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I can see the appeal tbh and I've heard positive experiences. The convenience of an incredibly attractive man who is respectful to you, vetted and has sex in a way that's pleasurable to you. Finding someone online or at a club for a quicky is often disappointing and more risky. I wouldn't do it myself, personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 10:36 AM
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Us or UK size 12?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:52 PM
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I was overweight in my late teens and early twenties, and got slim in my mid twenties. Now I'm (32f) roughly (from the top) 40-32-39. My ass is all muscle, fat carries on my belly/tits. Being young and fat was so much worse than being older and slim or curvy. From experience, being overweight massively depleted my SMV it has a larger impact than aging. The best thing I ever did was get healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:50 PM
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Pretty much. Another problem is that when we're making out, he's really quick to put a condom on. He says when he's really hard it's difficult to put one on so he does it when he has a semi. I told him he needs either larger condoms or a visit to the doctors about his foreskin being tight.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 08:47 PM
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He's welcome to see other girls and it's no one else's fault that he doesn't cum.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:01 AM
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I dunno, kids makes it more difficult I think. If you both want kids, you're both in a rush to have them safely. (This also applies to men, who are at an increased chance of siring children with health risks). If you already have kids, that comes with a plethora of complications for the relationship. Not to mention you have to be extra picky with choosing a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 09:58 PM
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The best way to date is getting all intimate and romantic with a woman, date her for 2-3 months Men who do this end up falling in love then don't want to dump her after 3 months.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:08 PM
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Nah I miss my ex, I loved all the mundane shit we would talk about - even the disagreements. I have an amazing support network and a great sex life with whoever I want. I can do anything I want really. But honestly nothing beats being in a loving relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:05 PM
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When you're female, are you going to have sex with men or women?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:40 PM
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Its a look-bases app, of course they are going to select for looks
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:58 PM
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Women have evolved to be 'nesty" so having a place that feels nice to be inside is part of that. Having pretty gadgets are like accessories.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 04:56 PM
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Your perspective is heavily skewed by whatever religion dominates your culture in the non-western world.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 12:35 PM
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Met a really cute guy a few weekends ago and spent the weekend with him. He's a very sweet natured hippy lad with a toned body, beautiful curly hair and gorgeous blue eyes. Very upbeat and optimistic, great company. He's 25 and quite energetic and vibrant. Apparently he struggles to orgasm through sex, partly because he has a really tight foreskin. He said he doesn't want it removed because his friends that had theirs removed as adults lost sensitivity. So basically he comes round, chats with me…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:02 AM
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Never seen or heard of this before.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:31 AM
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makes light-hearted and innocuous comment * Twerps: omg so triggered wow calm down.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:53 AM
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They put effort into their appearance because of the male gaze. If you look lesbians, they are less likely to get cosmetic surgery and wear make up compered to straight women and especially gay men. Body dysmorphia is also lowest in that demographic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 08:52 AM
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I am ok with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 10:10 PM
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quote "career women" unquote When you use quotations in text, you don't need to type the words "quote" and "unquote"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 07:40 PM
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This says everything about your algorithms and nothing about culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 11:11 AM
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Pumas cool..I'll be a puma lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 10:26 PM
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This is why I disagree with the 'women love arseholes' tenant. It's difficult to be an arsehole and popular. People don't want to be friends with people who don't treat them well. I know a lot of criminal men do well with women, but what kind of women are they? Are the women who fuck criminals representative of normy women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 05:22 PM
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Cringe
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/23 06:48 AM
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Dolls will always be considered creepy by almost every single person in the world. They make humans viscerally uncomfortable, because they remind us of corpses. That will likely never change.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 05:24 PM
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It's got nothing to do with sexism lol, men just don't desire or enjoy sex toys on the same level as women. This is a question you should be asking men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 05:22 PM
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"men aren't picky like women and have realistic requirements"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 12:03 PM
