5 are awesome like that. (assuming you target one muscle per session and mix in core exercises while you wait)
/r/TheRedPill10/07/18 02:02 AM
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I cared enough to reply to your legit bullshit accusation. If you chose not to believe it's fine. If ever you're in the Ottawa area, hit me up. We'll meet and you'll believe.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/18 03:53 AM
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Good look with that. Remember, you better yourself for YOU. Not to get chicks. Your goal should be the best life you can get yourself, and that will most likely include women. You don't NEED women to be happy, but women can add to your happiness and satisfaction. Don't be afraid of women. Don't elevate them. They are just people. And don't be an ass to them (edit: unless they earn it)
/r/TheRedPill09/07/18 03:38 AM
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then you've never experienced multiple plates and everything in life going as fucking great as it can be. Once you have, if you ever do, you'll know it's not. I seriously didn't give a fuck. I had a girl that was a stretching coach for the cirque du soleil gymnastic athletes, and she was a good 8, but with an insane body and well, great flexibility. She was telling me how guys at work wanted something serious with her and that I should go LTR with her, that I risked losing her. I DIDN'T give a f…
/r/TheRedPill09/07/18 03:27 AM
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And if OP is red piller (which he def sounds like) and she's a plate, he won't care if another is banging her. I never asked, and didn't care. You shouldn't.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/18 03:06 AM
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When it worked for me, almost same age scenario, I don't even think I ever called her ( I didn't do the barely legal much, I wanted more). She would call me and ask me for sex, and then take the bus across the city to meet me at my place on my lunch break for sex. You HAVE to be the cool older dude. Neediness is not good . Live and learn.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/18 01:49 AM
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I see what you mean. It morphed, and found a new sugar daddy in the institutions you mention. Makes sense.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/18 04:34 AM
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You sure it's not rooted in marxism? Feminism wants to destroy the family unit, make women 'equal' to men, produce and work like men rather than raise kids and tend to a family. This sounds much more like Marxism or communism. Government down. With a heavy bias. If feminism stemmed from liberalism, they wouldn't seek to crush men at every opportunity and unbalance the entire system in favor of women, . They would strive to have 'individuals', and not men or women and the system could almost run …
/r/TheRedPill08/07/18 03:00 AM
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I stand by my statement. I said most guys. Most guys don't pick up and fuck like I did. Nowhere fucking near. Even though I scored all kinds when i was finally single, that first gf, all we did was go to uni and fuck. 4 years of daily fuck marathons, no matter where we were. She was like my personal porn star and could get my dick hard after 3 hours of fucking. And i have many buddies that I'd talk to about sex and i know MOST got a fraction of that. So yes, it is a bold statement. If you want, …
/r/TheRedPill07/07/18 12:29 AM
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if your value isn't your looks, then you have value elsewhere, or build some. Boost your other stats to use some d&d analogy. But do it for you. TRP
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 09:36 PM
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This is what TRP does around the world, on social media etc.. try to make people aware of the abuse of power women are guilty of. Our judicial system and learning institutions have contracted a cancer called feminism, and we are working hard at distributing red pills wherever we can. Imagine this happened to you in 10 years, when you could be running your own shop, and word gets out (falsely,like now) that you are a stalker and a sexual aggressor. This could ruin you. Because one bitch had regre…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 08:20 PM
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I have seen that as well. Those are exceptions. You don't create a set of rules around exceptions.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 03:47 PM
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That's exactly it. I had gfs before, but I took whatever came at me. No screening. As long as i got action, this was enough of a criteria, and surprisingly it lasted long. I had some decent character women, which helped a lot. But it's different when you can sample what's out there, and make a decision based on whatever criteria YOU decide. I worked hard to find a hot woman that could take care of my house and kids, and have good family values. But I did it.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 02:13 PM
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What effect it had on me? I was pretty pathetic, I actually didn't take it badly - i didn't get angry when he told me or sad, more just, yea, it was inevitable (turns out she was a big time slut). I didn't blame him, and still dont. She was in a relationship, not him. Same with me, when I was single after my change, I didn't give a crap if they were in relationships, I was never in it for an LTR (which i made clear from the get go).
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 02:08 PM
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At the risk of sounding like i'm making shit up, i'd say you were a good guy, not a nice guy. You did what you felt was right, cause you have a set of good values that guided your actions. This is good. I believe the OP probably meant the people that are nice in order to get something out of it are the ones that finish last. In my first two real long term relationships, probably even only the first, i got more sex than most men get in a life time, cause my ex was a borderline nympho and I was ri…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 07:12 AM
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Lol, that is bad, but sometimes, it takes that to toughen you up. You learn from it. Good on you. It took me two solid heartbreaks to snap out of it (spread out over many years).
