psyyduck Archive

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7	Runway Walk I don't get it. Why would you put up with that? I want someone who kicks ass and supports me. If all my "first mate" did was look pretty and shit test I'd fire her instantly. I've dropped better people for less.	/r/TheRedPill	10/12/15 10:16 PM
1	Need some advice from men who may have dealt with this problem: How do I stop being so fucking angry? You are confusing anger/hatred/hostility and passion/energy/dedication. OP isn't. He has been around anger long enough to get sick of its negative aspects. I suspect you haven't. It's a very energetic state of mind, but it's not the only one & not nearly the best. Meditation is not about resignation. This is a very common misunderstanding.	/r/TheRedPill	13/08/15 04:55 AM
1	Need some advice from men who may have dealt with this problem: How do I stop being so fucking angry? It's tricky. That blog I linked to says compassion applied without wisdom can often create more misery than it resolves. Just have to commit to studying people, taking action and achieving results.	/r/TheRedPill	13/08/15 01:09 AM
22	Need some advice from men who may have dealt with this problem: How do I stop being so fucking angry? Add loving-kindness meditation to your rotation. It's particularly good at dealing with anger. Guided meditation here. Can also look up other podcasts on audio dharma. And give it time. It takes a while to rewire your brain & until then its gonna seem like a complete waste of time. Mine took a year to kick in (and I don't have anger problems). Though I was only doing it once a month. Try twice a day see what happens. Slight warning for after it kicks in: it kind of opens you up a bit. I started …	/r/TheRedPill	12/08/15 01:19 AM
1	I am about to blow your mind. How TRP is literally, exactly just Parenting 101. Thanks for posting this.	/r/TheRedPill	13/03/14 03:35 AM
2	Can we talk about accepting failure, embarrassment and dealing with shame? Two things: Regular compassion meditation to learn a deep friendship towards yourself and others. So you're not so hard on yourself and it's ok to fail or be sad once in a while. It's ok to do the best you can and work to improve. It's ok for someone to like you. Learn to see that rejection, shame and embarrassment are illusions. They are not as vast or umanageable as you think.	/r/seduction	18/03/13 05:06 PM
2	Anyone else have trouble trusting in relationships now? A person with poor boundaries is scientifically incapable of commitment and loyalty in mature relationships. That's an interesting way of looking at it...	/r/seduction	21/05/12 06:01 PM
1	Anyone else have trouble trusting in relationships now? differentiate the cheaters from the non-cheaters Things like empathy vs selfishness, you mean?	/r/seduction	21/05/12 05:19 PM
2	How do i move past oneitis? It's emotional self-regulation. There are many strategies, & meditation is what works for me, but I've been at it for 3 years & it's only just helping with these huge emotions.	/r/seduction	06/05/12 12:05 AM