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I don't see what your issue is here? She worked in an industry that treated her poorly, and talking about it. Whatever your job is, your employees have a duty of care and should follow certain health and safety precautions. Her employees obviously didn't and that's problematic. Regular sex doesn't leave you with long term injuries, she was being made to put her body through trauma which is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 07:15 AM
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That particular perspective isn't the consensus in the hive mind. Though I don't doubt it has been expressed with some up votes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 11:15 PM
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I used to believe in marriage, but I've found that people are so unpredictable there is no guarantee the marriage wont end badly. And should this happen, divorce can be very very messy. I wouldn't want to go through that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 11:00 PM
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Been chatting to a really cute guy on an app (feeld). I just looked at his profile and he's added 'DDLG' to his list of interests. Yikes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 10:37 PM
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To name a few recent encounters.. Met at a house party. Sat with him most the night and asked lots of questions about himself. He didn't actually get the hint, even after I offered for him to stay at mine. Complimented their body quite a lot in a toilet queue, wondered off and they approached me several hours later somewhere else. Met at a festival and shared a ciggy with him. Asked him lots of questions about himself and took interest in his answers. He asked to kiss me. Met him through mutual …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 10:11 PM
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Cougar isn't a derogatory term, so tit-for-tat doesn't really apply here. Grandma is even more laughable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 09:58 PM
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The hysteria regarding age gaps on Reddit/in America is more about relationships and not souch about hooking up. That's my observation anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 09:32 PM
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All the ones I've seen are lovely! I am holding them at arm's length though because I don't want to invest emotionally in someone who decides they want kids after a few years of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 09:00 PM
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Lol, you just described me. I'm 32 and go for guys in their mid twenties (youngest was 24). I can't have a relationship right now, so I am exclusively looking for sex. Younger guys make sense as they look better, have more stamina, have higher libido and generally more vibrancy and energy. They also have more free time, are up for partying and don't get as clingy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:42 PM
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A 25yo calling a 30yo a cougar. Now I've seen everything 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/23 08:36 PM
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Life's difficult and oftentimes miserable. Why would you not mitigate some of the misery by making people feel happier about themselves? I love it when my colleagues compliment me, little things like that make my day so much better. It's only ass kissing if the person doesn't mean it and wants something out of you, not the case for the majority compliments.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:14 PM
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Most men in their mid thirties experience some form of hair thinning and skin aging. They may still look attractive, but they look objectively better when their hair is thickest and their skin is in best condition. I would put it around 25. They no longer look 'boyish' but don't show signs of aging.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 04:02 PM
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Why don't you approach them? I approach men all the time at clubs and social events. They don't bite either.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:34 PM
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Then don't go clubbing, do one of the innumerable activities that don't revolve around dancing to socialise and meet women. If you don't want to do anything to meet new people, then either try OLD or invest in a good fleshlight.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:11 PM
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English please.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:02 PM
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You don't need to be good at dancing to enjoy it. Socialising in any context opens you up to opportunities where you can meet relationship prospects. And hook ups can be fun, and you can learn a lot about women through them even if they don't lead to anything serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 12:01 PM
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Dance, laugh, make friends, expand your social circle, hone your social skills, meet women, have sex. I could go on
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 11:48 AM
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Because it is. Go on holiday to some parts of the balkans, middle east and Africa. Having strangers relentlessly approach you to sell shit you don't want or trying to gett into your knickers is irritating at best and scary at worst. It's like that because it's socially acceptable and normalised. When I go to a social gathering or any context to socialise, I'm in the head space to talk to new people and socialise.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:51 AM
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People meet and talk to strangers at parties all the time. "How do you know so-and-so" "What time does the band start" "Do you have a lighter" And with hobbies. I do hooping, when I'm spinning at the park it's common for a strangers to come up to me and say "How long have you been doing that for?" "Can you do X trick" Can you show me/can I show you X trick" "There's a regular meet up, come along" And so on.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:29 AM
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Where do you live? In Europe and America, people definitely talk at parties and clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 08:28 AM