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 06:01 AM
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The problem is when guys (it's valid for women too) TRY to be nice. That's what I stopped doing years ago. You can be a good person, polite, without being nice. Agreeing with someone just to not cause friction (I fucking hate that), saying something complimentary for some attention, trying to be funny to impress, laughing at a bad joke, that's the nice that I don't like. Something like walking out of your way to open the door for a woman that has her arms full is being courteous. Someone needs h…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 05:52 AM
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At least you're making him aware there's another way. You can't force him to change. Someday, if he ever snaps out of it, he'll know where to look, that there's another way. The real way. A lot of guys don't ever snap out of it though.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 05:42 AM
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It's irrelevant if you believe it or not. It's science. It's not an opinion. As for the porn industry, you guys are all in left field. Do you know ONE person that pays for porn? Just one? I don't know ANYONE that pays for porn, there's so much available for free. The porn industry doesn't run itself. WHo do you think pays for the "super special trial membership, 1$ for one day, unlimited access to porn!"? No one. It's pure money laundering, and it's fucking brilliant. Fictional accounts created …
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 05:23 AM
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It's the best way to protect yourself from prostate cancer though. Unless you get shitloads of lycopene.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 03:09 AM
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It takes something to snap out of that nice guy mode. I was the ultimate beta; I remember in uni, I was always good looking, but lanky and no confidence. I was super nice, like someone here said, helped chicks move, talk about anything with them, gave lifts etc..., and I often got: I hope I meet a guy like you when I get married. If that isn't a fucking beta brand on the forehead, nothing is. But I was clueless. I went through several relationships, had it pretty good, until one of them broke my…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/18 03:00 AM
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I was being serious. Maybe the few guys I have got to know better are among the masculine men that were always like that. I assumed the military is what de-pussyfied them. I haven't been in Ottawa long though, so I would find it hard to believe that it's more feminine than mtl. In qc, men are castrated en masse. It was sickening.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 09:54 PM
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Spot on dude. Spot fucking on. There is some hope. I moved to Ottawa and am surrounded by military families, and it seems like the army toughens men up. When I was in mtl, every second dude was a pussy.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 07:48 PM
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What worked for me was to not really give a shit. You have enough plates, you start radiating confidence and you stop caring if you bring her home. They can smell that. My wife (when we met) was a solid 9+ and she told me what hooked her was that I put zero pressure to do anything with her (my smv was through the roof back then, so this won't apply to everyone). I admitted to her later that I had so many, that I didn't care if nothing came out of it. I wasn't sleeping enough, drinking too much a…
/r/TheRedPill30/05/18 06:49 PM
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That's probably the only redpill quality he's got. I once mentioned that feminism today is toxic and he turned werewolf on me frothing at the mouth bringing up rape and pay equality. It was sickening.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/15 05:44 PM
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I haven't seen this happen at work. We're in bleeding edge tech nodes (think 10n microchips) and between three work sites I believe there are 5 women for about 60 people in our group, none of which are in our office. Whenever we hire we always hope that a woman will be qualified for the job since it's a sausage fest at work. My boss is sort of a white knight and has bought into a lot of feminist crap but still hires only the more qualified candidates.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/15 02:38 PM
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That's exactly what happened to me. I would tell my buddies,I'm the same guy I was before but now you can see my abs and I'm ripped and I don't know what to do: Too many women, too little time. And I'm not even the one contacting them online, I'm just receiving messages and filtering them by eliminating the no pictures and responding to the hottest ones. You can burn yourself out trying to sleep with all of them. Conclusion, looks are insanely important for the first approach. Keeping a nice gir…
/r/TheRedPill18/10/15 12:43 PM
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Ice your balls for a few days and that's it. I believe it cost me under 300 here in Montreal. Doc did ask me a few questions, but when i told him have 2 kids and I'm done, he was satisfied. Went to some length to explain it's a non-reversible procedure - even though it can, but it's very tricky, lengthy and can't be done 5 years post-vasectomy.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/15 11:21 PM
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Wanting something so bad you're oblivious to the risks involved is not uncommon. But when an entire community warns you and you ignore it, well, at least when she leaves you, you will have gotten some quality hand jobs. Hand jobs with gloves, hahahahahahahahahah, that's a good one. And if it makes him feel better to think we're all betas here, let him. Poor sap.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/15 02:19 PM
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Ooh shit, my sympathies for the hand thing. I take for granted that I can play guitar whenever, even though I have barely touched it in the last few years. I hope you can find something to fill the void (some sport or exercise).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 03:02 AM
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Guys don't give a shit if you have flaws. They are friends with you when you are yourself regardless. Women, I believe, once they get to know you, realize that they don't like you as much but feel bad so maintain contact with you and throw you some bones by inviting you to stuff. Maybe you feel like a burden. Maybe when they hang out with guys, they would like less emotional and sensitive stuff and you're too "soft". I haven't had many women just as friends (I ended up dating them or having sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 02:58 AM
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Everything he said plus make sure he gets enough sleep. I was training like a psycho at one point, eating well but drinking and partying too much, which meant too little sleep and sometimes my stiffy was misbehaving. When I started sleeping more, holy shit, after a leg day at the gym, beast mode kicked in.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 12:47 AM
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I was a virgin until almost 23 and as you suggest, had some small things that contributed to this. I couldn't get laid, couldn't get a date, I was just that other guy. Despite being 6'3"and decent looking (so I thought), I had little fashion sense, nothing particularly cool about my hair, I was slim - as in no musculature, but most importantly no confidence. Once I lost my virginity in a pretty spectacular way (thanks to a buddy for inviting me to what would eventually be a foursome), I had more…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/15 02:00 AM
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Unfortunately, yes. I'm new here, but i have an interesting story. I somehow morphed into a natural alpha about 9 years ago. I had women I didn't know what to do with. Gorgeous women, pretty women, nice women, super nice women. So, at some point, I met an awesome woman, she's a crown prosecutor. The conversation was awesome, the sex was off the charts. But she was a 6.5 at best. I was dating upper 8s, low 9s at the time. I didn't take this further because she just wasn't as pretty as I wanted. F…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/15 01:52 AM
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