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Sex is easier but most women don't enjoy casual sex. Dating isn't necessarily easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:59 PM
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If your social skills suck, work to make them better. Noone is stopping you but you.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 09:48 PM
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I talk to 'average/ugly men several times a week. If I go to a club I will probably speak to about 10-15 in an evening. This is a standard experience for anyone going to a party/club/rave etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 08:40 PM
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Literally any context where people are there to socialize and meet other people, take your pick. Do you people not go out and talk to strangers at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/23 06:24 PM
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Because they have this caricature of a single mother in their head. They think all those women are stupid, jobless and have three baby daddies. They don't see a normal mother who's relationship/marriage simply didn't work out.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:18 PM
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Single mothers aren't a monolith and each situation is different. A single mother who is financially stable and has help with childcare is going to have plenty of options and won't need to settle. Not wanting more children has been a bigger hindrance to dating prospects for me than being a single parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 07:12 PM
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Some are hot. Some are not so hot, but have a lot of charisma and sex appeal. Some just aren't picky. You would be surprised how many fit in that category.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 07:06 PM
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Yet lesbians don't seem to have this problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 07:04 PM
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This hypothetical comes up at least once a month on this sub lol. If a man I was dating doesn't want to do something sexual with me then it means it's not his thing. Naturally, I don't want my partner to do something sexual that he doesn't enjoy. Sex is only hot when both people are enthusiastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 06:15 PM
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About 2/3rds of men I've been with I've met at some sort of social event like a club, party, festival or social gathering. The other 1/3 on OLD. I don't particularly like OLD, but it was good during lockdown and when I wasn't free on weekends. I try my best not to shit where I eat so work is always a no go. If a work mate introduced me to someone the. That would be ok Most clubs and gigs have spaces where you can talk, so Im not sure what you mean when you say 'Its too loud'.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 06:10 PM
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Bad toupee fallacy. You think cosmetic surgery looks bad because you only notice it when it's bad. Myself and every woman can pertain to the fact that we get much more attention with make up compared to without. So no, men actually do like make up
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 10:29 PM
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My ex is 5'5 and I think he's absolutely gorgeous. Being my height made standing up kissing and hugging so much better. Man I miss him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 10:26 PM
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There's literally no incentive for a SB to be exclusive to her SD. If he was silly enough to ask for that she would just like.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:17 PM
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Sugar Babies are rarely exclusive to their sugar daddies. They usually have another sugar daddy or see other men for sex in their free time. Some even have boyfriends. It's basically prostitution but for less money.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 04:03 PM
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I went to a nudist beach for the first time today. I went in the sea and thought 'I'm missing something, I feel naked' then realised that I was just naked.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 06:08 PM
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Not gonna happen. There are countries where its fully legal and has been for centuries, having sex with someone who doesn't want to have sex with you will always give people the ick. If anything I can see it becoming more stigmatised. Young people are pushing hard for sex to be viewed as a salubrious, mutually enjoyable act.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 06:03 PM
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These are good looking guys in their thirties who have had a string of girlfriends and casual sex. They have had ample opportunity to learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:43 PM
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I did when I was younger, but if a thirty something year old doesn't know the basics of eating pussy then he just doesn't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:25 PM
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I swear this is borderline gay. You want to hook up, but you want it to be over as soon as possible. So you don't actually like having sex with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:55 PM
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Tell me a hook up story, I'll go first. Was admiring a guys arms at a music festival, he was wearing a dress because it's a festival so why not. I admire his muscular arms and tell him how much I love cum gutters. We both laugh and I disappear. Several hours later I'm in the woods and there's this topless dude in shorts. I tell him I like his cum gutters, he winks at me and I ask if I can lick them. He says sure but only if I can bite your bum. We lick, bite and start kissing. Then I take him to…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:10 PM
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Eww
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 04:01 PM
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I can't keep their face away from the bush. They're get a mortgage there of they could.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:59 PM
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A guy who wants to finish fucking in five minutes, what a catch!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:57 PM
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A five star man!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:54 PM
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Who said I don't put in the effort?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:51 PM
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Some of us have tiny clits and grinding isn't enough. If I was to cum through PIV I have to manually rub myself whilst he's going in and out. Still, nothing compares to a tongue directly on a clit and a finger directly on the g spot. Imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:49 PM
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Yeah my exes ex was adamant she did not like oral, and this woman was a militant feminist - so I don't think it was about shame or anything. He was ok at oral but not mind-blowing. Eventually we got to a point where he was really good. My first two LTRs the guys absolutely loved eating pussy and they both blew my mind the first encounter. I actually tolerated a lot of bullshit with those men purely because the sex was so bomb. I date/hook up with a lot of dude in their thirties and it's surprisi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:48 PM
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Why shave?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:43 PM
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So he just happened to only fuck women who were in the 30th percentile of women who can cum through PIV. What an awfully big coincidence!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:37 PM
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With oral the stimulation is more direct. The guy can hold the clit with his thumb and forefinger and lick it directly. Something about the warmth, softness and wetness of the tongue really adds to it. I like PIV orgasms and manual (even anal tbh) but nothing beats tongue imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 03:36 PM
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You will, I have faith in you and your vagina 🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 02:01 PM
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Not for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:23 PM
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Well a lot of them actually do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 01:22 PM
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I always ask them to go down on me and they always do. But often on the first encounter I don't quite get to the finishing point. I am just aware of how it is for other women. I am fully aware that many men point blank refuse to eat pussy, or they do it reluctantly and don't put much effort in. When I was younger I didn't put much emphasis on my own pleasure, that is something I learned thanks to feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 10:40 AM
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There's different reasons depending on the woman. Don't forget that there are entire cultures where men refuse to eat pussy. It's a cliche with many nationalities and cultures. The fact women do not believe that their pleasure is important is a problem in itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 10:28 AM
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It's partly cultural. In some cultures/nationalities the men are known to refuse to eat pussy. Alas, it's not something you can discuss on here. A short Google will show you what I mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 10:13 AM
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There's entire cultures where the men don't eat pussy. Some just point blank refuse to do it :(
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 10:11 AM
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Maybe you just haven't had it done really well or maybe you don't know what works on you personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 09:51 AM
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I think the problem is that they're often really shit at it, and it's a lot of effort walking them through what to do step by step over half an hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 09:50 AM
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Disagree, it wasn't great for women. Beauty standards meant you needed to be super skinny, so a lot of women were just hungry all the time. Media was hyper sexualised, but in a way that catered to men and not women. Sex education was dogshit, we were taught about preventing disease but a lot of us girls had no idea what enjoyable, healthy sex looked like. Being gay was extremely difficulty, especially for men. A lot of the music in the charts was awful, people just have very selective memory abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 09:08 AM
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With oral I go to places that PIV/manual rubbing doesn't get me to. It's like seeing god lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 09:01 AM
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Of course, it's madness that women are having PIV without recieving oral/foreplay beforehand.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:51 AM
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This is madness. Women need to grow a pair of tits and demand oral sex when they have encounters with men. Geez, men give me oral sex even on one night stands. Even in situations when they know they will never see me again (holidays, festivals). Communicate your needs, girls !
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/23 08:50 AM
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He made a video called 'pimping hoes degree". He gives step by step advice on how to traffic women, and says that that is what he done himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:58 PM
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"I'm a misogynistic" - literally a direct Andrew tate quote lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:57 PM
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There's actually an incentive for it NOT to work that well. If the advice worked well and these men rode into the sunset, they would cease spending hours on these forums and liking/sharing content every day. The content needs to have nuggets of truth, and stuff that's relatable and invokes emotion and anger. But those men need to keep coming back for more so that the grifters can make more money. I believe it's the same with dating apps. There's an incentive for the apps not to work well, becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 12:56 PM
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